I let my filipina know very early on that while I have obligations to her, I will not accept any obligations being imposed on me by any of her family members. I said there will be no expectations on me. Zero. Doesn't mean I will never give them anything. Just means that if I give, it is because I want to give and not from any expectations. She accepted that.
No, you thought she accepted that! The woman already fooled you into believing she has come to terms with your agreement. Your lady has nothing else to do but plot against you. I know how it is from my unfortunate experience and listening to other guys. The good thing is that the Filipino female I was involved with didn't get even a penny from me after we separated. The UA-camr "Do Magic Together" gives you honest counseling, but you are not strong enough to handle the truth.
Hi M-Rose, it’s not always this way. Been married to a Filipina for 30 years. It really depends on the PH family you get involved with. The more wealthy the family is, then it’s more about respect than pesos. The whole world is about money. It’s just P.I. has a very low income. The weather, location and politics has the biggest influence in the Filipino culture. The poorest of family’s will be the hardest to trust. It’s about survival.
Hello and thank you for this video. For real, you were honest about several things... very sweet personality too and great looking for sure. God bless you to keep making videos. You said to comment or ask something here. 1:47 Yes, a man should know her culture. What about the man's "culture" though? Should it not be her job to know his culture too and understand that he does not want to be a walking ATM machine?... not asking this to be mean either. At some point though, don't Filipinas need to start talking about this with other Filipinas about "We are chasing foreign men away with this financial war of demands." Also, what about a Filipina talking to her family and saying something like this?... "Look mom, dad, brothers, sisters and everybody, I have a foreign boyfriend here who I want to be with... we have a great connection. He understands it is his job to pay and take care of me... BUT if you all keep pressuring him over and over again for money for EVERYONE's expenses and problems, he is going to probably end our relationship, leave, and now we BOTH have to start over again with new. Please stop so I can build a life with a man." Thank you or to anyone for a response. God bless and all the best to everyone out there in their goals.
Why the hell, at retirement age, should I... 1) get married 2) cohabitate 3) impregnate 4) raise some other fool's kids 5) tie myself down inconveniently 6) throw away all the peace, quite, rest, adventure and fun.. that I had been working my whole life for 7) make myself more valuable in prison or dead than alive 8) support an entire clan of strangers that weren't there for me when my a$$ was in pain working with ailments all those years 9) give into a self defeating trend of stu_pid decision making 10) make myself more miserable with drama, tampo, family harassment, parasites leeching off me, etc... etc... 11) leave one stressful life for another 12) put myself at a disadvantage 13) subject myself to people's bullsh$t 14) do anything other than enjoying my life in my retirement? WHY??? To each their own! ✌️
@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm Please tell your story to The Philippines Truth channel and others that are doing a great job warning men so they can be advised and prepared for the pitfalls. Knowledge is power! An ounce of prevention is better than 100 pounds of cure! And, I personally prefer FULL DISCLOSURE because it's a thing that saves lives!!!
@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm @JohnGrigg-gz9gm Please tell your story to The Philippines Truth channel and others that are doing a great job warning men so they can be advised and prepared for the pitfalls. Knowledge is power! An ounce of prevention is better than 100 pounds of cure! And, I personally prefer FULL DISCLOSURE because it's a thing that saves lives!!!
@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm Please tell your story to The Fill-it- pines Truth channel and others that are doing a great job warning men so they can be advised and prepared for the pitfalls. Knowledge is power! An ounce of prevention is better than 100 pounds of cure! And, I personally prefer FULL DISCLOSURE because it's a thing that saves lives!!!
I have not experienced this at all. My wife works and sends money home, which is completely fine. I will also send money when it’s a relatives birthday or if I want to help out where I can if there is a family emergency. There is no obligation at all and she made this clear from the start and we’ve been married 12 years. Are you sure these are not your expectations because if they are, good luck to you!
Who to believe? You get all kinds of opinions online. I think every person and situation is different. There are honest people in the Philippines obviously.
Hi - i am from Bangladesh but live in uk 🇬🇧 we have same sort family and cultural norm as you 😊 any way greetings and ❤️ love Philippines 🇵🇭 💖 people , have quite a few friends from ur country.
As a Filipino, I agree with your comment. The content seems pointless and likely just reflects her personal opinion. The moment she started talking about money, I was put off, and when she brought up the second point of having your partner to buy you a land and a house, I stopped watching entirely.
So apparently since it is all about money, as you state in this video, I am purchasing a long term relationship with the woman with negotiations going through the owners; her parents and family. Why not just be up front about it and tell the man my services to you will require paying rent to the family? That wouldn’t include “emergencies” that will happen on a regular basis from anyone who might be related. Since we are talking a transactional relationship, do I also have access to her female family members? Now how silly does all this sound? Why would any man put up with this nonsense?
At least to me being an American if you marry most western women they expect a lot more from their husbands, Your income is theirs, and their income is theirs alone. They spend more than most of us men bring home, and demand we work harder to bring more money home. Unfortunately this has become western women's normal behavior. If this wasn't bad enough most of the western women don't have an issue with being unfaithful to the marriage commitment and will cheat often on their husbands, if they find a wealthier man to replace their husbands they will divorce him taking as much from him as they can. With all the drawbacks in the Filipino marriage I see it as an advantage over what western men get from American women.
Well, I guess I'm " luck out" marrying a Filipino. I'm looking for someone who can hold their own and be supportive of each other. To me, that is a transactional relationship. I am not looking for a prostitute.
Sadly, not everything she said is true. Filipinas are like anybody else in that they are different from one to another. My gf has her own small business she’s run for 29 years and counting. She does not pay her siblings or parents and her 3 kids do not pay her. Her kids all work and are independent and all but one (20 yrs old) is married with families. Her province house with a/c, hot running water, etc. is paid for in full as is her car. Her province provides access to life insurance, loans and investments in the Philippines stock market, for a comparable minimal fee monthly. And, she has no debt.
They want yiu to buy land , build a home for her , and her bloody dog , look after her family, all becsuse yiu said, hello , not even got on tge bloody plane yet
That's sad, your parents should help their children with their future. Thats how the poor stay poor. They don't have a plan for thier childrens future. Watch the video rich dad poor dad on youtube.
This understanding of culture ...shouldnt it be a two way traffic??? Is the foreign guys culture not important??? What if she has a big family 15??? Does anyone have a job??? I just like to know more. Its abit bizarre to me from another Asian country.
That''s your opinion, which is so embarrassing. Maybe in your province not in mine. A Filipina who is well educated and self sufficient won't think that way. Sorry lady be mindful of your words.
Don't believe her story. Do your own research and find the Filipina who got a college degree, working and capable of supporting herself. Those poor ones in the province , less educated and half your age are the ones you need to worry about.
So if your rich and like a billionaire why is the foreigners supposed to buy land and house? Do you know that in the Philippines a foreigner can’t own any land unless he’s married to a Filipina. And even when he marry her that land isn’t legally his… a lot of you Filipinas only see foreigners as a walking wallets..and who’s fault your parents don’t save for retirement and why you think because a foreigner wants to date you he’s automatically responsible for your parents financially….
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I let my filipina know very early on that while I have obligations to her, I will not accept any obligations being imposed on me by any of her family members. I said there will be no expectations on me. Zero. Doesn't mean I will never give them anything. Just means that if I give, it is because I want to give and not from any expectations. She accepted that.
"My filipina"
Gross
No, you thought she accepted that! The woman already fooled you into believing she has come to terms with your agreement. Your lady has nothing else to do but plot against you. I know how it is from my unfortunate experience and listening to other guys. The good thing is that the Filipino female I was involved with didn't get even a penny from me after we separated. The UA-camr "Do Magic Together" gives you honest counseling, but you are not strong enough to handle the truth.
@tothefront1 both of you guys are a mess
Hi M-Rose, it’s not always this way. Been married to a Filipina for 30 years. It really depends on the PH family you get involved with. The more wealthy the family is, then it’s more about respect than pesos. The whole world is about money. It’s just P.I. has a very low income. The weather, location and politics has the biggest influence in the Filipino culture. The poorest of family’s will be the hardest to trust. It’s about survival.
Sobrang salamat po for this video. It shows how it really looks, not just making sweet how good is to marry a Pinay. Greetings from Poland, ate.
Hello and thank you for this video. For real, you were honest about several things... very sweet personality too and great looking for sure. God bless you to keep making videos. You said to comment or ask something here.
1:47 Yes, a man should know her culture. What about the man's "culture" though? Should it not be her job to know his culture too and understand that he does not want to be a walking ATM machine?... not asking this to be mean either. At some point though, don't Filipinas need to start talking about this with other Filipinas about "We are chasing foreign men away with this financial war of demands."
Also, what about a Filipina talking to her family and saying something like this?... "Look mom, dad, brothers, sisters and everybody, I have a foreign boyfriend here who I want to be with... we have a great connection. He understands it is his job to pay and take care of me... BUT if you all keep pressuring him over and over again for money for EVERYONE's expenses and problems, he is going to probably end our relationship, leave, and now we BOTH have to start over again with new. Please stop so I can build a life with a man."
Thank you or to anyone for a response. God bless and all the best to everyone out there in their goals.
Why the hell, at retirement age, should I...
1) get married
2) cohabitate
3) impregnate
4) raise some other fool's kids
5) tie myself down inconveniently
6) throw away all the peace, quite, rest, adventure and fun.. that I had been working my whole life for
7) make myself more valuable in prison or dead than alive
8) support an entire clan of strangers that weren't there for me when my a$$ was in pain working with ailments all those years
9) give into a self defeating trend of stu_pid decision making
10) make myself more miserable with drama, tampo, family harassment, parasites leeching off me, etc... etc...
11) leave one stressful life for another
12) put myself at a disadvantage
13) subject myself to people's bullsh$t
14) do anything other than enjoying my life in my retirement?
WHY???
To each their own!
✌️
100% agreement!
My Filipina ex legally stole my life savings! Ugh... I wasted four years with her...
@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm
Please tell your story to The Philippines Truth channel and others that are doing a great job warning men so they can be advised and prepared for the pitfalls.
Knowledge is power!
An ounce of prevention is better than 100 pounds of cure!
And, I personally prefer FULL DISCLOSURE because it's a thing that saves lives!!!
@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm
@JohnGrigg-gz9gm
Please tell your story to The Philippines Truth channel and others that are doing a great job warning men so they can be advised and prepared for the pitfalls.
Knowledge is power!
An ounce of prevention is better than 100 pounds of cure!
And, I personally prefer FULL DISCLOSURE because it's a thing that saves lives!!!
@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm
Please tell your story to The Fill-it- pines Truth channel and others that are doing a great job warning men so they can be advised and prepared for the pitfalls.
Knowledge is power!
An ounce of prevention is better than 100 pounds of cure!
And, I personally prefer FULL DISCLOSURE because it's a thing that saves lives!!!
Love her skin color
Not me
@@KUBBI7488 To each his own. I think her skin color is beautiful!!
I love your skin color
me too actually. 😌
Second point is not a bad thing, even as an African, we take care of our parent, they rely on us which is not a bad thing.
I have not experienced this at all. My wife works and sends money home, which is completely fine. I will also send money when it’s a relatives birthday or if I want to help out where I can if there is a family emergency. There is no obligation at all and she made this clear from the start and we’ve been married 12 years.
Are you sure these are not your expectations because if they are, good luck to you!
Who to believe? You get all kinds of opinions online. I think every person and situation is different. There are honest people in the Philippines obviously.
Hi - i am from Bangladesh but live in uk 🇬🇧 we have same sort family and cultural norm as you 😊 any way greetings and ❤️ love Philippines 🇵🇭 💖 people , have quite a few friends from ur country.
Very good! Thank you.
Thank you for your honesty!
But in the end it is all about the money where ever you go in this world.
It is?
Thanks for posting
In reality, plenty of reasons why never to marry a Pilipino woman. Life is hard enough without taking on a whole family as baggage in a marriage.
LOL..
It sounds cheaper to rent by the hour.
no doubt, and you get what you want, straight to the point, then, SCRAM!!
Holy smokes, this is not my experience. This is a toxic perspective. Avoid this type of person, in any country.
Same here. I’ve been married 12 years and not experienced this. Gold digger comes to mind with this one!
As a Filipino, I agree with your comment. The content seems pointless and likely just reflects her personal opinion. The moment she started talking about money, I was put off, and when she brought up the second point of having your partner to buy you a land and a house, I stopped watching entirely.
ur right! 💯
@@bunsonglahatjewel6871 💯
all very true, i wish i saw this video 9 yrs ago,
So apparently since it is all about money, as you state in this video, I am purchasing a long term relationship with the woman with negotiations going through the owners; her parents and family. Why not just be up front about it and tell the man my services to you will require paying rent to the family? That wouldn’t include “emergencies” that will happen on a regular basis from anyone who might be related. Since we are talking a transactional relationship, do I also have access to her female family members? Now how silly does all this sound? Why would any man put up with this nonsense?
Your comment prompted me to create a video clarifying a few things. Check it out here: ua-cam.com/video/mgyJ353FG9Y/v-deo.html
As also with Thai women...and maybe more SO😮
Re toxic trait: your candor is refreshing. What, I wonder, might be the secret to detoxing? What part of the Philippines do you reside?
At least to me being an American if you marry most western women they expect a lot more from their husbands, Your income is theirs, and their income is theirs alone. They spend more than most of us men bring home, and demand we work harder to bring more money home. Unfortunately this has become western women's normal behavior. If this wasn't bad enough most of the western women don't have an issue with being unfaithful to the marriage commitment and will cheat often on their husbands, if they find a wealthier man to replace their husbands they will divorce him taking as much from him as they can.
With all the drawbacks in the Filipino marriage I see it as an advantage over what western men get from American women.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Unfortunately that’s not a foreign expectation.
An very honest information but I also think that Philippine women are far better than a western ones to have a family.
2:03
😂😂😂
What?
Well, I guess I'm " luck out" marrying a Filipino. I'm looking for someone who can hold their own and be supportive of each other. To me, that is a transactional relationship. I am not looking for a prostitute.
Sadly, not everything she said is true. Filipinas are like anybody else in that they are different from one to another. My gf has her own small business she’s run for 29 years and counting. She does not pay her siblings or parents and her 3 kids do not pay her. Her kids all work and are independent and all but one (20 yrs old) is married with families. Her province house with a/c, hot running water, etc. is paid for in full as is her car. Her province provides access to life insurance, loans and investments in the Philippines stock market, for a comparable minimal fee monthly. And, she has no debt.
wow, This is nothing that I have ever experienced. Guess i didn't meet this type of person.
Morena ❤
💜🤗
just get a bar girl
Agree. Why bother...
Yep, the costs are clear from the beginning then
@@nadanczysykowski1712 exactly, you won't be getting bothered and harassed to solve the whole family's problems all the time.
Bring Pinay wife to my country. Learn new life and culture. 😊
Where are you from
Why, you want to do her faiyazbiya?
@@SS-tr1th plz number
OMG
Not everyone is the same. Don’t generalise.
You are beautiful
wow vis ai pinay is such high quality i cant tell shes ai, i mean no real woman cld posably b vis amazingly beautiful rite?.
I wouldnt waste my time or money.Travel there single dont commit to anyone.
They want yiu to buy land , build a home for her , and her bloody dog , look after her family, all becsuse yiu said, hello , not even got on tge bloody plane yet
Why marry?
Exactly..I never liked the idea of marriage.
That's sad, your parents should help their children with their future. Thats how the poor stay poor. They don't have a plan for thier childrens future. Watch the video rich dad poor dad on youtube.
Your dreaming.......
Don’t do it, it’s not worth it.
This understanding of culture ...shouldnt it be a two way traffic??? Is the foreign guys culture not important??? What if she has a big family 15??? Does anyone have a job??? I just like to know more. Its abit bizarre to me from another Asian country.
That''s your opinion, which is so embarrassing. Maybe in your province not in mine. A Filipina who is well educated and self sufficient won't think that way. Sorry lady be mindful of your words.
You need to make your videos 10 to 15 minutes long so you will be able to have time for advertising
I want to date you
If a man can’t find love in his own country means he is a looser !!!
You can't even spell! Lol
Finding love in the US is non-existent.
@@louhightower4141 not true!!! I’m married for 24 years
@@KUBBI7488 Yeah, over 24 years ago (1999 or 2000) you met your love. Today it's a different market...
@@louhightower4141 lol
This why you divorced lol
Yeah , great tan! thanks for warning us that its a money grab It's easy to fall in love in the Philippines
Don't believe her story. Do your own research and find the Filipina who got a college degree, working and capable of supporting herself. Those poor ones in the province , less educated and half your age are the ones you need to worry about.
So if your rich and like a billionaire why is the foreigners supposed to buy land and house? Do you know that in the Philippines a foreigner can’t own any land unless he’s married to a Filipina. And even when he marry her that land isn’t legally his… a lot of you Filipinas only see foreigners as a walking wallets..and who’s fault your parents don’t save for retirement and why you think because a foreigner wants to date you he’s automatically responsible for your parents financially….