The comments here are so confusing to me. Cat's smiling is not distasteful in the least from my point of view. I interpret it as a sign of care and support to smile this way at someone who is talking about moving on and being strong in the face of immense tragedy. She's smiling at the wins, not the loss. It's gentle and attentive, not obnoxious to me in any way.
What is being missed is this poor lady went through so much loss and tragedy yet she is now a counsellor helping others. She has turned a huge negative to a positive. Something we should maybe all take on board. Amazing strength…
Not everyone has that strength. And she has other kids and was able to focus her strength. When everyone died in our family, my mum changed totalt, and Ive Bern talking care of her the last 20 years. We lost out home, shortky after. She is wheelchair bound since 10. All this made that i couldnt have a child of my own, and i have nothing to live for. Pray everyday I will die.
I lost my husband 24 years ago left with 2 small children 8 & 10. I still remember having to tell my children as if it was yesterday. Last year on the 6/9 I lost my mum which has hit me very hard. 1 st anniversary and still miss her hugely. 2 weeks ago my father in law passed away. Feeling overwhelmed at the moment…. So this helped knowing other people know how it feels. You don’t heal you learn to live with it - as she said time moves on & there are days that it still hits you for 6…. I miss my mum hugely ❤
That’s a literal skill you have to have to be a counsellor. You have to literally train in empathy to be a counsellor. So yeah, I should really hope she has some empathy…
Why is Cat smiling at such a serious tragedy? I really dislike her on here. What happened to Josie? She was the average kind of girlie who understood normal people and not creepily smiling to the camera!
The fact that cat is smiling just proves how fake the telly is and she’s doing it for the money not to actually help and sympathise with the people on the show she has clearly never been through something so devastating in life god hope she never goes through that but at least control your face!! Some people just shouldn’t be on tv and she does it with everyone
Sending my very best to Victoria and her family! Cat and Ben held this interview beautifully- you can feel there genuine care. My take away is - you never know what someone is goung through - BE KIND, BE THERE!
Really annoying that with any sad or difficult story, cat just grins and smirks! Come on cat , if you can't change your demeanor when difficult events, then you should go .. sorry but it's embarrassing to watch ,, bring back Holly Willerby who was an absolute professional at her job ❤️👍🏽👍🏽
I was just going to state the same thing. She was actually smiling as she introduced the guest. Perhaps is an unconscious reaction to a difficult subject, but as a professional she needs to do better. I quite like her, but not this aspect of her presenting.
Yes Cat really gets on my nerves she’s trying to hard and couldn’t open her mouth any wider if she tried I’m sure she’s really nice but she isn’t the right person for the job 😖
I am totally stunned about that caller who had a stillborn baby and they didn’t allow her to meet them. I am absolutely stunned! I thought all hospitals were to provide a cuddle cut and give the parents time to say hello and goodbye. What on earth happened. Something went wrong.
Just here to say that everyone grieves different!!! And that is ok!!! Many of us cant to things because the grief still is too overwhelmibg. Even 20, 30, 50 years down the road. And thre is nothing wrong, you dont have to become a councellour etc. Some dont have the strength and thats ok.
Husband and daughter were killed by the boat propeller and the lady lost her leg. Horrendous way to die so it's not surprising she didn't go into details.
Hi, If I recall correctly, she, her husband, and kids went on an outing and hired a speedboat. Somehow, the boat went out of control or something was accidentally triggered, and they all ended up in the water. The husband and daughter had died , I think from the actual boat and not drowning. The lady had badly injured her leg, and as a consequence, she ended up having an amputation. Rip to those who lost their lives ❤
They went on holiday and I’m sure they had a holiday home in cornwall uk 🇬🇧 went out in a boat and I think the safety thing on boat wasn’t used,do t qoute me on this as it was 11 yrs ago but you could google it,so very sad 😞 but what a brave lady 🙏👏✨🇬🇧
@@BlinkedAgain It is NOT misogyny for a person to think that a person is not following appropriate etiquette as far as clothing choice is concerned. That is not hatred for women. It might be chauvinistic. And somewhat hyperbolic. And also possibly ageist.
The comments here are so confusing to me. Cat's smiling is not distasteful in the least from my point of view. I interpret it as a sign of care and support to smile this way at someone who is talking about moving on and being strong in the face of immense tragedy. She's smiling at the wins, not the loss. It's gentle and attentive, not obnoxious to me in any way.
What is being missed is this poor lady went through so much loss and tragedy yet she is now a counsellor helping others. She has turned a huge negative to a positive. Something we should maybe all take on board. Amazing strength…
Not everyone has that strength. And she has other kids and was able to focus her strength.
When everyone died in our family, my mum changed totalt, and Ive Bern talking care of her the last 20 years.
We lost out home, shortky after.
She is wheelchair bound since 10.
All this made that i couldnt have a child of my own, and i have nothing to live for.
Pray everyday I will die.
Stephanie please seek some Mental health support urgently,
Why does cat have a great big grin when she’s talking about someone’s loss/grief?
Totally agree 👍🏽 it's embarrassing 😳
Hard to watch isn’t it x
Allways! 😕
She really doesn’t fit the role.
Sorry for this lady’s loss so sad as for cat she shows no feelings in her voice her smile is so wrong in every way
I lost my husband 24 years ago left with 2 small children 8 & 10. I still remember having to tell my children as if it was yesterday. Last year on the 6/9 I lost my mum which has hit me very hard. 1 st anniversary and still miss her hugely. 2 weeks ago my father in law passed away. Feeling overwhelmed at the moment…. So this helped knowing other people know how it feels. You don’t heal you learn to live with it - as she said time moves on & there are days that it still hits you for 6…. I miss my mum hugely ❤
Sending love ❤❤❤
Cat smiling at the camera took me out of it completely - is she ok?
I imagine that she is very empathetic as a counsellor.
That’s a literal skill you have to have to be a counsellor. You have to literally train in empathy to be a counsellor. So yeah, I should really hope she has some empathy…
Why is Cat smiling at such a serious tragedy? I really dislike her on here. What happened to Josie? She was the average kind of girlie who understood normal people and not creepily smiling to the camera!
I thought exactly the same thing! What an odd thing to do.
she's a whak job
Cat is wearing beach wear
The fact that cat is smiling just proves how fake the telly is and she’s doing it for the money not to actually help and sympathise with the people on the show she has clearly never been through something so devastating in life god hope she never goes through that but at least control your face!! Some people just shouldn’t be on tv and she does it with everyone
Sending my very best to Victoria and her family! Cat and Ben held this interview beautifully- you can feel there genuine care. My take away is - you never know what someone is goung through - BE KIND, BE THERE!
Cat stop smiling. Totally disconnected from the pain and sensitivity of her loss.
Not true!
This is sad RIP to both of them
Really annoying that with any sad or difficult story, cat just grins and smirks! Come on cat , if you can't change your demeanor when difficult events, then you should go .. sorry but it's embarrassing to watch ,, bring back Holly Willerby who was an absolute professional at her job ❤️👍🏽👍🏽
I was just going to state the same thing. She was actually smiling as she introduced the guest. Perhaps is an unconscious reaction to a difficult subject, but as a professional she needs to do better.
I quite like her, but not this aspect of her presenting.
Yes Cat really gets on my nerves she’s trying to hard and couldn’t open her mouth any wider if she tried I’m sure she’s really nice but she isn’t the right person for the job 😖
Can't stand her😮
Hated working with ant deck 😮
And that husband who's not a bit funny at all😮
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I thought the same, not nearly empathetic enough.
Cat grinning isn't right
I am totally stunned about that caller who had a stillborn baby and they didn’t allow her to meet them. I am absolutely stunned! I thought all hospitals were to provide a cuddle cut and give the parents time to say hello and goodbye. What on earth happened. Something went wrong.
Sometimes decapitation can occur during labour but it'sv rare so not sure.
It happened in my home town I think, salcombe, Devon.
Just here to say that everyone grieves different!!! And that is ok!!!
Many of us cant to things because the grief still is too overwhelmibg. Even 20, 30, 50 years down the road.
And thre is nothing wrong, you dont have to become a councellour etc.
Some dont have the strength and thats ok.
Cat needs a longer skirt. I was there in Padstow the day it happened. Very strong lady.
It would have been nice if she shared what actually happens…
Husband and daughter were killed by the boat propeller and the lady lost her leg. Horrendous way to die so it's not surprising she didn't go into details.
@@deedeemegadoodoo2864 thank you for sharing with me abd yea, totally makes sense!! God bless them
Just look it up online
Is that a pelmet cat's wearing , so disrespectful considering the subject they are discussing .
The thing with body language it can be widely misunderstood.
This poor mom and wife. She’s had a hard time
Cat's dress is far too revealing. Not appropriate at all.
It’s shorts
Probably was the stylist’s choice or the program editor did not think.
Absolutely agree. Ridiculous!
Did you watch this interview? Your take away was clothing? Now THAT IS REVEALING!!!!
She has lovely legs, jealousy is not a good trait.
What was the boat tragedy?
Hi, If I recall correctly, she, her husband, and kids went on an outing and hired a speedboat. Somehow, the boat went out of control or something was accidentally triggered, and they all ended up in the water. The husband and daughter had died , I think from the actual boat and not drowning. The lady had badly injured her leg, and as a consequence, she ended up having an amputation. Rip to those who lost their lives ❤
@@shaztaf Awful.
They went on holiday and I’m sure they had a holiday home in cornwall uk 🇬🇧 went out in a boat and I think the safety thing on boat wasn’t used,do t qoute me on this as it was 11 yrs ago but you could google it,so very sad 😞 but what a brave lady 🙏👏✨🇬🇧
How do I see her for councilling?
Do you have £100 an hour for the sessions?
Very sad
She does have beautiful legs….but……the dress is not appropriate for TV so close. If they had a talk table it would be less obvious.
Really?
@@Allengo2 I think so.
What’s so funny cat
That so called dress is not appropriate at all. Looks like a sweater ffs
I turned it off when I saw how inappropriately dressed cat was .
Yeah cat is not suited for this show, sorry very inappropriate behavior
Really?
Cat is so much better than fake Holly!
Even more sad that in 2024 people still get out of bed to just slate others...not a sarcastic smug smile to be seen😮😊
I thought Cat handled the interview beautifully x
Me too ! She is doing nothing wrong. Too many critical comments for no reason ! I’m not from the Uk though …
😢
Why does Cat or Kat bother to wear cloths. Today was disgusting, especially at her age.
'At her age' - she's only in her forties - utter misogyny from you. And hardly relevant in the context of the tragedy this interview was about.
I wonder what you look like 😅
@@BlinkedAgain It is NOT misogyny for a person to think that a person is not following appropriate etiquette as far as clothing choice is concerned. That is not hatred for women. It might be chauvinistic. And somewhat hyperbolic. And also possibly ageist.
Ridiculous outfit kat
Cat Deeley is evil
Really?
@@Allengo2 yep
Definitely insurance job
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Sad!
32nd !