How To Dress in Your 40's & Beyond | Tips & Style Advice For Older Men

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  • Опубліковано 11 чер 2024
  • Welcome back to my channel! This video is for all of you older gents out there! FYI 40 is NOT old 😉In this video I talk about how to dress in your 40's and beyond and I outline some crucial tips as well as some casual staple pieces you should have in your closet. I didn't want to make the video too long so I will probably do a separate video for more formal wear if that's something you would all be interested in. If you have any questions/comments be sure to leave them down below! I hope you enjoy and find this helpful ❤️
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  • @mwloos1
    @mwloos1 3 роки тому +188

    I’m noticing older guys over 40 being more masculine and in better shape than most 20 something counterparts these days.

    • @MrDanielWP
      @MrDanielWP 3 роки тому +31

      40 year old men of today are more likely to be real men than kids today.

    • @geoffoakland
      @geoffoakland 3 роки тому +21

      totally agree, a lot of younger men play more video games than actual sports. I've seen plenty of "dougy" 20 somethings. I'm 57 and still have my six pack

    • @arielaganon5367
      @arielaganon5367 3 роки тому +8

      Because of the influences and role model these older men looked up to during their time. I'm almost 40 btw and i look up to these men on their 40s to 60s.

    • @carrytrainer.editor3321
      @carrytrainer.editor3321 3 роки тому +7

      That's what happened to me bro... I've been 40 for about 6 mos. and I'm starting to shop for muscle shirts now. Fitted clothes, sure, but I'm not into this dapper stuff...

    • @geoffoakland
      @geoffoakland 3 роки тому +1

      @@carrytrainer.editor3321 awesome, as long as us older guys don't over do it , get clothes that are flattering, that women will notice but looking like you are trying to show off.

  • @CourtneyRyan
    @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +263

    FYI - I don’t think 40, 50 or even 60 is OLD! Please don’t be offended. Just wanted to clarify as I’ve gotten a lot of comments about this... Much love to all of you! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @edhammond6911
      @edhammond6911 4 роки тому +53

      Relative to you we are old. I did not take offense at all. Your message is very sweet.Real men have better things to do than worry about how old they are.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +17

      Ed Hammond 👏🏼👏🏼 Thanks Ed!!

    • @cristina9737
      @cristina9737 4 роки тому +19

      I think being old is much better than the alternative!

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +12

      Cristina Evans hahahaha very good point 😂 if I’m still kicking I’ll be happy regardless of what number I’m at!

    • @FABM27
      @FABM27 4 роки тому +6

      I am almost 40 but it doesn’t bother me a bit. Infact i can’t wait to be 60 and enjoy retirement. I am fortunate to look much younger than my age but body aches and pains just like a 40 year old after a game of Cricket

  • @travisjodyh.842
    @travisjodyh.842 3 роки тому +206

    I thought 40+ was old when I was in my 20’s, but at 49, I realize mature is a more accurate adjective.

    • @robertmaxa6631
      @robertmaxa6631 3 роки тому +18

      Getting old is inevitable, growing up is optional.

    • @coolti44
      @coolti44 3 роки тому +21

      40s are the old age of youth. 50s are the youth of old age.

    • @Passive_Income_Life
      @Passive_Income_Life 3 роки тому +2

      @@coolti44 I am 60 now so what does that mean then?

    • @davidmilne9683
      @davidmilne9683 3 роки тому +3

      @@Passive_Income_Life 60 is young in today's standard!

    • @bngr_bngr
      @bngr_bngr 2 роки тому +1

      I think I got five years younger during the pandemic.

  • @RobertMorgan
    @RobertMorgan 10 місяців тому +9

    Step 1, you're 40, stop caring what people think.

  • @douglasstrother6584
    @douglasstrother6584 3 роки тому +80

    I'm so old that my wardrobe has been retro ... twice!
    ;)

    • @maxwellspeedwell2585
      @maxwellspeedwell2585 3 роки тому +2

      Thanks for the laugh, Douglas! I was in a store and the ladies in front of me and the young man working there were in a brief conversation about their age. I needed to speak with him and when they were finished I asked him, "Out of curousity, how old do you think I am?"
      He said, "Oh, dude... you're (back of throat, rolling a gutteral "O") oooold!'
      "Old? How old is old?"
      He said, "Oh... like, like, like thirty!"
      I put my hands on top of my head, then threw them in the air and said, "That's amazing! How did you know???"

    • @douglasstrother6584
      @douglasstrother6584 3 роки тому +1

      @@maxwellspeedwell2585 Too funny!!
      I'm about to turn 29 ... for the second time!

    • @vivaanlachlan4174
      @vivaanlachlan4174 2 роки тому

      I know Im asking randomly but does any of you know of a method to get back into an Instagram account?
      I was dumb lost the account password. I appreciate any help you can offer me!

    • @bngr_bngr
      @bngr_bngr 2 роки тому +1

      My watch is older that Courtney.

    • @douglasstrother6584
      @douglasstrother6584 2 роки тому +1

      @@bngr_bngr "Takes a lickin', but keeps on tickin'!", TIMEX.

  • @nvarras7
    @nvarras7 3 роки тому +63

    My wife is glad I found this video, at 46 I lost 30 pounds and changed up my style and she definitely appreciates it. Now that I am economically secure I have time to enjoy.

    • @marc416
      @marc416 2 роки тому +4

      Beware, she is prolly insecure that you are going to leave her.

    • @tc5691
      @tc5691 2 роки тому

      Congratulations brother. Live your best life. 🙏🏻

    • @Oggiesilverfitness
      @Oggiesilverfitness 2 роки тому

      Good for you!

    • @jrgb9945
      @jrgb9945 6 місяців тому

      Solid weight loss.
      Probably carnivore

  • @bsh1967
    @bsh1967 4 роки тому +87

    Great video Courtney. As a 52-year-old I'd also say that developing your own personal style is really the key. Then express it with the best quality and fitting items and accessories you can afford. Chasing trends is for the youngsters.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +7

      Completely agree 😊

    • @matikaevur6299
      @matikaevur6299 2 роки тому +1

      Totally!
      Be yourself as much as you can!
      There are some social functions where you are advised to adhere to "traditional".
      Weddings and funerals for example (if you are not the star of the show).
      I can be as comfortable in tuxedo in ballroom as in all-leathers on my hog on the road ...
      Same me .. different function/environment ..

  • @stephentuthill4598
    @stephentuthill4598 2 роки тому +31

    As a single guy, still in the dating scene in his forties, I am not ready to retire... These are the best days in my life, and I dress trendy and fashionable because a lot of the younger women that I attract to me appreciate that. Just because you are more experienced does not make you an "old man"... Age is a number on a piece of paper, young or old is a mental attitude!

    • @camharrison400
      @camharrison400 2 роки тому +2

      So true, I’m in my early 40s I dress trendy and the younger women love it. I’m loving my 40s

    • @miahconnell23
      @miahconnell23 8 місяців тому

      @stepentuthill4598 : Agreed !! many of us dudes are doing better at this age in many ways !! Serious question tho (not being snarky): would you or do wear skinny jeans ?

  • @joeasuncion7854
    @joeasuncion7854 3 роки тому +118

    I'm 65 years Young.
    "Live your life,
    Forget your age."
    Thanks for the fashion advice.
    Quality over quantity.

    • @burkholdst.rudderberg3574
      @burkholdst.rudderberg3574 3 роки тому

      "Live your life,
      Forget your age."
      And listen to Humble Pie as loud as you want!

    • @ingvartorma9789
      @ingvartorma9789 3 роки тому +3

      Quality is important but the tips she gives are very poor. And no man in Sweden would dress according to her bad advice on how men should dress.

    • @stevenholt5484
      @stevenholt5484 3 роки тому +4

      @@ingvartorma9789 Ingvar, be nice. She's only trying to help us older guys. Pray tell, just how do older men in Sweden dress?

    • @yell50
      @yell50 3 роки тому

      I'm 65 years Young.
      "Live your life,
      Forget your age."
      and look stupid

    • @MrDanielWP
      @MrDanielWP 3 роки тому

      Buy once, cry once. Get the right item, not the cheapest item.

  • @jonrhoades9259
    @jonrhoades9259 2 роки тому +30

    I'll be 40 in a few years and I feel way closer to being in my prime than I ever was. My looks and fitness seem to get better and better over the years and I'm noticed by alot more women now. It also helps to be more confident. Some of us reach our peak later, not in our 20s.

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 10 місяців тому +2

      39 years and 11 months me is in every way far more impressive than 20 year old me. I'm lighter, faster, stronger, taller, smarter, and definitely better funded.

    • @db4419
      @db4419 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@RobertMorgan"Taller"?? Than in your 20s??🤔

    • @victormalyar9200
      @victormalyar9200 6 місяців тому +1

      People grow till they are 25 and some never stop growing which is a birth defect which must require surgery.@@db4419

  • @danielscallon7515
    @danielscallon7515 3 роки тому +9

    I'll be 40 this year. I appreciate how you use gentleman, sophisticated, mature, timeless, cool, classy, and modern as goals for older men. Courtney you are awesome!

  • @montdiamonds5738
    @montdiamonds5738 3 роки тому +37

    What's funny is a LOT of us forty something year old guys look younger than our age,so i feel there needs to be a video for us well kept older guys who happen to look better and be in better shape than our younger counterparts😎

    • @geoffoakland
      @geoffoakland 3 роки тому +2

      I was thinking the same thing! Hell, I'm 57 and I'm in better shape than a lot of 20 somethings!

    • @johnthomas5166
      @johnthomas5166 3 роки тому +2

      It doesn't take much to be ahead of the younger generation these days. LOL I'm 51 and have pretty fortunate in that respect.

    • @ecurb10
      @ecurb10 2 роки тому +5

      At least you THINK you look younger than your age.

    • @colinbradfield72
      @colinbradfield72 2 роки тому +1

      Amen. As an in shape 38 year old with no gray hairs, I don’t relate to this video. I think instead you should give into a mid life crisis, buy a convertible and a Versace robe.

    • @ecurb10
      @ecurb10 2 роки тому

      ​@@colinbradfield72 Well you're still under 40, so what's your point? 😊

  • @robertdurham3594
    @robertdurham3594 2 роки тому +9

    I just turned 70 this year and I work out 5 days a week I'm in better shape than I was in my 20 30 or forty I have my own style I watch what other men in the public eye and adjust it too my style I enjoy your videos keep posting them

  • @raymondhashemi
    @raymondhashemi 2 роки тому +10

    Hi courtney, I am a 64 years old, I work out every day and have always had a great scense of style throughout my life. Everything you just mentioned here, I have multiples of-- I just wanted to congradulte you for your depth of knowledge at such a young age! Keep up the good work.

    • @frederickrapp5396
      @frederickrapp5396 7 місяців тому +2

      Any man at 50 and over should wear a fedora when they are outside.

  • @strictly45s6
    @strictly45s6 2 місяці тому +1

    Such a huge difference. Damn! 3 years ago she didn't seem so negative as her videos today. She actually comes across as wanting to be helpful!! Night and day in her latest videos and 3 years ago. Damn!!! I could not believe this was the same person.

  • @chriss377
    @chriss377 10 місяців тому +2

    Nailed it 99%, one disagreement (for some men) most cargo pants have poofy pockets and look silly, however Duluth Firehouse and Firehouse Flex have flat pockets and are great for guys who can't practically carry a bag. I'm an executive for a small business, my daily wear is Duluth Firehose Flex pants, high quality steel toe work boots always polished, a well fitted quality T or pull over depending on the season. I keep worn or stained pants, shirts, and boots in my office for when I know I might get dirty. I'm in the coatings business and often on factory floors with the potential to get dirty. Plus by dressing just above the workers I get more respect than dressing in a suit, make friends more easily, and am more approachable. The rest of your list is perfect!!! I happen to have my father's wing tips from when he got his first job, mint condition, third set of soles. Quality matters. The same shoes today cost close to $400. My boots over $500 and as high as $800. If it's between you and the ground spend money on it gentlemen. Shoes, tires, mattresses, furniture, office chairs, etc. Your body will thank you!

  • @jimhofer3802
    @jimhofer3802 3 роки тому +11

    Always been a denim/flannel shirt and jeans kind of guy for knock around/casual wear. Comfort never goes out of style.

    • @samsneadd
      @samsneadd 3 роки тому +1

      Very true. But, be careful. All kt takes is a teen to start making thay very comfortable look popular/trendy then they will start to tell you that you are trying to look young. When you have wore the same style for years way before a trend. Take crocs for example. Older people and nurses wore crocs. Now they are in fashion with younger people. Not that I ever would wear crocs. But, today if I wore them, I would be TRYING to look young ?!?! 😒Smh

  • @chrishoyt4209
    @chrishoyt4209 2 роки тому +6

    Love the timeless classic style for us older “gents” . Please keep the 40 and older content coming. Thank you!!

  • @MegaTmarshall
    @MegaTmarshall 3 роки тому +5

    I am 57 years old and I think that this video is really good advice for men of almost any age. When it comes to layering, I even like to wear a thin turtle neck sweater under a casual shirt topped off with a tweed sports jacket. I have had many compliments on this combination and it allows me the latitude to wear almost any kind of pants that I want. I call it casual/sharp.

  • @cesarsantos2074
    @cesarsantos2074 4 роки тому +35

    How about a video on casual outfits for older gentlemen

  • @professord1522
    @professord1522 Рік тому +5

    You truly are a sweetheart. Thanks for addressing this issue in a gentle, informative, and helpful way!

  • @tommyboy71000
    @tommyboy71000 4 роки тому +20

    Well, as a 43 year old, i've always dressed a bit younger. That means you don't have to run behind every trend but pick simple, classic, good fitting neutral tones. That's it basically. No large prints, no baggy clothes, no xxl chunky sneakers.
    It all comes to developing your own taste. And you should always wear a watch:)))

    • @zsb707
      @zsb707 3 роки тому +1

      Well said Tomaz 👏

    • @Swearengen1980
      @Swearengen1980 Рік тому +2

      Contradiction must? You can't say to develop your own taste and then tell people they should always wear a watch. 🤦‍♂

    • @tommyboy71000
      @tommyboy71000 Рік тому

      @@Swearengen1980 There are literally thousands of different watches in thousand different styles, so you can pick one that suits you the best! You're not the brightest are you???

    • @Swearengen1980
      @Swearengen1980 Рік тому

      @@tommyboy71000 You might want to try thinking before you type. I'm not the brightest? You're not even functionally retarded, are ya? Some people's taste is, they don't like watches. Not everyone likes wearing jewelry or anything on their body. That's a personal preference. You're saying everyone should wear a watch is a judgement that contradicts personal style or preference. I never said nor implied that anyone has to wear a specific type of watch and you lose your shit over the variety of watches that is completely irrelevant. I don't care if there are a million varieties of watches; I'm not wearing one because your stupid ass thinks it's some kind of requirement. Sorry sport, go back to middle school and try reading comprehension again. The point was, NO, not everyone NEEDS to wear a watch.

    • @thishere123
      @thishere123 Рік тому +2

      @@Swearengen1980 Yeah, wearing a watch in 2023 when there are Smart Phones?

  • @scroberts9316
    @scroberts9316 3 роки тому +2

    You do realize that by receiving numerous comments from 40, 50, 60+ year old gentlemen, this means you're attracting a beautifully wide range of viewers &/or subscribers?
    You are on the right track!
    And yes, another very helpful video - so thank you (again) .
    😁

  • @georgerukwaro9904
    @georgerukwaro9904 3 роки тому +8

    You're a gem Courtney. Your fashion sense is spot on. Age is a number. Style is permanent..

  • @Gregsgreatfood
    @Gregsgreatfood 3 роки тому +10

    I'm 58, and have decided to donate my out of date clothes. In addition to what you've already said, I've invested in timeless dress shoes as well. Thanks for your insight.

  • @richardnoseworthy4031
    @richardnoseworthy4031 4 роки тому +9

    Great vid as a 45 year old man I always find it hard to stay stylish without looking like the older guy trying to look younger. Great tips! Keep em coming!!!

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +2

      It’s really tricky! I hope this video helps. Thanks Richard 😊

  • @henrypollard4906
    @henrypollard4906 2 роки тому +2

    I am an older gentleman and have watched several of your videos regarding dating and relationships. I must say you are a very knowledgeable lady, full of wisdom. Keep up the good work!

  • @tonysanfilippo9994
    @tonysanfilippo9994 3 роки тому +4

    As I approach 40 this year, and have been updating and upgrading my wardrobe the passed year, I see this video. It's nice to know my decisions are reinforced while reinventing.

  • @coolti44
    @coolti44 3 роки тому +10

    I'm 56 and often get compliments for looking much younger and NOT because I dress trendy or go with the crowd. I feel like my generation set many of the trends we see these days but one should be mindful of their age and how to dress appropriately. It's important to eat well at my age and stay fit. I'm vegan now and feel better than ever! I like fitted clothes and good grooming. The classics have worked and always will. Basic colors and a few colored/print shirts. I wear stuff that mixes and matches. Black and white and killer shoes. I wear clothes that transcend time. Black fitted suits with fitted white crips shirts will always turn heads. (I can afford them now). I can pull off slim fit dark denim and ALWAYS get compliments on my gray Clark desert boots or chelsea boots. I have salt and pepper hair so wearing clear framed glasses go well! One great thing about being in your 50s is you don't give a shit about what people think about you! Best time of my life! Enjoy yourselves brothers!! Great video Courtney and thanks for speaking to our generation!

  • @itsme-notyou
    @itsme-notyou 4 роки тому +126

    Rather than "old" man and "older" man, we prefer "grown-ass" man.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +8

      That works too! 😊

    • @stylishlyrugged3372
      @stylishlyrugged3372 4 роки тому +2

      @Mike Tran Huh?

    • @miguelcustodio2177
      @miguelcustodio2177 3 роки тому +2

      We are men, we don't care about things like that.

    • @stylishlyrugged3372
      @stylishlyrugged3372 3 роки тому +6

      @@miguelcustodio2177 I disagree. We do and should. I assume you do as well. Why else would you be watching this video?

    • @miguelcustodio2177
      @miguelcustodio2177 3 роки тому +4

      @@stylishlyrugged3372 You're welcome to disagree.
      I watched the video because I'm interested in learning new things but, in general, men don't care if we're called young, old, older/mature. I know where I stand.
      It is important and what I am. I am a curious person and I like to look good and to explore and I consider specially, a woman's perspective to be "important".

  • @johnfaram4684
    @johnfaram4684 2 роки тому +1

    fantastic i am 62 and only over the past 2 months i have thrown away all my old clothes and transformed my wardrobe,thanks for your advice

  • @navann4709
    @navann4709 Рік тому +3

    Great, Courtney! I am 40, and for a man of simplicity like me, you made total sense. Not too much with the accessories and all, but, "Sophistication and Substance", that's all that actually matters.

  • @mariodesmo
    @mariodesmo 3 роки тому +19

    You're not saying anything us "old" guys don't already know. One thing about being older are the life experiences and the knowledge you pick up along the way. It makes hearing someone on their 20's or 30's trying to sound like an expert actually sound like someone in their 20's or 30's. lol

  • @kenneth7826
    @kenneth7826 4 роки тому +3

    I was not insulted at all..😃 im 69 years young..married 40 years..daughter just got engaged..we are proud of her..keep up your good work 👏

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +1

      That’s amazing! So happy for you and your family. Thank you, Kenneth! ❤️

  • @Theolddeerhunters
    @Theolddeerhunters 2 роки тому

    I am 74 years old and after watching your video, I have to say you are wise beyond your years. Thanks.

  • @metalgrinch
    @metalgrinch 3 роки тому +18

    I'll be that 65 year old guy wearing jeans and a Hellraiser t shirt 😋🤣

    • @IainFrame
      @IainFrame 2 роки тому +2

      LOL I'm 50% heavy metal teeshirts and then 50% sensible ☠️😎

  • @j.j.h.atemycereal
    @j.j.h.atemycereal 4 роки тому +5

    YES! One of the few advantages of age is knowing what looks good (on me) and what doesn’t. Again, your simple, sensible advice is on the nose, Courtney. Thanks!

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому

      That’s the most important thing, no doubt! Thank you so much J.J! ❤️

  • @KirksDrumRoom
    @KirksDrumRoom 4 роки тому +18

    Another great video, Courtney! Having just entered the 50's a year ago (51 in a week), I couldn't agree more with your suggestions. Thanks for looking out for us old guys! 👍😎

  • @golfrichardvc
    @golfrichardvc 3 роки тому +1

    I think that you've nailed it. Us mature gentlemen prefer classic pieces with a good fit BUT with smart choices, it doesn't have to cost a fortune.

  • @abby29605
    @abby29605 2 роки тому +1

    More videos specifically for men of this age would be appreciated

  • @andrewtremblay262
    @andrewtremblay262 3 роки тому +5

    This is a good primer for us older gentlemen. I personally already adhere to some of your points you presented and I want to thank you for educating me on other things. Great insight Courtney !

  • @erickwilberding5786
    @erickwilberding5786 4 роки тому +8

    Thanks for the food for thought. 40 probably seems old until you're 40 or older. Not really a problem, there's always a lot to think about and enjoy! Enjoyed the video.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +1

      It’s really not old at all, just older than me lol 😊 thank you, Erick!

  • @warrenabis6756
    @warrenabis6756 3 роки тому +1

    I'm 54 and found your fashion tips really valuable. Especially leather gloves, loafers and jumpers. I have a pretty ok wardrobe but it will now be so much better. Thankx Courtney

  • @zazenh
    @zazenh 2 роки тому +2

    These are all great tips Courtney. I'm now 52 and I've naturally been slim my whole life. The hardest thing physically about ageing by far maintaining the waistline. Major sacrifices have to be made to have it, mainly restricting a lot of calories. So I've found that finding summer button down casual shirts are either to tight (although make you look good while standing) or they're too loose (dad shirts, haha ) What we need would be a shirt that hugs our chest area, but then relaxes the mid section a little. I haven't seen any around.

  • @johnlibonati7807
    @johnlibonati7807 3 роки тому +8

    Down here in SW Florida, we old timers break out the leather flip flops for those special occasions. 😂

  • @AlexSaavy
    @AlexSaavy 3 роки тому +3

    As someone in their early 40’s this is great advice. Thank you.

  • @bertram46
    @bertram46 Рік тому +1

    Any of you females out there that watch her videos let me tell you as a guy in my fifties I hear so many stories from women who dated guys in their twenties and thirties and felt like they were babysitters. So to you people in your 30s looking at guys in the '50s and '40s or even Beyond you're going to be dealing with someone who is experienced in life mature and is going to treat you the way you want to be treated. I know I'm a gentleman and I date people typically 10 to 20 years younger than me and the ones who are emotionally stable and intelligent appreciate the fact that they are respected and treated the right way

  • @PaulWestonEden
    @PaulWestonEden 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you, Courtney. I've gotten lazy about this since being out the public workplace and working from home. There was a time that I was dressing nicer, and more for my age, but I went through some difficult times and God did some rearranging, for the good, in my priories. Not being in a relationship for a while, but interested again, I realize I need to consider your advice. My personality is young at heart but also serious so I need to up my game on my clothing.

  • @walkerb1734
    @walkerb1734 4 роки тому +21

    Nice video, Courtney! I love that I can always count on you to mention watches in your videos. Keep it up!

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому

      Redamancy 1 You know it! 😉 thank you so much!

  • @rogersmith9628
    @rogersmith9628 3 роки тому +3

    I'm new to your channel and really enjoy it. As a 51 year old I find all things on your list very helpful. Keep up the good work!

  • @coolo73
    @coolo73 Рік тому +1

    Good to know I'm know doing everything right. I've never really been into trendy fashion, preferring timeless classics since high school. The only difference is in my late 40s I can afford almost anything I want now.

  • @harbour123
    @harbour123 Рік тому +2

    I am in my 30's and I can't wait to get to my 40's because that's when Men really look like a fine bottle of wine.

  • @kentsou399
    @kentsou399 4 роки тому +62

    I'll come back to this video in 40 years.

  • @PB-cx7wf
    @PB-cx7wf 3 роки тому +3

    The „dad sneaker“ made me laugh - but you are exactly right Courtney!

  • @JB-by8tw
    @JB-by8tw 3 роки тому +1

    I’m 51 yrs old now, and have worked in hi-tech for the majority of my career. I’ve taken a job in banking/finance (still in IT but in a more traditional type of industry) where the dress code is a lot different (more business/professional)...this video helps a lot with planning my wardrobe! Thanks!

  • @iamredoctober
    @iamredoctober 2 роки тому +1

    The only comment I have on footwear is that some people have wide feet or special foot needs. I understand the New Balance assessment, but they do manufacture shoes in widths which isn't super common, and some of us older people are active walkers or hikers. I really enjoy your videos, Courtney! Keep up the great work!

  • @pjnyc8276
    @pjnyc8276 2 роки тому +4

    Outstanding content. Most people could never appreciate the work she must put in to make such great videos

  • @aplobb
    @aplobb 3 роки тому +4

    I feel these tips are good for anyone really wanting a classic look. Age isn't really the factor.

  • @tedfebo1741
    @tedfebo1741 3 роки тому +1

    I've always loved following and breaking all these rules-depending on how I feel or need.

  • @LazyEyeScott
    @LazyEyeScott 2 роки тому +2

    Courtney, As a50 year-old, I would definitely wear all the items in this video. Good job.

  • @jamesberlo4298
    @jamesberlo4298 3 роки тому +20

    "When you're old" wait till She hits 40,

    • @sammylane21
      @sammylane21 3 роки тому +5

      She's in her early '30's (I think) so that eye opening realization will come soon enough, hehe!

    • @kaliha55
      @kaliha55 3 роки тому

      100%.. there r 40vyr olds that look better than these 20/30 yr olds. She is not paying attention to social media.

    • @NYKensington
      @NYKensington 3 роки тому

      lol Aw, c'mon! You can't know what you know until you know it! 😂 I like that she wants to help! 👍

  • @KF-be2ti
    @KF-be2ti 3 роки тому +15

    The man purse doesn't work for me. I need my stuff on my person.

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 2 місяці тому

      I carry a small bag over my shoulder to keep my iPhone and accessories in

  • @rickenglish8038
    @rickenglish8038 5 місяців тому

    You're my favorite Courtney. Thanks for helping us clueless men out ❤

  • @Tony-Newman
    @Tony-Newman 3 роки тому +1

    I always buy clothing based on how well the pieces flatter me. I still wear jeans, but they have to be Joe's Jeans, which I find fit incredibly well. Cashmere sweaters in neutral, or even bright, colors are never wrong. Hermes ties are beautifully crafted and timeless and I have fun with my choice of socks. The best way to up your game is by wearing really good shoes. If you can do custom, go for it. I have a few custom pairs, but generally opt for Gucci, Ferragamo or Magli loafers (which always work).

  • @jarradhurley4866
    @jarradhurley4866 2 роки тому +3

    I am 35 years old and going through a little bit of a fashion transition. I can definitely see myself in a lot of the stuff you listed but I also think I can get away with lighter jeans for a little longer lol

  • @Wonky-Donkey
    @Wonky-Donkey 3 роки тому +4

    Dressing well in the winter is easy.
    But dressing well in the summertime when it's in the 80's and humid its a bit more of a challenge.

    • @jonkoca3068
      @jonkoca3068 3 роки тому

      Ditto

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 2 місяці тому

      Summers are short here in Canada and warmer further south in the USA

  • @Warthog6969
    @Warthog6969 Рік тому +2

    Great video again, you cover the age groups that are quite often neglected by big brands, I've learned that you have to buy nice, or buy twice, I'm 48 and now dressing my best, even if it's a short trip to the shops, I always make an effort, fantastic advice from you again, keep up the good work!

  • @unappealingundesirable2826
    @unappealingundesirable2826 3 роки тому +1

    Even in my 20s, I realized that (I'm Japanese-American with black hair) a pair of khakis, and a navy blue or black top, looks good on me. Very basic, but basic in a good way. Some grays, too. It was sweatshirts when I was younger, and sweaters as I got older. I am amazed that I looked decent with certain GREEN outfits! Burgundy sweaters for me, are hit and miss. I don't like even mock necks (on me, that is), because it makes me look overweight. I know that, in the summer, polos are better, but I prefer COLLARLESS short-sleeve shirts, that "are not tee-shirts." I'm looking forward to watching your "mens summer attire" video.

  • @starcode89
    @starcode89 4 роки тому +7

    Another good video! BTW - “older” has a much better sound to it than “old”. Keep em coming, Courtney.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому

      Haha I totally agree! Thanks Will! ❤️

  • @stylishlyrugged3372
    @stylishlyrugged3372 4 роки тому +65

    I don't care what your age, why would anyone dress like Kanye West????

  • @johnblossom8447
    @johnblossom8447 2 роки тому +1

    I’m 56 and have usually leaned toward darker colors. I’ve been lucky and my body hasn’t changed much since I was 30. I wear “dad sneakers” only when I’m doing athletic activities. I really like layers and turtlenecks. I already own a bunch of watches.

  • @nabil9772
    @nabil9772 3 роки тому +1

    I'm 30, but I'm checking out the video to check out some dignified gents look. In 10 years I want my style to be perfected, perhaps be that cool and suave ass dad to a future kid. Thanks for the vid.

  • @noelmurphy3450
    @noelmurphy3450 4 роки тому +10

    Hi Courtney, another really helpful and informative video for me as a man in his 50s. I think I best get some shopping done to 'up my style game'. PS My wife kept saying "Absolutely" and "Yes" during your video, so she obviously really liked it too. Many thanks Noel

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +2

      I’m so glad! Thank you for watching, Noel 😊

  • @TruthFinder7839
    @TruthFinder7839 8 місяців тому +3

    I’m 67 and still feeling like I’m 35. Looking like the GQ man and a higher quality man all my life, your advice for fashionable and classic is right on target. I attract even older wealthy well connected women along with women 1/2 my age. Less is more and the darker colors work great with my white hair and beard I sport now, I’m looking like some of your examples better dressed men.❤🙏 I’m getting compliments everyday for my appearance for looking very refined and attractive like a senior super model, LOL which is a new feeling I never had when I was younger. They say I’ve aged well like fine wine and very rare

  • @rickmancini9859
    @rickmancini9859 4 роки тому +1

    Well done. All too often the videos here on UA-cam tell us older guys what not to wear. It is refreshing to hear advice that leads us in the right direction.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому

      Rick Mancini thank you, Rick! I agree with that and I hope it’s one of the many things that set me apart from the rest of them going forward! Thanks for watching ☺️

  • @spectre5x5
    @spectre5x5 3 роки тому +2

    I enjoyed this! I'm over 40 and love my white sneakers in the Spring and Summer. I also agree that buy the best quality you can. Quality lasts!

  • @fubarmodelyard1392
    @fubarmodelyard1392 3 роки тому +11

    3 things I just can't do: go sockless, wear puffy white shoes, or carry a purse.

    • @arphaksad01
      @arphaksad01 3 роки тому

      No man bags, sandals with socks

  • @davidcalaveras6618
    @davidcalaveras6618 4 роки тому +29

    Hi Courtney. A little bit depressed for how many times you said the word "old" talking about men in 40s and beyond (joke) but great video! Congrats!

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 роки тому +1

      Haha! I did make sure to add in my description that 40 is NOT old 😉 thank you, David!

    • @its_clean
      @its_clean 4 роки тому

      @@CourtneyRyan Don't worry Courtney, as a guy in my early 30s, but with the crankiness and knee problems of someone in his 80s, I'm definitely OLD now :D As far as I'm concerned, 40 is basically dead and if I make it that far it'll be a miracle!

    • @mruiz1
      @mruiz1 4 роки тому +2

      Same impression here! I am 53 and although I agree with your opinions, I felt the video was too heavy in that matter.

    • @Naesun1
      @Naesun1 4 роки тому

      David Calaveras Fotografía it’s ok... when she hits 40... she’s gonna call them the new 30s xD.

    • @markmaier2503
      @markmaier2503 4 роки тому +3

      No doubt. Folks in their twenties don’t realize that they’re gonna blink, be 40 and realize they’re not old at all.

  • @guybeauregard
    @guybeauregard 3 роки тому +1

    Another accessory idea: a great pair of frames for your glasses (as old guys we typically need them!). It's a nice way to add some color too.

  • @boscokid9524
    @boscokid9524 3 роки тому +1

    I am 61 and my wardrobe has never looked better. I prefer chinos to jeans because they fit me better. Really if you just keep yourself groomed and have clothes that fit well you are ahead of the norm by a mile. Oh, and keep your shoes shined gents. Dirty shoes are a look killer.

  • @barrygreen8205
    @barrygreen8205 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for the great tips Courtney! I’m not offended by the word old... I wear it as a badge of honor! BTW, I’m in better shape than guys half my age.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  3 роки тому

      Love to hear that! 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @getyourfatout865
      @getyourfatout865 3 роки тому

      same here mate 50 almost here and the young bloods in the gym look, and you feel them get a little hurt !! best feeling ever

  • @steverocksyo
    @steverocksyo 3 роки тому +8

    I think 40 year olds and 50 year olds dress differently.
    While none should dress like 20 year olds they don't really look like each other.

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 2 місяці тому

      However, they’re still entitled to wear decent modest jeans, t-shirts (in warm weather), hoodies and other comfortable clothes based on their own personal tastes as long as they’re more decent and doesn’t look boorish or gangsterish

  • @DragonNo1
    @DragonNo1 Рік тому +1

    Excellent advice Courtney! I broke the last two expensive watches, and I took it as a signal that I didn't need one but still thinking to get a fancy new one. I have a thing for watches and fountain pens. These are things that make feel good of being beyond 40s.

  • @inline6-b586
    @inline6-b586 2 роки тому

    There is so much alignment of thoughts and principles with courtney, i wisj she was single. Having my share of women with drama in my 30 years of life, courtney seems such a quality woman!

  • @BeckVMH
    @BeckVMH 3 роки тому +3

    The older I get the more I realize “old” is a very relative term 🙂. And I so agree, one thing that never changes, “less is more” and keep it classy regardless your age.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  3 роки тому +1

      Agreed 😊

    • @lewstherintelamon1377
      @lewstherintelamon1377 Рік тому +1

      It isn't the grey in my beard that makes me feel old. It's the change in technology, in prices, and that the under 30 crowd seems to have lost its collective mind.

  • @joshharrell8785
    @joshharrell8785 3 роки тому +6

    What should a fashionably conscious mid 40’s guy wear when their lifestyle doesn’t warrant suits outside of rare special occasions?

    • @eldartop1634
      @eldartop1634 3 роки тому +1

      Josh Harrell Pretty much anything without going to extreme. Any color any type of wash jeans. But not torn and too much distracted. T-shirts of course, but avoid logos. Classic type sneakers, and any type of shoes. Replace hoodies with bomber and leather jackets. Buy couple of scarves. One navy color blazer for going out. Thatks pretty much it.

    • @jonkitrel6622
      @jonkitrel6622 3 роки тому

      Getting clothes that fit is most important, IMO, so know your sizes and get friendly w a tailor.
      A sport coat or blazer (NOT a suit coat) w jeans and a button-down is my usual look... generally with a pair of boots (Thursday Boot Co makes a great dress/casual boot). Wear a belt that's in the same chroma-range as the shoes (black w black, brn w brn) and, if possible, match your chosen watch to the vibe and style. Details make the package and may not even be noticed, but doing it wrong will be glaring and obvious.
      I had a buddy ask me one time why I always look "put together" (I'm a still a slob for chores, auto work, etc). I told him I do the exact same as him: pants, shirt, shoes, jacket... just different "styles". Casual and relaxed but not pretentious or over-dressed.
      BTW, I'm a 54 yr old truck driver, not a bucks-up hedge fund guy. I watch for sales and even look at Goodwill and Salvation Army thrift stores for items.

    • @willisix2554
      @willisix2554 3 роки тому

      @@jonkitrel6622 spot on brother you exactly right

    • @boscokid9524
      @boscokid9524 3 роки тому +1

      Well fitting chinos, quarter zip sweaters, Chelsea boots, chukka boots, loafers and a nice pair of brogues or double monk straps. So many choices like Woodies chinos, Johnny-O quarter zips, and Allen Edmonds shoes. Quality over quantity for sure!

    • @willisix2554
      @willisix2554 3 роки тому

      @@boscokid9524 or both if your wallet permits!

  • @BIGWORLD0074
    @BIGWORLD0074 3 роки тому +1

    I for one couldn't wait to turn 40 when i was 18 because of my grandfather. I Remember him coming to visit the family and he'd always wear these cardigans or turtlenecks, Mostly in brown, grey or black. He looked so cool in them that one time i stole a brown cardigan of his and never gave it back. To the youth 40 and beyond is old and that's fine. But damn it's nice to be able to wear cool distinguish pieces of clothes at my age. Don't have to worry to much about trends or fashion. Casual dark or light colors is the way to go and by the way men age like fine wine.

  • @ericdavidson2570
    @ericdavidson2570 Рік тому

    Nice to see you helping your older audience.

  • @c.alejo8846
    @c.alejo8846 3 роки тому +3

    “Cool old guy”.....Oh my. Very respectful and empowering ! Nice suggestions, though.

  • @f.xavier45
    @f.xavier45 3 роки тому +8

    "Cool old guy" in my forties... And I thought I was just starting to live the good life!

    • @dionbrooks4981
      @dionbrooks4981 3 роки тому

      U r that why ..u can dress to make u feel good my friend...getting older is a plus ...u can dress very stylish n classic , age gracefully

  • @davidvcowsert7764
    @davidvcowsert7764 3 роки тому

    I work in the medical field and I’m 52 years old. I just wanted to say thank You for your
    help.
    Thank You!
    David.

  • @solifugus
    @solifugus 6 місяців тому

    After watching a bunch of your videos I just have to say, I like you. Thank you for existing. Truly.

  • @adoptheckler6836
    @adoptheckler6836 4 роки тому +4

    Hi Courtney, I will take you to the Court for such a beauty you are.

  • @christopherburchfield4709
    @christopherburchfield4709 3 роки тому +12

    So she says, this is directed to men in or above their 40’s. Then she says when you are old! 😂 just busted my bubble 😐

    • @WaldoPepper8
      @WaldoPepper8 3 роки тому

      and "lasts for the rest of your live". those youngsters haha. 20 years rushes by like nothing....

    • @20thcenturyboy85
      @20thcenturyboy85 3 роки тому

      If you are over 40, then you are old. Just be fine with it. It's Life, so Live to Enjoy! BTW I am over 50.

    • @WaldoPepper8
      @WaldoPepper8 3 роки тому

      @@20thcenturyboy85 🤦‍♂️

    • @64maxpower
      @64maxpower 3 роки тому

      Clearly she isn't a person I want advice from if she looks at people over 40 as their days are numbered. One day she will be 23 and look at her lost youth

    • @20thcenturyboy85
      @20thcenturyboy85 3 роки тому

      PS: I am over 50.

  • @cobymedrano2159
    @cobymedrano2159 Рік тому

    I definitely agree with Courtney, I’m 42 and right at 40 I started investing in quality and classy outfits that represents my personality, is investing in yourself.

  • @wlfwlker3704
    @wlfwlker3704 2 роки тому +1

    Missed this one a few years ago. Great content but all of us mature men don't live a business lifestyle. Not enough on casual. Non clubbing. Working class maturity.
    Keep it coming, love your content!

  • @edm9704
    @edm9704 2 роки тому +5

    You showed many men in jackets and ties. Where in the world do people dress like that these days? WHERE do you see many men casually wearing jackets and ties?

  • @salvadornevarez9259
    @salvadornevarez9259 3 роки тому +6

    She literally said " when your old"
    26 seconds into the video.

  • @abeman77
    @abeman77 3 роки тому +1

    I guess it depends on the occasion but I am in my mid 40s and I tend to dress much more casual, and so do my friends, unless it's a special occasion

  • @jjr6929
    @jjr6929 3 роки тому +1

    Don't forget the unstructured or unlined jacket...perfect layering for late spring or summer...just a notch above casual.