How to Navigate Modern Dating

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2023
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  • @HedgeFundCIO
    @HedgeFundCIO 7 місяців тому +38

    Listen to this man. As someone who has been through it all, only to find happiness starting at age 46, it is better to be single and enlightened than married and abused.

  • @theoneandonly3499
    @theoneandonly3499 8 місяців тому +54

    Everyone's replaceable. No one is irreplaceable.

    • @HemiChrysler
      @HemiChrysler 8 місяців тому +11

      I had only one father.
      He wasn't replaceable.

    • @dustysmoke4996
      @dustysmoke4996 8 місяців тому +8

      @@HemiChrysler Pretty sure they were referring to potential dates/mates.

    • @theoneandonly3499
      @theoneandonly3499 8 місяців тому +5

      @dustysmoke4996 Correct.

    • @arbiter8246
      @arbiter8246 8 місяців тому

      Is God replaceable?

    • @dustysmoke4996
      @dustysmoke4996 8 місяців тому +1

      @@arbiter8246 Sure. Lots of other ones out there eager for attention.

  • @cummins24421
    @cummins24421 8 місяців тому +38

    Re: Ladies Night, that lawyer woman was a complete dumpster fire. She was horrific.
    Also women that are really into you will absolutely turn off their social media for you. Last LTR did that for me without hesitation.

    • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
      @BrianWaller-qe7gr 8 місяців тому

      It must of been really bad that rich frank castled her

  • @Astuga
    @Astuga 8 місяців тому +13

    "How to Navigate Modern Dating"
    Like an iceberg.

  • @trewjohn2001
    @trewjohn2001 8 місяців тому +9

    Everyone needs to take more accountability for the people they let in their lives. If you think you’re a victim it removes any action or lack of action on your behalf that could have avoided that situation. People hate hearing this for some reason.

  • @stevec5657
    @stevec5657 7 місяців тому +7

    I once was supposed to meet up with this beautiful gal at a coffee shop.
    She showed up late and said "Sorry, I had to stop to pick up my antidepressant medicines". 😳
    And no, I didn't see her again. 😂

    • @knivgaffelskje
      @knivgaffelskje 2 місяці тому

      What if it was some medicine for a physical injury? People suffering from mental illnes can have a lot to offer in many ways. This is shallow and shows profound lack of understanding of life, people and the human condition.
      I am all for understanding female psychology and the dating scene etc., and swallowing that bitter medicine and not being naive. But christ, some of the comments here and on other channels are coming from shallow, boring men. I literally cringe at so many of these men, because I have met many like minded people in real life and I am so grateful I have some more depth and substance than this.

  • @Dwebs13
    @Dwebs13 8 місяців тому +1

    Great Vid Rich. Glad you put this out. Top Shelf bro’s-spin plates. Makes life easier in every aspect.

    • @bloop1022
      @bloop1022 8 місяців тому

      As long as you're upfront about that to the other person. People who want to be in hook up culture should stay with their own kind. But don't talk about how people invested in marriage or family should act cause that's a completely different world.

  • @periclescimon9954
    @periclescimon9954 7 місяців тому +1

    I love it Rich! You are exactly right!

  • @alex_tucker
    @alex_tucker 7 місяців тому +3

    "I intimidate men" usually means "I'm so unpleasant men don't want to be around me".

  • @carlosd3456
    @carlosd3456 8 місяців тому +2

    I love this dude!! 😂🤣🤣 He cracks me up but the best part is he speaks TRUTH!!! 🙌🏼

  • @6lu5ky86
    @6lu5ky86 8 місяців тому +32

    Courting women has become like working on a car that was way over engineered, the manual is in a foreign language and there are no seat belts. I'm really tired of all the convoluted tricks and tips flying all around.
    Thanks for the advice Rich. I'm still figuring all this shit out for the first time in my life and I'm in my 30s and haven't dated since 2007. Needless to say it's debilitating. Humans aren't supposed to be alone.

    • @Luigi931
      @Luigi931 8 місяців тому +4

      I understand, me too. Average guys are considered below average by women in 2023. Online dating has inflated so many expectations that virtually every younger millennial and gen z will spend the majority of their life alone.

    • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
      @BrianWaller-qe7gr 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Luigi931I’m 45, graduated high school in 1996. So I’ve spent 17/27 years of my adult life completely alone. Next year it will be 18/28

    • @DanielGoldMcduckRose
      @DanielGoldMcduckRose 8 місяців тому +3

      Most don’t even interest me the higher I level up compare lifestyles and see that they have a kid already. My time is limited as well.

    • @HoniTheCircleMaker13
      @HoniTheCircleMaker13 8 місяців тому

      Men ruined women through the concept of dating, and it will only get worse. Dating doesn't work. Only arranged marriages or supervised dates by the patriarchy work

    • @Luigi931
      @Luigi931 7 місяців тому

      1996 was a good year, I miss the 1990’s but I feel like American men are doomed, I’m not sure about other countries but women don’t respect men anymore and I can understand why. We’ve made life too easy for them, they don’t need us anymore. Think about it, if men didn’t hardly have a sex drive and women were always bugging us for sex, we would push them away a lot, we’ve got things to build and shit to deliver! How can we enjoy life without women? I can’t imagine women will “lower their standards”, I’m pretty sure hypergamy doesn’t go in reverse and I think the challenge for every single man is to learn how to love ourselves in this toxic man-hating society. Working less, going to the gym, and writing random thoughts has helped me, I recommend. 🍻

  • @riggingpots3453
    @riggingpots3453 7 місяців тому +2

    Cant say this enough background checks ...dated a chick who told me she was 28 background check said she was 42...background checks cost about 30 bucks. Well worth it

  • @szn1580
    @szn1580 6 місяців тому +2

    28 and never had sex. Never dated. Grew up poor shy and introverted

  • @Sam11747
    @Sam11747 8 місяців тому +16

    I went on a blind date with some under 5 foot bossgirl and she said, "I intimidate men". I laughed so hard and loud. She tried yelling and scolding me, and I laughed even harder. I almost pissed myself from all the laughing I did. She started crying, so I ended the date right then and left her in the restaurant while still laughing. She called me about 20+ times and left me about 15+ voicemail messages within about 4 hours. The messages she left went from anger, threats, questioning herself, apologizing, wanting to be with me right then, and kept escalating.

    • @alphaomega7433
      @alphaomega7433 8 місяців тому +2

      Okay guy🤣😂

    • @Astuga
      @Astuga 8 місяців тому

      The only intimitating about women is the thought about how they can ruin a mans life.

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 7 місяців тому

      Great story. I think she falls into the BPD category. All you lost was a few pesos on the date could have been much worse. Well played.

    • @chuckiegravesfield3170
      @chuckiegravesfield3170 7 місяців тому +1

      @@coloradomark2159 what's a pesos?

  • @N8DitHwtFTMCHS
    @N8DitHwtFTMCHS 7 місяців тому +5

    I went out with an „Executive“ Woman once. She seemed down-to-Earth and her profile pic was pretty accurate.
    She said she had a „slight headache“ from the night before, because it was „Wine Wednesday“. Later on she spoke of „Margarita Monday“ and „Tequila Thursday“.
    It sounded like she had no real hobbies besides going out and drinking after work.

  • @alextreeman7964
    @alextreeman7964 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank You 🎉

  • @nealmccoy5727
    @nealmccoy5727 7 місяців тому +4

    Dating western women is like rolling around in the trash expecting to find a diamond.
    Get your passports and stop listening to these gurus who charge 5k an hour to teach you to cater to boss babes.

  • @buddhaweatherby368
    @buddhaweatherby368 7 місяців тому +1

    Odds of survival at the secondary location if someone has bad intent suck. I am with Rich; grab a coffee and ask some questions in a very public setting until you have a solid read and feel like the risks are the standard variety of maybe wasted time and some minor hassles down the road, rather than being murdered checking out the northern lights. 🤔🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @anthonytokar3961
    @anthonytokar3961 8 місяців тому +8

    Girls who post sexy pics online and all the men posting there smiley faces and heart emotijs yeah.... no thanks.

  • @terrodar19
    @terrodar19 8 місяців тому +14

    Ive been going on dates every weekend… a LOT of single mothers. I do best with girls in their mid 20’s. im 35

    • @dustysmoke4996
      @dustysmoke4996 8 місяців тому +2

      I assume you're just looking to dip yer wick and nothing more with them? Hopefully...

    • @bloop1022
      @bloop1022 8 місяців тому +3

      Hook up culture ruins modern society. That's fine if that's what you're looking for. But you can't be complaining about relationships marriages or family cause your actions make you undeserving of those dedicated relationships. You reap what you sow

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 7 місяців тому +1

      I hear you mate. Can't hardly swing a dead cat without hitting s single mom.

  • @DanaDane559
    @DanaDane559 7 місяців тому +1

    This is how I navigate modern dating. No online dating. Face to face meets only. Does that limit the potential to meet & match? Yes! But it's a whole lot less disappointment, drama & heartbreak.

    • @juniorsanchez7441
      @juniorsanchez7441 7 місяців тому +1

      How do you meet potential partners before the face to face meeting?

    • @DanaDane559
      @DanaDane559 7 місяців тому

      @@juniorsanchez7441 I don't. Whenever I'm out, I tend to sit at the bar or counter. That places me near other people + the server. Little strategies like that are how I meet people & make connections. Face to face, there is much less room for fakery.

  • @drip369
    @drip369 8 місяців тому +2

    8:24 you need to get him on your show! I want to hear how in the world he got away from her to tell this story

  • @AthenaCannon
    @AthenaCannon 8 місяців тому +12

    I found it's hard to spin the plates. Currently I am spinning my plates with 2 younger chicks, I have higher SMVs than either of them, and both chicks are into me without knowing of the other chick's existence. Sounds like a good plate spinning right? Not really. I felt exhausting doing this. On a date with one of them while the other one texting me, when I start to text I am so close to send it to the wrong chick, I am only invite one of them into my home at a time, I had to split my emotions, etc. I don't feel like handling all these logistics. Any thoughts on spinning the plates? Or am I just doing it wrong.

    • @bigaanks
      @bigaanks 8 місяців тому

      just be unavailable a few times if you're exhausted, eventually they'll understand there are other chicks and they have to compete to get you

    • @dustysmoke4996
      @dustysmoke4996 8 місяців тому +3

      Well, obviously, it's not for everyone. If just two plates is overloading your capabilities and exhausting you, maybe just spin one at a time until you get better at it, close out one situation before you try out the next. Making the spinning consecutive, instead of simultaneous ;-)

  • @charleshunt3806
    @charleshunt3806 8 місяців тому +3

    My advice is don’t navigate to 100 and dating market unless you’re in the top 20 or 10% work on yourself first then do it if you want to other than that it’s not worth it because you’re only gonna get low value crappy women that are not worth your time but if you’re at the top 2010% you can sift through them and as Rich says whatever cream rises to the top you pick thembut be careful about it. Those women can screw over just as much as any of the other ones.

  • @vfunkeraable
    @vfunkeraable Місяць тому

    7:00 I LOL so hard

  • @Oliver-zk2il
    @Oliver-zk2il 7 місяців тому +1

    To make States change divorce laws is an uphill battle. But to change the prenup protections state by state is more realistic. We need "Iron Prenups". Mine is mine, yours is yours, 50/50 custody, no alimony. Once she signed it, every court should respect it. If we achieved that, many more men would get married.

  • @chastheplayer8367
    @chastheplayer8367 8 місяців тому +6

    I don’t date older woman…i set boundaries quite quickly…
    Im not interested in woman with young kids..I’m not daddy day care..
    I enjoy my peace..
    Im the alpha..

  • @chuckiegravesfield3170
    @chuckiegravesfield3170 7 місяців тому +3

    "date a bunch of women simultaneously in a non monogamous fashion" good luck with that fellas

  • @improvisedsurvival5967
    @improvisedsurvival5967 8 місяців тому +4

    You don’t even have to ask questions they will tell on themselves eventually. Never bring them to your house. Never let them see the car you drive. You need the first date to be strictly anonymous. In fact I’d lie about my name . It’s just a chat for first date and maybe a coffee. You need this time to first see if she’s someone your interested in and second see if she’s not batshit crazy. Dating to me is absolutely dog shit though. Waste of time.

    • @XxGyromancerXx
      @XxGyromancerXx 7 місяців тому

      There are some out there who hide the batshit crazy fairly well. Don't hit a home run until you're 100% certain she's good enough for it. Keep it around 2nd and 3rd base until then.

  • @joebrowne4426
    @joebrowne4426 8 місяців тому

    Does anybody know where Gonzalo Lira is these days?

    • @user-kb3dz2bp4c
      @user-kb3dz2bp4c 8 місяців тому

      I've wondered if he's in prison in Ukraine

    • @romans8024
      @romans8024 8 місяців тому

      i believe he's fine, but he's there. i don't think they're interested in non-russian speakers. At least you can check how many western reporters / media-something / authors are in those prisons. He doesn't have ties with Russia, nor does he whistle against the regime to ukrainian public (which everybody is adviced against in naazi populated environment).😊

    • @user-ov9eu4gx3z
      @user-ov9eu4gx3z 8 місяців тому

      He's having fun spending all the money that his simp subscribers sent to him. He's probably having a good laugh while he's doing it. Remember, he is a writer. His story of being held in a prison and his eyeball getting scratched by another inmate was a story.

    • @joebrowne4426
      @joebrowne4426 8 місяців тому

      @@user-ov9eu4gx3z It did cross my mind that it's all a fabrication. He'll write a book about it or do something to earn more money.

  • @josephwk8757
    @josephwk8757 8 місяців тому +2

    Stop categorizing yourself and become your own master in your life. No one cares what artificial box your created ans what you advertise yourself. In the end of the day as long you got your (stuff) together, make money, and are healthy. You are doing fine, the one person in life will show up as long you work on yourself.

  • @shanehester5317
    @shanehester5317 7 місяців тому

    a sasquatch

  • @improvisedsurvival5967
    @improvisedsurvival5967 8 місяців тому +3

    I don’t even date seriously I got a trash bag that comes by when I wanna get a piece of azz. I don’t want a serious relationship with any woman. I don’t lose any sleep over any of this anymore. Avoid dating and get a bang buddy.

  • @wilkinsnl
    @wilkinsnl 8 місяців тому +2

    Less likely to wake up in a bathtub full of ice more likely to end up in a #metoo issue I would say.

    • @UpInYourGrills
      @UpInYourGrills 8 місяців тому

      💯 I was pulled into one and never in a million years would I have expected this. Women are unhinged nowadays and it's the simps and femiNazis who enable this trashy behavior.

  • @sebastianrubio928
    @sebastianrubio928 8 місяців тому +1

    Just use your common sense, don't think with your dick, think with your brain, see how good or bad the situation is. I mean, all these situations, it's so damn bad.
    The red pill serves as a good base line, but I think it's all just common sense.
    As you said, situational awareness, use it for everything and everyone, for love, for friends, for family, for strangers.

  • @vinniedeluca2188
    @vinniedeluca2188 8 місяців тому +1

    Jazmine had Rich’s number, literally kicked his ace on every topic which is why he doesn’t like her

  • @michaelesq.atpcfii.9862
    @michaelesq.atpcfii.9862 8 місяців тому +3

    dating today is a shit show. I'd like to see some reality dating episodes....... 'how to get a woman to pay the bill, and still get laid"....OR ....."how not to have to listen to an hour of non-stop bullshit and still get laid".....OR..... "what to do if your stuck on a date with a diagnosed BPD, bipolar, narcissistic, depressed woman, and still get laid"....

  • @craigsmith9876
    @craigsmith9876 4 місяці тому

    Your assuming thst women are going to be honest about the reason for their breakup highly unlikely.

  • @jasonrocksvegas
    @jasonrocksvegas 8 місяців тому

    Selfish behavior #1 red flag. 99% of problems.

  • @Junoj101
    @Junoj101 8 місяців тому

    true, 90% of all your problems you actively created yourself.

  • @valseyer4486
    @valseyer4486 7 місяців тому

    Playas play on, get ur $$$$$$ and yes you can pick up a girl who weights 200lbs. But, if you can't there's creatine pre workout 😂😅.

  • @sincityinfinity6255
    @sincityinfinity6255 8 місяців тому

    I understand where you come from on the intimidation Fred but let’s be honest. Ronda Rousey tosses you around even though you have a size and weight advantage

    • @bigtreecombatacademy2927
      @bigtreecombatacademy2927 8 місяців тому

      Nah man she is under 150 pounds
      I used to spar with a bunch of mma pros and the chicks were terrible and insanely weak
      I’m a light heavyweight for mma which is around 92kg

    • @sincityinfinity6255
      @sincityinfinity6255 8 місяців тому

      You’re probably right, women have a huge biological disadvantage. Demetrius Johnson weighs around the same as Ronda and fought at 125. He’d beat the hell out of Fred easily

  • @SuperNomad9
    @SuperNomad9 8 місяців тому

    Simple answer: Dont participate.

  • @JagnarLothbrok
    @JagnarLothbrok 8 місяців тому +1

    Rich i rock with you. You have a classy/stoic appeal that other people in this space dont have. A sort of "credibility"if you will.
    That said, you lost your composure last Wed. Jazmen actually had a grown woman convo, unlike the bimbos in this space usually offer. I wanted you to "get her", but instead was let down by your inability to converse with her points. The "i didnt come prepared" thing, was a bad look. You are too old, too experienced, too "knowledgeable/accomplished" to use that as an excuse. To make up for it, have her on again, and be prepared. And do what i hoped you would the first time, and win. Bc she took the W. You took the L for pouting and not debating.

    • @Bravefit
      @Bravefit 8 місяців тому +3

      You’re wrong. Rich actually won massively by not only further exposing how wretched American women are, but also how to deal with them - you CANCEL them when they’re disrespectful ie. Kevin Samuels.🙏🏾

    • @TheHumanRanger
      @TheHumanRanger 8 місяців тому

      Wow, if you are actually paying attention you would have noticed that she tried to seem smart with what she was saying and some of her points were valid, but then she wouldn't listen to any kind of criticism of any kind or would explain properly what her points had to do with the subject at hand. And then when Rich tried to get her back into the program, repeatedly, she had a temper tantrum and tried to control the situation because she's crazy. She's a crazy B, she has serious problems, and she's got to fix them or no guy in their right mind is ever going to want to get anywhere near her. That's a fact

    • @Kwanka69
      @Kwanka69 8 місяців тому

      I agree with the essence of this post in that Rich did come off flustered at times and seemed to agitated over a particular stat involving college educated women and divorce. That sequence made Jazmin look more prepared and more knowledgeable in that moment. Overall it wasn’t a L for Rich and he didn’t pout. The conversation was dead on arrival because he was asking an OF girl what men can do better and how she can be a better woman which is a silly ask to begin with a an OF girl. This is why Rich says in this clip he is done with those kinds of women on Ladies Night.

  • @JakeJDM
    @JakeJDM 8 місяців тому

    Woah don’t be hating on the tall girls 😂

  • @sanchozarchicha1064
    @sanchozarchicha1064 7 місяців тому

    Pay for it