Dad of Murdered Cheerleader Calls Teen Killer's Apology 'Insincere'

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  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd Рік тому +727

    "I loathe your very existence" I felt that. He was SO well spoken - even sitting in such a catastrophic grief. Well done Dad.

    • @lifeofBaltimorethroughmyeyes
      @lifeofBaltimorethroughmyeyes Рік тому +19

      I send my condolences to your family I am going to paint a rock today and I am all the way here in Baltimore Maryland if you can respond to my comment and tell me her favorite color I would would appreciate it again thank you and God bless I know it's very hard and it's very very very sad that a human being could do that

    • @jackiewinters5792
      @jackiewinters5792 Рік тому +20

      @@lifeofBaltimorethroughmyeyes That's very thoughtful of you to do. Her favorite color is teal, just like Dad's tie. Best wishes. 🩵

    • @charbokh
      @charbokh Рік тому +1

      Woow! That was, hard!
      I felt that. Like a rock thrown to your head.

  • @gillianfortune570
    @gillianfortune570 Рік тому +619

    Painful to watch a Dad trying to be strong while explaining how broken he feels inside. 💔

  • @dharmawannab
    @dharmawannab Рік тому +1247

    The fact they still pay her cellphone bill so her friends can still write her broke me.
    I texted my mom's phone for a long time after she passed until I got the undelivered message indicating her number is deactivated. It was a comfort to write to her there so I appreciate them keeping the phone active for her friends and family.

    • @stephanied6451
      @stephanied6451 Рік тому +53

      My mom still has my dad's phone active and it's been 4 years. Noone ever uses it

    • @kmartgoth8313
      @kmartgoth8313 Рік тому +9

    • @maryjane4432
      @maryjane4432 Рік тому +30

      @@stephanied6451 my dads wife took my dads phone and I never got to get the pics off of it. So I call and leave nasty messages and I sign her up for all kinds of stuff

    • @katjay3125
      @katjay3125 Рік тому +9

      Get help

    • @travelseatsyellowlab
      @travelseatsyellowlab Рік тому +6

      Having the phone of a loved one still be active after many years would be disheartening. I would keep the line for six months to a year after the death.

  • @Surfklone
    @Surfklone Рік тому +304

    I can’t believe the amount of composure and restraint this Father showed.

    • @VanillasteaGorl
      @VanillasteaGorl Рік тому +26

      It’s like he’s numb. I’m so sad for the family. I always ask god to please never let me endure the pain of losing a child. I wouldn’t be able to live

    • @madhaze4082
      @madhaze4082 Рік тому

      I would’ve lost it and lunged at him

    • @sharonjoke722
      @sharonjoke722 Рік тому +5

      I agree. He seems amazing

    • @Kosraean.kianarose
      @Kosraean.kianarose Рік тому +1

      Strong I envy strong parents ❤God bless

    • @mish375
      @mish375 Рік тому +9

      Yes, you can see that the father is really holding back. When you hear a father make the statement "I loath your very existence" and that there's no human decency in the coward that killed his daughter in such a calm and firm manner, you know he means business. If you left him in the room with that psycho, I'm certain the father wouldn't allow the killer to walk out of there. And no one could blame him.

  • @shannonmathiscowen8682
    @shannonmathiscowen8682 Рік тому +143

    "A sibling is a GIFT like none other". -Well said, Dad. My heart breaks for this amazing family.

  • @DianneW15
    @DianneW15 Рік тому +335

    This poor man 😢 and the poor family. I couldn’t and don’t want to try to imagine their pain. Anything short of life without parole is unacceptable. There is no rehabilitation for this kind of evil. RIP angel ❤️

    • @KanohiVahi
      @KanohiVahi Рік тому +20

      You could hear his pain from his voice... yet I can't imagine how horrible he must feel, but you got a good idea from the things he talked about. The feeling like a zombie, going through the motions. I wouldn't blame anyone for completely collapsing after a loss like this.

    • @magdasmith1421
      @magdasmith1421 Рік тому

      Such an evil child. He should rot in jail.

    • @garymorris1856
      @garymorris1856 Рік тому

      I would love it if this father could get his hands on this punk for ten minutes.

    • @twatwafflearttheclown
      @twatwafflearttheclown 9 місяців тому

      I hate that his sentence gets looked over in 25 years that’s just not fair,Tristan’s life can’t be looked or done over why should he get it

    • @tanikokishimoto1604
      @tanikokishimoto1604 4 місяці тому

      ​@@twatwafflearttheclown there is a strong chance he'll never be let out. But legally that was the max sentence they could give to a minor in that state.

  • @EclecticElegance13
    @EclecticElegance13 Рік тому +167

    Losing a sibling is an indescribable pain. I feel so deeply for Tristyn’s siblings. I lost my brother almost 3 years ago now and the devastation is more than I can put into words. I’m so heartbroken for this family 😢

    • @MuffinCHeeler
      @MuffinCHeeler Рік тому +10

      I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @JSweez87
      @JSweez87 Рік тому +4

      From a stranger, I am sorry for your loss. May you find some peace in knowing random people care and feel your pain. I’m so sorry

    • @EclecticElegance13
      @EclecticElegance13 Рік тому +10

      @@JSweez87 I really appreciate that. Truly some of the kindest and most encouraging words I’ve received have been from people online that I don’t know. And I appreciate every kind word and prayer so much, regardless of where they come from. So thank you

    • @EclecticElegance13
      @EclecticElegance13 Рік тому +4

      @@MuffinCHeeler thank you. Also- my brother’s nickname was Gumby… and his first car was one the same color as Gumby.

    • @noname-jh3bd
      @noname-jh3bd Рік тому +2

      From one person to another, that has lost a sibling, I understand your pain, and I am so sorry. I lost my late brother almost 29 years ago

  • @giuseppinasanger6410
    @giuseppinasanger6410 Рік тому +493

    My heart goes out to this father. There is no greater loss than that of a child, and for the loss to be perpetrated with such evil, it is that much more of a torture.

    • @j0nnicage
      @j0nnicage Рік тому +19

      @@katjay3125 Jesus Christ..

    • @fresh.prince7472
      @fresh.prince7472 Рік тому +22

      ​@@katjay3125 i think she's more a lady
      Than you'll ever be 🙄

    • @sanster7700
      @sanster7700 Рік тому +25

      What type of person would say that to the father of a murdered child @katjay3215??😮

    • @sherlock7687
      @sherlock7687 Рік тому +16

      ​@@katjay3125 I bet you're a joy to be around. 😲

    • @brucereister471
      @brucereister471 Рік тому +22

      @@katjay3125 Horrible comment, you should be ashamed of yourself.

  • @susanbischoff8708
    @susanbischoff8708 Рік тому +91

    Mother’s Day will forever be a grim reminder. My heart goes out to her whole family. But her Mom, it’s heartbreaking 💔

  • @mommastery
    @mommastery Рік тому +78

    This father's sound of defeat and anger is so subtle yet LOUD. Scarier and sadder than the moms emotional statement. Frightening 😢

  • @maplehouseknives
    @maplehouseknives Рік тому +131

    As a father of 2 young daughters, one of Tristyns' age... I can only imagine the pain you're feeling. There are no words a father can say to another in such a difficult time. My families prayers are with you. This crime has touched my family's hearts, forever. Stay strong! Greetings from Germany!

  • @michaelarbogast728
    @michaelarbogast728 Рік тому +146

    I would never accept an apology if I was in his shoes.

    • @phoenixmodellingphotography
      @phoenixmodellingphotography Рік тому +6

      ​@Mimi It could be, there's been plenty of convicted murderers who've gone on to show their genuine remorse. Most people can tell the difference between a sincere apology and an insincere one

    • @keiron.4612
      @keiron.4612 Рік тому

      ​@@phoenixmodellingphotography 😂🤡

    • @travelseatsyellowlab
      @travelseatsyellowlab Рік тому +5

      Dorthy Jolgren Moxley, whose daughter was murdered on 30 October 1975, has still not received an apology from her daughter's killer, though the murderer is believed to still be alive, along with suspected witnesses.

    • @KanohiVahi
      @KanohiVahi Рік тому +6

      Yeah I don't know if I could either because at the end of the day, nothing will bring back the life that was taken.

    • @roseweck9735
      @roseweck9735 Рік тому +7

      I would healing comes from forgiveness.a nurse killed my hubby who had cancer I leant to forgive my healing began from there

  • @petergriffiinbirdistheword
    @petergriffiinbirdistheword Рік тому +125

    Yes, he is right. Aiden apology IS insincere. The father says this in anger, but he isn't wrong. I hope the judge and jury realizes that. The ONLY reason he confessed, was because there was so much evidence against him and he was probably told doing do would get him a lighter sentence. I hope they take that into consideration too.

  • @madslynne7372
    @madslynne7372 Рік тому +65

    This angel was really blessed with an awesome family dynamic. Blessed with a father most girls could only have dreamed of having. My heart goes out to the baileys. All of the siblings did incredible speaking today and you too Mr Bailey. Prayers to you alll 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @IbnBahtuta
    @IbnBahtuta Рік тому +231

    He had thrown up so many red flags from 11 to 14 years of age. It was fully documented and still it ends up in the brutal slaughter of an innocent girl. Heads should roll.

    • @cherylhaskell9830
      @cherylhaskell9830 Рік тому +41

      Aidan's Parents wholly responsible for this hot mess, not US. We have a nation landscapped with Aidans.

    • @IbnBahtuta
      @IbnBahtuta Рік тому +5

      @@cherylhaskell9830 Hi Cheryl, it gets worse when you scale it up to 8 billion people. If it was my kid I'd go and find a rock to hide under.

    • @ND-nx1nt
      @ND-nx1nt Рік тому

      Was this detailed when the psychologist took the stand?

    • @stevenmccallum4268
      @stevenmccallum4268 Рік тому +16

      ​@cherylhaskell9830 they are partly responsible - your country's healthcare system is an utter disgrace and is also partly struggle. Stop being in denial.

    • @IAmNoOne281
      @IAmNoOne281 Рік тому

      The problem with your opinion is that it is only HALF TRUE. There are red flags EVERYWHERE. Our nation idolizes murder, death and pain. Our movies are laden with horror and pain. Our culture thrives on chaos. It’s incredibly easy to put this kid and his parents on blast, but while they are to blame so is the culture itself.

  • @n3v3r2l8
    @n3v3r2l8 Рік тому +66

    This man's impact statement is so eloquent. It gave me chills. May God bless this family during this horrendous time...

  • @tatianaflores1926
    @tatianaflores1926 Рік тому +131

    I lost my 25 year old son on Dec3rd in Jacksonville unexpectedly to a aneurysm and my heart is completely shredded. I can’t imagine having even less years with my child and my child being murdered so senselessly and having to deal with all the court stuff as well.

    • @lolaoh2001
      @lolaoh2001 Рік тому +24

      My sincere condolences on the loss of your precious son 🙏🏻💔

    • @sea302
      @sea302 Рік тому +14

      My deepest condolences mama. 🙏

    • @Saltyyfish
      @Saltyyfish Рік тому +6

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @tatianaflores1926
      @tatianaflores1926 Рік тому +8

      Ty all very much

    • @samanthamaksimow1034
      @samanthamaksimow1034 Рік тому +3

      Very very deeply deeply sorry for your loss, and of course I echo this same sentiment to all of the members of the Bailey family, as well as all of the rest of her loved ones, like her friends, her cheer team, and everybody at her school and in her community that were touched by her in a positive way. I’m at least glad that her family was spared the even more extensive grief than they’ve had to go through already, by going through a long and lengthy trial. ❤️🙏🏻🕊🤍

  • @courtneysmith6082
    @courtneysmith6082 Рік тому +45

    An extremely well-crafted and impactful statement - your humble and self-aware tone made your statement one of the most genuinely moving statements I’ve seen delivered in open court. You have an extraordinarily brave, bright, and loving family. I can’t put into words how truly sorry I am for your loss. Sending you all my best wishes and my hopes for a future full of kindness and healing from Pensacola.

  • @MrEdium
    @MrEdium Рік тому +282

    It's horrible to outlive your child.
    🙏PRAYERS FOR THIS MAN & HIS FAMILY🙏

    • @yvonbarrier1829
      @yvonbarrier1829 Рік тому +5

      Absolutely.

    • @maryjane4432
      @maryjane4432 Рік тому +6

      My aunt has our lives two of her four. One isn’t doing too great. She just turned 80 the other day

    • @travelseatsyellowlab
      @travelseatsyellowlab Рік тому +4

      @Mary Jane my aunt died on 9 August 2012, at just 64, followed by her sister on 17 January 2014, aged only 60. Their mother survived her only two children, dying finally, at 100, in May 2021.

    • @RicKIABelfastNorNiron
      @RicKIABelfastNorNiron Рік тому +3

      Not by choice tho

    • @pommiebears
      @pommiebears Рік тому +1

      It’s truly my biggest fear. Without doubt. I’d go through anything RATHER than go through that. Id rather suffer pain, suffer torture, suffer anything, than have to be a parent who lost her child. Because, regardless, if you lose your child, you’re going through pain, and torture, every minute of every day for the rest of your life. No. I’d die of a broken heart. The best of me would die, even if my body didn’t. I’m so sad for any human being that has to survive with such insurmountable pain and suffering!

  • @marciabraga1111
    @marciabraga1111 Рік тому +67

    When a parent loses a child they stop living, they simply exist. May God comfort this family.

  • @anitamorejon-moreira9536
    @anitamorejon-moreira9536 Рік тому +50

    How courageous is this Dad, I can’t even imagine what his family is going going through. Praying for all who knew this beautiful young lady!

  • @kathyparker5899
    @kathyparker5899 Рік тому +47

    This is NOT the way it’s supposed to be. I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter.

  • @BeeTreeGuy
    @BeeTreeGuy Рік тому +19

    I couldn’t imagine coming face to face with the thing that murdered my daughter and not being able to give back the 114 stabs and watch the life drain out of the useless thing like it did to my daughter. The thing is getting off easy.

  • @ceejay8545
    @ceejay8545 Рік тому +144

    I've lost my parents, my husband and my brother, but i can't imagine loosing one of my daughters. My heart goes out to this family.

    • @dpbarbie9560
      @dpbarbie9560 Рік тому +8

      ❤❤❤

    • @chinadoll534
      @chinadoll534 Рік тому +10

      Sorry for your losses. Stay strong in the Lord

    • @ceejay8545
      @ceejay8545 Рік тому +12

      I'm doing good thanks, I still have my family both by blood and by love.

    • @chinadoll534
      @chinadoll534 Рік тому

      @@ceejay8545 🥰

    • @john-hn7bh
      @john-hn7bh Рік тому +4

      GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!

  • @trixie06chick
    @trixie06chick Рік тому +41

    This is just heartbreaking hearing the family’s statements. Prayers for healing and comfort.

  • @kristencobb230
    @kristencobb230 Рік тому +44

    This was such a heinous, senseless, brutal act. Reminds me of Paris Bennett who, at the age of 13, murdered his baby sister. These types of sociopaths can’t be rehabilitated. They are demons in human form and should be locked up forever. Prayers for this beautiful family. My heart breaks for them. 🙏🏻

  • @melnimtz
    @melnimtz Рік тому +21

    Every impact statement this family wrote and read, shows how close, how strong, how well spoken and how loved they all are. Praying for this family’s healing as they try to maneuver their way through their lives and in keeping their daughter & sisters memory alive 🤍🙏🤍

  • @edwardmcmanus7496
    @edwardmcmanus7496 Рік тому +28

    This loving father's testament to his daughter was absolutely heart wrenching. And at the same time it was beautifully delivered. What a wonderful father and family. Prayers for your peace. 🌾🙏😔

  • @NixBurkett1984
    @NixBurkett1984 Рік тому +56

    My thoughts, prayers and heart is with the Bailey family. Even here in the UK this crime really shocked me. Sending you all much love ❤️

  • @RocknRolla2023
    @RocknRolla2023 Рік тому +33

    The excruciating pain this family is going through just breaks my heart.

  • @beautifulchaos4383
    @beautifulchaos4383 Рік тому +65

    Cannot imagine this family's pain. I lost my dad two weeks ago and I'm still reeling, he deserves 114 year's in prison. His mind is warped beyond repair

    • @BrendaT24
      @BrendaT24 Рік тому +9

      So sorry for your loss❤

    • @beautifulchaos4383
      @beautifulchaos4383 Рік тому +3

      @@BrendaT24 thank you

    • @justchillin6117
      @justchillin6117 Рік тому +1

      I’m praying for you and I’m sorry for the loss of your dad. Hugs 🫂 and 🙏

  • @honeybunch5765
    @honeybunch5765 Рік тому +30

    Losing a loved one does not pass. You just get used to it as time passes by. You cry less until eventually you can handle talking about that person without bursting into tears. It takes years, but death has no timeline. It is continuous until you die.❤❤❤

  • @bryandano
    @bryandano Рік тому +18

    Give him 5 minutes in the back room with the punk

  • @Jcolorado555
    @Jcolorado555 Рік тому +53

    I can't image how the family feels😢

  • @thegoblinsteed3558
    @thegoblinsteed3558 Рік тому +29

    What a wonderful Dad 😢 I really can't even imagine. The strength he's showing. 💜

  • @breew7126
    @breew7126 Рік тому +65

    praying for you dad, I know you want to reach across that courthouse and avenge your baby, because this is a monster who will never understand what he did.

  • @briandamalagon837
    @briandamalagon837 Рік тому +29

    Even though he is grieving, he is a gentleman and expresses himself very respectfully. I pray for him and his family.

  • @SofiaTHEfIRST1873
    @SofiaTHEfIRST1873 Рік тому +7

    Aw his smile talking about his wife was so sweet

  • @Drewbie___
    @Drewbie___ Рік тому +6

    A lot of my life I have gone around and said that I hate people because of the way they are towards other people. But the fact that there are people that drop big plans like Mother's Day and go out and search for someone's child gives me a lot of hope that there are still kind hearted people left in this world

  • @jent4375
    @jent4375 Рік тому +16

    This family is so brave and strong. I can't even imagine the nightmare they are living. I'm glad they all have a gift for articulation so the judge and everyone watching can fully understand how much damage the killer did to their family, friends and community, and most of all Tristyn. I pray they can find some kind of peace some day, some how.

  • @lastingbeauty7416
    @lastingbeauty7416 Рік тому +11

    No apology ever excepted EVER!

  • @Snail.1
    @Snail.1 Рік тому +20

    I have lost 2 grown children. I understand what this family feels. I just hope sometime after all this court sentencing is over this family can heal some and become stronger. It does take time. 😭❤

  • @FloridaFun10007
    @FloridaFun10007 Рік тому +44

    it makes me sick to keep seeing the garbage of society continuingly destroying all that is good and decent in our lives. The innocent keep taking the blunt hint of all that is evil by these monsters.

    • @SJ-li6ho
      @SJ-li6ho Рік тому

      America right now is absolutely horrible. The American dream is long gone. Horrible third world society.

    • @ActiveAussie2024
      @ActiveAussie2024 Рік тому +1

      What's causing it though? What is causing all this anger ( with a lot of young dudes) ? Not making excuses for him, but something is just seriously wrong here. He is not the only one obviously.

    • @jomr4249
      @jomr4249 Рік тому

      @@ActiveAussie2024 “MGTOW” 🙄🙄🙄 okay woman hater your opinion is obviously biased

    • @rubyanddelilahandnani
      @rubyanddelilahandnani Рік тому

      @@ActiveAussie2024 good question

  • @JohnLee-cb8ez
    @JohnLee-cb8ez Рік тому +10

    As a dad, I cannot even fathom this man's emotions. RIP, little one. Rest in God's care.

  • @robertwhelan9132
    @robertwhelan9132 Рік тому +29

    Oh my goodness this is sad. I can't even begin to imagine the grief and loss that the father and the entire family is going through. I hope he continues to find comfort and strength in the coming days

  • @unclefester9113
    @unclefester9113 Рік тому +37

    I love watching trial and courtroom drama. This was excruciating to watch. Hard to know how this man takes his next breath. So sad, so sorry, so much pain. My hope for his family is that he can continue to be a good dad... even though there is an empty spot.

  • @curseking_
    @curseking_ Рік тому +10

    I applaud this father because I unfortunately wouldn’t keep my composure if I was addressing my daughters murderer.

  • @maryjane4432
    @maryjane4432 Рік тому +14

    I agree, that heartless evil monster stole his daughter from him. He isn’t sorry. He just wanted a lesser sentence

  • @shannonmathiscowen8682
    @shannonmathiscowen8682 Рік тому +10

    The whole Bailey family is the epitome of love and strength. Tristyn was so blessed in her short life. I know these impact statements are for the judge/sentencing... the only thing that would affect the monster in the room would be 'We get to play any video game we want, whenever we want. We can go skateboarding anywhere, anytime. We have freedom, great food, love and fun!'...or something to that effect. Good riddance Aiden Fucci.

  • @fresh.prince7472
    @fresh.prince7472 Рік тому +66

    Aiden has been insincere from day one we're only lucky he didn't take more lives because he would of without any doubt

    • @yvonbarrier1829
      @yvonbarrier1829 Рік тому +1

      I don't think he is insincere. He still killed her. One to many.

    • @nildabridgeman8104
      @nildabridgeman8104 Рік тому

      @@yvonbarrier1829 👈 UA-cam GENERATED DEMONIC FAKE BOT ACCOUNT

    • @twatwafflearttheclown
      @twatwafflearttheclown 9 місяців тому

      @@yvonbarrier1829his apology won’t bring her back

  • @WhitneyBrock88
    @WhitneyBrock88 Рік тому +27

    This is so heartbreaking to listen to. 😢

  • @scootiebootie3553
    @scootiebootie3553 Рік тому +11

    wow, her dad is like a robot. he is so dead inside he is so monotone. my heart hurts for him. his attorney made him apologize. it wasnt sincere!

  • @violetblyss
    @violetblyss Рік тому +7

    11:55 - 12:10 is the saddest thing I've ever heard. I hope this family can find peace one day

  • @joheslop6481
    @joheslop6481 Рік тому +5

    The most powerfully, articulate speech from a father who is clearly beyond destroyed. Yet he retained the greatest dignity. Like his lost daughter, if only there were more like him in the world. Xx

  • @kathleendestefano5577
    @kathleendestefano5577 Рік тому +3

    Your apology is unacceptable.

  • @janetdurkee8527
    @janetdurkee8527 Рік тому +8

    This Dad is such a wonderful man. God bless him, i hope he finds some peace someday. I so wish this was a nightmare for all them.

  • @thebella422
    @thebella422 Рік тому +10

    I balled during each of the family's impact statements, my heart goes out to them😢😢
    Sending this family healing prayers❤

  • @anons000
    @anons000 Рік тому +7

    Why do they not show Aidens reaction to any of this?

  • @bobbyswain7049
    @bobbyswain7049 Рік тому +5

    My hat is off to you sir....for not jumping over that table and ripping his gd head off......you are certainly more man than I am...I could not do it.......🌹RIP Tristyn🌹........you were taken way to soon

  • @noregrets7469
    @noregrets7469 Рік тому +8

    The pain will subside to a point where your tears at the mere thought of her will flow just a little less but the heart will always be raw with the memory of your child. This person that impacted your lives needs to be left where he belongs which is behind you, never in front. That domain belongs to you, your daughters and your loving wife, but never, ever him! Bless you all🌹

  • @GarrettMayfield
    @GarrettMayfield Рік тому +8

    You get a clear sense that He holds down this family with such strength and dignity. My heart goes out to him, his wife, and his babies.

  • @andrewskinner8560
    @andrewskinner8560 Рік тому +1

    As well spoken, calm and brave as he is, his words pack a knockout punch.

  • @loridunn3493
    @loridunn3493 Рік тому +9

    Her life had such meaning, it’s very obvious to me how special she truly was to everyone who knew her! 😢

  • @morwennalake5520
    @morwennalake5520 Рік тому +4

    It seems so superficial to apologise for taking someone's life.

  • @janelbuckley8332
    @janelbuckley8332 Рік тому +11

    Such a beautiful family. Lord give them strength.

  • @Mr.T-BAGGIN-UR-MOM
    @Mr.T-BAGGIN-UR-MOM Рік тому +35

    Man that hit hard when he said they still pay her phone bill and keep her phone on😥

    • @jayb9282
      @jayb9282 Рік тому +3

      Fr man 💔 makes me so angry at the dude who did it 😒

  • @ginad4199
    @ginad4199 Рік тому +6

    The dad was so right. The monster’s apology is not sincere and not felt. The monster sat there emotionless just like nothing has happened. Give him life in prison, period

  • @shilohivy4590
    @shilohivy4590 Рік тому +10

    My heart breaks for this family. This is devastating

  • @stephaniesmith1229
    @stephaniesmith1229 9 місяців тому +1

    What a testament to the father he is, to encourage his family while struggling in his own grief. To push them to see how they are accomplishing things despite daily feelings of failure.

  • @michelle99923
    @michelle99923 15 днів тому

    This family are some of the most well spoken people I've ever heard. Even faced with unimaginable grief and anger they are so composed.

  • @BeachButterfly22
    @BeachButterfly22 Рік тому +2

    Paying the cell phone for her friends is a remarkable act of comfort and compassion for her friends 💕
    I understand the cell phone, I did this too and now send messages through the google bar to my parents. Sometimes getting the most beautiful messages and images ❤
    Tristyns Dad ♥️

  • @ThatLadyInDallas2024
    @ThatLadyInDallas2024 Рік тому +12

    Poor man. He'll never walk her down the aisle. 💔💔💔 RIP Tristyn. 😢

  • @jenniferfisher2703
    @jenniferfisher2703 Рік тому +5

    This was unbelievable heart breaking I can't imagine what the family is feeling. I lost my brother in 2016 which was so hard he pasted in his sleep but to have someone so callously murder your family member for no reason I can't imagine the pain that would be to bear. Prayers for this family and may Tristyn rest in eternal peace❤

  • @lovelexie1945
    @lovelexie1945 Рік тому +1

    The way he described his baby girl reminded me of myself. Which in a way makes me feel connected to the family, even though I don't know them. I watched a friend of my mom's lose her baby girl, the youngest, with an older brother, she was only a few months old, and suffocated by the family cat. This mom went through so much, including a life-long off and on battle against cancer, along with many heart conditions and surgeries. This mom slowly lost everything she was, and shut everyone out and cut us all off. It was painful to see. Unfortunately she did not have the strength to continue fighting and passed away in July of this year, he baby girl passed away just before my birthday in September of 2022. I did not get to see that woman before she passed, I did not see her for over 6 months. She was a singer, and her songs were played at her funeral... I miss her so much. But this family has been ripped apart by the actions of Aiden Fucci... How I long and hope for peace, comfort, and love...

  • @morris9488
    @morris9488 Рік тому +4

    Your daughter was so gorgeous, and so well loved. Your whole family is amazing and this demonic monster tried his best to weaken and destroy your family. That fool only thought he stopped her. He has no power, he will never stop her. Please know that your daughter has impacted the entire globe.

  • @mzjones6
    @mzjones6 Рік тому +7

    Prayers for her family. The unimaginable loss is papable thru the camera.

  • @Marysfam
    @Marysfam Рік тому +3

    RIP Angel. I can’t imagine your pain, I am raising my grand daughter whom was born the same day as your precious baby girl, my grand daughter turned 12 this year!!!! I can’t imagine this horrible loss. Stay strong and hold on tight to one another.

  • @BroBray2966
    @BroBray2966 Рік тому +2

    This family is so broken. What a nightmare this boy caused. 😢

  • @jessshine9625
    @jessshine9625 Рік тому +8

    Soo heartbreaking what this father and the rest of the family is going through. I cant even imagine their pain and the impact that it has on them. As far as Aiden...the father is right his apology wasnt sincere one bit he couldnt even say Tristyns name he said "her" smh I pray this family gets the justice they asked for and deserve. Lord wrap your arms around this family and give them strength in the days ahead.

  • @wishIKnewHowToLove
    @wishIKnewHowToLove 10 місяців тому +1

    seriously??? the county or the guilty side does not even compensate the counseling??? this is terrible!!!!

  • @auschris9296
    @auschris9296 Рік тому +1

    wow this fathers speech more than blew me away

  • @NotTUHDAY
    @NotTUHDAY Рік тому +2

    A parent’s/family’s worst nightmare…losing a child. My prayers and heartfelt love to this family❤

  • @narelledavis5516
    @narelledavis5516 Рік тому +6

    My heart breaks for this beautiful family. It is an unimaginable tragedy that they face. Hopefully together they can and will hold each other tightly and that their pain lessens and the love they have continues to give them any form of peace they are able to find. I send my love and prayers. This has impacted my thoughts and feelings even from here in Australia. God bless and hoping you find the strength to continue on in this life.

  • @jerseystotler3615
    @jerseystotler3615 Рік тому +3

    This father's grief touches my soul. I send you and you family so much LOVE❤. Prayers God will give you strength to carry on, for your beautiful daughter Trysten.

  • @dpbarbie9560
    @dpbarbie9560 Рік тому +12

    i am so sorry this happened to your daughter and your family ❤

  • @shawnmierczynski9830
    @shawnmierczynski9830 Рік тому +8

    This is heartbreaking

  • @StarPanda7
    @StarPanda7 Рік тому +11

    Wow my heart goes out to him and the family. I am so sorry.

  • @soultaina
    @soultaina Рік тому +2

    I don't know how I was able to sit through most of the family's impact statements but I've been in nonstop tears for the better part of 2 hours and I can't even begin to scratch the surface on what they must be going through. This is just horrible 😭😭 My whole heart goes out to them if that means anything at all.

  • @bryandano
    @bryandano Рік тому +5

    And was his mother ever charged with anything ?

  • @omavicmcmurray2893
    @omavicmcmurray2893 Рік тому +2

    I am so touched by the Bailey family, each one of them spoke with such integrity and love and wisdom, even Sophia who wasn’t ready to speak was represented. They are such an amazing family, they look out for eachother, they literally have each other’s backs. I am so touched by their family love. Each member is so important to the whole. Obviously one member, Trysten, is absent. I have no doubt she would have had an incredible effect on the world. Those who knew her, shared how she was full of life and goodness. The ripple on humanity she had already caused in her lifetime has been magnified by the love she raised in her family and community, we are indeed more humane now because of what we have experienced with Trysten and the whole Bailey family. May the love continue to rise and the goodness spread forever. May Peace be with each and every member of Trysten’s family and community.

    • @lustforkicks7392
      @lustforkicks7392 Рік тому

      They "literally" have each others backs?? I didn't think that was remotely possible! When watching these clips, I don't see the backs of the members of the Bailey family being held by each other!
      By the way, Tristyn's first name is spelled "T-R-I-S-T-Y-N" not "T-R-Y-S-T-E-N".
      ~Dutch

  • @siyahseeker
    @siyahseeker Місяць тому +1

    Apologize? How...
    Given that we, as humans, are taught to think through our actions...when you reach the point of murdering someone for explicitly no reason at all, you are pretty much too far gone. How...why?
    Apologies are for accidentally breaking someone's favorite vase. No sweat, right? Just offer to replace it or glue it back together.
    Apologies are for saying something that you though was funny but it hurt the other person by mistake. No problem. Just explain that it was not your intention to hurt them.
    Apologies are for accidentally bumping into someone's cart at the store. No hassle, right? Just move out the way and be careful next time.
    Murder is an action that has full intent behind it. An apology is useless in this situation. There can't be a next time. People cannot bring the dead back to life. This is not a video game. You can't just bring someone back through a previously saved game. This is real life.

  • @Sunrise_maliah
    @Sunrise_maliah 10 місяців тому +2

    It’s really disappointing that she’s called “murdered cheerleader”

  • @HettiedeKorteDiplomaat
    @HettiedeKorteDiplomaat Рік тому +5

    Such a wonderful family. Good people. That’s what humanity looks like.

  • @bellagirlgirl8827
    @bellagirlgirl8827 Рік тому +6

    There is an evil that lives in Aiden's soul. It would be an unacceptable risk to try to rehabilitate him and allow him to ever mix in with society. He needs to spend the rest of his life in a place where he can be medicated and observed on a daily basis by trained staff.

    • @ActiveAussie2024
      @ActiveAussie2024 Рік тому +1

      There is something definitely wrong with him and many other similar young dudes. He needs to be locked up for a very long time, it's punishment, plus for community protection. However, this issue needs to be carefully studied. Too many very young dudes going on rampages or otherwise commuting violent murders. It's happening in Australia now also.

    • @johnpayne6196
      @johnpayne6196 Рік тому

      No. He needed to be gone. Any taking of life; forfeit their life.

  • @crimetimewithjess5366
    @crimetimewithjess5366 Рік тому +6

    Everyone of these family members are inpactful. The pain is palpable. The closeness they shared has been ripped apart and sewn back together in a way they never imagined. This family, through all of their pain and torment, is so strong. I will sincerely pray that they continue to strive for better and stay closely together, I think it's impartive for them and for trystans memory. GOD BLESS YOU BAILEY FAMILY. 🙏 ❤

  • @leeziacook9799
    @leeziacook9799 Рік тому +5

    Prayers to his family. 😢this hurts my heart and it's so senseless. She was such a beautiful young girl.

  • @rabblerousin8981
    @rabblerousin8981 Рік тому +1

    When they say “it couldn’t have happened to a nicer family”….. Jesus. This family is so, so lovely …. This really was a crime against nature and he should be justiced as such.

  • @patrickmba7638
    @patrickmba7638 Рік тому +1

    I can't imagine the sheer anguish, pain ,rage he must be feeling..

  • @shantelegray8106
    @shantelegray8106 Рік тому +3

    I listened to all of the family's testimonies, and this 1 was the most impactful, for me!
    Trystan had the most wonderful parents and family.
    God bless them all 🙏

  • @shandracrews8238
    @shandracrews8238 Рік тому +1

    THIS was the MOST HEARTBREAKING THING I HAVE EVER FELT! IM THE OLDEST OF 5 WE WERE A MILITARY FAMILY. MY DAD SERVED 30YRS IN THE US NAVY TRAVELING FROM STATE TO STATE, LIKE THIS FAMILY. WHEN YOU MOVIE ALOT, YOU MAKE LOTS OF FRIENDS BUT YOU LEAVE THEM BEHIND SO YOUR BOTHER AND SISTERS ARE YOUR BEST FRIEND. I UNDERSTAND THE THE CLOSENESS OF THE SIBLINGS VERY WELL, WE ARE ALL WE HAVE. MY PARENTS TAUGHT US TO BE A VERY CLOSE FAMILY. I COULD NEVER EVER IMAGINE LOSING NOT ONE OF THEM. IF SOMTHING HAPPENED TO ANY ONE OF US I KNOW THAT WOULD DESTROY MY PARENTS BECAUSE OF THE DEEP LOVE FOR US AND FAMILY. I COULD FEEL THAT MY PARENTS ENJOYED BEING CALLED MOM AND DADDY.
    I DO NOT APPRECIATE HOW SOME OF THE INPACT STATEMENTS WERE TITLED "CHEERLEADER!! SHE DESERVED TO HAVE HER NAME PRINTED! IT'S DISGUSTING AND APPALLING! SHE WAS MUCH MORE THAN A CHEERLEADER SHE WAS A BEAUTIFUL SOLE AND DESERVED RESPECT!!