Exactly (well almost) matches a story I know of a good friend. Gifts, designer bags, make-up, online food and grocery when visiting homeland, online food vouchers, internet bill for son, hotel booking. She was always tired to him, mood swings, always feeling unwell. he eventually ended it all for good.
Stay single Have fun you are the Goose that lays the Golden Eggs, never forget that. Never buy anything for a bar girl or massage girl, just enjoy her company and on to the next Embrace your inner butterfly :) If you are looking for True Love, buy a puppy !!!
Thai working girls are bad but Laotian girls are far worse. They want your money but do nothing to please you. They are poor but do not want to work for money. They want to milk you dry.
There are a couple of big holes in this story. 1) He says he told her to quit working and he would support her and later that she wanted money to start her own business, and he gave it to her. Then later he says he went looking for her in the massage parlor where she worked! 2) He says he was not allowed to meet her friends, but then later he says the man contacted her friends and ended up meeting one of them to get info on Nok! If he never met them, how did he know who they were and how could he have their phone numbers. Very fishy story though I know such scams happen all the time.
This happens in every country. He is an adult making decisions not a baby. Hopefully he had great sex because that was what it’s about. If he had the money he should spend it!
@@thailandunfiltered Went back and saw it was gone now. Appreciate the video all the same bud. Lived a couple years in Thailand and heard first hand many people having similar experiences. Videos like these are essential for new travellers to the region.
To be a sugar daddy is one thing, but to give the girl access to your bank account is totally something else. I don't even give my wife of 34 years access to mine. AHAH.
I too entered into a relationship with a Filipina here in the states. You hit the nail on the head when it comes to “love bombing “ I learned a great deal about narcissistic personality disorders. I have to say, I’m thankful I went through this here in the states prior to moving to the Philippines. Which is my goal to do so within the next 18 months. Plus this gives me time to focus on myself. Great video. There are takeaways that will benefit all men if you’re moving overseas or not.
Yes, a Thai massage girl is no different from a bar girl. The thai massage girl will disguise as an innocent woman who is just making a hard, honest living. But in truth they meet many guys and has a few guys on her roster. Most of them are looking for a rich CEO because most of her friends are in competition for the most richest guy. You can be 60 or 70 with a 30 year old woman, and she will have some else on the side. If your girl started off innocent then her family members and her friends will change all that. Not just foreigner gets hurt but it happens to Thai men too. How do i know? I'm getting a divorce with one.
Word is in the west where l live, divorce will ruin you as a man once taken to the cleaners. And we not even mentioned life time alimoney now. Dont tell me office women dont cheat with chad and tyrone now. 😅
I don't know who wrote this script but I'm impressed with the insights, explanations & also the practical advice given. There's a lot of value in here as well as obvious concern for the happiness of your brothers as they embark on relationships in Thailand. I have personally experienced all this and more as I was married to a Thai woman for 10 years & had children with her. The most important thing for us to grasp is that we have an implicit assumption from our own culture that if you really go out of your way to help someone out of a bad situation that they will appreciate it and they won't even think of screwing you over. This is simply not true and it's especially not true in Thai culture.
@@ferney2936 are you implying, that simping and/or white knighting is appreciated by western fefailes? Have a look at divorce as well as alimony statistics in western countries...
I had a coworker in Afghanistan I'll call Berry. He fell HOH with a bar girl, even though we all warned him against doing so. To make a long story short he left his family in the U.S. invested all his time and $$$ into this barfly, married her, bought land built a nice house, bought more land, opened a prawn farm and had his barfly wife " relatives " taking care of everything whilst he was making $$$ in Afghanistan. His " wife" tricked him into a FAKE marriage ceremony. What a fokin looser this guy was...He lost everything, at least 160K USD and all those yrs of lies...
I had a Thai massage therapist girlfriend in California, after a few months she rubbed me the wrong way. She used to work at a bakery, but kept getting a yeast infection, so she became a massage therapist, but got carpal tunnel sydrome and quit her job.
I once worked as a pilot in a bakery; I'd take dough and pilot in the corner. I quit, though; I got sick of the dough and thought I'd go on the loaf (sound of a slap and an :Ohhh!
@@protegelin They Must be FULL of VENEREAL DISEASES and then YOU END UP OLD and SICK and NO "out fo the world feeling" Well, YES, the PAIN THAT BEING SICK gives YOU. Dumb Comment Yours.
Our guy isn't too bright. This is common there. When her attitude changed, she knew it was must a matter of time and she had already taken enough anyway. She probably wasn't that good. He was that dumb. I think if we seen "our guy" and Thai girl that would explain a lot. #1 Don't give money. duh! Pay for the dates. If she's using you for dates, oh well. It was a business deal. But never give money. This guy will do it again. It probably wasn't his first second or third time.
Best part is, after finally realizing he had been played, the 1st thing he does is BACKSTAB Som without a second thought. With no duty to tell him, she tells him the truth anyway under threat of physical harm. Not only was he a moron victim, he is an asshole.
@@justhere3794 If that improves your circumstance. Then yes. Your nose is not actually between your ears.....So that does explain the question....and the letters instead of words.
I got bitten once 20,000 baht a normal girl where I gave her money to help and after that she kept asking for money where I refused after 2 months she takes over a restaurant.Never give money guys unless you are long with her and valid reason and never try show off or be a hero.If she has a good or better job than you it will make your life easier and not destroy you.
or learn how to proper court a woman.. how real attraction works.. the proper balance how a girl should act.. never believe the words but their actions.. woman they like u they are chasing you, they dont want your money but your time to spend.. as a men u only facilitate dates.. nothing more.. no texts in between.. make fun dates, hangout , hook up.. no future planning.. live in the moment.. your goals and mission is more important then her.. she joins u, not the other way... u dont have to be single that way.. negoiation is key..
i went to the dominican republic and paid $200.00 usa for one week with 6 women and was well worth it. that is what i learned, and i would never get married to any of them. cheers
Leave your heart at the airport. Thank me when you fly back and your heart and money is still yours. Don't bang 'em twice or stick to the three day rule.
What is the mystery or tragedy here, This is just another lonely old man who has been fooling himself since the beginning of his trip. A beautiful young woman is only with this type of man for one reason, so where is the surprise? If you meet a bar girl, go go dancer or freelancer it is her nature to take advantage of a man, so enjoy the ride.
I have told my wife from since we were dating that I would never take care of grown folks with the obvious exception of her and her mom (dad passed away years ago). I fully believe that adults are supposed to take care of themselves, AND as much as I love ny wife she gets a fixed amount of money per month since I will be a pensioner soon. She will live well but I will never be broke because when I put my foot down she knows that I don't abide any nonsense. Men need to go back to being men again
This type of story isn’t new; it’s just another example. You need to know where to look. I hope the man recovers emotionally. As you mentioned, ‘Believe in your gut feelings.’ There are no exceptions when it comes to cross-cultural relationships anywhere in the world. The summary at the end was well done.
he already lost the moment he was texting or calling her.. u only have to facilitate a date.. nothing more.. if she has fun and she has attraction for u, she wil do the work mostly..
Story got its wholes and mix-ups but its basically like many other Thai relationship stories. Meeting her friends is key, also notice if they only share negative things with you but are having fun when chatting friends on the phone. A real GF will share her happy moments with you, she will not be shy to bring you to party with friends.
im planning to go to thailand next year and I think this channel helps to be more careful. I want to believe in the good in people and feel like I could have fallen for a trap like this
Am 71 years old, been around women my, this I always say that love ❤️ is always blind, also there is no guarantee that the one you love ❤️ is going to love you back. 👎👎😞🤔
Love may be blind, but why one puts it in such places like the massage parlors or bars or night club or that kind? It's supposed to be purely transactional, COD, and not an intense repeating customer. They're places for Sx not Lv.
If it's true, he obviously deserves it. That is a pretty ham fisted over the top example. It would take a "special" person, exceptionally desperate and deathly afraid of being alone to fall for that and not see it. The key to happiness in Thailand is to be aware of this game, and to have some fun with it by deflecting the blatant milking attempt. You can play women like that for laughs just as easily as they can play you. There is a hard rule in Thailand..."never date the same woman twice."
As Confusious said "He who falls for the charms of a soothsayer always looses his nuts" My friend, you'll never find number 1. Tryng to find number 1, you'll go through ten and number one will just become number 11. Foolish math I know, by that time you'll have no nuts as my friend Confusious says.Hahahahaha.
My Best friend in Thailand who would go for regular massage and finally asked her out. They have a great relationship and she is a wonderful girl. She works and brings money into the relationship also.
I am married with a Thai woman for more than 15 years and there is no chance to tell all about everything that was happening. But in the end it is a life experience that can make up your consciousness about life and happiness and the meaning of everything. My advise: Just never loose yourself.
If you fall for a village girl with kids back in the village after being dumped by her ex-boyfriend, who’s got responsibilities under Thai culture for the care of her parents in addition to herself and her children, and who was working at a low end job like a massage parlor, You absolutely must expect that financial security is the number one driver in her life. “ no money, no honey“. We Westerners like to talk about the importance of love, but as you will hear from many Thai women, if you stay long enough in Thailand, “Love doesn’t buy you dinner”. This attitude is reinforced by the traditional Thai attitude that the man must show love and ability to support his woman by paying for absolutely everything well. This custom probably made sense in the village context where the woman was expected to stay home and raise the children, while the man toiled in the fields, it doesn’t make as much sense in the modern cosmopolitan world. Yet, even professional women in Thailand, who make a good income and our financially secure, maintain this attitude, and expect their male partner to support them in every way. This is objectionable and offensive to the western man who has learned to accept women as their equal, and to view a relationship as a partnership where burdens are shared, and not foisted upon just one of the partners. The money issue is the number one issue that causes western men and Thai women to break up. And this is true, even if the woman is not a manipulator asportrayed in this video. Just think if this unfortunate man had proposed marriage and learn for the first time that under Thai culture he was expected to pay hundreds of thousands of baht to the woman’s parents as the price for marrying their daughter. In traditional cultures, relationships are more like business transactions than romantic ones. If you accept that, you will have less heartache.
Reminds me of a Thai beauty I met in bkk. She wasn’t a working girl (at least that’s not how we met). Everything about her was perfect. I like the rose colored glasses comment you made. I did notice the red flags, but none of them registered. As we talked about getting together, I noticed she wasn’t big on PDA. As we were waiting for our taxi one day, I happened to walk past a jewelry store. I was in the market for a new chain for me. I didn’t say anything to her but she immediately came to me very lovey dovy. She normally didn’t do that in public, but in private she was willing to do whatever I asked. It’s kinda subtle, but it was enough to knock the rose colored glasses off just enough to recognize the red flag. I didn’t but her anything. Thankfully the store was closed and I said we’ll go later. Well I kept pushing later for long enough to at least make the trip worth it. That was probably one of the best trips ever. Haha.
I listen to a lot of these stories I find them very entertaining, I’m in a similar situation just different because we are all in America. But I protect myself by saying I don’t have money, but she hasn’t really asked me for money yet.
I meet girl in a massage parlour in new Zealand she Chinese and I am really in love with her we weren't together that long but have stayed in a long distance relationship she has been putting pressure on us to get her partner visa hurryed up to come be with me so she can work and make money to surport her family in China and pay for her father's heart surgery he has his appointment this Wednesday to get Heart surgery, I have not been able to save enough money to get organized for us and I was planning to get her a small business like food trailer or something so she can work in a honest job and make the same money an I won't have to share her with other men I'm now having my doubts because I can't afford to surport her like a husband should be able to and I love her so much.
It's true they can put a spell on you. And it takes a lot to break the spell only you can do it and run hard from her. It's a game to them. Sad but she's one of many. This is one of the many stories. I have such a friend, also works in a massage. No relationship, I'm that smart. She's secretive, she's doesn't tells anything about her past. Well, i knew enough, told her how i feel and think about her and that was that. Don't be a fool and make from your heart a stone and move on, enough women in Thailand.
Better to rent, than to buy. This story is the classic White Knight that's get a financial raping.
Why buy the cow when milk is cheaper
Sounds more like a hot chick with an old fart with money to me!
This guy sounds like a...."Super Simp"...Geeze what a sucker..smh.
Yes, I hired a Thai girl for 3 days for $500 😂 😂
@@LeonTruong-ik4ne Ok, but you still rented...😉😂😂
Exactly (well almost) matches a story I know of a good friend. Gifts, designer bags, make-up, online food and grocery when visiting homeland, online food vouchers, internet bill for son, hotel booking. She was always tired to him, mood swings, always feeling unwell. he eventually ended it all for good.
Thanks for sharing your experience
Stay single
Have fun
you are the Goose that lays the Golden Eggs, never forget that.
Never buy anything for a bar girl or massage girl, just enjoy her company and on to the next
Embrace your inner butterfly :)
If you are looking for True Love, buy a puppy !!!
Learned my lesson…
Thai working girls are bad but Laotian girls are far worse. They want your money but do nothing to please you. They are poor but do not want to work for money. They want to milk you dry.
l thought l was bad with woman
Very wise words. Stick to the ole "Bag, Shag, and Skedaddle" and you'll be fine.
@@jamiem9767 Old Saying by a former President: If you want a friend in this town, get a dog. LOL.
There are a couple of big holes in this story. 1) He says he told her to quit working and he would support her and later that she wanted money to start her own business, and he gave it to her. Then later he says he went looking for her in the massage parlor where she worked! 2) He says he was not allowed to meet her friends, but then later he says the man contacted her friends and ended up meeting one of them to get info on Nok! If he never met them, how did he know who they were and how could he have their phone numbers. Very fishy story though I know such scams happen all the time.
Hahaha... it ain't a fool-proof script! Just enjoy the story and think of some great fool really exists and lives for his Little Johnny 😂 lol
I think this story is made up also and somewhat exaggerated. But, I do believe these type of women exist. A fool and his money will be parted.
Felt off all together
This happens in every country. He is an adult making decisions not a baby. Hopefully he had great sex because that was what it’s about. If he had the money he should spend it!
you bet your ass they exist and plenty of them , this crap is world wide , massage parlors are not the place to find love ,,
There is a very wise Confucian maxim that i have always adhered to, "Never date a That massage girl". 😂
but not all Thai women are bad or scammers
That random "Hey" @ 12:31 took me out 🤣 Great video
Thanks for listening, and nice catch. I fixed that now 😊
@@thailandunfiltered Went back and saw it was gone now. Appreciate the video all the same bud. Lived a couple years in Thailand and heard first hand many people having similar experiences. Videos like these are essential for new travellers to the region.
To be a sugar daddy is one thing, but to give the girl access to your bank account is totally something else. I don't even give my wife of 34 years access to mine. AHAH.
We have 2 kids together and she has most access but not all. So if she kicks me on the curb, I have at least a month worth of hotel room.. 😂
@@newafricanforum Better bone up on some secret funds there, kid.
@@1red_nextview740clever
I have an account for her to see and use. And a couple others only I know.. Not in the country
@@rene-rv6pp You got it. You get the pleasure of a fun girl with expense that you really don't care about.
I too entered into a relationship with a Filipina here in the states. You hit the nail on the head when it comes to “love bombing “ I learned a great deal about narcissistic personality disorders. I have to say, I’m thankful I went through this here in the states prior to moving to the Philippines. Which is my goal to do so within the next 18 months. Plus this gives me time to focus on myself.
Great video. There are takeaways that will benefit all men if you’re moving overseas or not.
My vast experience with Filipinos, I conclude: sudden outburst!!...
Irrational jealousy
Kicked my flip to the curb for all the same reasons. Opportunists on steroids,
Find an American girl, you're better off.
@@mikehaines1403they all have a common goal...to empty your wallet & bank accounts. They want money but refused to please you.
I hear they are the worst.
@@marcjohnson9270 Perhaps you may have better luck with an American girl. Good luck my friend.
Yes, a Thai massage girl is no different from a bar girl. The thai massage girl will disguise as an innocent woman who is just making a hard, honest living. But in truth they meet many guys and has a few guys on her roster. Most of them are looking for a rich CEO because most of her friends are in competition for the most richest guy. You can be 60 or 70 with a 30 year old woman, and she will have some else on the side.
If your girl started off innocent then her family members and her friends will change all that.
Not just foreigner gets hurt but it happens to Thai men too.
How do i know?
I'm getting a divorce with one.
Thanks for sharing your experience
Word is in the west where l live, divorce will ruin you as a man once taken to the cleaners. And we not even mentioned life time alimoney now. Dont tell me office women dont cheat with chad and tyrone now. 😅
You have to aim to be the richest
@@Johnne009mount Fuji will also be flattened. They are bottomless pit.
❤
The only thing you should take to Thailand is your suitcase. Because if you are lucky it's the only thing you will leave with
only spend as much as your willing to lose
Lol
And condoms
And she’s not a girl,hehehe
@@Rob-z7k-
Preferebly unbroken ... 😂
I don't know who wrote this script but I'm impressed with the insights, explanations & also the practical advice given. There's a lot of value in here as well as obvious concern for the happiness of your brothers as they embark on relationships in Thailand.
I have personally experienced all this and more as I was married to a Thai woman for 10 years & had children with her.
The most important thing for us to grasp is that we have an implicit assumption from our own culture that if you really go out of your way to help someone out of a bad situation that they will appreciate it and they won't even think of screwing you over.
This is simply not true and it's especially not true in Thai culture.
Thanks for your feedback & for sharing your experience as well 🙏
White men should be smarter when going to Thailand or Phillipines
Have you tried Laotian? They are far worse than Thais.
Even with someone with a regular job, it's always about money
@@ferney2936 are you implying, that simping and/or white knighting is appreciated by western fefailes?
Have a look at divorce as well as alimony statistics in western countries...
I had a coworker in Afghanistan I'll call Berry. He fell HOH with a bar girl, even though we all warned him against doing so. To make a long story short he left his family in the U.S. invested all his time and $$$ into this barfly, married her, bought land built a nice house, bought more land, opened a prawn farm and had his barfly wife " relatives " taking care of everything whilst he was making $$$ in Afghanistan. His " wife" tricked him into a FAKE marriage ceremony. What a fokin looser this guy was...He lost everything, at least 160K USD and all those yrs of lies...
It was a barfly. That’s why😢
When vacationing in Disney World never marry or bring home Minnie Mouse
amusing line yet true
Or Mickey mouse if you're into it 😂
Because under that Minnie Mouse costume is a Mickey.
I had a Thai massage therapist girlfriend in California, after a few months she rubbed me the wrong way. She used to work at a bakery, but kept getting a yeast infection, so she became a massage therapist, but got carpal tunnel sydrome and quit her job.
😂😅lmao👍
I once worked as a pilot in a bakery; I'd take dough and pilot in the corner. I quit, though; I got sick of the dough and thought I'd go on the loaf (sound of a slap and an :Ohhh!
Hard work lying on her back all day, legs wide open
zero pair bonding ability, but still a psychopath or sociopath at heart. cant take the bar outta of the barrrgyrl.
They swallow bananas that gives you out of the world feelings that makes you forget your name...like a spell.
@@protegelin They Must be FULL of VENEREAL DISEASES and then YOU END UP OLD and SICK and NO "out fo the world feeling" Well, YES, the PAIN THAT BEING SICK gives YOU. Dumb Comment Yours.
@@protegelin😂😂😂😂😂😂
You are poetic.
Our guy isn't too bright. This is common there. When her attitude changed, she knew it was must a matter of time and she had already taken enough anyway. She probably wasn't that good. He was that dumb. I think if we seen "our guy" and Thai girl that would explain a lot. #1 Don't give money. duh! Pay for the dates. If she's using you for dates, oh well. It was a business deal. But never give money. This guy will do it again. It probably wasn't his first second or third time.
That was really masterful storytelling. Well done.
A very intelligent overview, thank you.
S1mps doing s1pm things.
Fine line between a simp and a pimp
Lol
Simps doing simp things 😂 better be a pimp than a simp... hahaha... last thing to be the great fool
😂😂😂😂
Best part is, after finally realizing he had been played, the 1st thing he does is BACKSTAB Som without a second thought. With no duty to tell him, she tells him the truth anyway under threat of physical harm. Not only was he a moron victim, he is an asshole.
To be successful think from place between 2 ears not from place between 2 legs
Good advice 😊
@@thailandunfiltered that is " sound advice "
So u mean think with your nose?
@@justhere3794 If that improves your circumstance. Then yes. Your nose is not actually between your ears.....So that does explain the question....and the letters instead of words.
@@metricdeep8856 Actually. Touch your ears then slide the hands to your nose without lifting your hands. Your nose 👃
I got bitten once 20,000 baht a normal girl where I gave her money to help and after that she kept asking for money where I refused after 2 months she takes over a restaurant.Never give money guys unless you are long with her and valid reason and never try show off or be a hero.If she has a good or better job than you it will make your life easier and not destroy you.
Thanks for sharing your experience
it is not just the thai ones, it is all women, these days, in my opinion and with out prejudice
IMO the same can be said of men. Being a successful woman attracts losers. If you want loyalty get a dog.
Is that why they dating men?
Very good story, one every man should see. You learn a lot from it thanks for this story 🙏
Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for listening
Stay single guys . Keep your resources. Woman change very 6 months and you get a new personality that you won’t like .
I live in S Florida and I date 25 yrs Yonger then myself & I don’t have to support them ….why Guys r so dumb spending $ on hookers
Maybe you should stay single😏, other women need a man.
@@ew374 telling it like it is.
@@ew374 Well I can vouch his statement is true.. my (then) woman changes for the worse.. after 20 years together... And $3 mill lost
or learn how to proper court a woman.. how real attraction works.. the proper balance how a girl should act.. never believe the words but their actions.. woman they like u they are chasing you, they dont want your money but your time to spend.. as a men u only facilitate dates.. nothing more.. no texts in between.. make fun dates, hangout , hook up.. no future planning.. live in the moment.. your goals and mission is more important then her.. she joins u, not the other way... u dont have to be single that way.. negoiation is key..
i went to the dominican republic and paid $200.00 usa for one week with 6 women and was well worth it. that is what i learned, and i would never get married to any of them. cheers
👍👍
wow... so cheap, no offense, really wondering the girl quality
What a gentleman 🤢🤮🤡
what you paid, is a lot cheaper than marriage to anyone, that is the lesson that i learned
I think we all have been stupid in thailand…..🙄💋💸
I was, she is one hell of an actress and a prolific liars. Just remember the 4 Fs. Find em, Feed em, Fuck em, Forget em.
This is why guys jump from balconies.
...som nam na...
how often does this guy think a new iphone comes out?
Old people says,
Don't marry a proatitute.
Don't playing love and marriage thai massage girl.
The Marriage is a pious culture and a pristine one
Same story ...same tragedies. I have a friend this happened to. It ended with man committing suicide. Very sad
Lol. School of hard Nok
Good content 👍
Thanks for listening
Fantastic advice at the end of the video!
Leave your heart at the airport.
Thank me when you fly back and your heart and money is still yours.
Don't bang 'em twice or stick to the three day rule.
Great story!!
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for listening
Nok-nok…
Who’s there?
Sim,
Sim who?
Simppppppp.😂😂😂😂😂😂
Gotta be real and know what the game is and take it for what it’s worth with these girls, have fun with them and move on.
or just say "no", it's not worth it apparently
Remember, a bar girl who truely loves you WILĹ NOT take ALL ya money. Remember, you are a very handsome man and she rubs you too much too much. 😊😊😊😊
What is the mystery or tragedy here, This is just another lonely old man who has been fooling himself since the beginning of his trip. A beautiful young woman is only with this type of man for one reason, so where is the surprise? If you meet a bar girl, go go dancer or freelancer it is her nature to take advantage of a man, so enjoy the ride.
I have told my wife from since we were dating that I would never take care of grown folks with the obvious exception of her and her mom (dad passed away years ago). I fully believe that adults are supposed to take care of themselves, AND as much as I love ny wife she gets a fixed amount of money per month since I will be a pensioner soon. She will live well but I will never be broke because when I put my foot down she knows that I don't abide any nonsense. Men need to go back to being men again
This type of story isn’t new; it’s just another example. You need to know where to look. I hope the man recovers emotionally. As you mentioned, ‘Believe in your gut feelings.’ There are no exceptions when it comes to cross-cultural relationships anywhere in the world. The summary at the end was well done.
He started losing the moment he started to open his wallet wide I have seen too many guys do stupid things like this and then cry tears about it
he already lost the moment he was texting or calling her.. u only have to facilitate a date.. nothing more.. if she has fun and she has attraction for u, she wil do the work mostly..
These are pros.
Everyone has to pay a price for any relationship. But allowing bank account transfers? Lol.
Story got its wholes and mix-ups but its basically like many other Thai relationship stories.
Meeting her friends is key, also notice if they only share negative things with you but are having fun when chatting friends on the phone. A real GF will share her happy moments with you, she will not be shy to bring you to party with friends.
Please men, check your projection.
If you can own it, if you can buy it then it’s not innocent.
ATM time that's what they call it.
im planning to go to thailand next year and I think this channel helps to be more careful. I want to believe in the good in people and feel like I could have fallen for a trap like this
Your just a customer they have guys falling for them so the can fleece all you money your not her first she’s a professional
Am 71 years old, been around women my, this I always say that love ❤️ is always blind, also there is no guarantee that the one you love ❤️ is going to love you back. 👎👎😞🤔
Love may be blind, but why one puts it in such places like the massage parlors or bars or night club or that kind? It's supposed to be purely transactional, COD, and not an intense repeating customer. They're places for Sx not Lv.
Right
I m crazy in love with her. But money goes a different way..
See here's the thing, He played HIMSELF like he was a straight out sucker.
If it's true, he obviously deserves it. That is a pretty ham fisted over the top example. It would take a "special" person, exceptionally desperate and deathly afraid of being alone to fall for that and not see it. The key to happiness in Thailand is to be aware of this game, and to have some fun with it by deflecting the blatant milking attempt. You can play women like that for laughs just as easily as they can play you. There is a hard rule in Thailand..."never date the same woman twice."
my senior man on the fire department always said that molly maid and a h..ker, is the best way, and i agree all the way
Just a word of advice, never ignore that little guy on your shoulder. He is there to tell you the truth.
Well done ....good advice ...!!
I am married and my wife still doesn't have access to my bank account and I don't have access to hers. And we live well together
As Confusious said "He who falls for the charms of a soothsayer always looses his nuts"
My friend, you'll never find number 1. Tryng to find number 1, you'll go through ten and number one will just become number 11.
Foolish math I know, by that time you'll have no nuts as my friend Confusious says.Hahahahaha.
YEAH, YOUR'E right, i was STARTING to think this was a bit much. Is it just me?
Didn't she stop working at the massage parlour and start her own business? - why did he go back there looking for her?
Guys go overseas thinking they dont need game and they get taken advantage of
Comment of the day! Please pick up your prize at the door.
Just curious. What do you define as game?
If this massage woman meet him in his country he won't even but an effort to talk with her
I've seen this happen all too often!
True words spoken , stories like this will continue to happen , dont fall in love with the first one that sucks your C % $ K .
Once the demands start from the money tree 🌳 it feels like autumn 🍂 is approaching 😅
After the sick sister comes the grandma's hip. 🤣😂
If I was fly on the wall other than a few thins mentioned this story is identical to what I experienced
Don't feel bad brother, you're not the only one
So familiar it took me 13 years to find out! they might be uneducated, but well-informed, true to the gossip phone.
My Best friend in Thailand who would go for regular massage and finally asked her out. They have a great relationship and she is a wonderful girl. She works and brings money into the relationship also.
P.T. Barnum said 'A Sucker Is Born...Every Minute..." But in Thailand, it is every second, and thus...Wash rinse repeat.....Peace
Alternative title : Decline And Fall of a Simp.
Good advice!
I am married with a Thai woman for more than 15 years and there is no chance to tell all about everything that was happening. But in the end it is a life experience that can make up your consciousness about life and happiness and the meaning of everything. My advise: Just never loose yourself.
wrong decision but at the right time.. happy, fun and enjoyed the ride in 15 minutes but regret for the rest of your life!!
Thank for sharing . I am Thai and I believe in everything you say.
Excellent
If you fall for a village girl with kids back in the village after being dumped by her ex-boyfriend, who’s got responsibilities under Thai culture for the care of her parents in addition to herself and her children, and who was working at a low end job like a massage parlor, You absolutely must expect that financial security is the number one driver in her life. “ no money, no honey“. We Westerners like to talk about the importance of love, but as you will hear from many Thai women, if you stay long enough in Thailand, “Love doesn’t buy you dinner”. This attitude is reinforced by the traditional Thai attitude that the man must show love and ability to support his woman by paying for absolutely everything well. This custom probably made sense in the village context where the woman was expected to stay home and raise the children, while the man toiled in the fields, it doesn’t make as much sense in the modern cosmopolitan world. Yet, even professional women in Thailand, who make a good income and our financially secure, maintain this attitude, and expect their male partner to support them in every way. This is objectionable and offensive to the western man who has learned to accept women as their equal, and to view a relationship as a partnership where burdens are shared, and not foisted upon just one of the partners. The money issue is the number one issue that causes western men and Thai women to break up. And this is true, even if the woman is not a manipulator asportrayed in this video. Just think if this unfortunate man had proposed marriage and learn for the first time that under Thai culture he was expected to pay hundreds of thousands of baht to the woman’s parents as the price for marrying their daughter. In traditional cultures, relationships are more like business transactions than romantic ones. If you accept that, you will have less heartache.
what was she doing working in the massage parlour after she opened her own little business?
,she didn't take it. You gave it to her think with your brain
I dont blame her but blame his stupidity 😅😅😅😅😅
It’s the same wherever you go.
สามีเราให้เงินเดือนเราชื้ออาหารให้เขาทำงานบ้านทุกอย่าง ขับรถให้เขา ไปใหนใกลฉันก็ขับรถ เตรียมพร้อมอาหาร เสื้อผ้าให้สามี ตัดผมตัดเล็บ ทำให้ทุกอย่างมยี่สิบปี ที่ดูแลเขา แต่สามีก็ดูแลเราเหมือนกัน บ้านสามีใหญ่โตแคใหนฉันก็ทำคนเดียว อาหารข้างนอกแทนจะไม่ได้ไปทาน มันแพง ฉันชอบทำอาหารเองมากกว่า ประหยัดเงินค่ะ สามีฉันแก่กว่าสี่สิบปี ฉันถึงทำอะไรให้แทบจะทุกหย่าง ฉันก็หยากจะทิ้งเขาแล้วกลับเมืองไทยถาวรไปเลย แต่สงสารสามีมาก ใจฉันมันทำไม่ได้เลย นึกถึงตอนที่เรารักกัน เวลาผ่านไปเร็วมาก เขาจะเก้าสิบ ฉันก็จะห้าสิบ บางครั้งฉันเหนื่อยๆที่หยู่กับสามี แต่หลายๆอย่างที่สามีก็ดีที่สุดที่ฉันเคยมีแฟนที่ผ่านมา จนลูกฉันจะยี่สิบเอ็ด ฉันจะดูแลสามีจนกว่าจะตายจากกันไปเลย
Reminds me of a Thai beauty I met in bkk. She wasn’t a working girl (at least that’s not how we met). Everything about her was perfect. I like the rose colored glasses comment you made. I did notice the red flags, but none of them registered. As we talked about getting together, I noticed she wasn’t big on PDA. As we were waiting for our taxi one day, I happened to walk past a jewelry store. I was in the market for a new chain for me. I didn’t say anything to her but she immediately came to me very lovey dovy. She normally didn’t do that in public, but in private she was willing to do whatever I asked. It’s kinda subtle, but it was enough to knock the rose colored glasses off just enough to recognize the red flag. I didn’t but her anything. Thankfully the store was closed and I said we’ll go later. Well I kept pushing later for long enough to at least make the trip worth it. That was probably one of the best trips ever. Haha.
"He is all about supporting her dreams"....hahaha. To hell with that.
I listen to a lot of these stories I find them very entertaining, I’m in a similar situation just different because we are all in America. But I protect myself by saying I don’t have money, but she hasn’t really asked me for money yet.
I meet girl in a massage parlour in new Zealand she Chinese and I am really in love with her we weren't together that long but have stayed in a long distance relationship she has been putting pressure on us to get her partner visa hurryed up to come be with me so she can work and make money to surport her family in China and pay for her father's heart surgery he has his appointment this Wednesday to get Heart surgery, I have not been able to save enough money to get organized for us and I was planning to get her a small business like food trailer or something so she can work in a honest job and make the same money an I won't have to share her with other men I'm now having my doubts because I can't afford to surport her like a husband should be able to and I love her so much.
i am so happy that i married her, would never get married again. that is the real lesson. cheers
Massage girl without happy ending.
if you spent $100,000.00 on her, you got of cheap
its amazing that damn massage can cause a serious tital wave in your life
If it flies, floats or f**ks, rent it.
its amazing how just saying those 3 dangerous words ." I LOVE YOU " can cause total kaos and destruction of ones heart and well being, SOMETIMES !
Nok Nok- whos there - Nok yourself out😅😂😅
1:26 they eat crocodile? wow! 😮😆
It's true they can put a spell on you. And it takes a lot to break the spell only you can do it and run hard from her. It's a game to them. Sad but she's one of many. This is one of the many stories. I have such a friend, also works in a massage. No relationship, I'm that smart. She's secretive, she's doesn't tells anything about her past. Well, i knew enough, told her how i feel and think about her and that was that. Don't be a fool and make from your heart a stone and move on, enough women in Thailand.
Fiction but similar story are out there sadly. Someone I knew lost his money went back to the uk and took his life.
With the Language, they got you on the back foot all the time and thinking!!!
Very common pattern not only thai! intension is to squeeze as much as possible !