Hi guys, I hope you see this. I heard you say Sunny is under weight, I've learned that the baby breeza formula maker has a lot of complaints that the machines do not mix the right amount of powder into the water consistently and the babies were not getting enough calories. The machines don't give the full scoop of powder in every 2 ounces of water. Try mixing her bottles by hand and if her weight goes up you'll know its the machines fault. Plus she will sleep better with a happy tummy. Love ya!
Hi. I'm the 82 year old great-grandmom that has been following you for awhile now. We moved a lot while our six daughters were growing up. What I learned was simple... Home is where you and your family are. It doesn't matter where as long as you're all together making it work.
God Bless You All!! Beautiful family, beautiful couple, your hearts are in the Right place. God bless you for following your HEART ♥️ and your dreams always dreamBIG even with three little baby ducklings behind you. 💙💜🐥🐥🐥💖✝️ FAMILY FIRST❤ as you Always do!! Congratulations on your new home 🏠
Derik is such a considerate husband. He encouraged Sarah to take naps and even takes the kids out so she can sleep. He's a really interactive dad too. Sarah your blessed
We moved every four years at the beginning of our marriage. Moving with 6 kids was hard and I had to put my foot down and say we were staying at the next place. It is good for kids to put down roots, be involved, make friendships that last. The big one though, is that the grandparents can be more involved now, and Jack and Sunny need that more then you can imagine. They won’t be around forever. I got so much love and support from my grandparents. They meant the world to me.
@@mmconceicao my husband was in law enforcement and we wanted a large family and for me to stay home with them. We had to move as he got promotions. When the oldest was 9 and the youngest was a baby, we didn’t move again until my husband retired, to let the kids grow roots.
I'm a Grandma and I love watching you guys. You are wonderful young parents and it warms my heart to see how well you both care for your children and each other. Marriage is work, and your obvious love, respect, and deep consideration for each other shows depth, maturity, and responsibility. Kudos to both of you.💖
Me too, I’m a grandmother as well and it’s so refreshing to see how you guys truly love one another and you’re so patient with each other. It’s like I’m watching a movie of a family from 1952 or something lol! I’m actually not that old, I was born in 1960 (still old though). But seriously, I really enjoy your videos. Blessings over your beautiful, growing family. ❤
I love that woman your age can talk about bladder incontinence and not be derogatory and be open about it. It really sucks for those of us who suffer from it. It is life affecting in some ways. After I had twins sitting on my bladder for eight months, it was over for me. Lol.
You can get surgery for it. Don’t have issues myself, but a norwegian influencer/author had (successful) surgery and has been very vocal about it in the media as it’s so common for women.
Hey Beeston Family 👋🏼🥰 Wife of an Army veteran and I just wanted to say something about your conversation about being a little fearful of the upcoming move. We moved a lot as a young family with two babies. Every time he got new orders, I was always very nervous. You don’t know what to expect, whether you will enjoy it, and what if it just doesn’t feel like home. I had to change my mindset. Home is definitely what you make it and as long as I had my husband, and our babies, I was home. It didn’t matter where because we had each other!! Praying that y’all always feel at home wherever your journey takes you!
Watching the Lo and Tanner's video yesterday I cried when they told you they were moving back to Utah. I was thinking, oh no it isn't just that they are moving away from their brother, but best friends. So happy that you are all staying together. Change can be difficult even when positive. Neither Beeston families let travel slow them down, you all will be back. I can just imagine you all buying a Hawaiian home, a Beeston family compound to share together. You all are great, and everyone is excited to go on this next journey with you all.
OMGosh, Sunny looks just like Jack. They are both beautiful kids. If you're worried about the kids moving, they are very resilient. They adjust very quickly.
I swear moving away from Hawaii hits different than moving away from pretty much anywhere else. I moved there when I was 18 and lived there for many years (Big Island) and went to college there as well and its really where I kind of grew up and "came to age". Its just such a special magical place that its very, very hard and bittersweet to leave. Eventually, I felt like the island kind of had a "glass ceiling" feeling and that I had reached it and it was time to go. I still have friends that live there and I still visit every year which is really amazing! I still consider it my "heart home". I know you guys will make it work to keep Hawaii a part of your families lives and I'm glad you are listening to this calling to try something different...it won't lead you astray.
We moved away from Utah after 2 years of marriage, and loved where we ended up. But then, 8 years after that came that feeling you described that it was time to make another change. I never thought moving back to Utah was the change we were going to make, but we did. Building your family on your own is amazing and powerful and you find a strength that is all your own. But you will LOVE being close to family again, and building new relationships. And your Hawaii family will never end. Our kids love the snow and it's added a whole new level of outdoor adventure for us. It's okay to be happy, excited, sad, scared, nervous, ready and not ready--you're allowed to have all the feels. Best wishes for you on your journey back home!
Hello from France, I'm a new follower & came across this video. Although leaving Hawaii is difficult, your instinct as parents is telling you that moving to Utah is in the best interests of your children. Not only will you be able to set down roots by buying a house but you will also have a network of friends & family which is the best situation for bringing up kids. Bravo to both of you for being mature enough to make this decision. Kind wishes from the French Pyrenees.
Having spent the first year of our first baby’s life in the Bahamas we really became used to the laid back lifestyle. So I can understand leaving a paradise to move back to the place you grew up is a little scary. Once we moved back home (Canada) it became clear that there was so many more opportunities for our family to build a home and lifestyle that would sustain every dream we had. I hope this helps a little. ❤️
100% Derik telling Sarah she needed a nap and to go now, was like a total blessing... not many men are like that... trust me it shows how much you care about each other and its so heartwarming to watch
@@melbelle3162 yes I noticed that also. But generally when she’s talking he listens. And generally when he’s talking, she interrupts. I was trying to be more positive about it than calling her out ;)
At least you and your brother/ sister-in-law are doing this together. So you can share in each other's happy and stressful times. A big change is scary but there are so many new things to look forward to. I've moved from coast to coast from Iowa and I always found new and wonderful experiences and made sooooo many new friends along the way. Remember to talk things out and keep communication on top of the list. Congratulations on your new adventure can't wait to see new pictures and videos from Utah!!!
Thank you for talking about incontinence. I haven’t personally dealt with it but most of the other moms in my life have. It can really be embarrassing. Having a beautiful strong woman like you speak on the subject can make a difference in so many women’s lives.
Please look into pelvic floor therapy❤ all women should be informed of it after birth. Incontinence isn’t a common thing in some other countries who offer it regularly
Hi guys. 2009 my husband, youngest son and I moved to Cape Town, South Africa and life was amazing. The only problem was family was back in thr UK and it was hard being separated. Fast forward 5 years and my health starts to get worse and things were starting to go down hill in South Africa, we decided to leave. Moving back to the UK was the best thing we could have done and we are all so much happier that family are closer by (not too close haha). Whenever we talk of Cape Town my heart yearns for the people we met and the friends we made. Anyway I digress, my health has gotten worse since getting back and having the support of family about is 100% worth the move. With 2 young children I bet you are going to be inundated with grandparents offering free childcare. Take the help, share the love. Your parents are going to be so happy getting to share this stage in your children's life. Hawaii will always be there for you guys for holidays or maybe when the kids get bigger you can reassess. Only you know what is going to work for you. All I can say is goog luck and enjoy wherever you end up.
For those struggling with UI, it might help finding a physical therapist that specializes in pelvic floor therapy. It’s not as well known as an option, but learning how to strengthen your pelvic floor can improve control of your bladder. Gynecologists are usually aware of those types of therapists in the area!
I wish for every woman to be able to get this treatment, as here in Germany this is part of your postpartum care by a midwife who are all trained for this and universal healthcare covers the full cost
@@Laleloveslemons So schaut es aus. Ich war ein wenig geschockt darüber, als sie erzählte wie viele Frauen in den USA damit Probleme nach der Schwangerschaft haben.
Worked a dream for me after having 3 big babies. a woman I know had the operation rather than do the work with the physio, everything changed for her peeing and not for the better. Get a specialist physio can’t recommend this enough.
Absolutely. And any kind of persistent pelvic pain whether pregnant or not, getting physically ready to give birth, physical therapists can help a great deal with that too.
Yes! Kegels are a great exercise to strengthen the pelvic floor and super easy once you know how to do them. Any pelvic floor specialist will recommend these! I'm sure there is much more they will recommend as well but Kegels are something easy you can do anytime anywhere for free!
You guys are sweet and transparent. We moved our children after they were in school and it was so hard for them It''s good that you're doing the big moves before Jack's in school.
You will always feel like both places are home, and yearn for the one you're not living in! I moved 600 miles away at 26. Had my son at 28, my career as well took off... but 17 years later I moved back "home". And I yearn for the other place. When I visit, it feels so right. It's hard to explain, but hopefully you can make Hawaii part of your future where you can live part time in Utah, and part time in Hawaii❤️
We lived in Hawaii for 9 years all together. We met some of our military family there. That will be our family forever. ❤ Some didn’t accept us much as others in Hawaii but they never ruined it for us. Hawaii is and always will be a special place for us. I love the island and the people that call it home. Congratulations on building your own home.
My husband and I moved to Hawaii after he retired early. Lived there for 2 1/2 years. We lived in Lanikai. I couldn’t adjust. I couldn’t stand the humidity and the neighbors were all stand-offish.
I had an 8 hour layover in Hawaii, on my way to Guam. I had a friend there and she and her husband showed me around the island. I loved Guam's weather, similar to Hawaii's. I was in Guam for a year. I didn't like the typhoon that came my way. Left there came back home to Florida and the hurricanes. 😂
I hated living in Hawaii. Navy brat. I guess it's different for kids because the native islander kids would regularly attack my sister and I in school. Even their parents got involved with verbal abuse. It was truly traumatizing for us as children.
@@shillsdontspookme9208 - I remember news reports about fights between local kids and military kids. I think one high school over near Aiea had to change their sports games from Friday nights to Saturday daytime due to problems at the night games.
Don’t look back, look forward and see Utah through your children’s eyes. You’ll all be together and it’ll be good. It’s another chapter in your life-long adventures as the Beestons. 🎉
Well spoken. Look forward on the new memories you will create with your family. However, you can always plan a vacation back to Hawaii and meet up with your friends every two or three years or so. Happy and safe travels!
I moved with my fiancé from London to small town New Zealand. ( MASSIVE culture shock) all I can suggest is keeping it real for the kiddies. Be in the moment as much as possible. Make a small book of photos of all the places the kids love in Hawaii. Laminate the pages with the photos on. Punch 2 or 3 holes on the side. And put those silver clip rings. And then the kids will always have thier Hawaii story with them in book form. This has worked for my kids in lots of different situations. 💜💜 wishing you all a smooth transition. ❤
I'm in New Zealand! I'm on the Kapiti Coast, which is an hour up the coast from Wellington. If you get too much of a culture shock, try and make regular trips to Wellington, Christchurch or Auckland.
I just left my family to live 14 hours away with my fiancé. It's definitely hard and an adjustment, but worth it. I We're both from military fathers and still found it hard to move. At the end of the day it's whatever will be best for your family and what will make you happy. I am the happiest where I moved to and I'm very thankful that there's the internet to call home when I get home sick.
I just feel sorry for your family. We have a very close family and now all my kids are grown and live far away except for one and he’s on the road all the time. Now I fight depression all the time.
@@janblackman6204 I’m sorry that that’s your experience. It is extremely hard, but as my dad says “Distance makes the conversations and in-person visits all the more special.”
I am older, but I moved to Az from IL about 7 and a half years ago. Life wasnt real good in IL for about 4 years before I left.It took me about 6 years to miss the small things in Illnois (season changes, daylight savings time, greenery)..but most of all I missed my lifelong friends and church in lL. I knew about 6 months before I moved back to Illinois it felt right. I had no doubt when I was moving back. Fast forward a year and a half later. I have zero regrets. I am glad I got the warm climate out of my system, but I no longer take for granted the things that make things home. Small things, like parks, restaurants I have visited since a child, etc, mean so much more to me now. I think you are going to be thrilled. As Dorthy said with 2 heal clicks "there is no place like home." You are a precious family. It will be OK. I feel it with you.❤️❤️❤️
@@ValkyrKat1488 I guess I’m just selfish. I helped raise 12 of my grandkids. I mean they were here every day. Then they grew up and moved away also so I don’t get to see them either. Someone once said that if your children grow up to be independent and strong adults then you know you did your job as a parent. Well I must have been the best.
When Sunny gets full and doesn’t finish her bottle, you can try to give her a little break and then try again in like 20 minutes or so. Even if she still isn’t able to finish the entire bottle, she still should be able to get more down, and if you do that for each feeding, it will really add up. Hope this helps, and good luck with your move! 💙
I'm glad the whole family will be together.💖 the grandparents will be so happy. They can be involved in their grandkids lives not just see them a few times a year. Family is so important. Congratulations ☺🙌❤
I want to tell you both that I admire your strength so much. I haven't been following as long as your OG's 😅 but I instantly recognized that you have HUGE hearts. I can only imagine how hard the move will be for you. I will miss seeing all of you in Hawaii. I spent 5 days there after I celebrated my 5th year cancer free. I went by myself. This was huge because I had never went anywhere by myself. I met a family within 15 minutes of getting to my hotel and I ended up spending a lot of time with them and had the time of my life. That Island stole my heart. I actually cried the day I had to leave. Everything is just so different there. I truly felt like the Island was a living, breathing person comforting me the entire time. This probably sounds crazy. I feel like I have never really been able to adequately describe the feeling. You share so much of your lives with so many people. I think that is so brave and I have total faith that you will be happy wherever you are located because it's obvious that you are each other's HOME.
As someone who has moved consistently since I was a child, I can tell you that kids adapt. Being an adult I will tell you that nothing is more important to a child than having grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins around, while growing up. It is a sense of stability that I never had. I think that is the most important thing. You both are doing a great job and making the right decision to move back to Utah. ❤
I don't understand why you would leave Hawaii to go to Utah. I was born in the States and was raised in Brazil and then we moved back to corny Jersey, then l moved to Florida but came back here to Jersey for family. And well my family is horrible, people change, l caught a life threatening lung disease bc of a drug addict that lived on the 2nd floor. So yes you can get very sick from second hand smoke. Don't leave.
It's so hard to leave a place you consider home, try to reframe it not as leaving but as starting a new adventure. Hawaii and all the memories you made there will always be with you. Utah also probably has a special place in your heart from your time growing up there. But now it can be a new adventure for the 4 of you together
Seriously, Jack has the BEST laugh! 2 things to try with Sunny 1) try keeping the pacifier away from her before her feeding (reason: She might suck longer on bottle because she hasn’t tired out from pacifier). 2) make the hole in nipple larger (reason: could be the hole is too small & she doesn’t want to suck so hard). You are both such great parents. These are just a few other things to try.
Not all babies can handle a fast flow nipple they choke.. also Binkies don’t always tire them out.. I have had 3 premature babies and 2 of them had FTT Failure to thrive(Did not gain well) They were switched to a 23cal Formula and they gained weight great, They slept better and they were not nearly as fussy as they were prior to being switched..
I seem to remember that when my brother #6 was born prematurely way back in 1968(1 month early, weighing 6 lbs 10 oz; developed lung disease, but is fine now) he was sent home with special nipples for bottles. They were red and were much easier for preemies to suck. So something like that might be an option.
Growing up in Hawaii and leaving at 51 years old was very difficult for my husband and I. It has been three years in Texas and we are still adjusting. We miss the culture, beautiful beaches and mountains, weather, food, people and family. You have a beautiful family, positive attitudes and loving and caring marriage, together you will have an amazing new journey.
I'm from Southern California now living in Oklahoma since I was 50 (now 56), but Hawaii to Texas, that's way rough! I never did adjust to Oklahoma. I wish you much better fortune with your current state.
I'm excited for you; I'm even more excited for the grandparents who get to love on your babies. It's a grandma thing!! I raised my family, and then I lost my hubby of 28 yrs. A couple of yrs later, I met a lovely man who was a nurse. All of our kids are grown, and we started traveling. He is now a travel nurse!! We did that for the first 4 yrs we lived in 5 states. In 4 yrs, we retire in 22 months, then back towards Idaho/Wyoming! You will be making memories no matter where you go, I'm sure; at some point in the future, you will be back in Hawaii. Just remember, All who wander are not lost!! Love your little family!!
My fiancé and I moved from OH to live in CO. We were there for 7 years, moved away from everything we knew and loved to a whole new world. Man was it amazing, creating our own community and family! But come 2020 we moved back home and it’s been the best decision! Feel all feels, it’s so overwhelming to feel both sad and happy at once. Your family will be so happy to have you guys home!!
I feel like I know you guys . I’ve been watching you for quite some time, and I feel like your babies are my grandbabies.. I have a son 51 years old and I don’t have any grandkids because he’s developmentally disabled but enjoying your babies and others for my grand children is great. Thank you so much for your videos and your channel and good luck to whatever you do in life 💜😊
Since you guys are looking for advice in dealing with your mixed emotions about the move, I'd like to share a little tip. Watching videos of people traveling to Utah and having fun will help you amplify that exitement. The more you focus on that, the less difficult it will be to leave this place that you also love. I've had to move many times, I know the feeling. Sending you lots of love 💜🌸
Quick life story/background: lived my whole adolescence in Texas until I graduated high school and moved to Utah for school. Got married and we moved to a completely different state after 1.5 years of being married. Looking back, moving away from family and your hometown is great, especially as a young couple because you rely on each other and create your own life. But also having family around once you’ve done that is great! It’s good to have different experiences. Best of luck on your new adventure and can’t wait to see it!
You both should get a piece of paper and makes lists titled why to stay, why to move. Compare your lists but remember nothing is set in stone, things can always be changed, moves can be made!! What is the most important to you both: family, friends, experiences, activities, expectations for the future, etc... Be happy! Everything is changeable!
My husband and I moved from Colorado to the east and it was extremely difficult. But, both of our families live back east and we wanted to to have kids and be able to be around grandparents, aunt's/uncles, cousins, etc. We miss Colorado every day, but like you guys said, something about it just felt "right". We know in our hearts that this isn't the final destination, and we'll get back out there someday. We also have talked about moving to Utah when/if we move back west. Can't deny the adventure those states hold and we want our kids to grow up with all that wilderness. Best of luck to your family!
When I was a little older than you, I left my home in NJ and moved to Florida almost sight unseen (I moved for work). It was so hard to leave my family and friends but I couldn’t pass up the opportunity. When I moved to Florida, I knew no one, so you guys are starting over with your Home Base! Just think of all the adventures and memories you will make with your family. For me, moving to Florida was the start of my second chapter. It’s where I got married and met so many people. You four will be just fine.
We left SLC for San Jose, CA back in 2013 due to my husband's job. We were leaving all of family and friends and it was difficult. I never could make any real friends which was so weird for me because I always made good friends right away in the past no matter were I was. It was super hard for my daughter. She would shed tears often over it even though we go back every year during FanX. Three weeks ago we relocated to the Houston area. What a change! Just the kindness of people there amazed me not to mention the drop in prices on just about everything from gas to rent. Even my daughter was excited and happy for it. Change is frequently difficult but I think it's necessary for growth. I hope it all works out for you guys and I can't help but think how cool it would be to run into you all on one of my trips back to Utah. You are such amazing people!Thanks for sharing.
Support systems are key. Enjoy extended family while they're here to enjoy them. Let grandparents and parents share the love. Hawaii isn't going anywhere. You can always go back when the kids are grown. I learned never to live my life with the expectation that my children would want to share in my plans for them as they got older. They don't. And they shouldn't. They have their own ideas.
Just moved from California, where I lived all my life. I joined my family in Tennessee and was very scared to leave my home base and friends. It’s been wonderful being near my family again so don’t be scared. You can always go back. Enjoy the journey. Your family is beautiful
We left the place we loved to move back “home” when our kids were little. I feel how you guys feel! We stayed for five years, got some things under our belt, and moved back to the place we love. Nothing is permanent. ❤
It’s like I told Tanner and Lo on their channel….it’s almost always hard to move, even while being excited for the next chapter. This is true, especially when you’ve had good experiences where you have been. Both of you now are family heads…both of you are maturing and you realize that with moves, that brings changes. Some are fun and exciting, but I think you realize down deep that some of those changes are going to hurt and that is partially why it is so hard. Unfortunately, it is part of the growing process. You both have this though! You are going to be fine, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Hang in there, you’ve got this!
I agree 100%, that's so amazing!! Altho, I have to admit that while I have always taken my boys to their Dr appts, it not because my husband refuses, he's an amazing dad & husband and would be happy to take them. It's simply because I'm a control freak when it comes to that. I know that I really need to let go of some of that control and allow him to do these things.
@@droid2D2C3P0 A lot of moms do, but if they are stay at home moms (which is fine, it’s what I did as well) then usually the dad is at work. Usually at least one parent goes to work.
I think it is a great move. Also the Beeston Bunch are moving too and your support for each other is amazing. Happy that we will be with you every step of the way, when you move.
I enjoy watching the B's because the content isn't full of pranks, and skits! Young couple in love and having children interdependent of and figuring it out. They are truly an inspirational family. Decisions are inevitable but it works so much better as a team. Love it!
We moved a lot while our 4 kids were growing up. Alaska for a few years and then built a house off grid and lived there in Upstate NY for 8 years. Home Educated for a dozen years sprinkled throughout those times. Took the gang to all the monuments we could in 35 of the 50 states. We just moved back to Indiana to be by family (5 yrs ago) so our youngest boys could pursue welding as a trade. They knocked it out of the park! Highest Honors and great jobs even before H.S. ended. My two oldest also did fantastic as well, scholarships and National Honor Society, the works. We always joined a church and we ALWAYS encouraged the kids to explore, wherever we lived or visited. They are not socially stunted at all. My best advice is to GO where you are led and don't look back. Forward is the only direction. God Bless your beautiful family!❤️🇺🇲🪻
As you start preparing for the move you will need to prepare Jack. All little ones will adjust to pretty much every change in their life, but with the bigger ones it helps to ease them into it. Talk about the new house and let him help pick out the theme and colors for his room. When packing make sure that he has his favorite items packed so he will have them as soon as he gets to Utah because things that get shipped can take forever and that is hard for little ones. You can do a countdown of sleeps to moving day. It might help to have a special surprise gift in his new bedroom (something small like a toy helicopter or whatever he happens to be into.) You could just have balloons and a treat. Depending on how crazy everything gets you might want him and Sunny to stay with a family member while you get everything moved in and setup to make it easier on you and reduce any meltdowns.
I'm so happy the Beeston Bunch and Beeston Fam are both going to Utah. After seeing the tears yesterday its happy tears today! And Sarah, you will love Phantom. I've seen it twice but in England.
My family recently left California (my home my whole life) and moved to Arkansas for similar reasons. My husbands family is here, I had never left, but I was pregnant with our son and the cost of living was hard. The logistics of moving was tough and I had to mourn a lot of how I imagined my family would be. That being said - we moved to get a home, share new adventures and nothing is permanent. Embrace the new space, you can always go back and you're building equity temporarily no matter what. We told ourselves we'd evaluate in 5 years and that's an okay way to think about it. The good news, while I'm not doing things I imagined with my son, I'm also doing things I didn't imagine in a great way and that's wonderful. The lower cost with kids is so darn helpful too for a while. We say that now we can go to the beach and enjoy it versus stressing all the time on cost of living.
Military spouse here, about to move for the fifth time in our five years of marriage. In my opinion the best thing you can do as you’re preparing to move is have things planned for after you arrive in your new home. Day trips, concerts, cool restaurants you want to visit, just generally things you can look forward to. For our upcoming move I’ve already found a play group for my baby, a cooking class I want to take, and planned a mini road trip. It helps to keep your focus on what you’re moving to in stead of what you’re leaving behind. Hope that helps!
Being a now retired Air Force mom, I can tell you a few things about moving...well, a LOT of things. 😆 1) Home is WHEREVER your little FAMILY is. We have lived all over the world. From Guam to Germany, to AZ to WI, and MN and GA. Home is ALWAYS where your family is. It is always different when you get settled in a new place than what you expected. There will be many changes when ever you move, but it is always about having a good attitude towards everything. (Aren't your parents both there in UT?) IT will be nice, if they are, to have your parents nearby will be an awesome and Amazing change now that you have kids. Your children will have the chance to possibly have a closer relationship with them. (Just wondering if your brother and Lo and their kids are staying in Hawaii or are they also moving back to UT? I was just curious.) I know you will love moving, your little family, as well as your extended family will be excited for you guys as well! P. S. Just curious, but when we lived on Guam, they warned us against using tap water to make formula because of things in the tap water that babies cannot/should not have. [Certain minerals, coral, a bit of salt (water)--simply because it is an island in the middle of the ocean.] And warned us to ONLY use bottled water or nursery water to make formula. I am not sure if that could have something to do with Sunny not gaining as much weight as she is supposed to? Just a thought. Things about Tap water may have changed since then as well. Was just a thought, if it helps, great, if not, just disregard. Keep up the awesome videos.
I made my son's bottles with bottled water for a long time. Then the doctor told me to start using tap water when he started growing teeth. I suppose it depends on where you live.
Only advice I can give you as a person that has had two small children a year apart and away from our family/friends was super hard and stressful. If moving to Utah means closer to family and friends then it’s absolutely a great idea!! As a young married couple with small babies - it’s needed and definitely a plus not only for you but for ur babies! Good luck on ur move! Ur babies are precious ❤
Thank you for addressing women's common dirty little secret with such a casual and natural approach, coming from a young beauty like you it means the world for a lot of us! 💖
I agree. I find it somewhat admirable of her to address something so many women face. I mean… I know it’s a promo & all but still. Too many women find incontinence shameful when it’s just biology & to see an influencer being so honest & open about such subjects is refreshing & hopefully helps other women who are dealing with similar issues!
Hi, guys. Military brat here - it takes time and love. You’re always going to miss it and even when you come back for visits it won’t be the same. There will be days the what ifs and the longing pop up. But time, immersing yourself into life in your new home, setting up routines but not settling in ruts, and showing yourself grace will help a ton. There are a couple of words that helped me process this when I was a kid; Hiraeth and gratitude. The first one is best researched because I won’t do it justice. For gratitude, don’t think of it as appreciative but rather as the feeling you get when you receive a gift. The anticipation, the excitement, the thanks, the enjoyment. Take a few moments to feel that as you prepare to leave Hawaii and arrive in Utah. Best of luck!
I hope you see THIS!! Home is where YOU MAKE IT!! As long as your together and you have the love and support of those you hold closest then nothing matters!! You WILL make it amazing no matter where you are !! You will have so much Love and support from family and having all the family able to help with the kiddies and the kids being around them all on a frequent basis will HELP you both get some time together!!! This is going to be an extremely good thing for you all!!! Just trust the process and don’t let negative feelings jump in your way!!! You’ve got this and I know you’ll flourish where ever you are xoxooxoxo
I'm from California, but I moved to Utah at the start of my senior year of high school. I met my husband there, our only child was born there. Looking back now, decades later, I realize that those were the favorite years of my life. Utah is so beautiful, with so many kind people, and if you love the outdoors it is a special kind of paradise. One of my regrets is ever leaving Utah - life for me has never been as good as it was there. I'm happy that Sarah, Derek, Jack & Sunny will be closer to their family 'back home', and I feel they are making the right decision. Utah is a fantastic place to raise children, too!
Been there. Moved a lot. I'm sure you all will have the support system you need. It's great that the other Beestons are moving back, too. I lived in Hawaii (on the Big Island) in the early 90s and I remember moving back to the mainland. Kids will adjust. You will adjust. Just make lots of visits back because, if there's one thing I *still* miss, it's the beach!
You are so family oriented. It’s okay to move to Utah because you are really committed to doing so. Both extended family and friends are there. You will be okay especially because of SNOW! I would definitely opt for Utah. We live on the east coast and it hardly snows anymore. I envy your youth! Life is in flux and know that you are the captain of your voyage. Life ahead, sees you making trips to Hawaii. You know the state now so, it will not be difficult to go back. You’re going to be fine because you have so much love in your family and surrounding you. Er’y tings gon be irie!❤️
My mom is a physiotherapist with a masters degree in the pelvic floor region and she sees a lot of post birth patients with incontinence issues and those issues are really treatable with pelvic floor training! I'm sure there is a therapist near you that would be able to help :)
I highly recommend that you go to pelvic floor physiotherapy. If you are serious about having four or five children it is a MUST do. In France (and ither European countries) you would be finished with your first series already, paid for by the government - THAT is how important it is!
Derek you are such an awesome Husband and Father- you’re doing great managing 2 little ones and Sarah you’re an exceptional Mom. Glad you’re getting away for a little vaca.You’ll love! Enjoy Phantom and Broadway is such an exciting area of NYC
My experience comes from my mom, she always said "you only have one life together" never leave your happiness, If there's a will to stay there's a way...... If you guys have any doubts at all about ending happiness or where you want your children to grow up follow your instincts and stay. I wish you both Good luck with your decision. 💕
I have only moved far away from home for 6 months so I can only partially relate to this. But right when I was walking through the airport to head back home and I was thinking about how I was excited to go home yet sad to leave the place I had made into my home as well, my Spotify discovery played a song called “early morning coffee cups” and those lyrics have stayed with me ever since: “When all the things I thought I knew Are fading like the mornin' dew When home is just a point of view All the while It took me 'round the world to see You are where I need to be” Sometimes you have to leave great things behind to find other great things. I’m sure this adventure will be amazing as well ❤
Just wanted to say that I have had 3 kids and couldn't breast feed any of them =( my milk never came in. I tried everything with my third. It's still so hard for me to see other mommas who got to BF for years. Also, I saw Phantom on Broadway back in 2006 and it was AMAZING!! I'm so glad you're getting to have that experience ♡
Me too I have three boys to her 10 pounders. When was a 9 pound or couldn’t breast-feed ! I never felt worse for it. I just knew as long as my baby was healthy and growing I was good. I went and saw phantom to at the Kern theater in San Francisco it was around 2007 ! That was the best I’ve ever seen beautiful ❤️
My husband and I lived in the Dominican Republic and had our first daughter there. We’re both from Nevada and I always thought I was desert rat, but I was so wrong. We’ve lived in NV, CA, AZ, and TX, but as it turns out island life in the DR was where I felt the most at home. We really connected with each other there and made tons of great friends, every day was an adventure! After having our first daughter there he convinced me that we should move back to the states to be closer to family, so we eventually ended up back in NV. After he found out I was pregnant with our second child, he became distant, began to drink a lot, and started seeing another woman that he worked with. Now, after 18 years of marriage, he moved to Alaska where he’s now living with his new girlfriend and her two kids and left me and our 2 girls back in NV. I’m currently trying to get a divorce, but I am having a hard time affording the attorney. Looking back, I wish we never would have left the Dominican Republic. I pray that if you do choose to move back to UT, that you continue to be so in love and never lose sight of the beautiful family you have built. If you’re truly happy in Hawaii, then think long and hard before packing up to leave. If you do leave, make sure you’re both 100% on board before diving into the next chapter. You asked for advice, that’s the best I can offer. Best wishes on whatever you choose 💕
I’m sorry for what you are going through. After nearly 24 years of marriage and 26 years of knowing each other my ex found himself a girlfriend and we divorced. I hope you are able to find a good lawyer. Hang in there.
Moving is hard no matter what the reason. Give yourself lots of time, like a year or more, to feel like Utah is truly home. It takes time but being around family and lifelong friends is very important. I don’t think you’ll regret moving to be near family. 🥰🙏🏼🥰🙏🏼
If your baby seems hungry but isn’t eating the full bottle, try going up in nipple size if you haven’t yet. She may want a faster flow. If you use a formula machine, they don’t always dump the full amount of formula into the water and so your baby will still be hungry. Hope it all gets better. ❤
Yes that’s great advice. Something I totally forgot about but I had to do it for one of my babies. I used to put a round toothpick into the nipple holes after washing then rinse again and leave to dry. That kept the hole open too. And it wasn’t too large of an opening. They’re usually a gradual thickness too so if the middle of the pick is too wide just move it down to where you want it. @TheBeestonFam
Yes, that is great advice! I worked with infants/ toddlers for about 8 years and low weight gain and the infant wanting to sleep so many times was due to the nipple hole being to small and the infant would wear itself out sucking and then fall asleep therefore not eating enough nor gaining proper weight. I love y’all’s videos, just happened on one a couple of days ago!
Very happy for you guys. I think apart from it being very sad to leave Hawaii you guys will have a great time back in Utah. Your going to be closer with family and friends and owning an own place where you guys can settle down. Sending the whole fam lots of love.
I believe your family will do great no matter where you go because your foundation as a family is so strong. Adventure and change is always important plus the snow is a lot of fun too. Canadian here, and I love all of our seasons. To many people don't like snow but I believe if you like it it will like you too 😅. I'm very happy for you all and I love your down to earth videos ❤
Love you guys. I want to mention a couple of things. Aside from the house, living in UT will be less expensive overall. Groceries will be cheaper, gas, cars, everything. You can always go back to visit.(Just like Matt & Abby!). I had to leave my elderly and ill father in Ohio to move to Phoenix. Nothing broke my heart more. It was so difficult at first, but it did get easier with the help of friends who I count as family. I did go back to visit him as much as possible. He passed away (z"l) 2.5 years after I left.
I agree, and going back to UT being close to family again with 2 little ones will mentally help so so much. I swear nothing like grandparents . And having to choose between living your life for you and living your life for someone or something else can be challenging butttt its a choice only you can make. And like Lo and Tanner said nothing is forever you can always change your mind and move back if you really don't like it. That's another bonus they are moving back to UT too, so the brothers wont be an ocean a part just a town or two again! oh and what does (z"l) mean???? and I'm sorry about your Daddio lost mine a few years back and ...... and well I'd give my hand to hug him, hear his laugh and get to smell him one more time. #daddysgirl
@@bemo98 beautiful, it's the simple things that we learn sometimes that end up with the most meaning. KWIM it falls perfectly as to how I feel about my dad as well so it seems to make it just a bit more special. He was such a wonderful kind and happy man, he was my blessing. Thank you so much for enlightening me with this saying. I'm going to google it and see how it is spoken so I can say it.
Just so you know, although it’s common in postpartum, it’s not normal to pee from doing normal things like laughing or sneezing (I just had a baby in December so I understand the struggle). Leakage like that is a sign that you have problems within your pelvic floor and this can be improved with physical therapy! It really helped me improve upon that problem, so I just thought I’d share that cause you shouldn’t have to wear pads to compensate for it. I can see they would be helpful though while working towards improving it!!
Just wanted to second this. Had issues at 15. Couldn't jump, cough or sneeze without full on peeing myself. Use to love jump roping but had to limit myself because of it and never when people were around and I didn't dare go on a trampoline. I did pelvic floor physical therapy now I don't have that issue anymore and I can jump rope and sneeze as much as I want.
My mom is a physiotherapist with a masters degree in the pelvic floor region and she sees a lot of post birth patients with incontinence issues and those issues are really treatable with pelvic floor training!
I'm 54 had 4 children born Naturally (my 3rd being 9lb 6oz) ....Ive never leaked like that, Bit I've always done pelvic floor exercises...What The hell!! X
Thanks for being so open and honest about your bladder issues. This medical issue seems to affect women of all ages. Unfortunately, women are made to feel embarrassed or ashamed about a medical condition that, for the most part, is out of our personal control. I've had 4 bladder tacs throughout the past 20 yrs, so I feel ya pain hun. I'm grateful to be with a loving partner who respects and is understanding of this very personal issue.😳 Also, remember, if it continues to get worse or out of your control, there's wonderful doctors that may offer other treatments that may benefit your personal and medical condition. 😀 Again, Lots of respect for your open honesty!
Hi Beeston family. I moved from where I grew up in Newfoundland and Labrador 25 years ago and I went to Edmonton to live and work, it was very stressful at first but as time went by I got used to it. Then I came back home and moved to St. John's for 17 years and I had to move back home that took a lot of getting used to because of the simple fact that here there are no theaters, bars or anything like that. But as time goes by I 'm getting used to living home so chin up and I know that all four of you will be able to make the change. I love you all so very much and best of luck in the future ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙 ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙 ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙
We lived in HI 6 years as well and loved every single moment of HI life. Was devastated and heartbroken to leave, still miss it so much. (Military: go where they send us.) My only advice is to find the good in every place and keep eyes forward so you don’t miss out on all the adventures each chapter brings. Keep the aloha in your soul and shine it everywhere. ❤ (Hoping we get to go back soon!!)
I cry every time I leave Hawaii. I feel fortunate to have visited most of the islands, some more than once. It’s been a dream to live there but it’s so expensive. I do understand your tears though. I hope Sunny will gain with the formula. She’s so sweet. Jack is changing so fast now! I wish you all the best.
25 years ago I moved alone from England to America. My whole family still live in England and I’m still out here living alone and living my best life!! Just embrace the change. I had planned to only live here for a year and then travel to Australia and then settle in France. When I got here I found my place and have been happier than I could ever imagine. Utah is going to be so exciting for you as there’s so much to do there. You can always go back to Hawaii for a visit!!
Anything you guys do, will work out! You have each other and both of your families in Utah. My husband and I moved across Canada 1 month after we got married and we've been out here almost 10 years. We love it!
I moved from the place I called home for my entire life and then I moved 3 hrs away which where I live is like a whole new world! But I can say I loved it and it made mine and my husband's relationship stronger. So just know that it's not always easy leaving the place u call home but it is possible to learn to adjust! It did take me about a month but my husband was very supportive and just kept telling me how much our kids will love it.
Try to soak up all the time you have left and make a bucket list of things you want to do before you leave Hawaii and spend time with the people you won’t see as much also I love your videos. Jack and Sunny are adorable and cute ❤❤❤
Hi guys, I hope you see this. I heard you say Sunny is under weight, I've learned that the baby breeza formula maker has a lot of complaints that the machines do not mix the right amount of powder into the water consistently and the babies were not getting enough calories. The machines don't give the full scoop of powder in every 2 ounces of water. Try mixing her bottles by hand and if her weight goes up you'll know its the machines fault. Plus she will sleep better with a happy tummy. Love ya!
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Ya I heard that to
I totally agree with this 👌
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Damm, I hope they see this; I hope more ppl like your comment.
Hi. I'm the 82 year old great-grandmom that has been following you for awhile now. We moved a lot while our six daughters were growing up. What I learned was simple... Home is where you and your family are. It doesn't matter where as long as you're all together making it work.
True! Explore new places as the kids grow. ❤
Amen!!
💯 TRUE❤
God Bless You All!! Beautiful family, beautiful couple, your hearts are in the Right place. God bless you for following your HEART ♥️ and your dreams always dreamBIG even with three little baby ducklings behind you. 💙💜🐥🐥🐥💖✝️ FAMILY FIRST❤ as you Always do!! Congratulations on your new home 🏠
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Derik is such a considerate husband. He encouraged Sarah to take naps and even takes the kids out so she can sleep. He's a really interactive dad too. Sarah your blessed
No she’s not blessed, that’s how it should be!
@@RonjaK4 regardless she is blessed.
@@RonjaK4 😆😁She really is fortunate that she selected a responsible husband who is also a great father. There, is that better?😉
@@denisedean2446 and he selected her. I think all good things are blessings.
...makes the rest of us look baad....🤨
We moved every four years at the beginning of our marriage. Moving with 6 kids was hard and I had to put my foot down and say we were staying at the next place. It is good for kids to put down roots, be involved, make friendships that last. The big one though, is that the grandparents can be more involved now, and Jack and Sunny need that more then you can imagine. They won’t be around forever. I got so much love and support from my grandparents. They meant the world to me.
You are so right about grandparents being important. Loving grandparents can enhance a loving family tremendously!
Spot on 🎯💙
Why did you move so much?
@@mmconceicao my husband was in law enforcement and we wanted a large family and for me to stay home with them. We had to move as he got promotions. When the oldest was 9 and the youngest was a baby, we didn’t move again until my husband retired, to let the kids grow roots.
I'm a Grandma and I love watching you guys. You are wonderful young parents and it warms my heart to see how well you both care for your children and each other. Marriage is work, and your obvious love, respect, and deep consideration for each other shows depth, maturity, and responsibility. Kudos to both of you.💖
Same here! I’m a grandma and 65. Look forward to watch you both and your growing family. Jack is so bright and Sunny so beautiful!!
Me too, I’m a grandmother as well and it’s so refreshing to see how you guys truly love one another and you’re so patient with each other. It’s like I’m watching a movie of a family from 1952 or something lol! I’m actually not that old, I was born in 1960 (still old though). But seriously, I really enjoy your videos.
Blessings over your beautiful, growing family. ❤
Doing an endless standing ovation 💝
Yes totally agree I to am a Grandma and love to see the respect this lovely young family have for each other. X
We have 5 children and if I ever did it over I’d never vaccinate….. ever🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
I love that woman your age can talk about bladder incontinence and not be derogatory and be open about it. It really sucks for those of us who suffer from it. It is life affecting in some ways. After I had twins sitting on my bladder for eight months, it was over for me. Lol.
Pelvic floor therapy should be offered to all women after birth, it’s so important! Other countries offer it to everyone
Agreed 💯💯💯
You can get surgery for it. Don’t have issues myself, but a norwegian influencer/author had (successful) surgery and has been very vocal about it in the media as it’s so common for women.
Vesicare is a miracle medicine
@@The.Caroline I’m recovering right now and I have hopes it’ll be successful!
Hey Beeston Family 👋🏼🥰 Wife of an Army veteran and I just wanted to say something about your conversation about being a little fearful of the upcoming move. We moved a lot as a young family with two babies. Every time he got new orders, I was always very nervous. You don’t know what to expect, whether you will enjoy it, and what if it just doesn’t feel like home. I had to change my mindset. Home is definitely what you make it and as long as I had my husband, and our babies, I was home. It didn’t matter where because we had each other!! Praying that y’all always feel at home wherever your journey takes you!
Watching the Lo and Tanner's video yesterday I cried when they told you they were moving back to Utah. I was thinking, oh no it isn't just that they are moving away from their brother, but best friends. So happy that you are all staying together. Change can be difficult even when positive. Neither Beeston families let travel slow them down, you all will be back. I can just imagine you all buying a Hawaiian home, a Beeston family compound to share together. You all are great, and everyone is excited to go on this next journey with you all.
I think it’s awesome that you would share something so personal so other young women won’t wonder if they’re the only ones!
OMGosh, Sunny looks just like Jack. They are both beautiful kids. If you're worried about the kids moving, they are very resilient. They adjust very quickly.
I swear moving away from Hawaii hits different than moving away from pretty much anywhere else. I moved there when I was 18 and lived there for many years (Big Island) and went to college there as well and its really where I kind of grew up and "came to age". Its just such a special magical place that its very, very hard and bittersweet to leave. Eventually, I felt like the island kind of had a "glass ceiling" feeling and that I had reached it and it was time to go. I still have friends that live there and I still visit every year which is really amazing! I still consider it my "heart home". I know you guys will make it work to keep Hawaii a part of your families lives and I'm glad you are listening to this calling to try something different...it won't lead you astray.
We moved away from Utah after 2 years of marriage, and loved where we ended up. But then, 8 years after that came that feeling you described that it was time to make another change. I never thought moving back to Utah was the change we were going to make, but we did. Building your family on your own is amazing and powerful and you find a strength that is all your own. But you will LOVE being close to family again, and building new relationships. And your Hawaii family will never end. Our kids love the snow and it's added a whole new level of outdoor adventure for us. It's okay to be happy, excited, sad, scared, nervous, ready and not ready--you're allowed to have all the feels. Best wishes for you on your journey back home!
Hello from France, I'm a new follower & came across this video. Although leaving Hawaii is difficult, your instinct as parents is telling you that moving to Utah is in the best interests of your children. Not only will you be able to set down roots by buying a house but you will also have a network of friends & family which is the best situation for bringing up kids. Bravo to both of you for being mature enough to make this decision. Kind wishes from the French Pyrenees.
I love utah ...
Yeah since Derrick's bro and his wife and their two girls are moving it'll be best for all the kids!
I love your sunglasses, France! 💖
@@Good-DaySunshine Merci beaucoup ! In fact, I'm writing from France. It's not my christian name. 🙂
I love Paris and I love the beauty of France!
Having spent the first year of our first baby’s life in the Bahamas we really became used to the laid back lifestyle. So I can understand leaving a paradise to move back to the place you grew up is a little scary. Once we moved back home (Canada) it became clear that there was so many more opportunities for our family to build a home and lifestyle that would sustain every dream we had. I hope this helps a little. ❤️
100% Derik telling Sarah she needed a nap and to go now, was like a total blessing... not many men are like that... trust me it shows how much you care about each other and its so heartwarming to watch
I like how when Sarah is talking Derrick listens and never interrupts. ❤. Very thoughtful!
Doesn’t go both ways though 🤣
We must have been watching different videos, cuz I noticed them both interrupting each other a few times.
@@melbelle3162 yes I noticed that also. But generally when she’s talking he listens. And generally when he’s talking, she interrupts. I was trying to be more positive about it than calling her out ;)
What😂 they both interrupt each other!😅
@@melbelle3162 me too!
At least you and your brother/ sister-in-law are doing this together. So you can share in each other's happy and stressful times. A big change is scary but there are so many new things to look forward to. I've moved from coast to coast from Iowa and I always found new and wonderful experiences and made sooooo many new friends along the way. Remember to talk things out and keep communication on top of the list. Congratulations on your new adventure can't wait to see new pictures and videos from Utah!!!
Thank you for talking about incontinence. I haven’t personally dealt with it but most of the other moms in my life have. It can really be embarrassing. Having a beautiful strong woman like you speak on the subject can make a difference in so many women’s lives.
Please look into pelvic floor therapy❤ all women should be informed of it after birth. Incontinence isn’t a common thing in some other countries who offer it regularly
My Dr gave me instructions on how to do the pelvic exercises and that has helped me a lot 💗
Pericalm... brilliant piece of kit... fixed mine.
Hi guys. 2009 my husband, youngest son and I moved to Cape Town, South Africa and life was amazing. The only problem was family was back in thr UK and it was hard being separated. Fast forward 5 years and my health starts to get worse and things were starting to go down hill in South Africa, we decided to leave. Moving back to the UK was the best thing we could have done and we are all so much happier that family are closer by (not too close haha). Whenever we talk of Cape Town my heart yearns for the people we met and the friends we made. Anyway I digress, my health has gotten worse since getting back and having the support of family about is 100% worth the move. With 2 young children I bet you are going to be inundated with grandparents offering free childcare. Take the help, share the love. Your parents are going to be so happy getting to share this stage in your children's life. Hawaii will always be there for you guys for holidays or maybe when the kids get bigger you can reassess. Only you know what is going to work for you. All I can say is goog luck and enjoy wherever you end up.
I am so sorry about your health getting worse. I hope you are feeling better and will pray for continued good health.
For those struggling with UI, it might help finding a physical therapist that specializes in pelvic floor therapy. It’s not as well known as an option, but learning how to strengthen your pelvic floor can improve control of your bladder. Gynecologists are usually aware of those types of therapists in the area!
I wish for every woman to be able to get this treatment, as here in Germany this is part of your postpartum care by a midwife who are all trained for this and universal healthcare covers the full cost
@@Laleloveslemons So schaut es aus. Ich war ein wenig geschockt darüber, als sie erzählte wie viele Frauen in den USA damit Probleme nach der Schwangerschaft haben.
Worked a dream for me after having 3 big babies. a woman I know had the operation rather than do the work with the physio, everything changed for her peeing and not for the better. Get a specialist physio can’t recommend this enough.
Absolutely. And any kind of persistent pelvic pain whether pregnant or not, getting physically ready to give birth, physical therapists can help a great deal with that too.
Yes! Kegels are a great exercise to strengthen the pelvic floor and super easy once you know how to do them. Any pelvic floor specialist will recommend these! I'm sure there is much more they will recommend as well but Kegels are something easy you can do anytime anywhere for free!
You guys are sweet and transparent. We moved our children after they were in school and it was so hard for them It''s good that you're doing the big moves before Jack's in school.
You will always feel like both places are home, and yearn for the one you're not living in! I moved 600 miles away at 26. Had my son at 28, my career as well took off... but 17 years later I moved back "home". And I yearn for the other place. When I visit, it feels so right. It's hard to explain, but hopefully you can make Hawaii part of your future where you can live part time in Utah, and part time in Hawaii❤️
We lived in Hawaii for 9 years all together. We met some of our military family there. That will be our family forever. ❤ Some didn’t accept us much as others in Hawaii but they never ruined it for us. Hawaii is and always will be a special place for us. I love the island and the people that call it home. Congratulations on building your own home.
My husband and I moved to Hawaii after he retired early. Lived there for 2 1/2 years. We lived in Lanikai. I couldn’t adjust. I couldn’t stand the humidity and the neighbors were all stand-offish.
I had an 8 hour layover in Hawaii, on my way to Guam. I had a friend there and she and her husband showed me around the island. I loved Guam's weather, similar to Hawaii's. I was in Guam for a year. I didn't like the typhoon that came my way. Left there came back home to Florida and the hurricanes. 😂
I hated living in Hawaii. Navy brat. I guess it's different for kids because the native islander kids would regularly attack my sister and I in school. Even their parents got involved with verbal abuse. It was truly traumatizing for us as children.
@@shillsdontspookme9208 - I remember news reports about fights between local kids and military kids. I think one high school over near Aiea had to change their sports games from Friday nights to Saturday daytime due to problems at the night games.
Don’t look back, look forward and see Utah through your children’s eyes. You’ll all be together and it’ll be good. It’s another chapter in your life-long adventures as the Beestons. 🎉
Well spoken. Look forward on the new memories you will create with your family. However, you can always plan a vacation back to Hawaii and meet up with your friends every two or three years or so. Happy and safe travels!
I moved with my fiancé from London to small town New Zealand. ( MASSIVE culture shock) all I can suggest is keeping it real for the kiddies. Be in the moment as much as possible. Make a small book of photos of all the places the kids love in Hawaii. Laminate the pages with the photos on. Punch 2 or 3 holes on the side. And put those silver clip rings. And then the kids will always have thier Hawaii story with them in book form. This has worked for my kids in lots of different situations. 💜💜 wishing you all a smooth transition. ❤
Great idea ,both Sarah and Lo can do this together for their young new readers !
I'm in New Zealand! I'm on the Kapiti Coast, which is an hour up the coast from Wellington.
If you get too much of a culture shock, try and make regular trips to Wellington, Christchurch or Auckland.
I just left my family to live 14 hours away with my fiancé. It's definitely hard and an adjustment, but worth it. I We're both from military fathers and still found it hard to move. At the end of the day it's whatever will be best for your family and what will make you happy. I am the happiest where I moved to and I'm very thankful that there's the internet to call home when I get home sick.
I just feel sorry for your family. We have a very close family and now all my kids are grown and live far away except for one and he’s on the road all the time. Now I fight depression all the time.
Hope y’all weren’t on the plane that almost crashed over Maui
@@janblackman6204 I’m sorry that that’s your experience. It is extremely hard, but as my dad says “Distance makes the conversations and in-person visits all the more special.”
I am older, but I moved to Az from IL about 7 and a half years ago. Life wasnt real good in IL for about 4 years before I left.It took me about 6 years to miss the small things in Illnois (season changes, daylight savings time, greenery)..but most of all I missed my lifelong friends and church in lL. I knew about 6 months before I moved back to Illinois it felt right. I had no doubt when I was moving back. Fast forward a year and a half later. I have zero regrets. I am glad I got the warm climate out of my system, but I no longer take for granted the things that make things home. Small things, like parks, restaurants I have visited since a child, etc, mean so much more to me now. I think you are going to be thrilled. As Dorthy said with 2 heal clicks "there is no place like home." You are a precious family. It will be OK. I feel it with you.❤️❤️❤️
@@ValkyrKat1488 I guess I’m just selfish. I helped raise 12 of my grandkids. I mean they were here every day. Then they grew up and moved away also so I don’t get to see them either. Someone once said that if your children grow up to be independent and strong adults then you know you did your job as a parent. Well I must have been the best.
When Sunny gets full and doesn’t finish her bottle, you can try to give her a little break and then try again in like 20 minutes or so. Even if she still isn’t able to finish the entire bottle, she still should be able to get more down, and if you do that for each feeding, it will really add up. Hope this helps, and good luck with your move! 💙
I'm glad the whole family will be together.💖 the grandparents will be so happy. They can be involved in their grandkids lives not just see them a few times a year. Family is so important. Congratulations ☺🙌❤
I want to tell you both that I admire your strength so much. I haven't been following as long as your OG's 😅 but I instantly recognized that you have HUGE hearts. I can only imagine how hard the move will be for you. I will miss seeing all of you in Hawaii. I spent 5 days there after I celebrated my 5th year cancer free. I went by myself. This was huge because I had never went anywhere by myself. I met a family within 15 minutes of getting to my hotel and I ended up spending a lot of time with them and had the time of my life. That Island stole my heart. I actually cried the day I had to leave. Everything is just so different there. I truly felt like the Island was a living, breathing person comforting me the entire time. This probably sounds crazy. I feel like I have never really been able to adequately describe the feeling. You share so much of your lives with so many people. I think that is so brave and I have total faith that you will be happy wherever you are located because it's obvious that you are each other's HOME.
Utah is his first home.
As someone who has moved consistently since I was a child, I can tell you that kids adapt. Being an adult I will tell you that nothing is more important to a child than having grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins around, while growing up. It is a sense of stability that I never had. I think that is the most important thing. You both are doing a great job and making the right decision to move back to Utah. ❤
I agree being with family is more important than where you live and your kids growing up with other cousins it’s the best. Definitely worth the move.
So true!
I don't understand why you would leave Hawaii to go to Utah. I was born in the States and was raised in Brazil and then we moved back to corny Jersey, then l moved to Florida but came back here to Jersey for family. And well my family is horrible, people change, l caught a life threatening lung disease bc of a drug addict that lived on the 2nd floor. So yes you can get very sick from second hand smoke. Don't leave.
It's so hard to leave a place you consider home, try to reframe it not as leaving but as starting a new adventure. Hawaii and all the memories you made there will always be with you. Utah also probably has a special place in your heart from your time growing up there. But now it can be a new adventure for the 4 of you together
Seriously, Jack has the BEST laugh!
2 things to try with Sunny
1) try keeping the pacifier away from her before her feeding (reason: She might suck longer on bottle because she hasn’t tired out from pacifier).
2) make the hole in nipple larger (reason: could be the hole is too small & she doesn’t want to suck so hard).
You are both such great parents. These are just a few other things to try.
Good advice. Also, if she isn’t fussing, don’t try and get her to suck on the pacifier, if she is crying, try to help her calm without it.
Those are some great tips. I hope they see your comment
Not all babies can handle a fast flow nipple they choke.. also Binkies don’t always tire them out.. I have had 3 premature babies and 2 of them had FTT Failure to thrive(Did not gain well) They were switched to a 23cal Formula and they gained weight great, They slept better and they were not nearly as fussy as they were prior to being switched..
I seem to remember that when my brother #6 was born prematurely way back in 1968(1 month early, weighing 6 lbs 10 oz; developed lung disease, but is fine now) he was sent home with special nipples for bottles. They were red and were much easier for preemies to suck. So something like that might be an option.
She might want to check for lip ties too. My niece wasn’t nursing well and struggling to gain weight because of it
Growing up in Hawaii and leaving at 51 years old was very difficult for my husband and I. It has been three years in Texas and we are still adjusting. We miss the culture, beautiful beaches and mountains, weather, food, people and family. You have a beautiful family, positive attitudes and loving and caring marriage, together you will have an amazing new journey.
I'm from Southern California now living in Oklahoma since I was 50 (now 56), but Hawaii to Texas, that's way rough! I never did adjust to Oklahoma. I wish you much better fortune with your current state.
Texas!? Good Lord.....
I'm excited for you; I'm even more excited for the grandparents who get to love on your babies. It's a grandma thing!! I raised my family, and then I lost my hubby of 28 yrs. A couple of yrs later, I met a lovely man who was a nurse. All of our kids are grown, and we started traveling. He is now a travel nurse!! We did that for the first 4 yrs we lived in 5 states. In 4 yrs, we retire in 22 months, then back towards Idaho/Wyoming! You will be making memories no matter where you go, I'm sure; at some point in the future, you will be back in Hawaii. Just remember, All who wander are not lost!! Love your little family!!
Grandparents will love your move.
My fiancé and I moved from OH to live in CO. We were there for 7 years, moved away from everything we knew and loved to a whole new world. Man was it amazing, creating our own community and family! But come 2020 we moved back home and it’s been the best decision! Feel all feels, it’s so overwhelming to feel both sad and happy at once. Your family will be so happy to have you guys home!!
I feel like I know you guys . I’ve been watching you for quite some time, and I feel like your babies are my grandbabies.. I have a son 51 years old and I don’t have any grandkids because he’s developmentally disabled but enjoying your babies and others for my grand children is great. Thank you so much for your videos and your channel and good luck to whatever you do in life 💜😊
Whatever you guys are doing, we will be here to support you guys. We'll miss this house but we're ready for the new house.
Stay safe out there!
Its funny you guys looks like the surfer family. I hope your happy in Utah but I think you will be so homesick for Hawaii
Since you guys are looking for advice in dealing with your mixed emotions about the move, I'd like to share a little tip. Watching videos of people traveling to Utah and having fun will help you amplify that exitement. The more you focus on that, the less difficult it will be to leave this place that you also love. I've had to move many times, I know the feeling. Sending you lots of love 💜🌸
Don’t leave Hawaii its cheaper to leave than it is to move back.
Quick life story/background: lived my whole adolescence in Texas until I graduated high school and moved to Utah for school. Got married and we moved to a completely different state after 1.5 years of being married. Looking back, moving away from family and your hometown is great, especially as a young couple because you rely on each other and create your own life. But also having family around once you’ve done that is great! It’s good to have different experiences. Best of luck on your new adventure and can’t wait to see it!
You both should get a piece of paper and makes lists titled why to stay, why to move. Compare your lists but remember nothing is set in stone, things can always be changed, moves can be made!! What is the most important to you both: family, friends, experiences, activities, expectations for the future, etc... Be happy! Everything is changeable!
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Excellent advice
Sounds like most of the pro-Hawaii list would be Derik's and most of the pro-Utah list would be Sarah's.
They have property and are building a house in Utah. They probably did the pros and cons a year ago
@@JakeKoenig being near family is huge when you have littlies
I absolutely love watching the joy between father and son while you two are playing, both at the park and at home!! 💚🧡💙
A such pretty inspiration to I find a love like that!!!!
YOU ARE SO SWEET to share this information with people about the pads. So real. Good for you.
My husband and I moved from Colorado to the east and it was extremely difficult. But, both of our families live back east and we wanted to to have kids and be able to be around grandparents, aunt's/uncles, cousins, etc. We miss Colorado every day, but like you guys said, something about it just felt "right". We know in our hearts that this isn't the final destination, and we'll get back out there someday. We also have talked about moving to Utah when/if we move back west. Can't deny the adventure those states hold and we want our kids to grow up with all that wilderness.
Best of luck to your family!
When I was a little older than you, I left my home in NJ and moved to Florida almost sight unseen (I moved for work). It was so hard to leave my family and friends but I couldn’t pass up the opportunity. When I moved to Florida, I knew no one, so you guys are starting over with your Home Base! Just think of all the adventures and memories you will make with your family. For me, moving to Florida was the start of my second chapter. It’s where I got married and met so many people. You four will be just fine.
We left SLC for San Jose, CA back in 2013 due to my husband's job. We were leaving all of family and friends and it was difficult. I never could make any real friends which was so weird for me because I always made good friends right away in the past no matter were I was. It was super hard for my daughter. She would shed tears often over it even though we go back every year during FanX. Three weeks ago we relocated to the Houston area. What a change! Just the kindness of people there amazed me not to mention the drop in prices on just about everything from gas to rent. Even my daughter was excited and happy for it. Change is frequently difficult but I think it's necessary for growth. I hope it all works out for you guys and I can't help but think how cool it would be to run into you all on one of my trips back to Utah. You are such amazing people!Thanks for sharing.
The Bay Area can be so hard to make real friends! It’s just a weird place in some ways. Glad you’re in a good place now :)
Support systems are key. Enjoy extended family while they're here to enjoy them. Let grandparents and parents share the love. Hawaii isn't going anywhere. You can always go back when the kids are grown. I learned never to live my life with the expectation that my children would want to share in my plans for them as they got older. They don't. And they shouldn't. They have their own ideas.
Matt and Abby ❤️❤️
Just moved from California, where I lived all my life. I joined my family in Tennessee and was very scared to leave my home base and friends. It’s been wonderful being near my family again so don’t be scared. You can always go back. Enjoy the journey. Your family is beautiful
We left the place we loved to move back “home” when our kids were little. I feel how you guys feel! We stayed for five years, got some things under our belt, and moved back to the place we love. Nothing is permanent. ❤
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Jack and Sunny are the cutest babies, you two are amazing parents ❤️
It’s like I told Tanner and Lo on their channel….it’s almost always hard to move, even while being excited for the next chapter. This is true, especially when you’ve had good experiences where you have been. Both of you now are family heads…both of you are maturing and you realize that with moves, that brings changes. Some are fun and exciting, but I think you realize down deep that some of those changes are going to hurt and that is partially why it is so hard. Unfortunately, it is part of the growing process. You both have this though! You are going to be fine, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Hang in there, you’ve got this!
I think it is great that Daddy takes an interest in Sunny's Doctor appointments. Too many Dad's don't.
I agree 100%, that's so amazing!! Altho, I have to admit that while I have always taken my boys to their Dr appts, it not because my husband refuses, he's an amazing dad & husband and would be happy to take them. It's simply because I'm a control freak when it comes to that. I know that I really need to let go of some of that control and allow him to do these things.
He is a great reminder of how many men out there just aren’t showing up for their children or wives.
Most dads are at work during the day.
@@heythere1640uh and moms don't work during the day??? 🙄
@@droid2D2C3P0 A lot of moms do, but if they are stay at home moms (which is fine, it’s what I did as well) then usually the dad is at work. Usually at least one parent goes to work.
I think it is a great move. Also the Beeston Bunch are moving too and your support for each other is amazing. Happy that we will be with you every step of the way, when you move.
I mean Derrik and Tanner are brothers so the Beeston Bunch are actually family and both Derrik and Tanner have a very close relationship
@@elizabethpicklesimer2720 yes I knew that.
I enjoy watching the B's because the content isn't full of pranks, and skits! Young couple in love and having children interdependent of and figuring it out. They are truly an inspirational family. Decisions are inevitable but it works so much better as a team. Love it!
We moved a lot while our 4 kids were growing up. Alaska for a few years and then built a house off grid and lived there in Upstate NY for 8 years. Home Educated for a dozen years sprinkled throughout those times. Took the gang to all the monuments we could in 35 of the 50 states. We just moved back to Indiana to be by family (5 yrs ago) so our youngest boys could pursue welding as a trade. They knocked it out of the park! Highest Honors and great jobs even before H.S. ended. My two oldest also did fantastic as well, scholarships and National Honor Society, the works. We always joined a church and we ALWAYS encouraged the kids to explore, wherever we lived or visited. They are not socially stunted at all. My best advice is to GO where you are led and don't look back. Forward is the only direction. God Bless your beautiful family!❤️🇺🇲🪻
As you start preparing for the move you will need to prepare Jack. All little ones will adjust to pretty much every change in their life, but with the bigger ones it helps to ease them into it. Talk about the new house and let him help pick out the theme and colors for his room. When packing make sure that he has his favorite items packed so he will have them as soon as he gets to Utah because things that get shipped can take forever and that is hard for little ones. You can do a countdown of sleeps to moving day. It might help to have a special surprise gift in his new bedroom (something small like a toy helicopter or whatever he happens to be into.) You could just have balloons and a treat. Depending on how crazy everything gets you might want him and Sunny to stay with a family member while you get everything moved in and setup to make it easier on you and reduce any meltdowns.
I'm so happy the Beeston Bunch and Beeston Fam are both going to Utah. After seeing the tears yesterday its happy tears today! And Sarah, you will love Phantom. I've seen it twice but in England.
My family recently left California (my home my whole life) and moved to Arkansas for similar reasons. My husbands family is here, I had never left, but I was pregnant with our son and the cost of living was hard. The logistics of moving was tough and I had to mourn a lot of how I imagined my family would be. That being said - we moved to get a home, share new adventures and nothing is permanent. Embrace the new space, you can always go back and you're building equity temporarily no matter what. We told ourselves we'd evaluate in 5 years and that's an okay way to think about it. The good news, while I'm not doing things I imagined with my son, I'm also doing things I didn't imagine in a great way and that's wonderful. The lower cost with kids is so darn helpful too for a while. We say that now we can go to the beach and enjoy it versus stressing all the time on cost of living.
Where you going to beach in Ark.
@@bonnieplattner3094 We've got tons of lakes fortunately! So we've got our water that way :) and this way we can afford great beach vacations
But the best part about moving back home is the kids will be with their grandparents seeing to love grow between them will make your heart melt
Military spouse here, about to move for the fifth time in our five years of marriage. In my opinion the best thing you can do as you’re preparing to move is have things planned for after you arrive in your new home. Day trips, concerts, cool restaurants you want to visit, just generally things you can look forward to. For our upcoming move I’ve already found a play group for my baby, a cooking class I want to take, and planned a mini road trip. It helps to keep your focus on what you’re moving to in stead of what you’re leaving behind. Hope that helps!
Great idea....!
Being a now retired Air Force mom, I can tell you a few things about moving...well, a LOT of things. 😆 1) Home is WHEREVER your little FAMILY is. We have lived all over the world. From Guam to Germany, to AZ to WI, and MN and GA. Home is ALWAYS where your family is. It is always different when you get settled in a new place than what you expected. There will be many changes when ever you move, but it is always about having a good attitude towards everything. (Aren't your parents both there in UT?) IT will be nice, if they are, to have your parents nearby will be an awesome and Amazing change now that you have kids. Your children will have the chance to possibly have a closer relationship with them. (Just wondering if your brother and Lo and their kids are staying in Hawaii or are they also moving back to UT? I was just curious.) I know you will love moving, your little family, as well as your extended family will be excited for you guys as well!
P. S. Just curious, but when we lived on Guam, they warned us against using tap water to make formula because of things in the tap water that babies cannot/should not have. [Certain minerals, coral, a bit of salt (water)--simply because it is an island in the middle of the ocean.] And warned us to ONLY use bottled water or nursery water to make formula. I am not sure if that could have something to do with Sunny not gaining as much weight as she is supposed to? Just a thought. Things about Tap water may have changed since then as well. Was just a thought, if it helps, great, if not, just disregard. Keep up the awesome videos.
Yes they had video about other family moving to to Utah
I made my son's bottles with bottled water for a long time. Then the doctor told me to start using tap water when he started growing teeth. I suppose it depends on where you live.
Only advice I can give you as a person that has had two small children a year apart and away from our family/friends was super hard and stressful. If moving to Utah means closer to family and friends then it’s absolutely a great idea!! As a young married couple with small babies - it’s needed and definitely a plus not only for you but for ur babies! Good luck on ur move! Ur babies are precious ❤
Thank you for addressing women's common dirty little secret with such a casual and natural approach, coming from a young beauty like you it means the world for a lot of us! 💖
Yes, I thought so as well. I’ve only now at 58 experiencing this. I was thinking it’s just an old lady thing 😮Kudos to her for sharing.
Hi Helena. Are you Brazilian??? I thought here your name looks like Brazilian name
I agree. I find it somewhat admirable of her to address something so many women face. I mean… I know it’s a promo & all but still. Too many women find incontinence shameful when it’s just biology & to see an influencer being so honest & open about such subjects is refreshing & hopefully helps other women who are dealing with similar issues!
Look up Kegel exercises. Free, natural and changes your sex life!
@@coldwindblowing not Brazilian, but technically same language, Portuguese 🇵🇹
Hi, guys. Military brat here - it takes time and love. You’re always going to miss it and even when you come back for visits it won’t be the same. There will be days the what ifs and the longing pop up. But time, immersing yourself into life in your new home, setting up routines but not settling in ruts, and showing yourself grace will help a ton. There are a couple of words that helped me process this when I was a kid; Hiraeth and gratitude. The first one is best researched because I won’t do it justice. For gratitude, don’t think of it as appreciative but rather as the feeling you get when you receive a gift. The anticipation, the excitement, the thanks, the enjoyment. Take a few moments to feel that as you prepare to leave Hawaii and arrive in Utah. Best of luck!
Oh my gosh I work for a DME company and all I do is resupply for incontinence products! So common and awesome that you addressed this subject 💕
I hope you see THIS!!
Home is where YOU MAKE IT!! As long as your together and you have the love and support of those you hold closest then nothing matters!! You WILL make it amazing no matter where you are !! You will have so much Love and support from family and having all the family able to help with the kiddies and the kids being around them all on a frequent basis will HELP you both get some time together!!! This is going to be an extremely good thing for you all!!! Just trust the process and don’t let negative feelings jump in your way!!! You’ve got this and I know you’ll flourish where ever you are xoxooxoxo
You said that so much better than I did in a much more concise way absolutely so happy I read your post this is going to help me too❤
I'm from California, but I moved to Utah at the start of my senior year of high school. I met my husband there, our only child was born there. Looking back now, decades later, I realize that those were the favorite years of my life. Utah is so beautiful, with so many kind people, and if you love the outdoors it is a special kind of paradise. One of my regrets is ever leaving Utah - life for me has never been as good as it was there. I'm happy that Sarah, Derek, Jack & Sunny will be closer to their family 'back home', and I feel they are making the right decision. Utah is a fantastic place to raise children, too!
the smart people are leaving california, a failed state
Been there. Moved a lot. I'm sure you all will have the support system you need. It's great that the other Beestons are moving back, too. I lived in Hawaii (on the Big Island) in the early 90s and I remember moving back to the mainland. Kids will adjust. You will adjust. Just make lots of visits back because, if there's one thing I *still* miss, it's the beach!
You really taught Jack how to balance himself so well. 🥰
Excited that you're going to be with your brother and Lo. That and the rest of the family will surround you with love!
You are so family oriented. It’s okay to move to Utah because you are really committed to doing so. Both extended family and friends are there. You will be okay especially because of SNOW! I would definitely opt for Utah. We live on the east coast and it hardly snows anymore. I envy your youth! Life is in flux and know that you are the captain of your voyage. Life ahead, sees you making trips to Hawaii. You know the state now so, it will not be difficult to go back. You’re going to be fine because you have so much love in your family and surrounding you. Er’y tings gon be irie!❤️
I hope your move goes well. Sunny is so cute. I love the way that Jack loves Sunny.
Moving is so much work! And we are all hardwired to “make home”. Wherever your family is, there is home. You will make it beautiful, in every way.😊
Jack is talking so clear. So so cute!
I saw Phantom of the Opera in New York you will love it. Congratulations on everything ❤
My mom is a physiotherapist with a masters degree in the pelvic floor region and she sees a lot of post birth patients with incontinence issues and those issues are really treatable with pelvic floor training! I'm sure there is a therapist near you that would be able to help :)
I totally agree.
and it is easy the first time after giving birth to get it away
This
This is basically what I was going to say. I have honestly used exercises after both of my births and didn't have any problems.
I highly recommend that you go to pelvic floor physiotherapy. If you are serious about having four or five children it is a MUST do. In France (and ither European countries) you would be finished with your first series already, paid for by the government - THAT is how important it is!
You’re truly a great dad!! And awesome for helping out!! Love you guys! Good luck with Utah!
Derek you are such an awesome Husband and Father- you’re doing great managing 2 little ones and Sarah you’re an exceptional Mom. Glad you’re getting away for a little vaca.You’ll love! Enjoy Phantom and Broadway is such an exciting area of NYC
I love the Beeston fam. They are just so Fricken adorable and i just can’t! I’m so happy for you guys! ❤
My experience comes from my mom, she always said "you only have one life together" never leave your happiness, If there's a will to stay there's a way...... If you guys have any doubts at all about ending happiness or where you want your children to grow up follow your instincts and stay. I wish you both Good luck with your decision. 💕
I have only moved far away from home for 6 months so I can only partially relate to this. But right when I was walking through the airport to head back home and I was thinking about how I was excited to go home yet sad to leave the place I had made into my home as well, my Spotify discovery played a song called “early morning coffee cups” and those lyrics have stayed with me ever since:
“When all the things I thought I knew
Are fading like the mornin' dew
When home is just a point of view
All the while
It took me 'round the world to see
You are where I need to be”
Sometimes you have to leave great things behind to find other great things. I’m sure this adventure will be amazing as well ❤
Just wanted to say that I have had 3 kids and couldn't breast feed any of them =( my milk never came in. I tried everything with my third. It's still so hard for me to see other mommas who got to BF for years.
Also, I saw Phantom on Broadway back in 2006 and it was AMAZING!! I'm so glad you're getting to have that experience ♡
I couldn’t either my boy wouldn’t latch on
@@Hayley-db2pz I had that problem with my first =(
Me too I have three boys to her 10 pounders. When was a 9 pound or couldn’t breast-feed ! I never felt worse for it. I just knew as long as my baby was healthy and growing I was good. I went and saw phantom to at the Kern theater in San Francisco it was around 2007 ! That was the best I’ve ever seen beautiful ❤️
My husband and I lived in the Dominican Republic and had our first daughter there. We’re both from Nevada and I always thought I was desert rat, but I was so wrong. We’ve lived in NV, CA, AZ, and TX, but as it turns out island life in the DR was where I felt the most at home. We really connected with each other there and made tons of great friends, every day was an adventure! After having our first daughter there he convinced me that we should move back to the states to be closer to family, so we eventually ended up back in NV. After he found out I was pregnant with our second child, he became distant, began to drink a lot, and started seeing another woman that he worked with. Now, after 18 years of marriage, he moved to Alaska where he’s now living with his new girlfriend and her two kids and left me and our 2 girls back in NV. I’m currently trying to get a divorce, but I am having a hard time affording the attorney. Looking back, I wish we never would have left the Dominican Republic. I pray that if you do choose to move back to UT, that you continue to be so in love and never lose sight of the beautiful family you have built. If you’re truly happy in Hawaii, then think long and hard before packing up to leave. If you do leave, make sure you’re both 100% on board before diving into the next chapter. You asked for advice, that’s the best I can offer. Best wishes on whatever you choose 💕
Or Las Vegas NV...the 9th Island.
I’m sorry for what you are going through. After nearly 24 years of marriage and 26 years of knowing each other my ex found himself a girlfriend and we divorced. I hope you are able to find a good lawyer. Hang in there.
Moving is hard no matter what the reason. Give yourself lots of time, like a year or more, to feel like Utah is truly home. It takes time but being around family and lifelong friends is very important. I don’t think you’ll regret moving to be near family. 🥰🙏🏼🥰🙏🏼
Home is wherever you and the kids are together, doesn't matter the state. You are great parents and a great couple so it will be fine. Congrats!
Thank you so much Sarah .We should all share 💜
If your baby seems hungry but isn’t eating the full bottle, try going up in nipple size if you haven’t yet. She may want a faster flow. If you use a formula machine, they don’t always dump the full amount of formula into the water and so your baby will still be hungry. Hope it all gets better. ❤
Yes that’s great advice. Something I totally forgot about but I had to do it for one of my babies. I used to put a round toothpick into the nipple holes after washing then rinse again and leave to dry. That kept the hole open too. And it wasn’t too large of an opening. They’re usually a gradual thickness too so if the middle of the pick is too wide just move it down to where you want it. @TheBeestonFam
Yes, that is great advice! I worked with infants/ toddlers for about 8 years and low weight gain and the infant wanting to sleep so many times was due to the nipple hole being to small and the infant would wear itself out sucking and then fall asleep therefore not eating enough nor gaining proper weight.
I love y’all’s videos, just happened on one a couple of days ago!
One of my kids needed the orthodontic nipple. He couldn’t suck the regular nipple
Very happy for you guys. I think apart from it being very sad to leave Hawaii you guys will have a great time back in Utah. Your going to be closer with family and friends and owning an own place where you guys can settle down. Sending the whole fam lots of love.
I believe your family will do great no matter where you go because your foundation as a family is so strong. Adventure and change is always important plus the snow is a lot of fun too. Canadian here, and I love all of our seasons. To many people don't like snow but I believe if you like it it will like you too 😅. I'm very happy for you all and I love your down to earth videos ❤
I just watched Lauren and Tanners video that they’re moving to Utah too!!! That’s so fun that you guys will still be together!!!
Love you guys. I want to mention a couple of things. Aside from the house, living in UT will be less expensive overall. Groceries will be cheaper, gas, cars, everything. You can always go back to visit.(Just like Matt & Abby!). I had to leave my elderly and ill father in Ohio to move to Phoenix. Nothing broke my heart more. It was so difficult at first, but it did get easier with the help of friends who I count as family. I did go back to visit him as much as possible. He passed away (z"l) 2.5 years after I left.
I agree, and going back to UT being close to family again with 2 little ones will mentally help so so much. I swear nothing like grandparents . And having to choose between living your life for you and living your life for someone or something else can be challenging butttt its a choice only you can make. And like Lo and Tanner said nothing is forever you can always change your mind and move back if you really don't like it. That's another bonus they are moving back to UT too, so the brothers wont be an ocean a part just a town or two again!
oh and what does (z"l) mean???? and I'm sorry about your Daddio lost mine a few years back and ...... and well I'd give my hand to hug him, hear his laugh and get to smell him one more time. #daddysgirl
@@Monk-eee z”l is an abbreviation for zikhrono levrakha which means “may his memory be a blessing” in Hebrew, to honor those that pass away
@@bemo98 beautiful, it's the simple things that we learn sometimes that end up with the most meaning. KWIM it falls perfectly as to how I feel about my dad as well so it seems to make it just a bit more special. He was such a wonderful kind and happy man, he was my blessing. Thank you so much for enlightening me with this saying. I'm going to google it and see how it is spoken so I can say it.
I appreciate you Sarah sharing about women's incontinence, I have been dealing with it for the passed 11 years .
You rock!!
Just so you know, although it’s common in postpartum, it’s not normal to pee from doing normal things like laughing or sneezing (I just had a baby in December so I understand the struggle). Leakage like that is a sign that you have problems within your pelvic floor and this can be improved with physical therapy! It really helped me improve upon that problem, so I just thought I’d share that cause you shouldn’t have to wear pads to compensate for it. I can see they would be helpful though while working towards improving it!!
Just wanted to second this. Had issues at 15. Couldn't jump, cough or sneeze without full on peeing myself. Use to love jump roping but had to limit myself because of it and never when people were around and I didn't dare go on a trampoline. I did pelvic floor physical therapy now I don't have that issue anymore and I can jump rope and sneeze as much as I want.
I just had a bladder sling put in because of this issue and it solved it!!
My mom is a physiotherapist with a masters degree in the pelvic floor region and she sees a lot of post birth patients with incontinence issues and those issues are really treatable with pelvic floor training!
I'm 54 had 4 children born Naturally (my 3rd being 9lb 6oz) ....Ive never leaked like that, Bit I've always done pelvic floor exercises...What The hell!! X
I pretty sure once you have had kids it’s very common to pee your self a little bit
Thanks for being so open and honest about your bladder issues.
This medical issue seems to affect women of all ages. Unfortunately, women are made to feel embarrassed or ashamed about a medical condition that, for the most part, is out of our personal control.
I've had 4 bladder tacs throughout the past 20 yrs, so I feel ya pain hun.
I'm grateful to be with a loving partner who respects and is understanding of this very personal issue.😳
Also, remember, if it continues to get worse or out of your control, there's wonderful doctors that may offer other treatments that may benefit your personal and medical condition. 😀
Again, Lots of respect for your open honesty!
Hi Beeston family. I moved from where I grew up in Newfoundland and Labrador 25 years ago and I went to Edmonton to live and work, it was very stressful at first but as time went by I got used to it. Then I came back home and moved to St. John's for 17 years and I had to move back home that took a lot of getting used to because of the simple fact that here there are no theaters, bars or anything like that. But as time goes by I 'm getting used to living home so chin up and I know that all four of you will be able to make the change. I love you all so very much and best of luck in the future ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙 ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙 ❤ 💜 💗 💛 💕 💙
We lived in HI 6 years as well and loved every single moment of HI life. Was devastated and heartbroken to leave, still miss it so much. (Military: go where they send us.) My only advice is to find the good in every place and keep eyes forward so you don’t miss out on all the adventures each chapter brings. Keep the aloha in your soul and shine it everywhere. ❤
(Hoping we get to go back soon!!)
I cry every time I leave Hawaii. I feel fortunate to have visited most of the islands, some more than once. It’s been a dream to live there but it’s so expensive. I do understand your tears though. I hope Sunny will gain with the formula. She’s so sweet. Jack is changing so fast now! I wish you all the best.
25 years ago I moved alone from England to America. My whole family still live in England and I’m still out here living alone and living my best life!! Just embrace the change. I had planned to only live here for a year and then travel to Australia and then settle in France. When I got here I found my place and have been happier than I could ever imagine. Utah is going to be so exciting for you as there’s so much to do there. You can always go back to Hawaii for a visit!!
Anything you guys do, will work out! You have each other and both of your families in Utah. My husband and I moved across Canada 1 month after we got married and we've been out here almost 10 years. We love it!
I moved from the place I called home for my entire life and then I moved 3 hrs away which where I live is like a whole new world! But I can say I loved it and it made mine and my husband's relationship stronger. So just know that it's not always easy leaving the place u call home but it is possible to learn to adjust! It did take me about a month but my husband was very supportive and just kept telling me how much our kids will love it.
Home isn’t a place it’s the people. ❤ when that’s your mindset you can go anywhere! Hawaii will always be a special place to go back to
Try to soak up all the time you have left and make a bucket list of things you want to do before you leave Hawaii and spend time with the people you won’t see as much also I love your videos. Jack and Sunny are adorable and cute ❤❤❤