If you are a wife and mother, you have a duty to dust, mop and keep the house sparkling clean, pamper and cater to your husband's every need, clean the children's running noses, do the market shopping, go to bed last because hey, YOU'RE A MOTHER. Do you agree or not and why?? Join us on today's interesting topic in the comments below! Come and bond with your family at the Golden Tulip this Sunday at the SUNDAY BRUNCH - UGX 90,000 for adults and UGX 60,000 for children. If you enjoyed this video please like it, share with someone who will relate and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove
There is something I find fascinating about Pumla. In spite of her passionate and strong opinions, she is an authentic modern but yet a "traditional" woman. She is the typical example that we don’t have to fall into a single category. On certain topics she leans more towards modern, and on others she leans more traditional. This is why I find her intriguing.
Exactly. If you listen to one side of her story, you will be misguided 😂🤩🤩🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍for people who follow others blindly. I think she is empowered, independent but not toxic. She is a good person at heart ❤ ♥
I wish there was an option of liking these videos more than once. Thank you ladies for the great conversations. You are impacting many lives. The Lord richly bless you
I was partially like manuellla just tha me I over worked my self and got tired in two weeks and actually wanted a divorce. uuumm left home for work at 8,come back do dishes,mop,prepare supper,make the bed and by the time we have dinner am dosing and don't even want anyone to touch me...but thankfully my husband sat me down and taught me that I can't do all duties everyday,he taught me postponing some chores for the other day and we are good.
I always look forward to Bump love every Friday. An interesting topic today... Motherhood and wife responsibilities can be very overwhelming. When i had just come to the US, newly wed with a baby and my beloved traditional muganda man, i was shocked by what i had to do without help (house helps). Even with all the machinery available to reduce the load, i was mentally convinced that this was alot. Instead of spending my time taking care of my responsibilities one by one, i used to call my sisters to express how hard it was for me, spend my time feeling sad and not doing anything. By the end of the day, little had been done and stuff was piling. Now i know better. I clean as i go, i don't postpone doing stuff. I love a clean, neat and organised house so i make sure before i go to bed, everything is in order so that i start the day on a clean slate. I train my children young to clean after themselves after eating, cleaning and organizing the bathroom after every shower, folding clothes and placing them in their rightful places, making their beds etc. Sometimes i have to do them all over again but they perfect the skill with time. I've learnt to plan for my time and chores, and also embrace my responsibilities. By the way, i also do my own gardening, maintaining my backyard with lots of flowers and a section for vegetables. We have hime cooked meals everyday, i study and work. I think its about changing your mindset and planning your time.
Oh wow! A testimony here. Someone in the comments asked for advice for diaspora moms and wives. Inwish she could read this. Kudos to you Ritah. I want to start home gardening of vegetables. I need tips.
I've dodged bump love for a looooong time coz i felt so guilty from what was discussed😣 but I've eventually gotten over myself and binge-watched it for like 2days! I must say i didn't know what i was missing. You ladies(and gents) are changing my life😊 in all the right places. There are some things that u mentioned that i need to follow-up on urgently. The HOT products, the feminine studies, the financial literacy, my walk with God, etc. Am on a roll😅
Manuela your life journey is very inspirational - it shows that a situation is never permanent. The other ladies too do have very interesting stories to share. Love you all.
Manuela, wow! It's really true a man can change because of his wife's good conduct. Thank you, ladies, so full of knowledge. Thank you for sharing with us.
its the same perception I have with this gals OMG and I hv a happy marriage coz I dont just cramm in my marriage I always put in common sense to make it better always ...Thank you God for u pipo and wisdom
In the world 🌍 you are the only women show that has remained relevant with it's topics to just women and kids ... from kenya am impressed with your energy, reality, wisdom, sense of class and humor... just classic
I've watched soooo many episodes, but this one has spoken to the inner me, my real struggles......thanks ladies bottom line we need peace and its high time i made peace with my space
How I wish you organize an event for the women so that we atleast get a chance to dine with you ladies, hold conversations and also get some advice because for sure I've learnt alot from bump love and organized my life cz I was going through a phase of bad depression 🥺watching Manuela episode about it saved me, and also as a first time mum doctors kept telling me how organized I was kumbe I had watched the episode of wat is required in the hospital bag 🤣💞credit goes to you ladies🙏🙏discovered this show when I was four months pregnant 👌I'm sure my baby can recognize your voices🤣🤣🤣🤣cz I watched all the episodes 🙏🙏thank you so much ❤ may the lord bless you for us
Ladies, ladies!! You rock!! You are a breath of fresh air. You’re authentic, you’re not afraid to be vulnerable and we love you for it!! Learnt alot from your show
Forever loving these conversations. Like Racheal's dad, mine always comes home with bread and milk (but he is healthier now so no milk but still bread and fruits). In fact, if I visited cousins and their parents did not come back in the evening after work with akavera of milk and bread, in my world as a child you did not work. Even if you shop in bulk but can not come home with that kavera, you are not successful in my world. 🤣🤣 I am not married yet but I feel like that kavera has to be discussed, the contents might change but it needs to be there. As a single woman right now, I do get to do all the shopping, cooking, etc. I come home with everything. I make lists. I like how I do my things, and I like supportive partners (basically enabling me to play my role). Financial, spiritual, emotional, and physical; we do not have to lay the bed together but you can get out of it early so that it is laid. Have the decency to put the dirty clothes in the laundry basket. You could drive me to the market/supermarket, pick me up later or give me the car to ease my movement. I can do the shopping. I am a minimalist and I love clean spaces, I love functionality. I missed you Pumla. I am here for conversations to have clarity not to assume things about what our roles are in relationships, I am here for who is more competent. I am here for learning, I am here for finding other things that can ease our lives.🤗 Angie, I like this thought trail; we need to renew our mindsets (when I try to tell people, the excuse is that we live abroad so it is easier and practical for us). Manuela thank you for sharing that on when to switch on and off. Part of taking a feminity course that is scripture-led. HOT. In summary; Do what you do not want to do in order to get what you need!
Loved everything shared. These are real conversation starters. Manuela taught me something coz i also struggle with striking a balance between my masculinity and feminine side. Love the honesty you all come with❤.
I am so happy that i hear from bumplove. I cant wait to become a perfect mother and wife who has learnt from your mistakes, got your hacks right and embraced all your strengths❤. Lol
What makes this the # 1 talk show in East Africa (this isn't debatable) is the wits, varying perspectives and immensity of experiences each of you candidly share with your viewers. Keep on keeping on.
Hey bump love thanks for sharing how I wish you endeavor to make it a point for all the five to be present in all the shows . Its a stronger team of five . thanks
What an episode. Thank you ladies for hearing these nuggets. Manuela adding the spiritual reference part, oh God; I love you personally. All of you. May God continue using you to bless us.
Thanks ladies for the educational show, I always cannot wait fie Fridays😂. I want you if it is possible to discuss managing finance in marriage more especially if the man is earing less or unemployed. Thank you for considering my request. Yours, bump lover.
Team Pumla let's gather...machines have helped me a great deal...as someone who tried stay in house helps and failed, getting the leave outs to help where machines don't is big deal. Thank God Mr is super supportive
Thank you ladies. Always a lot to learn from you all. Now, mums in the diaspora, please help a struggling mum! Raising and caring for our 2 children and the endless chores are killing us even with the machines to ease some of the manual work. My husband is very supportive does about everything including DIY projects around the home except breastfeed! We hardly have time to ourselves and are in a constant state of exhaustion!!! I’m borderline OCD so am very organised and plan out things naye still! Happy to borrow a leaf or 2 from people in a similar situation and how they are coping. Thanks
I can only imagine that OC mom/wife life. Ho! We virtually hosted moms in the diaspora on Bump Love. Maybe you could pick a thing or two from there. Otherwise yes, we should have more conversations like this. P
It is just so exhausting even with the machines and help from your other half. More worse when the kids are under 6. I think the Ocd does not help. I only do what I can and keep the rest for another day or week. Eg I don't have to clear the sink if tired, or tidy the house. Gave up ironing when had my second as I felt like I was going to run mad. Hang in there, it gets easier as they grow. And teach them to tidy after messing up from a young age.
Can you check out the fly lady and organized mom methods. I was always so exhausted and my husband really does help. I found out those two cleaning methods, tried them separately and then later came up with my own borrowing ideas from the two because they both have pros and cons.
I paused his video...went n declutterd my shoe area n put away like 11pirs I hadn't used in over 3 year. Wow... amazing how few things are actually easy to keep in order... Thnx guys.
Me here too "l hate suffering"😂😂😂 l stopped mopping in my parent's home plus washing. Even if l don't have a maid,l can't do those things, l will hire a person to do those chores. I love cooking at my own will,there are days l will wake up not in the mood of cooking ,but hey l love it,my time is for hustling and attending to my plants.
I once requested my husband to help me fetch water since it's my worst chore, en asked me where I get water from thinking he wanted to go thr,then he said hmmm my mum carries two jerrycans from uphill up to home, en he stopped thr🤣🤣🤣I just said to myself"Docus please it's ok" wefekooo up to now I have never requested fr it again
Vey nice conversation. The washing machine made life easier at my home, electric pressure cooker did the same. My house help loves her duties and has more time for my baby. Like Pumla said, conversation helped me. We both do house chores, baby care etc. It really makes the roles lighter
And Friday is here💃💃💃💃💃. Always looking forward to seeing and hearing from you ladies. Its been such an enriching conversation well done your appreciated and loved for your wisdom everyday ❤️❤️❤️
Ooohhhh Angie how I love you.....the closing statement brought joy on my face,,,,"book a room" ,,please your man and everything else will fall in play..I love loved this conversation
As always the best Show on UA-cam. How I love listening to you girls. Rosette we missed you. Anyway Domestic duties is what I struggle with the last 11 yrs of Marriage since in Europe its very hard to get A Domestic help so you are bound to doing everything alone. But I have learned something from you guys. CONVERSATION is the Key word and less things like Manuela said. I will work on this. Thank you very much ❤❤❤
From Nairobi Kenya, I have been missing on watching the show, from Feb since I gave birth, I have been so overwhelmed taking care of my baby no sleep doing house work .....good let me hear from this show
Are you guys ready to receive a big cheque one day because I'll tell my husband that you changed my mindset about marriage and I now treat him like a king that he is and he'll want to bless you? Lol This was one of the best episodes thus far!
The beauty of listening to Manuela is the way she doesn't let things happen to her, she happens to life. No situation defines her. Gratitude is your unspoken language.
I love what pumla has put out... Have a conversation. That really helps alot and have the conversation when it's peaceful and calm...not when you are tired and you are seemingly complaining, the man will not actually understand... instead he may feel nagged. Find an appropriate time/ platform to bring up the conversation... Thank you so much bumplove..
Thank you ladies for sharing.I have rewatched this episode to learn more I think I have learnt I need to start looking for equipments to help.I heard Angie talk of that menu thing oba Hot😂 please I need to know more about that and also that page u said they sell second hand machine.Thank you love u ladies
Thank you dear ladies. Have learnt alot as a lady in waiting to get there. A piece of advice to the anonymous lady , she should soak herself in prayer and pray for her hubby and peace of God. May the good Lord intervene. Amen
Thank you so much Manuela for the house organising technique Trust me after watching went back home cleared everything I have not used in a while I like the way I feel now. It's when your house is full the mind also gets full😂😂 it feels like I have cleared a big load off my head 😊😊 whoooo I love how I feel May God bless you for me darling ❤️
@@pumlanabachwa8668 my pray is to meet you ladies if I only get that opportunity I can't imagine agie talking when am near hear pumla you are my role model and I have to see you by all means ,Racheal sent me back to my bible ,Emanuela my motivational speaker ,then the fifth one inspires me to be a mother
Eehh thx for this particular episode, nga I've learned a lot at my age. I hav been that woman who us waiting for my husband to change so I can also change.
Dear bumplove we really need a topic on finances and all the 5 ladies in the house. Pumla am about to get married but I need to go after listening to that topic mubufunze bumplove ensibye mubwa single.i love ❤️ you ladies because you have changed my life
Hahahaha hooo I had that kajanja of the maid shouldn't wash my husband's and baby's clothes until I knew better 😅. I was breaking down and I was Winnie offa kki??? U just need to direct her and supervise. Deal done.
I love you ladies, i love the fact that the conversation look so normal and authentic, its like there is no camera and all your various experiences sink in together perfectly at the end. Hello pumla i love you, you inspire me❤
When you spoke of clutter Manuela I laughed hard…”why do you need six duvets?!…”😂😂😂😂 I am a perfume collector oh my the bottles keep increasing 😂😂😂😂 I easily declutter everything else but for skin care products I keep adding and adding. I need to change
I'm here for Angie's hairstyle, so youthful and chic. It flatters her face well😍 This is one of ma loved episodes. Manuela thank you for sharing about the Songs of Songs & Proverbs 31 women a true depiction of our femininity & masculinity👏👏👏 I'm waiting for the Senga Nabacwa segment. Racheal your command of the English language is so powerful. I missed Rosette. Welldone Ladies for paving the way as you share your varied experiences🎉🎉🎉🎉
Eh this is so helpful ladies! And Manuela’s insights about the proverbs 31 woman and the songs of solomon woman brought the point home. And then Angie’s challenge of saving up for the hacks👌
The same way we find it almost impossible to handle both the kids and housework alone, is the same way our maids also suffer to do it all. We should be considerate and either help them a bit, or hire two maids.
It is basically very nice having all versions of you women , like Manuela from a single mother , rachel from a good parent marriage, so we can easily relate from all corners of life
Hey bump Love ladies I really love your convos. I heard you guys talking about HOT what’s that?? Is it an app?? I couldn’t find it on the AppStore.. as a working mom of three I sometimes have no more ideas of what to preparing meals if this app can give me weekly meals I would be so happy thank you
If you are a wife and mother, you have a duty to dust, mop and keep the house sparkling clean, pamper and cater to your husband's every need, clean the children's running noses, do the market shopping, go to bed last because hey, YOU'RE A MOTHER.
Do you agree or not and why??
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How can l get the H.O.T and M.O.T. Would like to purchase them
Still need more of this topic especially when the house is full it was one of the best
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There is something I find fascinating about Pumla. In spite of her passionate and strong opinions, she is an authentic modern but yet a "traditional" woman. She is the typical example that we don’t have to fall into a single category. On certain topics she leans more towards modern, and on others she leans more traditional. This is why I find her intriguing.
You are very right about her!. Love listening to her views
Banange Joyful. Who is paying you to spill these secrets? Haha! But for sure...I tend to dance between traditional & progressive. P
You don't know the half of it😂. We are about to introduce a senga Pumla segment...
Exactly. If you listen to one side of her story, you will be misguided 😂🤩🤩🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍for people who follow others blindly. I think she is empowered, independent but not toxic. She is a good person at heart ❤ ♥
@@rachaelmwinehahahàaaaa! My Rachel...we need to keep marriages together for sure. P
The way Pumla takes time and tries to interact with us in the comment section. I love this girl. Pumla, you are addictive. Love from Malawi 🇲🇼.
Oh Muli bwanji my African sister. Love right back to you ❤.
Yes pumla is so real and down to earth,very engaging
Bumplove is more like MTN or maybe should buy n ownthe slogan, "every where u go"..grt job ladies.
😂😂😂😂😂😂woman demon can throw you into trouble
Yes Pumla is addictive
But Angie never disappoints. Mbu I thought marriage was going for a holiday 😂
She's a darling 😍
I wish there was an option of liking these videos more than once. Thank you ladies for the great conversations. You are impacting many lives. The Lord richly bless you
Me too
I was partially like manuellla just tha me I over worked my self and got tired in two weeks and actually wanted a divorce. uuumm left home for work at 8,come back do dishes,mop,prepare supper,make the bed and by the time we have dinner am dosing and don't even want anyone to touch me...but thankfully my husband sat me down and taught me that I can't do all duties everyday,he taught me postponing some chores for the other day and we are good.
I'm so happy you saw the light 😊
I always look forward to Bump love every Friday. An interesting topic today... Motherhood and wife responsibilities can be very overwhelming. When i had just come to the US, newly wed with a baby and my beloved traditional muganda man, i was shocked by what i had to do without help (house helps). Even with all the machinery available to reduce the load, i was mentally convinced that this was alot. Instead of spending my time taking care of my responsibilities one by one, i used to call my sisters to express how hard it was for me, spend my time feeling sad and not doing anything. By the end of the day, little had been done and stuff was piling. Now i know better. I clean as i go, i don't postpone doing stuff. I love a clean, neat and organised house so i make sure before i go to bed, everything is in order so that i start the day on a clean slate. I train my children young to clean after themselves after eating, cleaning and organizing the bathroom after every shower, folding clothes and placing them in their rightful places, making their beds etc. Sometimes i have to do them all over again but they perfect the skill with time. I've learnt to plan for my time and chores, and also embrace my responsibilities. By the way, i also do my own gardening, maintaining my backyard with lots of flowers and a section for vegetables. We have hime cooked meals everyday, i study and work. I think its about changing your mindset and planning your time.
Oh wow! A testimony here. Someone in the comments asked for advice for diaspora moms and wives. Inwish she could read this. Kudos to you Ritah. I want to start home gardening of vegetables. I need tips.
Absolutely 👌🏾
Wow! great testimony. So encouraging! Tackle tasks one by one
So cute
Wowwwww...this is amazing gardening while working and studying with kids and a man..😮
For sure , Racheal looks the type and I really like the fact she’s so down to earth
I've dodged bump love for a looooong time coz i felt so guilty from what was discussed😣 but I've eventually gotten over myself and binge-watched it for like 2days! I must say i didn't know what i was missing. You ladies(and gents) are changing my life😊 in all the right places. There are some things that u mentioned that i need to follow-up on urgently. The HOT products, the feminine studies, the financial literacy, my walk with God, etc. Am on a roll😅
Oh Namara. It's okay to take a break when you feel triggered. It's even better when you work past it and return. Glad you're back
Manuela your life journey is very inspirational - it shows that a situation is never permanent. The other ladies too do have very interesting stories to share. Love you all.
It never is......
Thank u ladies for alway bringing out the best in yo conversations
@@manuelap.mulondoplease we still need more content on this topic it was one of the best
@@manuelap.mulondokindly share details of the course you took please.. We love love love the show
Thank you Angie for the calculations and eye opening for saving for machines to lessen work, time and tiredness. Thanks a lot bump love
Each and every one of you is so unique. I could feel Rosette's absence today .I like hearing each and everyone of your opinions
Manuela, wow! It's really true a man can change because of his wife's good conduct.
Thank you, ladies, so full of knowledge.
Thank you for sharing with us.
A good man can..... there are some men that never change unfortunately
its the same perception I have with this gals OMG and I hv a happy marriage coz I dont just cramm in my marriage I always put in common sense to make it better always ...Thank you God for u pipo and wisdom
The ever giving bump love. A perfect mix of humour, wisdom and relatable content. Thank you ladies, we appreciate. Much love from Deutschland ❤❤❤❤.
I need the course that Manuela went through on Femininity because I need to learn before marriage because my personality is really strong.
My exact thoughts. Hope she will share the details
Same here.......Manuela please guide us on where to find the course
@Manuela can you share the course?
In the world 🌍 you are the only women show that has remained relevant with it's topics to just women and kids ... from kenya am impressed with your energy, reality, wisdom, sense of class and humor... just classic
Thank you our Kenyan sister.
This is amazing feedback, thank you🥰
Thanks pump love for the show I have even grown healthy since I joined you guys 😂😂2023 is really moving on smoothly coz of u sisters God bless you 🙏
TOTALLY LOVE THIS ❤. P
I've watched soooo many episodes, but this one has spoken to the inner me, my real struggles......thanks ladies bottom line we need peace and its high time i made peace with my space
Wisdom, humour, good energy, enlightment...the Bump Love show embodies so much. We appreciate you phenomenal ladies❤
We appreciate you for being here every single Friday ❤. P
We missed Rosette's views here. Very grand opinions from all the ladies ... everything said by everyone today was so relatable ...
How I wish you organize an event for the women so that we atleast get a chance to dine with you ladies, hold conversations and also get some advice because for sure I've learnt alot from bump love and organized my life cz I was going through a phase of bad depression 🥺watching Manuela episode about it saved me, and also as a first time mum doctors kept telling me how organized I was kumbe I had watched the episode of wat is required in the hospital bag 🤣💞credit goes to you ladies🙏🙏discovered this show when I was four months pregnant 👌I'm sure my baby can recognize your voices🤣🤣🤣🤣cz I watched all the episodes 🙏🙏thank you so much ❤ may the lord bless you for us
I support
We are working on something, very soon.
Ladies, ladies!! You rock!! You are a breath of fresh air. You’re authentic, you’re not afraid to be vulnerable and we love you for it!! Learnt alot from your show
What caught me laughing is the fact that Angie thought marriage was a holiday ......wooowww...thanks ladies for the educative ideas..love u mummies❤
Forever loving these conversations. Like Racheal's dad, mine always comes home with bread and milk (but he is healthier now so no milk but still bread and fruits). In fact, if I visited cousins and their parents did not come back in the evening after work with akavera of milk and bread, in my world as a child you did not work. Even if you shop in bulk but can not come home with that kavera, you are not successful in my world. 🤣🤣 I am not married yet but I feel like that kavera has to be discussed, the contents might change but it needs to be there. As a single woman right now, I do get to do all the shopping, cooking, etc. I come home with everything. I make lists. I like how I do my things, and I like supportive partners (basically enabling me to play my role). Financial, spiritual, emotional, and physical; we do not have to lay the bed together but you can get out of it early so that it is laid. Have the decency to put the dirty clothes in the laundry basket. You could drive me to the market/supermarket, pick me up later or give me the car to ease my movement. I can do the shopping. I am a minimalist and I love clean spaces, I love functionality.
I missed you Pumla. I am here for conversations to have clarity not to assume things about what our roles are in relationships, I am here for who is more competent. I am here for learning, I am here for finding other things that can ease our lives.🤗
Angie, I like this thought trail; we need to renew our mindsets (when I try to tell people, the excuse is that we live abroad so it is easier and practical for us).
Manuela thank you for sharing that on when to switch on and off. Part of taking a feminity course that is scripture-led. HOT.
In summary; Do what you do not want to do in order to get what you need!
The kavera has to discussed 😅. P
It's important to know when to switch on and off
Loved everything shared. These are real conversation starters. Manuela taught me something coz i also struggle with striking a balance between my masculinity and feminine side. Love the honesty you all come with❤.
I will rewatch this episode more times. It was too much of good. Thank you Emmanuela for sharing your story . I has touched my heart
Dont remember how I started watching, but I needed this channel. I learn so much
Angie looks beautiful! That hair is the best on her yet
I agree with Manuela, an doing an Etiquette Consultancy course and it has changed me for the better
Oh really? Plug us
I am so happy that i hear from bumplove. I cant wait to become a perfect mother and wife who has learnt from your mistakes, got your hacks right and embraced all your strengths❤. Lol
I just want to appreciate the production team.
Guys well done.
Editor, I so love your cuts.
Genuinely, your flaming, lighting and sounds are on point
Thank you Dani. They are going to love this comment. Let me even screenshot for them.
Yeah even the sound is so good. Weldone editing team.
What makes this the # 1 talk show in East Africa (this isn't debatable) is the wits, varying perspectives and immensity of experiences each of you candidly share with your viewers. Keep on keeping on.
Thank you for the "It isn't debatable" ❤.
That ka machine that Manuela has, I need it please plug me
Love this❤
Hey bump love thanks for sharing how I wish you endeavor to make it a point for all the five to be present in all the shows . Its a stronger team of five . thanks
What an episode. Thank you ladies for hearing these nuggets. Manuela adding the spiritual reference part, oh God; I love you personally. All of you. May God continue using you to bless us.
Thanks ladies for the educational show, I always cannot wait fie Fridays😂. I want you if it is possible to discuss managing finance in marriage more especially if the man is earing less or unemployed. Thank you for considering my request. Yours, bump lover.
Your wish is our command. It's coming.
Rachel's innocence always lights up Pumla, it's cute😌😌
Hehe! I never get used 😅
😂😂😂😂
True
😅😅
Team Pumla let's gather...machines have helped me a great deal...as someone who tried stay in house helps and failed, getting the leave outs to help where machines don't is big deal. Thank God Mr is super supportive
Machines came indeed. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 kindly would you do a show explain some of those machines...I need soft life instantly
Thank you ladies. Always a lot to learn from you all. Now, mums in the diaspora, please help a struggling mum! Raising and caring for our 2 children and the endless chores are killing us even with the machines to ease some of the manual work. My husband is very supportive does about everything including DIY projects around the home except breastfeed! We hardly have time to ourselves and are in a constant state of exhaustion!!! I’m borderline OCD so am very organised and plan out things naye still! Happy to borrow a leaf or 2 from people in a similar situation and how they are coping. Thanks
I can only imagine that OC mom/wife life. Ho! We virtually hosted moms in the diaspora on Bump Love. Maybe you could pick a thing or two from there. Otherwise yes, we should have more conversations like this. P
It is just so exhausting even with the machines and help from your other half. More worse when the kids are under 6. I think the Ocd does not help. I only do what I can and keep the rest for another day or week. Eg I don't have to clear the sink if tired, or tidy the house. Gave up ironing when had my second as I felt like I was going to run mad. Hang in there, it gets easier as they grow. And teach them to tidy after messing up from a young age.
Can you check out the fly lady and organized mom methods. I was always so exhausted and my husband really does help. I found out those two cleaning methods, tried them separately and then later came up with my own borrowing ideas from the two because they both have pros and cons.
Wooow this episode was and is one of my favorites...thank you ladies! Rosette I missed you on set!
Skipped watching this particular episode coz I thought it was boring…. But wowwww am speechless, so insightful
I paused his video...went n declutterd my shoe area n put away like 11pirs I hadn't used in over 3 year.
Wow... amazing how few things are actually easy to keep in order...
Thnx guys.
It is isn't it?
Me here too "l hate suffering"😂😂😂 l stopped mopping in my parent's home plus washing. Even if l don't have a maid,l can't do those things, l will hire a person to do those chores.
I love cooking at my own will,there are days l will wake up not in the mood of cooking ,but hey l love it,my time is for hustling and attending to my plants.
Yeeeeeeeeessssssss. Let's do what we love and pay someone to do the rest
Listening to these ladies is changing my lifestyle, thinking each day... keep it up ladies.
I once requested my husband to help me fetch water since it's my worst chore, en asked me where I get water from thinking he wanted to go thr,then he said hmmm my mum carries two jerrycans from uphill up to home, en he stopped thr🤣🤣🤣I just said to myself"Docus please it's ok" wefekooo up to now I have never requested fr it again
Eh!
Vey nice conversation. The washing machine made life easier at my home, electric pressure cooker did the same. My house help loves her duties and has more time for my baby. Like Pumla said, conversation helped me. We both do house chores, baby care etc. It really makes the roles lighter
It really makes the load lighter.
And Friday is here💃💃💃💃💃. Always looking forward to seeing and hearing from you ladies. Its been such an enriching conversation well done your appreciated and loved for your wisdom everyday ❤️❤️❤️
you are absolutely great at explaining everything! i always love the reality of your discussions
Thank you Irene ❤
@@pumlanabachwa8668Awww... Youre welcome
Thank you bump love for the consistency 💓
Thanks for the love right back ❤. P
Ooohhhh Angie how I love you.....the closing statement brought joy on my face,,,,"book a room" ,,please your man and everything else will fall in play..I love loved this conversation
Angie's smile makes my day, love you guys from Dubai
These ladies' shows are so educative ❤thanks bumplove team
As always the best Show on UA-cam. How I love listening to you girls. Rosette we missed you. Anyway Domestic duties is what I struggle with the last 11 yrs of Marriage since in Europe its very hard to get A Domestic help so you are bound to doing everything alone. But I have learned something from you guys. CONVERSATION is the Key word and less things like Manuela said. I will work on this. Thank you very much ❤❤❤
Only have what you need...... what you use
Whew! This is a very insightful conversation..very timely for me! Thank you Bump love ❤❤
From Nairobi Kenya, I have been missing on watching the show, from Feb since I gave birth, I have been so overwhelmed taking care of my baby no sleep doing house work .....good let me hear from this show
Congratulations on the new bundle. Be kind to yourself. It gets easier 😊
@@pumlanabachwa8668 Thank you Pumla and You people from Uganda are my in laws.... Lok
Are you guys ready to receive a big cheque one day because I'll tell my husband that you changed my mindset about marriage and I now treat him like a king that he is and he'll want to bless you? Lol
This was one of the best episodes thus far!
"The King that he is"
Yeeeeeesssss 😊. P
Angie saying she knew marriage was going 4 a holiday got me down😂😂😂😂,thank u ladies for the show i love it❤❤❤❤❤
😂 holiday for me too😅
The beauty of listening to Manuela is the way she doesn't let things happen to her, she happens to life. No situation defines her. Gratitude is your unspoken language.
I love what pumla has put out... Have a conversation. That really helps alot and have the conversation when it's peaceful and calm...not when you are tired and you are seemingly complaining, the man will not actually understand... instead he may feel nagged. Find an appropriate time/ platform to bring up the conversation... Thank you so much bumplove..
Timley and Effective Communication really does eliminate a lot of problems in relations. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 exactly
I like the Manuela part of keep only what you use...coz thats me and i find it wise
Wow, this is the kind of content...…I love, love, love.... I think I’ve watched it four times.
Thank you Christine ❤
What an educative segment this was!!!🥰
Manuel i have learnt to clear what i don't use from the house immediately especially on 1st Jan sincerely speaking they make the house disorganised.
Bless someone else with those things. I remind myself that there are things I have that are someone's prayer request
Thank you ladies for sharing.I have rewatched this episode to learn more I think I have learnt I need to start looking for equipments to help.I heard Angie talk of that menu thing oba Hot😂 please I need to know more about that and also that page u said they sell second hand machine.Thank you love u ladies
Thank you dear ladies. Have learnt alot as a lady in waiting to get there. A piece of advice to the anonymous lady , she should soak herself in prayer and pray for her hubby and peace of God. May the good Lord intervene. Amen
Amen
Love love bump love from Kenya, Pumla represents some of us so well ❤❤
Love right back Faith ❤. P
Thank you so much Manuela for the house organising technique Trust me after watching went back home cleared everything I have not used in a while I like the way I feel now. It's when your house is full the mind also gets full😂😂 it feels like I have cleared a big load off my head 😊😊 whoooo I love how I feel May God bless you for me darling ❤️
Amen and amen
You ladies are the real deal! Keep sharing, keep inspiring. I appreciate you
Thank you Ladies for the show,it's indeed very knowledgeable. Am glad i subscribed. @Manuela please share were we can take the coarse
Clutter is the biggest problem for most homes. I am just like Manuela’s mum I try my best to have only that which I use.👌
You are preaching the right things to ladies who think otherwise and as well men are picking a leaf from it.
This conversation! wow. All I can say is I have learnt alot from each of you ladies, thank you.
Thanks for preaching ladies. I have actually been blessed 🥰🥰🥰
Bump love really changed me its now a month from time I joined but hubby says I have changed a lot ,thanx alot much love from me
Aaaawww love this for you Robinah ❤
@@pumlanabachwa8668 my pray is to meet you ladies if I only get that opportunity I can't imagine agie talking when am near hear pumla you are my role model and I have to see you by all means ,Racheal sent me back to my bible ,Emanuela my motivational speaker ,then the fifth one inspires me to be a mother
Eehh thx for this particular episode, nga I've learned a lot at my age.
I hav been that woman who us waiting for my husband to change so I can also change.
Dear bumplove we really need a topic on finances and all the 5 ladies in the house. Pumla am about to get married but I need to go after listening to that topic mubufunze bumplove ensibye mubwa single.i love ❤️ you ladies because you have changed my life
Hahahahaaaaa! The finance topic is coming
Racheal you bless me. When I grow up, I want to be like you
Manuela is so funny, Angie you are just a sweet, cool angel, Rachel very innocent and Pumla always bold and truthful
Hahahaha hooo I had that kajanja of the maid shouldn't wash my husband's and baby's clothes until I knew better 😅. I was breaking down and I was Winnie offa kki??? U just need to direct her and supervise. Deal done.
I love you ladies, i love the fact that the conversation look so normal and authentic, its like there is no camera and all your various experiences sink in together perfectly at the end.
Hello pumla i love you, you inspire me❤
Thank you so much ladies, you are saving a life😢May Allah guide and. Preserve you 🤲🏾
We missed Rosette’s opinion, otherwise ladies ur so amazing🥰🤗
sure we missed her smile
Really missed this one.. ❤
Loved every minute of this. Too many nuggets put together for us ❤️❤️
When you spoke of clutter Manuela I laughed hard…”why do you need six duvets?!…”😂😂😂😂 I am a perfume collector oh my the bottles keep increasing 😂😂😂😂
I easily declutter everything else but for skin care products I keep adding and adding. I need to change
The way i love you guys,thank you so much
Manuela,thanks for sharing the feminine version of "do"...i pretty feel you have spoken to my spirit..thank you ladies for this segment..
Oh how I love when Angie hosts 🤗
She’s amazing ❤
I'm here for Angie's hairstyle, so youthful and chic. It flatters her face well😍
This is one of ma loved episodes.
Manuela thank you for sharing about the Songs of Songs & Proverbs 31 women a true depiction of our femininity & masculinity👏👏👏
I'm waiting for the Senga Nabacwa segment.
Racheal your command of the English language is so powerful.
I missed Rosette.
Welldone Ladies for paving the way as you share your varied experiences🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you Hilda. Conpliments for everyone. ❤
@@pumlanabachwa8668 You're welcome Pumla❤️❤️
Eh this is so helpful ladies! And Manuela’s insights about the proverbs 31 woman and the songs of solomon woman brought the point home. And then Angie’s challenge of saving up for the hacks👌
It did for me, I hope it does for everyone
@@manuelap.mulondo more details about that femininity course please
Kemi you look great with that hair style. Thanks ladies for this conversation.
Just what I needed hear at this time in my life❤
The same way we find it almost impossible to handle both the kids and housework alone, is the same way our maids also suffer to do it all.
We should be considerate and either help them a bit, or hire two maids.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Angie you have cracked me mbu holiday.....😅😅😅😅😅😅am rolling
It is basically very nice having all versions of you women , like Manuela from a single mother , rachel from a good parent marriage, so we can easily relate from all corners of life
Exactly the reason for the show ❤
Hey bump Love ladies I really love your convos. I heard you guys talking about HOT what’s that?? Is it an app?? I couldn’t find it on the AppStore.. as a working mom of three I sometimes have no more ideas of what to preparing meals if this app can give me weekly meals I would be so happy thank you
Women forget the role of taking care of themselves because being a mother and wife is a full time job. Pumla your contributions are the best
Full time job banange. Mukikola mutya?
This week's session was really educative ..thanks alot ladies..can't wait to attend the Good Wife conference 😊
Every girl needs a PUMLA to keep them in check 😂😂😂. Pumla I like your practicality of life💪👍🙏🙏
Haha! Thanks Eunice
I love these ladies, ❤❤
I have re watched this episode, so enlightening…thx ladies
love this content! BTW, you have all grown more and more comfortable on the show and i love it!
True
Thank you. We love it too. P
We feel it😊