NAVIGATING THE ''SIDE DISH'' TREND IN MARRIAGE
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- Опубліковано 22 тра 2024
- A ''Side Dish'' is a term used to describe someone who intentionally seeks to destroy or damage a romantic relationship or marriage, often through deceitful or manipulative means. The effects of a homewrecker side dish can be far-reaching and devastating, impacting not only the couple but also their loved ones. Some common effects include:
1. Emotional distress: The betrayal and hurt caused by a side dish can lead to anxiety, depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
2. Relationship destruction: The most obvious effect is the breakdown of the relationship or marriage, leading to separation or divorce.
3. Trust issues: The deception and manipulation can make it challenging for the affected parties to trust others in the future.
4. Family dynamics: Children may suffer emotionally, feeling caught in the middle or abandoned.
5. Social isolation: The stigma surrounding the situation can lead to social isolation and feelings of shame.
6. Financial consequences: Divorce or separation can result in financial instability and legal battles.
7. Self-doubt and low self-esteem: The victim may question their worth, feeling responsible for the side dish's actions.
8. Difficulty moving on: The trauma caused by a side dish can make it challenging to move forward and form healthy relationships in the future.
Remember, healing takes time, and seeking support from loved ones, therapy, or support groups is crucial for recovery.
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"We marry three persons in one, the one that we thought we knew, the one they really are and the one they become because of the relationship" -Dr Evas
True and that's why you need to learn someone from 3d angles
Side chic not wanting to be cheated on it never gets more weird than that😂😂
The last point from pastor my gosh, God didn't get Adam another woman! no excuses are valid 😊
Pr Kagwiisa is always a blessing to us continue bringing him
Dr.Evas ,Rachael and your Team,you will never know how much positively you impact the world every day you talk to us,be blessed.
Glory be to God! Thank you for your kind feedback and encouragement! Please keep us in prayer!
Thank you Norah😊
stage 1: in-love experience
Stage 2: marriage burn out
Stage 3: the real partner discovery
Stage 4: adjusting to the reality and cementing a home.
Thank you guys. Very educative discussion. How I pray pastors like Bugingo should come back to the truth and stop misleading society.
These conversations need to be longer than an hour. The discussion seems rushed....Just when its getting deeper then its time for parting words....
Pastor's last remarks for me. No excuse for a top in marriage, all of you are a great team and content was delivered right. Hopefully it lands in right ears
Very good education and sharing On marriage tips and how we can keep our marriages not allowing the devil of so called Side dish .Indeed we are not married to our partners by mistake. God ordained our marriage. God bless you Recheal ,Dr.Evis and Pastor. I look forward to learning more from you.
I love it when you involve the bible verses to further emphasise your points/ info. It refreshing and energising
Dr. Evas is heaven sent.
Thanks to the whole team ❤❤❤
In a world where there is bad advise. This place is a fresh well
Thank you😍
Thanks Dr Evas for speaking the truth in love...having pastor on the episode brought in the perspective of men and he held nothing back .....thanks dear Rachel for perfect host..we are learning
Thank you for watching😊
I just love Dr.Evas❤❤, Rachel's approach is top notch 👌
I really love this conversation. OMG it's filled with too much detail. Dr. Evas really articulates issues amazingly well.
Love the conversation ❤.Can you do an episode on friendships especially the opposite sex in marriages.I feel most times boundaries are crossed.
Thanks for your request. The segment on boundaries in relationships is coming up at the end of this week.
Thanks can’t wait🙏You guys are doing amazing work for our mental wellbeing 🥰
I agree 💯
Good suggestion.
This show needs an extension. there is need to discuss about healing for the other party that is cheated on, how do you handle the situation and how do you recover from the betrayal?
Healing is a process, but even then the scars still a life time. The best person to help you fo through the process is the cheater himself or herself. He or she has to undone all the things he's done before that led him to break your heart...
I don't even think there's healing
Covenanted hell🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️. I’m praying that this wisdom will reach so many. It’s so good
Wow! What a great conversation.May God bless you people
So powerful. Thank you so much
Thank you so much Rach and the entire crew.
Amazing amazing knowledge, insightful, truth. Thank you Rachael, Dr Evas and Ps Kagwisa
A very insightful conversation. management issues surely a a full-time job
Thanks for this discussion. Very insightful
So educative ❤️
The one who made the vow is the homewrecker.
I agree, it's not the responsibility of society to make sure marriage vows are kept especially if the married person is lying&going as far as removing their marriage bands & speaking ill of their spouse.
Thanks Rachael and team, you are so helpful to many couples and intending couples. Can we also have a program about “good or bad” flirting. There are so many fights about flirting especially among the young people.
Well said, balanced, articulate and educational indeed
The best conversation I have heard in a long time..... wonderful 💯. Strong lessons
Great
Wow! This was so educative. God bless you all🙏
Great Conversation. Kudos to the trio.🎉
Excellent view of these kind of relationships God bless
I like this episode its really educative. God bless u .
Thank you for this show
Wow Rachel. Nice introduction❤❤
Yeyeye wuuuu excited to listen
Such truth, hope the home wreckers and those intending to be have heard
This is reality and how I wish all married and nun married listen to this conversation,thank you Rachel,Dr Eva and Pastor more conversation is required a need to give such more time my request
Its been such a beautiful, insightful and informative conversation. Well done Dr Evans, pastor kagwisa and Rachael 👏👏👏👏
I love the Doctor and pastor
Nice conversation 👌
Very interesting topic and a lot to learn……I enjoyed every bit of it
Racheal we need a part 2. Otherwise thanks alot for the insightful discussion.
It has really strengthen me, thanks so much
well done
Great conversation.Thank you so much.blessings
Glad you enjoyed it
I'm loving the shoes the therapist is wearing❤
Wisdom pro max.Thank you❤❤❤❤
I love this show and I love the rich and mature words
I love all of you, and I believe many people have been delivered
My first time seeing this channel and i have subscribed already
Pastor's last parting shots that even though the perfect woman brought trouble, He as God in all His Might and Sovereignty didn't make a third person to be a solution but instead let them go and sort themselves out. That there is deepest.
Hmmmm very sensitive topic but worth having in all perspectives.
Good topic and discussion. Jumbo @Rachel
Hey 😇
Very educative topic ! Thanks ladies! What hurts is the pain these home wreckers cause us and our children
The One you made your Vows with is both the Vowbreaker and the Home wrecker. Let not continue creating excuses for Men who fail to keep their word.
@@lornakigozi1747It’s a commandment let no man put asunder both parties are home wreckers
I love what am listening to.
Dr Evas I love the confidence u have ,how I wish the public knews those top officials are ..,I won't mention names but we need God ,coz am wondering why people go for more books en u find them misleading the followers 😢
am really blessed with this, l pray God handles me in the right hands of a better husband who can endure me to explore the best path for ulour children
All the best
I wish you can host them again and they talk about the spiritual part. Otherwise it's so insightful
Ohhh may God I came here following Rachel naye God has used madam Eva 2 clear alot of things.imaigne the broken materials
We should put in perspective the consequences of our actions. It could be a timely pleasure that will live a life time brokenness bitter than death.
My friends told me to follow your channel. Such vital points. Thanks! Wait! Did I also hear that there's a Homewreckers' Association made up of women?
If you have faied to manage one or even manage your own sexual libido what makes you think you can manage more spouses??!!
Wao, we marry 3 persons in 1. The one we thought we knew, the one they real are and the one the become coz of the relationship.
And God did not get Adam another woman after she sinned, they worked it out.
Thank you Rachel
😢sorry daddy you forgot to come back home, how sad 😔
I knowwwwwwwww😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I pray to the Almighty God to provide for me a man of my own
Amen
So educative 😊😊
May the Lord help us to open our eyes.
Dating a married man is like driving a government car… there is no reason whatsoever that justifies infidelity..
Notification gang 😊
If they cheat with you they will cheat on you. Period.
Thank you so much I have really learned something and shared with some of my friends to learn too it was indeed powerful❤ I wish someone can tag pr bujingo and Susan😢
I also wonder hw people have normalized polygamy forgetting all the pain it comes with. Adultery is worse than death!
Deep❤
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I was sharing with a guy friend of mine about the repercussions on polygamy and side chicks. Surely more painful than death
First here today🎉
Awesome
🎉🎉🎉🎉l like today's topic
My uncle told me 'son don't change a wife because even the new one becomes old'.
i was recently chatting with a couple and asking if each one would wait for 2 yrs for his/her partner incase of education travel for 2yrs.
The wife said how gladly she would wait for her man, but i was suprised by how the husband said he would atleast get one partner outside his marriage to keep him going for this period😢😢
I am requesting for the contact of Dr. Atwine- for psychology consultancy purposes. Thanks
“I discovered that a seductive woman is a trap more bitter than death. Her passion is a snare, and her soft hands are chains. Those who are pleasing to God will escape her, but sinners will be caught in her snare.”
Ecclesiastes 7:26 NLT
This is so deep
Powerful
Dr Evas what about in a situation where the loop holes can not be filled? Eg domestic violence
Thank you for your question? In case of situations such as domestic violence, please address that particular issue instead of getting into an extra relationship which complicates your life and your marriage. And, please seek professional counseling.
Eehh...when they get pregnant..the man crawls bk to the marriage 😮..then they start real life of karma..so true
Here bse of Ps. Dunstan Kagwiisa
This generation has very many shameless people who don't care about whom they are hurting except their feelings.....
The side chics are so dry banange.
For sure, there's one who one time said man are to be shared
the ratio is true though, but that doesnt mean you must break a family to build another
Oh wow, suitable helper being the trouble causer😅😅. ... No one is perfect.... Only God.
Guys has someone ever loved and cared for you so much that when they cheat you're sure it's the other person that forced them😂😂😂😂😂😂
....a cheating spouse is a lair! You simply can't trust them....don't plan your future around them whether you are the wife or the side person.
Some ladies decided to be home wreckers just coz our husbands care for them much more than their real wives. A man can easily buy a car to book a trip to Miami with a home wrecker when he's own wife has never boarded a bus to any place
How do I get Dr's contact.
I really love Racheal. Let me follow right away
Uganda is so culturally diverse. The presenter and her two guests may be presenting perceptions that are informed by their cultural background which may be from the same ethnic group. Different cultural groups approach the sidechic issue very differently. Would be great to have a more culturally diverse way of thinking/input.
Are bringing tribes in this, I guess they've gone beyond that to come to such discussion. Thank u😅
Thanks for your feedback. However, please note that matters of morality transcend cultural and geographical boundaries. Morality and reality are universal.
@@blessingsharindah6710 I am not talking tribes, I am more about ethnicity. For instance, in some cultures having multiple partners is not as frowned upon as others. Sidechic means different things to different ethnicities. I was hoping for a more rounded perspective.
@@evasatwinekansiime5106 thank you for your comment. I think that different ethnicities perceive morality differently. I, for example, am married to a white girl and my mother in law hugs me; something that is abominable in my home culture. In my home culture it is not immoral to have a "sidechic" but immoral to hug your mother in law.
You must be a sidechic, they shock your table
I like racheals question how do these people sleep at night
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A home wrecker is SUZAN MAKULA. She is a best example
Nyabo ..????
Wefuge!
@lornakigozi1747 a home wrecker works so to break a marriage.
@@lornakigozi1747 i agree it starts with the one who made the vows
What a powerful message. A leaf taken home. Thanks Aunt Eva and the entire team
Great
As long as your not a ponography star⭐ you can't satisfy demands of more than one wife 👰 psychology advices us men that you need fighting skills of a battle hardened Gen to manage jealousness of one woman in her marriage💍 Even when you speak soul to soul with hajjats, they don't want to have top ups but religion overrides them! Say no to marriage wreckers😢❤