@Contessa *LOL* If you knew me, you wouldn't say that. I can well afford it, I just think it's tacky to wear obvious labels head to toe. I will never own an LV logo canvas bag, for instance. I prefer bespoke fashion (most of my clothes are tailor-made for me), including my shoes (although several of the shoes I commissioned are suspiciously close to Manolo Blahnik, Ferragamo, or Valentino, but I am difficult to fit and those designers don't offer shoes in my size, so I take that as authorization to be "inspired" by them). Best of luck to you on your journey to level up!
Such a superficial world we are living in. Invest in your health. Invest in real happiness. Invest in loving your family. Invest in real friendships. Invest in lifting people up. Invest in living a Life. That's what makes this life worthwhile ❤️
It’s okay to enjoy all those things. Why be one sided? It’s a problem when you rely only on material things to value yourself and be happy. Otherwise, there’s no problem.
Never wear a label unless someone is paying you. That's some amazing advice I got in L.A.. The celebrities you see wearing big purses and t shirts with names on them are being paid to be seen out and about in them. If they're not paying you, and lord knows you need it more, don't do any designer any free favors.
I somewhat disagree. Usually designers do high quality products. In contrast we have fast fashion, cheaper but with worst materials and dangerous methods, don't caring for the environment neither for their workers. But in clothes there is a lot of issues.
I somewhat agree. I prefer that the brand not be obvious. However if you think this way you cannot even drive a car. A label most always means higher quality.
Growing up in a poor family, I thank the first high caliber woman who raised me; my mom. You dress modestly and you always clean yourself and smell fresh. That's all it matters. Go on with your day and be kind.
It's all how you put it together. In an outfit from Kohl's that's styled right you might look fabulous. On the other hand, a $20k designer look that's put together wrong can be a disaster. Money spent on pieces that work across a wardrobe is always well spent. That's why they're called "investment" pieces. Here's to those of us who are bringing classy back! 🥂
I have a friend who is very wealthy. They have multiple cars, yachts, private jets and properties around the world. My friend doesn’t wear many luxury brands at all. She simply doesn’t care. She is polished and classy, but very down to earth and fun. The point is, she doesn’t feel the need to flaunt her wealth. In fact, what I’ve learned through her, is that very wealthy people can actually be a bit embarrassed by their own wealth.
@@carolineroberts9917 It amazes me that just because people flaunt their wealth in other ways. Folks like this thinks one is different than the other. Like! A designer handbag is nothing compared to a private jet.
If you were wealthy, you would gave a private jet too. Things like private jets and multiple properties are more a lifestyle thing than a flaunt of wealth for most people. Why fly regular when you can afford your own private jet? Why not have a holiday home when you can afford it? Luxury brands and labels however are more of a status symbol.
@@kaulkim No, it’s a lifestyle as well. Why keeping buying clothes that will fall apart when you can get some quality pieces. Investment pieces! A wealthy person would know this which is the people buy it designer items. Poor people aren’t keeping Hermès in business.
@@DeketaShanaye I agree in buying high quality clothing, but most of these big or couture brands etc are charging those ginormous amounts for the brand that they’ve built. There are many high quality clothing businesses that are expensive but not ridiculous expensive just for the status symbol of having xyz bag. But you are definitely right about investing in high quality clothes!
I dont think JS is going for the 'elegant' look. And she did say some people are excluded, esp who are in the fashion / influencer type which their lifestyle is part of their job.
This is how you know rich people, they don't show off because they don't have to prove anything to you. If you watch football players or rappers how they drive and how they dress you know they want to prove they have money . If you are wealthy it shows in the way you speak and act in Society not what brand you are wearing .
This is a cultural thing.. in all non White countries no matter how much money a person/family has its cultural to show your wealth other wise it’s worthless having it.
jezebella38 completely agree. Sooo work hard for your money but don’t show it? Please. How many rich people are living in a hut? Pretty sure you could count on one hand lol
So I am a single mother and a woman on a budget and I’m trying to build a nice wardrobe. I kept in mind your previous videos about looking for natural fabrics like wool, cotton, cashmere silk etc., as well as sticking to more neutral colours and classic styles. I grabbed a few things to try on and chose one of the items to purchase(for 4 dollars) and as I was putting the other items that didn’t fit back on the rack (this is thrift store shopping in an upscale neighbourhood)two ladies approached me and asked to see what I had put back. They commented “ you look so stylish and put together we wanted to see what you had picked out!”. I routed them to your UA-cam channel. Thanks Ana!
Thrift shopping in nice neighborhoods is fantastic! I get Calvein Klein dresses from them, beautiful dry clean only clothes, ect. Way to go on your fashion sense!
I shop at goodwill and receive compliments all the time. Never need to spend that much money on clothing really. Brand new $3 rag and bone cashmere sweater dress.
Excellent point with the luggage, especially in South Africa where I live. Believe me, if your luggage looks expensive it's either getting opened or stolen. Bland is best.
Anna, I am convinced. The "no jewelry" and the "no fur" and being ethical is so high class. I respect you and your advices more and more. I am not high society but I find it amazing that 90% of what you advice I already use in my daily life. Thanks for inspiring and educating us, no matter our backgrounds ❤️
A brand I found is Worthy Deluxe is premium vegan fur and it is classy. Time and Place paired with right outfit is really elegant. It's just beautiful.
Jewellery is a fine line for me. I have a few pieces of very minimal subtle sentimental jewellery that I wear everyday with everything. I do NOT spend money on big flashy sparkly things that don't suit me and I don't like. My partner is keen on watches as a hobby so he spends money on them, but I don't even own one.
I think what makes a woman look expensive has a lot to do with taking care of your body. Eating organic produce that's rich in nutrients, getting plenty of sleep, trimming your hair, cleaning your nails, and moisturizing your skin with plant based oils. anyone can throw on a diamond necklace and red lipstick, that doesn't make you beautiful - especially if you've done very little to take care of yourself. Put in the effort to nurture and nourish your body.
Agreed. Being healthy, happy and well groomed is 90% of it. The other 10% is dressing well for your body shape and taking care of your clothing, no matter how much or little it cost. A clean pair of Clarke’s shoes look far more elegant than dirty scuffed Jimmy Choo’s.
My husband started teaching me this a few years ago...I'm still working on it too. It's a longer process than I thought to become elegant. 😪 takes practice! :)
What makes me so drawn to Ana is that she is so honest, and she really doesn't care about what people is probably gonna say about any of her videos. Is like she's elegant not only on what she wear, but her attitude. Such a role model... love 💘
Paola Rossy well said ! It’s evident from her energy that she is the whole package . Kind caring poised & dresses elegant / classy . Her videos are my favorite on UA-cam as class oozes from her . Peoples 1st impression of us is Visual our dress / body posture / mannerisms / heigene
Agree with the luxury skincare. I used to buy expensive skincare & makeup brands but not anymore. Cheaper brands work as good not to mention some even better, now I can switch the budget to designer handbags or shoes.
I agree. I don't see the rationale behind the luxury skincare. I'd rather pay premium for organic formulated products or Korean/Japanese brands because you can actually see the results in a wide spectrum of people's skin. I've actually went one step further and learned to formulate my own organic formulations so I really know what ingredients go in there. Same stuff my kids use. Skin is the largest organ of our bodies so I'm not about to compromise that.
Seriously I have favorites from the drugstore and some products frankly work better than expensive ones!!! Eyeshadow and foundation I may invest a little more in but everything else - I've found inexpensive alternatives.
I was once criticized at a dinner party for not pronouncing the designer of the dress I was wearing correctly. My reply, "For what I paid for this dress, I can call him anything I like!" That earned me a big laugh, applause, not to mention,respect from everyone, including the woman who criticized me.
"Luxury items" are never about "needed", they are "wanted". We need air, shelter, food, drink, affection, etc... and a 5 dollar bag will do, but we always want more, that's where "luxury" comes in.
I'm a lost 16 year old girl that just went out through a lot of both physical and mental development journey and finding your channel yesterday is what will make me cross the finishing line ! Thank you for existing and for showing teens girls like me what the world has to offer us and how we should act according to that !
Ar Bow there is a great video school of affluence has done for teens on this YT channel. If you haven’t seen it yet, I highly recommend it. I sent it to my 16year old niece and told her to watch it. It makes so much sense. 💕
AR bow, this is so nice to hear. Please watch the French girls as well, they really go style and know how to be chic on a budget. Justine Leconte. Please watch Alexa Chung. I discovered her recently, British ex model, very funny videos. And of course, stick with Anna here. I love her videos.
I work in Advertising/Digital Marketing and your channel is so perfect for it's audience! You put yourself as mentor, not a teacher. We are constantly blind by so many "content creators" and you have this original factor that makes everyone thirsty for knowledge!
Invest in vintage items, 100%. I love looking at beautiful unique pieces in antique stores, such as 20s fur trimmed coats (I've inherited some beautiful pieces from family). Elegant doesn't have to be brand new and expensive 😉 it just has to look the part 😊
i know i am VERY late to comment but i agree 1000%!! i have bought several wonderful and very high quality pieces pre-owned, all in wonderful condition. it takes time and a little bit of luck to find something but it is so worth it!
Kathryn Predki then her advice on the Chanel bag is stupid that’s actually an invest bag and her saying Hermes has gone down her opinion not a fact that are making more money now than before and Hermes is a sign of wealth even to this day
Whenever I save sums of money , I only prefer to buy some properties , nothing more reliable than real estates bring you the security feelings 😂😂 , much better than men 😜😜
Don’t buy yourself a “love bracelet”, because a real gentleman will think someone got to do it for you already, and he’ll miss out on buying it for you himself.
I grew up in Alabama California near an Affluent neighborhood in Southern California. This neighborhood used to be an "Old Money" area that was very understated. The women wore Good quality clothing, but simple in tailoring, yet they always looked stylish. I worked in this area for a few years and i was always impressed with their manners, their kindness, and their hospitality. These were quality people on the inside, as well as the outside. I never felt uncomfortable around them, because they treated people with courtesy and dignity. Yes they had a lot of money, but unlike the nouveau riche they never came across as rude or snooty. Life lesson for me was no matter what your station in life, always treat people with dignity and respect as it is a sign of good breeding.
This is 100% true and exactly how to tell old money from new, manners. People who come from money are taught how to act and how to treat people. Even if they fall on hard times they'll always have their manners and education.
I honestly disagree. As a person that has lived her whole life in Switzerland, who knows many French people and has been to France often, French people do NOT look as elegant as you may think. So many French people have horrible fashion taste and buy the cheapest quality jewelry. It's really a stereotype that French people always wear good quality items.
@@Arigato.318 Je vous dis honnêtement ce que je pense et ce que je vois 😊😂 Of course it's not the case of everyone, but most of the time foreigners who have never personally lived near France or in France have crazy stereotypical ideas of "French fashion" that ar purely based on fantasies (Fashion Week, movies,etc...) . If you watch "Les Reines du Shopping" or any other show like "Chasseurs d'appartement" you can see that most are very plainly dressed and honestly not elegant. I have actually always been stupified as to how simple people dress in Switzerland and France. The jewelry they wear isn't of good quality. A lot of people here get their jewelry from Aliexpress, Claire's or any basic store (I am half Belgian and half Belarussian, I have lived in Poland, Moscow and now for 14 years in Switzerland ).
Absolutely well said! And very true!! Plus, the “French” are definitely NOT the classiest people, and NOT the wealthiest! (From a girl who has been living in Paris for the past 9 years, who has traveled extensively, who goes to the most exclusive places in Paris and other European cities and who also goes to some averages places)
The more I watch Anna's videos the more I feel like she's exactly what I hoped her to be! Classic, elegant, extremelly thoghtful and intelligent. You are simply stunning particularly in this video Anna!
I love how eloquently you speak in your videos. Instead of describing everything just as amazing or great (like most UA-camrs nowadays ) you have such a rich vocabulary. 😘😘
I see where you are coming from but foregoing all kinds of plastic isn't the answer either. It's how we dispose of it that is the issue. Also, if this is a piece that is going to be worn for years I would still favour it over the fast fashion trend we see right now.
@@Corneliaa not if you donate that to a charity or thrift shop and it keeps getting worn. And also that's not a justification for killing an innocent being for a jacket. You can find amazing quality faux furs and leathers out there.
THANK YOU for addressing the expensive skin care and the "trendy" fugly shoes among other things. I feel like my common sense got validated by this video.
Louis Vuitton luggage IS a waste of money simply because of the way they are tossed around by airline employees. Watches are over rated and a waste of money (I learned that the hard way), flashy cars , I agree are cheesy. This video I 100% agree with. I appreciate your raw honesty.
Sorry, I may have on jeans a white tee shirt, and sneakers to go food shopping, but I have a Rolex or Cartier watch on my wrist. My parents have always bought us expensive watches growing up and as adults we do the same.
"why u r buying this" Wow that's a game changer It can apply to all the purchases in your life Its so important to know the purpose before to splurge your money on an unaffordable item U r too good, Anna love u😘
I had to stop this video to tell you, dear Anna, that you looks wonderful with this background. This is a perfect example of "crystal ethereal" which screams luxurious, minimalistic, feminine at the same time. You looks like an ice queen but with positivity in it. ♥
This is a great list, I have to say I agree with everything listed. Visible logos is a huge pet peeve of mine, LV is one brand I would avoid at all cost.
I have to disagree with the jewelry. I was raised to always invest in good jewelry. It doesn’t have to necessarily be a statement piece, but it should be something of good/excellent quality and timeless because it’s something that you should keep for the rest of your life. That’s always my mindset when I am looking to purchase a new piece.
I am guilty of purchasing statement(?) jewelry. Nothing cheap or gaudy looking and not too much of it at once, but it's enjoyable for me. I think that's fine, as long as you don't have tons of it on!
Impeccable manners, good grooming habits, well fitted dress or suits and nice shoes shout more class than any luxury brands. Of course, if you also have self- confidence, it is a big plus!
I own a couple fur coats that were passed down from my grandmothers and I rarely wear them, but only for special occasions. I agree it is not conscious fashion, but it's not like I'm buying a new fur and spending 10,000 on it. If it's already made, what can you do.
Same here! My mother wanted a fur coat so much and she buyed it at the thrift store... I believe that we could stop killing animals and just recycling what have Been already produced ❤️
Yes I wish I had things passed down from my mother and grandmother that I can look at today. It’s 12 years exactly that my mum passed at just 64 and it would be nice to have something special to look at. I just bought my first Chanel vintage bag that I’m hoping to pass down to my daughter one day. It’s good to have special things like that to remind us of those we love
Sarah Suliman Yes right? I wish people would embrace their natural skin colours/tones, because most of the time, mother nature just knows what looks best
This channel is great for men, as well. The pursuit of dreams, elegance, being a class act - those things are gender neutral. And what's more, they're key for reaching your goals and developing your potential. So keep it coming, guys, join the club, get the finishing allure, you too. Keeping it real. Cheers from Argentina!
Even if I like the items, I‘ll usually be mature enough to understand that they are not necessarily classic. My car is a subtle pink and my nails are long and pointy, but part of the transformation is not to sit there and be stubborn and offended from her pointing out it‘s not classy, but instead own it. Not everything has to fit the mold, but be self aware enough to realize that!
Couldn't agree more. Elegance--think of Audrey, Grace, or Anna here--requires,above all, immaculate grooming, which is very high maintenance, costly, and time consuming, for those over 30. I myself with my curls have never been able to manage the every-hair-in-place look. My grey roots need to be touched up every 2 weeks; sometimes I let them go a bit longer. Also, though I admire elegant women, my tastes run a bit to the boho. I approach elegance by taking good care of my nails, teeth, and hair, making sure that my clothes fit properly (I'm willing to spend on tailoring) and rocking a minimalist aesthetic when it comes to jewelry. I know that I will never be truly elegant, but I'm okay with that.
Yes! She's only speaking for women that want to be exactly like her, but not even she follows her rules to a T. People are humans not robots. She's only making generalizations based off of the affluent women she knows. If you want a pink car, then get one. She repeats this so many times in her videos that it's not for everyone and exceptions exist.
Celia Bonadies you sound elegant to me. All those women you mentioned are very feminine and have a feminine presence . That’s why they are classy. You don’t need material things to make you classy. The way you carry yourself is what matters. The way you groom yourself as well. Whoever is obsessed with having designer things is the opposite of classy.
Im literally covered in tattoos, almost exclusively wear leggings, and am in the military- but for some reason I cant help but binge watch these videos
seeing classy ladies is nice, but to me, the true classiness comes from within, it expresses itself through our character. the true classiness is having integrity, the strength of character and courage to do what is right - and also being loving and kind, respecting others as much as oneself and, above all, genuinely generous person. no amount of money can help with this. btw. don't know exactly why i wrote all this - probably because i wanted to say that i'm similar to you when it comes to this channel (minus tattoos and military bit - but i've been to war, so that should count for something ;-) )
The more I watch this channel the more I’m convinced that Michael Kors personally and deeply offended Anna at an early stage of her leveling up journey.
@@linettemark292 I think her version of hell would be to have to wander aimlessly for the rest of time with no makeup through a Marshall’s, wearing platform shoes, with a Kors bag on her shoulder!! 😬😱😉
Buy ready-to-wear clothing and find a good affordable tailor. Tailoring makes all the difference in making a $35 pair of Old Navy jeans look like a pair of $200 pair of denim.
@@cathhl2440 that's the thing, a lot of very expensive designer items are made of 100% polyester, acrylic, etc. so I learned to always look at the label to check what fabrics the item is made of. A bit of synthetic fabric added to a garment can improve the durability, creasing, etc. but I cannot justify spending 200 pounds or euro on something made of cheap, synthetic material... And that is the case with a lot of premium brands nowadays.
@@Martuska80 I agree about somethings being made out of unsustainable man made materials. I went into a high end bag store and they were charging way to much for a piece of patent leather and a logo. However, the truly sustainable brands that tote natural fibers cost alot more and usually are made better than what you are thinking of.
I recently watched a video by another UA-camr who talked about how to look rich, the best designers to wear, etc. I felt bad for her. I work in a very wealthy community, and she would have very clearly fallen into the “girl who is trying too hard to pretend she is rich to land a man” category. They often stick out like sore thumbs. Low-key and classy are always better than flaunting name brands.
The no logo thing is so common it has lost it’s power imo. To me it’s all in how well the person looks after themselves. I think 80% is your hair, skin, nails, teeth, body. 10% your eloquence/speech/posture/confidence. 10% your actual ootd. Even your fragrance makes a statement
esinerizable The rest shows up far before we utter a word. Most ppl can observe in simple passing. So Someone being well groomed is often the beginning. However, we definitely need both.
Be classy, polite and considerate at all times. Don't feel the need to belong to a group you are not comfortable with. What is important is that you invest in good relationships. Value hard work, buy things you like that makes you happy (cheap or not) and don't try to impress others. Truth be told, they don't care so you should not.
No girl, all the girls nowadays have a chanel esp. The black one. They went from the speedy bags to neverfull to the flap. It's so overdone. Everytime I go to buy one I can't rationalize buying it.
As a runway instructor, and model at my former talent agency,I taught several blocks of instruction grooming up and coming models. One block of instruction was dedicated on how to navigate a properly "high end" set table. For example the proper placement of utensils, the order of the utensils and which utensils are used for what and when).( the cheat sheet is to work "from the outside in) glasses, (water and wine), how to use and place the utensils on your plate to signal "still eating " or "finished" in case you must leave to use the ladies room and not have your plate taken. This is very important in high society and I highly recommend to dedicate a video on this topic. It is very crucial to do a video on this subject/instruction for all the elegant ladies who are transforming and navigating their way into high society. I am surprised this has not been covered or perhaps it has and I just have not seen a video on this absolutely crucial topic for navigating and entering high society.
i mean no offense, but to me all these 'things' are so totally irrelevant. who cares about forks and water glasses.... i just don't understand why would any of it matter to anyone ....
As for cars, I love lexus. Their cars are elegant and very affordable for middle class/upper middle class individuals. I believe it is a good investment because the maintenance costs are actually reasonable for a luxury car brand. I think it's a lovely car for an elegant lady to own because there is an inherent femininity in their design.
Anna great video as always! Please do a video on mid range elegant clothes brands...not everyone can afford high end but can still dress with class and elegance.
It’s really about how you wear it, not where it’s from. Mango, H&M, Zara all have clothing that when style in the right way can look sophisticated, elegant and expensive. How you look after clothing also makes a big difference.
sgrundyuk I agree with you...but the fabric, stitching and the overall finish of the clothing item makes a big difference...which is why some items instantly appear to have better quality even though one may not be able to put a finger on it as to why.
Only the 'rich' crowd understands that Chanel has different ranges of watches and jewellery for different customers/demographics. There is the tacky watch and jewellery range and then there is the fine and demure range.
LongBlack _ I’ve been to the Chanel stores here in Beverly Hills and the Westside Los Angeles and for some reason their range of jewelry both fine and tacky was woefully unimpressive🤔
i agree with everything except the Chanel bag . as a designer , Chanel is hands down is the most elegant brand in existence so far . Everything is perfectly made and everything that they designed will always remain as classic .
Alice gilbert Oh yeah. That is the real life.. When u r sick, when u have diarheia itc ;) Its easy to be sexy and classy when u r together once in a week for 3h ;)
I so wish I'd had info like this when I was younger so I wouldn't have spent decades learning through errors and lacking confidence. Having spent the past 5 years working with the richest families in the world, I can attest that Anna's advice is on point.
As a watchmaker i agree with the "dont buy Gucci, prada etc". Just because i know it isnt worth it. Go and buy a watch that is simple, because it will never get out of style. Search for a Company that produces the movement in the inside on their own. Like Rolex, patek.... If you dont want to buy something that cost that much. Buy a watch with a swiss movement. Dont forget, watches last a lifetime if handled right! They need care! Like shoes, clothes etc. They need to see a watchmaker every 5-7 years. And that can cost up to 1000€. Even smaller good quality brands can cost about 500€ to get a revision! Those are things to think about, that is often forgotten. And those companies dont repair anymore, they switch broken things with new ones. If your braclett isnt good enough anymore in their eyes, they charge you 800€ more because you need a new one. And if you dont want to spend it, well you wont get it repaired. (Not all companies do that, but just let me tell you there are companies that do so) Is it worth it to spend 8000€ or more on a watch? Yes. Why? Those watches are machines that work every second if it is worn everyday. The work to create, build it takes a lot of time to create something that is precise and last a lifetime (even more). You can still get spare parts from watches that are 30 years old. The quality is very high! everything has to be right or it wont work. So yes not only for the brand but also from technical perspektiv, it is worth it! Excuse my beginner english, im working on it.
@@Hippy2021 it is true, a watch, especially a mechanical watch isnt as precise as a Phone or watch with a batterie in it (because of the frequency) but not only does men dont have a lot of "assesoires" option. A quick look on a watch is more polite in a conversation, than pulling out the phone. Or searching for a public watch in the near.
@@Hippy2021 True..... but a lot of people, especially men, still like the classic look of a wristwatch. I think it's more polite to look at your wrist than to take out your phone, especially if a stranger is asking the time
I thought recently that the new trend in social media will be minimalism, because world gets crazy about all this expensive things from Instagram and people work hard to buy it or get depressed they cant afford it and the only trend which is needed now is to get normal... and here is your video 👌🏻 this is what ppl need now in this crazy world. Thank you for this video;)
I totally agree , great video : "less is more" !! Good Health and love each other is more important than all those luxury ! Sorry for my bad English ! Kind greetings from Marie in France !
💯 agree!!! So so many girls nowadays show way too much skin and say "I got I I can flaunt it" - no . What logic is that? So because you so call have it you have to show the world? Be confident and don't look for social validation, that's keeping it classy !
Imen Bendjazia okay, but it’s their bodies, not yours. If someone feels more confident showing lots of skin that’s fine. If someone prefers to cover up more that’s fine too. Saying that girls who show skin only do it to look for social validation is unnecessary and rude. It’s frankly none of your business what other women do with their bodies. It isn’t a competition and it isn’t cool to pit yourself against other women.
I still love my Chanel flap bag. I don’t think it matters that many people have it. If my bag is the only thing that makes me stand out from the crowd I think the problem is not the bag. I like the look, it’s easy to dress up and down and complements my style. I did not buy it because it’s popular or for resale value. I just adore it and think it’s a total classic. What I am trying to say is that although I like these kind of guidelines you gave us I don’t really understand why people generally dislike wearing something that many others have as well. After all one can still be unique because of their style, personality and behaviour. Anyways, although I did not agree with everything, I still enjoyed the video.
Many of the things you're stating are very accurate not only in social circles but in executive circles as well. Those who are more conservative in their accessorizing tend to be more approachable in general. While the "WOW FACTOR" may catch people's attention initially, the wiser, more conservative-thinking individuals tend to gain respect rather than just attention, which is better in the long-run.
You are so great. I am a middle aged woman and I would love to attend your school of affluence because you teach a woman “class”, no matter if their goal is to reach high society or not. Thank you for your videos.
Also wearing a big shoulder bag with formal wear, just because you paid thousands of dollars for the bag. Let's say a Chanel flap bag has no place at the opera house
@kshiftkometh OK I'm an ABC who always goes to at least 1 MetOpera show when I visit NYC because I grew up a classical musician. For asians from E. Asia, classical opera has recently gained huge popularity in the younger population (China specifically) but when they walk into Lincoln Center do they know every social code in and around the opera house? No, they are just tourists trying to see what opera should look like and experience the art
My boss was talking about how her sister is always buying the high end, luxury bags and watches and saying they're investments. Yeah, I'll keep my Sailor Moon wallet and the price of those luxury watches could go towards a downpayment for a house here in America. I would rather have a house than a watch.
I mean, they are, five years ago I bought a Chanel flap bag and one year ago I sold it 1000 dollars more expensive because it was a seasonal bag, so I wore it for a long time and then I sold it and gain more money, it was a win win for me. They are investments for those who knows about brands, people like you that is not involved in that kind of environment doesn’t know that. In conclusion your boss and his sister are right, if we invest in these kind of stuff it’s because we already have a house, believe me that the money we spend it’s money that we don’t need to survive.
Kirsten Irwin What if you already have the house. I don’t think a watch is #1 on anyone’s list but if you’ve checked all the other boxes why not treat yourself?
I appreciate Anna pointing out, to pay attention to our "why" we want to purchase something. It places us in an entire different, (and healthier),mindset within ourselves and within the buying process.💎
I’m not into designer logos. Why should I do their advertising for them and pay a premium for the privilege!? Now: I’ve inherited a number of fur coats (being the only female child of my Mom and her siblings). They were obviously very expensive and are in impeccable condition and all 40 to 80 (not a typo) years old and were of basic style. I can’t see the reason to simply toss them into the garbage so I do occasionally wear them when the temperature drops. I can’t bring myself to destroy them.
No. I agree. I would never buy a new one. Never had and I’m 70 so the chances are I won’t start now. I don’t even buy goose down or genuine fur trim. It gets very cold and damp here. The one I wear most is close to 80! Imagine! 80. It’s very heavy but good for those days here that are just at freezing and very, very damp. The cold reaches right to your bones.
You lucky one! Just wear them with pride of the ladies of your family. People who blame others for wearing fur just have no real ladies in their family. Fur was the thing to wear back then. Enjoy it.
Oh my God When you have a millionaire husband and you are rich is easy to say that Michael Kors is mid-range watch. For some people is high not everyone is rich
Anna, dear - you gotta watch out sometimes where you hair falls. Occasionally it sits right on top of your microphone and affects the sound. Just a friendly FYI. 😌
She's probably trying to hide it in her hair, but you're right. She'd probably do much better with a shotgun mic on top of her camera or a podcast style mic out of frame
I agree she looks classy, but the real mark of a classy woman is someone that does not indulge or benefits from the manevolent actions of her husband and others
“Some of these shoes don’t even make sense to me.” Hahahaha. You’re so funny and so right ! No to the flashy trendy shoe. And the rest of your list is spot on as well.
Buying from small boutiques in Europe is luxury for me - only 1 or 3 of such items exist in the world and the materials and craftsmanship is perfection. And it’s not even that expensive! A gorgeous red leather purse for $120
“Money talks, wealth whispers”
Parker R. Y ooo I see u
Haha so true
California is very tacky lol
Amen. I couldn't agree any more!
A Rolex doesn't whisper! lol
Please add the Gucci belt to the list. I'm so tired of seeing that belt EVERYWHERE!!!
Like🙄
Deserve more likes 👌
That’s why I sold my Lv neverfull
LMAO
I sold mine so thanks for saying that. I was second guessing myself. Thanks!
My grandmother who is 99 and a legend 🌙 who came from an affluent family says: "old money doesn't shout" and it's true .
so cute my grandma is almost 99 too
My grandma just turned 98 last month. She also says the same thing.
It shouts, alright; BUT only certain people can hear it. If you cannot, it wasn’t intended for you.
@I love shawarma more than my life but it got old
What does "old money doesn't shout" mean?. I have never heard of this before.
I always thought that wearing prominent designer labels head to toe was a sure sign of insecurity.
@Contessa *LOL* If you knew me, you wouldn't say that. I can well afford it, I just think it's tacky to wear obvious labels head to toe. I will never own an LV logo canvas bag, for instance. I prefer bespoke fashion (most of my clothes are tailor-made for me), including my shoes (although several of the shoes I commissioned are suspiciously close to Manolo Blahnik, Ferragamo, or Valentino, but I am difficult to fit and those designers don't offer shoes in my size, so I take that as authorization to be "inspired" by them). Best of luck to you on your journey to level up!
Agreed. It’s pretty tacky too in my opinion.
When I travel I often see women dressed head to toe in labels. It looks tacky and desperate.
@@bonitajordan6825 Precisely!
Yeah! purchasing + advertising for a brand logo like that is like yelling to the world, “yup, I’m two times a sucker”.
Such a superficial world we are living in. Invest in your health. Invest in real happiness. Invest in loving your family. Invest in real friendships. Invest in lifting people up. Invest in living a Life.
That's what makes this life worthwhile ❤️
Invest in good food, wine, books, and travel. After everything you mention up top good food, books, wine and travel are the icing on the cake.
YES.
LIFE IS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE. Her shallowness is puerile and sad.
It’s okay to enjoy all those things. Why be one sided?
It’s a problem when you rely only on material things to value yourself and be happy.
Otherwise, there’s no problem.
"LOVE"
@@billielittle dont forget music, intellectual pursuits, art and dance. Thats a self -love story that will never end badly.
Never wear a label unless someone is paying you. That's some amazing advice I got in L.A.. The celebrities you see wearing big purses and t shirts with names on them are being paid to be seen out and about in them. If they're not paying you, and lord knows you need it more, don't do any designer any free favors.
I somewhat disagree. Usually designers do high quality products. In contrast we have fast fashion, cheaper but with worst materials and dangerous methods, don't caring for the environment neither for their workers. But in clothes there is a lot of issues.
Totally agree. I do not pay to advertise some one else.
I somewhat agree. I prefer that the brand not be obvious. However if you think this way you cannot even drive a car. A label most always means higher quality.
@@moniquedefranca5759 How do you drive a car then? The car has a label on the outside?
Now I do like Coach and A classic LV purse...otherwise that other stuff is not for me
If one has money, one does not have to impress anyone..period.
You right sis
Exactly
👍🏼
Well, I think you don’t have to impress anyone period. Even if you don’t have money.
Naw...sometimes just need to impress myself.
Growing up in a poor family, I thank the first high caliber woman who raised me; my mom. You dress modestly and you always clean yourself and smell fresh. That's all it matters. Go on with your day and be kind.
I REALLY LOVE THIS THANK YOU
Very true.. That's basic
It's all how you put it together. In an outfit from Kohl's that's styled right you might look fabulous.
On the other hand, a $20k designer look that's put together wrong can be a disaster.
Money spent on pieces that work across a wardrobe is always well spent. That's why they're called "investment" pieces.
Here's to those of us who are bringing classy back! 🥂
This is similar to what my parents,(mom in particular), said to me before. I treasure this advice even today 🙏🏾
对，我教育我的女儿是：衣着端庄、干净整齐不破旧，举止有礼，言语有内涵，脸带微笑。
I have a friend who is very wealthy. They have multiple cars, yachts, private jets and properties around the world. My friend doesn’t wear many luxury brands at all. She simply doesn’t care. She is polished and classy, but very down to earth and fun. The point is, she doesn’t feel the need to flaunt her wealth. In fact, what I’ve learned through her, is that very wealthy people can actually be a bit embarrassed by their own wealth.
😂 They have yachts & private jets but don’t flaunt their wealth?😩🥴
@@carolineroberts9917 It amazes me that just because people flaunt their wealth in other ways. Folks like this thinks one is different than the other. Like! A designer handbag is nothing compared to a private jet.
If you were wealthy, you would gave a private jet too. Things like private jets and multiple properties are more a lifestyle thing than a flaunt of wealth for most people. Why fly regular when you can afford your own private jet? Why not have a holiday home when you can afford it? Luxury brands and labels however are more of a status symbol.
@@kaulkim No, it’s a lifestyle as well. Why keeping buying clothes that will fall apart when you can get some quality pieces. Investment pieces! A wealthy person would know this which is the people buy it designer items. Poor people aren’t keeping Hermès in business.
@@DeketaShanaye I agree in buying high quality clothing, but most of these big or couture brands etc are charging those ginormous amounts for the brand that they’ve built. There are many high quality clothing businesses that are expensive but not ridiculous expensive just for the status symbol of having xyz bag. But you are definitely right about investing in high quality clothes!
She is basically describing Jeffree Star 😆
Isostasia exact same thought ))
Isostasia ahah
Lol
🤣🤣🤣 so true
I dont think JS is going for the 'elegant' look. And she did say some people are excluded, esp who are in the fashion / influencer type which their lifestyle is part of their job.
Being a minimalist will solve most of these problems🙌
Yessssss!
Exactly
Exactly!!!!
Yes! 👍
You reminded me to minimalise from watching these video's 🙏
This is how you know rich people, they don't show off because they don't have to prove anything to you. If you watch football players or rappers how they drive and how they dress you know they want to prove they have money . If you are wealthy it shows in the way you speak and act in Society not what brand you are wearing .
This is a cultural thing.. in all non White countries no matter how much money a person/family has its cultural to show your wealth other wise it’s worthless having it.
Some rappers & some football players are finally enjoying their possession. They are not proving anything to you, only to themselves.
Lolwa MA YES👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
jezebella38 completely agree. Sooo work hard for your money but don’t show it? Please. How many rich people are living in a hut? Pretty sure you could count on one hand lol
musima41 Balenciaga!
PLEASE MAKE ONE VIDEO FOR FAVORITE PERFUMES
Nerionna AlbanianGirl yes!
I love the idea, but perfumes are so individual and chemistry based.
Yeah pls
perfumes are personal
She uses only one perfume
So I am a single mother and a woman on a budget and I’m trying to build a nice wardrobe. I kept in mind your previous videos about looking for natural fabrics like wool, cotton, cashmere silk etc., as well as sticking to more neutral colours and classic styles. I grabbed a few things to try on and chose one of the items to purchase(for 4 dollars) and as I was putting the other items that didn’t fit back on the rack (this is thrift store shopping in an upscale neighbourhood)two ladies approached me and asked to see what I had put back. They commented “ you look so stylish and put together we wanted to see what you had picked out!”. I routed them to your UA-cam channel. Thanks Ana!
Wel done u classy lady..... sustainabl fashionista .. smart shoper... one mom u r...👍🏽
Thrift shopping in nice neighborhoods is fantastic! I get Calvein Klein dresses from them, beautiful dry clean only clothes, ect. Way to go on your fashion sense!
I shop at goodwill and receive compliments all the time. Never need to spend that much money on clothing really. Brand new $3 rag and bone cashmere sweater dress.
I have had women tell me I have a good eye for quality when I come to the register at resale shops.
I bought a preloved linen dress and I get so many compliments. It is so comfortable and beautiful. 😍
Me, a broke ass 24 year old trying to save and pay off my debt.
“Ah yes PERFECT”
To me saving and paying off debt is very classy.
Seeing your comment after 3 years. You must be 27 years old now.
I hope life’s better now🫶🏾
Excellent point with the luggage, especially in South Africa where I live. Believe me, if your luggage looks expensive it's either getting opened or stolen. Bland is best.
I didn’t know there were fellow South Africans here 🤗🤗 hey Rina 😘
Same thought i was the only one😉
LOL we are here
Hey fellow South Africans ❤️
Another South African girl here ~ lol
Same in latinoamerican countries 😩😂
Please do a video on 10 things to buy. As in “a safety net” etc
Great idea Mmapsyt!!!
Rolex, patek, realestate
That's more Shae Whitney territory 😂
Great idea!
Omg great idea
Anna, I am convinced. The "no jewelry" and the "no fur" and being ethical is so high class. I respect you and your advices more and more. I am not high society but I find it amazing that 90% of what you advice I already use in my daily life. Thanks for inspiring and educating us, no matter our backgrounds ❤️
A brand I found is Worthy Deluxe is premium vegan fur and it is classy. Time and Place paired with right outfit is really elegant. It's just beautiful.
I agree about the "no fur" thing but why is the "no jewelry" so high class?
@@perthfanny3017 agreed. Diane of wales was class within class and looked gorgeous with massive jewelry
Jewellery is a fine line for me. I have a few pieces of very minimal subtle sentimental jewellery that I wear everyday with everything. I do NOT spend money on big flashy sparkly things that don't suit me and I don't like. My partner is keen on watches as a hobby so he spends money on them, but I don't even own one.
Diamonds are the only jewelry i wouldn’t wear for ethical reasons. A lot of blood shed. So it’s a no for me
And don’t break the bank just to impress other people, buy it because u luv it💗
Lady in Pink fact
I think what makes a woman look expensive has a lot to do with taking care of your body. Eating organic produce that's rich in nutrients, getting plenty of sleep, trimming your hair, cleaning your nails, and moisturizing your skin with plant based oils. anyone can throw on a diamond necklace and red lipstick, that doesn't make you beautiful - especially if you've done very little to take care of yourself. Put in the effort to nurture and nourish your body.
Agreed. Being healthy, happy and well groomed is 90% of it. The other 10% is dressing well for your body shape and taking care of your clothing, no matter how much or little it cost. A clean pair of Clarke’s shoes look far more elegant than dirty scuffed Jimmy Choo’s.
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You are so right! You can’t look expensive with dry hair and skin, chipped nails and an unhealthy body.
True! Health = wealth
My husband started teaching me this a few years ago...I'm still working on it too. It's a longer process than I thought to become elegant. 😪 takes practice! :)
What makes me so drawn to Ana is that she is so honest, and she really doesn't care about what people is probably gonna say about any of her videos. Is like she's elegant not only on what she wear, but her attitude. Such a role model... love 💘
Yes, her honesty floored me. Loving her taste in everything.
The camera quality has really improved. Well done Anna! 👏🏾
Being rich doesn’t mean being classy!
Think she needs to specify the difference
Yeah this is the only thing she hasn’t specifically stated that I feel puts me off watching her videos.
Laura Rosalind She says that all the time 😅 If you watched the videos you would’ve known 💕
The Kardashian/Jenner have the hope that this statement be fake lol
Paola Rossy well said !
It’s evident from her energy that she is the whole package .
Kind caring poised & dresses elegant / classy .
Her videos are my favorite on UA-cam as class oozes from her .
Peoples 1st impression of us is
Visual our dress / body posture / mannerisms / heigene
Agree with the luxury skincare. I used to buy expensive skincare & makeup brands but not anymore. Cheaper brands work as good not to mention some even better, now I can switch the budget to designer handbags or shoes.
I agree. I don't see the rationale behind the luxury skincare. I'd rather pay premium for organic formulated products or Korean/Japanese brands because you can actually see the results in a wide spectrum of people's skin. I've actually went one step further and learned to formulate my own organic formulations so I really know what ingredients go in there. Same stuff my kids use. Skin is the largest organ of our bodies so I'm not about to compromise that.
Check out Dr.Dray and Hyram on The Inkey List and the ordinary reviews
Yes, Dr. Dray…best advice on skincare at an affordable price.
Seriously I have favorites from the drugstore and some products frankly work better than expensive ones!!! Eyeshadow and foundation I may invest a little more in but everything else - I've found inexpensive alternatives.
I was tried Meaningful Beauty (Cindy Crawford's brand), it messed up my face SO BAD! I'm good with Aveeno or Paula's Choice.
1) runway ready to wear outfits
2) midrange watches
3) Cartier Love Bracelet
4) luxury car (Ferrari)
5) designer high end skin care
6) designer luggage
7) Balenciaga SSS or trendy designer shoes
8) Fur coat (especially full fur)
9) Prada headband/ thick clips
10) Chanel flap bag (basic bish style)
thanks
The only fashion that is never out of fashion is classy and elegant
I was once criticized at a dinner party for not pronouncing the designer of the dress I was wearing correctly. My reply, "For what I paid for this dress, I can call him anything I like!" That earned me a big laugh, applause, not to mention,respect from everyone, including the woman who criticized me.
That’s the best reply I’ve ever heard, I’m glad you didn’t hold it back either. Those people sound like complete and utter snobs and airheads
"Luxury items" are never about "needed", they are "wanted". We need air, shelter, food, drink, affection, etc... and a 5 dollar bag will do, but we always want more, that's where "luxury" comes in.
I have no bags but I'm living. 😊
Agreed
Exactly
Very true.
il lusso in italia mantiene tante persone che lavorano ed e'di alta qualita'.
Vorrei proprio vedere la casa di questa signora nel video...ho dubbi.
I'm a lost 16 year old girl that just went out through a lot of both physical and mental development journey and finding your channel yesterday is what will make me cross the finishing line ! Thank you for existing and for showing teens girls like me what the world has to offer us and how we should act according to that !
Ar Bow there is a great video school of affluence has done for teens on this YT channel. If you haven’t seen it yet, I highly recommend it. I sent it to my 16year old niece and told her to watch it. It makes so much sense. 💕
@@mellyholly i did already watch it, but thank you for suggesting ❤️
Ar Bow, in this Kardashian world we live in, always strive to be an Anna. ❤❤❤❤❤ Elegance and sophistication will make you stand out as a lady.
Ar Bow good for you!
AR bow, this is so nice to hear. Please watch the French girls as well, they really go style and know how to be chic on a budget. Justine Leconte. Please watch Alexa Chung. I discovered her recently, British ex model, very funny videos.
And of course, stick with Anna here. I love her videos.
"lower end watches like Michael kors"....thats expensive for me lol XD
Ikr 🤣🤣🤣
Same lol
Same idc about brands I just buy whatever looks nice
@@DLB333 100 buck is NOT cheap
@@DLB333 so according to you I can't watch her content just because I'm not particularly affluent
Not THIS editing is calm, collected and classy. Really nice colors and estetics. Whoever you hired for this video, keep them!
I work in Advertising/Digital Marketing and your channel is so perfect for it's audience! You put yourself as mentor, not a teacher. We are constantly blind by so many "content creators" and you have this original factor that makes everyone thirsty for knowledge!
Amanda Sales Mandy I work in the same industry as well and cannot agree more!!! 💖
Invest in vintage items, 100%. I love looking at beautiful unique pieces in antique stores, such as 20s fur trimmed coats (I've inherited some beautiful pieces from family). Elegant doesn't have to be brand new and expensive 😉 it just has to look the part 😊
i know i am VERY late to comment but i agree 1000%!! i have bought several wonderful and very high quality pieces pre-owned, all in wonderful condition. it takes time and a little bit of luck to find something but it is so worth it!
Exactly 😁 all my branded bags I buy it pre-owned
Many millionaires are quite frugal and only invest in items that sustain time. Love your channel 🌸
Kathryn Predki that’s why they’re rich. Look after the pennies and the pounds look after themselves.
Absolutely!
Very true my uncle is a multimillionaire (unsure of his total net worth) and he drives a Ford pickup truck and I've never seen him in a name brand.
Kathryn Predki then her advice on the Chanel bag is stupid that’s actually an invest bag and her saying Hermes has gone down her opinion not a fact that are making more money now than before and Hermes is a sign of wealth even to this day
@@future288ify That is correct. The classic bag I sold went up in value by $500 in three years.
Whenever I save sums of money , I only prefer to buy some properties , nothing more reliable than real estates bring you the security feelings 😂😂 , much better than men 😜😜
You go girl! 👍
So true
Agreed!!!!!
SOME properties? Wow. The wealthy is right here 😅😀😄
Yes girl! Yes! 👍🏽
Don’t buy yourself a “love bracelet”, because a real gentleman will think someone got to do it for you already, and he’ll miss out on buying it for you himself.
I’ve been thinking a lot to save and buy myself one, so far have not found the right man
She looks like the older sister of Freddy my love, I mean it in a good way
Freddy my love is so pretty!
So true .... she really looks like Freddy my love
Totally different lol just because they are white and blonde? Not even close
Oh myyy... You totally right!!
I think she is more polite and understanding than Freddy even if she seems also more affluent.
Ugh i love Anna and her advice. She’s like the wise sister we all need
So true!
lol I don't need her
Agree! I was thinking the same thing. Anna is the sister we always dreamt to have. She's pretty, smart, wise, eloquent and honest =wonderful
@@spellmoonpatronus6123 I think you guys should open your eyes, read a little more, look around, and stop being brainwashed.
@@nicolek5435 Why brainwashed??
I grew up in Alabama California near an Affluent neighborhood in Southern California. This neighborhood used to be an "Old Money" area that was very understated. The women wore Good quality clothing, but simple in tailoring, yet they always looked stylish. I worked in this area for a few years and i was always impressed with their manners, their kindness, and their hospitality. These were quality people on the inside, as well as the outside. I never felt uncomfortable around them, because they treated people with courtesy and dignity. Yes they had a lot of money, but unlike the nouveau riche they never came across as rude or snooty.
Life lesson for me was no matter what your station in life, always treat people with dignity and respect as it is a sign of good breeding.
This is 100% true and exactly how to tell old money from new, manners. People who come from money are taught how to act and how to treat people. Even if they fall on hard times they'll always have their manners and education.
The french never wear bling and always wear good quality.
I honestly disagree. As a person that has lived her whole life in Switzerland, who knows many French people and has been to France often, French people do NOT look as elegant as you may think. So many French people have horrible fashion taste and buy the cheapest quality jewelry. It's really a stereotype that French people always wear good quality items.
@@nikic.1539 ce n'est pas très gentil ça !!😔
Ahah, i Said "it 's not kind" but i think ..you are not totaly wrong, it depend of the area
@@Arigato.318 Je vous dis honnêtement ce que je pense et ce que je vois 😊😂 Of course it's not the case of everyone, but most of the time foreigners who have never personally lived near France or in France have crazy stereotypical ideas of "French fashion" that ar purely based on fantasies (Fashion Week, movies,etc...) . If you watch "Les Reines du Shopping" or any other show like "Chasseurs d'appartement" you can see that most are very plainly dressed and honestly not elegant. I have actually always been stupified as to how simple people dress in Switzerland and France. The jewelry they wear isn't of good quality. A lot of people here get their jewelry from Aliexpress, Claire's or any basic store (I am half Belgian and half Belarussian, I have lived in Poland, Moscow and now for 14 years in Switzerland ).
@@LSa-rk7zb 😆🤣😂
Absolutely well said! And very true!! Plus, the “French” are definitely NOT the classiest people, and NOT the wealthiest! (From a girl who has been living in Paris for the past 9 years, who has traveled extensively, who goes to the most exclusive places in Paris and other European cities and who also goes to some averages places)
The more I watch Anna's videos the more I feel like she's exactly what I hoped her to be! Classic, elegant, extremelly thoghtful and intelligent. You are simply stunning particularly in this video Anna!
Now I don't feel weird anymore about not going for flashy and trending clothes. Thanks to you Anna!!
I love how eloquently you speak in your videos. Instead of describing everything just as amazing or great (like most UA-camrs nowadays ) you have such a rich vocabulary. 😘😘
My goodness who in their right mind buys those shoes? My eyes hurt.
Purple Rose 😂😂
Hee... I thought they were cute. Nice for a costume party.
Real wealthy people don't buy Ferraris Lamborghini those cars are ordinary cars for people like Cardi bi all those rappers from the ghetto
I agree with you 100%. I love how sustainability is integral in your list.
Much respect to her
She could have mentioned that faux fur is 100% plastic so it's not good for the planet either.
I see where you are coming from but foregoing all kinds of plastic isn't the answer either. It's how we dispose of it that is the issue. Also, if this is a piece that is going to be worn for years I would still favour it over the fast fashion trend we see right now.
@@Corneliaa not if you donate that to a charity or thrift shop and it keeps getting worn. And also that's not a justification for killing an innocent being for a jacket. You can find amazing quality faux furs and leathers out there.
That Prada head band is so awful.
i know, and i thought the 80’s were over 😂
THANK YOU for addressing the expensive skin care and the "trendy" fugly shoes among other things. I feel like my common sense got validated by this video.
Louis Vuitton luggage IS a waste of money simply because of the way they are tossed around by airline employees. Watches are over rated and a waste of money (I learned that the hard way), flashy cars , I agree are cheesy. This video I 100% agree with. I appreciate your raw honesty.
Sorry, I may have on jeans a white tee shirt, and sneakers to go food shopping, but I have a Rolex or Cartier watch on my wrist. My parents have always bought us expensive watches growing up and as adults we do the same.
Pamela by Design that why i take my louis v as a carry on
Great advice not everyone should look like a Kardashian .
No one should look like a Kardashian ... not even a Kardashian!
@@SundaysChild1966 you are awesome.
Teresa Torres yes
Uzma Poppy yup
Ha ! thats funny.
"why u r buying this"
Wow that's a game changer
It can apply to all the purchases in your life
Its so important to know the purpose before to splurge your money on an unaffordable item
U r too good, Anna love u😘
@Nisreen elegant women spell words correctly u=you r=are
@@TheConservativeHippie yes very true
.thanks😁
@@nisreenhameed3802 😊
I had to stop this video to tell you, dear Anna, that you looks wonderful with this background. This is a perfect example of "crystal ethereal" which screams luxurious, minimalistic, feminine at the same time. You looks like an ice queen but with positivity in it. ♥
This is a great list, I have to say I agree with everything listed. Visible logos is a huge pet peeve of mine, LV is one brand I would avoid at all cost.
Why specifically Lv?
Because everyone and their brother has it.
I have to disagree with the jewelry. I was raised to always invest in good jewelry. It doesn’t have to necessarily be a statement piece, but it should be something of good/excellent quality and timeless because it’s something that you should keep for the rest of your life. That’s always my mindset when I am looking to purchase a new piece.
I am guilty of purchasing statement(?) jewelry. Nothing cheap or gaudy looking and not too much of it at once, but it's enjoyable for me. I think that's fine, as long as you don't have tons of it on!
She did say it wasn’t very much her ‘thing’ though. The jewelry aspect is her personal preference. She did say.
Excuse me ladies,
This woman is definitely the type of women I do absolutely appreciate and honor.
Same! She works hard
Chanel Flap bag is basic because it’s classic. When something is basic, it’s the standard. That’s why lots of people have it.
Same with Hermes.
Impeccable manners, good grooming habits, well fitted dress or suits and nice shoes shout more class than any luxury brands. Of course, if you also have self- confidence, it is a big plus!
I own a couple fur coats that were passed down from my grandmothers and I rarely wear them, but only for special occasions. I agree it is not conscious fashion, but it's not like I'm buying a new fur and spending 10,000 on it. If it's already made, what can you do.
Jamie Wolf I also have very old but beautiful quality furs. They are so nice and warm for NE USA.
ODISEA APPAREL yes, so do I. Do not see anything wrong with it or unethical as it is recycling
It is ethical as recycling
Same here! My mother wanted a fur coat so much and she buyed it at the thrift store... I believe that we could stop killing animals and just recycling what have Been already produced ❤️
Yes I wish I had things passed down from my mother and grandmother that I can look at today. It’s 12 years exactly that my mum passed at just 64 and it would be nice to have something special to look at. I just bought my first Chanel vintage bag that I’m hoping to pass down to my daughter one day. It’s good to have special things like that to remind us of those we love
Your skin looks flawless! Just like glass skin 😍 would love to see a tutorial on it :)
Sarah Suliman Yes right? I wish people would embrace their natural skin colours/tones, because most of the time, mother nature just knows what looks best
She has a makeup tutorial video that she posted previously. She actually keeps everything very simple.
Get a set of lights in front of of your face and voila!
She has mentioned that she uses self-tanner.
She has made a skincare routine video.
This channel is great for men, as well. The pursuit of dreams, elegance, being a class act - those things are gender neutral. And what's more, they're key for reaching your goals and developing your potential. So keep it coming, guys, join the club, get the finishing allure, you too. Keeping it real. Cheers from Argentina!
Even if I like the items, I‘ll usually be mature enough to understand that they are not necessarily classic. My car is a subtle pink and my nails are long and pointy, but part of the transformation is not to sit there and be stubborn and offended from her pointing out it‘s not classy, but instead own it. Not everything has to fit the mold, but be self aware enough to realize that!
Couldn't agree more. Elegance--think of Audrey, Grace, or Anna here--requires,above all, immaculate grooming, which is very high maintenance, costly, and time consuming, for those over 30. I myself with my curls have never been able to manage the every-hair-in-place look. My grey roots need to be touched up every 2 weeks; sometimes I let them go a bit longer. Also, though I admire elegant women, my tastes run a bit to the boho. I approach elegance by taking good care of my nails, teeth, and hair, making sure that my clothes fit properly (I'm willing to spend on tailoring) and rocking a minimalist aesthetic when it comes to jewelry. I know that I will never be truly elegant, but I'm okay with that.
Yes! She's only speaking for women that want to be exactly like her, but not even she follows her rules to a T. People are humans not robots. She's only making generalizations based off of the affluent women she knows. If you want a pink car, then get one. She repeats this so many times in her videos that it's not for everyone and exceptions exist.
Celia Bonadies you sound elegant to me. All those women you mentioned are very feminine and have a feminine presence . That’s why they are classy. You don’t need material things to make you classy. The way you carry yourself is what matters. The way you groom yourself as well. Whoever is obsessed with having designer things is the opposite of classy.
Im literally covered in tattoos, almost exclusively wear leggings, and am in the military- but for some reason I cant help but binge watch these videos
Thank you for protecting our freedom!
@@beckycostello4286 What freedoms have other countries tried to take away from you?
seeing classy ladies is nice, but to me, the true classiness comes from within, it expresses itself through our character. the true classiness is having integrity, the strength of character and courage to do what is right - and also being loving and kind, respecting others as much as oneself and, above all, genuinely generous person. no amount of money can help with this.
btw. don't know exactly why i wrote all this - probably because i wanted to say that i'm similar to you when it comes to this channel (minus tattoos and military bit - but i've been to war, so that should count for something ;-) )
Navy here! Make sure you're investing in your TSP! ☺
The more I watch this channel the more I’m convinced that Michael Kors personally and deeply offended Anna at an early stage of her leveling up journey.
Was thinking the same thing 😂
@@linettemark292 I think her version of hell would be to have to wander aimlessly for the rest of time with no makeup through a Marshall’s, wearing platform shoes, with a Kors bag on her shoulder!! 😬😱😉
@@harrietcraig7817 Hahaha 😂 God forbid… a MK bag 😱
Buy ready-to-wear clothing and find a good affordable tailor. Tailoring makes all the difference in making a $35 pair of Old Navy jeans look like a pair of $200 pair of denim.
Jeans are tacky. I agree on the tailoring, though.
Yes but be sure the fabric is worth it.
@@escaramujo LOL funny girl
@@cathhl2440 that's the thing, a lot of very expensive designer items are made of 100% polyester, acrylic, etc. so I learned to always look at the label to check what fabrics the item is made of. A bit of synthetic fabric added to a garment can improve the durability, creasing, etc. but I cannot justify spending 200 pounds or euro on something made of cheap, synthetic material... And that is the case with a lot of premium brands nowadays.
@@Martuska80 I agree about somethings being made out of unsustainable man made materials. I went into a high end bag store and they were charging way to much for a piece of patent leather and a logo. However, the truly sustainable brands that tote natural fibers cost alot more and usually are made better than what you are thinking of.
I recently watched a video by another UA-camr who talked about how to look rich, the best designers to wear, etc. I felt bad for her. I work in a very wealthy community, and she would have very clearly fallen into the “girl who is trying too hard to pretend she is rich to land a man” category. They often stick out like sore thumbs. Low-key and classy are always better than flaunting name brands.
I agree on most, but a Chanel flap bag will always be in style. It's classic, no matter who wears it.
Agree!!!
Absolutely!
I think it's fugly sorry Chanel fans out there
Agreed. Cartier bracelets on the other hand are on EVERY other hand lol
listen to the teacher dear..
The no logo thing is so common it has lost it’s power imo. To me it’s all in how well the person looks after themselves. I think 80% is your hair, skin, nails, teeth, body. 10% your eloquence/speech/posture/confidence. 10% your actual ootd. Even your fragrance makes a statement
80% eloquence, posture, speech n confidence
esinerizable The rest shows up far before we utter a word. Most ppl can observe in simple passing. So
Someone being well groomed is often the beginning. However, we definitely need both.
Be classy, polite and considerate at all times. Don't feel the need to belong to a group you are not comfortable with. What is important is that you invest in good relationships. Value hard work, buy things you like that makes you happy (cheap or not) and don't try to impress others. Truth be told, they don't care so you should not.
As a jewelry maker, I think jewelry is really important in showcasing a woman’s beauty.
The woman is the true jewel not her jewelry
Everyone has that Chanel bag or Hermes bag... I’m like where 👀. That’s when you know you’re not in the affluent crowd. 🤦🏾♀️
No girl, all the girls nowadays have a chanel esp. The black one. They went from the speedy bags to neverfull to the flap. It's so overdone. Everytime I go to buy one I can't rationalize buying it.
Jessica Hicks Thanks to Instagram and UA-cam- lol 😆
I don’t agree I see plenty of affluent people wearing Chanel & Hermès all the time.
Jacqueline Natividade that makes sense to me! I personally don’t like wearing brands with loud logos either.
Jaecee〈3 wow. I learned today. :)
As a runway instructor, and model at my former talent agency,I taught several blocks of instruction grooming up and coming models. One block of instruction was dedicated on how to navigate a properly "high end" set table. For example the proper placement of utensils, the order of the utensils and which utensils are used for what and when).( the cheat sheet is to work "from the outside in) glasses, (water and wine), how to use and place the utensils on your plate to signal "still eating " or "finished" in case you must leave to use the ladies room and not have your plate taken. This is very important in high society and I highly recommend to dedicate a video on this topic. It is very crucial to do a video on this subject/instruction for all the elegant ladies who are transforming and navigating their way into high society. I am surprised this has not been covered or perhaps it has and I just have not seen a video on this absolutely crucial topic for navigating and entering high society.
i mean no offense, but to me all these 'things' are so totally irrelevant. who cares about forks and water glasses....
i just don't understand why would any of it matter to anyone ....
Maybe it's something that she covers in her courses.
Yes totally
As for cars, I love lexus. Their cars are elegant and very affordable for middle class/upper middle class individuals. I believe it is a good investment because the maintenance costs are actually reasonable for a luxury car brand. I think it's a lovely car for an elegant lady to own because there is an inherent femininity in their design.
Anna great video as always! Please do a video on mid range elegant clothes brands...not everyone can afford high end but can still dress with class and elegance.
Shisha S I feel Guess is for younger people...I’m in my early 30’s...
@@shaqeeras625 No, Guess is not in any way, shape or form considered classy
It’s really about how you wear it, not where it’s from. Mango, H&M, Zara all have clothing that when style in the right way can look sophisticated, elegant and expensive. How you look after clothing also makes a big difference.
sgrundyuk I agree with you...but the fabric, stitching and the overall finish of the clothing item makes a big difference...which is why some items instantly appear to have better quality even though one may not be able to put a finger on it as to why.
Sho H i would LOVE a video on this!
There’s the issue with Chanel jewelry ... like not well made, yet pricey.
That is why they have fine jewelry section > more expensive and looks more well made and sophisticated
Only the 'rich' crowd understands that Chanel has different ranges of watches and jewellery for different customers/demographics. There is the tacky watch and jewellery range and then there is the fine and demure range.
LongBlack _ I’ve been to the Chanel stores here in Beverly Hills and the Westside Los Angeles and for some reason their range of jewelry both fine and tacky was woefully unimpressive🤔
i think it's just the warranty you are just paying for :(((
i agree with everything except the Chanel bag . as a designer , Chanel is hands down is the most elegant brand in existence so far . Everything is perfectly made and everything that they designed will always remain as classic .
the background is pretty it got me soo distracted
I think it made her look pretty.
It s to bright and a lot of focus points. She should be the focus point.
Can you talk about your partner? How you are classy at home? I mean it can be easy to be classy outside but at home it’s not the same
Alice gilbert Oh yeah. That is the real life.. When u r sick, when u have diarheia itc ;) Its easy to be sexy and classy when u r together once in a week for 3h ;)
Let’s respect Anna and her right to privacy. Some details about our lives, we are entitled to keep to ourselves.
She’s said previously that she’s not going to discuss her personal life.
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I so wish I'd had info like this when I was younger so I wouldn't have spent decades learning through errors and lacking confidence. Having spent the past 5 years working with the richest families in the world, I can attest that Anna's advice is on point.
As a watchmaker i agree with the "dont buy Gucci, prada etc". Just because i know it isnt worth it. Go and buy a watch that is simple, because it will never get out of style.
Search for a Company that produces the movement in the inside on their own. Like Rolex, patek.... If you dont want to buy something that cost that much. Buy a watch with a swiss movement.
Dont forget, watches last a lifetime if handled right! They need care! Like shoes, clothes etc. They need to see a watchmaker every 5-7 years. And that can cost up to 1000€. Even smaller good quality brands can cost about 500€ to get a revision! Those are things to think about, that is often forgotten. And those companies dont repair anymore, they switch broken things with new ones. If your braclett isnt good enough anymore in their eyes, they charge you 800€ more because you need a new one. And if you dont want to spend it, well you wont get it repaired. (Not all companies do that, but just let me tell you there are companies that do so)
Is it worth it to spend 8000€ or more on a watch? Yes.
Why? Those watches are machines that work every second if it is worn everyday. The work to create, build it takes a lot of time to create something that is precise and last a lifetime (even more). You can still get spare parts from watches that are 30 years old.
The quality is very high! everything has to be right or it wont work. So yes not only for the brand but also from technical perspektiv, it is worth it!
Excuse my beginner english, im working on it.
@@Hippy2021 it is true, a watch, especially a mechanical watch isnt as precise as a Phone or watch with a batterie in it (because of the frequency) but not only does men dont have a lot of "assesoires" option. A quick look on a watch is more polite in a conversation, than pulling out the phone. Or searching for a public watch in the near.
Your English is excellent! ♥️
@@Hippy2021 True..... but a lot of people, especially men, still like the classic look of a wristwatch. I think it's more polite to look at your wrist than to take out your phone, especially if a stranger is asking the time
@@malinasworld thank you 🤗 but i still need progress in my gramar and tenses 😁
I thought recently that the new trend in social media will be minimalism, because world gets crazy about all this expensive things from Instagram and people work hard to buy it or get depressed they cant afford it and the only trend which is needed now is to get normal... and here is your video 👌🏻 this is what ppl need now in this crazy world. Thank you for this video;)
It is more like spending for your body. Having a perfect skin and well trained body.
Hair by Kasia Świderska not when generation z is wearing hype beast clothing
I totally agree , great video : "less is more" !! Good Health and love each other is more important than all those luxury ! Sorry for my bad English ! Kind greetings from Marie in France !
You're right..I don't need a Lamborghini..but I want it anyway 🤷🏼♀️
Same 😁👍 And also a Maserati 😍
@@Hippy2021 I like sport cars better
Showing too much skin to me looks desperate.
💯 agree!!! So so many girls nowadays show way too much skin and say "I got I I can flaunt it" - no . What logic is that? So because you so call have it you have to show the world? Be confident and don't look for social validation, that's keeping it classy !
Minding your body, is also very classy
Feona Distler yup
Imen Bendjazia okay, but it’s their bodies, not yours. If someone feels more confident showing lots of skin that’s fine. If someone prefers to cover up more that’s fine too. Saying that girls who show skin only do it to look for social validation is unnecessary and rude. It’s frankly none of your business what other women do with their bodies. It isn’t a competition and it isn’t cool to pit yourself against other women.
Not minding your business also is desperate 🙃
I still love my Chanel flap bag. I don’t think it matters that many people have it. If my bag is the only thing that makes me stand out from the crowd I think the problem is not the bag. I like the look, it’s easy to dress up and down and complements my style. I did not buy it because it’s popular or for resale value. I just adore it and think it’s a total classic. What I am trying to say is that although I like these kind of guidelines you gave us I don’t really understand why people generally dislike wearing something that many others have as well. After all one can still be unique because of their style, personality and behaviour. Anyways, although I did not agree with everything, I still enjoyed the video.
Agree 🤝
You don’t want to go “cheese-mode” 😋 - funny
Many of the things you're stating are very accurate not only in social circles but in executive circles as well. Those who are more conservative in their accessorizing tend to be more approachable in general. While the "WOW FACTOR" may catch people's attention initially, the wiser, more conservative-thinking individuals tend to gain respect rather than just attention, which is better in the long-run.
You are so great. I am a middle aged woman and I would love to attend your school of affluence because you teach a woman “class”, no matter if their goal is to reach high society or not. Thank you for your videos.
Also wearing a big shoulder bag with formal wear, just because you paid thousands of dollars for the bag. Let's say a Chanel flap bag has no place at the opera house
Spot on
LV never full bag in an opera ! I see a lot of it in women wearing a full length gown , or formal dress.
Lol
kshiftkometh That’s incredibly offensive
@kshiftkometh OK I'm an ABC who always goes to at least 1 MetOpera show when I visit NYC because I grew up a classical musician. For asians from E. Asia, classical opera has recently gained huge popularity in the younger population (China specifically) but when they walk into Lincoln Center do they know every social code in and around the opera house? No, they are just tourists trying to see what opera should look like and experience the art
My boss was talking about how her sister is always buying the high end, luxury bags and watches and saying they're investments. Yeah, I'll keep my Sailor Moon wallet and the price of those luxury watches could go towards a downpayment for a house here in America. I would rather have a house than a watch.
I doubt she will get much (if any) return on those kinds of "investments."
Your head is in the right place. Put money towards that house and then towards retirement. 🙌🏻
Kirsten Irwin love sailor moon 🌙
I mean, they are, five years ago I bought a Chanel flap bag and one year ago I sold it 1000 dollars more expensive because it was a seasonal bag, so I wore it for a long time and then I sold it and gain more money, it was a win win for me. They are investments for those who knows about brands, people like you that is not involved in that kind of environment doesn’t know that. In conclusion your boss and his sister are right, if we invest in these kind of stuff it’s because we already have a house, believe me that the money we spend it’s money that we don’t need to survive.
Kirsten Irwin What if you already have the house. I don’t think a watch is #1 on anyone’s list but if you’ve checked all the other boxes why not treat yourself?
I appreciate Anna pointing out, to pay attention to our "why" we want to purchase something. It places us in an entire different, (and healthier),mindset within ourselves and within the buying process.💎
问自己“为什么”没有用，人是很冲动、很任性、很盲目、很自负的，不如来看看这些博主的忠告，采纳就是。
I’m not into designer logos. Why should I do their advertising for them and pay a premium for the privilege!? Now: I’ve inherited a number of fur coats (being the only female child of my Mom and her siblings). They were obviously very expensive and are in impeccable condition and all 40 to 80 (not a typo) years old and were of basic style. I can’t see the reason to simply toss them into the garbage so I do occasionally wear them when the temperature drops. I can’t bring myself to destroy them.
faye langille no reason to destroy. We can all appreciate and just not get any new fur coats
No. I agree. I would never buy a new one. Never had and I’m 70 so the chances are I won’t start now. I don’t even buy goose down or genuine fur trim. It gets very cold and damp here. The one I wear most is close to 80! Imagine! 80. It’s very heavy but good for those days here that are just at freezing and very, very damp. The cold reaches right to your bones.
You lucky one! Just wear them with pride of the ladies of your family.
People who blame others for wearing fur just have no real ladies in their family. Fur was the thing to wear back then. Enjoy it.
Thank you Inge. I appreciate your comment.
I love the way you pronunce "Nouveaux riches" it's so charming
Oh my God
When you have a millionaire husband and you are rich is easy to say that Michael Kors is mid-range watch. For some people is high not everyone is rich
Anna, dear - you gotta watch out sometimes where you hair falls. Occasionally it sits right on top of your microphone and affects the sound.
Just a friendly FYI. 😌
Elina L. Good one !☝️
She's probably trying to hide it in her hair, but you're right. She'd probably do much better with a shotgun mic on top of her camera or a podcast style mic out of frame
Anna, do make a video on top 10 classy women of high society nowadays. I know I’m gonna get hate comments but I like Melania Trump style...
Melanie has amazing taste,and dresses beautifully ,, but she over dress,, but that's her style xx
She is beautiful model. With good stylist Pierre Herve (sorry for potential misspelling.)
I agree she looks classy, but the real mark of a classy woman is someone that does not indulge or benefits from the manevolent actions of her husband and others
“Some of these shoes don’t even make sense to me.” Hahahaha. You’re so funny and so right ! No to the flashy trendy shoe. And the rest of your list is spot on as well.
Most luxury skincare brands don’t work. However I think everyone should try Korean skincare. It’s more steps but it truly works wonders for your skin.
strawberriesncandii essence is life changing!
My dad brought me my first. Chanel when I was in college and I became addicted...😂
Maybe your dad wants you to have high taste in fashion. He’s a good dad.
Buying from small boutiques in Europe is luxury for me - only 1 or 3 of such items exist in the world and the materials and craftsmanship is perfection. And it’s not even that expensive! A gorgeous red leather purse for $120