My life as an OCD patient | Difficulties I have faced | Did I overcome

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  • Опубліковано 9 лис 2023
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  • @sumig662
    @sumig662 7 місяців тому +159

    എല്ലാം ഒരു ജാടയുമില്ലാതെ തുറന്നു പറഞ്ഞ ഐഷു കുട്ടിക്ക് എന്റെ അഭിനന്ദനങ്ങൾ.

  • @bincymathews1784
    @bincymathews1784 6 місяців тому +40

    V r so glad that an influencer like u stand up for the importance of mental health ..wen people like u come forward it will definitely change d stigma .thank u so much for dis bold decision to bring this topic public .

  • @ambilinair5080
    @ambilinair5080 5 місяців тому +85

    എല്ലാ ocd patients ഉം surroundings neat ആക്കണം എന്ന് ഇല്ല. വളരെ ഉപകാരപ്പെടുന്ന വ്യക്തമായി പറഞ്ഞു തരുന്ന video. Thanks a lot 🙏🙏🙏

    • @athikkakt369
      @athikkakt369 3 місяці тому +1

      Ocpd is said to suppose to surrounding neatness

  • @roshna108
    @roshna108 7 місяців тому +50

    This video is going to reach heights ❤ Thanks for addressing!

  • @jyothi5563
    @jyothi5563 6 місяців тому +10

    Being an NPD victim and OCPD, i couldn't forget the days i have been through- the times I hated nights, the days i complained a lot, regretted, worried, tired and thought of self harm. Took cbt and medications for some time. Later realised self heal measures to be taken for long term on realising Medications will create a withdrawal effect same as alcohol and also have side effects in prolonged use.
    Find your own ways to happiness, change life style, be involved, positive affirmations, exercise helped a lot.

  • @gadhamkurup7840
    @gadhamkurup7840 7 місяців тому +27

    I completely understand each and everything you said ❤. Thankyou for sharing.You are a great inspiration 🫰

  • @Nandhini_sumesh
    @Nandhini_sumesh 6 місяців тому +27

    I could really understand what u meant. Bcoz i am going through this now. When u said in the first line itself, i can relate it easily.. Thaank you for sharing this.😊

  • @aysharasha3650
    @aysharasha3650 7 місяців тому +144

    Girl I'm crying after watching this video. Im happy to see that you'r family took you through the right direction. My case was not the same. People used to threaten me and blame me for the things i did. And even i could not realize that there is something wrong because I was just a kid. My parents used to beat me for behaving so. To this day i face many mental health issues like anxiety, depression, ocd etc. I am 25 years old now and has gained nothing in my life rather than being afraid of everything.

    • @alachullyhouse2398
      @alachullyhouse2398 6 місяців тому +12

      You should consult a psychologist as soon as possible😊

    • @aysharasha3650
      @aysharasha3650 6 місяців тому +8

      @alachullyhouse2398 i would love to. But right now it is not financially possible for me.

    • @azeefaabdulkareem6450
      @azeefaabdulkareem6450 6 місяців тому +8

      I am a clinical psychology trainee.. I could feel you. This is hard and I am proud of you for the fact that you open up about the difficulties and it reflects your strength amidst these difficulties. There are so many treatment options available both online and offline even free of cost. I could assure you that you will feel far better if you could visit a psychiatrist or psychologist.

    • @aysharasha3650
      @aysharasha3650 6 місяців тому +2

      @azeefaabdulkareem6450 thank you for your kind words. Your message meant a lot to me.

    • @Pnp2547
      @Pnp2547 6 місяців тому

      It's never too late to get the right help. No point in blaming the past, but the present and future is in front of you. Best wishes and prayers

  • @Inwintrain4558
    @Inwintrain4558 7 місяців тому +123

    Your dedication to sharing your journey with OCD is truly inspiring! Your vlogs not only resonate with those who understand the challenges of OCD but also serve as a source of strength and encouragement for others, including myself. Keep shining a light on this important topic, and remember that your openness is making a positive impact on so many lives, mine included. Together, we can overcome and thrive❤❤❤

  • @harshmuhammed2959
    @harshmuhammed2959 7 місяців тому +125

    ഇയാൾ ഭയങ്കര മോഡേൺ ആണ് but ഏറ്റവും സാധാരണ കാരിയും

  • @nabafathima8536
    @nabafathima8536 7 місяців тому +22

    The great quality in you is sharing your feelings with us ❤😊

  • @Sreelekshmisreeps
    @Sreelekshmisreeps 7 місяців тому +30

    Thanku sooo much Aishu for sharing this with us ...waiting for the next part ....i am struggling with this for past 2 years maybe ...now i am 23 age ....sometimes my situation gets better but chila timil i am struggling a lot to control my urge to repeat things....rend moon counselling cheythu but effective ayila enik....enik surroundings clean cheyathath preshnamila valuthayit....but ente bodyil germs patuon vijarich ..daily 30 times mele hand wash cheyum....epozhum gas off anon check cheyum .....water ithra glass kudikanm alengil apakadam patum...chila numbersil ndhelum cheyth theerthal preshnamakum but chila nunbers lucky anu enoke ulla thonnal.....nadakunna vazhik chila sadanangal thottu nadane pattu ...agne pokunnu ente struggles ....Prayer helped me a lot these days ❤Hope to cure this soon ❤

    • @devanunni8108
      @devanunni8108 6 місяців тому +1

      The same situation is for me also🙂

    • @Sreelekshmisreeps
      @Sreelekshmisreeps 6 місяців тому +1

      @@devanunni8108 aada what to do ...overcome cheyumayirikum namloke....practice mindfulness and meditation,prayer and exercise ....it helped me😊

    • @meerasm6849
      @meerasm6849 6 місяців тому

      You are a fighter, you can.

  • @Lunadreamer98
    @Lunadreamer98 7 місяців тому +33

    Nalla teaching skills und...bore adikkathe kettirikkam ❤

  • @poojaprahlad96
    @poojaprahlad96 7 місяців тому +12

    First and foremost a huge appreciation for your family❤

  • @aneettajacob5253
    @aneettajacob5253 2 місяці тому +3

    I admire you dear.. This video helps some of the people to understand the facts of OCD. I know this journey because I have crossed these hurdles.. God bless you dear

  • @karthikamohan2521
    @karthikamohan2521 7 місяців тому +53

    Aishu, This video just took me to my childhood and I just realised I have also been facing this same without knowing what actually it is. I think my problem was less intense than yours but I still hv issues
    Thank you for speaking up and making me realise it’s not just me.
    I was thinking this is with me only and never wanted to share with anyone. Love and respect Aishu ❤❤

  • @sumitranambiar7477
    @sumitranambiar7477 6 місяців тому +4

    Hi Aishu..I don't usually comment but after watching this I wanted to thank you for sharing this with us..I think I just needed this so badly..

  • @swathisanthosh
    @swathisanthosh 6 місяців тому +4

    Empowering minds and hearts..this video is a guide to growth and inspiration🌟Unleashing courage with every step... Soo proud of you sissy❤

  • @archanaa.j8894
    @archanaa.j8894 7 місяців тому +18

    Thanks for sharing this .I went through this similar experience, long time back in my life.i m happy that I overcame that now .❤

  • @aaryag5315
    @aaryag5315 6 місяців тому +9

    The best part about this whole life experience sharing was the decision that ' I have an issue and that needs to be resolved ' at the age of 10 or so! Now that is something not everyone would be able to feel at that tender age. That self awareness along with Parent's support helped you. Sometimes, even if the family or loved ones wanted to support the other, they may not be willing to help themselves and that's one of thw worst scenarios.. Anyways, you had a healthy travel in your self help journey and that's so beautiful to hear. More strength to you.

  • @reyajacob2293
    @reyajacob2293 7 місяців тому +11

    Hi Aishu much appreciated for sharing ur story about OCD and how professional help at early stage helped u out, in our community talkin abt mental health is Taboo. I know now i will be more mindful of my kids bringing up and the help tey need. I myself suffer from anxiety it was nver recognised or treated...i suffered an anxiety attack n i still failed to recognise it...aftr watchin listening to lot of videos n talks on social media tat itself has made me mindful of wen my anxiety strts n i guess tat helps to kp it in control....so ur step to share this video has helped many to understand OCD ...kudos to u for making lovely feel good videos tc

  • @vinniKP
    @vinniKP 7 місяців тому +6

    Thanks for sharing this important information.I am also on my medication journey for OCD and can relate to so many things you said.Suffered a lot last 3 years because of it .But now lots of positive changes are happening and I am slowly becoming my old self again and feeling happy.

  • @theerthanjalits
    @theerthanjalits 6 місяців тому +2

    I'm so happy that you could overcome it, and your efforts to make yourself a better person is truly inspiring. Have the best life ahead❤

  • @SreelakshmySreejith
    @SreelakshmySreejith 6 місяців тому +4

    I vividly recall a childhood biking at 8 or 9 when an odd sensation on my legs sparked obsessive fears of a snake bite. Despite knowing it wasn't true, anxiety consumed me. Thankfully, seeking help from a psychologist proved transformative. While not entirely curable, I've learned OCD is manageable, and recovery is possible.

    • @Josepaesto
      @Josepaesto 5 місяців тому

      LOL. You wasted money.

  • @dhanutherambil1527
    @dhanutherambil1527 6 місяців тому +3

    I have never related to any person or any situation as I have related to your video of this. I completely understand your condition and I am going through the same condition . Your video actually made me relaxed.

  • @bhagyakram
    @bhagyakram 6 місяців тому +6

    Tight tights hugs aishu ... thank you for sharing this

  • @sreelakshmi5713
    @sreelakshmi5713 6 місяців тому +24

    I am an Ayurveda dr. I had OCD and FPP disorder right from my 8th standard...From my experience, all these begun as a habit to heal myself from my childhood trauma... I had some family problems... Nobody understood me... I used to walk certain distance as you told, even used to run😢...Everybody scolded me... I was a good student that time...I was good in academics, I had good writing skills... Slowly it reflected on my studies.. From a topscorer in the class to a person who failed in the subject,😢... That time, I never got the support I actually needed.... Even, I felt memory issues... I was unable to recollect the learnt topics.. Wasting time is the main issue, I felt with these disorders...I always feel, If I could control my thoughts earlier during my schooling, I would have attained something greater in my life...Thank you for speaking out❤

    • @shybisimon3118
      @shybisimon3118 4 місяці тому

      Relatable😢

    • @abhiramics6438
      @abhiramics6438 3 місяці тому

      Same like me ❤
      Recurring after some days..
      I am trying to live Now ✨️✨️✨️

    • @Phoenixsoul-mg7pg
      @Phoenixsoul-mg7pg 2 місяці тому

      My story😢

    • @Rover1a
      @Rover1a 8 днів тому

      Suicidal tendency unndavuo

  • @neethum7834
    @neethum7834 7 місяців тому +6

    U r powli girl..a real inspiration.. i am planning to start a youtube channel only because of ur inspiration.. i really love ur videos

  • @user-sr6gf3pg8n
    @user-sr6gf3pg8n 7 місяців тому +7

    U r a unique person.loves u❤❤❤❤❤❤...keep going 😊😊😊

  • @jazanuniversity1
    @jazanuniversity1 6 місяців тому +1

    Well explained Aishu,going thru the same...can understand well

  • @aavanim768
    @aavanim768 6 місяців тому +6

    Thank you for sharing this aishu chechi . Actually i didn't know these are the symptoms of OCD .This is something that I also faced or still facing a bit . My college friends used to mock me for my over cleanliness by calling me ocdic ,its not just them I also thought ocd is just an obsession to cleaning and nothing more that requires a treatment.But when you shared your experiences I became shocked because this something that i used to do.
    Njan orikkalum vicharichilla ithepole ulla thoughts vere arkenku undakun njan ente or andhavishwasam anenn okkeya enta ithupolulla thoughtsine vichariche .Njanum ithupole arkenku enthelum okke pattum ennu examin fail ayi pokum ennokke vicharich oro actions ellenkil enthenku karyam cheythukond irikkum ath cheythille enthenku okke mosham ayit ellenkil njan agrahikunnathinte opposite karyam sambavikkum ennokke enik thonnu ,ithum ocd yude symptoms anenn chechide vlog kandappozha manasilaye .Enne elllarum ocd enn parayarund ath ente cleaning obsession kond mathram annu pakshe ente ullile ithupole ulla thoughts arkum arila njan arum kaanathe annu ingathe actions cheyyar pakshe veetil ullavark ariyam njan ingana action kanikkunnath ennod enthina ingana cheyunne chothichal njan tension ayittanenn parayum . chechinod paranjath pole ennodum eni angana cheyyarth enn veetin parayum. Enk ith cherthayit Start cheythath 10 th std padikkumbozhan .what you said was sooo true its more during stressful days. Ippo enk ee prashnam valare kuravan stress koodumbo veendu varuon enkarila. pinne ee video kandappo eni athupole onnu cheyyathirikkan korch kudi motivation kitti🥰. Once again thankyou soo much for sharing this

  • @fathimavardhakt
    @fathimavardhakt 7 місяців тому +422

    Hey, I‘m a consultant psychologist. You well said and explain very authentically about your condition. It will be helpful for someone whose go through it. OCD is not only mentioning about neatness , it is a psychological condition of obsessive thoughts with compulsive repeatative bhvr. Like Aishu mentioned it cant be completely cure but you can controle ur thoughts with therapies, exercises etc. So if anyone have these like issues must be consult a therapist. Anyway Aishu good a great job. God bless uuh😊

    • @shafnanaseer2009
      @shafnanaseer2009 7 місяців тому +2

      Yes ❤

    • @deepadeepika9451
      @deepadeepika9451 6 місяців тому

      😊

    • @priyankagirish6570
      @priyankagirish6570 6 місяців тому

      Hi dr plz let me know u r number

    • @ebinbopara
      @ebinbopara 6 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @itsyou6918
      @itsyou6918 6 місяців тому

      I tried very hard but I can't 😢 . Enikk 6 months aayi parayaan pattattha tharatthil body pain undaayirunnu . Oru pad test cheythu ECG , endoscopy, scanning, blood test pala rogangalum aanonnu nokki nanjeppozhum bedil thanne athinte koode 2 years aayi oru sun allergy yum . I am in a box enikkathil ninnu puratth kadakkan Patti ennu karuthi but annonnum njan behaviour change onnum shreddichirunnilla but one month aayi phsychatrist ne kandu body pain nu marunnedukkunnu but ayaal parayunnat depression pole okkeyaanu enikk katthi kandal appo kutthan thonnum vedhanayulla bhaghattheekk , ath pole uyaratyhil ninnu chaadan , oodunna vandiyil ninn , rodiloode vahanam pokumbol athinu munpe kayari nilkkan kelkkunnavaru kaliyakakum but chila neratth thalakk vallaattha pressure aanu 6 month aayi ente education mudangiyitt degree kk athinu enikkillaattha kuttam ente ellaa bhandhukkalkkum ellaam kaivitta polee sherikkum olicch jeevikkukayaa veedinullil orikkalum maarattha oru sun allergy yum chila neratth ottayadikk ketti thoongi marikkaan thonnum aarenth motivation thannittum kaaryamilla I was not like this before .. and aa phase il ninn maariyaal enthiningane chinthicch thonnum pala neratth pala character and enikk madutthu motthatthil okke nashtta pettapolee ippo chinthicchath pinne ormayilla

  • @stalymdevassia4686
    @stalymdevassia4686 6 місяців тому +3

    You are truely blessed to have such a supportive family ❤

  • @shamrinkc6450
    @shamrinkc6450 7 місяців тому +4

    Sharing is caring Aishu.

  • @nithinjohn7673
    @nithinjohn7673 2 місяці тому +1

    Appreciate you shared this. This would help many of us.

  • @bu6736
    @bu6736 6 місяців тому +5

    It's so happy to hear ur stories...may be it's just a story for others bt i really want to appreciate u for winning this silent battles.aishu u need to know that ur now here only bcz of ur courage to takes the steps without giving up.....I always used to believe that ''everything happens for a reason "..I think now u can realte this saying too deeply.... thankfully ur sister ❤

    • @asmrnuva
      @asmrnuva 6 місяців тому

      You always inspired me in your way.. Thank you .. I owe you today🎉

  • @veenakgs
    @veenakgs 27 днів тому +2

    She’s a lovely innocent girl ..I really like her attitude.

  • @fathimafarhanahamzafarhana5713
    @fathimafarhanahamzafarhana5713 3 місяці тому +1

    I am a psychology students
    Excellent explanation
    And thank you for differentiation of psychologist and psychiatrist

  • @aswathynair5795
    @aswathynair5795 7 місяців тому +20

    Hi Aishu, I always playfully tease my husband saying that he has OCD , when he behaves weirdly, like every morning after he wakes up if he sees anything misplaced in the house or finds any dust on the floor, he always cleans that before even having food. Sometimes he even skips his bF and eats lunch @ 7pm. Now I understand that he may has OCD and we need to seek medical help.

    • @shafnanaseer2009
      @shafnanaseer2009 7 місяців тому

      Yes da

    • @chippygladson1221
      @chippygladson1221 6 місяців тому +1

      No he might wants to do intermittent fasting or something. Ask him clearly what he wants

  • @monithafrancis4989
    @monithafrancis4989 6 місяців тому +1

    You have a beautiful glow on your face now..❤❤ Stay blessed.

  • @themaverickslife9885
    @themaverickslife9885 6 місяців тому +2

    Appreciate you ❤️
    For being original

  • @anupamarajeev4511
    @anupamarajeev4511 6 місяців тому +10

    So relatable
    It sucks really
    I'm 20 and I need to consult a doctor
    You explained well chechi

    • @silpassankar3462
      @silpassankar3462 6 місяців тому

      Do it.that would be the best decision you have ever made

  • @amuneera
    @amuneera 3 місяці тому

    Your genuineness is what comes through your talks ❤
    And Vishnus open mindedness and spirit of “ lets live it together” is highly commendable.

  • @SreelakshmySreejith
    @SreelakshmySreejith 6 місяців тому +5

    I’ve been managing OCD since childhood, some days are challenging, with health anxiety exacerbating the struggle and causing distress in the gut. It’s like a paradox.😅

  • @venusv386
    @venusv386 12 днів тому

    Dear Tani,
    Your story moved me deeply and brought tears to my eyes.
    However, this journey has undoubtedly given you immense strength. Continue to embrace your path as you do today.
    Thank you for sharing your story, as it is crucial to normalize these issues in our society.
    Your family and extended network have done a remarkable job, something truly rare and admirable.Wishing you all the best.

  • @shahashams7525
    @shahashams7525 2 місяці тому +1

    To be honest with you this is an eye-opener for me...thankyou🥰🥰

  • @stephyleocardiasaiza7076
    @stephyleocardiasaiza7076 7 місяців тому +16

    I really think that you are using your social media platform as entertaining as possible and educating people , developing healthy habits… . That’s quite good to use your influence sensibly lots of love❤❤

  • @vismaya7142
    @vismaya7142 2 місяці тому +3

    Bayangara modern lookum, thani malayali behaviour um polii aishuu

  • @abelf.chandy7943
    @abelf.chandy7943 6 місяців тому

    truly informative. I'm sure this video will be a blessing for some

  • @amulyahareesh4021
    @amulyahareesh4021 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much for sharing. You are not a mere social media influencer, much more than that. Stay happy and continue making videos....😊

  • @J078_
    @J078_ 7 місяців тому +6

    Chechi oru life motivation vedio chyyamo..how to get through anything in life with a good mindset ❤

  • @singleshot6801
    @singleshot6801 7 місяців тому +1

    Oh my god , you are such purely gem heart ❤
    Hats off you

  • @shifasherishifasheri3764
    @shifasherishifasheri3764 7 місяців тому +15

    Well explained! First of all thank you aishu❤ith kettappo "padachone" enikk ocd undo nn doubt aayi. Bcz ee paranja poleyull thoughts enikkum vararund njan ath cheithillenkil narakathilavum ith cheithillenkil narakathilavum ennokkeyulla oro chinthakal. Porathathinu than paranja pole clean cheithath veendum clean cheithondirikkum😢. Any way thank youu😢

  • @amalkrishna7214
    @amalkrishna7214 6 місяців тому +7

    Thank u for sharing this.Njn OCD aayit struggle cheyth thudagitt kurach naal aavum.Orupaad naal anxiety,panic oke nthanu sambavikunnath enne polum ariyathe sahikendi vannitund.Etharam avasthakalil koode kadanu pokunna alkaarku matrame aa oru struggle manassilakku .After diagnosing my OCD psychologist counselling & pinnedu psychiatrist ine consult cheyendi vanu.then counselling ,therapies & medicines start cheythapol valare better aayi varunnudu.

    • @muhzinmhmmd4012
      @muhzinmhmmd4012 6 місяців тому +1

      God bless you it ll completely leave,,

  • @drsatheesh
    @drsatheesh 7 місяців тому +11

    Your improvement is mostly age related and not because of Counselling. If it's because of Counselling it would have healed in few months, and not in many many growing years

    • @abeenaiype5866
      @abeenaiype5866 2 місяці тому

      Actually OCG grows by age . In India, many commit suicide without getting treatment. Especially because of our society. Still it is a taboo to take treatment for mental health.

  • @sukanyakannankannan7305
    @sukanyakannankannan7305 6 місяців тому +2

    എനിക്കി ഇണ്ട് ഇത്. ഞാൻ മാറ്റാൻ ശ്രമിക്കുന്നുണ്ട്. എപ്പോഴാണ് മനസിലായത് ഇത് ocd ആണെന്ന്. Thank u❤

  • @alenjoestephen3380
    @alenjoestephen3380 7 місяців тому +3

    I appreciate you for sharing your experience and ottum over akathe valare detailed ayi you said it ,enik ocd full form mathrame ariyarinulu ippo oru nalla idea kitti ,thank you 😍❤

  • @drroy2290
    @drroy2290 3 місяці тому

    Hi aishu...Good that you shared about your OCD here.People only know to boast about things like diabetes or hypertension.Just like you said health is both physical and mental health.You being a content creator is making aware of things like this.Social taboo regarding mental illness is really difficult to break but definitely worth breaking.
    Hope you are doing well..all the best

  • @user-lb8qh4wb2c
    @user-lb8qh4wb2c 6 місяців тому +2

    Hii Aishu I use to watch most of your videos, bt this was something which I have gone through n still I am in, haven’t taken any treatment yet, I wasn’t known about the fact that it was OCD n it’s a great struggle for me to live a normal life.And thq sooo much for sharing your experience LOTS OF LOVE ❤

  • @farisincube.
    @farisincube. 6 місяців тому +2

    I can't thank you any more for this video!!! For some reason, i was in tears and emotional, while watching this, I know how it feels!!

  • @beingyourself922
    @beingyourself922 6 місяців тому

    Superr.. Yes really happy for your family support and very gold video as an influencer

  • @drrajeevkabad
    @drrajeevkabad 7 місяців тому +13

    I tooo have OCD....But no one cared to correct ...Its not just excessive cleanliness....ITS GOT TOOO MANY OTHER ASSOCIATED ISSUES....terrible anxiety. Now at 51 yrs ..looking 70 plus ..i wish i had parents who cared to correct . .....even my husband and children suffering cause of my OCD Yu r so blessed that yu are surrounded by folks who love yu a lot ....

    • @abeenaiype5866
      @abeenaiype5866 2 місяці тому

      Better take medical support. It grows with age. Start at right time. For every disease, there is a stage when medicines can help. Don't delay.

    • @Rover1a
      @Rover1a 8 днів тому

      Yes,,ente ammayum familyum enne eppolum cheethavikiyum family issuesum aanu,,bcz of my ocd

  • @ajaycv4242
    @ajaycv4242 3 місяці тому

    My respect for you just sky rocketed

  • @shilpajoseph5890
    @shilpajoseph5890 2 місяці тому +1

    Mental health is a Serious matter that need to be discussed of. Most people hide these things from others.

  • @RakeshK-fi6kd
    @RakeshK-fi6kd 2 місяці тому +16

    ഈ ചിന്ത എനിക്കും ഇപ്പോഴും ഉണ്ട് 27 വയസ്സായി പക്ഷെ ഞാൻ അതിനെ വല്യ കാര്യമാക്കാറില്ല എന്നു വെച്ചാ ഞാൻ പേടിക്കാറില്ല എന്തെങ്കിലും ആവർത്തിച്ചു ചെയ്തില്ലെങ്കിൽ എന്തെങ്കിലും നടക്കും എന്നുള്ള പേടി ഉണ്ട് പക്ഷെ ഞാൻ നടക്കട്ടെ എന്നു വിചാരിക്കും അപ്പൊ പ്രശ്നം തീരും. അങ്ങനാ ഞാൻ ഹാപ്പിയായി ഇരിക്കുന്നെ 😄

  • @DartVibes
    @DartVibes 6 місяців тому +4

    Well saiddd❤️❤️❤️

  • @ammusanju13
    @ammusanju13 6 місяців тому +17

    Completely understood and agree with what you have said, dear. Going through the same with my husband from past ten years. We didn't know it was OCD. His strange behaviours were left unnoticed in his childhood and only came to understand after our marriage. Now we're facing it together.
    And the funniest part is my mother in law still says, her son didn't had any issues until he marry me 😅😢

    • @sreekanthm2296
      @sreekanthm2296 6 місяців тому +1

      The situation is exactly the same for me...

    • @Josepaesto
      @Josepaesto 5 місяців тому

      its true. He had no issues, until he married you. The biggest issue is when women create problems and victimize their husbands.

  • @craftyworld5807
    @craftyworld5807 6 місяців тому +1

    Am also an OCD patient.there has been alot of hardship due to this disease. I have cried a lot😔.A time that feel scary when i remember itt. Although i have not fully recovered from the illness now i can controled my mind😊

  • @thankammap.n1436
    @thankammap.n1436 6 місяців тому

    Happy that you shared this Aishu

  • @shabnaop1906
    @shabnaop1906 7 місяців тому +12

    OCD endhan enn paranj thannadhil Thanks Aishu ❤

  • @meghna.77
    @meghna.77 7 місяців тому +9

    Thankyou for sharing this❤ Enikm similar situation ahn, oru 5,6 vattom daily veed thookum , kitchen oke chechi cheyne pole thanne last nte kai chennille manassammadhanm illa😢 pinne stress nn oke paranja kayyin control povunne avsthaya🥲 athpole periods oke avunnen munne mood swings varum , oru karyom illathe nthelm oke orth irun rathri oke kuthyirun karayum athpole chumma deshym varum😅 ithonnm paranja ellarm onnm manassilakkathum illa 🥲 chechide sobhavam oke crct nte pole nn thonniyakonda ipzhum mudangathe videos oke kanane😆 sathyam paranja oru ashwasam ahn❤ Thankyou so much

  • @aneeshar230
    @aneeshar230 10 днів тому +1

    Super💜വീഡിയോ 🌟 വളരെയധികം പ്രയോജനം ഉള്ള വീഡിയോ. 🌟💜താങ്ക്സ് 💜

  • @BBJ2023
    @BBJ2023 7 місяців тому

    Hi Aishu
    I love your spirit. Just keep going confidently. ❤❤❤

  • @aswanimanickan4411
    @aswanimanickan4411 6 місяців тому +1

    U r a great inspiration😍stay blessed

  • @nanda5079
    @nanda5079 7 місяців тому +20

    When I was a kid I used to count the number of letters in a word and was eager to find whether the number is odd or even. I was anxious when I got an odd number, and felt there is something bad going to happen. Later on as time passed and when I grew old this habit stopped somehow.

    • @aswathyk1785
      @aswathyk1785 6 місяців тому

      Iam also doing this even now. When the numbers of the word or sentence are multiplication of three and two i will be superhappy. Even now whenever i notice a big sentence or whenever i read a paragraph i will do this.

  • @lifeofanju9476
    @lifeofanju9476 7 місяців тому +1

    Nice outfit Aishu... U look more beautiful with short hair🥰

  • @Tobii-qv9nt
    @Tobii-qv9nt 7 місяців тому +2

    Aishvi ningal oru jentil woman ane ellam thurannu parayanulla manasundallo atha ningalude ettavum nalla qualitty vishnu nalla bagyavan ane 👍🏻

  • @aleenacarmelsaji2060
    @aleenacarmelsaji2060 6 місяців тому +1

    Well said aishu👏

  • @Beinggmyself
    @Beinggmyself 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing …Similar situation ❤

  • @jeenujoy4982
    @jeenujoy4982 6 місяців тому +18

    I really love the way how your family helped you in that older period of time when counseling and all is a considered as a bad thing. Hats off to your family ❤️❤️❤️

  • @HopefulSleepingCatcok
    @HopefulSleepingCatcok 2 місяці тому +2

    My ex had a similar condition that significantly impacted our daily life. While she appeared normal to others, living together revealed her excessive cleanliness habits, aversion to using the kitchen, and daily routine of meticulously removing every strand of hair. She also expected me to maintain a high level of cleanliness which includes frequent body hair removal at least 2-3 times a week. This made living with her challenging, especially during intimate moments when she would refuse certain activities, which a guy wanted to have. She had a separate toilet.

  • @Shanaanasvlog
    @Shanaanasvlog 7 місяців тому +2

    Njanum Ee same issue face cheythittundu cheythukondirikkunnu athu anubavichavarke athinte avastha manasilavu

  • @anjuemmanuel6437
    @anjuemmanuel6437 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for your openness . Please be very sure that you are a incredible woman. If at all you think about career change please opt for a therapist or life coach, you have a special talent to lift people up with your incredible journey. It is not easy to make it big in Europe and you made it with sheer determination❤.keep making videos keep encouraging us. Thank you Aishwarya you are a star.

  • @Sendraa848
    @Sendraa848 3 місяці тому

    You are such a pure soul and so genuine 🫶🏻💗

  • @abeenaiype5866
    @abeenaiype5866 2 місяці тому

    It is high time for our society to understand that mental is to be considered as any other treatment . It can save many lives.

  • @sabeedhatc6642
    @sabeedhatc6642 Місяць тому

    You are extremely good at explaining things.

  • @farseenakp7046
    @farseenakp7046 7 місяців тому +16

    As you mentioned earlier somany peoples mistook the word *ocd* that its a just a mater of cleanliness.. no its Psychological condition that should be treated.. as a psychology student I really valued this video because you conveyed a clear cut idea about ocd and its difficulties .. more to go chechi❤

  • @athiratv1994
    @athiratv1994 7 місяців тому +1

    To be continued.....breakz moii little heart come back soon .....❤😊

  • @nashlakt3561
    @nashlakt3561 7 місяців тому +1

    Ente ponnooo. idhaanu aishunee ishtam ❤

  • @devikamurali1668
    @devikamurali1668 7 місяців тому +29

    I am commenting for the first time in any public platform. I too have similar obsessive issues but i always thought its some issues with me only, never addresed this to anyone bcoz i thought no one will understand this. Thanks for addressing this and letting me know these are issues wrt ocd and it is not something that only im facing. ❤

    • @saranyaanurag6101
      @saranyaanurag6101 7 місяців тому +1

      Same for me also .I also started feeling the same as aishu told from my 2nd standard. Even now also I get such obsessive negative thoughts like something will happen to my dear ones... I am trying to control that with so many positive affirmations . Still it pops up ... Same process is going on.. Did you try any other methods.

    • @adithyaadhi27
      @adithyaadhi27 7 місяців тому +1

      Same for me also

    • @devikamurali1668
      @devikamurali1668 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@saranyaanurag6101No.. I am just trying to keep myself busy in order to forget such thoughts.. still i have it

    • @Pranav-ke3oo
      @Pranav-ke3oo 6 місяців тому +1

      Enikum ocd und…doctorne consult cheythirunu…ippo 90% maari…mattullavarod ente ocdye kurich parayan pediyaayrnu…aalukal enne kurich enth vichaarikkum ennullathu kond…ippo athum maari…

  • @lathikaramachandran4615
    @lathikaramachandran4615 7 місяців тому +1

    Impressed about u aishu

  • @lathikaramachandran4615
    @lathikaramachandran4615 7 місяців тому

    Iam very much impressed by u aishu... God bless u ❤❤❤

  • @lifemalayalamyoutube7192
    @lifemalayalamyoutube7192 6 місяців тому +3

    I can understand you dear❤️God bless you, do meditation along with medication. If you are believer
    pray regularly with a positive mindset, also don't make spirituality an obsession. All this will strengthen the positive hormones in you. And this will weaken that negative thoughts gradually.

    • @parvathyp4152
      @parvathyp4152 6 місяців тому

      Why spirituality should not be obsessed?

    • @lifemalayalamyoutube7192
      @lifemalayalamyoutube7192 6 місяців тому

      @@parvathyp4152 😊obsession in a positive dimension like balamanis relation with guruvayurappan🥰 in Nandanam movie is great, but their is a movie called "sadanandante samayam ". Dileeps character shows a kind of negative obsession or fear towarrds Gods. God is a best friend not someone to fear. Some people do many rituals with a thought that if i don't do this, something bad will occur... That is an OCD mindset towards god, it happence due to ignorance about God

  • @singleshot6801
    @singleshot6801 7 місяців тому +1

    Also appreciated your hus family too❤

  • @shilpajoseph5890
    @shilpajoseph5890 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this chechi... Ee same avasthyayilude kadannupokunna ale ayond enik ith kore related cheyyan patum

  • @shami77
    @shami77 3 місяці тому +3

    നിങ്ങൾക്കു കൊണ്ടല്ലേ ഇത് എനിക്കുമുണ്ട് അനാവശ്യ ചിന്തകൾ ഞാൻ വിചാരിച്ചു എനിക്ക് മാത്രം 😢😊 മാറ്റാൻ ശ്രമിച്ചാൽ മാറി പിന്നെ വല്ല ഡ്രാമ കാണും

  • @reenumaryalex6750
    @reenumaryalex6750 6 місяців тому +6

    Thanks for sharing your experience as I was ignorant of this topic. Thanks for enlightening me. I was emotional at the point when you said that your parent was ready to take professional help. Kiddos to your parents for supporting you and ignoring society's norms and thoughts.

  • @sreelekshmimg1708
    @sreelekshmimg1708 6 місяців тому +1

    This video help to give awareness about mental illness.

  • @fathimafidha6338
    @fathimafidha6338 7 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for sharing it ♥️

  • @liyaliya7745
    @liyaliya7745 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this information, I think I'm also going through this situation I don't know what I do.