I’m so sorry for the loss of your mum X one day at a time , it’s very early days you will find a new routine eventually I was my mums carer and she passed 6 years ago it’s very hard you ll have good days bad days were here for you just look after yourself 😘 xx
I'm in a similar situation, lost my Mum in Jan.... after caring for her full time 8yrs. Everything changed including a family fall out. My eating plan out the window. So hard I know, grief hurts more than I could ever imagine!!!!. It's been a hard couple of years too, we have had the pandemic to deal with . We will get there ,. I don't know you but sending big hugs. Keep busy , be kind to yourself . Fresh air and a walk is good Xxxx
How awful that you are going through similar :( How are you getting on now? Yesterday was the first time I haven't cried. Probably because I was busy all day. I find if I have nothing to do I will cry throughout the day, but if I'm busy then it all bottles up and comes out at night, you know? I hope things are getting a bit easier for you x
Devastating. The pain of losing someone so dear to you. I just lost someone too I don’t think the pain ever goes away or gets easier we just cope with it. I heard a song yesterday I had to just turn it off I couldn’t listen to it but there’s other times when I just welcome the sadness and let myself cry. It’s all so incomprehensible & unimaginable I found that we can’t understand death but we can understand how we feel and accept the pain. The appreciation of life is a dichotomy of death Don’t let what you can’t control stop you from doing what you can. Wake up and put your pants on 1 leg at a time. But have that person, place, thing, or God that you can go to when you feel the heaviness of that grief. It sucks Something to know that help me is I still to myself “ you’re not alone in this experience” We’re all facing the pain of this fate together but in our own way.
Thank you for those kind and wise words, I really appreciate everyones comments and experiences, it gave me hope that I would start to be able to feel something more than sorrow. It's slowly getting better. I realised today that I didn't cry yesterday. That's an improvement! I know that I really need to get back to looking after myself now and focus on one day at a time rather than anything overwhelming (late reply I know but I haven't been on UA-cam in a while)
So sorry about your mum my heart goes out to you .I was my sons carer full time. When he passed I feel like I lost my identity as what do I do now as the life I knew was no longer there without my son ..but many years later I found a way to carry on you will find your children will keep you going each day .take baby steps each day there will be rollercoaster days of ups and downs .my love to you ❤ xxxxxx
Sorry to hear about your son :( The kids and my dogs are keeping me going at the moment. One day at a time is how I'm taking it. Thank you for the kind and wise words ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you 🙏❤️ I’ve been where you are and some days I struggled just to get out of bed never mind staying on plan. The one thing that helps keep me sane and focused is swimming I hope it helps you too 🙏💕x
There has definitely been days where if it weren't for the kids and dogs I wouldn't have left bed. I've started Exante again just to give me a boost, I think I'm ready now. I tried a few times in the last few months but didn't make it even a day, but in hindsight I just wasn't ready (late reply I know but I haven't been on UA-cam in a while)
Am so sorry for your loss 💔love it is so hard an your right it does not get any easier I lost my dad sept last year so sudden everyday I miss him but honestly you will feel better you will feel happy again just remember she would want you to be happy an look after yourself ❤️🩹 take one day at a time my heart goes out to you ❤️🩹stay strong 🦋an keep going you have made me change an look at life different I have just started exante all because of your videos so thank you 🦋🥰
I'm sorry that you've also been through it with your Dad :( I think I've started to feel a bit better, yesterday I had a day where I didn't cry for the first time since it happened. I think you're right, it doesn't get easier, it just gets easier to live with, you know? So glad you have made a change! How are you getting on with Exante? I started again and I'm on day 4 (just doing a month this time to give me a little restart) and forgot how hard it is at the start! It gets easier though
@@LouseyPie thanks Lou every day different first thing in the morning I say love you dad smile an face the world ❤️🩹 the shakes going well day 3 was a crazy day 😱 everything looked good enough to eat 😂 but no I carried on, I really have noticed I have lost weight not been on the scales yet 🤞 with having a broken leg it’s a little hard 🤦🏼♀️ but everything feel a lot bigger on which is a good sign .. but thank you 🥰keep going you can do it together 🥰
@@busterhughes6553 aw that’s really sweet! And yes, I had day 3 of my little reset yesterday and… there were a few issues 😆 but it’s helpful to know that it gets easier. After 1-2 weeks the hunger goes and the energy levels increase. Of course, the external temptations still exist and are a battle in themselves!
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mum X one day at a time , it’s very early days you will find a new routine eventually I was my mums carer and she passed 6 years ago it’s very hard you ll have good days bad days were here for you just look after yourself 😘 xx
Thank you! One day at a time is definitely the way to go. Sorry about your mum, too :(
(late reply I know but I haven't been on UA-cam in a while)
I'm so sorry for your loss 😢💜, It's alright for you to cry/grieve. Blessings my friend.
I'm so sorry, its so hard losing someone 😔
I'm in a similar situation, lost my Mum in Jan.... after caring for her full time 8yrs. Everything changed including a family fall out. My eating plan out the window. So hard I know, grief hurts more than I could ever imagine!!!!. It's been a hard couple of years too, we have had the pandemic to deal with . We will get there ,. I don't know you but sending big hugs. Keep busy , be kind to yourself . Fresh air and a walk is good Xxxx
How awful that you are going through similar :( How are you getting on now? Yesterday was the first time I haven't cried. Probably because I was busy all day. I find if I have nothing to do I will cry throughout the day, but if I'm busy then it all bottles up and comes out at night, you know?
I hope things are getting a bit easier for you x
Oh bless you so sorry to hear that and you take care of your self 💕 xxx
Devastating.
The pain of losing someone so dear to you. I just lost someone too I don’t think the pain ever goes away or gets easier we just cope with it. I heard a song yesterday I had to just turn it off I couldn’t listen to it but there’s other times when I just welcome the sadness and let myself cry.
It’s all so incomprehensible & unimaginable I found that we can’t understand death but we can understand how we feel and accept the pain.
The appreciation of life is a dichotomy of death
Don’t let what you can’t control stop you from doing what you can. Wake up and put your pants on 1 leg at a time.
But have that person, place, thing, or God that you can go to when you feel the heaviness of that grief.
It sucks
Something to know that help me is I still to myself
“ you’re not alone in this experience”
We’re all facing the pain of this fate together but in our own way.
Thank you for those kind and wise words, I really appreciate everyones comments and experiences, it gave me hope that I would start to be able to feel something more than sorrow. It's slowly getting better. I realised today that I didn't cry yesterday. That's an improvement! I know that I really need to get back to looking after myself now and focus on one day at a time rather than anything overwhelming
(late reply I know but I haven't been on UA-cam in a while)
I'm so sorry for your loss xx.
So sorry about your mum my heart goes out to you .I was my sons carer full time. When he passed I feel like I lost my identity as what do I do now as the life I knew was no longer there without my son ..but many years later I found a way to carry on you will find your children will keep you going each day .take baby steps each day there will be rollercoaster days of ups and downs .my love to you ❤ xxxxxx
Sorry to hear about your son :(
The kids and my dogs are keeping me going at the moment. One day at a time is how I'm taking it. Thank you for the kind and wise words ❤️
@@LouseyPie ❤❤❤❤
I am so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you 🙏❤️ I’ve been where you are and some days I struggled just to get out of bed never mind staying on plan. The one thing that helps keep me sane and focused is swimming I hope it helps you too 🙏💕x
There has definitely been days where if it weren't for the kids and dogs I wouldn't have left bed. I've started Exante again just to give me a boost, I think I'm ready now. I tried a few times in the last few months but didn't make it even a day, but in hindsight I just wasn't ready
(late reply I know but I haven't been on UA-cam in a while)
Thinking of you. Try not to worry about your diet for now. You can do that when you start to feel a bit better xxxx
Am so sorry for your loss 💔love it is so hard an your right it does not get any easier I lost my dad sept last year so sudden everyday I miss him but honestly you will feel better you will feel happy again just remember she would want you to be happy an look after yourself ❤️🩹 take one day at a time my heart goes out to you ❤️🩹stay strong 🦋an keep going you have made me change an look at life different I have just started exante all because of your videos so thank you 🦋🥰
I'm sorry that you've also been through it with your Dad :( I think I've started to feel a bit better, yesterday I had a day where I didn't cry for the first time since it happened. I think you're right, it doesn't get easier, it just gets easier to live with, you know?
So glad you have made a change! How are you getting on with Exante? I started again and I'm on day 4 (just doing a month this time to give me a little restart) and forgot how hard it is at the start! It gets easier though
@@LouseyPie thanks Lou every day different first thing in the morning I say love you dad smile an face the world ❤️🩹 the shakes going well day 3 was a crazy day 😱 everything looked good enough to eat 😂 but no I carried on, I really have noticed I have lost weight not been on the scales yet 🤞 with having a broken leg it’s a little hard 🤦🏼♀️ but everything feel a lot bigger on which is a good sign .. but thank you 🥰keep going you can do it together 🥰
@@busterhughes6553 aw that’s really sweet!
And yes, I had day 3 of my little reset yesterday and… there were a few issues 😆 but it’s helpful to know that it gets easier. After 1-2 weeks the hunger goes and the energy levels increase. Of course, the external temptations still exist and are a battle in themselves!
May the Lrd bless and comfort you beloved
Shabbat Shalom
Goodness, how heartbreaking 😥😥
Sorry and take care 😇💐❤️
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