Is There Any Hope After A Breakup
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Do you still have hope? Is there any hope your ex will come back after a breakup?
Take a walk with Nick in this video as he explains why hope after a breakup is fucked, but why that should give you hope after your ex dumped you ended your relationship.
If you would like personalised advice and coaching regarding your breakup situation, email me at TheLoveFix20@gmail.com to arrange an appointment.
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You are right Nick, I don’t know if there’s any hope from a break up , we can’t foresee the future for someone unpredictable, we aren’t the dumpers until the power switch day to the dumpee then time will tell us, the only thing we have to do is rebuild our life and rebuild ourselves, trying the best to not think about the dumper to think about anything from this break up, no matter how much pain we have to carry it’s hurt and it’s difficult, we have to stop waste our time , no matter without or with the dumper or any partner , we will have a positive future by created our own hands
Well said.
If you did your best and they still rejected you, move on. Block them everywhere and don’t unblock, move on with your life. Coming from experience, the 2nd time around doesn’t go like you think it will. Cause the same problems that lead to the first break up will more than likely lead to the reasons for the next time. Like Nick has said, it sets a precedent for the next time. Go to therapy and level up. There’s better out there, especially if you evolve and make YOU better.
Got referred to your content by someone in a support group I'm in, and as a viewer who watches Rory/The Love chat, he says the exact same thing about having the "zero hope" mindset. It's as if you're his his British Counterpart, haha.
But in all seriousness, I also had a coaching session with him, and he instilled something he calls the "zero hope" mentality when it comes to reconciliation and to transfer that hope into hoping that this journey will make me a better person.
He told me to trust the process, let the cards fall into their proper place, everything happens for a reason, and if reconciliation is within the cards its within the cards, if it's not its not. Just focus on the personal growth and TRUST THE PROCESS.
Glad to hear. Rory has one of the best channels out there in this space. He knows his stuff. 😊
Nick I love LOVE your channel. I have a step daughter who I lost during my divorce a couple years ago. And that will always hurt. Always. I've been healing and leveling up the last couple of years. Your info is still relative to my process ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏. Best to you!
I’m sorry to hear that. Losing a step child can hurt, savagely. I certainly know the feeling.
Thank you for your kind words. I’m glad the channel can be of some help. 😊
I like the way that you can change the script. Look at it in a different way. Change your perspective.
I think that’s the key to all of us levelling up.
I write about it extensively in my breakup recovery book.
The breakup isn’t about how we feel. It’s about how the dumper feels.
Honestly all the coaches says do this and do that .its not easy
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...actions speak louder than words .for my personal expierence it made me a lot stronger .but left me a scar. It was so difucult to live in the same bulding with my ex..and i think a lot of times to not having break up..because its so harder after the break up.because some times you see or hear you ex..so personal growth ..yes ...i did this .but havent find better gf yet. But i hope and try to elevate my self ..
Nice video as always nick..take care .greetings from sunmer greece!!
I know where you are coming from regarding your stepdaughter. My girlfriend who I was with for 8 years broke up with me a month and a half ago. When I met her she had a son who was 2 years old. I stepped up and raised him as my own along with my 3 daughters. The breakup was extremely difficult because not only am I losing my girlfriend but also a son. I am feeling better and moving on but there is a deep void left in me. I have a hard time understanding why the break up happened, but it really doesn't matter at this point. Your videos have been very helpful in my journey towards a new beginning. Thx!
Ah man thats rough 🫂. You have to breakup with both of them which i think is worse than a “standard” breakup. I don’t think the weight of it gets lighter, we just get better at handling it. I hope you feel better man.
@TheLoveFix-Nick Thank you, I'm doing much better but like you said it takes time. I feel so bad breaking ties with her son. It's not his fault what happened and he doesn't get a choice. I've called him on the phone a few times, and he was hoping to hang out, but I'm realizing this can't happen if I'm going to heal and move on. Perhaps some day we will be able to meet when I'm in a better place.
I agree with you and I mad the same choice to completely come away.
He’s not your kid at the end of the day, even though you raised him as such.
I simply love ur videos. Best ever. Thank u from the bottom of my heart nick
My pleasure and thank you.
I’m glad they can help. 😊
I needed to hear this Nick it made my Day!
Glad to it buddy. I hope you’re feeling better.
So thinking about it more and more I was living for 2 years off of Hope thinking that she will come back and I realized now you breaking it down that is all fantasy it's all b******* so I understand really I understand now that you have to move on and that's it
My main thing is why do so many people need to no if it’s a rebound or did they monkey branch or why do I need no contact.the only thing that matters is they don’t want you and it’s probably Wright if you look at the relationship it’s so hard even if you can see you was settling but that’s just ego and fear .do no contact not to get them back but for your own mental strength
Typically because people are looking for meaning, or closure. The need for additional information beyond what the bare bones of the situation m, is an anxiety response.
Never thought of it that way when you think about hope you just broke it down to me and I understand now
Glad it could help my man. Have a great weekend.
So much wisdom
Thank you for your kind words 😊
I’m currently going through a break up right now. But he said he cares about me but we need to work on ourselves. It’s really hard right now but over time and patience maybe… it’s just hard right now.
I am sorry to hear that Lydia, its really heartbreaking. Someone can care about but not want romance. That is very possible. All you can do is give room for space and focus on you.
U the real mvp
Mvp? 🤷♂️😁
Nick. I am three months into no contact. It feels like it is getting worse. She's going away on a job for six months now and the false hope is telling me that during this time she will reach out. I know she will return with someone new. The hope is destroying me.
So true!
Nick I don't know if there's any hope for me atm will see what happens 😕 🙏
Put the hope into your recovery and self love.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick ❤❤❤
Thank you
My pleasure
just curious does sleeping with other people help you get over the break up sooner? like say 2 months after you’ve broken up gone no contact ever since. I even had to block my ex due to holding out hope and breadcrumbing me that I had fully decide that I’m moving forward.
Probably not but depends on the person and emotional state.
No, no, no, no, no. It makes you feel filthy. Don't go down that path.
It helped me feel better. It was good that I didn't have an emotional attachment to the women though. It was nice because I felt intimacy from her which I realized was missing in my relationship with my girlfriend. I realized how far apart we had emotionally grown apart.