5 Signs You Need A DIVORCE
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Life Coach Landry I was married 3 years,2a lowdown dirty cheater a real playboy slept with my friends women in the neighborhood and even a young prostitute! thank God I didn't catch a disease from that slime ball he thought he was God gift 2 women I got out of that night mare! u was a,sweet lady in church worked hard on my job and deceived by a playboy I learned my lesson
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Sign number 1. You’re on this video.
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Lol yes 👍
Yes
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haha exactly!
The best way to avoid any of these problems is to never get married and get a good dog.
Marriage = Slavery
Mgtow = Freedom
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Even a good hotdog will do.
My Dog is the Love of my life not my Husband.
@@southwest3671 hahha yesss hotdogs are incredibly great.
@@longislandny696 good for you.
YOU WATCHING THIS VIDEO. PROBABLY. A REALLY GOOD SIGN🎭
Im not married though)
divorced for two years. I just don't have time for games anymore
Yep. All that stupid irrational behaviour. Cutting contact, ignoring calls and messages. Lol some ppl are just twisted
Hello! I agree.
Christian a men! I agree!!😁😀😂
How did you now it was time for divorced?
After 30 years of sexless marriage. Everyone of the signs except the cheating part. When I think about being single I don't think about going out and hanging out with friend ( I dont have any friends) and getting laid. I think about building a cabin for myself. Hunting / fishing / camping and working in the garage and having a garden.
Richard Misel jr 25 years here. Same. I think I just need some space. See who the hell am I? This is so hard!
Richard Misel jr 30 years of no sex??? wtf is wrong with you??? Kids or not, make yourself disappear...
Suanne Pool are you fuckin kidding me?? 25 years?? Get out before you have to date in a retirement home!
Kwisatz Haderach it wasn’t always this way. It slowly turned into this. There’s way more to it. We are now separated as of 8 days ago.
Suanne Pool Great! Now you have 25 years to make up for. Enjoy!
Better yet , how about the 50 signs that tell you that you should not get married. Then you don't have to get a divorce at all.
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I feel like once you look for these channels...you are 80% ready and your mind is made up😔
Omg. Every point You made I'm living it!
Lucy Williams me too 😢 I’ve got to get my nerve up to just do it. After almost 25 years. I’m just not feeling anything with him. It sucks starting over!
Lucy Williams me too. I slept with a woman (2012) whose connected to my wife's family before we were married (2013) and she has not budged on the moving forward in forgiveness. I pray you and yours the best though.
@@TheBraxton08 wow...that is fucked up. You “made a mistake” even before the marriage started.. obviously you should see into the future....
Run dude. Just run. Fuck it, you can’t, and won’t ever “win”. Just run
My spouse is emotionally and mentally abusive. It's to the point where I'm actually contemplating suicide.
I have two kids keeping me somewhat sane and grounded. I've already had heart attacks and strokes because of the stress. Initially I wanted marriage counseling to which she refused but now I just dont want to deal anymore, I also feel dead emotionally. I dont even want to date anyone else. I just feel like I need to be alone for my own sake
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Jesus loves you and he will never leave or forsake you. Don't harm yourself, ok?
@@mw8413 Thanks I hear you
Suicide is selfish! Walk away for yourself and children. Don't look back but look forward.
MGTOW- Men Going Their Own Way
Please, look into MGTOW and get some perspective on the issue. They helped me a lot.
23yrs and it’s Done. Sad but has to happen! Why can’t men stay faithful without comparing. Thanks to social media love almost don’t exist anymore
It depends on the men you're dating
Out of all the things I have done in my life ... my biggest regret is getting married by far the worst decision... feels like I carry around weight on my shoulders everyday... I don’t know if I’ll ever come to peace with this... I have gotten out of a lot of things in my life but I know this one will take me to the grave regretting it
Same here..
Love your honesty! Its refreshing. I'm sorry though...and I can relate. My marriage did bring two great kids into the world but making the right choice in a marriage partner is perhaps thee most important choice we can make in life. Of course so one really knows for sure if their partner isn't going to turn into a jerk narcissist (or whatever the case may be), but in the vast majority of cases, red flags were ignored from the very beginning. I know I ignored them. Instead I would rationalize them that I could either "fix him," (Hahah! No people! This is impossible! You can't) or I was so hell bent on having children with someone I saw as a great genetic match that I went into complete denial. Settling for someone you know deep down is not the right person for you, will only cause a life of misery, and worse, misery for your innocent children. You cannot fix toxic people who refuse to look at themselves or work on themselves in order to grow. They don't want to because they lack any capacity for give and take or true caring for another person. Don't ignore red flags. They are there for a reason, and to teach us to trust our gut/instincts/intuition, which when we look back on, most of the time we realize were right!
@@kristi1949 I’m doing my best to be a good husband and raise my children … but you said it best …people will not change .. not to be arrogant or cocky but she has a good man and I honesty feel like she came up I didn’t … but I guess I’ll see it through … but the regret never goes away lol.. but my mission is to warn people n make sure I tell the truth to whoever Is thinking of marriage based off temporary and vain things
Same here
nothing can be done when your the only one trying ive been trying 9 years without change he is the selfish one his silence except to turn everything into blaming me gaslighting kills people its evil and causes suicide leave the oppression and live at this point i would rather live under a bridge and die of starvation that sounds like heaven to me
Thank you I’ve been stuck in a circle for 5 years and I need this divorce
Same. I think I need to stop being a p*ssy and just end it.
I’ve been with her so long. She’s naturally beautiful but cold. I just wanna be happy but it’s impossible at times. It’s hard to be without her but that light at the end of the tunnel is dim.
Thanks for this video, I'm in a situation where I really don't know what to do.
me too.
Me too!!! I don't have big problems as the ones someone mentioned but arguing all the time, different plans for life, He is too selfish... Not communication... I feel that I want to run away which I am kind of doing it... Of course that has impacted our intimacy which is almost non existing
@@anavazquez4518 same here.. he's not abusive but rather robotic and I don't learn anything much from him and I am someone who like intellectual intimacy.. we have been separated for over 8 months now contemplating divorce but I am frightened to take a huge step but I also know I ll never be completely happy and myself with him
Same here, I’m just staying with her for my Son who loves me far more than her , she doesn’t even give him enough time and attention, . I’m not sure what to do
Sign #1 you are married
23 years and I’m over it! I was a teen when we married. I married him as soon as I graduated high school. I’m 39 now and seems like my life has passed me by. He don’t do anything for me romantically or financially and I pay half of all the bills . I’m the one trying to push him to see the bigger picture and he never supports my goals. He’s complacent, stagnant and never takes responsibility. I thought he would grow but my thoughts kept me for over half of my life. Health reasons have me afraid to move on because financially I can’t afford insurance.
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It’s time for me to go!
Im alsp thinking the same 😢😢😢
is this audio only? I see no picture.
I continue to look for honest advice and feedback from other’s who have experienced something similar. Long story short, for almost 18 years, I have been married to someone who has narcissistic traits. Our marriage has been struggling for a few years now; about 2 months ago we attended our 19th marriage counseling session together. At that session I told my wife that somehow our marriage needs to drastically get better quickly, or I feel we need pull the plug and end our marriage since we have been going to marriage counseling for far longer than we probably should have been going; and not much, if anything, improved. Part of me was hopeful that this was going to be the warning shot and my wife would finally hear me; that she would finally understand that I am done with the narcissistic type of behavior, done with the mean comments, the high level of control, and being made out to feel like I am never doing the right thing, never doing it quickly enough, etc. Unfortunately, the few weeks after that counselling sessions things did not improve, they actually seemed worse. For example, one morning I started her car so it was warm for her when she left for work (which I do for her quite often). I wasn’t looking for a pat on the back, but she very rudely said “oh, thank you so much for everything you do”. One day I went and bought a snow shovel and salted and cleaned the ice from the sidewalk. Instead of getting any type of thanks or appreciation, she told me that it is so interesting that I had time to go to Dollar General (which is about 3 miles from our house) and buy a new shovel and salt. I got criticized for doing laundry and putting in on ‘her side’ of the bed and not having it moved off of the bed so she could lay down at night without having to touch laundry. I got criticized for having the space heater on in the living room. I got criticized for eating all the lasagna; when in fact I put it in a Tupperware container so she could take it in her lunch. I got questioned on going for a walk along the river. It was just relentless verbal attacks. By no means am I a perfect husband, I am far from it, and I have made plenty of mistakes, but I have always tried to be loving and supportive and take care of her and our kids. I have dealt with this type of narcissistic behavior for a very long time. Just another example, I recently learned why I was in severe pain for a couple of days this past summer; I was passing a 6mm kidney stone. While I was in pain, I got in a hot bath to try and alleviate some of the pain. I recall vividly her making a mean comment that I was in the bath while she was doing something for the kids. I have agonized over the decision for many months, and probably years now, but about 5 weeks ago I asked for divorce and have been moved out since that time. She said it wasn’t fair and that I blindsided her, even though we have attended those 19 marriage counseling sessions together; I reluctantly agreed to separation for now. For the last five weeks, I have been buried in loving texts, pictures of our kids and of some fun memories in the past, she sent me the wedding song that we danced too, she has been sending me quotes from the bible, she asked that I listen to various books on making marriages work, etc; she asked that I meet with our Deacon at church and attend a church marriage weekend retreat. She has buried me in a variety of ‘tactics’ to try and get me back home; she has thrown our vows in my face multiple times and said that I am destroying the kids by moving out. I have been holding strong and have not caved by moving back in; recently she has been all over the board with her comments and emotions. Seems silly talking about, but we own a car and a truck. For the last 5 weeks I have drove the truck and she has had the car. A couple of days ago she said she wants the truck, which is no problem, but I asked her why; she said she doesn’t need to answer why, she just wants it. She said she plans on keeping the truck for a few weeks since its not fair that I got to drive it for a few weeks (I don’t know the intentions of this, other than some form of power play, or maybe knowing if she has the truck, I won’t be able to use it to do things I enjoy). She also seems to be getting controlling with the kids; she told me that I am the one who decided to leave them, so its not fair for me to ever get both of our kids overnight while she is alone, since she didn’t decide to leave. I reminded her that I didn’t leave the kids, that I only left her. Shortly after making these types of comments, she follows up with a load of very nice loving texts. This is all extremely hard for me, because she occasionally acts nice and says she is willing to try and change, but seems all over the place with her comments and emotions; I’m afraid I will fall back into the trap. Here recently she has been very frequently saying “I Love You”; almost over using the words. She has made multiple attempts to try and be affectionate, which in a normal circumstance would be fine, but not after we are separated. I worry greatly about our kids, I feel she is subjecting them to a ton of sadness and possibly emotional manipulation, with the intentions being of playing the victim card in front of the kids and trying to make them feel bad for her and make me out to look like the bad guy (she told me she is always crying in front of the kids…and even yesterday when I saw her she cried multiple times in front of the kids). Even though I asked for divorce, I still do not wish her unhappiness; I just want everyone to get along and be nice and supportive with everyone. To make matters even more frustrating, recently she told me she was offered a job in Michigan (about 5 hours from where we currently live in Ohio). I am settled here in Ohio now, have a good job here, etc. I am happy for her that she was offered the job, I know that is more what she wants to do versus her current job, so that part makes me happy; but come on, wanting to relocate now while we are separated. I feel like she is doing everything she can to try and make things difficult for me, especially with our 2 kids. It’s just very inconsistent, it can change by the day, or even by the hour; sometimes she is sweet and nice, then there are plenty of moments of comments and actions that just aren’t nice. Random place to insert this comment….but I just thought it was odd; she claims to want the marriage to work, but considering uprooting to Michigan. I manage all of our finances, a few days ago she said she wants all of our bank account log in information. Which is fine, no problem, it is both of our money; I just thought it was a little odd. Not sure the intentions behind it. Maybe just wanting to see how much is there, if I have been taking any, what I have spent money on; who knows?! I’m struggling on the path forward, so any words of advice would be greatly appreciated.
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God bonded you too marriage no other reason . Im married 20 years my wife m
lefted me two times I didn't beat her nore did treat her like shit as she said .But should pray for her no matter how bad things are . Divorce I cant she took off and I have to address for divorce of her . Papers have to be served in her hand not the news paper publication that can backfire on you . the courts stick for women in America not the men .
Never getting married is the best way to avoid all these problems
Marriage is a bucket of emotional_ physiological disorder
Don't want to go out. Would rather just be with my son. I'm sick of her emotional abuse and sick of her acting out in front of him. I've got to man up. She needs help. My heart goes out, but he is more important!
Get out, the trauma of that emotional abuse will outweigh the trauma of a divorce. She can co parent but when it’s in the same house, he has no safe place.
@@jillmarie3841 thank you. That is how I feel in my heart. I hate to do it, but I agree with you. I will be speaking with an attorney in the short term. I have been keeping a journal of instances for months now. Send prayers.
@@jillmarie3841 he'll be okay in the long run. I found out she had been back to old habits and drove him into a ditch. Didn't say a word, but took the keys. Then when I had to say something because her keys were gone, her gears started spinning. I ended up with false allegations against me and an $87.5k bond. I know the truth will come out and I have had so much support through this. Please send prayers!
You forgot the most important one abuse. I've been in an abusive marriage almost 14 years. Left once, went to therapy and not much has changed I thank god. We don't have children. Please put DV on your list
This is *so* spot on for me.
20 years with mine.
I put on a facade of happiness in public, but deep inside I'm crying very hard. 🎭
He doesn't believe in divorce and calls me crazy when I ask for one. 😥
That makes me feel terrible and I know I have potential for someone better. 😭
I already threw away my ring 2 years ago. 😢
But no transportation, no money and no way to get one. 😢
1st reason is me and secretly I do that *all* the time with my last boyfriend in my mind only. 😏
My mom says he's a jerk, tons of times, but neither one of us can help each other with the fees of getting a divorce.
He wouldn't sign papers either unless forced to by the court, so..
Sad and in a cage forever. 😖
Thanks for posting.
Michigan USA
Peace ✌
But You don’t legally need his permission for a divorce??
Closely evaluate your situation indeed ! When you are married...one should NOT be cheating ! In addition, you would NEVER blame your wife for the torture and death of your infant DAUGHTER especially when she has stepped up to the plate for you constantly ! You do NOT " kick someone when they are down " ! Who does that ? I divorced in 2007 and the damage that was done behind the scenes was brutal ! My life has been horrible !!
Wait what???
I cannot say that my marriage is bad just my husband is strange! He can spend much money for me in a day but anytime i ask him to give me money for groceries he become angry and start lectures about money managing! Asian Men are crazy 😂😂😂 seriously! Somebody can spend in big things but he cannot spend in important things he prefer to bring by himself anytime he remembers it! Some men are really affected by the eclipse of the moon 😂😂😂 Astaghfirullah! When we fight we fight much we say painful words but in spite of this we show our love and caring to each other... i dont know if this is normal or not but inshallah may God guide us right path and forgive us amen! May God bless and put love respect and mercy in all married couples heart around the world amen ya rabb!
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Truths:
1. Pure fact. I enjoy being alone, hate going home when she's there, and enjoy when she's gone.
2. I hate my wife touching me. I push her away.
3. Emotionally cheating, yes. When she gave up on me, I found support elsewhere.
4. I have never actually seen a long future.
5. I quit caring years ago. We both changed, but in the opposite way. I advanced my career, made improvements to myself and she doesn't like those changes.
Thank you for the evaluation. It helps. I've been questioning myself for years.
I’m shocked how few videos there are that children can show their parents telling them to get a divorce.
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Happily divorced. Best decision I ever made
@Ron Garvin man I agree with every word
@Ron Garvin i wish you were my father. I love those rules. Omg buddy i wasted so much time energy and money chasing women. I learned the hard way to chase goals not women
What if you're married but want to be alone? Not dating someone else, not married to someone else. Living alone, or maybe with pets.
That's what I want
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My partner is selfish. He will be mad if my mom asks us to buy something from the shop. He said I think about my family needs most of the time and sometimes forgot of our own. There's this one time I forgot to buy cooking oil and noodles. #sigh. I feel like he wants me to not help my family and he think it's just us in this world. And I will need to ask or told him to be nice to my family but he was so nice to his family that his attitude turned like a pets. He can have a chit chat with his family but not mine, he will remain silent the whole time. Secondly, sometimes I bring him to somewhere, he will be mad at me. It's like we can only go to one place in one day. So, there's this fear of me asking him to bring me here and there. I'm so stress and I don't feel like I'm being treated as a wife. Let me know what you think?
That's my sorry
@@comfortmepha5113 Ok. Thanks.
Ali Arsenal to 2a marriage counselor if u love him and want 2 make the marriage work out
@@paulettelittle7500 I told him about that and he agreed but we never had time(because of work) to really go see a counselor. Maybe we should find some time to do it. It's really painful when someone you love needed to be taught of loving your own family too. I feel like I am forcing him but it needed to be done because I love my own family too.
Ali Arsenal u have 2 do what's best 4 u I was in a horrible marriage he was a big time cheater I got out! after 2 in a half years I couldn't c myself with that man anymore but if u believe in God he will help u pray ok 😁😁😁😁😁
This i needed to hear.i love my husband but he is a insecure person with so much emotional and mental abuse..I have been thinking of walking away but maybe feel pity and has so much fear about divorce..He just dont care you know...and this aint going anywhere and we are just 2 years turning 3 now
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Same here
I am divorcing my husband now,he makes me cry and I feel inferior all the tym,I don't even have anywer to start,I used to depend on him ,I'm a student at the University on my final year,no fees no food .just don't know how I'm going to survive but I trust God has a way
May God bless you and guide you right path sister inshallah
how r u now
All 5 of these are basically my life right now. My wife has become a dread to be around. The only thing she does consistently is constantly complain about how awful every aspect of her life is. I have wanted a divorce for awhile and tbh I never really wanted to get married to begin with, I only did it because I wanted to create financial stability for our daughter. We dont have any family in the state where we live and neither of us make enough money to live on our own. I either have to deal with living a financially stable life in an absolutely miserable marriage or live broke with a roommate and have to deal with child custody and/or potential alimony disputes, etc. At times I've tried to mindfuck myself into thinking this is normal and every marriage is like this but something just feels off. Life shouldn't be like this, but I dont know how to break my fear of change. I dont know what the next step is to living as a divorced father and losing everything I have. It's a difficult choice to make.
You get anything figured out?
Yep, checked out a very long time ago.
You forgot one of the most reasons to get divorced is when you in an abusive relationship
Myself and Wife has been going thru a cycle of pain all these years. I’m 33. She’s 24. I have 3 kids. We are separated since 2016. I was a bad Husband at the initial stage because I couldn’t let go of her past. She has terrible past which tormented me even in my dreams. I love her. And I still do. I just couldn’t accept my love being shared around. There’s this thing in me because I was also brought up from a insecure family. Thus making me even more insecure with her and raking up her past day in and out. Finding faults with her and linked all I can was because the root causes was her past. I was selfish. I was stupid. I am retarded for even bringing up her past. I accepted her thought that I could forgive her but I couldn’t. Fast forward to years after our marriage, we have our 3rd kid. Yeah, I’m a motherfucking sex machine and I’m Asian. Back to the story, we have 3 kids and I find myself drifted away from her as time goes. She moved out on our quarrels. She went night life. She went even to her mother place but got chased out due to her abnormal unusual late night attics. She became a stronger drinker than she used to. Going nights out with friends 3-4 times a week. I shall not divulge more. It’s heartbreaking. Right now after 3 years I’m still seeing my kids all these time. Fetching them to school and picking them from school and rushing to work. Cook for them and do their laundries. Shower them and pack their school bags the next day. I’m worn out. Totally shagged out. At many occasions I thought of ending my life. I don’t have a life. I don’t drink like I used to. I do not have any friends anymore especially devoting 99% of my time to my kids. I have nobody to talk to anymore. Until this very day I’m still struggling. I’m still waiting for her. But today I’ve saw her social media’s and she’s still enjoying her life and knowing so many different guys. It’s so obvious they only want that Pussy of hers. I as a husband on paper can only pray to God and open her eyes. I was depressed and I still am. I’ve lost all sense of direction and I’m so tired seeing my kids. I’m hanging on because they are my responsibility. I might be a jerk who rake up her past but I certainly do not deserved being ignored for 3 years. I kid myself she will changed and be back. But it didn’t happened. I pray hard and cry hard to Lord Jesus as I’m a backslider I pray that one day I can find a partner who can motivate me and be strong. Someone who understands me and show me love. I’m dying for that love. I hope u guys pray for me as tmr I’m going to the family court and initiate divorce proceeding. This is the first time in my life I’ve finally make my decision after seeing her social media is so active with different guys. I can swear for my whole family life despite having a dick stand so often, I never once insert my dick onto another Pussy. For this imconfident. I’m giving up this marriage. I’m letting God handle my pain. My sorrows and my disaster. I’m asking Jesus to give me strength and make me a better person. Most important right now I want to provide a stable shelter for my 3 kids. My life has changed. I no longer need friends. My friends are my children. I love them. They are my responsibility.
i feel your pain... may god be with you he is the only savior for us..and hope god will compensate you on all your pains and loses.
what should i do? i want to live a life time with him , but feeling lonely due to religion and think of the futures ..im really sick of it .
Deepak Chand same..
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The screen is black
What if I just want to leave? But he doesn't want a divorce?
Adriana Jimenez leave b happy
Well did you take a bow , till death do us part
Yes his touch literally grosses me out. I have the desire for other men. I'd rather be alone then be next to him.
It’s time for me to go 👌🏾
Is the screen supposed to be black?!?!
The Joker Box don’t be racist
The first two things is what's happening in my marriage the last time we had sex was literally 3 years ago he will not go to marrige counseling been married 10 years this July.
The most informative video on this subject !!!! Thanks
Great, guess we're done. 🙃
I love my husband but he doesn't understand what is needed to have a family. We don't have future,no planning..its just work,eat and sleep. I want to laid a good foundation for my children (as much as I can).It's been long since I laughed sincerely when am with him. We never have a good talk. All our fight and talks end with me crying alone while he will sleep soundly. All I am afraid is I might not have my baby's custody.
Same story
We have not even been married two years and I hate having sex with him. A lot has happened over these two years and I feel like it was a mistake getting married in the first place. =/
Amazing video, really helpful to make a decision
I came from a conservative raise(asian) my husband is(American) make story short we drink whisky then we fought each other really bad lasted 4-5 hours I think we need a divorce
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I am definitely ready to go. All 5 signs in spades. No cheating, tho. However, how does a 64 year old disabled lady, "Just go?" What will I live on? Will my half of the retirement be enough? Where will I go with the pets that I have, which I will not give up? It just isn't that easy. I cannot work.
Withdrawn 20 bucks or more every paycheck and save it somewhere either at a family members you can trust or a great hiding spot. Get another account you can keep secret as in no mail to your home. Eventually you will have enough to leave and you can look for a room to rent that accepts animals or you can apply now for low income housing. Aka it’s biased off your income. But apply now because it can take years to get in.
@@mytube6538 This is great advice, however, by the time I wait 10 years, he will probably be dead. He is a heavy smoker, and he drinks. Both of our dads were already dead by age 65 from smoking. I know this sounds awful, but I just know that the minute I lose my house, and leave him, he will drop dead. I am going to counseling because our insurance covers it. We are trying hard to get along. We will see what happens.
petmom ful okay in that case than less then 2.00 a month you can get a life insurance policy on him and end up with at least 350,000
Hmmm do you regret not divorcing him earlier in life?
Why is the screen black
Hit all 5...
My wife 20 years ago told me she wasn’t taking my last name days before we got married. Said she would hyphenate it and then later take it legally ...like the young idiot I was, I believed it. My own biological son doesn’t even have my last name and he’s now a successful 29 year old RN....I WANT A FUCKING DIVORCE NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I was married for 30 years, raised 3 adult children with one boy age 12 and now separated five years Just post that says that she never remarried me
Stupid voice to text. . . I meant to say she said she never loved me for all the years that we were married. I knew we were having tremendous problems but I am very loyal and I don’t quit but I had to also learn that some people simply lack the capability to meet our expectations and furthermore God has given everyone the gift of free choice. I wish I could understand her better to make her happy but she has to find her own happiness. Yes very sad that she chooses not to communicate to me and other members of our family, so I now feel it must be a form of psychological sickness on her part.
Yes I feel num and I am sick of my wife's constant criticism of everything I do, say,think,wair,and hold dear to me ,even if i try to be kind to her i am wrong, but i have tryed to talk to her but she will not except that she is making me feel very sad and unhappy, she just says I have dutys as a married man ?? I am very depressed 😞 with this what should I do??? To make her understand its over .?????
Great video
1: I hated being single. It's a long, boring, lonely time in everyone should rightfully hate. I detest the thought of being single, but I might as well be single now with how little affection she gives me, when it's positive attention at all.
2: Her touch did not make my skin crawl. I savored every touch from her, in part because there were so few. Every time it did happen I thought, "This is it, she's going to want to sleep with me and it will become a pattern before long." That did not happen, we had sex once in a year-and half long marriage and equal time before that. Perhaps she's gay and doesn't realize it, or deep, deep in the closet.
3: I went on a date with another young woman years ago instead of my now wife. I grew up a great deal since then, and was never tempted to cheat.
4: I did see a future with her. Even today, dreams without her in my life feels wrong.
5: I do care. I love her, I want what's best for her, I would do anything for her, but she doesn't care about me. I doubt she ever did deep down.
I hated the idea of divorce since my parents divorced, but here I am. Life's funny that way, isn't it?
I am in the same boat as you right now. Currently forced to go and file for divorce even though I don't want it. Many sleepless nights and crying myself to sleep. For better or for worse was the deal. Work together, live together, communicate together, die together. Make it enjoyable, but you can't force someone else to love and care for you. I hope you find your inner peace and live to have a happy, prosperous life, Arbiters. I had to comment because you resonate with me. I need to now learn to live without the love of my life and find my happiness again.
So not really any of the 5 signs, yet feeling unloved , unappreciated and alone. Just soldier on then hoping for a miracle?
Same
Seek counselling, learn to communicate. If you both feel the same, turn to the same page, and work together 100%, you will make it.
Ok interesting...I answered no to all 5. Now I'm even more confused lol
I love what God truly intended for marriage, but....nvm
Eli yahu Yasharahla I know what you mean
This is so me and I’m not sorry everyone’s not for everybody
Roommate relationship.
Exactly what I am feeling for some months now...
You never truly know a woman until you meet her in divorce court. #Mgtow
Mgtow what does it say about me? I don’t want to go to court I just want to sign the papers and move out leave him with everything but my dog, the vacuum and my clothes.
And a man also
Mee too, we are broke anyway hahaha. I want my daughters (cats) that's it...
This is my parents... (except the cheating part) what the hell am i gonna do
Bri Elizabeth pray 4 them
5 out of 5 time to giddy up!
I'm struggling.
I've never been married however when you have 2 of the world's most foul yet vile creators (Yall call them parents) you will soon discover that folks will Definitely try to play with you bc they think your a CHILD. This is where it gers interesting tho...I'm not gonna keep telling these folks to leave me alone and go about their business...I'm not taking care of anybody besides my kids and it's that simple...Kera will have me at her grandmother house, sameway mochi will have me at his aunt Sharon house, Alex will have me in Phoenix in the backyard chilling so on so forth. Let's do this like RESPECTFULL adults and move on, I OWE you folks NOTHING and I simply said what I said...keep poking me and yall bound to find out bc as I stated *I will only resort to VIOLENCE if I have to*
Let's be SMART for once and cut it out already. Disengage from my phone and go find yall own way bc 2 many people already KNOW what yall did and the only thing that kept yall afloat so long was that rumor however I'm back in NYC not paying you folks no mind. Do the exact same for me. I'm gonna start screen shooting every message I post on here for my paper trail bc this is electronic HARRASSMENT which is also deemed a CRIME. I have the right to defend myself especially being outnumbered therefore move on...get out my feeds"
This is INSANE smh not even funny bc we aren't friends...who does stuff like this. Nobody SANE I know that much
Best video on UA-cam
Number 2: your spouse touch makes your skin cold? If she does it one day I may tell the if it is cold or not.
Checking out from caring......if you don’t have kids?!
Nothing understood
I hate being married! I don’t like my husband! He’s immature, insecure, and emotionally broken! This projects on to me and blocks me from receiving all of my Blessings. He’s sexed craze as well! No romance, no affection, just weird crude humor jokes and a constant boner that I have no desire to engage in. There are good parts about him but the bad is outweighing to good.
What if you just can't take the in laws anymore??? Just a question...
siera ounn British survey said 60% of marriages end because of divorce
5 out of 5....
My wife ONLY kisses me when I leave for work or get home.. quickly.. no passion. Otherwise I never get any caring touch from her.
Its time to leave him😭i have all the sign.
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Мария Шинкоренко its too late...i dont love him too anymore..hes toxic!
Jesus Christ Himself gave all of us His word and promise saying He will not let man put our marriages asunder So where we going to get a divorce? From a tree?
On all steps except cheat.....think I should bounce?
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Totally.
I'm not worried about Hell. I was married for two fucking years! Hell would be like Club Med!..
I have these signs and my husband doesn’t get it I don’t know how to deal with it
1 st two signs are there and lot of arguments are there
That's fine idgaf. Since why marry someone we. You barely handle the first one. She wears the pants in your household
The whole world is set up to show consequences for doing wrong. All have lied and stolen and looked with lust.
All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. The wages of sin is eternal death but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. We are saved by grace through faith. And faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.
We must be willing to turn from sin to receive Jesus forgiveness , and to know and live out his teachings. He who does the will of God abides for eternity. 1 John 2:17 . KJV, NKJV 🙂
All 5 signs
I hate my wife, but I love her. But I still hate her.
Dude understand completely.
Does she know why you feel this way??
I'm just curious..cause my husband hates me but he won't tell me why....
Stacey Sailer we both get on each other nerves but at the end of the day, she’s my soulmate and love her unconditionally. We argue a lot but that’s because neither one of us back down. Your husband will only hate you if you are unfaithful. I suggest sitting down with him and ask if he still in Love with you.
Marriage is a trap for men. #Mgtow
5 out of 5... I gotta go 😬😬
Check check check check and CHECK! That last point..
Lol if your here you have gotten to the point where your asking the internet… it must be bad
Thanks for sharing the insight of this! I am a new UA-camr, I share my story as a christian going through a divorce. I go into how the gospel can create a lack of self respect & codependent people. Id love it if you would go check it out!
5/5
5/5 wow I'm a dumbass
Oh no every sign is present in my marriage. Fuuuuuuck......
Dustin Vestal how’d it go?
Divorce HE HE HE HE
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divorce. AHAHAHAHAHAHA