Ironic that you're insulting the looks of people who chose to change something they were insecure about. "it's okay to compliment someone on the original looks" is unkind. Imagine seeing someone and saying "oh I liked your old face" What if THEY think they look good? What if their insecurity from being bullied gave them dysmorphia and they are all messed up about their looks? You're doing exactly what the bullies do, saying negative things about someone's looks. Maybe make a video about how you should keep negative comments about people's looks to yourself?
Everyone is so obsessed with looking young, yet i feel like these procedures are literally making people look older. Having a rounded face and plump cheeks are neotenous characteristics that make you look youthful. Embrace the cheeks.
most people with rounded faces are looking younger. My mom and I have this, I always call it "baby face" lol and she's over 50 now and looks definitely younger, cause she still has this cute natural plump cheeks. And then we also have big eyes. Also with me im 26 and people think im under 20.
I clicked on this video because I thought it was going to show me how to fix my “fat face” instead I got a 10 minute pep talk on why I am beautiful and I am quite literally sitting here crying because it was exactly what I needed to hear. Immediately subscribed. THANK YOU. We’re always so focused on how we’re deficient, it’s so easy to forget we’re all beautiful in our own ways.
@@RiccardoVenturi-ov3vl Yea AND? You have a problem? I cried too. I'm just an emotional person and I have REALLY been feeling insecure about this lately because I['m 20, but look 16 and I feel extremely horrible about it. Hearing this video was almost like a 1 on 1 pep talk. So yea. crying is allowed and is okay. Quit your judging rn.
The beauty industry makes a lot of money by convincing us that whatever we are, it’s not good enough. You are stunningly beautiful! And trust me, you will appreciate that facial fat as you get older - way more than you hate it now. :)
I hated my round face in my 20's. I'm almost 40 now and constantly mistaken for a college student. My roundness has thinned out a bit as it does with age. I'm so glad I never messed with it! You NEED your facial fat as naturally lose it when you age.
This 100%! When it comes to the face, it’s best to stick to temporary procedures like fillers and Botox. Don’t permanently remove fat from a part of the body that has so little fat to spare.
@@TielMama777I think she's just saying that our BODY needs. Face fat is there for some reason. Remove it probably will bring some consequences in the future. But yes, It is your choice.
My grandma always used to say I had a "moon pie face" because it was so round and glowy. I miss her ♥️ The love she had for my round face is what made me appreciate and love it later in life
I used to think this would be the one procedure I would get. Then my mom told me "honey, the fat of your face is there for when you get old. It's insurance. It will help you look younger. You've been blessed!" So I thought about it... Hell yeah, I've been blessed in a way.
I have chubby cheeks and I'm now 36. People are visibly shocked when I say how old I am. They tell me they thought I was 25 😂. I hated it when I was young, but I love it now. My mom had chubby cheeks, too, and when she was in her 50's everyone thought she was in her thirties and was our sister not our mom.
Me too. I got bullied in school and everyone told me I have so much "Babyspeck" (which translates to baby fat I think) in my face... and it is still there even though I am 27 now and I am a little bit underweight
Shame on those idiots for verbally abusing you like that. Chubby, or full, cheeks are cute and lovely! 💗I've had the opposite situation for most of my adult life to date: I don't have very prominent cheeks and I have a somewhat gaunt-looking face (accentuated by a fairly strong jawline). I'd like to have more 'feminine' medial cheek fat (like, 'apple cheeks'). I've learned to accept it as best I can though. It's my own face after all! 😊
YEAH literally. that fat doesnt come back, ever, and as people get older they lose more and more of it in their face. so many of the people that got buccal fat removal now are going to age in a non graceful way & look way older tahn they actually are 😐
If everyone felt beautiful in their own skin the beauty industry would cease to exist. So they create a problem and then coincidentally help you solve said problem. A few years from now fuller faces are going to be "in" and everyone who had buccal fat removal surgery is going to be a ready customer.
how is our patriarchal society supposed to exist if women aren't constantly being made to believe that no matter how beautiful we are there's always something to be insecure about...?
As an Asian girl who weighs 112 lbs and have round cheeks, I thought it doesn’t make sense why I have fat on my face, but I love how people still ask me what school I go to when I am already 35. It actually makes you look young🥰
I. I think the point is not to obsess over features, one day something is in and then is out. Our bodies are not trends and aging shouldn’t be seen as bad. I find it funny that this video is full of round face people happy because it makes them look younger… so we are all here still obsessing over aging aka looks. It’s not hopeful to say wait until the day your face trends, we shouldn’t focus on that because one day that fat will sag, then girlies that we’re happy about chubby faces bc made them look younger will need the bone structure to support, the loop never ends. Let’s be neutral about looks.
I have a round face. I wouldn't consider it fat, and I've never once considered buccal fat removal. It makes me look much younger than I am, and I appreciate it. I always get comments about how much younger I look. I feel bad for people who feel insecure about it. I say embrace it ✊️
As someone with genetically fat cheeks and round face (even when I was at my slimmest) I have always been a little insecure about it. But now at 29 almost 30 I get people saying I do not look close to 30 or that I look younger than my colleagues in their early 20s. I say that definitely is a win.
My older sister is just like you. She has a genetically round face and fuller cheeks and, now, at age 40, people think that she's still in her 20s. They're shocked that she's 40! So, yes, definitely a win. 😉
I used to hate having a round face when I was a teen because contoured angular cheeks are always the rage, but I've grown to appreciate the youthfulness it gives me. People mistake me for someone younger all the time & my boyfriend always compliments me on my "cute" chubby cheeks. So while it's not the beauty standard, I can embrace the silver lining in a society that treats ageing like a crime.
Just got here from your other video about Fillers and Overfilling, and it's crazy to me how these two completely opposite procedures (fillers and buccal fat removal) can both be so popular when they're literally doing the exact opposite. Like how does one simultaneously achieve a full/plump/youthful image as well as a sleek/defined/mature image. WTF. It's giving "grass is always greener on the other side" vibes.
Same here... Sometimes even my students mistake me for their peers on the first day of school... Besides who care about being trendy when you so cuuuuute😍😍😍😻
Honestly something that really helped me with my insecurities was seeing that the ancient and renaissance depictions of goddesses were round-faced, curvy, had tummy rolls, cellulite, soft chins, and pudgy thighs. If Aphrodite is allowed to be a little chubby, so am I
as a fellow member of the chubby cheeks, round face girly group: I once did consider removing the buccal fat until I started to research that it would make you look older especially when you DO get older and age naturally. I immediately stopped that train of thought and just started to learn how to do makeup WITH my face shape. 😅
Hpnd to my mom she, like me, has naturally low BF and was gorgeous. After 50 she lost more & her face was scary... like Tales from the Crypt type shape. Keep your cheeks!
tbh, embrace the shape! I found that contouring never worked very well, and rather than try to make it super skinny, I tried working my highlighter to highlight parts of my face so it sorta gave an appearance of a slimmer look but not making it seem overly skinny@@ems6964
My surgeon offered me the buccal and I turned it down. When I’m my normal weight I have very sharp cheekbones, so I didn’t want to get it done while I was thicker and then loose the weight and end up like skeletor! 😂
Thank you ❤Girls really need to hear these words these days when social media constantly forces you to compare yourself with other beautiful women. It is so easy to forget about our own beauty.
100% needed to hear this. I have a round face that I have always been self conscious of. I have always been envious if my friends that have a rectangular or heart shaped face. To this day i hate wearing my hair back because i feel it just emphasises the roundness. I have often toyed with the idea of getting buccal fat removal. Seeing this video with all of these round faced beauties helps me appreciate what I have. Particularly seeing the stunning women that have opted for the surgery. It changes so much about their appearance and I don't feel it is for the better. I would rather keep my fat face than look too gaunt, especially now as I'm getting older. It may have taken me 40 years to see my face fat as a blessing, but better late than never!
I used to hate my chubby cheeks... my mom told me that one day I would love them. She was right lol. I've turned 29 thirteen times and I love them! This is such a great video topic to put out for people, you seem to inspire women (I came here on a hair roller search and you randomly were recommended lmaooo). Anyway, this is wonderful!
I was 19 or 20 something and mistaken for a middleschooler :D LOL! I was like O_O anotehr time a man was like "Why aren't you in school?" lol I told them my age they were ilke O_O no way! I went on a date a few years back with a man my own age and people were staring at us like I was underaged LOL! Like the guy was just uncomfortabl efrom the staring LOL :D so ya chubby cheeks rock! I am 42 now and you can't tell I look late 20s to mid 30s somewhere It hink.
I’m 38 and I’m finally starting to embrace and love my “fat face”. I only wish I would’ve realized how beautiful it was 10 years ago. Thank you for this video!
Since I discovered you a few months back, I've been looking at myself more positively and I appreciate my body for what it is. I thank you for all the positivity and transparency you show in your videos!!! 💜
@francisca4924you are perfect because you are you! Don't be too hard on yourself. I've always thought that having a matured look is sexy and mysterious! Feed off of the sex appeal you have!
good for you, keep loving what you have, its the first step to appreciation, the never enough addiction never ends and stops at regret of lost happiness
I just would like to say: thank you very much! You've changed my mind about my apparence. Last saturday I went to Van Gogh's exposition with a friend of mine and we took some pictures. When I saw the pictures I didn't like because my face looked so fat, and I confess that I got a little sad and I spent many hours thinking about my apparence. It's "incredible" how my mind plays tricks on me. I'm so beautiful, so smart.... I still don't know why I can't treat myself so kind.
So crazy that 8 years ago you were teaching me how to do makeup for hooded eyes and now you've got me loving my chubby cheeks 😂 You are a champion of women, thank you for being you! 💜💜💜
As someone who has lost facial volume due to an autoimmune disease, I wish these young girls could understand they are just aging themselves prematurely. I agree, they looked better before. It like losing the frame of a house. PLEASE do your homework and don't rush into what is honestly a fad. All faces are beautiful, love yours! Thank you Stephanie! xx
What kind of autoimmune disase do you have? Just asking because I never heard of any immune disase that causes loss of facial volume until now so it is so interesting(sorry if my English is bad)
Sjögren's Syndrome. It can cause all kinds of problems, but one is super dry mouth (it causes problems with the parotid glands, etc.) which can lead to bone and tooth loss. Facial wasting can result if it's severe. Anyone who has Sjogren's - get a great dentist & rheumatologist. Hope this helps. @@h.h8766
Even when I was severely dieting and was underweight, my face was still fat and had double chin lol. I have decided to embrace it now tho. Life's too short to be worrying about that.
Even when I was a very athletic teen I thought I was fat because of having a soft jawline. We gotta remember to just be pretty versions of ourselves and embrace our unique "thumbprint".
When I was 15, I looked into the surgery because I hated my round face but when I finally met with a surgeon at age 17, he told me I would age very badly if I got it done, and keeping my round face would make me look young for a very long time. I listened to him now I’m 28 and I can pass for 17
I've always had a round face and a very thin body. I honestly never paid attention to it that much until people started pointing it out. When I finally started gaining some weight, my face got more rounded and people called me different names (saying I look like a lollipop or matchstick etc) which made me very insecure and caused me to have an eating disorder(causing my weight to go down from 50kg to 42kg). I am trying and recovering now, but I'm still underweight (45 kgs at 5'4) and still scared to gain weight in case it makes my face rounder. So I've been looking to try masseter botox since it's not permanent and feel like it might help with my eating disorder as well. Yes, it does make me look younger(people often mistake me to be in my teens or early 20s, when I'm almost 30) but I also get a lot of insults thrown at me. It's just sad.(Sorry for the long rant)
Thank you so much for making the content you do. You’re really changing lives out here. I was just talking to my boyfriend the other day about how even when I haven’t been eating well and lose weight everywhere else (I struggle to get in enough meals due to sensory issues and nausea), my face is still round and chunky looking. It’s always been something I’ve struggled with feeling self conscious about and seeing this video helped me see things from a different perspective. Perhaps it’s my round face that has everyone I meet thinking I’m a teenager when I’m actually pushing 30 😅
So, as someone who had buccal fat removal due to dentist recommendation, I gotta say there are ways to get the procedure done without becoming "weird". I still have a round face with full cheeks but now I don’t bite my cheeks from the inside anymore. My buccal fat didn’t come out easily, it was actually very soft and started breaking into tiny little pieces. So the dentist (here in Brazil dentists do the surgery and I think it’s better) only removed 2ml of fat from each side of my face. I had the procedure in 2018, I was 33
Yeah because you got it for medical reasons. That was why the surgery was invented, for people who have excess buccal fat and bit their cheeks. These celebs don't need to (unlikely anyway as they're all getting it) and so they look strange.
Oh dang is that why I bite the inside of my cheeks so often????? I have a huge bump on the inside of one of my cheeks just from the constant biting 😭 i just assumed i had large teeth ahhsnsms
I've always had chubby cheeks and been somewhat insecure about them. Mostly when it comes to smiling in pictures because I feel like my face expands to a disproportionately large mass. But I am always taken to be much younger than I actually am, and I'm regarded as attractive. Thank you for this video. It really does help put these insecurities into perspective. And I agree, they all looked better before
I have a super slim face with sharp cheekbones and a prominent jawline and honestly I've hated it my entire life. All I wanted growing up was to gain weight in my cheeks, and now people paying money to get exactly what I've been insecure about my whole life is wild to me.
Felt the same about curves and BBL. Always had a big butt and even got bullied for it, but then Kim k and her clan brought out the bbl trend and everybody started trying to get a big butt felt so twisted to me. And I felt a bit betrayed tbh 😂😅
I have very high cheekbones and the same sort of feelings. I like them, but only when they weren’t too prominent. I don’t like to drop my body weight down too far because I think it makes my face look as if it is only angles. I will look at photos of these celebrities and think… you could not pay me to do that to my face!
I used to feel that way as well because round faces are feminine and I would get mistaken as a boy but even though I don't have that face shape I still like my Hallow cheeks, my jawline and my high cheek bones...anyone can be beautiful no matter their face shape and when I get older I'm still gonna feel good about my face shape.
I was skinny then i gained some weight. Actually fat made my face look more beautiful. Idk how but it did 💀💀 , now my face looks more youthful and cute.
As a “UA-cam Auntie” please don’t be overly concerned about your chubby round faces. It helps to maintain a youthful look! When you age some of the cheek face WILL lessen. I am 44 and I am so happy I had a cherub face. Now I do have a bit more cheek bones showing and I’ve embraced that! ❤
I showed my boyfriend a photo of Sophie Turner and he said she looks scary 😢 I’ve always thought she was gorgeous but he said it was because her head looks like a skeleton with her cheeks all sunken in. I think she may have gotten this done too. He and I talk about beauty trends and standards often and essentially what I’ve gleaned from conversations is this; when we women look at ourselves, we look for, hone in on and obsessed over our perceived flaws. When men look at us, they see us in the most flattering way their brains can conjure. They are literally looking for reasons to find women attractive. I think if we could see ourselves through men’s eyes we might be much easier on ourselves. I know I would if I could see me the way my boyfriend does.
Thank you I needed to hear this. For some reason the past months I’ve been feeling very insecure about my face fat and I didn’t realize that a thin face is the new trend and it’s being fed to me.
Fully agree with you Stephanie that full faces look gorgeous and there is beauty in some many types of looks. Wonder if facial balance may play a factor in why people get this procedure? Many of the celebrities had balanced thirds so it looks skeletal/off but if you have a heavy lower third then it can create a sense of balance and harmony.
When I was younger, I had a very round face, and I've noticed, as I've gotten older (I am now 40) that my face slimmed down a lot by my late 20s. So if anyone is insecure about their cute lil chub, it'll slim down by itself, and you age MUCH less quickly ♥ Love your videos Steph ♥
Whenever I'm feeling down (I just turned 49 a couple days ago...My last year in my 40's!) I will put on your channel and listen to you as a motivational speaker! I've been following you for *YEARS* and I simply adore you Stephanie. You're a bright light in the mass of UA-camr's that have sold their soul. You and Wayne Goss will forever be my top favorites. (Yes there are others I love too but you two have a special place in my heart for telling it like it is!) Love your guts right back! 🫶
I was actually searching for ways to get rid of fat face when I came across your video. What you said is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you!
I agree that a full face is absolutely gorgeous and it really does make you appear more youthful. I had an older Asian neighbor growing up and I was always self-conscious of my round face, was always told I look younger than I was, well my neighbor complimented me all the time on stuff that always had made me feel ugly (round face, round eyes, pale skin), her compliments really helped me when I was growing up. She told me that where she was from my face, eyes and skin were trademarks of beauty. Really nice lady. Once I got older, had kids, and breastfed.....OMG did my face thin out and was then I realized how important having facial fat was, so if anyone read through this whole comment, I want you to know that having a full face is so beautiful and if you leave yourself surgically untouched you will age so gracefully. Also natural thinning of the face looks quite gorgeous as well. Thank you for the wonderful video!
Round face owner with a double chin and have always felt insecure but this video is so true! I get so many compliments on how young I look and how glowing and firm my skin looks. So this round face person is in love with my face now! Thank you for your videos.
You are my comfort youtuber :,) i have a naturally chubby face and ive always kept the option of buccal fat removal in the back of my mind for when im old enough to get it. But now i am certain that i will keep my face as is. Love u sm stephanie
I needed this today! I went from being extremely unhealthy and underweight to simply being a healthy weight, and with that my childhood cheeks came right back. I never wanted to remove the fat beer say but i stay feeling insecure because of it! I really needed this reminder of the beauty in cheeks thank you for all the comparisons!!
Oh Stephanie. Thank you so much. I had been thinking of getting this surgery in Korea, but noticed people dont care at all, I got more compliments than usual in the last week, and I realized that it is all in my head, my perception etc. Racially speaking I am Indian but get confused with latina half of the times. Roundface fellow girls, listen to Stephanie. And Stephanie, thanks again. Love from Europe. 🥰
I appreciate this so much. I AM self conscious about my round face and have wanted a long, oval shape rather than the round/heart shape I have. But, I try to appreciate it and embrace the cuteness. I have a soft face like a classic Disney princess or Marilyn Monroe. Longer, slimmer faces seem a little more elegant to me, but round faces are dainty and bright! There's definitely room for all!!!
Your videos are a blast of positivity! Thank You for always addressing these idiotic surgical procedures....that are created to line these surgeons pockets with money.
gosh Stephanie its so nice for someone like you, I mean someone with such big following ob social media, to bring back that reality and to say that its normal to look a certain way and not like all the current trends. I really like hearing your words, it really helps a lot for many people I am sure. Thank you ❤
This is such an amazing video!! Thank you so much for uplifting us fatter face girls. Also, the fact about natural hollowing of cheeks as you age is literally so true and always helped me feel happy about my face despite the current beauty standard. I wish everyone understood that we’re ALL beautiful on the outside, just work on your inside: your mind and your health are more important than your looks.
I really started to appreciate my full cheeks in my 30s because I remained looking young. At 30 someone actually thought I was 16 years old. I'm now 46 and that buccal fat is serving me really well. I have crows feet and greys. But my plump cheeks still get me the, "Oh I thought you were in your early 30s." Listen to Stephanie, girls. She knows what she's talking about.
I've ALWAYS had a round face. My mom used to pick on every detail about me that she didn't like, and that often included my looks. When I was like 11, she told me that when I get older, I should get a surgery called buccal fat removal to fix how fat my face was. I'd never had an issue with my cheeks before, but I obsessed for years about getting my buccal fat removed after she told me about it. Now I see these other girls who are around my age, and I see how much their faces changed because of buccal fat removal surgery. I'm so grateful I couldn't afford to have plastic surgery when I was younger. I mostly also that wish we weren't expected to look as flawless as possible at all times! I can't even imagine how much fun life would be if I didn't gaf about how I look. I'm trying to get to a place where I love myself regardless of my stinkin face fat lol, but the feeling of being defective is always with me 😅
the fact she told you that at 11 is INSANE. Legitimately, absolutely insane. I can't even fathom telling a little girl that. I'm 23 and have juuuuuusttt started to notice my baby fat in my cheeks lessening, but it's still only noticeable when compared to pictures of me from a few years ago. I've been mistaken for being 17 several times this year and will probably keep being mistaken for being younger than I am for years to come
Very much needed this video!🙏 I've been feeling a bit insecure about my puffy face due to a steroid I had to be on so this has reached my heart and made me feel loved and valued thanks so much!🤗🥰💖
Puffy faces are so youthful. My dad in his 70s had a puffy face as a side effect of his anti rejection meds (steroids included) after his kidney transplant. He used to joke how great his skin and face looked and I def agreed. I miss him. Stay beautiful ❤
I am thankful to have a youthful face due to my Polish genetics. I’ve always been contemplating on getting buccal removal but I really don’t think it’s going to be worth it :/ I am only 22 so I know that my face shape may change as I get older. Thank you Stephanie for the encouragement and positivity ❤️
I have apple cheeks from my Polish roots as well! I look a decade younger and so do all my female relatives. God and your ancestors blessed you with natural filler, don’t get any removal!
Get rid of face fat, look 20 years older especially the older you get. Thank you from the bottom of my heart...as a 46 year old woman...I have always wished I had a smaller face...but I have learned how to love myself over the years...and know that it keeps me more youthful looking. You are awesome!
Stephanie!!!! Thank god u bring this up!! My 16 year old teen in me NEEDED this!! I was so insecure about my round face with my round cheeks, that I did everything I could to hide them, I had my side bangs covering the half of my face, thinking it would slim out my face, but out of that I got migraines cause I couldn't see anything bcs of my hair covered mostly of my eyes, and it gave me more depression and anxiety. I hated being in pictures, cause when I saw random pics friends took of me and saw that the hair trick didn't work out and I just saw how I looked so unhappy and that even my cheeks looked thicker. And I HATED to go outside if It just blew a little bit cause it would blew the hair out of my face and show everything that I tried to hide. It was the WORST on the beach... A friend I had back in the days, even had the audacity to make me feel worse when she removed my hair out of my face to reveal of how I actually looked,... she gasped, shook her head and shivered her whole body. That was it for me. I died inside. I still hate her for it to this day. She hurt me so bad. It actually gave me more trauma that even made my life worse. I felt so ugly that I begged to god (that I didn't even believe in) every night before school, to please let me die in my sleep. I was exhausted and sick of my depression, I didn't feel the need to live anymore, I thought I didnt deserve to be alive. And as you said. I searched on Google on how to remove face fat and so on. But it never gave me any hope of course. Especially when I already was a skinny person. I got good help at the psychiatrist with good medications and got diagnosed with social anxiety and depression with ocd. But the years passed on and I began to accept myself and tried to become mentally healthy. And I did, now at age 25, I'm healthy and happy! I have my hair even up in buns and even with hairbands to sweep the hair OUT of my face. I never thought I could do that when I was younger. Today, I emprace my face with my genes that gives me a healthy looking and happy face, with a big beautiful smile. My boyfriend loves my smile and my face with my eyes. I never thought again that someone would love me that way. I feel so pretty and beautiful! I still though have bad days ofc, but that's normal! I see this "trend" going on and it kinda triggers my trauma and with this video, u give me hope to stay in touch with myself and not harming myself that way again. I will never let society try to bring me down once again. Thank u for cheering me up, u even cheered the 16year old in me, It helped to heal my past even more. Thank u Stephanie for doing these kind of videos!! Thank u, thank u sm!! ❤️
I like your account it gives me much comfort cuz I have really big cheeks and I thought "do I have too much fat in my face do I have to get buccal fat removal?" and I have times where I felt like I'd be more pretty if my cheeks were "normal size". and watching you I get this sense of thought that I shouldn't give in to these inconsistent "beauty standards" and that it is okay to be human and have human characteristics and I'm not an inanimate lifeless object which never changes or dies. and I'm more than that and that is what's important. I am not gonna stay the same as I look right now in my 18s which means I'm a living breathing human who has a mind of their own and I think it's more amazing than any inanimate or lifeless object or concept
I was always so insecure about my round face. Even my family would tell me that I had a 'fat face'. I'm in my mid 20s now and I can see my face slimming, the cheek bones are showing a bit. To me it shows, that we grow into our features. I love my round face now!
When I was early twenties, I was very insecure about having a round or “baby” face and even researched buccal fat removal. Now at 27, I am so happy I let it be, since aging naturally decreases the fat in your face and many people who do get this surgery at a young age have to pump in extra fillers later so they don’t look like a skeleton. Face fat despite not being “attractive” right now is a natural filler and helps your face look good as you age. Also with the way beauty trend change, most likely we only need to wait a decade before round faces are the next big thing and all the girlies are running to get filler to get the “Selena circa 2023” look
I. I think the point is not to obsess over features, one day something is in and then is out. Our bodies are not trends and aging shouldn’t be seen as bad. I find it funny that this video is full of round face people happy because it makes them look younger… so we are all here still obsessing over aging aka looks. It’s not hopeful to say wait until the day your face trends, we shouldn’t focus on that because one day that fat will sag, then girlies that we’re happy about chubby faces bc made them look younger will need the bone structure to support, the loop never ends. Let’s be neutral about looks.
Everyone possesses different yet unique features and we all are strugglimgg to love ourselves while living a world where all are trying to look the same or we think is perfect but no one is perfect.
I have a round chubby face and never questioned it until the last couple off years, with all the ponytail lift looks and buccal fat removal. It made me so insecure that I could never pull off the tight snatched upper face look. I would pull it back with a snatched ponytail and just feel awful like why can't I pull that off? Not all face shapes can be structured like a greek god lol thanks for making me feel more normal about having a chubby face girl! you do loads for my self esteem every time I watch so thank you so much.:)
I remember Dr.Gary talking about why he stopped doing buccal fat removal and he said that it is a tricky surgery and does not take 20 mins. With concern in things going wrong too
Im 14 years old and ever since i turned 12 ive been going on diets and doing gua sha massages to my face. But until now i still have round face and i realized that no matter how much weight i lose and how much facial massages i do my round face will always be the same. I guess the only option is to love myself and my own facial features, thank you so much for this video because this helped my confidence alot 💖💖
I think about this a lot! in my head, a "hot girl" look a la megan fox transformers was always the ideal, but when I think about it celebrities like Selena Gomez and Emilia Clarke are considered paragons of attractiveness/hot too, but they have a more babyfaced look (jlaw may have round face but she also has veryefined high cheekbones so that doesn't really help w regard to buccal fat removal)
Almost wanted to cry tears of joy because I've been insecure about my face shape for so long, I can never feel confident without having two strands of hair fall on my face to somehow make it look "thinner", Thank you Ms.Stephanie Lange you're the best❤️
I naturally have quite a chiselled face, even though my body is definitely not super thin. When I lose weight as I'm doing at the moment my face gets bonier and it's not something I want, tbh. When I'm tired or when it's winter and I'm more pale it makes me look ill a lot faster. It's so typical that people want whatever they don't have; let's all try to, if not love, at least accept and appreciate the face we have! Love you Steph!
I have a round face and have fat face but i never thought to do buccal fat removal as round and chubby cheeks give youthful vibes and its makes you look as younger....so i always loved my round face ...thank u Stephanie for making this type of video for all the girls out there who tried their best to fit in these all stupid beauty standard ... everyone is unique in their own way ...and who cares if we are not pretty ....i don't need anyone opinion about my face... because its my face which is unique and i own it ....its my identity....i loved it ...i don't care if someone will like my face or not...my opinion only matters
This video made me feel so good about my round face :’) Your content is so important I wish all young women and teens could see this and understand that they are beautiful just the way they are ❤
Thank god for this really, I've never felt insecure of my looks but after covid I gained weight I did feel insecure and my face forever regardless of whether I was under or over weight I had round face and I liked it cuz in my country its a good thing but lately seeing the conventional beauty standards and seeing everyone look the same I feel soo ugly. SO HAPPY FOR THIS VIDEO.I feel like when smiling my full face looks soo ugly and fat and awkward but I am trying not to feel those. 😂😂
unpopular opinion- I always had sunken/ hollow cheeks as I am skinny and people used to bully me saying I don't eat or I'm malnourished or my face looks like chewed food thrown out. But now they all compliment my features. This is devastating. I'm so glad that I didn't listened to them and I'm happy with my body, even though I looks skinny, I have muscles and have a healthy functional body that most people crave for. Huge thanks to Stephanie to make me feel comfortable with who I am. :))))) I am so happy that I found you
i've been a round faced cherub girl for 26 years, and i am currently crying because for the first time I can see past my own hatred for my round face and chubby cheeks. thank you for giving this perspective!
I have low facial fat naturally and am accused constantly online of having plastic surgery when I haven’t it’s super annoying and shows one can’t win either way
Thank you! I occasionally feel upset about my round face in comparison to my friends with beautiful bone structure. But I have noticed (I’m 35) how shocked people are when they learn my age. They always think I’m 10 years younger, and I’ve always thought it was because I have round face and a round button nose. Thank you! ❤
I. I think the point is not to obsess over features, one day something is in and then is out. Our bodies are not trends and aging shouldn’t be seen as bad. I find it funny that this video is full of round face people happy because it makes them look younger… so we are all here still obsessing over aging aka looks. It’s not hopeful to say wait until the day your face trends, we shouldn’t focus on that because one day that fat will sag, then girlies that we’re happy about chubby faces bc made them look younger will need the bone structure to support, the loop never ends. Let’s be neutral about looks.
I am a Slav, and I am proud to have my round and fat face! The shape of my face speaks to my genetics and connects me to my ancestors, and no amount of "beauty standards" bs is goint to make me wish I had a different face shape or have my fat removed. Besides, with this face shape, I am always going to feel and look much younger than my real age, unlike everyone who is scrambling to have their fat removed. When the trends suddenly change and round faces become popular again, I will be the one to have a lot of cheek.
Fellow semi-Slav here! Dad was Czech and I got his face shape and my maternal grandmother's cheekbones. She was Finnish, so you just KNOW I hit the "round face jackpot" lol!! I used to be insecure about that but when I was 32 and still had to show ID to buy liqueur (I'm in Sweden, we have to be 20) I realized I had something great going on. :-) I'm almost 50 now and people still think I am 35. Not mad about that either. :-)
@@avgeek-and-fashionSame, I'm 53 and still have my babyface. People think I'm in my twenties and thirties. At work they are annoying and ask if I did botox or something. I've just used sunscreen my whole life and still have my babyfat🤷♀️ I'm not slavic but people think I'm from Poland because of my face but I'm half swedish and half french. I don't drink alcohol but had to buy some for a collegue some months ago and had to show an id at systembolaget. Maybe they ask everybody for id or the person was trying to be nice, but it still felt good😅
@@avgeek-and-fashion Same! I am a 30 year old Ukrainian, and I have to show my ID to buy even non-alcoholic beer sometimes. It does not bother me since I take my ID with me anywhere I go as it is anyways. People tell me that I look around 16-18 years, I take it as a compliment!
@@TheGamer2001 It's so weirdly neat to be mistaken for a 30 smth when you're almost 50! Congrats on winning the gene lottery, out-beautying all those poor Hollyweird hollow cheeked faces! Hope you and your family are safe from the orcs. I have donated to the Swedish efforts many times and lately there are whispers about increased help from our govmt! Slava Ukrainii!
@@avgeek-and-fashion Thank you very much for your kind words and your support, the support of your government, and the support of your people! My family and I are safe so far, thank you! Returning to the topic at hand, congratulations to you as well on winning the genetic lottery on your own! I aspire to live up to 50 and still feel and look like I am 30! Please take care of yourself!
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I call buccal fat removal the "tuberculosis chic" and I have naturally cheeks that look like that and I hate it!
Round bodies have been the epitome of beauty forever... until Twiggy in the 60's.
the fact I was already playing it
Liam Payne had the face fat removed too. Pls do a video on him, for directioners like me
Ironic that you're insulting the looks of people who chose to change something they were insecure about. "it's okay to compliment someone on the original looks" is unkind. Imagine seeing someone and saying "oh I liked your old face" What if THEY think they look good? What if their insecurity from being bullied gave them dysmorphia and they are all messed up about their looks?
You're doing exactly what the bullies do, saying negative things about someone's looks.
Maybe make a video about how you should keep negative comments about people's looks to yourself?
Everyone is so obsessed with looking young, yet i feel like these procedures are literally making people look older. Having a rounded face and plump cheeks are neotenous characteristics that make you look youthful. Embrace the cheeks.
You took the words right out of my mouth 😊
most people with rounded faces are looking younger. My mom and I have this, I always call it "baby face" lol and she's over 50 now and looks definitely younger, cause she still has this cute natural plump cheeks. And then we also have big eyes.
Also with me im 26 and people think im under 20.
100%!
@user-mx5mi9gh3fno she doesn’t
Older and VERY not healthy :(
I clicked on this video because I thought it was going to show me how to fix my “fat face” instead I got a 10 minute pep talk on why I am beautiful and I am quite literally sitting here crying because it was exactly what I needed to hear. Immediately subscribed. THANK YOU. We’re always so focused on how we’re deficient, it’s so easy to forget we’re all beautiful in our own ways.
Same. That's why I've been subscribed to her for a while now. Stephanie is a gem
Crying
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Really?
@@RiccardoVenturi-ov3vl Yea AND? You have a problem? I cried too. I'm just an emotional person and I have REALLY been feeling insecure about this lately because I['m 20, but look 16 and I feel extremely horrible about it. Hearing this video was almost like a 1 on 1 pep talk. So yea. crying is allowed and is okay. Quit your judging rn.
what the heck? is that u on ur profile? seriously man u are so beautiful bruh please don't even get me started
The beauty industry makes a lot of money by convincing us that whatever we are, it’s not good enough.
You are stunningly beautiful! And trust me, you will appreciate that facial fat as you get older - way more than you hate it now. :)
I hated my round face in my 20's. I'm almost 40 now and constantly mistaken for a college student. My roundness has thinned out a bit as it does with age. I'm so glad I never messed with it! You NEED your facial fat as naturally lose it when you age.
Same here but in my early 50's "51"
@lauralouwhooo Thank you for this comment :)
This 100%!
When it comes to the face, it’s best to stick to temporary procedures like fillers and Botox. Don’t permanently remove fat from a part of the body that has so little fat to spare.
@@TielMama777 you make sense ..lol a baby face makes you look more feminine and youthful . everyone knows that
@@TielMama777I think she's just saying that our BODY needs. Face fat is there for some reason. Remove it probably will bring some consequences in the future. But yes, It is your choice.
My grandma always used to say I had a "moon pie face" because it was so round and glowy. I miss her ♥️ The love she had for my round face is what made me appreciate and love it later in life
I used to think this would be the one procedure I would get. Then my mom told me "honey, the fat of your face is there for when you get old. It's insurance. It will help you look younger. You've been blessed!" So I thought about it... Hell yeah, I've been blessed in a way.
I have chubby cheeks and I'm now 36. People are visibly shocked when I say how old I am. They tell me they thought I was 25 😂.
I hated it when I was young, but I love it now. My mom had chubby cheeks, too, and when she was in her 50's everyone thought she was in her thirties and was our sister not our mom.
a fat face and good bone structure and you'll never age!
Omg. My aunt told me the same thing 😂
I like that way of putting it lol. So cute
Omg thank you so much for this, I've always been insecure about my round face 😢
I get fat shamed constantly because of my chubby cheeks. I’ve been this way my entire life. What needs to change is how hateful people are!
Me too. I got bullied in school and everyone told me I have so much "Babyspeck" (which translates to baby fat I think) in my face... and it is still there even though I am 27 now and I am a little bit underweight
Shame on those idiots for verbally abusing you like that. Chubby, or full, cheeks are cute and lovely! 💗I've had the opposite situation for most of my adult life to date: I don't have very prominent cheeks and I have a somewhat gaunt-looking face (accentuated by a fairly strong jawline). I'd like to have more 'feminine' medial cheek fat (like, 'apple cheeks'). I've learned to accept it as best I can though. It's my own face after all! 😊
You are all beautiful. Seriously. Don't ever let voices like that stick in your head if you can help it. Remember to real people, you are beautiful 💖
Can’t people just get a hobby or engage in charity instead of picking on other peoples beautiful unique faces😫
Yes!!
Buccal fat removal is quite literally going to age so poorly 😱😱
If you don’t need it sure. You can also get some removed not all, doesn’t work for a lot of people because not everyone needs one anyways
YEAH literally. that fat doesnt come back, ever, and as people get older they lose more and more of it in their face. so many of the people that got buccal fat removal now are going to age in a non graceful way & look way older tahn they actually are 😐
@@vanilla7349theyll probably transfer fat back in their cheeks from some other places later 😂😂
And I'm so excited about it. All these celebrities are narcissistic and unbearable 😊
@@SteffyRodriguezAgredoliterally no one needs this.
Why is it such a struggle to just acknowledge different types of beauty without trying to force people into a cookie cutter?
They're all pushing the latest trend to make money.
If everyone felt beautiful in their own skin the beauty industry would cease to exist. So they create a problem and then coincidentally help you solve said problem. A few years from now fuller faces are going to be "in" and everyone who had buccal fat removal surgery is going to be a ready customer.
how is our patriarchal society supposed to exist if women aren't constantly being made to believe that no matter how beautiful we are there's always something to be insecure about...?
bc money is king and, apparently, insecurities are hella profitable
THE INDUSTRY
As someone who has a round face who feels insecure about it, I want to thank you for making this video. You make me feel better about myself.
I'm 46 and I still pass for late 20's/early 30's. LOVE my full face! Thanks, Stephanie!
Full faces are so pretty. I wish I had one but mine is square unfortunately.
As an Asian girl who weighs 112 lbs and have round cheeks, I thought it doesn’t make sense why I have fat on my face, but I love how people still ask me what school I go to when I am already 35. It actually makes you look young🥰
Amen!
I. I think the point is not to obsess over features, one day something is in and then is out. Our bodies are not trends and aging shouldn’t be seen as bad. I find it funny that this video is full of round face people happy because it makes them look younger… so we are all here still obsessing over aging aka looks. It’s not hopeful to say wait until the day your face trends, we shouldn’t focus on that because one day that fat will sag, then girlies that we’re happy about chubby faces bc made them look younger will need the bone structure to support, the loop never ends. Let’s be neutral about looks.
35 is old
Girl you weight 50kg! You're just perfect. Thats my ideal goal. I'm 70! 😅
nope@@dwkfytrs
I have a round face. I wouldn't consider it fat, and I've never once considered buccal fat removal. It makes me look much younger than I am, and I appreciate it. I always get comments about how much younger I look. I feel bad for people who feel insecure about it. I say embrace it ✊️
Same here ☺
Same. I'm almost 40 now so my face has slimmed down, but it helped me look younger in my late 20s and through my 30s.
Me too! I kind of love my chubby dimply cheeks! It deff helps us look 10-15 years younger. 🥰
100% saame
Same here, I'm 32 and get asked for an ID when I'm buying an ENERGY DRINK 🤣
As someone with genetically fat cheeks and round face (even when I was at my slimmest) I have always been a little insecure about it. But now at 29 almost 30 I get people saying I do not look close to 30 or that I look younger than my colleagues in their early 20s. I say that definitely is a win.
My older sister is just like you. She has a genetically round face and fuller cheeks and, now, at age 40, people think that she's still in her 20s. They're shocked that she's 40! So, yes, definitely a win. 😉
I'm 35 and this couple who were both 31 thought I was 23 😂🔥
Just wait until you’re 40 and people think you look 25. Then you’ll love your chubby cheeks!
Same thing happens to me. I’m 31 and people are shocked when i tell them lol. I get told I look more like a teenager than a 30 something 😅
It’s such a win
I used to hate having a round face when I was a teen because contoured angular cheeks are always the rage, but I've grown to appreciate the youthfulness it gives me. People mistake me for someone younger all the time & my boyfriend always compliments me on my "cute" chubby cheeks. So while it's not the beauty standard, I can embrace the silver lining in a society that treats ageing like a crime.
Just got here from your other video about Fillers and Overfilling, and it's crazy to me how these two completely opposite procedures (fillers and buccal fat removal) can both be so popular when they're literally doing the exact opposite. Like how does one simultaneously achieve a full/plump/youthful image as well as a sleek/defined/mature image. WTF. It's giving "grass is always greener on the other side" vibes.
I honestly love my round/chubby face. I’m pushing 30 and my patients will still mistake me for a highschool student so I’m not even mad lol
This happens to me all the time in my highschool! I’m a 29yo teacher and parents many times ask me “if I have just finished university “ 😜😂
Same im 18 and people think im still a pre-teen 😭
Same here... Sometimes even my students mistake me for their peers on the first day of school...
Besides who care about being trendy when you so cuuuuute😍😍😍😻
I was about to comment the same thing I'm 32 this year and my chubby face makes me look younger x
Same here I’m 42 and people think I’m 30, I would never want to remove the chub in my cheeks cause it keeps me looking young.
Honestly something that really helped me with my insecurities was seeing that the ancient and renaissance depictions of goddesses were round-faced, curvy, had tummy rolls, cellulite, soft chins, and pudgy thighs. If Aphrodite is allowed to be a little chubby, so am I
Yes! This!
I had this too! X
Yessss
literally exactly same
100% I always look up medieval nudes for inspo 😂😂😂
as a fellow member of the chubby cheeks, round face girly group: I once did consider removing the buccal fat until I started to research that it would make you look older especially when you DO get older and age naturally. I immediately stopped that train of thought and just started to learn how to do makeup WITH my face shape. 😅
Hpnd to my mom she, like me, has naturally low BF and was gorgeous. After 50 she lost more & her face was scary... like Tales from the Crypt type shape. Keep your cheeks!
Hey! I totally feel this. Do u have any tips for learning how to do MU for our face shape? ty!
tbh, embrace the shape! I found that contouring never worked very well, and rather than try to make it super skinny, I tried working my highlighter to highlight parts of my face so it sorta gave an appearance of a slimmer look but not making it seem overly skinny@@ems6964
What do these people do to their faces?They look horrible!
My surgeon offered me the buccal and I turned it down. When I’m my normal weight I have very sharp cheekbones, so I didn’t want to get it done while I was thicker and then loose the weight and end up like skeletor! 😂
Thank you ❤Girls really need to hear these words these days when social media constantly forces you to compare yourself with other beautiful women. It is so easy to forget about our own beauty.
100% needed to hear this. I have a round face that I have always been self conscious of. I have always been envious if my friends that have a rectangular or heart shaped face. To this day i hate wearing my hair back because i feel it just emphasises the roundness. I have often toyed with the idea of getting buccal fat removal. Seeing this video with all of these round faced beauties helps me appreciate what I have. Particularly seeing the stunning women that have opted for the surgery. It changes so much about their appearance and I don't feel it is for the better. I would rather keep my fat face than look too gaunt, especially now as I'm getting older. It may have taken me 40 years to see my face fat as a blessing, but better late than never!
I used to hate my chubby cheeks... my mom told me that one day I would love them. She was right lol. I've turned 29 thirteen times and I love them! This is such a great video topic to put out for people, you seem to inspire women (I came here on a hair roller search and you randomly were recommended lmaooo). Anyway, this is wonderful!
wdym u “turned 29 thirteen times” ??
@@fatimzahra_q she still looks 29 but is 42 years old
So why did u choose 29 when. U could off said I've turned 42 2 times. Smh. Lol
I was 19 or 20 something and mistaken for a middleschooler :D LOL! I was like O_O anotehr time a man was like "Why aren't you in school?" lol I told them my age they were ilke O_O no way! I went on a date a few years back with a man my own age and people were staring at us like I was underaged LOL! Like the guy was just uncomfortabl efrom the staring LOL :D so ya chubby cheeks rock! I am 42 now and you can't tell I look late 20s to mid 30s somewhere It hink.
I look younger since I got the bucal fat removal since it made me look Less Señora, still have enough up there to look younger than my age
I’m 38 and I’m finally starting to embrace and love my “fat face”. I only wish I would’ve realized how beautiful it was 10 years ago. Thank you for this video!
Same.. I am 38 coming year and just only recently I started loving and embracing my face and body. What a journey..
In 38 too
2 mor3 Years and we'll be 40. NOOOOO
so i need to hold on for 12 more years 😢
Since I discovered you a few months back, I've been looking at myself more positively and I appreciate my body for what it is. I thank you for all the positivity and transparency you show in your videos!!! 💜
Amen to that and you go girl! You're beautiful the way you are :) 💕
@@daria262 Thanks hun! So are you!! 💘
@francisca4924you are perfect because you are you! Don't be too hard on yourself. I've always thought that having a matured look is sexy and mysterious! Feed off of the sex appeal you have!
@francisca4924 You're beautiful just as you are, don't shy away from the mature nature of your body, you're a long walk from being "old" 💝
good for you, keep loving what you have, its the first step to appreciation, the never enough addiction never ends and stops at regret of lost happiness
girl you helped my confidence A LOT
I just would like to say: thank you very much! You've changed my mind about my apparence. Last saturday I went to Van Gogh's exposition with a friend of mine and we took some pictures. When I saw the pictures I didn't like because my face looked so fat, and I confess that I got a little sad and I spent many hours thinking about my apparence. It's "incredible" how my mind plays tricks on me. I'm so beautiful, so smart.... I still don't know why I can't treat myself so kind.
This look is not going to age well. And like you said, it is permanent. I love my round face. Thank you for your videos Stephanie!
I like my fat face 🤣
So crazy that 8 years ago you were teaching me how to do makeup for hooded eyes and now you've got me loving my chubby cheeks 😂
You are a champion of women, thank you for being you! 💜💜💜
Aw I love that so much! ❤️
As someone who has lost facial volume due to an autoimmune disease, I wish these young girls could understand they are just aging themselves prematurely. I agree, they looked better before. It like losing the frame of a house. PLEASE do your homework and don't rush into what is honestly a fad. All faces are beautiful, love yours! Thank you Stephanie! xx
What kind of autoimmune disase do you have? Just asking because I never heard of any immune disase that causes loss of facial volume until now so it is so interesting(sorry if my English is bad)
Sjögren's Syndrome. It can cause all kinds of problems, but one is super dry mouth (it causes problems with the parotid glands, etc.) which can lead to bone and tooth loss. Facial wasting can result if it's severe. Anyone who has Sjogren's - get a great dentist & rheumatologist. Hope this helps. @@h.h8766
Young women*
It’s like warm and healing talk with lovely wise mom❤️❤️❤️ thank you Stephanie ❤
hey hey hey, this is exactly what i needed! ive been super insecure about my face this year & this just made me super happy! thank you so so so much
Even when I was severely dieting and was underweight, my face was still fat and had double chin lol. I have decided to embrace it now tho. Life's too short to be worrying about that.
Even when I was a very athletic teen I thought I was fat because of having a soft jawline. We gotta remember to just be pretty versions of ourselves and embrace our unique "thumbprint".
Yes! And I’m sure you look so cute!!
Omg same! I am extremely skinny (barely in the healthy BMI range) but still somehow have a very, VERY prominent double chin 😂
Stay beautiful.
same here lol
When I was 15, I looked into the surgery because I hated my round face but when I finally met with a surgeon at age 17, he told me I would age very badly if I got it done, and keeping my round face would make me look young for a very long time. I listened to him now I’m 28 and I can pass for 17
My face is bony so I had fat grafting. Can’t believe one would get rid of a defining youthful advantage
when i am thin my face is long and hollow cheeks and it always made me insecure
I've always had a round face and a very thin body. I honestly never paid attention to it that much until people started pointing it out. When I finally started gaining some weight, my face got more rounded and people called me different names (saying I look like a lollipop or matchstick etc) which made me very insecure and caused me to have an eating disorder(causing my weight to go down from 50kg to 42kg). I am trying and recovering now, but I'm still underweight (45 kgs at 5'4) and still scared to gain weight in case it makes my face rounder. So I've been looking to try masseter botox since it's not permanent and feel like it might help with my eating disorder as well. Yes, it does make me look younger(people often mistake me to be in my teens or early 20s, when I'm almost 30) but I also get a lot of insults thrown at me. It's just sad.(Sorry for the long rant)
Thank you so much for making the content you do. You’re really changing lives out here.
I was just talking to my boyfriend the other day about how even when I haven’t been eating well and lose weight everywhere else (I struggle to get in enough meals due to sensory issues and nausea), my face is still round and chunky looking. It’s always been something I’ve struggled with feeling self conscious about and seeing this video helped me see things from a different perspective. Perhaps it’s my round face that has everyone I meet thinking I’m a teenager when I’m actually pushing 30 😅
So, as someone who had buccal fat removal due to dentist recommendation, I gotta say there are ways to get the procedure done without becoming "weird". I still have a round face with full cheeks but now I don’t bite my cheeks from the inside anymore. My buccal fat didn’t come out easily, it was actually very soft and started breaking into tiny little pieces. So the dentist (here in Brazil dentists do the surgery and I think it’s better) only removed 2ml of fat from each side of my face. I had the procedure in 2018, I was 33
Yeah because you got it for medical reasons. That was why the surgery was invented, for people who have excess buccal fat and bit their cheeks. These celebs don't need to (unlikely anyway as they're all getting it) and so they look strange.
@@puffball4484 Yes, I know. But even if people wanna do do it only for cosmetic reasons, you don’t need to remove your whole buccal fat
I think that’s part of the problem…it can be done without being extreme🤷🏼♀️
@@lisapoulsen5452 I agree
Oh dang is that why I bite the inside of my cheeks so often?????
I have a huge bump on the inside of one of my cheeks just from the constant biting 😭 i just assumed i had large teeth ahhsnsms
I've always had chubby cheeks and been somewhat insecure about them. Mostly when it comes to smiling in pictures because I feel like my face expands to a disproportionately large mass. But I am always taken to be much younger than I actually am, and I'm regarded as attractive. Thank you for this video. It really does help put these insecurities into perspective. And I agree, they all looked better before
I have a super slim face with sharp cheekbones and a prominent jawline and honestly I've hated it my entire life. All I wanted growing up was to gain weight in my cheeks, and now people paying money to get exactly what I've been insecure about my whole life is wild to me.
Felt the same about curves and BBL. Always had a big butt and even got bullied for it, but then Kim k and her clan brought out the bbl trend and everybody started trying to get a big butt felt so twisted to me. And I felt a bit betrayed tbh 😂😅
I have very high cheekbones and the same sort of feelings. I like them, but only when they weren’t too prominent. I don’t like to drop my body weight down too far because I think it makes my face look as if it is only angles. I will look at photos of these celebrities and think… you could not pay me to do that to my face!
@@LotusesGalaxyOcean right?! I feel like there's a very fine line weight-wise where I look sick if my bone structure is too visible
@@ADevilsHollywood Hahaha! Same! You took that thought right out of my head!
I used to feel that way as well because round faces are feminine and I would get mistaken as a boy but even though I don't have that face shape I still like my Hallow cheeks, my jawline and my high cheek bones...anyone can be beautiful no matter their face shape and when I get older I'm still gonna feel good about my face shape.
In my thirties and am seeing that loss of fullness these last few years. Fullness is youthful!
Thank you for all the appreciations Stephanie, you're so on point and kind simultaneously. ❤😊
I was skinny then i gained some weight. Actually fat made my face look more beautiful. Idk how but it did 💀💀 , now my face looks more youthful and cute.
Because it rounder so it looks younger and we you'll age you'll look younger too
As a “UA-cam Auntie” please don’t be overly concerned about your chubby round faces. It helps to maintain a youthful look! When you age some of the cheek face WILL lessen. I am 44 and I am so happy I had a cherub face. Now I do have a bit more cheek bones showing and I’ve embraced that! ❤
I showed my boyfriend a photo of Sophie Turner and he said she looks scary 😢 I’ve always thought she was gorgeous but he said it was because her head looks like a skeleton with her cheeks all sunken in. I think she may have gotten this done too. He and I talk about beauty trends and standards often and essentially what I’ve gleaned from conversations is this; when we women look at ourselves, we look for, hone in on and obsessed over our perceived flaws. When men look at us, they see us in the most flattering way their brains can conjure. They are literally looking for reasons to find women attractive. I think if we could see ourselves through men’s eyes we might be much easier on ourselves. I know I would if I could see me the way my boyfriend does.
She aged fast after GOT
Thank you I needed to hear this. For some reason the past months I’ve been feeling very insecure about my face fat and I didn’t realize that a thin face is the new trend and it’s being fed to me.
Fully agree with you Stephanie that full faces look gorgeous and there is beauty in some many types of looks. Wonder if facial balance may play a factor in why people get this procedure? Many of the celebrities had balanced thirds so it looks skeletal/off but if you have a heavy lower third then it can create a sense of balance and harmony.
When I was younger, I had a very round face, and I've noticed, as I've gotten older (I am now 40) that my face slimmed down a lot by my late 20s. So if anyone is insecure about their cute lil chub, it'll slim down by itself, and you age MUCH less quickly ♥ Love your videos Steph ♥
Whenever I'm feeling down (I just turned 49 a couple days ago...My last year in my 40's!) I will put on your channel and listen to you as a motivational speaker! I've been following you for *YEARS* and I simply adore you Stephanie. You're a bright light in the mass of UA-camr's that have sold their soul. You and Wayne Goss will forever be my top favorites. (Yes there are others I love too but you two have a special place in my heart for telling it like it is!) Love your guts right back! 🫶
I was actually searching for ways to get rid of fat face when I came across your video. What you said is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you!
I agree that a full face is absolutely gorgeous and it really does make you appear more youthful. I had an older Asian neighbor growing up and I was always self-conscious of my round face, was always told I look younger than I was, well my neighbor complimented me all the time on stuff that always had made me feel ugly (round face, round eyes, pale skin), her compliments really helped me when I was growing up. She told me that where she was from my face, eyes and skin were trademarks of beauty. Really nice lady. Once I got older, had kids, and breastfed.....OMG did my face thin out and was then I realized how important having facial fat was, so if anyone read through this whole comment, I want you to know that having a full face is so beautiful and if you leave yourself surgically untouched you will age so gracefully. Also natural thinning of the face looks quite gorgeous as well. Thank you for the wonderful video!
As a chubby face girl, I stumbled on this at the right time 😊
Thank you
I love seeing someone who doesn’t look like every single other “star”.
the timing of this with me feeling extra insecure about my round face was insane. thanks again stephanie :')
Round face owner with a double chin and have always felt insecure but this video is so true! I get so many compliments on how young I look and how glowing and firm my skin looks. So this round face person is in love with my face now! Thank you for your videos.
You are my comfort youtuber :,) i have a naturally chubby face and ive always kept the option of buccal fat removal in the back of my mind for when im old enough to get it. But now i am certain that i will keep my face as is. Love u sm stephanie
I needed this today! I went from being extremely unhealthy and underweight to simply being a healthy weight, and with that my childhood cheeks came right back. I never wanted to remove the fat beer say but i stay feeling insecure because of it! I really needed this reminder of the beauty in cheeks thank you for all the comparisons!!
“Another day, another flaw.” - Perfectly said!! 👏👏👏
Oh Stephanie. Thank you so much. I had been thinking of getting this surgery in Korea, but noticed people dont care at all, I got more compliments than usual in the last week, and I realized that it is all in my head, my perception etc. Racially speaking I am Indian but get confused with latina half of the times. Roundface fellow girls, listen to Stephanie. And Stephanie, thanks again. Love from Europe. 🥰
I can’t tell you how bad I needed this specific video. I can’t believe I’ve been lookin at my cheekies like they’re the problem. Thank you ❤️
You're an angel for making this video. Thank you for making me feel less insecure.
Jennifer Lawrence had a ton of work done after her last film.
I appreciate this so much. I AM self conscious about my round face and have wanted a long, oval shape rather than the round/heart shape I have. But, I try to appreciate it and embrace the cuteness. I have a soft face like a classic Disney princess or Marilyn Monroe. Longer, slimmer faces seem a little more elegant to me, but round faces are dainty and bright! There's definitely room for all!!!
Your videos are a blast of positivity! Thank You for always addressing these idiotic surgical procedures....that are created to line these surgeons pockets with money.
thank u for this
gosh Stephanie its so nice for someone like you, I mean someone with such big following ob social media, to bring back that reality and to say that its normal to look a certain way and not like all the current trends. I really like hearing your words, it really helps a lot for many people I am sure. Thank you ❤
This is such an amazing video!! Thank you so much for uplifting us fatter face girls. Also, the fact about natural hollowing of cheeks as you age is literally so true and always helped me feel happy about my face despite the current beauty standard. I wish everyone understood that we’re ALL beautiful on the outside, just work on your inside: your mind and your health are more important than your looks.
I have a fat face with chubby cheeks, and after this video, I’m starting to love them just a little bit more. Thank you Stephanie! ❤
I clicked immediately. 😂 I've just finished watching the previous video about male beauty standards. I love your videos, keep up the good work. 😊
I really started to appreciate my full cheeks in my 30s because I remained looking young. At 30 someone actually thought I was 16 years old. I'm now 46 and that buccal fat is serving me really well. I have crows feet and greys. But my plump cheeks still get me the, "Oh I thought you were in your early 30s." Listen to Stephanie, girls. She knows what she's talking about.
I've ALWAYS had a round face. My mom used to pick on every detail about me that she didn't like, and that often included my looks. When I was like 11, she told me that when I get older, I should get a surgery called buccal fat removal to fix how fat my face was. I'd never had an issue with my cheeks before, but I obsessed for years about getting my buccal fat removed after she told me about it. Now I see these other girls who are around my age, and I see how much their faces changed because of buccal fat removal surgery. I'm so grateful I couldn't afford to have plastic surgery when I was younger. I mostly also that wish we weren't expected to look as flawless as possible at all times! I can't even imagine how much fun life would be if I didn't gaf about how I look. I'm trying to get to a place where I love myself regardless of my stinkin face fat lol, but the feeling of being defective is always with me 😅
the fact she told you that at 11 is INSANE. Legitimately, absolutely insane. I can't even fathom telling a little girl that. I'm 23 and have juuuuuusttt started to notice my baby fat in my cheeks lessening, but it's still only noticeable when compared to pictures of me from a few years ago. I've been mistaken for being 17 several times this year and will probably keep being mistaken for being younger than I am for years to come
No healthy woman would say those things to her beautiful daughter. 😢
Very much needed this video!🙏 I've been feeling a bit insecure about my puffy face due to a steroid I had to be on so this has reached my heart and made me feel loved and valued thanks so much!🤗🥰💖
Puffy faces are so youthful. My dad in his 70s had a puffy face as a side effect of his anti rejection meds (steroids included) after his kidney transplant. He used to joke how great his skin and face looked and I def agreed. I miss him. Stay beautiful ❤
I am thankful to have a youthful face due to my Polish genetics. I’ve always been contemplating on getting buccal removal but I really don’t think it’s going to be worth it :/ I am only 22 so I know that my face shape may change as I get older. Thank you Stephanie for the encouragement and positivity ❤️
I’m polish too and I also have a wide and chubby face + jaw 🤣
Wow, that's interesting, because my jaw and cheeks also come from the Polish side of my family!
I have apple cheeks from my Polish roots as well! I look a decade younger and so do all my female relatives. God and your ancestors blessed you with natural filler, don’t get any removal!
I am Czech and I have chubby cheeks and round face. It's those Slavic genes. 😄
Get rid of face fat, look 20 years older especially the older you get. Thank you from the bottom of my heart...as a 46 year old woman...I have always wished I had a smaller face...but I have learned how to love myself over the years...and know that it keeps me more youthful looking. You are awesome!
I love having a roundy fat face 😆😆 I am 27 and dont look a day older than 20 because of that, so I think its a great thing
I love how passive aggressive Stephanie's video titles have become 😂 then you click and she imparts big-sister wisdom and love 💙
I really appreciate what you are doing, and how kind you are towards every lady you mention ❤️
Stephanie!!!! Thank god u bring this up!! My 16 year old teen in me NEEDED this!! I was so insecure about my round face with my round cheeks, that I did everything I could to hide them, I had my side bangs covering the half of my face, thinking it would slim out my face, but out of that I got migraines cause I couldn't see anything bcs of my hair covered mostly of my eyes, and it gave me more depression and anxiety.
I hated being in pictures, cause when I saw random pics friends took of me and saw that the hair trick didn't work out and I just saw how I looked so unhappy and that even my cheeks looked thicker. And I HATED to go outside if It just blew a little bit cause it would blew the hair out of my face and show everything that I tried to hide. It was the WORST on the beach...
A friend I had back in the days, even had the audacity to make me feel worse when she removed my hair out of my face to reveal of how I actually looked,... she gasped, shook her head and shivered her whole body. That was it for me. I died inside. I still hate her for it to this day.
She hurt me so bad. It actually gave me more trauma that even made my life worse. I felt so ugly that I begged to god (that I didn't even believe in) every night before school, to please let me die in my sleep. I was exhausted and sick of my depression, I didn't feel the need to live anymore, I thought I didnt deserve to be alive. And as you said. I searched on Google on how to remove face fat and so on. But it never gave me any hope of course. Especially when I already was a skinny person.
I got good help at the psychiatrist with good medications and got diagnosed with social anxiety and depression with ocd.
But the years passed on and I began to accept myself and tried to become mentally healthy. And I did, now at age 25, I'm healthy and happy! I have my hair even up in buns and even with hairbands to sweep the hair OUT of my face. I never thought I could do that when I was younger.
Today, I emprace my face with my genes that gives me a healthy looking and happy face, with a big beautiful smile. My boyfriend loves my smile and my face with my eyes. I never thought again that someone would love me that way. I feel so pretty and beautiful! I still though have bad days ofc, but that's normal!
I see this "trend" going on and it kinda triggers my trauma and with this video, u give me hope to stay in touch with myself and not harming myself that way again. I will never let society try to bring me down once again. Thank u for cheering me up, u even cheered the 16year old in me, It helped to heal my past even more. Thank u Stephanie for doing these kind of videos!! Thank u, thank u sm!! ❤️
I like your account it gives me much comfort cuz I have really big cheeks and I thought "do I have too much fat in my face do I have to get buccal fat removal?" and I have times where I felt like I'd be more pretty if my cheeks were "normal size". and watching you I get this sense of thought that I shouldn't give in to these inconsistent "beauty standards" and that it is okay to be human and have human characteristics and I'm not an inanimate lifeless object which never changes or dies. and I'm more than that and that is what's important. I am not gonna stay the same as I look right now in my 18s which means I'm a living breathing human who has a mind of their own and I think it's more amazing than any inanimate or lifeless object or concept
"There are so many ways to be beautiful." What a good reminder. Thank you for that ❤
I was always so insecure about my round face. Even my family would tell me that I had a 'fat face'. I'm in my mid 20s now and I can see my face slimming, the cheek bones are showing a bit. To me it shows, that we grow into our features. I love my round face now!
When I was early twenties, I was very insecure about having a round or “baby” face and even researched buccal fat removal. Now at 27, I am so happy I let it be, since aging naturally decreases the fat in your face and many people who do get this surgery at a young age have to pump in extra fillers later so they don’t look like a skeleton. Face fat despite not being “attractive” right now is a natural filler and helps your face look good as you age.
Also with the way beauty trend change, most likely we only need to wait a decade before round faces are the next big thing and all the girlies are running to get filler to get the “Selena circa 2023” look
I. I think the point is not to obsess over features, one day something is in and then is out. Our bodies are not trends and aging shouldn’t be seen as bad. I find it funny that this video is full of round face people happy because it makes them look younger… so we are all here still obsessing over aging aka looks. It’s not hopeful to say wait until the day your face trends, we shouldn’t focus on that because one day that fat will sag, then girlies that we’re happy about chubby faces bc made them look younger will need the bone structure to support, the loop never ends. Let’s be neutral about looks.
She looks well fed:) loved it!
my boyfriend randomly texted me that he loves my "cute face shape" omg
Love this video, and all your videos Stephanie! They have helped so many of us begin to see the beauty we possess!
Everyone possesses different yet unique features and we all are strugglimgg to love ourselves while living a world where all are trying to look the same or we think is perfect but no one is perfect.
@@NishDarji Couldn't have said it better myself! 🦋
I have a round chubby face and never questioned it until the last couple off years, with all the ponytail lift looks and buccal fat removal. It made me so insecure that I could never pull off the tight snatched upper face look. I would pull it back with a snatched ponytail and just feel awful like why can't I pull that off? Not all face shapes can be structured like a greek god lol thanks for making me feel more normal about having a chubby face girl! you do loads for my self esteem every time I watch so thank you so much.:)
I remember Dr.Gary talking about why he stopped doing buccal fat removal and he said that it is a tricky surgery and does not take 20 mins. With concern in things going wrong too
Im 14 years old and ever since i turned 12 ive been going on diets and doing gua sha massages to my face. But until now i still have round face and i realized that no matter how much weight i lose and how much facial massages i do my round face will always be the same. I guess the only option is to love myself and my own facial features, thank you so much for this video because this helped my confidence alot 💖💖
I think about this a lot! in my head, a "hot girl" look a la megan fox transformers was always the ideal, but when I think about it celebrities like Selena Gomez and Emilia Clarke are considered paragons of attractiveness/hot too, but they have a more babyfaced look
(jlaw may have round face but she also has veryefined high cheekbones so that doesn't really help w regard to buccal fat removal)
Almost wanted to cry tears of joy because I've been insecure about my face shape for so long, I can never feel confident without having two strands of hair fall on my face to somehow make it look "thinner", Thank you Ms.Stephanie Lange
you're the best❤️
I naturally have quite a chiselled face, even though my body is definitely not super thin. When I lose weight as I'm doing at the moment my face gets bonier and it's not something I want, tbh. When I'm tired or when it's winter and I'm more pale it makes me look ill a lot faster. It's so typical that people want whatever they don't have; let's all try to, if not love, at least accept and appreciate the face we have! Love you Steph!
I have a round face and have fat face but i never thought to do buccal fat removal as round and chubby cheeks give youthful vibes and its makes you look as younger....so i always loved my round face ...thank u Stephanie for making this type of video for all the girls out there who tried their best to fit in these all stupid beauty standard ... everyone is unique in their own way ...and who cares if we are not pretty ....i don't need anyone opinion about my face... because its my face which is unique and i own it ....its my identity....i loved it ...i don't care if someone will like my face or not...my opinion only matters
Videos like that are so important, thanks for the reminder ❤
Wow thank you for making this. This honestly made me feel so much better about my chin and cheeks. You’re so pretty as well :)
This video made me feel so good about my round face :’) Your content is so important I wish all young women and teens could see this and understand that they are beautiful just the way they are ❤
Thank god for this really, I've never felt insecure of my looks but after covid I gained weight I did feel insecure and my face forever regardless of whether I was under or over weight I had round face and I liked it cuz in my country its a good thing but lately seeing the conventional beauty standards and seeing everyone look the same I feel soo ugly. SO HAPPY FOR THIS VIDEO.I feel like when smiling my full face looks soo ugly and fat and awkward but I am trying not to feel those. 😂😂
Hey, keep smiling and try to appreciate your lovely full face. I'm sure you're adorable when you smile! 🙂
@@sheila6186 omg thank you soo much .I'm sure u too r as pretty as ur character ,so sweet .🥰
unpopular opinion- I always had sunken/ hollow cheeks as I am skinny and people used to bully me saying I don't eat or I'm malnourished or my face looks like chewed food thrown out. But now they all compliment my features. This is devastating. I'm so glad that I didn't listened to them and I'm happy with my body, even though I looks skinny, I have muscles and have a healthy functional body that most people crave for. Huge thanks to Stephanie to make me feel comfortable with who I am. :))))) I am so happy that I found you
i've been a round faced cherub girl for 26 years, and i am currently crying because for the first time I can see past my own hatred for my round face and chubby cheeks. thank you for giving this perspective!
i'm 35 and i'm going to start embracing my chubby-cheeked-cherub face☺ most people think i'm 17 years old lol🤪
I have low facial fat naturally and am accused constantly online of having plastic surgery when I haven’t it’s super annoying and shows one can’t win either way
Thank you! I occasionally feel upset about my round face in comparison to my friends with beautiful bone structure. But I have noticed (I’m 35) how shocked people are when they learn my age. They always think I’m 10 years younger, and I’ve always thought it was because I have round face and a round button nose. Thank you! ❤
I. I think the point is not to obsess over features, one day something is in and then is out. Our bodies are not trends and aging shouldn’t be seen as bad. I find it funny that this video is full of round face people happy because it makes them look younger… so we are all here still obsessing over aging aka looks. It’s not hopeful to say wait until the day your face trends, we shouldn’t focus on that because one day that fat will sag, then girlies that we’re happy about chubby faces bc made them look younger will need the bone structure to support, the loop never ends. Let’s be neutral about looks.
I am a Slav, and I am proud to have my round and fat face! The shape of my face speaks to my genetics and connects me to my ancestors, and no amount of "beauty standards" bs is goint to make me wish I had a different face shape or have my fat removed. Besides, with this face shape, I am always going to feel and look much younger than my real age, unlike everyone who is scrambling to have their fat removed. When the trends suddenly change and round faces become popular again, I will be the one to have a lot of cheek.
Fellow semi-Slav here! Dad was Czech and I got his face shape and my maternal grandmother's cheekbones. She was Finnish, so you just KNOW I hit the "round face jackpot" lol!! I used to be insecure about that but when I was 32 and still had to show ID to buy liqueur (I'm in Sweden, we have to be 20) I realized I had something great going on. :-) I'm almost 50 now and people still think I am 35. Not mad about that either. :-)
@@avgeek-and-fashionSame, I'm 53 and still have my babyface. People think I'm in my twenties and thirties. At work they are annoying and ask if I did botox or something. I've just used sunscreen my whole life and still have my babyfat🤷♀️ I'm not slavic but people think I'm from Poland because of my face but I'm half swedish and half french. I don't drink alcohol but had to buy some for a collegue some months ago and had to show an id at systembolaget. Maybe they ask everybody for id or the person was trying to be nice, but it still felt good😅
@@avgeek-and-fashion Same! I am a 30 year old Ukrainian, and I have to show my ID to buy even non-alcoholic beer sometimes. It does not bother me since I take my ID with me anywhere I go as it is anyways. People tell me that I look around 16-18 years, I take it as a compliment!
@@TheGamer2001 It's so weirdly neat to be mistaken for a 30 smth when you're almost 50! Congrats on winning the gene lottery, out-beautying all those poor Hollyweird hollow cheeked faces!
Hope you and your family are safe from the orcs. I have donated to the Swedish efforts many times and lately there are whispers about increased help from our govmt! Slava Ukrainii!
@@avgeek-and-fashion Thank you very much for your kind words and your support, the support of your government, and the support of your people! My family and I are safe so far, thank you!
Returning to the topic at hand, congratulations to you as well on winning the genetic lottery on your own! I aspire to live up to 50 and still feel and look like I am 30! Please take care of yourself!