I guess I was a late bloomer..but now I go to stores for food etc…drs. appts… have no Choice..but then I sort of hibernate..my choice..out of 💯of population I say 99.9 I can’t deal with ..sorry not sorry 😩😬🫣🤪.
they are. I've been shedding them. Its no fun when you feel owned and you then fall into people pleasing. That said, I still want to be open to pleasant human interaction and acts of kindness and compassion, so as not become bitter and twisted. Im always up for chat with an acquaintance on the street, or down at the local coffee shop, but I for the most prefer solitude ; that's me.
I avoid people as a form of security - people just bring trouble, and limiting your interaction with them brings a degree of security. However, I'm not a total hermit, I do maintain relationships with people who I view as mutually beneficial.
Since these last eight years, I have disassociated myself from many toxic individuals, family members, and even church members and will continue till I'm no longer walking this earth. At work, keep to myself one or two people who are good and friendly.
I’m 39 too I avoid people as well ! All they wanna do is gossip talk trash drag you down ! I take my breaks alone I eat on my lunch break alone I don’t even hardly want to talk to the people I work with they’re a bunch of haters .
I turned 50 this year and I find myself avoiding people more and more. I have also recently discovered that my patience level has significantly decreased towards people. Because I am Gen X, I just don't care.
Same, 40 years old, I am just trying to live and eat and support myself. After my dad died, I don't care about optics anymore. I just want make sure, me, my mom, brother and sister and little niece are good. F*** everyone else. My only friend, has a family, successful annoys me, get a family find a women, live a life.
Bless you sir!! Same for me. Dad died three years ago and I stopped caring about anything other than me, my friend, parents and my one cousin. Desire to meet people and entangle in others lives died a long time ago!!!
Sorry to hear about your dad. We are responsible for too much at our age to spend time on anyone who is toxic or brings us down. Thank you for sharing.
Going out, eating, or just taking a break is key. After people used to think it was OK to ask me work related questions when I had lunch at my desk, was the end of staying there.
Same. I have three people, two being family who I have absolutely no wish to ever see again. One actually hung around the top of my road after I blocked them trying to meet me 'by chance', the other two are familly members who I now can't stand. Why don't people take a hint that you have no wish to see them again and that they aren't invited to your home for a reason.
I think promotions are often a function of the company structure and culture... plus length of time at the company. These days there are a lot of companies with very flat organizations, so there aren't a lot of promotions. But other companies have a lot of layers just because they like to give people who stick around the illusion of progress by promoting them every couple years .
"All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts." This Shakespeare quote summarises how individuals go about their daily lives, interacting with one another.
49 years male here, and I left the corporate BS and office games. I have left so many jobs I lost count. I now live avoiding most people as much as I can. These companies can careless about employees and giving promotions. It's about saving costs and how they can screw the hardest worker. and the pay isn't worth sticking around for a raise. It's much easier to find a new job with higher pay. Outside of work, its just me and my dog I have a nice nest egg for retirement and live below my means. Also forget about dating and women, as its a mess in the US. It's much better to be alone and do what you want when you want. . The entire system is broken, and only the ew make it. I don't see myself going back and sticking to my side hustle, like my podcast, to support myself. Great video!
You're on the right track in avoiding energy vampires 😡. My lunch was always spent napping. Now in retirement, people have to hunt to find me,🤔if l want to be found.
Every time I have a job I avoid every one and it always bothers the feminine men and the women interested in me so much that eventually everyone turns on me and gets me out. 😂 I always feel great about avoiding toxic people and if it’s not my place to be and they can’t accept my quiet ass it’s time to go anyway.
I’m ten years younger than you bro and it seems that people are actually forcing me to make the decision to avoid them! I genuinely still cannot believe just how horrendous most people are.
You can stay professional and not share everything about yourself and still be cordial and friendly in the workplace. Most people I have dealt with in the workplace are halfway decent people, but when money is a matter I don’t play. A lot of people will engage in underhanded behavior to protect their jobs. You can be discerning about what you share. On the other hand, several people I consider good friends to this day I met in the workplace. Connections with there matter. Just be discerning about how close you let others get. There is nothing wrong with having acquaintances, colleagues, social friends, good friends, etc.
Though I'm not completely anti-social, I try my best to keep my interactions with people to a minimum, especially at work. I wasn't like this when I was younger but I learned a few lessons that changed my behavior. The only exception to this rule is my family whom I'm very close with.
I’m 44 years old and I don’t waste time on making friends anymore. I tried to blend in. But I guess it’s too much to ask. A small group of friends is okay. But never have too many friends.
I have had more than my fair share of PESSIMISTIC NEGATIVE people alk my life from childhood until my 60s . For a very long time ⌛I just decided not to go out of my way for anybody .
Avoiding people is the first step, the second is realizing that you are, in fact, other people to others and you are no better. When you realize this you can drop this mind made identity you have create for yourself that you are separate from other people, you are not any better.
Here, Industrial Engineer who worked in Medical Device Companies and definitely I have seen people or professionals who are so desperate to get that promotion ASAP (a manager position mostly) doing whatever they can to get there.....Shame on them.
I'd rather be around goldfish(or cats) myself,Mr Gains.I'm 58 and always put more effort into avoiding people than seeking them out.There are just a few exceptions-true friends.Most humans are just a PITA.In retrospect, I'm glad I was an only child.They seem to develop a few fortunate traits;do as well (if not thrive) being on their own,and not giving a flying Kentucky fried f-ck about what people think.There must be some tacit affinity,maybe it's what "gaydar's" like.People who were raised alone can usually "sniff each oher out." All the others I've known can get along with (most)anyone,yet be entirely indifferent.
I've been seriously considering carrying around little cards explaining to people that I've taken a vow of silence. Conversations lately have consistently taken a turn for the worst, including what used to be superficial but pleasant exchanges with random people encountered on walks. It has certainly reached the point of feeling not worth it. At the same time, I don't want to contribute to the atmosphere of coldness and apathy. I've been out of the workforce for some time but I can't imagine how difficult I'd find it to navigate that these days. I don't think I could hack it! It seems like people are losing their ability to connect kindly and in meaningful ways, which is a social problem rapidly moving beyond unfortunate and into the zone of catastrophe.
Am 50+😂 don't understand why I now😢 avoid people...don't even want to be invited to family gatherings. I do enjoy walks...in cities and being around crowds or busy streets🤔 He said "chisme" 😂 What's your ethnicity?
Most people are garbage people. Not all, but the culture is sick so you’re going to encounter a lot of afflicted people these days. People who lift you up and make you want to be a better person are golden. Hold onto those relationships. Most people are envious, materialistic, and lack empathy. Be careful about investing too much resources in these people because at best they won’t appreciate it and at worst they’ll try to harm you.
Ya I get it. I’ve gotten that from people signing me in for doctors appointments or ant the grocery store and there is no self checkout and I don’t care and don’t want to talk frivolous about stuff doesn't really matter.
Yuo are very smart protecting yuor job remember yuor co workers are not friends don’t go out they want to get yuo too talk about other employees then they go back and twist everything to make yuo look bad that’s Mr new years plan I trying to be nice and friendly but it’s gotten me in trouble because people are hipócrite back stunners I don’t trust no one
This pretty much sums up work under capitalism. But things don't have to be that way. Different political economic systems have different social arrangements when it comes to work. And associated liberties. If we can scrap capitalism, we'd be much more optimistic, creative and happier at work. Actually what we have now can I guess more accurately be described as "jobs." Work, genuine work which involves self-direction and meaningful decision-making, is inherently rewarding.
You are doing what feels good.☝️When you Can And Smarter then the world.⚡ Big Love From Virginia ❤ Simple life with Jesus.😊👍Stay with it good will Come to Good.🌻
PLEASE don't avoid people. I know you're massively hurting right now and the job situation is so horrible and inhumane. I've been through multiple layoffs myself over the years. But PLEASE keep a thin sliver of faith alive. It will eventually get better. The economy may suck horribly for a while yet, I won't deny. But PEOPLE aren't the same as companies hiring or not hiring. There are great people out there. Maybe try volunteering as a distraction and to give back while between jobs. Maybe at a food bank? Volunteering is a great way to see and experience kind, good, generously-minded people. Which is the opposite of ruthless corps. I volunteer, and it does feel good to give back. And I like to give honest, constructive feedback on YT! 😄 Rooting for you! 💪 😊 👊
that's what happen with diversity, nobody know how the other think or act or even the language he speak. I talk to people who think like me and other...
Diversity is not a bad thing, diversity of cultures is why America is what it is today. The current issue today is social media and the internet. We all spend more time interacting with each other without working on face to face social skills . Thats just my opinion. If you really think the issue is not finding people that look like you can solve that issue by moving to areas that will allow that for you. But your situation will probably not change because it’s a fundamental personal issue.
@@infermex Exactly, many people my age 40, have grey hairs, how is that still “a kid”? Im old enough to have a child that has finished a masters degree program at 40…
I am 44 and avoid people now for 5 years.....i choose to live my life alone in sollitude. People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness starts with extern factors like status, money, material things, looks that means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society. If your happyness depend on extern factors, you will never be happy because extern factors are endless. Thats why a lot of people buy stuff or look a certain way to create an illusion for the outside world out of emptyness.....sad Happyness starts inside you. The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, double standards, own benefits, hate, hypocrites, judgement, comparing etc..... reflection of their broken souls. Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time to reflect and work on yourself in the here and now where the magic happens. No, not feeling superior or better then others but more be carefully and aware. Be the light in your own life.
Yuo are very smart protecting yuor job remember yuor co workers are not friends don’t go out they want to get yuo too talk about other employees then they go back and twist everything to make yuo look bad that’s Mr new years plan I trying to be nice and friendly but it’s gotten me in trouble because people are hipócrite back stunners I don’t trust no one
Wait til you reach 50+ years old. Your patience will dimish even more
Yep 50 here
I’m 48 and my tolerance in GONE
To late. I only turned 35 last month. But I've felt like this for several years. Mostly because of lousy humanity has become.
I guess I was a late bloomer..but now I go to stores for food etc…drs. appts… have no Choice..but then I sort of hibernate..my choice..out of 💯of population I say 99.9 I can’t deal with ..sorry not sorry 😩😬🫣🤪.
So true lol
People are complicated and it seems they get ruder and more unpleasant with each passing year…
Our society and culture is in decline.
That's true
My coworkers are my competition. HR is not your friend. Senior management are assholes. I just do my work and go home.
That's true. Good approach
People will always be the main core of your suffering
Facts 💯
You're right.
they are. I've been shedding them. Its no fun when you feel owned and you then fall into people pleasing. That said, I still want to be open to pleasant human interaction and acts of kindness and compassion, so as not become bitter and twisted. Im always up for chat with an acquaintance on the street, or down at the local coffee shop, but I for the most prefer solitude ; that's me.
I avoid people as a form of security - people just bring trouble, and limiting your interaction with them brings a degree of security. However, I'm not a total hermit, I do maintain relationships with people who I view as mutually beneficial.
Well said. I avoid people because of security too. As a woman it can be very dangerous just walking home alone
Good points. Thank you for sharing.
There is nothing wrong with being a hermit.
Since these last eight years, I have disassociated myself from many toxic individuals, family members, and even church members and will continue till I'm no longer walking this earth. At work, keep to myself one or two people who are good and friendly.
Everyone is asking me for money now. I am retired at 55, so they think I have all this money stashed away. Jokes on them.
@ThunderStruck94660 wish I were retired I'm 59. How did you get to retired at 55 just wandering.
@ Military retirement. 27 yrs.
@@ThunderStruck94660 wow 👌 nice
Oh wow. Sorry to hear that. Thanks for sharing. It's best to set boundaries with toxic people, even if they are family members.
Hell is other people.
Remember, you are also "other people" to others.
@@jasonolinger7585 Right, which is why avoiding people benefits not only yourselft but others as well.
My mum always said, be careful who you invite into your life because people equal stress. As I get older I see the wisdom in her words.
Those were some wise words. Thanks for sharing.
I am 53 and I only go out when I have to, I go to my car for breaks and lunch lol
Oh wow. Thanks for sharing. I think that's a good strategy!
Ive been avoiding ppl since childhood
Ever since I turned 40 I been like that
Me too
I wish I started that young
Me too, but I wasn't fully conscious of why I was doing it.
I applaud your openness and vulnerability, Will!
Thank you! Happy Thanksgiving!!!
Always expect the absolute worst from people. And I guarantee that you will never ever be disappointed again.
They ALWAYS come through on that
You're right. Sad but true.
This expression comes to mind: "I used to be a people person, but people ruined it for me."
That's a good one. Thanks for sharing.
Totally agree with this mindset.
Thank you for the comment.
I’m 50 and avoid people now
Thanks for sharing.
Im the same. Its not that all people are bad, its just that solitude , and having my own free time, is truly blissful.
I’m 39 too I avoid people as well ! All they wanna do is gossip talk trash drag you down ! I take my breaks alone I eat on my lunch break alone I don’t even hardly want to talk to the people I work with they’re a bunch of haters .
Me too bro 👊💪
@ 100 %
Facts
I feel this.
full remote is only way to totally avoid office politics
hate the rto bs
True
You're right.
I turned 50 this year and I find myself avoiding people more and more. I have also recently discovered that my patience level has significantly decreased towards people. Because I am Gen X, I just don't care.
Same here. Hit the 50 milestone and tolerance for BS is zero.
Totally Agree !!! 💯👍
Thanks for sharing. I don't blame you.
I've been avoiding people since I got my driver's license. My instructor said I should.
That's hilarious!
Same, 40 years old, I am just trying to live and eat and support myself. After my dad died, I don't care about optics anymore. I just want make sure, me, my mom, brother and sister and little niece are good. F*** everyone else. My only friend, has a family, successful annoys me, get a family find a women, live a life.
🙏 Big Love From Virginia ❤ Jesus saves us all.
Bless you sir!! Same for me. Dad died three years ago and I stopped caring about anything other than me, my friend, parents and my one cousin. Desire to meet people and entangle in others lives died a long time ago!!!
Ever seen the documentaries the greatest story never told or Europa the last battle?
Sorry to hear about your dad. We are responsible for too much at our age to spend time on anyone who is toxic or brings us down. Thank you for sharing.
Am 40yrs going on 41, I keep to myself,am my own best friend don't want closeness with anybody,as am getting older my mum is my confidant.
Going out, eating, or just taking a break is key. After people used to think it was OK to ask me work related questions when I had lunch at my desk, was the end of staying there.
Feels man
Yea, some people at work have no boundaries or decency.
Wow. I thought something was wrong with me for avoiding people. Glad to know I am not the only one.
You're not alone. Thanks for the comment!
The Bible talks about how things will be in the "Last Days" of human history. It talks about the condition of the human heart
Same. I have three people, two being family who I have absolutely no wish to ever see again. One actually hung around the top of my road after I blocked them trying to meet me 'by chance', the other two are familly members who I now can't stand. Why don't people take a hint that you have no wish to see them again and that they aren't invited to your home for a reason.
Oh wow. Sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing. Congrats on setting boundaries. It's not easy but it's for the best.
Share the gospel of Jesus
Amen.
I’ve been sabotaged by FLDS coworkers so many times at work I can’t even count.
FLDS...they're inbred for crying out loud!
Yep, I'm too old to care. I won't use pronouns. Not sorry.
I'm 40 and my motto has always been: I don't go to work to make friends, I go to work to bring home a paycheck.
Yes. I'm not here to make friends. I'm here to make money.
You are so right!!!!! Love your perspective.
Thank you!! Glad you think so.
Yeah, I've run into this. Team building events. Volunteering. Not worth the risk
I agree. Thank you for sharing.
I think promotions are often a function of the company structure and culture... plus length of time at the company.
These days there are a lot of companies with very flat organizations, so there aren't a lot of promotions. But other companies have a lot of layers just because they like to give people who stick around the illusion of progress by promoting them every couple years .
Great assessment. I agree!!
"All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts." This Shakespeare quote summarises how individuals go about their daily lives, interacting with one another.
That's a great quote. Thank you.
49 years male here, and I left the corporate BS and office games. I have left so many jobs I lost count. I now live avoiding most people as much as I can. These companies can careless about employees and giving promotions. It's about saving costs and how they can screw the hardest worker. and the pay isn't worth sticking around for a raise. It's much easier to find a new job with higher pay. Outside of work, its just me and my dog I have a nice nest egg for retirement and live below my means. Also forget about dating and women, as its a mess in the US. It's much better to be alone and do what you want when you want. . The entire system is broken, and only the ew make it. I don't see myself going back and sticking to my side hustle, like my podcast, to support myself. Great video!
Same age and same priorities but from Australia. Dogs are the best
You're on the right track in avoiding energy vampires 😡. My lunch was always spent napping. Now in retirement, people have to hunt to find me,🤔if l want to be found.
Being comfortably retired sounds incredible. Congrats.
Every time I have a job I avoid every one and it always bothers the feminine men and the women interested in me so much that eventually everyone turns on me and gets me out. 😂 I always feel great about avoiding toxic people and if it’s not my place to be and they can’t accept my quiet ass it’s time to go anyway.
Same here bro. Crazy!
@JellP-x5b that’s the secret, to be just social enough and ask the right questions but eventually if you don’t fit in you don’t fit in
That's the way to go. Thanks for sharing.
He's 39 and he's at an increased risk of spontaneous human combustion 😂
I’m ten years younger than you bro and it seems that people are actually forcing me to make the decision to avoid them! I genuinely still cannot believe just how horrendous most people are.
I don't blame you. It takes so much energy to be around most people these days. Thanks for sharing.
I’m 53 I ignore people now
Don't blame you.
You can stay professional and not share everything about yourself and still be cordial and friendly in the workplace. Most people I have dealt with in the workplace are halfway decent people, but when money is a matter I don’t play. A lot of people will engage in underhanded behavior to protect their jobs. You can be discerning about what you share.
On the other hand, several people I consider good friends to this day I met in the workplace. Connections with there matter. Just be discerning about how close you let others get. There is nothing wrong with having acquaintances, colleagues, social friends, good friends, etc.
I appreciate the insight, and I agree with your points about boundaries.
Im 34, ive been avoiding people for 5 years now
Don't blame you. Thank you for sharing.
Being with the wrong people is worse than being alone yes.
Excellent point. Thank you for the comment.
Though I'm not completely anti-social, I try my best to keep my interactions with people to a minimum, especially at work. I wasn't like this when I was younger but I learned a few lessons that changed my behavior. The only exception to this rule is my family whom I'm very close with.
Glad to hear you are close with your family. It's wise to not share too much with co-workers.
I’m 44 years old and I don’t waste time on making friends anymore. I tried to blend in. But I guess it’s too much to ask. A small group of friends is okay. But never have too many friends.
That's a good strategy. Thanks for sharing.
I have had more than my fair share of PESSIMISTIC NEGATIVE people alk my life from childhood until my 60s . For a very long time ⌛I just decided not to go out of my way for anybody .
Sorry to hear you have experienced that. Thanks for sharing.
I’m 59 and I avoid people too 👍🏾
Don't blame you. Thank you for the comment.
Avoiding people is the first step, the second is realizing that you are, in fact, other people to others and you are no better. When you realize this you can drop this mind made identity you have create for yourself that you are separate from other people, you are not any better.
Thanks for the comment.
I'm not a office dood 😎
Most people are miserable with themselves
That's true.
I am 33, and i am extremely good at avoiding since 2020 .... I have ph.d ..in Solitude
Nice. That's a valuable degree. Thanks for sharing.
I am looking for a job that has little human contact
That'd be nice.
I am 33 I feel the same way
Thanks for the comment. Don't blame you.
I'm 40 in the uk and this is how I'm feeling
People can me too much sometimes. Thank you for sharing.
I’m 39. I do the same
Don't blame you. Thanks for sharing.
Here, Industrial Engineer who worked in Medical Device Companies and definitely I have seen people or professionals who are so desperate to get that promotion ASAP (a manager position mostly) doing whatever they can to get there.....Shame on them.
Yes, that's a shame. That's for sharing
I'd rather be around goldfish(or cats) myself,Mr Gains.I'm 58 and always put more effort into avoiding people than seeking them out.There are just a few exceptions-true friends.Most humans are just a PITA.In retrospect, I'm glad I was an only child.They seem to develop a few fortunate traits;do as well (if not thrive) being on their own,and not giving a flying Kentucky fried f-ck about what people think.There must be some tacit affinity,maybe it's what "gaydar's" like.People who were raised alone can usually "sniff each oher out." All the others I've known can get along with (most)anyone,yet be entirely indifferent.
Thanks for the insights. I'm an only child too. I also am good with just a handful of true friends.
@@LaborGains You glad you were an only child? I love it.A few friends are just enough.With experience, you can tell the read deal.
I've been seriously considering carrying around little cards explaining to people that I've taken a vow of silence. Conversations lately have consistently taken a turn for the worst, including what used to be superficial but pleasant exchanges with random people encountered on walks. It has certainly reached the point of feeling not worth it. At the same time, I don't want to contribute to the atmosphere of coldness and apathy. I've been out of the workforce for some time but I can't imagine how difficult I'd find it to navigate that these days. I don't think I could hack it! It seems like people are losing their ability to connect kindly and in meaningful ways, which is a social problem rapidly moving beyond unfortunate and into the zone of catastrophe.
Thanks for sharing this. Good insights.
Am 50+😂 don't understand why I now😢 avoid people...don't even want to be invited to family gatherings. I do enjoy walks...in cities and being around crowds or busy streets🤔
He said "chisme" 😂
What's your ethnicity?
Yea, I like the energy of malls or walking around the cities. But if someone stops me for small talk I usually don't enjoy that.
Most people are garbage people. Not all, but the culture is sick so you’re going to encounter a lot of afflicted people these days.
People who lift you up and make you want to be a better person are golden. Hold onto those relationships.
Most people are envious, materialistic, and lack empathy. Be careful about investing too much resources in these people because at best they won’t appreciate it and at worst they’ll try to harm you.
Great advice. Thank you for sharing.
Ya I get it. I’ve gotten that from people signing me in for doctors appointments or ant the grocery store and there is no self checkout and I don’t care and don’t want to talk frivolous about stuff doesn't really matter.
Exactly. Thanks for the comment.
Yuo are very smart protecting yuor job remember yuor co workers are not friends don’t go out they want to get yuo too talk about other employees then they go back and twist everything to make yuo look bad that’s Mr new years plan I trying to be nice and friendly but it’s gotten me in trouble because people are hipócrite back stunners I don’t trust no one
This pretty much sums up work under capitalism. But things don't have to be that way. Different political economic systems have different social arrangements when it comes to work. And associated liberties. If we can scrap capitalism, we'd be much more optimistic, creative and happier at work. Actually what we have now can I guess more accurately be described as "jobs." Work, genuine work which involves self-direction and meaningful decision-making, is inherently rewarding.
Thanks for the comment.
You are doing what feels good.☝️When you Can And Smarter then the world.⚡ Big Love From Virginia ❤ Simple life with Jesus.😊👍Stay with it good will Come to Good.🌻
Yes! Thank you!
If “people” has been redefined to mean “coworkers,” there’s a deeper problem.
Thanks for the comment
Anxiety, food, Godzilla 🔥🔥💯🔥
What a famine won't take out, Godzilla will.
This is the time for many office holiday parties.
Ugh.
@@LaborGains Lol it can't be all that bad. Thanks for the heart😃
PLEASE don't avoid people. I know you're massively hurting right now and the job situation is so horrible and inhumane. I've been through multiple layoffs myself over the years.
But PLEASE keep a thin sliver of faith alive. It will eventually get better. The economy may suck horribly for a while yet, I won't deny. But PEOPLE aren't the same as companies hiring or not hiring. There are great people out there.
Maybe try volunteering as a distraction and to give back while between jobs. Maybe at a food bank? Volunteering is a great way to see and experience kind, good, generously-minded people. Which is the opposite of ruthless corps. I volunteer, and it does feel good to give back.
And I like to give honest, constructive feedback on YT! 😄
Rooting for you! 💪 😊 👊
Lol. I volunteer. And the people I work with there are assholes.
Literally lol! @ the video title
Probably for the best. If you do associate with people definitely don't hang around with younger people, that's the worst.
It's a sad world we live in, Where did it all go wrong?
It really is. Not sure.
@@LaborGains Thank you very much for responding to my comment.
I been alone while and u just can't argue or take criticism on yourself and u don't have to depend on anyone to go anywhere with being by yourself.
that's what happen with diversity, nobody know how the other think or act or even the language he speak. I talk to people who think like me and other...
Diversity is not a bad thing, diversity of cultures is why America is what it is today. The current issue today is social media and the internet. We all spend more time interacting with each other without working on face to face social skills . Thats just my opinion. If you really think the issue is not finding people that look like you can solve that issue by moving to areas that will allow that for you. But your situation will probably not change because it’s a fundamental personal issue.
@ yes it is, diversity is never a strength. Bring tension and problem. Is it always a bad thing no, but very rarely a good thing.
Thanks for the comment.
Happy Ungrateful Day! 🤓
What took so long?
Lmfao
Good question.
What are we doing to ourselves..?
Good question.
Bro only couple seconds in I will def say they all need therapy
invest in index funds for retirement bro ...
Good point.
Life lesson is you want to talk about fishing i guess that will be ok..the late great Ronnie zan zant...live a simple life🌹
I don't know what Ronnie Zan Zant is all about, but thanks for the comment!
Dood 😎 I m 58; you don't want to know 😮.
😮
And they will get mad if you say that type of ppl
are u married bro?
its funny how people are making the titles like The life of Brian Show. lol
I have been doing that since I was a teenager. I hate people.
Thanks for the comment.
39 is still a kid for me. My suggestion is to get socialized. It can be a team builder.
Life expectancy is like 75. If 39 is still a kid, when will they stop being a kid
😂 you sound like the type of guy that says “we are like a family here” at work.
@@infermex Exactly, many people my age 40, have grey hairs, how is that still “a kid”? Im old enough to have a child that has finished a masters degree program at 40…
@@infermex 49 is when it all starts falling apart
@@infermex Right! I agree. Infancy to early 20's are kids. No one over 25 or 30 are considered "kids", younger, but not "kids".
I am 44 and avoid people now for 5 years.....i choose to live my life alone in sollitude.
People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness starts with extern factors like status, money, material things, looks that means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society.
If your happyness depend on extern factors, you will never be happy because extern factors are endless.
Thats why a lot of people buy stuff or look a certain way to create an illusion for the outside world out of emptyness.....sad
Happyness starts inside you.
The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, double standards, own benefits, hate, hypocrites, judgement, comparing etc..... reflection of their broken souls.
Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time to reflect and work on yourself in the here and now where the magic happens.
No, not feeling superior or better then others but more be carefully and aware.
Be the light in your own life.
Thank you for sharing. Good luck out there!
welcome to ageism lol
That’s not ageism.
@sntmdsa3628 ageism is real beyond 40
Yuo are very smart protecting yuor job remember yuor co workers are not friends don’t go out they want to get yuo too talk about other employees then they go back and twist everything to make yuo look bad that’s Mr new years plan I trying to be nice and friendly but it’s gotten me in trouble because people are hipócrite back stunners I don’t trust no one
You're right. Co-workers are not your friends.