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Hi guys, I hope you see this. I heard you say Sunny is under weight, I've learned that the baby breeza formula maker has a lot of complaints that the machines do not mix the right amount of powder into the water consistently and the babies were not getting enough calories. The machines don't give the full scoop of powder in every 2 ounces of water. Try mixing her bottles by hand and if her weight goes up you'll know its the machines fault. Plus she will sleep better with a happy tummy. Love ya!
hope they see this
Ya I heard that to
I totally agree with this 👌
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Damm, I hope they see this; I hope more ppl like your comment.
Hi. I'm the 82 year old great-grandmom that has been following you for awhile now. We moved a lot while our six daughters were growing up. What I learned was simple... Home is where you and your family are. It doesn't matter where as long as you're all together making it work.
True! Explore new places as the kids grow. ❤
Amen!!
💯 TRUE❤
God Bless You All!! Beautiful family, beautiful couple, your hearts are in the Right place. God bless you for following your HEART ♥️ and your dreams always dreamBIG even with three little baby ducklings behind you. 💙💜🐥🐥🐥💖✝️ FAMILY FIRST❤ as you Always do!! Congratulations on your new home 🏠
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Derik is such a considerate husband. He encouraged Sarah to take naps and even takes the kids out so she can sleep. He's a really interactive dad too. Sarah your blessed
No she’s not blessed, that’s how it should be!
@@RonjaK4 regardless she is blessed.
@@RonjaK4 😆😁She really is fortunate that she selected a responsible husband who is also a great father. There, is that better?😉
@@denisedean2446 and he selected her. I think all good things are blessings.
...makes the rest of us look baad....🤨
I'm sooooo glad you spoke about a weak bladder!!! Because I have been dealing with it for years GOD bless you Sarah! You're sooooooo sweet and an amazing MOM!!!
For real! I have been experiencing this for years! After I had my first daughter 9 years ago it started. Then when I gave birth again 10 months ago it got worse! So I feel your pain lol
Thank you for talking about this and for helping to normalize this!
Also- I could not breastfeed for either of my daughters! No breast reduction here lol just really didn’t produce. And that’s okay!! Fed is best!!
Ps- you have beautiful babies!! 🥰🥰
Myrbetriq is a lifesaver for bladder control
I’ve been dealing with it since childhood. I’ve never had babies, but my bladder and brain don’t communicate properly. So glad that there are people out there who are comfortable talking about this.
Don’t make the mistake l did and have a bladder repair. Here in the UK hundreds of women are suffering with pain. So many issues leading some to be in wheelchairs totally debilitated. The operation has now been banned. It doesn’t last forever either some had the op twice. However it has made the problem a lot worse despite the pelvic floor exercises. Doctors if male are not very understanding as at 71 these things happen. I bet they’d think differently if their penis dropped off.
I love all the Beestons you make my day. I’m lucky l have a lovely thoughtful husband like both of you xxx
Yes, coughing, sneezing, laughing, all push on the bladder ever since I had my baby!
We moved every four years at the beginning of our marriage. Moving with 6 kids was hard and I had to put my foot down and say we were staying at the next place. It is good for kids to put down roots, be involved, make friendships that last. The big one though, is that the grandparents can be more involved now, and Jack and Sunny need that more then you can imagine. They won’t be around forever. I got so much love and support from my grandparents. They meant the world to me.
You are so right about grandparents being important. Loving grandparents can enhance a loving family tremendously!
Spot on 🎯💙
Why did you move so much?
@@mmconceicao my husband was in law enforcement and we wanted a large family and for me to stay home with them. We had to move as he got promotions. When the oldest was 9 and the youngest was a baby, we didn’t move again until my husband retired, to let the kids grow roots.
I'm a Grandma and I love watching you guys. You are wonderful young parents and it warms my heart to see how well you both care for your children and each other. Marriage is work, and your obvious love, respect, and deep consideration for each other shows depth, maturity, and responsibility. Kudos to both of you.💖
Same here! I’m a grandma and 65. Look forward to watch you both and your growing family. Jack is so bright and Sunny so beautiful!!
Me too, I’m a grandmother as well and it’s so refreshing to see how you guys truly love one another and you’re so patient with each other. It’s like I’m watching a movie of a family from 1952 or something lol! I’m actually not that old, I was born in 1960 (still old though). But seriously, I really enjoy your videos.
Blessings over your beautiful, growing family. ❤
Doing an endless standing ovation 💝
Yes totally agree I to am a Grandma and love to see the respect this lovely young family have for each other. X
We have 5 children and if I ever did it over I’d never vaccinate….. ever🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
I love that woman your age can talk about bladder incontinence and not be derogatory and be open about it. It really sucks for those of us who suffer from it. It is life affecting in some ways. After I had twins sitting on my bladder for eight months, it was over for me. Lol.
Pelvic floor therapy should be offered to all women after birth, it’s so important! Other countries offer it to everyone
Agreed 💯💯💯
You can get surgery for it. Don’t have issues myself, but a norwegian influencer/author had (successful) surgery and has been very vocal about it in the media as it’s so common for women.
Vesicare is a miracle medicine
@@The.Caroline I’m recovering right now and I have hopes it’ll be successful!
I think it’s awesome that you would share something so personal so other young women won’t wonder if they’re the only ones!
Hey Beeston Family 👋🏼🥰 Wife of an Army veteran and I just wanted to say something about your conversation about being a little fearful of the upcoming move. We moved a lot as a young family with two babies. Every time he got new orders, I was always very nervous. You don’t know what to expect, whether you will enjoy it, and what if it just doesn’t feel like home. I had to change my mindset. Home is definitely what you make it and as long as I had my husband, and our babies, I was home. It didn’t matter where because we had each other!! Praying that y’all always feel at home wherever your journey takes you!
For those struggling with UI, it might help finding a physical therapist that specializes in pelvic floor therapy. It’s not as well known as an option, but learning how to strengthen your pelvic floor can improve control of your bladder. Gynecologists are usually aware of those types of therapists in the area!
I wish for every woman to be able to get this treatment, as here in Germany this is part of your postpartum care by a midwife who are all trained for this and universal healthcare covers the full cost
@@Laleloveslemons So schaut es aus. Ich war ein wenig geschockt darüber, als sie erzählte wie viele Frauen in den USA damit Probleme nach der Schwangerschaft haben.
Worked a dream for me after having 3 big babies. a woman I know had the operation rather than do the work with the physio, everything changed for her peeing and not for the better. Get a specialist physio can’t recommend this enough.
Absolutely. And any kind of persistent pelvic pain whether pregnant or not, getting physically ready to give birth, physical therapists can help a great deal with that too.
Yes! Kegels are a great exercise to strengthen the pelvic floor and super easy once you know how to do them. Any pelvic floor specialist will recommend these! I'm sure there is much more they will recommend as well but Kegels are something easy you can do anytime anywhere for free!
When Sunny gets full and doesn’t finish her bottle, you can try to give her a little break and then try again in like 20 minutes or so. Even if she still isn’t able to finish the entire bottle, she still should be able to get more down, and if you do that for each feeding, it will really add up. Hope this helps, and good luck with your move! 💙
We moved away from Utah after 2 years of marriage, and loved where we ended up. But then, 8 years after that came that feeling you described that it was time to make another change. I never thought moving back to Utah was the change we were going to make, but we did. Building your family on your own is amazing and powerful and you find a strength that is all your own. But you will LOVE being close to family again, and building new relationships. And your Hawaii family will never end. Our kids love the snow and it's added a whole new level of outdoor adventure for us. It's okay to be happy, excited, sad, scared, nervous, ready and not ready--you're allowed to have all the feels. Best wishes for you on your journey back home!
OMGosh, Sunny looks just like Jack. They are both beautiful kids. If you're worried about the kids moving, they are very resilient. They adjust very quickly.
Seriously, Jack has the BEST laugh!
2 things to try with Sunny
1) try keeping the pacifier away from her before her feeding (reason: She might suck longer on bottle because she hasn’t tired out from pacifier).
2) make the hole in nipple larger (reason: could be the hole is too small & she doesn’t want to suck so hard).
You are both such great parents. These are just a few other things to try.
Good advice. Also, if she isn’t fussing, don’t try and get her to suck on the pacifier, if she is crying, try to help her calm without it.
Those are some great tips. I hope they see your comment
Not all babies can handle a fast flow nipple they choke.. also Binkies don’t always tire them out.. I have had 3 premature babies and 2 of them had FTT Failure to thrive(Did not gain well) They were switched to a 23cal Formula and they gained weight great, They slept better and they were not nearly as fussy as they were prior to being switched..
I seem to remember that when my brother #6 was born prematurely way back in 1968(1 month early, weighing 6 lbs 10 oz; developed lung disease, but is fine now) he was sent home with special nipples for bottles. They were red and were much easier for preemies to suck. So something like that might be an option.
She might want to check for lip ties too. My niece wasn’t nursing well and struggling to gain weight because of it
YOU ARE SO SWEET to share this information with people about the pads. So real. Good for you.
100% Derik telling Sarah she needed a nap and to go now, was like a total blessing... not many men are like that... trust me it shows how much you care about each other and its so heartwarming to watch
Having spent the first year of our first baby’s life in the Bahamas we really became used to the laid back lifestyle. So I can understand leaving a paradise to move back to the place you grew up is a little scary. Once we moved back home (Canada) it became clear that there was so many more opportunities for our family to build a home and lifestyle that would sustain every dream we had. I hope this helps a little. ❤️
Hello from France, I'm a new follower & came across this video. Although leaving Hawaii is difficult, your instinct as parents is telling you that moving to Utah is in the best interests of your children. Not only will you be able to set down roots by buying a house but you will also have a network of friends & family which is the best situation for bringing up kids. Bravo to both of you for being mature enough to make this decision. Kind wishes from the French Pyrenees.
I love utah ...
Yeah since Derrick's bro and his wife and their two girls are moving it'll be best for all the kids!
I love your sunglasses, France! 💖
@@Good-DaySunshine Merci beaucoup ! In fact, I'm writing from France. It's not my christian name. 🙂
I love Paris and I love the beauty of France!
As someone who has moved consistently since I was a child, I can tell you that kids adapt. Being an adult I will tell you that nothing is more important to a child than having grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins around, while growing up. It is a sense of stability that I never had. I think that is the most important thing. You both are doing a great job and making the right decision to move back to Utah. ❤
I agree being with family is more important than where you live and your kids growing up with other cousins it’s the best. Definitely worth the move.
So true!
I don't understand why you would leave Hawaii to go to Utah. I was born in the States and was raised in Brazil and then we moved back to corny Jersey, then l moved to Florida but came back here to Jersey for family. And well my family is horrible, people change, l caught a life threatening lung disease bc of a drug addict that lived on the 2nd floor. So yes you can get very sick from second hand smoke. Don't leave.
Thank you for talking about incontinence. I haven’t personally dealt with it but most of the other moms in my life have. It can really be embarrassing. Having a beautiful strong woman like you speak on the subject can make a difference in so many women’s lives.
Please look into pelvic floor therapy❤ all women should be informed of it after birth. Incontinence isn’t a common thing in some other countries who offer it regularly
My Dr gave me instructions on how to do the pelvic exercises and that has helped me a lot 💗
Pericalm... brilliant piece of kit... fixed mine.
I like how when Sarah is talking Derrick listens and never interrupts. ❤. Very thoughtful!
Doesn’t go both ways though 🤣
We must have been watching different videos, cuz I noticed them both interrupting each other a few times.
@@melbelle3162 yes I noticed that also. But generally when she’s talking he listens. And generally when he’s talking, she interrupts. I was trying to be more positive about it than calling her out ;)
What😂 they both interrupt each other!😅
@@melbelle3162 me too!
Watching the Lo and Tanner's video yesterday I cried when they told you they were moving back to Utah. I was thinking, oh no it isn't just that they are moving away from their brother, but best friends. So happy that you are all staying together. Change can be difficult even when positive. Neither Beeston families let travel slow them down, you all will be back. I can just imagine you all buying a Hawaiian home, a Beeston family compound to share together. You all are great, and everyone is excited to go on this next journey with you all.
You guys are sweet and transparent. We moved our children after they were in school and it was so hard for them It''s good that you're doing the big moves before Jack's in school.
You’re truly a great dad!! And awesome for helping out!! Love you guys! Good luck with Utah!
I swear moving away from Hawaii hits different than moving away from pretty much anywhere else. I moved there when I was 18 and lived there for many years (Big Island) and went to college there as well and its really where I kind of grew up and "came to age". Its just such a special magical place that its very, very hard and bittersweet to leave. Eventually, I felt like the island kind of had a "glass ceiling" feeling and that I had reached it and it was time to go. I still have friends that live there and I still visit every year which is really amazing! I still consider it my "heart home". I know you guys will make it work to keep Hawaii a part of your families lives and I'm glad you are listening to this calling to try something different...it won't lead you astray.
Hi guys. 2009 my husband, youngest son and I moved to Cape Town, South Africa and life was amazing. The only problem was family was back in thr UK and it was hard being separated. Fast forward 5 years and my health starts to get worse and things were starting to go down hill in South Africa, we decided to leave. Moving back to the UK was the best thing we could have done and we are all so much happier that family are closer by (not too close haha). Whenever we talk of Cape Town my heart yearns for the people we met and the friends we made. Anyway I digress, my health has gotten worse since getting back and having the support of family about is 100% worth the move. With 2 young children I bet you are going to be inundated with grandparents offering free childcare. Take the help, share the love. Your parents are going to be so happy getting to share this stage in your children's life. Hawaii will always be there for you guys for holidays or maybe when the kids get bigger you can reassess. Only you know what is going to work for you. All I can say is goog luck and enjoy wherever you end up.
I am so sorry about your health getting worse. I hope you are feeling better and will pray for continued good health.
I'm excited for y'all. I think once it get closer, it will be scary, but hopefully a good kind of scared. The kind that u feel when u see the biggest wave you have ever ridden coming up in the ocean or moving on to that next run in snow boarding or skiing. It's an adventure, it's change but u will fit back in to Utah, it's where u were born. Hawaii will always be such a special home for you both and I hope you recognize that goal/dream of having a home there as well. At least take vacays there, check in with friends and special places you have come to love. As for us out here, well we will just come along. I am so fond of you kids and the babies. I feel like you are my neighbors now. I kinda feel like your Nana too. It's going to be cool. You guys can do this. Thank you for sharing this story. Stay well, stay safe and be as happy as you can. You got this!!! I love you guys. 🤗🤗🤗🤗💕😎👍💕
I feel like I know you guys . I’ve been watching you for quite some time, and I feel like your babies are my grandbabies.. I have a son 51 years old and I don’t have any grandkids because he’s developmentally disabled but enjoying your babies and others for my grand children is great. Thank you so much for your videos and your channel and good luck to whatever you do in life 💜😊
I just left my family to live 14 hours away with my fiancé. It's definitely hard and an adjustment, but worth it. I We're both from military fathers and still found it hard to move. At the end of the day it's whatever will be best for your family and what will make you happy. I am the happiest where I moved to and I'm very thankful that there's the internet to call home when I get home sick.
I just feel sorry for your family. We have a very close family and now all my kids are grown and live far away except for one and he’s on the road all the time. Now I fight depression all the time.
Hope y’all weren’t on the plane that almost crashed over Maui
@@janblackman6204 I’m sorry that that’s your experience. It is extremely hard, but as my dad says “Distance makes the conversations and in-person visits all the more special.”
I am older, but I moved to Az from IL about 7 and a half years ago. Life wasnt real good in IL for about 4 years before I left.It took me about 6 years to miss the small things in Illnois (season changes, daylight savings time, greenery)..but most of all I missed my lifelong friends and church in lL. I knew about 6 months before I moved back to Illinois it felt right. I had no doubt when I was moving back. Fast forward a year and a half later. I have zero regrets. I am glad I got the warm climate out of my system, but I no longer take for granted the things that make things home. Small things, like parks, restaurants I have visited since a child, etc, mean so much more to me now. I think you are going to be thrilled. As Dorthy said with 2 heal clicks "there is no place like home." You are a precious family. It will be OK. I feel it with you.❤️❤️❤️
@@ValkyrKat1488 I guess I’m just selfish. I helped raise 12 of my grandkids. I mean they were here every day. Then they grew up and moved away also so I don’t get to see them either. Someone once said that if your children grow up to be independent and strong adults then you know you did your job as a parent. Well I must have been the best.
At least you and your brother/ sister-in-law are doing this together. So you can share in each other's happy and stressful times. A big change is scary but there are so many new things to look forward to. I've moved from coast to coast from Iowa and I always found new and wonderful experiences and made sooooo many new friends along the way. Remember to talk things out and keep communication on top of the list. Congratulations on your new adventure can't wait to see new pictures and videos from Utah!!!
Quick life story/background: lived my whole adolescence in Texas until I graduated high school and moved to Utah for school. Got married and we moved to a completely different state after 1.5 years of being married. Looking back, moving away from family and your hometown is great, especially as a young couple because you rely on each other and create your own life. But also having family around once you’ve done that is great! It’s good to have different experiences. Best of luck on your new adventure and can’t wait to see it!
I believe your family will do great no matter where you go because your foundation as a family is so strong. Adventure and change is always important plus the snow is a lot of fun too. Canadian here, and I love all of our seasons. To many people don't like snow but I believe if you like it it will like you too 😅. I'm very happy for you all and I love your down to earth videos ❤
We lived in Hawaii for 9 years all together. We met some of our military family there. That will be our family forever. ❤ Some didn’t accept us much as others in Hawaii but they never ruined it for us. Hawaii is and always will be a special place for us. I love the island and the people that call it home. Congratulations on building your own home.
My husband and I moved to Hawaii after he retired early. Lived there for 2 1/2 years. We lived in Lanikai. I couldn’t adjust. I couldn’t stand the humidity and the neighbors were all stand-offish.
I had an 8 hour layover in Hawaii, on my way to Guam. I had a friend there and she and her husband showed me around the island. I loved Guam's weather, similar to Hawaii's. I was in Guam for a year. I didn't like the typhoon that came my way. Left there came back home to Florida and the hurricanes. 😂
I hated living in Hawaii. Navy brat. I guess it's different for kids because the native islander kids would regularly attack my sister and I in school. Even their parents got involved with verbal abuse. It was truly traumatizing for us as children.
@@shillsdontspookme9208 - I remember news reports about fights between local kids and military kids. I think one high school over near Aiea had to change their sports games from Friday nights to Saturday daytime due to problems at the night games.
My fiancé and I moved from OH to live in CO. We were there for 7 years, moved away from everything we knew and loved to a whole new world. Man was it amazing, creating our own community and family! But come 2020 we moved back home and it’s been the best decision! Feel all feels, it’s so overwhelming to feel both sad and happy at once. Your family will be so happy to have you guys home!!
Growing up in Hawaii and leaving at 51 years old was very difficult for my husband and I. It has been three years in Texas and we are still adjusting. We miss the culture, beautiful beaches and mountains, weather, food, people and family. You have a beautiful family, positive attitudes and loving and caring marriage, together you will have an amazing new journey.
I'm from Southern California now living in Oklahoma since I was 50 (now 56), but Hawaii to Texas, that's way rough! I never did adjust to Oklahoma. I wish you much better fortune with your current state.
Texas!? Good Lord.....
We moved a lot while our 4 kids were growing up. Alaska for a few years and then built a house off grid and lived there in Upstate NY for 8 years. Home Educated for a dozen years sprinkled throughout those times. Took the gang to all the monuments we could in 35 of the 50 states. We just moved back to Indiana to be by family (5 yrs ago) so our youngest boys could pursue welding as a trade. They knocked it out of the park! Highest Honors and great jobs even before H.S. ended. My two oldest also did fantastic as well, scholarships and National Honor Society, the works. We always joined a church and we ALWAYS encouraged the kids to explore, wherever we lived or visited. They are not socially stunted at all. My best advice is to GO where you are led and don't look back. Forward is the only direction. God Bless your beautiful family!❤️🇺🇲🪻
Just so you know, although it’s common in postpartum, it’s not normal to pee from doing normal things like laughing or sneezing (I just had a baby in December so I understand the struggle). Leakage like that is a sign that you have problems within your pelvic floor and this can be improved with physical therapy! It really helped me improve upon that problem, so I just thought I’d share that cause you shouldn’t have to wear pads to compensate for it. I can see they would be helpful though while working towards improving it!!
Just wanted to second this. Had issues at 15. Couldn't jump, cough or sneeze without full on peeing myself. Use to love jump roping but had to limit myself because of it and never when people were around and I didn't dare go on a trampoline. I did pelvic floor physical therapy now I don't have that issue anymore and I can jump rope and sneeze as much as I want.
I just had a bladder sling put in because of this issue and it solved it!!
My mom is a physiotherapist with a masters degree in the pelvic floor region and she sees a lot of post birth patients with incontinence issues and those issues are really treatable with pelvic floor training!
I'm 54 had 4 children born Naturally (my 3rd being 9lb 6oz) ....Ive never leaked like that, Bit I've always done pelvic floor exercises...What The hell!! X
I pretty sure once you have had kids it’s very common to pee your self a little bit
I want to tell you both that I admire your strength so much. I haven't been following as long as your OG's 😅 but I instantly recognized that you have HUGE hearts. I can only imagine how hard the move will be for you. I will miss seeing all of you in Hawaii. I spent 5 days there after I celebrated my 5th year cancer free. I went by myself. This was huge because I had never went anywhere by myself. I met a family within 15 minutes of getting to my hotel and I ended up spending a lot of time with them and had the time of my life. That Island stole my heart. I actually cried the day I had to leave. Everything is just so different there. I truly felt like the Island was a living, breathing person comforting me the entire time. This probably sounds crazy. I feel like I have never really been able to adequately describe the feeling. You share so much of your lives with so many people. I think that is so brave and I have total faith that you will be happy wherever you are located because it's obvious that you are each other's HOME.
Utah is his first home.
You guys, and your family, have become my favorite family to watch now. You two are awesome together and some of the best parents I have seen in a long time.
My family recently left California (my home my whole life) and moved to Arkansas for similar reasons. My husbands family is here, I had never left, but I was pregnant with our son and the cost of living was hard. The logistics of moving was tough and I had to mourn a lot of how I imagined my family would be. That being said - we moved to get a home, share new adventures and nothing is permanent. Embrace the new space, you can always go back and you're building equity temporarily no matter what. We told ourselves we'd evaluate in 5 years and that's an okay way to think about it. The good news, while I'm not doing things I imagined with my son, I'm also doing things I didn't imagine in a great way and that's wonderful. The lower cost with kids is so darn helpful too for a while. We say that now we can go to the beach and enjoy it versus stressing all the time on cost of living.
Where you going to beach in Ark.
@@bonnieplattner3094 We've got tons of lakes fortunately! So we've got our water that way :) and this way we can afford great beach vacations
You will always feel like both places are home, and yearn for the one you're not living in! I moved 600 miles away at 26. Had my son at 28, my career as well took off... but 17 years later I moved back "home". And I yearn for the other place. When I visit, it feels so right. It's hard to explain, but hopefully you can make Hawaii part of your future where you can live part time in Utah, and part time in Hawaii❤️
I'm glad the whole family will be together.💖 the grandparents will be so happy. They can be involved in their grandkids lives not just see them a few times a year. Family is so important. Congratulations ☺🙌❤
You both are blessed to have such a beautiful family. Follow your heart, as well as your maternal and paternal gut feelings. I loved the small borough within the small city in PA where I grew up in, my husband and mine's first apartment was walking distance from my folks and grandmother and most of my aunts and uncles. I swore I would never leave and ended up buying my folks home when they built a house in the countryside only half an hour away. But after my grandmother passed everyone in my family started moving away. My son and daughter are exactly the same age apart as yours. My daughter in her little cap and gown at preschool graduation was asked to say what she wants to be whenever she grows up and she said I wanna be a cowgirl and she had never even rode a horse. The same year, my son was having problems in the 1st grade. The guidance counselor who was a guy I graduated with and even went to the same college as well and my son were not getting along. He was being disruptive and they wanted me to put him on ADHD medication and I was like hell no. The school had him tested for learning disabilities and according to the school psychologist my son had a learning disability, but could not tell me what, like what? We had him independently tested and he has dyslexia and I took all the results and suggestions from the doctor and the school said well we can individually teach him a different curriculum. My husband and I were like it's time to go and we researched every school district. We ended up buying a little farm house with some acreage and a creek and trees the kids can climb in. The new district was so different in the best way. They actually sent 2 teachers for extra schooling on dyslexia and they formed a different curriculum and allowed the children with dyslexia to use tools that are out there to help learning. Since we are out in the country we started raising chickens, ducks, rabbits, and my daughter began showing horses in 4H. They are in 10th grade and 8th grade at the moment and my son is going to technical school while going to highschool as well and is doing great and my daughter is actually working at the stables we board in lieu of boarding fees. Sorry for my long story, I just want to spread the news that I am blessed, every mom and dad is blessed and always go with your mom and dad gut feelings, your instincts won't fail you. Aloha!
Don’t look back, look forward and see Utah through your children’s eyes. You’ll all be together and it’ll be good. It’s another chapter in your life-long adventures as the Beestons. 🎉
Well spoken. Look forward on the new memories you will create with your family. However, you can always plan a vacation back to Hawaii and meet up with your friends every two or three years or so. Happy and safe travels!
I moved with my fiancé from London to small town New Zealand. ( MASSIVE culture shock) all I can suggest is keeping it real for the kiddies. Be in the moment as much as possible. Make a small book of photos of all the places the kids love in Hawaii. Laminate the pages with the photos on. Punch 2 or 3 holes on the side. And put those silver clip rings. And then the kids will always have thier Hawaii story with them in book form. This has worked for my kids in lots of different situations. 💜💜 wishing you all a smooth transition. ❤
Great idea ,both Sarah and Lo can do this together for their young new readers !
I'm in New Zealand! I'm on the Kapiti Coast, which is an hour up the coast from Wellington.
If you get too much of a culture shock, try and make regular trips to Wellington, Christchurch or Auckland.
Since you guys are looking for advice in dealing with your mixed emotions about the move, I'd like to share a little tip. Watching videos of people traveling to Utah and having fun will help you amplify that exitement. The more you focus on that, the less difficult it will be to leave this place that you also love. I've had to move many times, I know the feeling. Sending you lots of love 💜🌸
Don’t leave Hawaii its cheaper to leave than it is to move back.
I have been watching you guys Beeston family and Beeston bunch since sunny was born. You guys are so honest. So refreshing. Love to all of you!
I appreciate you Sarah sharing about women's incontinence, I have been dealing with it for the passed 11 years .
You rock!!
I'm so happy the Beeston Bunch and Beeston Fam are both going to Utah. After seeing the tears yesterday its happy tears today! And Sarah, you will love Phantom. I've seen it twice but in England.
It's so hard to leave a place you consider home, try to reframe it not as leaving but as starting a new adventure. Hawaii and all the memories you made there will always be with you. Utah also probably has a special place in your heart from your time growing up there. But now it can be a new adventure for the 4 of you together
I love how kind and supportive the comments are. Bless all of you who are blessing this adorable family.
We left SLC for San Jose, CA back in 2013 due to my husband's job. We were leaving all of family and friends and it was difficult. I never could make any real friends which was so weird for me because I always made good friends right away in the past no matter were I was. It was super hard for my daughter. She would shed tears often over it even though we go back every year during FanX. Three weeks ago we relocated to the Houston area. What a change! Just the kindness of people there amazed me not to mention the drop in prices on just about everything from gas to rent. Even my daughter was excited and happy for it. Change is frequently difficult but I think it's necessary for growth. I hope it all works out for you guys and I can't help but think how cool it would be to run into you all on one of my trips back to Utah. You are such amazing people!Thanks for sharing.
The Bay Area can be so hard to make real friends! It’s just a weird place in some ways. Glad you’re in a good place now :)
My husband and I moved from Colorado to the east and it was extremely difficult. But, both of our families live back east and we wanted to to have kids and be able to be around grandparents, aunt's/uncles, cousins, etc. We miss Colorado every day, but like you guys said, something about it just felt "right". We know in our hearts that this isn't the final destination, and we'll get back out there someday. We also have talked about moving to Utah when/if we move back west. Can't deny the adventure those states hold and we want our kids to grow up with all that wilderness.
Best of luck to your family!
When I was a little older than you, I left my home in NJ and moved to Florida almost sight unseen (I moved for work). It was so hard to leave my family and friends but I couldn’t pass up the opportunity. When I moved to Florida, I knew no one, so you guys are starting over with your Home Base! Just think of all the adventures and memories you will make with your family. For me, moving to Florida was the start of my second chapter. It’s where I got married and met so many people. You four will be just fine.
Oh my goodness you guys are the cutest family ever! You'll be fine no matter where you live because home is where your heart is and your heart is always your family. I know this video is 2 months old so you're probably already in Utah by now but no worries... You two are amazing parents and such a loving and beautiful couple. You got this!! I pray sweet lil Sunny has gained weight and both her and Jack are doing great. This last part is for Sarah, thank you for your honesty and talking about incontinence. I got pregnant 9 times and lost 11 babies and it did a number on my bladder, which got way worse after the hysterectomy. I'm always self conscious about the protection I wear, can people tell type issue. I'm going to try Fresh Start and see if they help. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. May all your goals be met and all your dreams come true 🙏
Being a person that has always moved around a lot, I have found that you can love being in a bunch of different places. You have to look forward to the exciting times to come in Utah. Yes, you love Hawaii and that will always be there, but embrace the change. Try not to focus on the sad parts but look at the positives. Family and friends in Utah are a huge bonus. Wherever you and your kids go you will be home. Your love for each other and your kids is amazing and solid. Lean on each other, love each other and look to the future. You will be fine. God Bless!
My mom is a physiotherapist with a masters degree in the pelvic floor region and she sees a lot of post birth patients with incontinence issues and those issues are really treatable with pelvic floor training! I'm sure there is a therapist near you that would be able to help :)
I totally agree.
and it is easy the first time after giving birth to get it away
This
This is basically what I was going to say. I have honestly used exercises after both of my births and didn't have any problems.
I highly recommend that you go to pelvic floor physiotherapy. If you are serious about having four or five children it is a MUST do. In France (and ither European countries) you would be finished with your first series already, paid for by the government - THAT is how important it is!
As you start preparing for the move you will need to prepare Jack. All little ones will adjust to pretty much every change in their life, but with the bigger ones it helps to ease them into it. Talk about the new house and let him help pick out the theme and colors for his room. When packing make sure that he has his favorite items packed so he will have them as soon as he gets to Utah because things that get shipped can take forever and that is hard for little ones. You can do a countdown of sleeps to moving day. It might help to have a special surprise gift in his new bedroom (something small like a toy helicopter or whatever he happens to be into.) You could just have balloons and a treat. Depending on how crazy everything gets you might want him and Sunny to stay with a family member while you get everything moved in and setup to make it easier on you and reduce any meltdowns.
We left the place we loved to move back “home” when our kids were little. I feel how you guys feel! We stayed for five years, got some things under our belt, and moved back to the place we love. Nothing is permanent. ❤
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I was born and raised in Colorado. I absolutely loved being outdoors even throughout the winter. It was never an issue. I never wanted to leave. Then I moved to Hawaii to continue a relationship and lived there for 2 years. I made some great friends and met my wife there. Now, I am back in Colorado, and it doesn't feel like home anymore.
I absolutely love watching the joy between father and son while you two are playing, both at the park and at home!! 💚🧡💙
A such pretty inspiration to I find a love like that!!!!
Only advice I can give you as a person that has had two small children a year apart and away from our family/friends was super hard and stressful. If moving to Utah means closer to family and friends then it’s absolutely a great idea!! As a young married couple with small babies - it’s needed and definitely a plus not only for you but for ur babies! Good luck on ur move! Ur babies are precious ❤
I think it is great that Daddy takes an interest in Sunny's Doctor appointments. Too many Dad's don't.
I agree 100%, that's so amazing!! Altho, I have to admit that while I have always taken my boys to their Dr appts, it not because my husband refuses, he's an amazing dad & husband and would be happy to take them. It's simply because I'm a control freak when it comes to that. I know that I really need to let go of some of that control and allow him to do these things.
He is a great reminder of how many men out there just aren’t showing up for their children or wives.
Most dads are at work during the day.
@@heythere1640uh and moms don't work during the day??? 🙄
@@droid2D2C3P0 A lot of moms do, but if they are stay at home moms (which is fine, it’s what I did as well) then usually the dad is at work. Usually at least one parent goes to work.
Moving is so much work! And we are all hardwired to “make home”. Wherever your family is, there is home. You will make it beautiful, in every way.😊
Jack and Sunny are the cutest babies, you two are amazing parents ❤️
I'm excited for you; I'm even more excited for the grandparents who get to love on your babies. It's a grandma thing!! I raised my family, and then I lost my hubby of 28 yrs. A couple of yrs later, I met a lovely man who was a nurse. All of our kids are grown, and we started traveling. He is now a travel nurse!! We did that for the first 4 yrs we lived in 5 states. In 4 yrs, we retire in 22 months, then back towards Idaho/Wyoming! You will be making memories no matter where you go, I'm sure; at some point in the future, you will be back in Hawaii. Just remember, All who wander are not lost!! Love your little family!!
Grandparents will love your move.
My husband and I lived in the Dominican Republic and had our first daughter there. We’re both from Nevada and I always thought I was desert rat, but I was so wrong. We’ve lived in NV, CA, AZ, and TX, but as it turns out island life in the DR was where I felt the most at home. We really connected with each other there and made tons of great friends, every day was an adventure! After having our first daughter there he convinced me that we should move back to the states to be closer to family, so we eventually ended up back in NV. After he found out I was pregnant with our second child, he became distant, began to drink a lot, and started seeing another woman that he worked with. Now, after 18 years of marriage, he moved to Alaska where he’s now living with his new girlfriend and her two kids and left me and our 2 girls back in NV. I’m currently trying to get a divorce, but I am having a hard time affording the attorney. Looking back, I wish we never would have left the Dominican Republic. I pray that if you do choose to move back to UT, that you continue to be so in love and never lose sight of the beautiful family you have built. If you’re truly happy in Hawaii, then think long and hard before packing up to leave. If you do leave, make sure you’re both 100% on board before diving into the next chapter. You asked for advice, that’s the best I can offer. Best wishes on whatever you choose 💕
Or Las Vegas NV...the 9th Island.
I’m sorry for what you are going through. After nearly 24 years of marriage and 26 years of knowing each other my ex found himself a girlfriend and we divorced. I hope you are able to find a good lawyer. Hang in there.
Excited that you're going to be with your brother and Lo. That and the rest of the family will surround you with love!
But the best part about moving back home is the kids will be with their grandparents seeing to love grow between them will make your heart melt
Just moved from California, where I lived all my life. I joined my family in Tennessee and was very scared to leave my home base and friends. It’s been wonderful being near my family again so don’t be scared. You can always go back. Enjoy the journey. Your family is beautiful
Hi, I love watching you guys your families you’re so cute and adorable and you make me laugh. My husband is 73 and I’m 62 and it’s just nice to watch you as far as your move. Your mind is your own worst enemy don’t overthink because you just add up things in your own minds, and it can become very stressful, so just enjoy the process, enjoying the newness, and say your prayers, because nothing in this world, we cannot accomplish without our heavenly father.
These two families are amazing to me! I watch them as I love their kids and the way these two families are always so positive in raising their children! And they seem very happy! And I believe in them! I always laugh and seem to always smile while watching them my friends say! Hope they always video updates! Great daily to do list! Love, Beth
Whatever you guys are doing, we will be here to support you guys. We'll miss this house but we're ready for the new house.
Stay safe out there!
Its funny you guys looks like the surfer family. I hope your happy in Utah but I think you will be so homesick for Hawaii
I have only moved far away from home for 6 months so I can only partially relate to this. But right when I was walking through the airport to head back home and I was thinking about how I was excited to go home yet sad to leave the place I had made into my home as well, my Spotify discovery played a song called “early morning coffee cups” and those lyrics have stayed with me ever since:
“When all the things I thought I knew
Are fading like the mornin' dew
When home is just a point of view
All the while
It took me 'round the world to see
You are where I need to be”
Sometimes you have to leave great things behind to find other great things. I’m sure this adventure will be amazing as well ❤
I agree, watching you two is amazing, you are so special. I live the way you love your kids too, so sweet!!
You guys are amazing! Love y’all so much. Jack and Sunny are to very lucky kids to have parents like you. You’re both beautiful and wholesome .❤❤❤❤
It’s like I told Tanner and Lo on their channel….it’s almost always hard to move, even while being excited for the next chapter. This is true, especially when you’ve had good experiences where you have been. Both of you now are family heads…both of you are maturing and you realize that with moves, that brings changes. Some are fun and exciting, but I think you realize down deep that some of those changes are going to hurt and that is partially why it is so hard. Unfortunately, it is part of the growing process. You both have this though! You are going to be fine, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Hang in there, you’ve got this!
I love the Beeston fam. They are just so Fricken adorable and i just can’t! I’m so happy for you guys! ❤
I've moved alot over the years and let me tell you it is hard. You will miss where ever you move from and be sad. But in moving you will adapt to new things and grow to love differently. I'm excited for yall. I currently am in Alabama. But I moved from Massachusetts. That was tough, especially with my young child. We have lived in Tennessee, New Hampshire, Massachusetts and now Alabama together, and before she was born I lived in Florida. You got this guy's.
Both of you grew up in Utah!
I'm so glad you are moving back, I hope you really appreciate the most gorgeous state, so much diversity of terrain, I think if I ever would of traveled west as a much,much younger me Utah or Northern Idaho would of been home. The way I was brought up you didn't move away from your family so we didn't. At 68 now, I really regret that. You can always move back like you are, I do believe you will be happier will family all around. Now that you have two kids those relationships need to be fortified , your kids need cousins, aunts and uncles and grandparents, especially.
Good luck with the move you'll be happy.
❤❤❤from Michigan
Support systems are key. Enjoy extended family while they're here to enjoy them. Let grandparents and parents share the love. Hawaii isn't going anywhere. You can always go back when the kids are grown. I learned never to live my life with the expectation that my children would want to share in my plans for them as they got older. They don't. And they shouldn't. They have their own ideas.
Matt and Abby ❤️❤️
You both should get a piece of paper and makes lists titled why to stay, why to move. Compare your lists but remember nothing is set in stone, things can always be changed, moves can be made!! What is the most important to you both: family, friends, experiences, activities, expectations for the future, etc... Be happy! Everything is changeable!
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Excellent advice
Sounds like most of the pro-Hawaii list would be Derik's and most of the pro-Utah list would be Sarah's.
They have property and are building a house in Utah. They probably did the pros and cons a year ago
@@JakeKoenig being near family is huge when you have littlies
Follow your hearts ❤. Thats is biggest lesson I’ve learned in my almost 60 years of experience. Haven’t been following you for that long, but from what I’ve seen you two love each other and are each others best friends. Your children are adorable! The best sound in the world is a baby’s giggle. Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to continuing watching your journey. 💕💕🥰🥰
25 years ago I moved alone from England to America. My whole family still live in England and I’m still out here living alone and living my best life!! Just embrace the change. I had planned to only live here for a year and then travel to Australia and then settle in France. When I got here I found my place and have been happier than I could ever imagine. Utah is going to be so exciting for you as there’s so much to do there. You can always go back to Hawaii for a visit!!
Military spouse here, about to move for the fifth time in our five years of marriage. In my opinion the best thing you can do as you’re preparing to move is have things planned for after you arrive in your new home. Day trips, concerts, cool restaurants you want to visit, just generally things you can look forward to. For our upcoming move I’ve already found a play group for my baby, a cooking class I want to take, and planned a mini road trip. It helps to keep your focus on what you’re moving to in stead of what you’re leaving behind. Hope that helps!
Great idea....!
Very happy for you guys. I think apart from it being very sad to leave Hawaii you guys will have a great time back in Utah. Your going to be closer with family and friends and owning an own place where you guys can settle down. Sending the whole fam lots of love.
Hi Beeston family. I moved from where I grew up in Newfoundland and Labrador 25 years ago and I went to Edmonton to live and work, it was very stressful at first but as time went by I got used to it. Then I came back home and moved to St. John's for 17 years and I had to move back home that took a lot of getting used to because of the simple fact that here there are no theaters, bars or anything like that. But as time goes by I 'm getting used to living home so chin up and I know that all four of you will be able to make the change. I love you all so very much and best of luck in the future ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙 ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙 ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙
My experience comes from my mom, she always said "you only have one life together" never leave your happiness, If there's a will to stay there's a way...... If you guys have any doubts at all about ending happiness or where you want your children to grow up follow your instincts and stay. I wish you both Good luck with your decision. 💕
I hope you see THIS!!
Home is where YOU MAKE IT!! As long as your together and you have the love and support of those you hold closest then nothing matters!! You WILL make it amazing no matter where you are !! You will have so much Love and support from family and having all the family able to help with the kiddies and the kids being around them all on a frequent basis will HELP you both get some time together!!! This is going to be an extremely good thing for you all!!! Just trust the process and don’t let negative feelings jump in your way!!! You’ve got this and I know you’ll flourish where ever you are xoxooxoxo
You said that so much better than I did in a much more concise way absolutely so happy I read your post this is going to help me too❤
Been there. Moved a lot. I'm sure you all will have the support system you need. It's great that the other Beestons are moving back, too. I lived in Hawaii (on the Big Island) in the early 90s and I remember moving back to the mainland. Kids will adjust. You will adjust. Just make lots of visits back because, if there's one thing I *still* miss, it's the beach!
Hi guys.
I read some of the comments to your moving back to Utah and I agree with a lot of what's said. As far as you both feeling the need to move you won't be happy until you try moving back. I wanted to say a really positive thing to moving back is your children will have stronger relationships with their grandparents and any siblings you have there. I grew up as a "NAVY BRAT" and we moved almost every 2 years. I never was able to grow up with my cousins /aunts/uncles and I really missed that. I also lost most of the friendships I made over the years no matter how hard I tried. So having loving family relationships is a big positive to your moving back.
I also hope you're not moving just so you can own your own home. My entire life I have always wanted to own my own home. Since I was probably 16 or younger I actually started buying items for my " forever" home. I finally bought my own home in 2019 only to discover I don't like the town I was able to afford to purchase a home in. I also don't like a lot of the people here and I miss my old apartment and the life I had before moving here.
I really have to say I hope this move turns out to be fabulous for you and your family. If not, I hope you can move back to Hawaii one day. I don't think you will be happy until you have at least tried to move back to Utah because you will always wonder what you missed out on. Best of luck and I will continue to see what you are up to. Hope both children are thriving. The comment about some formula mixing machine looks really smart.
If you are using this machine I think you should read what was said about it.
My love to you all....can't wait to see what happens next....
I believe you will be happy no matter where you call home. The love you have for each other and your children is wonderful to see, ...that love will make your journey a great adventure. Best wishes with the move. ❤️
Hey guys! I understand what it feels to move especially with a toddler. My husband and I lived in Louisville, KY but my side of the family lives in SC so I did a lot of traveling back and forth with our daughter. Anyways, we moved to San Antonio, TX and it was hard to leave our home (Louisville) but it's a temporary feeling and you guys will get back into your routine. I was scared and nervous but now it feels right. Best of luck! You guys got this!
Thank you for addressing women's common dirty little secret with such a casual and natural approach, coming from a young beauty like you it means the world for a lot of us! 💖
Yes, I thought so as well. I’ve only now at 58 experiencing this. I was thinking it’s just an old lady thing 😮Kudos to her for sharing.
Hi Helena. Are you Brazilian??? I thought here your name looks like Brazilian name
I agree. I find it somewhat admirable of her to address something so many women face. I mean… I know it’s a promo & all but still. Too many women find incontinence shameful when it’s just biology & to see an influencer being so honest & open about such subjects is refreshing & hopefully helps other women who are dealing with similar issues!
Look up Kegel exercises. Free, natural and changes your sex life!
@@coldwindblowing not Brazilian, but technically same language, Portuguese 🇵🇹
Love hearing your stories. Can’t wait to hear about your new life in Utah! Stay safe, stay healthy, stay sane! ❤️🇨🇦
I understand your fear. I’m moving from Canada with my husband to Florida soon and it is definitely bittersweet. Sending you guys love and luck
I just watched Lauren and Tanners video that they’re moving to Utah too!!! That’s so fun that you guys will still be together!!!
We’re from Utah and recently came back from the south. It’s so hard to leave somewhere you love. I hope to bump into y’all! You’re all great. Wishing ALL of you so much love. I HATE being in Utah. Hate it. But, my family is here. And I’ve missed SO much. It’s hard to appreciate Utah when you’re raised there. I hope you get a new experience. I know we are! 🖤
You guys are amazing, i moved from Montana my home state *beautiful* after i never thought i would NEVER leave. I took a leap of faith. You guys will do awesome
I love watching your beautiful family grow! I know you have so many emotions about moving, but it's a new stage in your lives! It's exciting, and you'll make so many wonderful memories! And just know, you can always move back to Hawaii one day. After living in Utah for a while, you may find that it's exactly where you all belong! Hawaii can always be a nice vacation place for you. Good luck!