My Melanoma Spread To My BRAIN! - Madison | Stage 4 Melanoma | The Patient Story

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  • @Cruisinthrulife
    @Cruisinthrulife 2 місяці тому +432

    People like this don't come around very often. I REALLY hope this works out for you, and for the rest of humanity. We need people like her on this planet.

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  2 місяці тому +16

      couldn't agree more! such a kind comment. thank you!

    • @AnhNguyen-hn9vj
      @AnhNguyen-hn9vj 2 місяці тому +4

      It looks like she got a shot in the arm .

    • @henrythegreatamerican8136
      @henrythegreatamerican8136 2 місяці тому

      Melanoma skin cancer is one of the worst because it generally spreads fast and can pop up almost anywhere once you have it.

    • @desiertoscacti5388
      @desiertoscacti5388 2 місяці тому +7

      Indeed, she is such a force of joy and positivity, I wish her the very best!

    • @debrakleid5752
      @debrakleid5752 Місяць тому +3

      It always seems that the good die young and the good gets some of the worst medical conditions. I was a paramedic and a respiratory therapist for about 15 years combined and when it came to ILD (interstitial lung disease) it always seemed to strike those with such positive attitudes and always seemed to smile even when we knew they were struggling. When one of them died I had taken care of him several times and had I become close to him and his wife. One day I started his breathing treatment and then walked to the nurses station for a few minutes. All of a sudden one of the CNA’s comes running up and said he was in respiratory distress. When I started the treatment he was doing fine and at that point he wasn’t. I called his pulmonologist who was his admitting doctor and they transferred him to the ICU where he was intubated and put on a vent. He died a day or two later. He is the only patient where I went to the funeral and after it ended I tried to sneak out because I didn’t want to upset his wife. She saw me and hugged me and felt relieved to see me and not upset like I had feared after I arrived thinking her seeing me would remind her of his admissions and his passing
      In 2016 I had my second pneumonia that I had ever had up until that point. The first was a mild pneumonia and I didn’t get admitted. I went to the urgent care and the 2nd one I sounded awful and I was pretty sure it was pneumonia and it was. Double pneumonia actually. Then another one in July, sepsis that December which had me admitted for 29 days until mid January. I had been admitted 8 times in 2016 and 7 in 2017 and ever since I was first admitted as an adult in 2012 I haven’t had a year where I wasn’t admitted. Some years are worse than the others. In January 2018 I knew I wasn’t doing well at all and when I went to my new infectious disease doctor he listened to my lungs and after he listened to my chest he said I was very diminished and when he listened to my back he said he couldn’t hear any breath sounds and as a respiratory therapist I knew I was in trouble. The next day my now ex and I were scheduled to drive 2 hours to my mom’s house because my sister was flying in with her son (my nephew) from CA. The day we were supposed to leave I wasn’t doing well and sent a text to my husband to come home immediately. He called me to tell me he was 45 minutes away. When he heard me talk or try to he told me to call 911 immediately. He could tell I couldn’t breathe very well at all. After I got to the hospital the doctor put me on some oxygen and told me to expect me getting admitted. This was before any tests were done. My labs showed that my lactic acid was very high at 5.9 and my cat scan showed that I had pulmonary edema (fluid in the lungs). I was hospitalized for 2 weeks and got my first bronchoscopy which is where they take a scope with a camera on it to look at my lungs and take samples. I had a chryobronch which is a more invasive bronchoscopy that they do instead of the traditional bronch. The bronch I had was not done very often and I was intubated for that one as they are usually done with only twilight anesthesia and no intubation. It showed possible ILD which is interstitial lung disease. That’s what my patient I mentioned above had. If it was it got better and my lungs are much better and I’m not needing oxygen at home anymore but I’ve had a lot of pneumonia since 2016. About 15 and all had me admitted except the last 2 since I was able to get IV antibiotics at home. What I didn’t know was that I had a rare condition called CVID which means I’m immunocompramised due to low IGG and is why I get pneumonia and sepsis so often as well as GI infections and all have had me admitted.

  • @kathyian1
    @kathyian1 2 місяці тому +249

    Well done. Do keep optimistic. I was diagnosed with melanoma in 2008. Had surgery, it returned 2010.. Had far more aggressive surgery. They confirmed the melanoma had spread from on my face,down the optic nerve to the base of my brain. They told me they could not do radiation but to go away and come back if I had symptoms. In 2017 it returned. My surgeon said he could not do any further surgery. I was sent for immunotherapy. I chose the less aggressive Pembro. After 2 treatments my tumour could not be seen. I continued with Pembro for 2 years with the old mild symptom. I finished treatment in December 2019. So far, thankfully still NED. I am now 73 and I am thankful for every year Inhave been granted. I do hope you have the same outcome 😘

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  2 місяці тому +13

      WOW. glad you are doing well now!

    • @anitagurns9480
      @anitagurns9480 2 місяці тому +7

      @@kathyian1 yes immune therapy! Keytruda does wonders for melanoma🙏🏾

    • @kathyian1
      @kathyian1 2 місяці тому

      @@anitagurns9480 It was like magic for me, thankfully.

    • @bevtregenza3079
      @bevtregenza3079 2 місяці тому +12

      @@anitagurns9480Wish I was able so say it helped my husband. His melanoma was diagnosed very early prior to invading lymph nodes. Sadly made no difference to final outcome 🇦🇺🦋

    • @lorrainebettencourt8009
      @lorrainebettencourt8009 2 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @gregorywills2231
    @gregorywills2231 2 місяці тому +274

    You gotta love her attitude. She's a rare one.

  • @natatron
    @natatron 2 місяці тому +262

    She just oozes kindness and wisdom! I wish her the best in life.

  • @Goudoc
    @Goudoc 2 місяці тому +215

    Dear Madison, with all my heart I wish you to get well!

  • @stephaniefeiockrealtor
    @stephaniefeiockrealtor 12 днів тому +11

    Oh my this lady is phenomenal!! The world needs her, especially the medical world!! ❤

  • @kezzokav5905
    @kezzokav5905 13 днів тому +10

    This is the happiest I've ever seen someone discuss having cancer! Wow... her attitude is phenomenal. I need to take a leaf out of her book. Best of luck and intense healing to her.

  • @katalinklotz1491
    @katalinklotz1491 2 місяці тому +160

    Such a beautiful young lady and so nice. I hope the best for her.

  • @melissapoole8580
    @melissapoole8580 2 місяці тому +230

    You are truly special. I have never seen such a bubbly personality in the face of hardship. Congratulations on being so positive! Praying for you that this goes away and stays away!

    • @onepotmakesplenty
      @onepotmakesplenty 2 місяці тому +3

      I know, I don't think I've seen someone laugh and smile so much through cancer. If you were deaf, you'd think it was an engagement story!

    • @whitneyanders5945
      @whitneyanders5945 2 місяці тому +5

      I knew someone like this. She died from brain cancer at 32 but fought it hard for ten years. She even saw her mother drop dead in front of her from a heart attack. Even after being told there was no treatment options left and with no movement in one side of her body and being in a wheelchair, she had an optimistic spirit. Miss you Alice Twigden! Your optimism and sunny personality always shined bright no matter what challenge you faced. I will never forget you.

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  2 місяці тому +1

      thank you for the kind comment :)

  • @GwenMotoGirl
    @GwenMotoGirl 13 днів тому +6

    Madison’s optimism and joy are contagious.
    Prayers for complete healing.

  • @rhondar828
    @rhondar828 17 днів тому +9

    Never in a million years would I have thought that would have turned out to be a melanoma. I don't think I've ever heard anybody describe anything about melanoma like that before. Thankful she's sharing her story.

  • @MTknitter22
    @MTknitter22 2 місяці тому +144

    There are a lot of people who have not only survived but THRIVED to live long lives after a “Stage 4” metastatic carcinoma. You are young and there is so much new knowledge incorporating superior nutrition, and many other therapies that are saving lives. I will join so many others to pray God will show you the absolute perfect path for your healing and complete victory over this!

    • @Alma_Kane
      @Alma_Kane 2 місяці тому +5

      Carcinoma? This is melanoma, super aggressive unfortunately.

    • @tropicallyfit
      @tropicallyfit 2 місяці тому +7

      This is NOT carcinoma. It is melanoma... extremely aggressive. NO comparison.

    • @sylvainhyais8166
      @sylvainhyais8166 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@tropicallyfityes ,I had carcinoma and was no big deal ( got it removed) whereas my Mother had melanoma spreading to her brain which killed her .No comparison

    • @lisameeks4964
      @lisameeks4964 2 місяці тому +4

      Nobody gets healed from stage 4 cancer of any kind. The best you can hope for is no progression. You will be monitored and treated when needed for the rest of your life.

    • @blucky1250
      @blucky1250 2 місяці тому

      @@lisameeks4964yes..it’s a chronic disease. Incurable unfortunately.

  • @joannegibson-lucas3791
    @joannegibson-lucas3791 26 днів тому +14

    I had a hard time watching this. She is so lovely and smart, I was sick about this ordeal. I wish her the best. She deserves a great life!

    • @GwenMotoGirl
      @GwenMotoGirl 13 днів тому +2

      When she said misdiagnosis, it felt like a gut punch to me. I wish her the best, too.

  • @patriciaavery8480
    @patriciaavery8480 2 місяці тому +83

    Praying for you! Our granddaughter had bilateral Wilma’s tumors at the age of 2 1/2. One year of chemo and months of radiation and today she is 17 and is doing well. One doctor’s appointment at the time but she is a black belt in karate and is on a successful Ninja team. Thank God for the wonderful advances in healthcare.

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  2 місяці тому +4

      so glad you're granddaughter is doing well!

  • @JND-zf4sg
    @JND-zf4sg 2 місяці тому +276

    When I was 36yrs old I was given 10% chance of survival, I knew I would grow old. My rose colored glasses and my relationship with God made this 60yr old 100% alive today.
    Stay positive, stay grateful for what you do have, stay health smart and this will soon be in your rear window.
    Blessings and Prayers

    • @CK_29
      @CK_29 2 місяці тому +17

      Could not agree more! Our family faced a brain tumor and i prayed for it to be a distant event in our rearview mirror. It has now been almost 15 years and God is always right here ❤

    • @ambitious2915
      @ambitious2915 2 місяці тому +7

      @@Lbhacksaware you being paid to comment on everyone’s post that believes in God. Get a grip because GOD IS GREAT

    • @OurTube_TheOriginal
      @OurTube_TheOriginal 2 місяці тому +3

      Glad you have thrived. Also though youre assuming cause and effect; which can be misleading to those in need of help.

    • @JND-zf4sg
      @JND-zf4sg 2 місяці тому +3

      @@ambitious2915 Please don't waste your time on negative people, they love to drag loving people down because they are so empty. Ignoring these people is the best way to deal with them, this leaves them with noone to interact with except the dark empty self of their choices..

    • @WorldCupWillie
      @WorldCupWillie 2 місяці тому +5

      ​@@Lbhacksawno, she's special. God didn't love all those other dead people like he loves this person 😂

  • @marybrown8981
    @marybrown8981 2 місяці тому +33

    I have never known a person with cancer be so joyful! Good for you!!!

    • @PattyMesser-t9m
      @PattyMesser-t9m 2 місяці тому +4

      The laughing and smiling is her way of coping with everything that has happened. ... it's all psychological....her thinking is that staying positive will help her survive this. Like she said.... better than crying about it... wouldn't help anyway.

  • @carpetamuncher3268
    @carpetamuncher3268 Місяць тому +13

    She's such a light hearted, beautiful soul. I hope she gets better and enjoys a long, happy life!

  • @cnlish
    @cnlish 2 місяці тому +35

    I strive for her positivity. What an inspiration she is. 🙏🏼🤍

  • @gennyd8664
    @gennyd8664 2 місяці тому +75

    what a lovely young lady! Wishing her all the best, I am sure she will have the long, happy life she deserves.

  • @rowyourboat5361
    @rowyourboat5361 2 місяці тому +43

    this is so sad and shocking. I know anyone watching this video will pray tat you get rid of the cancer and live a long happy life.

  • @clovislyme6195
    @clovislyme6195 2 місяці тому +60

    That call. I had a routine blood panel to rule out atherosclerosis causing a few headaches, no big deal. 7.30 pm a few days later, out of the blue. "Be here at 8.30 am tomorrow for an ultrasound scan, your liver function is weird." I didn't have atherosclerosis. My headaches had nothing to do with my disease, which was asymptomatic. That disease turned out to be Stage 4 primary hepatic non-Hodgkin Lymphoma - somewhat rare. The formal diagnosis came 13 years ago pretty much to the week, without it I would have died within months. I started chemo immediately, and it worked. As you can see, I am still here. Take heart Madison, you are brilliant, everything is possible.

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  2 місяці тому +3

      glad to hear you are doing well!

    • @clovislyme6195
      @clovislyme6195 2 місяці тому +1

      @@ThePatientStory Thank you.

    • @pwhorselover
      @pwhorselover 2 місяці тому +2

      So many positive outcomes from some rather dire diagnosis. This is so encouraging!

    • @clovislyme6195
      @clovislyme6195 2 місяці тому

      @@pwhorselover I had a great oncologist, very experienced, remorselessly honest. Almost his first words to me: "It's Stage 4, but I intend to cure you. Prospects of success are 60% or better. If I fail, you have about 6 months. Now go home and have a nice bottle white wine - your liver function isn't that bad." Treatment was a rough ride at times, but I had confidence. Doctors' personalities and words are such an important part of treatment. He is retired now. I hope he enjoys every minute of it.

  • @elisamonast9730
    @elisamonast9730 2 місяці тому +26

    Her attitude is just admirable. Kudos to her. Her attitude will help her a lot. Blessings to her

  • @janbrittingham9648
    @janbrittingham9648 2 місяці тому +68

    Many prayers dear.
    My daughter had a mole removed in her 20’s- melanoma . She had the side derp excision and has had no recurrence since , however she fi did develop stage 3 colorectal cancer. In her 40’s.
    She is cancer free now after chemo & radiation.
    Faith, determination and humor will get you through. God bless you & your husband!❤

    • @joevarga5982
      @joevarga5982 2 місяці тому +4

      If prayer worked, people wouldn't need doctors.

    • @Jaque1961
      @Jaque1961 Місяць тому

      ​@@joevarga5982You are a pathetic individual. You blast prayers on every post on your account, Keep quiet, you look less stupid that way.

  • @olgapietri4062
    @olgapietri4062 2 місяці тому +64

    You are such a beautiful soul. All of that and you are smiling in your pictures. Pray that you stay healthy for many , many years. 😊❤ God bless you.

  • @t.h.1982
    @t.h.1982 2 місяці тому +66

    Thank you for sharing. My son was diagnosed with Diffuse Midline Glioma in July, based on his MRI. A quick google search and you realize this is a very bad thing, and he likely had less than a year. As a family, we cried more than any of us had ever cried; and simultaneously did deep dives into the recesses of clinical trials, alternative therapies, etc. He had brain surgery last month and fortunately, the biopsy revealed a less aggressive tumor, and we felt very blessed. While they were able to resect 80%, there is still 20% that is around the brain stem,. While he is going through the protocol with MD Anderson, we are all still very plugged into individuals sharing their stories online. I really appreciate you sharing your story, as it can benefit others. You got this and you will be in our prayers🙏

    • @justtired123
      @justtired123 2 місяці тому +2

      There is another lady in these stories that had a poor diagnosis, different cancer. She started looking everywhere and found Viktor Longos work. He is probably the foremost fasting expert in the world. When she said this I thought great you found him because he has done a lot of work with timing cancer treatments with iv vitamin C with fasting. She has gotten her disease under control. It might be worthwhile to look at his work.
      My dad age 60 had glioblastoma and given about 3 months about 25 years ago. He lived 3 years, so 10 times longer. At the time I had recently left my position in biopharm to taje a university position and did not see much use in chemo so he had 3 surgeries done by the best surgeon we could find. Played 18 holes of golf 3 or 5 days a week until 3 months before he passed. We did change his diet substantially and did some other lifestyle interventions to try and push the statistical odds in his direction. That is, we pushed him towards being an outlier, which at the time living three years, he was.
      There is so much more informational now including a book called Anticancer, a new way of Life written by a long time Brain cancer.
      My neighbor is 10 years out from his stage 2/3 brain tumor diagnosis with no recurrence. I wish you all the best.

    • @queen452010
      @queen452010 2 місяці тому

      Praying that your son will beat this disease, also would be wise to look for alternative treatments, is proven that a lot of cancers are caused by parasites, mold and bacteria , we’ve also been poisoned with heavy metals and our bodies are overloaded with chemicals, pesticides and all kinds of things . Best wishes to your son 🙏🏻

    • @lewis7515
      @lewis7515 Місяць тому

      ​@@queen452010 And, where, exactly, is that proof you speak of, to be found?..

    • @virginianulty9895
      @virginianulty9895 21 день тому

      😮​@@queen452010

    • @kezzokav5905
      @kezzokav5905 13 днів тому

      Have you guys looked at Professor Seyfried's research?

  • @Michelle-fh2dp
    @Michelle-fh2dp 2 місяці тому +46

    I think the immunotherapy must be marvelous. My cousin had Stage 4 Melanoma and started the immunotherapy. She was only able to take one round of therapy because it almost killed her. However, it's 10 or 11 years later and she's still here and has gained 3 grandchildren! She feels very fortunate even though she knows it could come back again.
    However you are so much younger and could tolerate all the treatment so I just know you'll have an even better outcome.
    Bless you and I pray for your total recovery. Thank you for sharing your experience with others. You are a sweet girl! ❤❤❤

    • @britishchickinusa
      @britishchickinusa 2 місяці тому

      Immunotherapy doesnt work in all cases. In some cases it can make matters worse and is hard to control. A pt can develop all kinds of side illnesses. and it can weaken the system. One should def get second opinion and do their homework. We are grateful that we went with our gut and got to choose the best and appropriate method of attacking our melanoma. Surgery is the always best option from what i understand and after that immunotherapy, chemo etc.. dep on the diagnosis

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  2 місяці тому +1

      glad to hear your cousin is doing well!

    • @ResolUloseR
      @ResolUloseR Місяць тому

      ​@@britishchickinusathere are a bunch of new CRISPR-CAS9 immunotherapies in trials now.

  • @boothills_devotee
    @boothills_devotee 2 місяці тому +24

    dear lord. her positivity is like... making me CRY. because of how STRONG SHE IS. i am like... so, SO PROUD of her. its insane, and i love her so much i just want to give her a hug T_T

  • @cindianajones1
    @cindianajones1 2 місяці тому +68

    You are a beautiful person. Thank you for caring enough to share your experience with us!! So many people need this information!! I am praying for you!! You are fierce and courageous!!!

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  2 місяці тому +1

      THIS is what we strive for with our platform :)

  • @jupitergirl9276
    @jupitergirl9276 2 місяці тому +363

    Finally! I’ve watched 100 stories and no one else talked about processed foods and toxic products!

    • @luvisthedrug9890
      @luvisthedrug9890 2 місяці тому +31

      I was thinking the same thing! It's crucial. Madison's patients are going to be ahead of the curve. Every medical professional should be discussing this with patients.

    • @shelleyjackson8793
      @shelleyjackson8793 2 місяці тому +48

      I had a melanoma because I have a family history, very pale skin and got sunburned on my hand and arm. Nothing to do with what I ate.

    • @5Gburn
      @5Gburn 2 місяці тому

      ​@@shelleyjackson8793Most cancers stem from either genetic predisposition or completely bizarro random mutations. There are people who live kn white bread sandwiches and Dr. Pepper who live to be 94. No telling which batch we came from.
      Smoking kills. The air is unhealthy generally. We'd have to live in a bubble to not be affected...but, oh no the bubbles are made of plastic.
      We must do everything we can to stay healthy--and stay vigilant to spot any concerning changes. That's it.

    • @MTknitter22
      @MTknitter22 2 місяці тому +16

      Oh there are MANY MANY MANY STORIES of people healed (physicians Too) who are healed with effective common sense things outside of chemo.

    • @luvisthedrug9890
      @luvisthedrug9890 2 місяці тому +23

      @@shelleyjackson8793 It's possible not, however what you consumed likely had an effect on how quickly the cancer grew, how your body was able to heal it, and how efficient your overall treatment was? Your diet matters. We all have little cancers in our body all of the time. Most of them are eliminated by our immune systems.

  • @peterbland7227
    @peterbland7227 2 місяці тому +26

    You are so brave. I pray the treatments will eliminate the brain tumor.

  • @colleenwilliams1452
    @colleenwilliams1452 2 місяці тому +114

    I had a melanoma on the top of my left arm. They cut it out a year ago. I had two big cancers cut off my face yesterday. I know how you feel. Best of. Luck from New Zealand.

    • @californiadoll6273
      @californiadoll6273 2 місяці тому +5

      Did yours hurt? Did they look like black moles? I'm curious.

    • @shirleyw8720
      @shirleyw8720 2 місяці тому +3

      I’m so sorry to hear that, and I hope you make a quick and complete recovery 💪

    • @harrisonmode8046
      @harrisonmode8046 2 місяці тому +6

      Exact same thing! Top of left arm got removed a year ago. Stage 1. I hope you’re well and stay well.

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads 2 місяці тому +1

      @@colleenwilliams1452 I wish you all the best, and no more cancer. Btw, I love the NZ accents (have seen “An Angel at My Table” a few times).

    • @leighnajohnson9324
      @leighnajohnson9324 2 місяці тому +4

      I had stage 0 melanoma when I was 20, caught it so early it was nothing but something! Any mole that turns a diff color go check with a dermatologist

  • @viscountbiscuit5343
    @viscountbiscuit5343 2 місяці тому +16

    What a beautiful woman. Inside and out. Your positivity is inspirational ❤

  • @stephenmaher1029
    @stephenmaher1029 2 місяці тому +35

    This young lady has an unbelievably outlook on everything! I wish her a speedy recovery and long lovely life!

  • @shariboyle1166
    @shariboyle1166 2 місяці тому +10

    She's very kind and so positive! I wish her the BEST OF LUCK!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @truending
    @truending 2 місяці тому +23

    I admire her positive and rational attitude. I hope she will heal very soon and continue to heal others. ❤

  • @Hope-yl7rg
    @Hope-yl7rg 2 місяці тому +18

    You are a ray of sunshine and have such a great attitude. I pray all goes well for you and you have a long, happy life 🙂

  • @ArielleXArielle
    @ArielleXArielle Місяць тому +8

    What a delightful girl she's making me smile, even though her story is so sad.

  • @lorikremer2709
    @lorikremer2709 2 місяці тому +10

    What a beautiful, positive young woman. Inspirational on so many levels.

  • @denisescott34
    @denisescott34 2 місяці тому +10

    Wow, you are so sweet and cheerful when talking about the missed diagnosis when you were 18. I'm a nurse and I know that can happen, but still... I wish the absolute BEST for you and your new husband and that you have a long and wonderful life together.

  • @kathyestes6577
    @kathyestes6577 2 місяці тому +26

    My 23 year old son had a small light colored bump on his back that bled when it was rubbed by accident. I insisted the doctor remove it because I had caught an early melanoma on my back when I was his age. His biopsy was melanoma. This was in 1999 so treatments were not as good back then. I remember him getting regular brain scans because melanoma often goes there. Listening to you of course brings back our experiences. I’m so glad there is immunotherapy now for you. Five years ago I had radiation for a recurrence of uterine cancer and I hope you have the same success with it that I did. I found it pretty rough but it did the job and Im still NED! I’m so very glad you are adding in lifestyle, diet, and attitude considerations to your standard care. Every persons cancer is unique because we are all biologically differently. Making decisions as a cancer patient can be very hard. You are helping so many with this video and your amazing optimistic outlook. Thank you for educating others and I wish you all the best.

    • @juliebraden
      @juliebraden 2 місяці тому +2

      I hope your son is ok now & still?

    • @kathyestes6577
      @kathyestes6577 2 місяці тому +1

      @@juliebraden So kind of you to ask. His was extremely aggressive and there weren’t any successful treatments back then (25 years ago)so we had a sad ending. The outlook now is much improved so I don’t want our story to frighten anyone.

    • @juliebraden
      @juliebraden 2 місяці тому +1

      @@kathyestes6577 that is so sad to hear. That wasn't that long ago in some respects but melanoma is still a serious disease even today w/ bttr treatments. I was 23 in '99. That is shocking to think of a peer dying @ that age. My condolences.

    • @kathyestes6577
      @kathyestes6577 2 місяці тому +1

      @@juliebraden Thank you. It is a serious disease but I truly don’t want to cause worry to others. When my son was diagnosed it really upset me to learn about other cases with bad outcomes. I needed to hear success stories. My message here is just to be very proactive. Don’t wait and see just get to a doctor and tell them you are too worried to wait and you want things biopsied ASAP. I think stage 1 is 95% curable.

  • @Dylanfan2024
    @Dylanfan2024 2 місяці тому +30

    You are so kind to share your story. Sending you love and light 🙏💜

  • @debishaw9355
    @debishaw9355 2 місяці тому +25

    You are the sweetest gal. It’s hard to explain to people that melanoma is so hard and everyone needs a skin check every year or if you have a suspicious mole. . I was a derm nurse for 20 plus years and we saw many skin cancers. Sending prayers and hugs to you… I’m glad you’re doing well…

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  2 місяці тому +1

      i'm sure it's hard seeing this in your profession. thank you for the kind words!

  • @jamiejones8508
    @jamiejones8508 2 місяці тому +8

    Oh bless her; she’s so positive. One can only hope for the best and the knowledge that treatments have radically improved .

  • @AhhhSukeSuke
    @AhhhSukeSuke 2 місяці тому +6

    I love her positive attitude, 💛 it feels like she talked it through in a very rational, reasonable manner over something so serious

  • @sharonmansfield3053
    @sharonmansfield3053 2 місяці тому +19

    OMG! I have the same lumps in the same place! My PCP said the one on my right shoulder in the back was accumulated fatty tissue and this is what happens sometimes. I asked about aspirating it and she didn’t think that we needed to do that. So I didn’t think more about it other than it’s grown from a pea size to now a bigger lump. Now I have one on the side of my left thigh!
    I just sent my PCP an email for a referral to see a dermatologist. I know I’ll have to see her again but now I want to pursue this. I’m 76 years old and want to rule out all the possibilities. I don’t think it was an accident that I saw your UA-cam video. I was meant to see it and to pursue another opinion. My PCP is family medicine with Kaiser. We do have to get referred to specialist and I understand that (I worked at KP in administration). Thank you for your video!
    Good luck to you and I pray all goes well with your treatments. 👍❤️

    • @fionachristano7865
      @fionachristano7865 9 днів тому

      I hope everything is ok with you and that nothing bad comes out of your further testing 🙏

  • @itsmahsa2541
    @itsmahsa2541 2 місяці тому +17

    Wow, you laughed through the entire video.
    I hope you live a long life healthy and laughing all the way through. ❤️

  • @lite6460
    @lite6460 8 днів тому +2

    Thank You Madison for your Extremely Helpful Video. You seem like a wonderful Person, and I wish you the Very Best.

  • @rudolfschmidt942
    @rudolfschmidt942 2 місяці тому +13

    This woman is such a kind soul and I am praying for her. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @susanehlava3808
    @susanehlava3808 2 місяці тому +10

    You were such a beautiful bride and you are a lovely and very positive person. I wish you all the very best ❤

  • @phyllisemroll4920
    @phyllisemroll4920 18 днів тому +1

    Madison, I am so sorry this happened to you. Your joyfulness is so beautiful. You are an inspiration. Your patients are so lucky to have you.
    God bless you and your family.

  • @meganmckissick2281
    @meganmckissick2281 2 місяці тому +20

    It is soooo important to be your own advocate!

  • @glorial100
    @glorial100 2 місяці тому +7

    You are amazing! Continue your fight & smile...you will beat it!

  • @valeriedaws6290
    @valeriedaws6290 2 місяці тому +10

    May your healing be complete for the rest of your long life.💜💖💜

  • @ivandevilliers5741
    @ivandevilliers5741 2 місяці тому +19

    You are a bright star, a true shining light. I have such admiration and respect for people who inspire others with their positivity and optimism, even in the face of adversity and in this case the terrible news of a cancer diagnosis. An incredible testament of courage and resilience. Prayers to your recovery, and may the life of you and your family be blessed 🌟

  • @basbleupeaunoire
    @basbleupeaunoire 7 днів тому +1

    I hope Madison has the best possible outcome. Lovely person.

  • @judithwebb2385
    @judithwebb2385 21 день тому +3

    Praying you will make a complete recovery,keep positive,you have a beautiful soul xx

  • @katebarton7134
    @katebarton7134 2 місяці тому +11

    I am so glad that you spoke about what goes into your body makes a huge difference to us

  • @charlescurry8676
    @charlescurry8676 2 місяці тому +10

    Praying for your complete recovery!

  • @SERLake
    @SERLake 2 місяці тому +9

    Thank you for sharing your story! Cancer is so very scary.

  • @tinad4182
    @tinad4182 2 місяці тому +7

    Your spirit is infectious! Prayers that you knock this cancer out and stay NED for life! 💜

  • @JackieDiy
    @JackieDiy 2 місяці тому +3

    Praying for your full recovery, Madison. You are such a positive and grateful human being. Despite the cancer, you do not show any signs of remorse or misery. You accept what's there and try to be the best person you can be. This is what is so inspiring about you. I have such huge hopes that you will survive this because the mind is powerful and faith is miraculous. Stay positive and generous with your story. There are so many people in the world who needs to hear about your story. Much love.

  • @JaneDoe-ip5yl
    @JaneDoe-ip5yl 2 місяці тому +6

    So all good for now? Wonderful. she is a bright light that needs to keep shining

  • @bruely82
    @bruely82 2 місяці тому +18

    Bless you! I wish all the best with your treatment, with less side effects possible or none at all. ❤❤❤ Love from Spain ❤

  • @missy-t9d
    @missy-t9d 2 місяці тому

    What a strong, articulate woman facing such adversity. I can not express how much I admire your honesty and strength.

  • @terri4353
    @terri4353 2 місяці тому +5

    Such a wonderful young lady. May God heal you completely. ❤

  • @lnl3237
    @lnl3237 2 дні тому

    Incredible human being. We need her to survive and thrive.

  • @amandagonzalez6549
    @amandagonzalez6549 2 місяці тому +6

    Thank you for sharing your story! You are truly a bright light, and I really hope the best for you going forward. Praying you keep kicking the nasty cancer’s butt and it never comes back. Stay well my dear💗

  • @JumpingJack6
    @JumpingJack6 2 місяці тому +17

    Wow you are simple a remarkable and beautiful young woman, prayed and best wishes for you.

  • @Noodles.FreeUkraine
    @Noodles.FreeUkraine 2 місяці тому +180

    My former boss had a funny spot on his leg, so he went to see his dermatologist. She took a biopsy and told him she'd let him know if it was anything to worry about. He went about his business and almost forgot about it, since he never got a call. Must have been fine, he thought. Until he started to get progressively worse headaches a few months later and went to see his primary physician about it.
    Long story short, he was diagnosed with disseminated metastatic melanoma. It was everywhere, including his head, leading to the headaches. A few months later, he was dead.
    Turns out his dermatologist did receive a positive result and, for whatever reason, just filed it and went to lunch instead of starting immediate treatment.
    As Madison said, never, never trust the process. Second-guess, get third and fourth opinions, ask if there's something you don't understand and advocate for yourself. It could save your life.

    • @5Gburn
      @5Gburn 2 місяці тому +14

      That's so tragic. He at least could've been bought more time on this earth, if not been put into remission.
      ALWAYS look at the results in your Health Portal. At the very least, you'll be able to follow along with the doc as they discuss the results during the follow-up.
      Currently trying to find out what's wrong with me. It went from nausea to localized nausea (one particular quarter-sized spot), then gnawing pain, another spot...now a year later, it's something I can feel jab me when I bend at the waist. Feels like a rock. I've looked at all my portal results and they did find a few things--but funny enough I don't think they're related. Looking things up ahead of time helps me think through the problem, and after manh medical tests and scans, there's only a few things left that it can be, and I'll bring those ideas up with my GI doc next time I see her. Hopefully I can avoid such a grim prognosis.

    • @Noodles.FreeUkraine
      @Noodles.FreeUkraine 2 місяці тому +2

      @@5Gburn Thanks for chiming in! Yes, he might have had years left on the clock, just imagine if he made it until immunotherapy was available-he might still be around today.
      So, yes, always look at your results. If you don't understand them, ask your doc. Connect with other patients. Make sure you know what is happening and why it's happening. The medical world is a high-paced environment, mistakes happen. All the time. And that's fine when it comes to an ingrown toenail, but don't let it happen to you when it's about life and death.
      I'm not sure I understood what you mentioned, but it might just be a hernia or some other benign reason. I think it is worth getting it checked out, though. Pushing thumbs here that it's nothing serious.
      Unfortunately, sometimes it's really difficult to figure things out. I myself keep finding blood when wiping after visiting the bathroom and noticed low iron levels on top, so I insisted on a colonoscopy, which was done recently. Funnily enough, the doc said he didn't see anything of concern.
      Given my old boss's history, I'm still worried as it keeps happening. Alas, insurance doesn't pay for several colonoscopies in a row just for shits and giggles... 🫤

    • @nancys2275
      @nancys2275 2 місяці тому +1

      ⁠My husband had that. Turned out to be internal hemorrhoids. Didn’t even know there was such a thing!

    • @Noodles.FreeUkraine
      @Noodles.FreeUkraine 2 місяці тому

      @@nancys2275 Thanks, Nancy. Since my mother used to have problems with hemorrhoids as well, I did ask him about it, but he kept reassuring me that there was no problem. Yet, the blood is there. And the low iron levels do point to internal blood loss. I guess I'll have to keep nagging my GP about it.

    • @debishaw9355
      @debishaw9355 2 місяці тому +10

      @@Noodles.FreeUkraine , if someone doesn’t get a call back after a skin biopsy, I would hope your post encourages someone that they need to call the dr… Wow! That’s just so sad. I’m so sorry that happened to your boss.

  • @kristycannon7923
    @kristycannon7923 2 місяці тому +6

    Madison, you are a BEAUTIFUL young woman, inside and outside! Your spirit is so amazing and your optimism is truly a gift! The world needs more people like YOU! Thank you for sharing your story. I wish nothing but the very best for you and your sweet family. I honestly feel that God's hand is on your shoulder, leading you in the right direction. Please give us an update once you have new news. We are all in your corner, girlie! Sending all the love in the world your way! You got this!!! ❤

  • @samorr4
    @samorr4 2 місяці тому +1

    Prayers for you Madison. You are obviously a very special person. May God bless you, comfort you, and maketh his face to shine upon you during your journey combatting your melanoma.

  • @carolhonea9073
    @carolhonea9073 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m praying for a complete recovery for for you ❣️🙏 God Bless & Keep You Under His Wing❣️🙏🙏🙏

  • @caitlincassandra
    @caitlincassandra Місяць тому +1

    Your level of positivity is just so contagious. I actually feel like that may make all the difference for you. If anyone can thrive despite this diagnosis, you can!

  • @sukieflanders7856
    @sukieflanders7856 2 місяці тому +5

    Bless you, your patient's are very blessed to have you take care of them. Gods blessings on you

  • @lisawhite3648
    @lisawhite3648 2 місяці тому +12

    Madison you are not only So Upbeat but an Amazing young Woman!My youngest daughter,she is 23 is a PA she is working in a hospital in 10 days.I am from Philly YOU ARE SO STRONG!!Also a BADASS in the Best Way you are dealing with this!!You came up outta nowhere on my youtube videos sorry i'm 60 this is new.I'v been through addiction of ALL lets say the Worst Drugs.I feel Discusting using,a smoker a drinker,Drug addict as i said.Thank God my children are well.Especially My little PA.I never COMMENT but you blew me away with your ppositivelyMadison you are one Soecial young woman.I Pray ALOT you are gonna be in my Prayers Sweetheart.Believe ME i know people and you my love ARE a Special young Woman!!DAMN!!❤❤

  • @lizkirby6059
    @lizkirby6059 2 місяці тому +30

    This lovely young woman's nervous laughter throughout this vid undermines the absolute terror she must have had with each new piece of evidence that rang the STAGE 4 CANCER bell. I too went through this, almost step by step the same, but I don't remember ever having bouts of giggling or cheery story-telling style in my conversations with family and friends. How? I just don't want those listening and watching to think METASTATIC MELANOMA is worth any laughs. Ever. Take it all seriously, people. Take Care Of Yourself.Check yourself every time you take a shower and see a dermatologist annually! People Get serious about Melanoma, the most evil of Evil Cancer.....

    • @shaz8486
      @shaz8486 2 місяці тому +5

      That doesn’t mean she doesn’t feel terrified of her diagnosis….that is a bit judgmental, especially as she had had it checked 10 years prior

    • @Vewign
      @Vewign Місяць тому +5

      Laughter is actually a pretty common trauma response- it serves to release tension, and while that’s usually happy tension, it can also be a response to anxiety as well. Same way people cry. It’s not a reflection of what someone thinks, just a physiological response. Also, I’m very happy you’re here, and I wish you a wonderful life. ♥️

    • @teresashelley
      @teresashelley Місяць тому +7

      I have bouts of nervous laughter too. Husband in the ED after an accident and I am laughing and making jokes. I’m a nurse and I see others respond in stress situations like that too. It is a trauma response and actually pretty common. Don’t shame someone because they don’t respond in a situation the way you do or you think they should.

    • @krustycreme1093
      @krustycreme1093 Місяць тому +6

      That is just such a negative and awful comment to make.
      She's telling HER story.
      She's taken the time out of her life to bother to do this to raise awareness.
      Never was she belittling the threat of cancer.
      She mentioned in the video that she's always been a tremendously positive person, no matter the story....so it might be hard for a negative type person such as you come across to understand how someone can still be bubbling and encouraging even in the face of her massive fight for her life, but these people do exist, and I know who i would rather be walking through something like this, because we all have to die some day, but i would rather experience joy despite the circumstances than be negative and cruel.

    • @KatieBarnes-nz2hz
      @KatieBarnes-nz2hz Місяць тому

      😮 stop judging how someone should react to all that she is dealing with. More kindness is the kindest thing.

  • @BrianHornak
    @BrianHornak 2 місяці тому +2

    Congrats on your marriage... PRAYING for a well deserved miracle for you

  • @chiruboy23
    @chiruboy23 2 місяці тому +20

    You are a positive person.

  • @ASpectacular3777
    @ASpectacular3777 2 місяці тому +3

    You are a beautiful bride! I will pray for your complete healing. ❤ from Chicago

  • @cindykronick2502
    @cindykronick2502 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing all this detail. We need more people like you. You are a TRUE teacher for cancer and how to deal and learn and manage.

  • @jeanbeck4069
    @jeanbeck4069 2 місяці тому +1

    If attitude is EVERYTHING, YOU GOT THIS.... praying for God's healing hand upon you

  • @annfyall1
    @annfyall1 2 місяці тому

    You are one of the most positive and inspirational people ever! You are beautiful on the inside and out! We need you on Earth! I’m praying for you!

  • @dancingqueen2566
    @dancingqueen2566 Місяць тому +1

    You are a ray of sunshine and I wish you all the very best of healing and happiness! ❤☀️💖xx

  • @nicolehall1268
    @nicolehall1268 26 днів тому

    I wish I could have her optimism. What a ray of sunshine 🌞- amazing!

  • @taralll
    @taralll 2 місяці тому +4

    You’re such a beautiful person with a great attitude. I hope this will be something of the past soon and you live a long wonderful life.

  • @kristihammonds585
    @kristihammonds585 2 місяці тому +2

    Excellent advice, praying for your complete healing ❤

  • @JL-fn6ne
    @JL-fn6ne 2 місяці тому +2

    You have the positivity backed with authenticity... not just empty words. Your excitement of supporting your body in it's healing shows. Healthy nourishment for the body is so important... and so is healthy input for the mind. Health and wellness belong to you. It's yours.You've got this.🤩

  • @RoseMarie-hx9of
    @RoseMarie-hx9of Місяць тому +1

    Madison, you are so positive and such a beautiful person inside and out. God Bless You and your journey at this time in your life.

  • @Randomest_Stories
    @Randomest_Stories 2 місяці тому +5

    Prayers and best wishes. Get well soon. And eat clean, green, organic.

  • @savicaanastasoska6690
    @savicaanastasoska6690 2 місяці тому +14

    ❤I love her form the start saying "hello" ❤ I pray for you Madison you are lovely person❤️I wish for you to get cured and go on smiling❤❤

  • @FireScorpio3
    @FireScorpio3 Місяць тому +1

    Beautiful lady keep strong, I wish you to win this fight. God bless you

  • @gayleb9656
    @gayleb9656 2 місяці тому +2

    So many young people getting cancer now from you know what. God bless this young lady. 🙏🏻

  • @Paola11852
    @Paola11852 2 місяці тому +10

    Bless you sweetheart 😢, thank you for your story, from such a small lump😳..You are a beautiful lady please God pray for a cure..take care love 👋🏻🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Thibautdu29
    @Thibautdu29 15 днів тому +1

    We Really need People like Madison on this Earth
    I believe she will have a long recovery and cure with the latest Breakthrough in Immunotherapies and vaccines for Melanoma

  • @Mistyriverlady
    @Mistyriverlady 2 місяці тому +3

    What a lovely young woman you are! So appreciate that you bring nutrition into the fold - brilliant. Wishing you well, and how proud your parents must be to have such an incredible daughter ❤️.

  • @claudiawillner5734
    @claudiawillner5734 2 місяці тому +2

    Such a kind and brave woman ❤ I wish you the very best 🍀

  • @pkj410
    @pkj410 19 годин тому

    What a Sprit she has 😊 she talks about cancer with joy, what a strong beautiful young woman, wishe you well and heal 💯💪, nover give up hope ❤❤❤

  • @celestepace7817
    @celestepace7817 14 днів тому

    My dad has had s4 metastatic melanoma since 2014. Drs told him he had a year & a half tops but he is still here & still doing better than anyone could have predicted. Best of luck to this beautiful soul that she will beat this 🙏

  • @Paralyzer
    @Paralyzer 23 дні тому

    She looks and feels like she has such positive energy battling this disease, she’s radiating energy, I truly hope and pray it will be a positive outcome for her and wins this fight, madison you are a champion ❤ I know she may never read this but my family and I sends their love and support ❤

  • @dak3845
    @dak3845 2 місяці тому +4

    You have got the best personality and an amazing outlook. Best to you!!