I just walked away from a man that I was growing love with because he was letting his fear get in the way of putting a label on what we have. I refuse to be in a situation ship. If I'm going to give all of me, I deserve the commitment. If you can't give me that, then you aren't ready for my love.
When I met my ex- husband , him telling me he had commitment phobia was the first time I ever heard of that so it went over my head . Well, his dad was in a polygamous marriage and had a divorce from one of the wives [my ex-mother-in-law]. Please listen to me if you are reading this, upbringing matters ✅ ask and run 😂
At some point both man and woman has to decide to dive all in cause everyone has been hurt before and it's better than to let that ship sail cause it may not dock again in our area. For those who've found that special One❤❤
@@BAM4_ Absolutely One Woman ONLY cause if I Standout, which I do then there is NOTHING LEFT TO Look into other than what we have together. Couples trust the process and work together to protect and save your relationships/Marriages especially when You're in the right One Amen.🔥❤️
*Understanding the signs when a man is afraid to commit can save us from unnecessary heartache. Let's empower ourselves with knowledge and make choices that are in our best interest. Here's to finding love with someone who is ready to commit!*
It's good to understand the signs but we must keep in mind fear to commit doesn't equate to a lack of Love nor unnecessary heartache. Heartache is necessary to better understand how to handle others and their heart(lessons) Never make a decision based on fear and never traject your fear unto another as a reason not to do right by them as a result of your insecurities.
For how many times men try to think they know it all, but can’t figure this out? Shocker 😒. I only say that because every guy I know, family members included…act like they know more than women and women need to change because we’re the problem. My brothers, my dad, and my exes…I have yet to meet a man that knows he has issues and will work on himself to change. This is why I’m single because unlike men…I can admit I have issues and I rather work on myself before getting into another relationship.
@@traserraadams5667 yeah…this is so hard to believe. Normally I agree with Stephan but this I call bs cause I have never heard of a man that says he has issues and working on himself. My dad even complained about my mom, not once he says I messed up. Smh
@@SimonKnight1023 each person does, my comment was meant that men don’t recognize their own issues. One for starters is that they don’t think they are wrong.
Thanks Stephan for speaking the truth on this one! In my opinion the best plan always has been and always will be God's plan-one man and one woman. It can and does work. It worked for my grandparents for over 50 years...
My mom and my stepdad were married for 62 years when she suddenly died 😢 My grandparents were married for 49 years when my grandpa suddenly died of a massive coronary. My great-grandparents were married for at least 50 years and we're very happy all of them were very very happy 🎉❤🎉❤ I have faith also in one man and one woman permanent. 💞🙋🏼
1:22 Exactly. I see that a lot too. Like mann. Its crazy. SMDH!!! 🤦♂️ But I get that they still need that foundation at home...even though they are players deep down inside. Thats why I Never encourage dudes to get that "Queen" if they are players. Only the true players I can respect a little if they be honest and keeping it real with their partners and people. Only problem with that is women tend to really love those types of guys cause they real and honest. So that challenge of If I Can Win Him Over to be My 1, a lot of women do that. Instead of not wasting time with a guy thats not on the same page as you. But Whatever. Thats on them.
Its crazy how the ones that do that...have a ton of women wanting to be That 1 for that guy. And the men who's sooo ready for that good relationship right now...we seem to have it a little harder than them to find the right good woman for us. Its like these women be begging these players and all to be with them...even though thats not what they want. But they feel that No I Want Him. Mann. SMH 🤦♂️
@@jayc5756It happens everyday with both genders. There lots of women who don't want players, but some men don't want them and like the ones that want players and end up getting hurt, same with women. The sword cuts both ways.
That’s a question you ask your grandpa. Not someone that’s only lived a couple of years. And having seen my grandpa and my dad with more than one woman, NO IT DOESN’T WORK
@@Welcome_2_The_Candy_ShopThat's not always true. In fact, that's a horrible generalization. There are a lot of men who grow up with parents who enstill their own fears and self-doubt into their children. They don't encourage them to try things. They don't give them any positive affirmations. They tell them things like "well I think that's too risky so you should just stick with this" or "I don't know if you are good enough to do that" those parents create seeds of doubt that grow into vines that are difficult to chop down. It happens to boys and girls, but it's especially harmful to boys who are supposed to grow up to become men who are providers and leaders of families. Leaders can not lead effectively with doubt and fear.
God has given every man that desire but culture continues to brainwash them.. let's pray for the women suffering and the men who don't get it together.
If you need multiple women on the side, at least don't MARRY that "one woman" cos you'll only be humiliating her and end up destroying her life too. Too many men like this around leaving a selfish trail of devastation behind them. If you can't accept accountability for your actions, you better do women everywhere a favour and best stay single.
Stephan u always advice to the people if their partnes has bad features let them leave him/her. Do u think there is q perfekt man/ woman? Nobody is that! Even who think he/she is not ! Do u make videos about which list of a bad features when people need to leave the person and another when not?
I just walked away from a man that I was growing love with because he was letting his fear get in the way of putting a label on what we have. I refuse to be in a situation ship. If I'm going to give all of me, I deserve the commitment. If you can't give me that, then you aren't ready for my love.
Yes !
When I met my ex- husband , him telling me he had commitment phobia was the first time I ever heard of that so it went over my head . Well, his dad was in a polygamous marriage and had a divorce from one of the wives [my ex-mother-in-law]. Please listen to me if you are reading this, upbringing matters ✅ ask and run 😂
Agree situationships are nothing but confusion and heartbreak.
@@AngieELLMMMso you and your husband were step siblings because your ex-partner’s father’s ex wife was your mother???
2:43 “If he doesn’t have a Queen, he still feels empty. He still needs that one woman that he can share his life with.”
At some point both man and woman has to decide to dive all in cause everyone has been hurt before and it's better than to let that ship sail cause it may not dock again in our area. For those who've found that special One❤❤
Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽
He need to make up his mind. Only one women. PERIOD.
@@BAM4_ Absolutely One Woman ONLY cause if I Standout, which I do then there is NOTHING LEFT TO Look into other than what we have together. Couples trust the process and work together to protect and save your relationships/Marriages especially when You're in the right One Amen.🔥❤️
I agree 👍
Amen. I totally agree. 👍✌️🙏👌😀😇😃
*Understanding the signs when a man is afraid to commit can save us from unnecessary heartache. Let's empower ourselves with knowledge and make choices that are in our best interest. Here's to finding love with someone who is ready to commit!*
It's good to understand the signs but we must keep in mind fear to commit doesn't equate to a lack of Love nor unnecessary heartache. Heartache is necessary to better understand how to handle others and their heart(lessons) Never make a decision based on fear and never traject your fear unto another as a reason not to do right by them as a result of your insecurities.
AMEN. I'm so tired of the games.
That Part ❤
The chance of getting STD's are really high if you sleep around a lot.
Most of them scared they will do is ghost and pull away or some would rather be in situationships .
For how many times men try to think they know it all, but can’t figure this out? Shocker 😒. I only say that because every guy I know, family members included…act like they know more than women and women need to change because we’re the problem. My brothers, my dad, and my exes…I have yet to meet a man that knows he has issues and will work on himself to change. This is why I’m single because unlike men…I can admit I have issues and I rather work on myself before getting into another relationship.
I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!
@@traserraadams5667 yeah…this is so hard to believe. Normally I agree with Stephan but this I call bs cause I have never heard of a man that says he has issues and working on himself. My dad even complained about my mom, not once he says I messed up. Smh
What issues?
@@SimonKnight1023 each person does, my comment was meant that men don’t recognize their own issues. One for starters is that they don’t think they are wrong.
@@Alex-Mex Wrong about what? Gyms and schools are full of men that believe in self-improvement what are you even talking about? You sound stupid.
Thanks Stephan for speaking the truth on this one! In my opinion the best plan always has been and always will be God's plan-one man and one woman. It can and does work. It worked for my grandparents for over 50 years...
My mom and my stepdad were married for 62 years when she suddenly died 😢
My grandparents were married for 49 years when my grandpa suddenly died of a massive coronary.
My great-grandparents were married for at least 50 years and we're very happy all of them were very very happy 🎉❤🎉❤
I have faith also in one man and one woman permanent. 💞🙋🏼
If you have one woman and others on the side that’s not being with one woman 🤦♀️🤷♀️😀 That’s ridiculous!
1:22 Exactly. I see that a lot too. Like mann. Its crazy. SMDH!!! 🤦♂️
But I get that they still need that foundation at home...even though they are players deep down inside.
Thats why I Never encourage dudes to get that "Queen" if they are players. Only the true players I can respect a little if they be honest and keeping it real with their partners and people. Only problem with that is women tend to really love those types of guys cause they real and honest. So that challenge of If I Can Win Him Over to be My 1, a lot of women do that. Instead of not wasting time with a guy thats not on the same page as you. But Whatever. Thats on them.
I m on this Now. Tough
Its crazy how the ones that do that...have a ton of women wanting to be That 1 for that guy. And the men who's sooo ready for that good relationship right now...we seem to have it a little harder than them to find the right good woman for us.
Its like these women be begging these players and all to be with them...even though thats not what they want. But they feel that No I Want Him. Mann. SMH 🤦♂️
Imagine us women feel the same.... Why do men want selfish and egotistical women not us humble and kind women?
@@katiehorton6681 Who wants that?? I NEVER Heard that before.
@@jayc5756It happens everyday with both genders. There lots of women who don't want players, but some men don't want them and like the ones that want players and end up getting hurt, same with women. The sword cuts both ways.
Just focus on yourself and not other men’s options. Those women could be birds for all you know and not a wife.
So good this man is a CLEAR example of perfecting your craft and walking in your natural and developed gift! Thank You Stephan 🤍🦋
Sir you speak wisely
yeahhh i agree with him
most definitely get in your bible
i heard him loud and clear
thankkk me later
That’s a question you ask your grandpa. Not someone that’s only lived a couple of years. And having seen my grandpa and my dad with more than one woman, NO IT DOESN’T WORK
Is he afraid or does he just not want to commit?
To me, it seems BOTH. But like my father taught me " a real man knows what he wants" that's how I see it.
run
@@Welcome_2_The_Candy_ShopThat's not always true. In fact, that's a horrible generalization. There are a lot of men who grow up with parents who enstill their own fears and self-doubt into their children. They don't encourage them to try things. They don't give them any positive affirmations. They tell them things like "well I think that's too risky so you should just stick with this" or "I don't know if you are good enough to do that" those parents create seeds of doubt that grow into vines that are difficult to chop down. It happens to boys and girls, but it's especially harmful to boys who are supposed to grow up to become men who are providers and leaders of families. Leaders can not lead effectively with doubt and fear.
He doesn’t want to. He’s afraid of losing his stuff in a divorce but he just doesn’t see any benefit in commitment.
Thanks Stephan for this video the info is good.
God has given every man that desire but culture continues to brainwash them.. let's pray for the women suffering and the men who don't get it together.
Is Stephan married or in a relationship? Anyone know? Just curious.
Girlllll I see you😂
Not sure , probably and keeping it under wraps- private about his personal life, probably better that way!!
Leonardo di caprio?!
Thank You.
Though times never last
But though people do
We,re all the universe
That's all part of life
Tough
Thank u for the correction my mistake
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If you need multiple women on the side, at least don't MARRY that "one woman" cos you'll only be humiliating her and end up destroying her life too. Too many men like this around leaving a selfish trail of devastation behind them. If you can't accept accountability for your actions, you better do women everywhere a favour and best stay single.
Embarrassing her? By who? Other women? Lol Most of you are getting cheated on.
Men aren't taught how to handle THOSE FEELINGS!!!!! (women as well)
No one actually really teaches those things but we do learn as we grow, if we care enough to want to do that.
Because women don’t have those feelings. Lol
Jesus said, "A man will leave his mother and father, and join with his wife and the two shall become one flesh." (Book of Genesis)
Lol 😂
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So are you afraid
No, disinterested. We see no benefit.
Lie cheat and steal
Stephan u always advice to the people if their partnes has bad features let them leave him/her. Do u think there is q perfekt man/ woman? Nobody is that! Even who think he/she is not ! Do u make videos about which list of a bad features when people need to leave the person and another when not?