It's so worth it if you can. Poetry open mics were good for making friends because everyone talks directly about their current deepest thoughts. Or somewhere you can see certain people often. Then you might discover someone who keeps listening to you.
For YEARS I thought I was a natural introvert until I recognized I loved social situations but just need frequent periods of alone time in my room listening to my music. I get so enthusiastic and high energy when socializing that I tend to feel emotionally exhausted at the end and just need alone time from the world afterwards
I considered myself to be an introvert so I was pretty surprised when I took the test and extraversion popped up. On the other hand I'm the one that refuses to pay for single supplement because I've got all the privacy I want and the one who often won't work swing shift because it cuts into my social life.
It's so hard being an ENFP, like we like to entertain people but when people criticise us ,we're just being so emotional and get angry and depressed about it T.T
Reigning in Fi is one of our primary developmental challenges. We live in an Fe world. It's almost impossible to do alone, but look at the pros and cons of Fi objectively: you understand yourself - but this can lead to you overestimated your ability to understand others. Fi is a selfish function - yes, selfish. This has its benefits: it can provide insight into how things can be done differently to the accepted norm. But the flipside is self-absorption - Fe genuinely cares about the group. We don't give a fuck. Well controlled, this can be a good thing. Not reigned in? We become oversensitive, manipulative, paranoid and self-obssessed to the extreme. The first action point (and the one that will save us a whole world of hurt) is controlling the oversensitivity. We all know how it goes down when you let that take over. If it happens in the workplace, you could be out of a job.
That is so damn right. Everytime I feel like everybody thinks I am a cool guy, but I also feel that nobody really loves me you know? That is kind of a depressing feeling and I have it all the time
I think part of the reason that ENFP's need more alone time than most extroverts is because when we are interacting with others, we share all our energy that we can. But then the energy eventually runs out and we just really need space to breathe and recharge. At least that's how I have felt as an ENFP. And I also get that way with projects. I often put loads of energy into things that probably shouldn't be at the top of my to do list (like watching videos about my personality type) and then I run out of energy for my other responsibilities. And then I get overwhelmed that I don't have any energy or time for all the things on my plate. And I want to put all my energy into each of those things, but I can't because I only have so much energy. It's difficult to strike a balance when you want to be all in with everything you do and you want to do everything.
As a ENFP myself I find this qoute fits us perfectly.... "It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for - and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool - for love - for your dreams - for the adventure of being alive."
Also, you're the first ENFP I've seen that realized the 'multiple choice' conundrum...being an ENFP, seeing all sides of an issue and having an open mind makes multiple choice a hellish chore.
I'm also an enfp but I'm not bad at them. Most of the time two of the answers are not possible and one of the others just burns to be right. Listen to that back-brain; it already knows the material.
@@farennatasya8226 bro, I literally had a teacher that wrote "tmi" on every homework assignment because I wrote books per question in fear of leaving out something 🤣 every way you could interpret that question, I answered it!
Omg this might be my favorite commentary section of all youtube vids. It’s like we are all the same person going through the same things and now discovering that I’m not alone😂 I love u guys
I often feel like a weirdo because I'm constantly tansitioning from "I wanna be with people" to "leave me alone". Nobody really knows this side of me, and consequently, they don't fully understand me. But also, I'm not able to show this side, because when there's people around me I just get drunk of excitement and act by intuition till the end of the night, then spend the other day wandering why did I do certain things. Today I made a personality test and found out that I am an ENFP, again I found ways to feel insecure about it, but your videos helped me so much. I feel understood and even loved, like us, ENFP's, are some kind of silent secret comunity sending good vibrations to each other. Thank you
Maria Eduarda Airozo You probably want to be alone because you've been around too many ISTJS or INTJS. Stick to two or more similar letters. We are n as turally energetic and social, but less energetic and social types actually drain us into feeling this way!!
as an ENFP I totally get the desire for deep connection and wanting to talk about why things are the way they are. I find there's way too much dysfunction for instance in our society and when i'm treated poorly my brain immediately wants to understand WHY the person who behave that way what made them tick that way and understand the influences that played upon them. also when I experience rejection I'm always accepting it but wanting to understand the why.
I'm sorry if I hit someone too hard with this. I think things are the way they are because people tend to not listen to each other or say things without actually taking other people's feelings into consideration. We hurt others, just because we don't think about them. We go towards our goals without looking at sacrifices they need... and that makes me sad.
THANK YOU! This is awesome! I often spend hooours analyzing why a person did this/ said that. Since I want to understand why they did it and what that new information adds to the picture I have of them already. I don't know anyone who is like that, thank you for making me feel not that alone.
Wow! I can really relate to the last point: "Number 10: You can be a little naive (too trusting of people)." All of the 15 years of my married life, my wife has always been amazed at how gullible and naive I am. It is that childlike idealist part of my soul that always believes the best in everyone, and then when they cheat me I tend to get very emotionally hurt, bitter and a bit vengeful. I think one of our other challenges is remaining emotionally centered. I have a very deep and powerful ability to empathize with others, but we ENFPs must guard our hearts so as not to be overwhelmed that we couldn't help everyone. We don't carry the world on our shoulder's that's God's department. Yeh! I now feel more normal, and a little more understood to know that there are other people out there like me.
MYbe we are God's secret agents in this world. Motivated by making others feel connected, to love and be loved in return..... Ps married to reserved intj. Need more hugs in my life especially as kids grow older!! ❤️
Actually I’m an ENFP and usually when something happens in the beginning I blame myself but then slowly understand that it is fine to make mistakes but just don’t do it again
I'm enfp and I constatly think about everything from every perspective. When I myself see I am wrong I admit it and in most cases I see it, but sometimes I don't see, so when someone really tells me I am wrong I am like "oh... Ok. I'm so Sorry.. . Let's move on, what's your best memory"
I'm also an ENFP, and I get the struggles. Introverts usually get freaked out by my intensity but I can't help it! Like yeah sure tell me your favourite colour but what do you think about parallel universes and what the meaning of life is?
The "having few friends that get you" hit me hard haha. But seriously, I can feels so utterly alone eventhough I'm surrounded by many people in school etc. It's so few people that you really have that deep connection with and can just talk real with.
Same! I really am afraid of letting go of any interest/hobby that I have just to focus on getting good at one thing. There are so many fun things to do, and I get tired of doing the same thing for too long :)
Yea I figured this out about me a like 6 months ago, but I’m so over it now and it’s an amazing feeling not looking for approval and just doing your own thing. It’s totally possible for us ENFP’s to stop feeding those monsters!!
MY PEOPLE!! This video and this comment section is giving me LIFE!! Thank you all crazy, beautiful fellow ENFP humans for making this girl feel like she's does in fact belong in the world. All the feels.xo
Hey, nice to see you again. I recognize your comments on other MBTI related videos. Edit: I'm not trying to be weird, but thought it was fun to actually remember another commenter on a lot of the same videos that I enjoy as well.
Wow. I recently found out I'm an Enfp. I used to think I was alone and mentally ill and a loser because I didn't understand myself. I would sit up literally every single night contemplating my personality and who I am. I hated myself because I felt weird and like I was always being "too deep". When I met someone I wanted to know their story and their pain and their joy. I honestly didn't think anyone else was like that. I'm at peace now and I'm glad this video was made because it helped me see I'm not alone in the struggles! I actually like being an Enfp! So thank you so much!
Hi hi hi, I’m an ENFP as well, like a lot of commenters here! :D one thing I love about a lot of ENFPs is they are actually really resilient and actually really good at dealing with trauma, and also helping others through things too! :p
As an ENFP, this list is so spot on. I'm extrovert, but I need my alone time to reset because life is too over stimulating and too much is going on. My mind wanders, I see the best in everybody (which can be seen as fake), and I value the deep connections I make in people. Thank you for making this!
Like you, everything she said is precisely correct for me. I've never typed another person, mostly made bad choices. As a friend told me, "my picker's broke,"
This was seriously SPOT. ON. Thanks so much! I feel so included in the group of ENFPs :) I was a little iffy at first on the multiple choice test struggle, because I normally have a pretty easy time, but once you described your reasoning I instantly went "yup, that's me." I relate to ALL 10 struggles. so crazy.
Aubrey Anna when I was in school I used to put notes on all the other answers with a justification on why it can be an answer. It must've amused my teachers and professors.
Aubrey Anna me too! at first i didn’t think that one related to me but that’s because i was thinking of like math tests where there really is only one right answer. if i have to choose the best answer, i feel like i need a couple lines to explain myself hahaha
I'm a high school freshman ENFP and #5 is spot on. A lot of people think that I have all of these friends, and I do have a large circle and talk to a lot of people, but I only feel like I have a deep connection to some of them. One problem that I have is that I would seem to put people on a pedestal, and it would sometimes render me oblivious to much bad things that they do. Another problem is that I seem to only connect with sophomores and upperclassmen, I'm the only freshman in our circle, but I feel like maybe it's because they are more emotionally mature.
Anthony Pasqualetto I did the same thing as a high school freshman and sophomore, and now as a senior I stick to people in my grade or do the exact opposite. 😅
As an ENFP, I relate to all 10 points. Point 9 stood out to me as very true for me. I go to a party, mingle, deeply connect, but then reach a point where I get filled up with such connecting, and then immediately need to break from it all, step outside, and sort of ponder all the interactions I just had, introspectively make sense of them, of the intuitions (vibes) I got from interacting with each person. Once I process that, I then am able to return to the party. I've been called "the wind" by my friends--they never know when I'm going to show up, but when I do, they can't help but notice. And yet I also will suddenly depart, without them realizing it before I'm already gone. It's like a constant flux between extrovert mode and introvert mode, back and forth. Anyways, nice video!
I noticed the more stagnant and depressed I am, the more introverted I am.. great video btw I can relate to everything so much lol... except for the multiple choice part.. I'm good at those.. and I HATE presentations.. make me nervous
I love ENFP people!! You guys are amazing. I'm an INFJ and there are not very many people I can have a two way relationship with, but ENFPs are one of those types that I love to have as friends because you value connection and question convention. I love it :)
my best friend is INFJ noone understands the drive behind my every action as well as he does I would also like to add another struggle and that is constant crushes: I don't care about gender age or differences I fall in love with souls but I can't really express my affections because it scares people 😂😂
1. Yes yes 1000x yes 2. "CHILL OUT" "hyper again" "slow down what did you say" 3. Do you hate me? I worked really hard on this, actually focused for once and you dont like it? :( 4. I try switching up the conversation randomly to find something in common and make jokes that I can consider an inside joke between us. 5. Loads of friend but no really close friends :( NO ONE TO VIBE WITH 6. "If you have someone to be affectionate with" :( noooo 7. Sad boi hours especially in quarantine. 8. They dont really do alot of multiple choice questions so idk. 9 . Especially in quarantine. Extraordinary behavioural swings 10. I call it knowing naivety. They may or may not stab me in the back but they may be a good person and I dont want to misunderstand them. So I become their friend anyway.
I am an INTJ, and I love ENFPs energy and they love ours!!! Because both personalities want to be recognized and understood, and both together do this pretty well.
I have felt the cuddle struggle, the introvert/extrovert vibe, the overwhelmed/bored vibe, and feeling so naive and innocent so hard in the last 30 hours. Also, I found this company that hosts cuddle parties. I kid you not, it's four hours of straight up cuddling, talking, and snacks. If this isn't a super ENFP thing to do, I have no idea what is.
OH. MY. GOSH. THAT IS AMAZING!!! although sadly, creepy people would take advantage of it 😞😭 We just need to have one huge ENFP get together. Also, trusting people to much is my weakness, and I have been hurt so many times 😔💔 but I can't help being that way. And it makes me so mad when my fam (all introverts) look at people from this pessimistic pov, and I'm like, "WHY CANT YOU LOOK AT THIS IN A GOOD WAY?!?". Ugh, it annoys me so much. Also, just, living in a house full of introverts is a daily struggle 😭 but I don't want to bother people to much, cuz I'd feel guilty of being annoying, and when I feel guilt, I feel physical pain 😞 I just want some ENFP friends that I can message all day everyday,and they won't be annoyed, cuz they feel he same way, and want to message and chat that much too. I men, is that too much to ask for? 😞❤️
Okay!!! You got me spot on, you and I are on different sides of the social spectrum. I'm a big black guy, but you see as I see. I'm glad to know there's people us out there
There is this great book called "The comprehensive ENFP survival guide" by Heidi Priebe. It's just so well written and pinpoint accurate up to a level, which is slightly scary. Read this book! Seriously!
Maybe I am a masochist, but as an ENFP, I enjoy criticism for two reasons. The first is because it may give me an insight or a perspective that I did not see originally, and I can expand upon that. The second reason is because if the criticism is invalid or plain ridiculous, it is fun to back up the opposing argument with solid fact and challenge them to debate.
You sound more like an ENTP to me. Maybe your F and T functions are close. I have one friend like that where he shows some characteristics of an ENTP others of an ENFP.
I tend to score as both types equally, and the F vs T function is always split 50/50. I do relate to the nfp description more, but ntp doe snot sound far off either.
I always wondered why I liked doing homework in crowded noisy rooms. As an enfp myself I think I get stimulated off the noise and chaos while keeping to myself and being focused on a task. It's weird but I focus way better when I'm alone around noise then at home with nothing going on
100% right on. This is all me. I have always thought of myself as an extrovert and people think I am, but I am often very shy. But I do get motivation and energy from being with people. I can feel depressed when I do not have enough personal interaction with people. Then I have a short friendly conversation with someone--anyone--even the checkout clerk at the grocery store and I feel better.
The extrovert not sure if your introvert is sooo true lol .... On myers briggs tests i'm always conflicted on social questions cus i'm social and i love connecting with people but at the same time it can be exhausting and difficult so i never know how to answer correctly especially if its multiple choice baha
Well, needing time to recover energy doesn't mean you didn't enjoy losing that energy while spending time with people. It's not really a contradiction, more two different aspects of sociability.
I don't know if it's necessarily energy, at least for me. I love spending time alone and the being able to do things independently and figure things out on my own from my experiences and handle my emotions. Reconnecting with self. I get hardcore information overload and then basically become spaced out and can barely form coherent sentences. 😂 It doesn't seem to be the full blown introvert "I need to recharge" because I usually go insane if I'm alone for too long. 😂
There's no cure, sorry. P.S. Please show signs of that loving attention to any of us, it will be received with the utmost appreciation. -An average ENFP.
Struggle I've often seen in ENFP's ....they've found a partner and they're like so into the other person, it's like they're high on drugs. They are like OH I'VE FOUND THE ONE, and then the rush and novelty slowly wears off, and then they go seek another and THEY HAVE FOUND TE ONE again...and they're high on love again....etc etc. .....This often happens often especially if they're dating another ENFP...then it's almost a comedy show you're watching when for the the 10th time they're found the one again, and are super sure of it...at least for a while...
This is my first comment on UA-cam in years. This is amazing. I never knew there would be people like me. I took several different tests and I always end up being enfp, but I wasn't sure if it was accurate but now I'm pretty sure the that I am. I don't really have any close friends my age because there isn't really anybody who can be enthusiastic about serious topics. Everybody seems so shallow like you said. People older than me can understand what I'm talking about because I tend to want to dig deeper into more interesting and important thoughts that are usually topics for the old and wise. Anyways thanks for the vid!
This is probably the most accurate list of struggles I've seen/read. Just stared caring about this and YES, I am diving into the rabbit hole, who would have guessed..
Me too, it's a long arduous journey,. I'm expecting a payoff once I learn more about self and the type of others, hoping to find a better fitting match.
Isabella Harrison Robin Williams, my relatives.. For me memories spent with ENFPs are so memorable & imprinted they stay for life? Even long after ppl get busy with lives & grow apart.. I don’t know. But no matter how intense they are upfront (I hide mine & keep it at bay), they have a beautiful sparkly side to their personality apart from ENFJs.. well as xNFx types go by- infp (=
Love this! You really are an enfp, could tell right away. Strong mental abilities but overall cool demeanor with some hands gestures and explains things very thoroughly. - INFP
Hardest part growing up was always believing people r good and trusting them to care for others. Later I learned more about psychopaths and traumatic childhood experiences and realized how naive I was
This is so true, especially n. 6.. My boyfriend is an ENFP and I can confirm all of these. I love him so much. I think ENFP is a very special type. (I'm an ENTJ)
I can't believe how damn accurate those 10 points were. Seriously. You got tho the "overwhelmed" point and I was like (drop the damn phone and walk out with my hands in the air) So creepy but wonderful. I'm definitely an ENFP.
my intj friend says sometimes i come as loud even in texting talking etc but he did say to me you are unique and i love those words, and sometimes he insulted me as a joke when i lost an address where we should meet by telling me : i was a few meters from you are you blind ? hahahah i find intj really interesting i have another intj friend who got cold of me because when hanging out i wanted to be with more people (for me more is mor efun, more talk and thinking etc hahaha) while he didn't like that a lot.
The ghost mode is right on the mark, though very few people mention it in their ENFP reviews. The small number of close friends that I have (although my contact list is filled with an exuberant number of acquaintances, as you also said) pointed out that I often go "missing" for weeks. No postings on social media accounts, no detected activities, and not replying their messages for days or even weeks! Afterwards, though, I would always chat up my friends excitedly, like an enormous amount of lines in one time. Thank God there are still those who can put up with our whims!
Wooooooah. Literally yes. Man, I didn't think about this for all enfps, but I am the only person I've met to do it, but I easily cry from joy or happiness, excitement, sadness of course, or anger. They are just silent, very heartfelt tears.
All throughout high school, I got INFP on my MBTI test but I just took it again and got ENFP for the first time. I’ve been watching tons of videos trying to see if I really am an ENFP but this kind of solidified it. I resonated with these ten points so much, wow. especially the introverted extrovert? ME!! I have a lot of friends/best friends but I only have 1 or 2 that I feel really get me. my heart is so full right now! thank you for this :)
I'm an INTP and my best friend is an ENFP. All this things matches with her. Also she hugs me all the time! We have many differences in our personalities that's why we often find it difficult to interact with each other properly. And so I'm here to know about her personality more so that I can understand her better.
This is the first time I’ve really related to what a UA-camr has said about enfp. I guess it just takes a more personal perspective to get us as the broken little teddies we are
Yes, I am a very broken teddy bear, and need to be sewn back up from all the hard times 😔 But maybe one day when I'm finally fixed, I can be the whole happy little teddy I used to be. I'm still a happy little teddy bear, but I'm broken and ripping at the seams in some places 😔 I've lost a lot of friends recently due to a situation my whole fam was in, and it wasn't our fault. Now, I only have about 2 or 3 people I talk to on a regular basis. But I'm glad that I at least have them
Damn I love how all ENFPs love being ENFPs because they are ENFPs 😂
hahahaha this comment is also so ENFP!
Sunna Grewe Yes!!!
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I'm a INFJ and it is a pain.
“Your enthusiasm is scaring everyone”. Story of my life.
"People dont like you because your too nice."
literally.
“You’re deep.” (No I use my mind.”
I’ve actually been told this by my friends...
My enthusiasm makes me feel unappreciated bcs no one give me the same enthusiasm
I'm an ENFP and I make friends with a lot of different people but I haven't found one that truly understands me😭😭😭😭.
you will no worry
It's so worth it if you can. Poetry open mics were good for making friends because everyone talks directly about their current deepest thoughts. Or somewhere you can see certain people often. Then you might discover someone who keeps listening to you.
me is intj lesbian
SAME! I hope you have by now, but I still haven't 😭
I think we need an ENFP group chat
Infjs are amazing. They are your natural partner
As an ENFP I'm also kind of obsessed with making everything into a metaphor or an analogy.
Yes, the search for the perfect metaphor.
shit! that's kind of ENFP's thing? I never knew that I did it bc Im an ENFP!
@@stellatelmi Or maybe u are an ENFP BEAUSE u do this...it's what your brain tends to do.
@@staceykersting705 hahahaha . I just thought ist would be easier to explain something in metaphor... Lol
Even i describe my self in metaphore
From one ENFP to another: VIRTUAL CUDDLES ❤️
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Sakina Husain yay!
Thanks babyyyyyyyy! ❤️❤️❤️
Yay! Thanks love! ☺️
For YEARS I thought I was a natural introvert until I recognized I loved social situations but just need frequent periods of alone time in my room listening to my music. I get so enthusiastic and high energy when socializing that I tend to feel emotionally exhausted at the end and just need alone time from the world afterwards
Pop Land very relatable!!
Yess
I considered myself to be an introvert so I was pretty surprised when I took the test and extraversion popped up. On the other hand I'm the one that refuses to pay for single supplement because I've got all the privacy I want and the one who often won't work swing shift because it cuts into my social life.
SAME! Exactly!!!
Omg same!!
The amount of energy in the comments from all the ENFPs about being ENFP is so ENFP lol
:D
Exactly!
We’re feeding off each other 😂
Hell yeah! ENFPs!
enfp agreed lol
It's so hard being an ENFP, like we like to entertain people but when people criticise us ,we're just being so emotional and get angry and depressed about it T.T
Hahaha I feel this so bad😂❤️
Reigning in Fi is one of our primary developmental challenges. We live in an Fe world. It's almost impossible to do alone, but look at the pros and cons of Fi objectively: you understand yourself - but this can lead to you overestimated your ability to understand others. Fi is a selfish function - yes, selfish. This has its benefits: it can provide insight into how things can be done differently to the accepted norm. But the flipside is self-absorption - Fe genuinely cares about the group. We don't give a fuck. Well controlled, this can be a good thing. Not reigned in? We become oversensitive, manipulative, paranoid and self-obssessed to the extreme. The first action point (and the one that will save us a whole world of hurt) is controlling the oversensitivity. We all know how it goes down when you let that take over. If it happens in the workplace, you could be out of a job.
That is so damn right. Everytime I feel like everybody thinks I am a cool guy, but I also feel that nobody really loves me you know? That is kind of a depressing feeling and I have it all the time
I personally get so annoyed when I don't get an answer tho, be it bad or good I JUST NEED SOMEONE TO SAY SOMETHING
(from an enfp)
It's soooo hard 😭😭😭
If ENFP's are bad at taking multiple choice tests and the Myers Briggs test is multiple choice, are we really ENFP's?
They account for us lol I bet they just have the system fixed so if none of the answers add up then it must be one of us dingleballs
I failed the Myers Briggs test 3 times .....ENFP every time.....
DUN DUN DUN
That’s why they ask the same questions in multiple different ways... and they read your mind.
Josh Garside-Meyers I took it once and it said INFJ but the other 2 was ENFP
I think part of the reason that ENFP's need more alone time than most extroverts is because when we are interacting with others, we share all our energy that we can. But then the energy eventually runs out and we just really need space to breathe and recharge. At least that's how I have felt as an ENFP. And I also get that way with projects. I often put loads of energy into things that probably shouldn't be at the top of my to do list (like watching videos about my personality type) and then I run out of energy for my other responsibilities. And then I get overwhelmed that I don't have any energy or time for all the things on my plate. And I want to put all my energy into each of those things, but I can't because I only have so much energy. It's difficult to strike a balance when you want to be all in with everything you do and you want to do everything.
You literally just described my sister (ENFP-T).
Wow so true
We could be the exact same person 😲
Especially if you’re around people that require our social chameleon skills.
I get classical extrovert when I’m around people I easily jive with.
I think enfps are a part of ambivert
As a ENFP myself I find this qoute fits us perfectly....
"It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for - and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool - for love - for your dreams - for the adventure of being alive."
That's literally the quote they use to describe enfps in the official test website
Donald Fischer isn’t that the quote that comes up on the main website lol
god, i hate that i love this SO MUCH.
R u a virgo?
@@pratibhathakur1240 Most enfps are leos
I’m an ENFP and seeing how this comment section is just made me all smiley 🥰🥰 definitely need more ENFPs in my life...
If you also want, we can open a lil gc to send each other memes and share that vibe together lol
@@artlover9233 open a lil what? Lol
Agreed- LOL we'd never get around to organizing a get together or end up in different locations out of confusion hahahahah
@@gcanaday1 😂😂😂 groupchat bro not you
@@eakohnke honestly 😂😂
I've found my tribe. Let's have a ENFP Cookout!
😂😂
Online cookout? Hahhaha
Especially after covid settles down!
🍉🍔🌭🥗🍦🧆
Is that really a good idea? We’d probably burn the place down
Damn these comments give me a spiritual connection to other ENFP'S
me too
:))) Virtual hugsss ❤️❤️❤️
Also, you're the first ENFP I've seen that realized the 'multiple choice' conundrum...being an ENFP, seeing all sides of an issue and having an open mind makes multiple choice a hellish chore.
Right there with you!
I'm also an enfp but I'm not bad at them. Most of the time two of the answers are not possible and one of the others just burns to be right. Listen to that back-brain; it already knows the material.
No wonder i write so much in exams and essays cuz i write in every view and opinions
And that i get scolded for exceeding the word limit always
@@farennatasya8226 Same here. My essay questions become novels in a very short amount of time.
@@farennatasya8226 bro, I literally had a teacher that wrote "tmi" on every homework assignment because I wrote books per question in fear of leaving out something 🤣 every way you could interpret that question, I answered it!
9. is very true. Also, additional point:
11. Very emotional, but have a hard time expressing emotions.
I personally have a hard time NOT EXPRESSING emotions, actually. Except when I become bored, overwhelmed or numb, so I barely even have emotions.
11 yes very true
Idar Kalsnes Goksør TRUE 😭
Omg yes
For me, its difficulty expressing negative emotions: anger, sadness, shame, etc. Positive ones ill share with total strangers lol!
When you having a war with yourself about going out with your friends or just in your bed.
Ikr it really sucks sometimes. I literally have to drag myself to
You can take all your friends to bed. Or, at least be close to them. ENFP's love to cuddle after all.
I wanna go out and do wild fun glittery things all the time, but I don't wanna leave my bed let alone socialize. _existential crisis_
Omg this might be my favorite commentary section of all youtube vids. It’s like we are all the same person going through the same things and now discovering that I’m not alone😂 I love u guys
Mee
OMG!!!!!!!!
fucking literally 😂😭
I love you too!!!! Virtual cuddles from me to you 😊❤️
~ENFP-T
I LOVE YOU TOOO💗
Her: you think you’re introverted, But you’re actually not.
Me: oh no she got me help. HeLP
Exactly me.. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I feel ya...I am there...Yes Help
SAME
SAME BRO MY JAW LITERALLY DROPPED
LMAO same! I literally took the MBTI test 5 times the first time I tried it because I was forcing the results to land on the side of introversion.
If you're an ENFP, youre going from watching this vid to reading the comments because our attention span lol
😂
What can I say, technically you're right.
I made it until 1:32 😂
I just went straight to the comments
I am an enfp and i feel so so burden if say "no" to someone or didn't help them with their problem(s) even tho it's out of my abilities.
So same.
I often feel like a weirdo because I'm constantly tansitioning from "I wanna be with people" to "leave me alone". Nobody really knows this side of me, and consequently, they don't fully understand me. But also, I'm not able to show this side, because when there's people around me I just get drunk of excitement and act by intuition till the end of the night, then spend the other day wandering why did I do certain things. Today I made a personality test and found out that I am an ENFP, again I found ways to feel insecure about it, but your videos helped me so much. I feel understood and even loved, like us, ENFP's, are some kind of silent secret comunity sending good vibrations to each other. Thank you
p.s.: sorry, I don't speak english very well
Sending magical unicorns and hugs to you fellow ENFP.
Love this post! Good vibe right back at you! 😊
Maria Eduarda Airozo You probably want to be alone because you've been around too many ISTJS or INTJS. Stick to two or more similar letters. We are n as turally energetic and social, but less energetic and social types actually drain us into feeling this way!!
The first sentence. Imagine that times 1,000 and that's an INTJ or INFJ
as an ENFP I totally get the desire for deep connection and wanting to talk about why things are the way they are. I find there's way too much dysfunction for instance in our society and when i'm treated poorly my brain immediately wants to understand WHY the person who behave that way what made them tick that way and understand the influences that played upon them. also when I experience rejection I'm always accepting it but wanting to understand the why.
I'm sorry if I hit someone too hard with this. I think things are the way they are because people tend to not listen to each other or say things without actually taking other people's feelings into consideration. We hurt others, just because we don't think about them. We go towards our goals without looking at sacrifices they need... and that makes me sad.
THANK YOU! This is awesome! I often spend hooours analyzing why a person did this/ said that. Since I want to understand why they did it and what that new information adds to the picture I have of them already. I don't know anyone who is like that, thank you for making me feel not that alone.
Wow! I can really relate to the last point: "Number 10: You can be a little naive (too trusting of people)." All of the 15 years of my married life, my wife has always been amazed at how gullible and naive I am. It is that childlike idealist part of my soul that always believes the best in everyone, and then when they cheat me I tend to get very emotionally hurt, bitter and a bit vengeful. I think one of our other challenges is remaining emotionally centered. I have a very deep and powerful ability to empathize with others, but we ENFPs must guard our hearts so as not to be overwhelmed that we couldn't help everyone. We don't carry the world on our shoulder's that's God's department. Yeh! I now feel more normal, and a little more understood to know that there are other people out there like me.
This is literally one of the biggest lessons I've had to learn.. 😭😭😭😭😭
MYbe we are God's secret agents in this world. Motivated by making others feel connected, to love and be loved in return..... Ps married to reserved intj. Need more hugs in my life especially as kids grow older!! ❤️
Asé 🙌🏾✨
I've been called naive so many times
Preach
"Man i wonder if this girl is really ENFP"
Her: *immediate endearing smile*
"YUP."
im and ENFP, worst trait is not being able to accept that i'm wrong. Being frustrated that people dont understand something as simple as i can also
Ryan Bell I am ENFP , but I usually accept that I am wrong 😉
Wow both of these things are so true for me
Ryan Bell omg yes!!
Actually I’m an ENFP and usually when something happens in the beginning I blame myself but then slowly understand that it is fine to make mistakes but just don’t do it again
I'm enfp and I constatly think about everything from every perspective. When I myself see I am wrong I admit it and in most cases I see it, but sometimes I don't see, so when someone really tells me I am wrong I am like "oh... Ok. I'm so Sorry.. . Let's move on, what's your best memory"
I'm also an ENFP, and I get the struggles. Introverts usually get freaked out by my intensity but I can't help it! Like yeah sure tell me your favourite colour but what do you think about parallel universes and what the meaning of life is?
EXACTLY!!!!
IKR!
YES
You just haven't talked to an INFJ......we love conversations like that........as freakishly intense as you want to go.
lol so true
"Not good at taking criticism". My 1st reaction: yes I am! -ENFP
The "having few friends that get you" hit me hard haha. But seriously, I can feels so utterly alone eventhough I'm surrounded by many people in school etc. It's so few people that you really have that deep connection with and can just talk real with.
As an INFJ, I really need an ENFP in my lifeee 😭
Hello INFJ, I’ll be your ENFP friend. I ❤️ INFJs
One of my dearest friends is an INFJ. ❤
And we want an infj friend like you in our lives 💜
How can it be? I once fell so hard for an infj who had absolutely no feelings for me 😪😭
INFJs are BFFs!!!!
I often find commitment difficult (big life changes) because so much interests me, and i just really want to keep my options as open as possible!
Sam Richardson same
But then when I do meet someone I really like. It go so strong. Idk there’s no inbetween for me.
Bro!!!! Me asf I am so afraid of big life changes... I am at a stage where I need to figure out where my career is heading and it is so tumultuous lol
Same! I really am afraid of letting go of any interest/hobby that I have just to focus on getting good at one thing. There are so many fun things to do, and I get tired of doing the same thing for too long :)
SAMEEEE
ENFPs just make me want to hug them.
(INFJ)
Aww, maybe because we want to hug you too and INFJs quickly pick up on that feeling and mirror them. -ENFP
My partners an INFJ 🙌 .. not enough cuddles though imo 😂
Thankfully my husband is an ENFP so I get to hug him all the time. INFP
Awww ☺️
😂 it's really hard for an enfp to turn down hugs.
Another one I would add is that you "feed monsters", or look for approval from people who do not like nor respect you. Great video!
Ooooo that is true. I see that in myself.
Char H sigh. Yes. Realized this at 40. But I am freeing myself from this now. “Feed monsters” just shocked me.
Ahhhhhhhh :( already having quarter life crisis lol but it's known now... So we will do it
realized this around 43 and I am now 44. So yeah, it feels unfair to just getting this late in life. So much so late.
Yea I figured this out about me a like 6 months ago, but I’m so over it now and it’s an amazing feeling not looking for approval and just doing your own thing. It’s totally possible for us ENFP’s to stop feeding those monsters!!
MY PEOPLE!!
This video and this comment section is giving me LIFE!!
Thank you all crazy, beautiful fellow ENFP humans for making this girl feel like she's does in fact belong in the world. All the feels.xo
ENFP IS SO FUN TO SAY! They chose the best name for us! 😄
Facts
Hey, nice to see you again. I recognize your comments on other MBTI related videos.
Edit: I'm not trying to be weird, but thought it was fun to actually remember another commenter on a lot of the same videos that I enjoy as well.
@@candellina6 Who?
@@candellina6 Oh nvm
@@Prince_Yonte Oh it's okay. It was taking me forever to figure out that nvm meant NeVer Mind. Lol
I have a great appreciation for ENFP's and INFP's. Both types tend to be very reflective about life,and it's so refreshing.
I wish more people thought this about us.
The lack of cuddles struggle is real 🤣
It is, trust me, it is.
Yes :(((
It really is, and I'm so hug deprived 😭 I live in a house full of introverts. All I want is a good meaningful hug. Is that to much to ask?😭😔❤️
Wow. I recently found out I'm an Enfp. I used to think I was alone and mentally ill and a loser because I didn't understand myself. I would sit up literally every single night contemplating my personality and who I am. I hated myself because I felt weird and like I was always being "too deep". When I met someone I wanted to know their story and their pain and their joy. I honestly didn't think anyone else was like that. I'm at peace now and I'm glad this video was made because it helped me see I'm not alone in the struggles! I actually like being an Enfp! So thank you so much!
Gigi V I used to think I was alone, loser and mentally ill too. Plus being naive. But now me is fine lol
Gigi V I relate so much to the looking for personality part
Same
Deep talks are a MUST!! I like knowing fun facts about people but I want to know why they are the way they are.
Hi hi hi, I’m an ENFP as well, like a lot of commenters here! :D one thing I love about a lot of ENFPs is they are actually really resilient and actually really good at dealing with trauma, and also helping others through things too! :p
I hope I'm good at dealing with trauma, because I constantly have them
@@ozgebaran9788 hope you're in a better place rn
As an ENFP, this list is so spot on. I'm extrovert, but I need my alone time to reset because life is too over stimulating and too much is going on. My mind wanders, I see the best in everybody (which can be seen as fake), and I value the deep connections I make in people. Thank you for making this!
Literally.. 🎯🎯🎯
Like you, everything she said is precisely correct for me. I've never typed another person, mostly made bad choices. As a friend told me, "my picker's broke,"
This was seriously SPOT. ON. Thanks so much! I feel so included in the group of ENFPs :) I was a little iffy at first on the multiple choice test struggle, because I normally have a pretty easy time, but once you described your reasoning I instantly went "yup, that's me." I relate to ALL 10 struggles. so crazy.
Yayyyyyy another amazing ENFP!
Aubrey Anna Aubrey you are an ENFP? 🐣😍
Yup it was PERFECT! I felt so understood...more than ever I must say.
Aubrey Anna when I was in school I used to put notes on all the other answers with a justification on why it can be an answer. It must've amused my teachers and professors.
Aubrey Anna me too! at first i didn’t think that one related to me but that’s because i was thinking of like math tests where there really is only one right answer. if i have to choose the best answer, i feel like i need a couple lines to explain myself hahaha
I have NEVER resonated with something so much! Wow wow wow....
My sentiments exactly.. 😭🤯😭
I can relate tons
Sameee
Same!!
As an ENFP, I have found my people! Everything was relatable. So comforting to know that it’s not “just me”
Yes!!! The most introverted extroverts! Sooo true!!!
I like to fall out when she said that about the most introverted extroverts!! So me!
i was shocked on how precisely all those things also applied to me. I'm a 100% a enfp.
Welcome to the club! It's pretty fun being an ENFP. :)
Ludi Zischg me tooooo!
💯🎯💯🎯💯
I'm a high school freshman ENFP and #5 is spot on. A lot of people think that I have all of these friends, and I do have a large circle and talk to a lot of people, but I only feel like I have a deep connection to some of them. One problem that I have is that I would seem to put people on a pedestal, and it would sometimes render me oblivious to much bad things that they do. Another problem is that I seem to only connect with sophomores and upperclassmen, I'm the only freshman in our circle, but I feel like maybe it's because they are more emotionally mature.
Anthony Pasqualetto I did the same thing as a high school freshman and sophomore, and now as a senior I stick to people in my grade or do the exact opposite. 😅
You are probably emotionally mature and should stick with people like that. Like an "old soul" kinda guy.
Same brochacho I’m a freshman, and I have a lot of acquaintances. I honestly connect with only a select few.
are we the same person?
I had some of those struggles at school
I have honestly never seen a video that is so relatable 🙋🏼
Abbie Davidson me neither 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
!!!!!!!!!!
Abbie Davidson 🙋🏻♀️
Not an ENFP but I'm doing research because of a girl I like. This is good data, thank you.
😅🤣😅 please don't take advantage of her big heart.. ⚡🙏🏾⚡
Awwww I wish someone I liked did that for me :D Remember to be an emotional anchor sometimes if she needs one (good listener). Good luck!
I dont know personality types well... intj?
As an ENFP, I relate to all 10 points. Point 9 stood out to me as very true for me. I go to a party, mingle, deeply connect, but then reach a point where I get filled up with such connecting, and then immediately need to break from it all, step outside, and sort of ponder all the interactions I just had, introspectively make sense of them, of the intuitions (vibes) I got from interacting with each person. Once I process that, I then am able to return to the party. I've been called "the wind" by my friends--they never know when I'm going to show up, but when I do, they can't help but notice. And yet I also will suddenly depart, without them realizing it before I'm already gone. It's like a constant flux between extrovert mode and introvert mode, back and forth. Anyways, nice video!
So true!
I noticed the more stagnant and depressed I am, the more introverted I am.. great video btw I can relate to everything so much lol... except for the multiple choice part.. I'm good at those.. and I HATE presentations.. make me nervous
me too, I feel you girl
Same
Katie Sheehan i love presentations because they make me nervous and get out of my comfort zone 😂
I give this video an A+ for being accurate whilst still not exaggerating on the points and making it seem like we have it extremely difficult
I love ENFP people!! You guys are amazing. I'm an INFJ and there are not very many people I can have a two way relationship with, but ENFPs are one of those types that I love to have as friends because you value connection and question convention. I love it :)
I love you!
I'm with you...I thought I was the only one...I was soooo frustrated....
my best friend is INFJ noone understands the drive behind my every action as well as he does
I would also like to add another struggle and that is constant crushes: I don't care about gender age or differences I fall in love with souls but I can't really express my affections because it scares people 😂😂
I LOVE INFJs TOO** their so cool n i mean..i dont hav any infj friend but i really really love em n im searching for one**bgschedbg**♡
As an INFJ I can relate to some of these points as well! My mom and sister are both ENFP's . We have a very close bond
1. Yes yes 1000x yes
2. "CHILL OUT" "hyper again" "slow down what did you say"
3. Do you hate me? I worked really hard on this, actually focused for once and you dont like it? :(
4. I try switching up the conversation randomly to find something in common and make jokes that I can consider an inside joke between us.
5. Loads of friend but no really close friends :( NO ONE TO VIBE WITH
6. "If you have someone to be affectionate with" :( noooo
7. Sad boi hours especially in quarantine.
8. They dont really do alot of multiple choice questions so idk.
9 . Especially in quarantine. Extraordinary behavioural swings
10. I call it knowing naivety. They may or may not stab me in the back but they may be a good person and I dont want to misunderstand them. So I become their friend anyway.
I totally relate to all of those 1000000000%. The struggle is very real 😔💔
I'm always here if u need someone to talk to •^-^•
From a fellow,
~ENFP-T
'I mean I want cuddles right now!'
ME TOO
It's interesting because I find the quirks of the ENFPS to be quite amusing and likable. -INTJ
Well, INTJ's and ENFP's are highly compatible. I'm an ENFP and my sister's an INTJ, and she finds my weirdness amusing too.
+Arnaldo Juris Maclang Right, I am an INTJ and also find this part of them pretty interesting.
Ashraf Ibrahim Do you also think that ENFP's are one of the nicest people on Earth? hahaha My sister thinks I'm the nicest guy around. hahaha
:V Naturally, the relationship between siblings is one of the best, isn't it?
Ashraf Ibrahim Maybe, especially if the siblings have very compatible personality types.
I am an INTJ, and I love ENFPs energy and they love ours!!! Because both personalities want to be recognized and understood, and both together do this pretty well.
I feel so at home with all the ENFP's here.. with all the jokes n such
Facts for real feels like family
Sometimes I read comments from INTJ's. They are very to the point. 👍
I have felt the cuddle struggle, the introvert/extrovert vibe, the overwhelmed/bored vibe, and feeling so naive and innocent so hard in the last 30 hours.
Also, I found this company that hosts cuddle parties. I kid you not, it's four hours of straight up cuddling, talking, and snacks. If this isn't a super ENFP thing to do, I have no idea what is.
OH. MY. GOSH. THAT IS AMAZING!!! although sadly, creepy people would take advantage of it 😞😭
We just need to have one huge ENFP get together.
Also, trusting people to much is my weakness, and I have been hurt so many times 😔💔 but I can't help being that way. And it makes me so mad when my fam (all introverts) look at people from this pessimistic pov, and I'm like, "WHY CANT YOU LOOK AT THIS IN A GOOD WAY?!?". Ugh, it annoys me so much. Also, just, living in a house full of introverts is a daily struggle 😭 but I don't want to bother people to much, cuz I'd feel guilty of being annoying, and when I feel guilt, I feel physical pain 😞
I just want some ENFP friends that I can message all day everyday,and they won't be annoyed, cuz they feel he same way, and want to message and chat that much too. I men, is that too much to ask for? 😞❤️
Okay!!! You got me spot on, you and I are on different sides of the social spectrum. I'm a big black guy, but you see as I see. I'm glad to know there's people us out there
THESE ARE ALL SO TRUE. I wanted to cry of happiness :')
people get scared by my intensity, I scare some people away but I don't mean to!!
I scare people constantly with my 1 million probing questions. It happens..... :)
Veni Vidi Amavi YASS SAME
Yeah, I can also scare people. Especially people who have crushes on me.
So true. Do you think we should change our behaviors?
I honestly feel like it’s a balance between authenticity v. Harmony
OMG. You're me!!! 😳
The bored vs overstimulation bit is my entire life -.-
Yeah, my ENFP nightmare is choosing what to eat at a food court. Lol
omg right i could have a whole hour just to pick what food i want
I'm as an INFJ find this personality type super interesting. Can't help but get super curious about ENFP. You guys are really awesome!
There is this great book called "The comprehensive ENFP survival guide" by Heidi Priebe. It's just so well written and pinpoint accurate up to a level, which is slightly scary.
Read this book! Seriously!
i will read it thanks a lot brother (ENFP) ahahah ;)
Just got it! Thanks for the recommendation
yuss I will read it!
Read it
Coool! Thanks for the tip! I’m going to order it tomorrow
Maybe I am a masochist, but as an ENFP, I enjoy criticism for two reasons. The first is because it may give me an insight or a perspective that I did not see originally, and I can expand upon that. The second reason is because if the criticism is invalid or plain ridiculous, it is fun to back up the opposing argument with solid fact and challenge them to debate.
ha, took the words right out of my mind.
You sound more like an ENTP to me. Maybe your F and T functions are close. I have one friend like that where he shows some characteristics of an ENTP others of an ENFP.
Yeah that sounds like a classic ENTP to me. My brother is an ENTP and loves to debate the logic behind new ideas.
I tend to score as both types equally, and the F vs T function is always split 50/50. I do relate to the nfp description more, but ntp doe snot sound far off either.
Took the test professionally. Turns out I am an ENTP.
I always wondered why I liked doing homework in crowded noisy rooms. As an enfp myself I think I get stimulated off the noise and chaos while keeping to myself and being focused on a task. It's weird but I focus way better when I'm alone around noise then at home with nothing going on
100% right on. This is all me. I have always thought of myself as an extrovert and people think I am, but I am often very shy. But I do get motivation and energy from being with people. I can feel depressed when I do not have enough personal interaction with people. Then I have a short friendly conversation with someone--anyone--even the checkout clerk at the grocery store and I feel better.
I wish I knew about this stuff before. So I didn’t think I was weird with how I was. Knowing there’s people like me in such a real way is kinda nice
exactly! same thoughts here
The extrovert not sure if your introvert is sooo true lol .... On myers briggs tests i'm always conflicted on social questions cus i'm social and i love connecting with people but at the same time it can be exhausting and difficult so i never know how to answer correctly especially if its multiple choice baha
Well, needing time to recover energy doesn't mean you didn't enjoy losing that energy while spending time with people. It's not really a contradiction, more two different aspects of sociability.
I don't know if it's necessarily energy, at least for me. I love spending time alone and the being able to do things independently and figure things out on my own from my experiences and handle my emotions. Reconnecting with self. I get hardcore information overload and then basically become spaced out and can barely form coherent sentences. 😂 It doesn't seem to be the full blown introvert "I need to recharge" because I usually go insane if I'm alone for too long. 😂
Yeah same, I actually identify as ambiverted because I am both extroverted and introverted
I bloody loooooooooooooooooove ENFPs!
What's the cure?
There's no cure, sorry.
P.S. Please show signs of that loving attention to any of us, it will be received with the utmost appreciation.
-An average ENFP.
Always do.
are you an ENFP? :)
I'm INTP.
Struggle I've often seen in ENFP's ....they've found a partner and they're like so into the other person, it's like they're high on drugs. They are like OH I'VE FOUND THE ONE, and then the rush and novelty slowly wears off, and then they go seek another and THEY HAVE FOUND TE ONE again...and they're high on love again....etc etc. .....This often happens often especially if they're dating another ENFP...then it's almost a comedy show you're watching when for the the 10th time they're found the one again, and are super sure of it...at least for a while...
This is my first comment on UA-cam in years. This is amazing. I never knew there would be people like me. I took several different tests and I always end up being enfp, but I wasn't sure if it was accurate but now I'm pretty sure the that I am. I don't really have any close friends my age because there isn't really anybody who can be enthusiastic about serious topics. Everybody seems so shallow like you said. People older than me can understand what I'm talking about because I tend to want to dig deeper into more interesting and important thoughts that are usually topics for the old and wise. Anyways thanks for the vid!
This is probably the most accurate list of struggles I've seen/read.
Just stared caring about this and YES, I am diving into the rabbit hole, who would have guessed..
Me too, it's a long arduous journey,. I'm expecting a payoff once I learn more about self and the type of others, hoping to find a better fitting match.
THE MULTIPLE CHOICE PART. Augh, so so TRUE.
I love you ENFP. From INTJ.
Meow
You guys are so cute. I love you all-INFJ
loveee
Awwwww this is so cute i love you allll🥺❤
AWWWWWWEEEEEE I feel warm and cuddly on the inside now ilysm 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 (my best friend is also an intj)
This is 100% me, it's scary but great knowing I'm not alone.
Love this! The cycle of overstimulated and bored is so true! Haha we go to both extremes. :)
😂😂
Number 1: You think you're and introvert
Indeed, I also think we are walking memes
Walking meme indeed
Scariest video on UA-cam! Hit the nail right on the head.
ENFPs are the most bubbly people ever! :) (as an INFP)
INFPs are the most beautiful deep souls
Isabella Harrison Robin Williams, my relatives.. For me memories spent with ENFPs are so memorable & imprinted they stay for life? Even long after ppl get busy with lives & grow apart.. I don’t know. But no matter how intense they are upfront (I hide mine & keep it at bay), they have a beautiful sparkly side to their personality apart from ENFJs.. well as xNFx types go by- infp (=
thnx
I'm an ENFP
and the last one is my real problem
but what I'm craving for really is the cuddles 😭 but I receive none 😵
Same m8 lol
Did any of us sort this cuddle craving problem out? I neeeeed to solve this
ME
Manu Zavala never solved it lmao
I generally solve it by hugging people. maybe they are strangers, maybe I just met them OH WELL. HUGS FOR ALL.
Love this! You really are an enfp, could tell right away. Strong mental abilities but overall cool demeanor with some hands gestures and explains things very thoroughly. - INFP
Hardest part growing up was always believing people r good and trusting them to care for others. Later I learned more about psychopaths and traumatic childhood experiences and realized how naive I was
This is so true, especially n. 6.. My boyfriend is an ENFP and I can confirm all of these. I love him so much. I think ENFP is a very special type.
(I'm an ENTJ)
I can't believe how damn accurate those 10 points were. Seriously. You got tho the "overwhelmed" point and I was like (drop the damn phone and walk out with my hands in the air) So creepy but wonderful. I'm definitely an ENFP.
ASMR Irish everyday
Boi, your reaction is exactly what I did at the overstimulative part
Dude, I just dropped my phone and raised my hands literally two minutes before reading your comment
Why are ENFP's so strange yet so amusing to watch? -INTJ
Idk? Maybe you could tell me???
Jihad Joe yeah tell us. Lol.
my intj friend says sometimes i come as loud even in texting talking etc but he did say to me you are unique and i love those words, and sometimes he insulted me as a joke when i lost an address where we should meet by telling me : i was a few meters from you are you blind ? hahahah i find intj really interesting i have another intj friend who got cold of me because when hanging out i wanted to be with more people (for me more is mor efun, more talk and thinking etc hahaha) while he didn't like that a lot.
So funny! ENFP here
Because we just love and appreciate ENFPs. So it's sort of like watching kitten videos.
i wish i had more enfps around me :(
-intj
Hiiiiiiiii!!!!
I'm the same
-INTJ
@@esobeljaen1748 hello, btw
@@silverrain530 hellooooo
HEEEEEEYYYY!
Absolutely ON POINT. Thanks for this. ❤️- Hi my fellow ENFPs.
The ghost mode is right on the mark, though very few people mention it in their ENFP reviews. The small number of close friends that I have (although my contact list is filled with an exuberant number of acquaintances, as you also said) pointed out that I often go "missing" for weeks. No postings on social media accounts, no detected activities, and not replying their messages for days or even weeks! Afterwards, though, I would always chat up my friends excitedly, like an enormous amount of lines in one time. Thank God there are still those who can put up with our whims!
Do any other Enfp just have the reaction to cry with every emotion or is that just me
HAHA lol me too
Your not alone 🙋
Wooooooah. Literally yes. Man, I didn't think about this for all enfps, but I am the only person I've met to do it, but I easily cry from joy or happiness, excitement, sadness of course, or anger. They are just silent, very heartfelt tears.
All throughout high school, I got INFP on my MBTI test but I just took it again and got ENFP for the first time. I’ve been watching tons of videos trying to see if I really am an ENFP but this kind of solidified it. I resonated with these ten points so much, wow. especially the introverted extrovert? ME!! I have a lot of friends/best friends but I only have 1 or 2 that I feel really get me. my heart is so full right now! thank you for this :)
I’m going through the same thing right now! ❤
Me:clicks on video
Also me:stares at orange key in the corner the whole time
I'm an INTP and my best friend is an ENFP. All this things matches with her. Also she hugs me all the time!
We have many differences in our personalities that's why we often find it difficult to interact with each other properly. And so I'm here to know about her personality more so that I can understand her better.
bang on :) I have stopped watching news channels n every show that displays crime n negativity ,now I know y
This is the first time I’ve really related to what a UA-camr has said about enfp. I guess it just takes a more personal perspective to get us as the broken little teddies we are
Yes, I am a very broken teddy bear, and need to be sewn back up from all the hard times 😔
But maybe one day when I'm finally fixed, I can be the whole happy little teddy I used to be.
I'm still a happy little teddy bear, but I'm broken and ripping at the seams in some places 😔
I've lost a lot of friends recently due to a situation my whole fam was in, and it wasn't our fault. Now, I only have about 2 or 3 people I talk to on a regular basis. But I'm glad that I at least have them
i really like your printer
Lmao that was humorously random X)
Star, it is a nice printer though.
Wow, i didn’t really notice that there was a printer
Lmaoooooo
Peter Gizmos is it that blue boxy thing? I thought that was a drawer
We’re also always the sidekick inspiring the hero and never the hero 😭
TRUEEEE even on movies i barely see ENFP as the main character😔
@@aishashasmito799 yep sad reality of the ENFP haha
@@Aviebaybe heyy we got Naruto! ;)
@@pinkookmin6826 TRUE ahaha
Yes! How does this always happen? We get overlooked in every situation
“ENFP’s needs cuddles a lot”
Me; ...thinks about my cuddle billow.. right... I guess I’m normal 🤣