Louie what type do you think i am if you can type me, i love acting out stereotypes, would i be of your type, some people typed me that way. If you can checkout my channel please :)
Good work! Content is excellent. Also ... Just sunk in how ENFP vocal inflection is freakishly similar!! Speed, cadence, range, little funny voices thrown in for different characters or mindsets, animated movement ... It's so ENFP! I guess it is Ne come to life.
Eric, I find you to be adorable when you express yourself in different ways (tone, cadence, etc). It brings life into the conversation and dynamic. Also, I've never met you face to face but did appreciate your authenticity and laying it all out in the open to provide insight. I sought out to see what an ENFP looks like in regards to how he carries and represents himself in the world and in relationships. And no, this is not a love note (lol). Thanks for sharing, An inquisitive INTJ
That's really cool you were able to attend VidCon this year. How did you start making videos? I could see myself doing that but I guess would not know where to start or what to do. Seems like a fun, creative community. Anyways thanks for getting back to me!
Honestly I started because I just needed an outlet and it was fun to post something up and get some positive feedback. After I tried a few things and started to feel like it was something I REALLY loved to do I just haven't stopped since :) if you want to start the best way to do it is to just do it. Don't worry about being judged or being bad at first cause we all are. You can't be good at something right away and a lot of people get discouraged after the first couple of videos but just keep at it if you have fun filming/editing then the rest will follow :)
I'm trying to type this guy I'm seeing without forcing him to take the test XD, and I'm like 90 percent sure he's an ENFP. This video made me like 99 percent positive. Thank you!! lol - INFJ
Hiya, I'm an INFJ and I loved this video so much! It's so odd to watch a video and feel like you'd get along with someone amazingly without even knowing them personally. 😅 You're wonderful and I hope no one takes your friendship and kindness for granted! x
Eric, you are awesome! This video does you so much justice. ^__^ I'm an ENFP too (female) and you are the first ENFP male who I've watched and have found is exactly like me but in a male form!! I wish I could meet more ENFP males in real life who I could develop super fun and caring friendships with!
I do too! ^^ But not to the extent that I think a lot of people around me think that I do... if that makes sense? I'm very open about a lot of things but people seem to assume that I let everybody know about everything that I feel and think and that's just not true to me. Don't you feel like people think that you're an open book when you're not 100% like that? Or is that just me? I sadly think that that's a part of why people might think that they already know me (us) when there's so many more layers of onion (I guess) left to see.
Love the video Eric! And I love my Enfp friends! My best friend is also an ENFP and his name is Eric! I am a Enfj and what I value the most and have learned from your personality type that has helped me is my need to not always give unsolicited advice! Early on because of my love for people and my desire to teach I would share when it was not necessarily the best time that person may not have been ready and I had to learn to be more intuitive because Ultimately it is about wanting to see the best for others I serve in a 12 step program were we help people along the way with their journey to healing and we know you can't fix people they have to do the work for themselves. I also love how your type helped me to be more flexible and not have to see things set in stone I have learned how to apply that on my work place and in my personal life by extending more grace to others! I recently just took another test and I see my scores for my Judging side change and now I am 22 % Judger where I use to be 80% something so I have became more balanced! I have to say I am new to watching videos on types but so far I loved yours the most keep it up!
This was really original...lots of new insight :) I do wonder though...are you sure you're not an ENFJ, because you describe my ENFJ friend to a tee...and the feeling other's energies and wanting to bring harmony or happiness to a room of people is definitely an Fe Dom trait 😁
+georgiafirefly Well feelers have the same end goal, they just have different ways of approaching it. The big difference you would probably notice between an ENFJ and an ENFP is their desire to act on their emotions. For example, Eric would rather not bring up his ideals if it wasn't a good time or place, or if he felt that it would be disruptive in some way. Whereas an ENFJ would feel the need to shout their ideals and confront challengers regardless of setting. In a nutshell, Fi = there is a time and place, Fe = the time and place is now (I feel like I should say it).
40 seconds in, man I love my ppl! Omg! Eric is so me! I LOL so much at the bury the body comment. I've said this many of times! 😂😂😂 This is the most accurate ENFP video on YT! Good job!
other ENFP living around philly here! I love this. And yeah we tend to cut straight through the bullshit very easily. The comments about fear of loneliness and wanting to put that perfect relationship first is me sooooo much. And yeah, I'm definitely clingy. I scare people away because of that all the time D:
Ahhh you're so cuteee and I love the good vibes I get from watching thissss😂❣ I relate with literally everything you said hahha I love how you compared us to onions xD
I'm an INTJ woman (ooh, a unicorn!), and the literature says I'm supposed to get along best with an ENFP. And sure enough, I do! Weird. They are the guys I've dated the longest, and I've only found out they were ENFP's later.
this was so interesting! I'm an INFP and met an ENFP last year and I havent been able to shake my desire to know him better. Despite his brightness and energy, I knew immediately that there was a lot more to him than that. Unfortunately I'm beyond terrified of rejection, so I havent had the courage to talk to him much, and he's probably not that interested in me :/
I can relate to every word. Great in-depth look into enfp. P.S. Still flirtatious, we can't help it! As astrologer I found many connections with water planets in ENFP's chart
im ENFP and you remind me of myself. i make everyone laugh with my funny as f jokes. im constantly coming up with new jokes. i hate commitment. i say yes to people when i really mean their is a slight chance i could do it . i love your life. my values are compassionatly helping others. i need alone time to process daily. i love to mess with my enviornment and make it better. i know when a corperate secret shoper comes into my line every time because of my extroverted intuition. i freaking hate breaking up. your cute.
You are cool, i think we could kick it off pretty well. Im a ENFP dude raised around ALL sensors. My mom is a feeler though, but no one in my family is intuitive or creative at ALL. I feel this has made alot of inner conflict and identity issues (playing cool, wanting to be more like ESTP's and shit, getting manulipative) but reading all this MBTI shit about ENFP's and seeing you and other ENFPS and the way they act i realize that im not a sensor and im not a thinker. Feels really good. Reading about it really helped me with alot of questions. Does anybody feel the same way?
***** It's like Transformers, but they're all chicks. The show revolves around a race of gemstones that form solid holographic bodies, and the adventures they have with the star of the show, who is an ENFP half Human half Gem named Steven Universe. It's written by Rebecca Sugar, so it's like Adventure Time but better (Rebecca has written most of the most highly reviewed episodes of Adventure Time).
Totally agree with a lot of this stuff! A LOT! I so wish that people that are close to me would see these things about me, being and ENFP. I don't know if this applies to all ENFP's but one thing that I was thinking about and that he didn't mention is that I feel like people think that we give up everything we feel and think and wear it on our sleves, like he said, but I feel like I'm a completely different person on the inside than what I actually seem to be... does that make sense? x) I mean that I think that we're a lot smarter, deeper and mature then we might seem to be. And I think that that's a part of being insecure and wanting people to like you and trying to adapt to our surroundings, maybe? I don't know. ^^
I also wanted to add to what he was saying about us wanting to be reeeaallyyy close to the people that we love. I truly relate to this but I also have noticed that I want to get as close to a human that I love as I possibly can get without actually being that human. I want to get to know the person so deeply and some people are not comfortable with letting another person get that close and when that happens I always wish that they knew that I never judge people and that I am someone that you can trust with everything. It's a struggle. x) That's maybe what he meant but if it wasn't I'd love to know if anyone else relates to this or not? Might just be a "me-thing".
it's so strange everything he says resonates with me but so does the infp. I love going out and inspiring everyone I meet but it suck the energy out of me. I get physically and mentally exhausted doing it but I don't mind.
You explained me to a T!! One question that's burning to me is how did you learn to program?? I'm trying to learn on my own and I can't for the life of me actually sit down and learn it. This probably stems from me not liking to commit to concrete things, unless I'm completely spiritually involved in it. And there's literally a thousand other things I could be doing instead. Thanks in advance Eric!
It's so crazy that I can see my own body language in you! It's kinda creepy. Dude we do have layers! You represent our type really well and I really appreciate you explaining our type in a really geniune way. Your comment about ENFPs needing alone time from being around sad people made me lol. ENFPs have the best humor hands down. :D
OMG I do that. I saw the look on my coworkers face and I could tell she wasn't feeling good or something was wrong so I asked her and she lied. I told her straight out that she was. Then she left work early. Ahh the gestures that my dad will say are too much. Mean INTJ...* sniffle sniffle* I have went out of my way for others before and many times. One person I will do that for is my friend from high school. I have went out on late night drives, gotten up at 5 am to watch her kid and even neglected my college homework for this girl. All in all she appreciates me very much. Yes people lie when they think I'm supposed to be happy and bouncy. I'm only that way when I want to be. If I want to bring cheer and good energy I'm like that. If I could care less then I'm focused on my work and just do it. I have used being hyped and fun as a she'll or wall many times. I think I've scared people away with my clingyness but in the back of my mind I really didn't care because if they would have stayed then they would have been worth my time. I've been known to say weird things and scare people away as well.
apparently my name is PetraC. JK I really liked your video because you seemed like some kind mirror image with everything you said. people should ask me for advice but they don't . yeah if it matters I can be on time but if anyone asks me to be on time .....not gonna happen.
I have found my people, honestly i need more enfp friends i love all my infj, infp, intj, enfj, friends but being around someone who is fundamentally like me is refreshing.
love this vid! make me laugh so muchhh!, but! there are things that should be say... 1. is true we arent always happy... when our darkside comes to surface.. well... we can be extremely mean... i mean EXTREMELY HONEST. Is like.. "dude i protected you telling the truth in a diplomatic loving way... now... you lost that opportunity and there for take this b... s... as it comes!"... also.. since we can read (almost everybody... almost....) if we are in "bad mode".. (i dont use this, but.. people needs to know that s... exist)... i will know exactly what your weakness is... and be manipulative to get what i want... always in a really lovely way :D. Also we like to talk about aliens, souls, why dogs are so cool, and ofc the meaning of life... among other superficial topics :)
the difference is our mask as ENFPs is us getting excited about possibilities. our mask is Ne and there is so much to be happy(Fi) about. we see that and want to share that love of everything with other people. our big Ne allows us to connect so much to Fi. sharing that joy of life with other people makes us happy because we are so proud of it, in a way. we don't have time when communicating(Ne) to reflect on the negative things of life. I find it becomes very complicated when intuition is the dominant function. I do find that I care about some people as if they are myself. Ne allows us to be one with everything... which can be depressing thanks to our perceptive Ne/Fi combo.
+sarah roberts why do you find dominant intuition to be complicated? I relate though, I'm also an ENFP but I don't always have the energy or care to make others feel better through action, but internally I am constantly processing/thinking/sensing their feelings and would rather talk about it with them
+Nathalie Scherrer dominant intuition will use functions in different ways(non linear for a linear direction) to get somewhere. we can go around, through, and upside down with functions without realizing it. with the Feeling function we can analyze our thinking and the subtle parts of ourselves in a intuitive way that gives us the ability to empathize with other people. sure it might be more narrowly focussed on one person than a Fe user but we can feel what they're feeling and care about them because we see(Ne) how much that particular person and the world needs it. our masks displays this intuitive understanding. we want to share whereas other types(Fe in mind) might want to give.
+Nathalie Scherrer Hey Nathalie, sorry I'm a half-year late. But I've recently discovered the big difference between Fi and Fe in this spectrum. Fe's love to take the direct and hands on approach when it comes to those they care about. They do things like call/text to check up on you, will give you direct advice (even when you may not ask for it), on so on. Fi's will take an indirect approach where you are not consciously aware that you are being helped. They love the idea that they helped you along help yourself. The Fi typically has more patience because of these traits. Unless a loved one asks the Fi for help directly, they most likely aren't going to get it. In conclusion, both types of Feeling yearn to see their loved ones happy, they just have a different approach to making that happen.
(INFJ) Funny that many times NFs are associated with femininity and gayness, but he doesn't look that way. Not that I would be against it and there would be anything bad.
I don't get it. How can you flake on someone if you also want them to be happy? Wouldn't it be better if you are just honest with them in the first place, so they can move on with other plans or other people?
Unlike Fe's lead Fi's don't usually feel a large obligation to people naturally. This is especially true if it goes against how they're feeling. Tie this with avoidance of confrontation, another lead Fi trait, then you get flakiness.
God loves you bro :) the ultimate loving relationship you'll ever find is in Him. If you already know wassup go deeper in his love, if you don't... Attach yourself to God, get to know him and fall in love with him, that's everlasting life forever :)
Well on this one EFxP is definitely right, and it's not that it's super easy to say definitively, but I'm picking up on a lot of ESFP traits. First off he's very expressive in his tone of voice and body language as others have pointed out. Not that ENFP's can't be expressive, but because of Si ENFP's in general are more tame and monotone. He talked a lot about being an inspirer and wanting to uplift people, but ESFP's share this trait. They have auxiliary and tertiary Fi and Te too. In fact, in a physical environment I would reason and say that ESFP's are going to be more an inspirational leader than ENFP's who can be prone to shyness in big groups. Secondly, he talks about wanting to be an entertainer that makes people laugh. Taking on the personality or trait that's the funniest and most uplifting. This is a nostorious ESFP characteristic. Third he talks about being very loyal, smothering, and wanting that one person they can have a deeper connection with. When you're a person with a strong sensing preference, it basically doesn't matter what's objectively right or wrong. What matters is loyalty and who's on your side or who's your enemy. Like he was saying he's be so loyal to someone that he wouldn't rat them out even if they did something horrible. I tend to think that ENFP's are somewhat the opposite of this. They are too disloyal, caring more about objectivity and moral correctness. They aren't afraid and 100% call someone out on their bs, even if that person is close to them. I knew this one ENFP guy who would lecture his cheating mother who lived with her boyfriend. He would refuse to go stay at her house or talk to her even. Also they don't invest in anyone person enough, so while they are friends with many people, they aren't truly close enough to anyone of them. If they name someone their "best friend" they're very negligent of them and can forget to contact them. Sometimes even for years at a time. They're the type of person that will be very vibrant and act like your best friend when you're with them, but the second you leave the room, it's like you never existed. They carry on with their lives without batting an eye. They'll forget about you in pursuit of whatever other ADD distraction their Ne mind presents to them, and they won't recognize or remember you until make it center stage to their field of vision. One good thing about ENFP's though is that no matter how long you've been gone they'll always except you back like you never have left. ESFP's more than likely have an opposite effect. If you don't use it you lose it. If you aren't constantly present and actively engage with an ESFP friend or lover, then you'll lose them. They'll carry on with their lives and will get close to someone else. They won't despise or hate you, but what you once had with them, the bond and connection, will be lost if it isn't maintained. You can NOT just go back to an ESFP you were once close with and expect the same closeness to be there. Things will have changed between you. So Si users are actually the true winners of the award for long term loyalty. Se users win the race in the short run, but in the long-run no once is as loyal to their friends than an Si user. It's going to be a lot harder to form that close bond with an ISTJ or ISFJ and the likes, but once you have then you're bonded for life. They can never truly hate you no matter what you've done. You can always come back to us and ask to be forgiven.
Wow. I am still confused whether I am an ESFP or ENFP. However, when you pointed out the "being negligent to those who we call bestfriends" part but still accept you the same when present, that hit me. I am more ENFP. However, I have this one person that has been very close to me but after being separated for several years and met again, I changed my thoughts of her. Maybe this is an exception lol. anyway thanks.
Relationships are something that require constant attention and nuturement if you're a sensor. Our brains operate strongly on the "use it or lose it" functionality of the brain. We need that consistent stimulation, or we'll forget about someone and lose interest. N's seem a lot more comfortable with long distance relationships and not having someone before them in their lives frequently.
+zmoney(istj) I agree wholeheartedly. I think that both sides of the spectrum are a little too extreme most of the time however. For instance, XSXJ's usually require a lot more consistency and XNXP's require the least. Whereas the rest are more in-between. As notice as I develop, I require less time with my significant other. Which may also be caused by my natural introversion as well.
That ENFP body language though. We're so cute, sorry!
+Louie Houston lmao aren't we tho!!
+Eric J Murtaugh lies
Louie what type do you think i am if you can type me, i love acting out stereotypes,
would i be of your type, some people typed me that way. If you can checkout my channel please :)
Louie Houston YES tooo cute and vulnerable
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You are so genuine ! INTJ female here . I walk into a room and bring a dark cloud with me. You walk into a room and people light up.
Good work! Content is excellent. Also ... Just sunk in how ENFP vocal inflection is freakishly similar!! Speed, cadence, range, little funny voices thrown in for different characters or mindsets, animated movement ... It's so ENFP! I guess it is Ne come to life.
+Sarah Hale yea I have such a wide spectrum of tones and noises lmaoo
Eric, I find you to be adorable when you express yourself in different ways (tone, cadence, etc). It brings life into the conversation and dynamic. Also, I've never met you face to face but did appreciate your authenticity and laying it all out in the open to provide insight. I sought out to see what an ENFP looks like in regards to how he carries and represents himself in the world and in relationships.
And no, this is not a love note (lol).
Thanks for sharing,
An inquisitive INTJ
Yes! I am an ENFP too and loved watching this. I can definitely relate and see a lot of similarities between me and Eric
Julia Miller :D !!!! CHeck ou tmy channel if you enjoy it and wanna see more ENFP nonsense
will do :)
That's really cool you were able to attend VidCon this year. How did you start making videos? I could see myself doing that but I guess would not know where to start or what to do. Seems like a fun, creative community. Anyways thanks for getting back to me!
Honestly I started because I just needed an outlet and it was fun to post something up and get some positive feedback. After I tried a few things and started to feel like it was something I REALLY loved to do I just haven't stopped since :) if you want to start the best way to do it is to just do it. Don't worry about being judged or being bad at first cause we all are. You can't be good at something right away and a lot of people get discouraged after the first couple of videos but just keep at it if you have fun filming/editing then the rest will follow :)
+Eric J Murtaugh thanks for inspiring me
1:44 - Exactly!
2:42 - Holy cow, YES!
3:49 - SO TRUE!
5:38 - Yep!
6:39 - 6:37 So insightful.
I'm trying to type this guy I'm seeing without forcing him to take the test XD, and I'm like 90 percent sure he's an ENFP. This video made me like 99 percent positive. Thank you!! lol
- INFJ
I'm an ENFP and I totally relate to 90% of this! Right on man.
Hiya, I'm an INFJ and I loved this video so much! It's so odd to watch a video and feel like you'd get along with someone amazingly without even knowing them personally. 😅 You're wonderful and I hope no one takes your friendship and kindness for granted! x
Eric, you are awesome! This video does you so much justice. ^__^
I'm an ENFP too (female) and you are the first ENFP male who I've watched and have found is exactly like me but in a male form!! I wish I could meet more ENFP males in real life who I could develop super fun and caring friendships with!
Lionheart Lily WELL LETS BE FRIENDS!!! check out my channel and I always respond to my snaps and tweets :D both @ericjmurtaugh !!!
there's alot of groups for that reason !
Enfp here! And I really do think I wear my heart on my sleeve. Great video!
I do too! ^^ But not to the extent that I think a lot of people around me think that I do... if that makes sense? I'm very open about a lot of things but people seem to assume that I let everybody know about everything that I feel and think and that's just not true to me. Don't you feel like people think that you're an open book when you're not 100% like that? Or is that just me? I sadly think that that's a part of why people might think that they already know me (us) when there's so many more layers of onion (I guess) left to see.
Love the video Eric! And I love my Enfp friends! My best friend is also an ENFP and his name is Eric! I am a Enfj and what I value the most and have learned from your personality type that has helped me is my need to not always give unsolicited advice! Early on because of my love for people and my desire to teach I would share when it was not necessarily the best time that person may not have been ready and I had to learn to be more intuitive because Ultimately it is about wanting to see the best for others I serve in a 12 step program were we help people along the way with their journey to healing and we know you can't fix people they have to do the work for themselves. I also love how your type helped me to be more flexible and not have to see things set in stone I have learned how to apply that on my work place and in my personal life by extending more grace to others! I recently just took another test and I see my scores for my Judging side change and now I am 22 % Judger where I use to be 80% something so I have became more balanced! I have to say I am new to watching videos on types but so far I loved yours the most keep it up!
From the perspective of an ENFP, that was beautifully written :-)
OOOOK WAIT, this is scaring me because I never heard these feelings that I've always had expressed out loud and i'm loving it. ILY ERIC
ENFP......not the inspirers, the onions! Truer words have never been spoken.
This was really original...lots of new insight :) I do wonder though...are you sure you're not an ENFJ, because you describe my ENFJ friend to a tee...and the feeling other's energies and wanting to bring harmony or happiness to a room of people is definitely an Fe Dom trait 😁
+georgiafirefly But maybe your friend is an ENFP, have you thought about it?
+georgiafirefly Well feelers have the same end goal, they just have different ways of approaching it. The big difference you would probably notice between an ENFJ and an ENFP is their desire to act on their emotions. For example, Eric would rather not bring up his ideals if it wasn't a good time or place, or if he felt that it would be disruptive in some way. Whereas an ENFJ would feel the need to shout their ideals and confront challengers regardless of setting. In a nutshell, Fi = there is a time and place, Fe = the time and place is now (I feel like I should say it).
i think hes enfp because i desire harmony and im enfp.
112% Accurate.
-ENFP
40 seconds in, man I love my ppl!
Omg! Eric is so me! I LOL so much at the bury the body comment. I've said this many of times! 😂😂😂
This is the most accurate ENFP video on YT! Good job!
other ENFP living around philly here! I love this. And yeah we tend to cut straight through the bullshit very easily. The comments about fear of loneliness and wanting to put that perfect relationship first is me sooooo much. And yeah, I'm definitely clingy. I scare people away because of that all the time D:
thats why these people need intjs, to peel that onion lol
Tbf just INxJ and ENFP go like Peanut Butter and Jelly.
You lot are just so fun & easy to talk to!
My mom is one; My siblings & I are very lucky to have her.
+KendrixTermina :D we are pretty cool :p thanks soo much!
Aww, ENFPs are really cute.
As an ENFP, this is pretty spot on!
+Anthony Iafrate :D yay
Ahhh you're so cuteee and I love the good vibes I get from watching thissss😂❣ I relate with literally everything you said hahha I love how you compared us to onions xD
very insightful. this helped me find out more about myself. spot on ! cheers
I can relate to all of this! Great video!
I'm an INTJ woman (ooh, a unicorn!), and the literature says I'm supposed to get along best with an ENFP. And sure enough, I do! Weird. They are the guys I've dated the longest, and I've only found out they were ENFP's later.
please make a video of the ENFP INFJ interaction ! or why enfp loves to hang out with infj and why infj to enfp!
intj here...i didn't know any of this
it's was very instructive , thanks Eric....
Have you ever watched parks and recreation? You remind me of Andy a little bit haha. But anyway, this video is spot on!!
This is why i love your videos soo much, we are very similar in so many ways!
ENFP here! and I agree with EVERYTHING you said! Love this video so much! :D
WE ARE ONIONS... well said.
+Missa McFadden ;) thanks hahha, there are levels to this ish!
I like this guy already, its so funny
ENFP here
this was so interesting! I'm an INFP and met an ENFP last year and I havent been able to shake my desire to know him better. Despite his brightness and energy, I knew immediately that there was a lot more to him than that. Unfortunately I'm beyond terrified of rejection, so I havent had the courage to talk to him much, and he's probably not that interested in me :/
Eric Awesome Work. Thank you.
friend posted bout you, your videos are awesome thank you
I can relate to every word. Great in-depth look into enfp.
P.S. Still flirtatious, we can't help it!
As astrologer I found many connections with water planets in ENFP's chart
im ENFP and you remind me of myself. i make everyone laugh with my funny as f jokes. im constantly coming up with new jokes. i hate commitment. i say yes to people when i really mean their is a slight chance i could do it . i love your life. my values are compassionatly helping others. i need alone time to process daily. i love to mess with my enviornment and make it better. i know when a corperate secret shoper comes into my line every time because of my extroverted intuition. i freaking hate breaking up. your cute.
wait im not Petra C. this is acually quite funny . i was trying to say hi and i did but rom the wrong acct. im doing a cry/laugh right now
You are cool, i think we could kick it off pretty well. Im a ENFP dude raised around ALL sensors. My mom is a feeler though, but no one in my family is intuitive or creative at ALL. I feel this has made alot of inner conflict and identity issues (playing cool, wanting to be more like ESTP's and shit, getting manulipative) but reading all this MBTI shit about ENFP's and seeing you and other ENFPS and the way they act i realize that im not a sensor and im not a thinker. Feels really good. Reading about it really helped me with alot of questions. Does anybody feel the same way?
I really like the Japanese 3 face view. It would be nice if you expanded on that, or maybe I will make a vid about it as a fellow ENFP
He's like a real life Steven Universe.
IndigoXYZ18 IDK who that is haha but I approve this message!
***** My new favourite show of all time. As an ENFP you need to get on that shit.
***** INFP here btw.
My bros an INFP!!! awesome and ok im googleing it now!
***** It's like Transformers, but they're all chicks. The show revolves around a race of gemstones that form solid holographic bodies, and the adventures they have with the star of the show, who is an ENFP half Human half Gem named Steven Universe. It's written by Rebecca Sugar, so it's like Adventure Time but better (Rebecca has written most of the most highly reviewed episodes of Adventure Time).
Tell us about enfp jobs ! Good vidéo! You tell the truth...from à crazy enfp 😉
Nice job bro :)
Gabriel Gonzalez Thank you sir!!
You're like my personality twin :D
Perfetttoo😙👌
Totally agree with a lot of this stuff! A LOT! I so wish that people that are close to me would see these things about me, being and ENFP. I don't know if this applies to all ENFP's but one thing that I was thinking about and that he didn't mention is that I feel like people think that we give up everything we feel and think and wear it on our sleves, like he said, but I feel like I'm a completely different person on the inside than what I actually seem to be... does that make sense? x) I mean that I think that we're a lot smarter, deeper and mature then we might seem to be. And I think that that's a part of being insecure and wanting people to like you and trying to adapt to our surroundings, maybe? I don't know. ^^
I also wanted to add to what he was saying about us wanting to be reeeaallyyy close to the people that we love. I truly relate to this but I also have noticed that I want to get as close to a human that I love as I possibly can get without actually being that human. I want to get to know the person so deeply and some people are not comfortable with letting another person get that close and when that happens I always wish that they knew that I never judge people and that I am someone that you can trust with everything. It's a struggle. x) That's maybe what he meant but if it wasn't I'd love to know if anyone else relates to this or not? Might just be a "me-thing".
And yeah, sorry for the word-vomit but this is so fricking interesting and I have no one else that wants to listen to me talk about it! ^^
it's so strange everything he says resonates with me but so does the infp. I love going out and inspiring everyone I meet but it suck the energy out of me. I get physically and mentally exhausted doing it but I don't mind.
we don't see what's best, we think we see what's best. the fault of being a perciever is we don't have the best judgment
I love this explanation.
You explained me to a T!! One question that's burning to me is how did you learn to program?? I'm trying to learn on my own and I can't for the life of me actually sit down and learn it. This probably stems from me not liking to commit to concrete things, unless I'm completely spiritually involved in it. And there's literally a thousand other things I could be doing instead. Thanks in advance Eric!
+Connor B I'm going to get Eric to reply to this comment lol brb
Aw. What a cute ENFP. [I'm INTJ]
Great video, helped me understand a lot more about ENFP! Sadly the links to his pages dont work.
I think as ENFPs were also a bit flaky with relationships because we see potential better situations/pairs
It's so crazy that I can see my own body language in you! It's kinda creepy. Dude we do have layers! You represent our type really well and I really appreciate you explaining our type in a really geniune way. Your comment about ENFPs needing alone time from being around sad people made me lol. ENFPs have the best humor hands down. :D
+Korey Barboza haha yes I wish I knew more of us in person thooo
Your shirts is rad
Oh I am not the crazy one!! There is somebody else like me somewhere!!!! Hahahahahahahahahaha xDDDD
OMG I do that. I saw the look on my coworkers face and I could tell she wasn't feeling good or something was wrong so I asked her and she lied. I told her straight out that she was. Then she left work early.
Ahh the gestures that my dad will say are too much. Mean INTJ...* sniffle sniffle*
I have went out of my way for others before and many times. One person I will do that for is my friend from high school. I have went out on late night drives, gotten up at 5 am to watch her kid and even neglected my college homework for this girl. All in all she appreciates me very much.
Yes people lie when they think I'm supposed to be happy and bouncy. I'm only that way when I want to be. If I want to bring cheer and good energy I'm like that. If I could care less then I'm focused on my work and just do it. I have used being hyped and fun as a she'll or wall many times. I think I've scared people away with my clingyness but in the back of my mind I really didn't care because if they would have stayed then they would have been worth my time. I've been known to say weird things and scare people away as well.
That shirt though! Yes!
You're really cute :) blush
*i-n-f-j here
zabavise my thoughts exactly
I showee every fuckin day. some is truth fix. the weakness and keep the strengths
Real talk. Everything. Real talk.
You are the ultimate ENFP ahahahahah
My favorite!
apparently my name is PetraC. JK I really liked your video because you seemed like some kind mirror image with everything you said. people should ask me for advice but they don't . yeah if it matters I can be on time but if anyone asks me to be on time .....not gonna happen.
Yay! I’m enfp too!!!!
I have found my people, honestly i need more enfp friends i love all my infj, infp, intj, enfj, friends but being around someone who is fundamentally like me is refreshing.
you are so beautiful, im a enfp too
luca damperat AWWW :) I'm blushing hehehhehe
just described me to a tea.
Eric! We should be friends ^_^ I'm enfp too!!!
I'm guilty of the last point
Lol those last 5 seconds doe
It makes the type shine ;)
love this vid! make me laugh so muchhh!, but! there are things that should be say... 1. is true we arent always happy... when our darkside comes to surface.. well... we can be extremely mean... i mean EXTREMELY HONEST. Is like.. "dude i protected you telling the truth in a diplomatic loving way... now... you lost that opportunity and there for take this b... s... as it comes!"... also.. since we can read (almost everybody... almost....) if we are in "bad mode".. (i dont use this, but.. people needs to know that s... exist)... i will know exactly what your weakness is... and be manipulative to get what i want... always in a really lovely way :D. Also we like to talk about aliens, souls, why dogs are so cool, and ofc the meaning of life... among other superficial topics :)
Would be great to know the enneagram or even better Tritype? :-)
Someone who relates to me! 😀
this guy is my soul animal!
Menji Zen isn't it spirit animal?
I am an enfp and people always said that i always happy 😂 and i like to make others people happy
Us ENFPs are the best! :D
Eric reminds me a lot of another guy on UA-cam who I think might also be enfp
There's somebody else like me out there!
Well said
omg he is like literally me but different hobbies #enfps
wow like that girl was very pretty! I feel like a potato
+Lilique Jael which girl??? I was the only one in the video hahaha ;p
+Eric J Murtaugh lol the picture you flashed of this chick....lol couldn't you could't flash a picture of a girl that didn't look like a model.... gee
lol ooo I didn't edit this Evan did haha and that pic is Andrea russett she's also a UA-camr
Hmm, so that's what an ENFP is, haha (ENTP)
+Stephen Joseph this or a rainbow unicorn ;p
I'm fuckin weird I jump from this to. intj
The "feeling everyone's emotions and wanting to make them happy" seems more Fe than Fi, although what do you think?
the difference is our mask as ENFPs is us getting excited about possibilities. our mask is Ne and there is so much to be happy(Fi) about. we see that and want to share that love of everything with other people. our big Ne allows us to connect so much to Fi. sharing that joy of life with other people makes us happy because we are so proud of it, in a way. we don't have time when communicating(Ne) to reflect on the negative things of life. I find it becomes very complicated when intuition is the dominant function.
I do find that I care about some people as if they are myself. Ne allows us to be one with everything... which can be depressing thanks to our perceptive Ne/Fi combo.
+sarah roberts why do you find dominant intuition to be complicated? I relate though, I'm also an ENFP but I don't always have the energy or care to make others feel better through action, but internally I am constantly processing/thinking/sensing their feelings and would rather talk about it with them
+Nathalie Scherrer dominant intuition will use functions in different ways(non linear for a linear direction) to get somewhere. we can go around, through, and upside down with functions without realizing it. with the Feeling function we can analyze our thinking and the subtle parts of ourselves in a intuitive way that gives us the ability to empathize with other people. sure it might be more narrowly focussed on one person than a Fe user but we can feel what they're feeling and care about them because we see(Ne) how much that particular person and the world needs it. our masks displays this intuitive understanding. we want to share whereas other types(Fe in mind) might want to give.
+sarah roberts thanks for describing that :) it makes a lot more sense now. So you think he's still showing Fi over Fe?
+Nathalie Scherrer Hey Nathalie, sorry I'm a half-year late. But I've recently discovered the big difference between Fi and Fe in this spectrum. Fe's love to take the direct and hands on approach when it comes to those they care about. They do things like call/text to check up on you, will give you direct advice (even when you may not ask for it), on so on. Fi's will take an indirect approach where you are not consciously aware that you are being helped. They love the idea that they helped you along help yourself. The Fi typically has more patience because of these traits. Unless a loved one asks the Fi for help directly, they most likely aren't going to get it.
In conclusion, both types of Feeling yearn to see their loved ones happy, they just have a different approach to making that happen.
I just feel exhausted after hanging out with people. Its fun but telling jokes and stories all of the time wears me out.
you guys have not done enfj or isfp! or entj.
All of this is bogus.
(INFJ) Funny that many times NFs are associated with femininity and gayness, but he doesn't look that way. Not that I would be against it and there would be anything bad.
I don't get it. How can you flake on someone if you also want them to be happy? Wouldn't it be better if you are just honest with them in the first place, so they can move on with other plans or other people?
Unlike Fe's lead Fi's don't usually feel a large obligation to people naturally. This is especially true if it goes against how they're feeling. Tie this with avoidance of confrontation, another lead Fi trait, then you get flakiness.
hello love -INTJ
OmG. 100%
im an enfp
+LuminousMC :D
我喜歡你的衣服
haha :)
enneagram 7??
+dearmarinocountmein I believe so
JES
God loves you bro :) the ultimate loving relationship you'll ever find is in Him. If you already know wassup go deeper in his love, if you don't... Attach yourself to God, get to know him and fall in love with him, that's everlasting life forever :)
Don't like commitment I don't care about. All or nothing. 100%
You seem like more of an enfj.
He's not just look at INTP's and how there morphological face expressions are. :)
Well on this one EFxP is definitely right, and it's not that it's super easy to say definitively, but I'm picking up on a lot of ESFP traits. First off he's very expressive in his tone of voice and body language as others have pointed out. Not that ENFP's can't be expressive, but because of Si ENFP's in general are more tame and monotone. He talked a lot about being an inspirer and wanting to uplift people, but ESFP's share this trait. They have auxiliary and tertiary Fi and Te too. In fact, in a physical environment I would reason and say that ESFP's are going to be more an inspirational leader than ENFP's who can be prone to shyness in big groups. Secondly, he talks about wanting to be an entertainer that makes people laugh. Taking on the personality or trait that's the funniest and most uplifting. This is a nostorious ESFP characteristic.
Third he talks about being very loyal, smothering, and wanting that one person they can have a deeper connection with. When you're a person with a strong sensing preference, it basically doesn't matter what's objectively right or wrong. What matters is loyalty and who's on your side or who's your enemy. Like he was saying he's be so loyal to someone that he wouldn't rat them out even if they did something horrible. I tend to think that ENFP's are somewhat the opposite of this. They are too disloyal, caring more about objectivity and moral correctness. They aren't afraid and 100% call someone out on their bs, even if that person is close to them. I knew this one ENFP guy who would lecture his cheating mother who lived with her boyfriend. He would refuse to go stay at her house or talk to her even. Also they don't invest in anyone person enough, so while they are friends with many people, they aren't truly close enough to anyone of them. If they name someone their "best friend" they're very negligent of them and can forget to contact them. Sometimes even for years at a time. They're the type of person that will be very vibrant and act like your best friend when you're with them, but the second you leave the room, it's like you never existed. They carry on with their lives without batting an eye.
They'll forget about you in pursuit of whatever other ADD distraction their Ne mind presents to them, and they won't recognize or remember you until make it center stage to their field of vision. One good thing about ENFP's though is that no matter how long you've been gone they'll always except you back like you never have left. ESFP's more than likely have an opposite effect. If you don't use it you lose it. If you aren't constantly present and actively engage with an ESFP friend or lover, then you'll lose them. They'll carry on with their lives and will get close to someone else. They won't despise or hate you, but what you once had with them, the bond and connection, will be lost if it isn't maintained.
You can NOT just go back to an ESFP you were once close with and expect the same closeness to be there. Things will have changed between you. So Si users are actually the true winners of the award for long term loyalty. Se users win the race in the short run, but in the long-run no once is as loyal to their friends than an Si user. It's going to be a lot harder to form that close bond with an ISTJ or ISFJ and the likes, but once you have then you're bonded for life. They can never truly hate you no matter what you've done. You can always come back to us and ask to be forgiven.
Wow. I am still confused whether I am an ESFP or ENFP. However, when you pointed out the "being negligent to those who we call bestfriends" part but still accept you the same when present, that hit me. I am more ENFP. However, I have this one person that has been very close to me but after being separated for several years and met again, I changed my thoughts of her. Maybe this is an exception lol. anyway thanks.
Relationships are something that require constant attention and nuturement if you're a sensor. Our brains operate strongly on the "use it or lose it" functionality of the brain. We need that consistent stimulation, or we'll forget about someone and lose interest. N's seem a lot more comfortable with long distance relationships and not having someone before them in their lives frequently.
+zmoney(istj) I agree wholeheartedly. I think that both sides of the spectrum are a little too extreme most of the time however. For instance, XSXJ's usually require a lot more consistency and XNXP's require the least. Whereas the rest are more in-between. As notice as I develop, I require less time with my significant other. Which may also be caused by my natural introversion as well.