Awe girl don’t even worry about him ♡ You handled the situation so respectfully and he had no business acting like such a fool. He only acted like that since it was two young women and thats inexcusable. People really need to do better but props to you and your friend for continuing to be apologetic and understanding. Hope you have a fun/safe trip and keep your head up girlie!!💗🫶
Aw I’m sorry that happened to you ☹️ I would have felt the same way I really don’t like upsetting people and it can be really scary and intense when people escalate situations like that and especially in a place you aren’t familiar with! I hope the rest of your trip was better 🤍
it's okay babe! i think it's important to mention such moments on a solo trip because there's a lot of girls out there, who are probably on their first solo trip but since so much of it is glorified online, they don't really see it coming. i'm so sorry that this happened to you. thank you for still putting this clip in. just know we'll keep watching! 🫧🩷
I just reached the end of the video and I hope you're okay now! I know some time must have passed since that day, but it genuinely does sound really terrifying and your reaction was so valid. I think it says plenty about that man and not you. Sending love 💜💜💜
I'm so sorry Jude.. All of us are here to support you. I'm glad you chose to post the clip in the end because we like you because you're real with us. Most people blur strangers in shots if they do get them too so it's hard for me to understand why they got so heated, especially when you were compliant and deleted the footage in front oh them. I don't blame you and I don't think you should blame yourself. I hope you were still able to enjoy your trip
Judy please don't be so hard on yourself for this. I watch a Japanese youtuber (like born and raised in Japan) and during a livestream even though the camera was pointing at himself and filming his face only a man walking by got really angry about it and even escalated it to the police. I think there's just some angry bored men around that will start a fight for no reason just because you're carrying a camera. When I was in Japan some men would purposedly bump really hard into me just because I'm a woman walking by. Be careful.
I am so sorry for what happened Judy, but you indeed handled it super well, things like that can be so hard, and in a foreign country, even harder. SUPER excited for this series, I am sure it will be amazing, like always ❤
I'm one of your Japanese fans and I just wanted to say so sorry for what you had to go through. Unfortunately there are weird men here from time to time and I feel so bad one of them had to do that to you. Believe me most people here won't care if someone's filming as long as it's not like they're the main person in that frame, and you were already cautious from the beginning so you have nothing to feel bad about. Hearing how self conscious he was, I feel like he had mental issues and that's not something we can control so again, there's nothing you need to be sorry for. If you ever come to Japan again please film as much as you like and hope you could enjoy your trip more than this time.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I have social anxiety. I would’ve have a complete panic attack. There is no expectation of privacy in a public space. I’ve been caught in the back of videos. Travel is so brave- especially solo travel. I wonder if it’s like that everywhere. Take care, you sweet gal! Thanks for sharing your experience.
Amazing editing as always ❤❤ I’m sorry you had to go through that with the guy I can’t imagine how nerve wracking that must be especially in a foreign country
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I think you handled the situation very well, if it was me I would be a total mess. Thank you for being brave and sharing this experience to alert other people. ❤
I'm sorry that happened to you!! I actually had the thought halfway through this vlog that I was impressed how you were filming in such public places and yet there was never anyone else in the shot. I live near quite a big city so I always feel like I'm avoiding people filming and it was nice to see you being so considerate. The vlog was great and I can't wait to see more, I hope you had a wonderful time!!! On another note, what is the lipstick you were wearing in the main vlog, it's so pretty!
Omg super excited for more japan vlogs!! Ofc we definitely feel that u try ur best to make great content for us while being very respectful of those around u so I hope u can show yourself some love and grace in the face of adversity 🥺 loved the vid!!
Aw, Judy! So sorry that happened to you. I hope you were still able to enjoy the rest of the trip. You probably handled it very well but understandably that type of situation can be so stressful and scary so so glad to hear that you came out of it with your important footages in tact. Love you, girl - sending good vibes your way~
So sorry to hear what happened to you. Hope you feeling much better now. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Can’t wait to see all the fun things you do for the rest of your trip. Hugs! 💖
Omg Judy I’m so so sorry for this happened to you… =( you were completely nice, so be proud of yourself…there’s bad people everywhere don’t let them ruin your experience =( You’re amazing!!! Lots of hugs and love from Spain!!!
I had a similar experience where I can see where my vlogging could have made someone uncomfortable but they also escalated the situation after I did my part just like you. That was a years ago (the second day with my first ever vlogging camera) and I’m still traumatized/scared I haven’t picked up vlogging in public since. I’m really sad cause I wanted vlogging to be my way of remembering and sharing my experiences of life. I’m sorry you had to experience that and you’re so strong to find a way to continue and not let this bother you. I’m working on it still. But you inspire me to try again. Thank you ❤
Judy! I'm your long-term Japanese fan☺🇯🇵 Thank you for visiting Japan.💓I got SO excited when I saw the title.😊hehe Okay, I'm going to watch the video.😁
I'm so so sorry for what happened to you at the dinner, Judy.😭 You did nothing wrong. Really. You didn't record other people in the first place and on top of it, you deleted the footage. The guy's reaction is a bit too much but maybe he was having a bad day or having a dinner with someone he's not supposed to. I'm SOOOOOO excited for the 17 more videos from the trip.😁 I'll definitely watch every single vlog.💓💓 @@j.uuuuudy
Hi Judy! I love your videos! I hope you don't mind, but I wanted to ask what you use to edit your videos! Especially for the air drop image/recording at 0:01! Thank yo so much! 💕💕
I'm browsing a lot of solo travel vlogs to find video inspirations and I stumbled upon this video. Truly sorry to what happened to you literally at the end of your FIRST day in Japan, all things considered in the video. And the fact that police was called that's insane to me. I hope your trip was okay after that! I'm going solo for the 3rd time and I hope nothing like that happens.
You didn’t intentionally film that person and shouldn’t be made to feel so bad. I’m excited to see this vlog. I was actually considering going to Japan to attend the eras tour and visit our two exchange students.
Hugs and kisses, travel Solo is dificult and intense. I want to see the next videos ❤ I had been in Chicago, Dallas and San Francisco from México City and every time I came bck stronger and happier.
Oohh sweetheart don’t let people affect you like this I hope it won’t stop you to vlog I so enjoyed it. I’m surprised cause I always viewed Japanese people like very polite and respectful so sad… can’t wait to see your next vlog ❤ love ❤️ from Canada 🍁
Firstly congrats on your bravery to travel solo...Secondly, sending you big kiwi hugs. I'm disappointed someone upset you, and involved the police how dramatic of him. You are awesome and I'm looking forward to your travels. Kia Kaha 🥝💚
I feel like the guy had way more going on for him and he let his paranoia get the better of him like, what if he was cheating on his wife or he was supposed to be somewhere else 🤔🤔 i hope you find comfort in the fact that his reaction has probably more to do with what he’s got going in with HIS life than him “potentially” being in the background of a video. Onwards baby girl, you can only do your best; the rest is out of your control 🤗
My understanding is it's illegal to video inside a business without permission and many Japanese are aware of this with some overreacting like this guy. Streamers like Johnny Somali harassing people for content and others like him using Japan as a playground where they think laws can be broken with impunity has made national news. It places ALL well intentioned vloggers/streamers in jeopardy. The government could easily overreact making it much more difficult to video anywhere. Vloggers often question why there are no trashcans in the whole of Japan. It's from an overreaction by the government after the cult gas attacks sometime in the 90's. Now people have no choice but to carry their trash until they get home. This is a big issue and I'm glad you chose to talk about it.
Hi Judy! I’ve been following you for some time now, but it’s the first time I actually comment on a video! First of all, I wanted to thank you for actually vlogging your trip! I know it’s hard! Solo traveling is the best. I’ve been to Japan a few times, but always with someone. This summer I went alone for the first time and it was the best trip I’ve had in my life! Second, I wanted to say I’m sorry for what happened to you. It must have been really stressful to even have the police there… this person overreacted. You deleted the footage, that should’ve been the end of it. I’m sorry you had to experience such a stressful experience. I hope the rest of the trip was amazing though!!!
I used to travel solo during my 20s a lot and you are bringing back some memories, of all sorts. All of this will strengthen you ❤ good for you for going on the adventure ❤
I'm so excited to see your vlogs but I'm sorry that you were upset. It would be very scary having someone call the police on you in a different country. I hope the trip got better for you. ❤
Japanese people are tired of Live Streamers and vloggers, as well as people drinking in the streets and on the trains. I think the guy just over reacted. But there are some vigilante groups in Tokyo accosting people doing these things, but they usually gang up on one person, never a group. I was falsely arrested in Tokyo by a vigilante group (it's called Citizen's Arrest) who accused me of recording women and girls on the trains, I spent 23 days in jail during the investigation.
@@j.uuuuudy Sorry you had a bad experience on your visit. I've lived in Tokyo for over 20 years, vigilantism is something new in Japan. But now there is a thing called Nuisance Live Streamers, foreigners as well as Japanese. The most recent case is "Johnny Somali". He's black American whowas annoying Japanese people and committing crimes on live streams in Tokyo and Osaka. Long story short, he was arrested and may serve several years in prison. Do some research on these people and avoid being associated with them on your next visit.
So sorry to hear that happened to you. I think he definitely overreacted after you clearly wiped off the footage in front of him he should of just let it go. He had no right to ask you to wipe your sd card. It was unintentional and not your fault at all.
Dear Judy, I just want you to know that you never have to explain, justify, or apologize for how you felt about something unless you want to❤Feelings are the result of millions of years of evolution and natural selection, they exist to protect us😊As a fellow introvert, I completely understand how a situation like that can trigger overwhelming emotions in someone who is just really trying their best to consider the neeeds of everyone. In this case, I think that the man went way over the line, he seems like a bit of a bully. You did nothing wrong and you should have nothing to feel sorry for. I hope the rest of your trip was happy, lighthearted, and free of assholes like him🙈
Girl I’m from Israel and I needed this video so much I’m carrying right now I’m so happy people have the privilege to see the world and enjoy it❤❤ Peace and love from me❤🇮🇱
That literally makes me so mad that he treated you that way. What right does he think he has to demand you to delete footage? Who even cares if he had been in the shot or not, you could have blurred or even edited him out if he was (which I'm sure he wasn't). I'm a people pleaser so I would have deleted the clip too but as soon as he became irate and hostile, I would have stopped talking to him completely because that is down-right disrespectful and inappropriate behavior. I also would have told the restaurant that he was harassing you two if he continued. It's unacceptable. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that and him getting the police involved is super immature. You definitely handled the whole situation with grace. I am about to watch your next vlog so I am sure it's filled with lots of fun but my heart goes out to you either way because I am 23 and I can't imagine solo traveling. I want to but my family wouldn't let me because of how unsafe it is everywhere these days, but also I would feel quite intimidated myself. I think I would like to take a trip with just a best friend though.
Rule one, understand the customs and courtesies of the country you are traveling in. You also came in just on the heels of the Johnny Somali child, so people are very apprehensive nowadays. Permission is needed to film in any restaurant, these are considered private spaces. There is information all about this on the web and Japan travel guides. The man’s behavior although not frequent in Japan is common, especially when drunk. The Japanese police are not skilled in de-escalation, they are only trained to follow the letter of the law and keep the peace, so good luck dealing with a scenario, other than asking directions. The individual made a mountain out of a mole hill, but you need to give descriptors. Approximate age, dress, coherency, these factors will lead towards his attitude towards you. I grew up in the 70’s and 80’s in NYC, you always check the abode you enter and read the room. It’s not where you’re from it’s where you’re at. Why you are crying? I have no idea, possibly for attention, likes and views, The proper emotion is anger. I have lived here in Tokyo for 7 years, yes I’ve seen some things but never been apart of them. Fun fact Shibuya, Shinjuku, Akihabara, and Harajuku are place’s to see, not experience. I don’t set foot in those parts of Tokyo unless I have reason too. If you had gone to Nishi-Ogikubo or Kichijoji things may have been different, and the crowd more genuine.
Girl just hearing abt the situation made me so mad on ur behalf 😤 it’s the Aries in me lmao but I think that guy was being way too aggressive about that situation, esp when u immediately deleted it & apologized. Like calling the police over this?? it’s giving male Karen energy. I woulda fought him for u if I were there 👊🏻
Awe girl don’t even worry about him ♡ You handled the situation so respectfully and he had no business acting like such a fool. He only acted like that since it was two young women and thats inexcusable. People really need to do better but props to you and your friend for continuing to be apologetic and understanding. Hope you have a fun/safe trip and keep your head up girlie!!💗🫶
thank you my love ❤ cant wait to show you the rest on the trip!
This x 💯 💯 💯 %
That’s what i thought too. He probably thought he can push you with his attitude.
@@frances3266 He didn't consider that I'm not the one 😉
@@strawberryloli I'm glad you and Judy were together! Facing that situation alone would have been so much more stressful and dangerous.
Aw I’m sorry that happened to you ☹️ I would have felt the same way I really don’t like upsetting people and it can be really scary and intense when people escalate situations like that and especially in a place you aren’t familiar with! I hope the rest of your trip was better 🤍
thank you love! my trip was super fun after this, i cant wait to share it!
it's okay babe! i think it's important to mention such moments on a solo trip because there's a lot of girls out there, who are probably on their first solo trip but since so much of it is glorified online, they don't really see it coming. i'm so sorry that this happened to you. thank you for still putting this clip in. just know we'll keep watching! 🫧🩷
I just reached the end of the video and I hope you're okay now! I know some time must have passed since that day, but it genuinely does sound really terrifying and your reaction was so valid. I think it says plenty about that man and not you. Sending love 💜💜💜
im okay now!! thank you 💕
I'm so sorry Jude.. All of us are here to support you. I'm glad you chose to post the clip in the end because we like you because you're real with us.
Most people blur strangers in shots if they do get them too so it's hard for me to understand why they got so heated, especially when you were compliant and deleted the footage in front oh them. I don't blame you and I don't think you should blame yourself. I hope you were still able to enjoy your trip
thank you 💕 the rest of my trip had no hiccups and was super fun excited to share it!!
Judy please don't be so hard on yourself for this. I watch a Japanese youtuber (like born and raised in Japan) and during a livestream even though the camera was pointing at himself and filming his face only a man walking by got really angry about it and even escalated it to the police. I think there's just some angry bored men around that will start a fight for no reason just because you're carrying a camera. When I was in Japan some men would purposedly bump really hard into me just because I'm a woman walking by. Be careful.
sounds like a really similar situation to what happened to us T-T thankfully nothing else like this happened after!
I am so sorry for what happened Judy, but you indeed handled it super well, things like that can be so hard, and in a foreign country, even harder. SUPER excited for this series, I am sure it will be amazing, like always ❤
thank you my love ❤
I hope you have a “what you packed” video bc all your outfits were so cute
sadly i didnt film what i packed and i wantd to get outfit content while i was there but too shy to film a whole ootd alone LOL
I'm one of your Japanese fans and I just wanted to say so sorry for what you had to go through. Unfortunately there are weird men here from time to time and I feel so bad one of them had to do that to you.
Believe me most people here won't care if someone's filming as long as it's not like they're the main person in that frame, and you were already cautious from the beginning so you have nothing to feel bad about.
Hearing how self conscious he was, I feel like he had mental issues and that's not something we can control so again, there's nothing you need to be sorry for.
If you ever come to Japan again please film as much as you like and hope you could enjoy your trip more than this time.
いつもあなたの動画を視聴していますがコメントをするのは初めてです。日本に来てくれてとても嬉しいです🇯🇵これからもあなたの動画を楽しみにしています！
日本から愛を込めて💜🫧🦄
thank you so much for watching ❤
giving you a virtual hug! im so sorry to hear that you had to experienced such an awful situation on your first day.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I have social anxiety. I would’ve have a complete panic attack. There is no expectation of privacy in a public space. I’ve been caught in the back of videos. Travel is so brave- especially solo travel. I wonder if it’s like that everywhere. Take care, you sweet gal! Thanks for sharing your experience.
Been waiting for this vlog 🥰🥰 despite that bad experience i hope you still had a great time in japn 💕
Amazing editing as always ❤❤ I’m sorry you had to go through that with the guy I can’t imagine how nerve wracking that must be especially in a foreign country
thank you love ❤
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I think you handled the situation very well, if it was me I would be a total mess. Thank you for being brave and sharing this experience to alert other people. ❤
I'm sorry that happened to you!! I actually had the thought halfway through this vlog that I was impressed how you were filming in such public places and yet there was never anyone else in the shot. I live near quite a big city so I always feel like I'm avoiding people filming and it was nice to see you being so considerate. The vlog was great and I can't wait to see more, I hope you had a wonderful time!!! On another note, what is the lipstick you were wearing in the main vlog, it's so pretty!
thank you love! ❤ im wearing the flortte x mikko lip cream!!
Omg super excited for more japan vlogs!! Ofc we definitely feel that u try ur best to make great content for us while being very respectful of those around u so I hope u can show yourself some love and grace in the face of adversity 🥺 loved the vid!!
thank you so so much ❤
Hugs! I’m sure it didn’t need to be escalated to that manner. I hope you still had a lovely trip.
I'm so excited for this series Judy!!!!
Aw, Judy! So sorry that happened to you. I hope you were still able to enjoy the rest of the trip. You probably handled it very well but understandably that type of situation can be so stressful and scary so so glad to hear that you came out of it with your important footages in tact. Love you, girl - sending good vibes your way~
love you too thank you ❤
So sorry to hear what happened to you. Hope you feeling much better now. Don’t be too hard on yourself.
Can’t wait to see all the fun things you do for the rest of your trip. Hugs! 💖
Omg Judy I’m so so sorry for this happened to you… =( you were completely nice, so be proud of yourself…there’s bad people everywhere don’t let them ruin your experience =( You’re amazing!!! Lots of hugs and love from Spain!!!
I had a similar experience where I can see where my vlogging could have made someone uncomfortable but they also escalated the situation after I did my part just like you. That was a years ago (the second day with my first ever vlogging camera) and I’m still traumatized/scared I haven’t picked up vlogging in public since. I’m really sad cause I wanted vlogging to be my way of remembering and sharing my experiences of life. I’m sorry you had to experience that and you’re so strong to find a way to continue and not let this bother you. I’m working on it still. But you inspire me to try again. Thank you ❤
Judy! I'm your long-term Japanese fan☺🇯🇵
Thank you for visiting Japan.💓I got SO excited when I saw the title.😊hehe
Okay, I'm going to watch the video.😁
awww!! this is so sweet, thank you ❤
I'm so so sorry for what happened to you at the dinner, Judy.😭
You did nothing wrong. Really. You didn't record other people in the first place and on top of it, you deleted the footage.
The guy's reaction is a bit too much but maybe he was having a bad day or having a dinner with someone he's not supposed to.
I'm SOOOOOO excited for the 17 more videos from the trip.😁 I'll definitely watch every single vlog.💓💓
@@j.uuuuudy
So many hugs for you. I’m determined to watch this whole series, even more now.
thank you ❤
Hi Judy! I love your videos! I hope you don't mind, but I wanted to ask what you use to edit your videos! Especially for the air drop image/recording at 0:01! Thank yo so much! 💕💕
Oh Judy ❤️❤️❤️ was still an enjoyable video. Love how you wore a hair roller during eating 🥰
thanks my girl couldnt of done it without you seriously!!!
Breaks my heart to see you cry. We're with you Judy!
i appreciate you s much thank you ❤
So sorry to hear what happened to you. Hope you feeling better now. xx
I'm browsing a lot of solo travel vlogs to find video inspirations and I stumbled upon this video. Truly sorry to what happened to you literally at the end of your FIRST day in Japan, all things considered in the video. And the fact that police was called that's insane to me. I hope your trip was okay after that! I'm going solo for the 3rd time and I hope nothing like that happens.
omg judy japan vlog is here! so excited to watch it! can you make more daily vlog like day in my life or what i do this week as youtube?
yesss i'll probably get to vlogging maybe next year!
sending you lots of love judy!!
love you thank you ❤
I’m solo travelling for the first time leaving tomorrow! This is perfect timing. Your videos will be so lovely for my downtime ☺️
Oh judy, im so sorry! You are such a sweet person, i don´t know how anyone could be so mean to you about something so irrelevant! Sending you love!!
thank you love!! ❤
You didn’t intentionally film that person and shouldn’t be made to feel so bad. I’m excited to see this vlog. I was actually considering going to Japan to attend the eras tour and visit our two exchange students.
omg that would be so fun!!!
Hugs and kisses, travel Solo is dificult and intense. I want to see the next videos ❤ I had been in Chicago, Dallas and San Francisco from México City and every time I came bck stronger and happier.
I’ve been waiting for the vlogs!!
enjoy ❤
love your energy in this vlog 🤩 I miss Japan 😭
i miss it alreadyyy
Oohh sweetheart don’t let people affect you like this I hope it won’t stop you to vlog I so enjoyed it. I’m surprised cause I always viewed Japanese people like very polite and respectful so sad… can’t wait to see your next vlog ❤ love ❤️ from Canada 🍁
Firstly congrats on your bravery to travel solo...Secondly, sending you big kiwi hugs. I'm disappointed someone upset you, and involved the police how dramatic of him. You are awesome and I'm looking forward to your travels. Kia Kaha 🥝💚
thank you ❤
Hotel across the road from 711 is super pro tip! And that black beard reaction was crack up😂
I feel like the guy had way more going on for him and he let his paranoia get the better of him like, what if he was cheating on his wife or he was supposed to be somewhere else 🤔🤔 i hope you find comfort in the fact that his reaction has probably more to do with what he’s got going in with HIS life than him “potentially” being in the background of a video. Onwards baby girl, you can only do your best; the rest is out of your control 🤗
My understanding is it's illegal to video inside a business without permission and many Japanese are aware of this with some overreacting like this guy. Streamers like Johnny Somali harassing people for content and others like him using Japan as a playground where they think laws can be broken with impunity has made national news. It places ALL well intentioned vloggers/streamers in jeopardy. The government could easily overreact making it much more difficult to video anywhere. Vloggers often question why there are no trashcans in the whole of Japan. It's from an overreaction by the government after the cult gas attacks sometime in the 90's. Now people have no choice but to carry their trash until they get home. This is a big issue and I'm glad you chose to talk about it.
the emotions really do hit the day before your period is supposed to happen 😭
Hi Judy! I’ve been following you for some time now, but it’s the first time I actually comment on a video!
First of all, I wanted to thank you for actually vlogging your trip! I know it’s hard! Solo traveling is the best. I’ve been to Japan a few times, but always with someone. This summer I went alone for the first time and it was the best trip I’ve had in my life!
Second, I wanted to say I’m sorry for what happened to you. It must have been really stressful to even have the police there… this person overreacted. You deleted the footage, that should’ve been the end of it. I’m sorry you had to experience such a stressful experience. I hope the rest of the trip was amazing though!!!
aww thank you for your comment ❤ ily
That glass escalator: NOPE
HAHA at the top i was like oh wow this is REEEALLLY high
I clicked right away!!!
i hope you enjoyed ❤❤
I used to travel solo during my 20s a lot and you are bringing back some memories, of all sorts. All of this will strengthen you ❤ good for you for going on the adventure ❤
thank you so much ❤
I'm so excited to see your vlogs but I'm sorry that you were upset. It would be very scary having someone call the police on you in a different country. I hope the trip got better for you. ❤
Lesson no 1 in Japan: ALWAYS ask for permission to film inside of a shop or restaurant or whatever!
16:50 who is "He"?? Was it just some random guy? Was he Japanese?
yes random japanese guy at the table next to us
Japanese people are tired of Live Streamers and vloggers, as well as people drinking in the streets and on the trains. I think the guy just over reacted. But there are some vigilante groups in Tokyo accosting people doing these things, but they usually gang up on one person, never a group. I was falsely arrested in Tokyo by a vigilante group (it's called Citizen's Arrest) who accused me of recording women and girls on the trains, I spent 23 days in jail during the investigation.
that is what my friend ren said too. im so sorry that had to happen to you :( i cant even imagine that
@@j.uuuuudy Sorry you had a bad experience on your visit. I've lived in Tokyo for over 20 years, vigilantism is something new in Japan. But now there is a thing called Nuisance Live Streamers, foreigners as well as Japanese. The most recent case is "Johnny Somali". He's black American whowas annoying Japanese people and committing crimes on live streams in Tokyo and Osaka. Long story short, he was arrested and may serve several years in prison. Do some research on these people and avoid being associated with them on your next visit.
@@j.uuuuudy also, always ask the establishments permission to record, hopefully they can give you a table away from other customers.
i realised actually many japanese men do not like to be film. I went japan and took a video of one japanese man's chow chow dog. He was so furious.
So sorry to hear that happened to you. I think he definitely overreacted after you clearly wiped off the footage in front of him he should of just let it go. He had no right to ask you to wipe your sd card. It was unintentional and not your fault at all.
Dear Judy, I just want you to know that you never have to explain, justify, or apologize for how you felt about something unless you want to❤Feelings are the result of millions of years of evolution and natural selection, they exist to protect us😊As a fellow introvert, I completely understand how a situation like that can trigger overwhelming emotions in someone who is just really trying their best to consider the neeeds of everyone. In this case, I think that the man went way over the line, he seems like a bit of a bully. You did nothing wrong and you should have nothing to feel sorry for. I hope the rest of your trip was happy, lighthearted, and free of assholes like him🙈
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love ur vlogs judy! and fuck that guy, he's probably sus if he's THAT pressed about being in someone else's footage; what a drama queen
He knows he looks like an incel and no one’s checking for him even if he was front and center, that’s why 😊
Girl I’m from Israel and I needed this video so much
I’m carrying right now
I’m so happy people have the privilege to see the world and enjoy it❤❤
Peace and love from me❤🇮🇱
That literally makes me so mad that he treated you that way. What right does he think he has to demand you to delete footage? Who even cares if he had been in the shot or not, you could have blurred or even edited him out if he was (which I'm sure he wasn't). I'm a people pleaser so I would have deleted the clip too but as soon as he became irate and hostile, I would have stopped talking to him completely because that is down-right disrespectful and inappropriate behavior. I also would have told the restaurant that he was harassing you two if he continued. It's unacceptable. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that and him getting the police involved is super immature. You definitely handled the whole situation with grace.
I am about to watch your next vlog so I am sure it's filled with lots of fun but my heart goes out to you either way because I am 23 and I can't imagine solo traveling. I want to but my family wouldn't let me because of how unsafe it is everywhere these days, but also I would feel quite intimidated myself. I think I would like to take a trip with just a best friend though.
Rule one, understand the customs and courtesies of the country you are traveling in. You also came in just on the heels of the Johnny Somali child, so people are very apprehensive nowadays. Permission is needed to film in any restaurant, these are considered private spaces. There is information all about this on the web and Japan travel guides. The man’s behavior although not frequent in Japan is common, especially when drunk. The Japanese police are not skilled in de-escalation, they are only trained to follow the letter of the law and keep the peace, so good luck dealing with a scenario, other than asking directions. The individual made a mountain out of a mole hill, but you need to give descriptors. Approximate age, dress, coherency, these factors will lead towards his attitude towards you. I grew up in the 70’s and 80’s in NYC, you always check the abode you enter and read the room. It’s not where you’re from it’s where you’re at. Why you are crying? I have no idea, possibly for attention, likes and views, The proper emotion is anger. I have lived here in Tokyo for 7 years, yes I’ve seen some things but never been apart of them. Fun fact Shibuya, Shinjuku, Akihabara, and Harajuku are place’s to see, not experience. I don’t set foot in those parts of Tokyo unless I have reason too. If you had gone to Nishi-Ogikubo or Kichijoji things may have been different, and the crowd more genuine.
Girl just hearing abt the situation made me so mad on ur behalf 😤 it’s the Aries in me lmao but I think that guy was being way too aggressive about that situation, esp when u immediately deleted it & apologized. Like calling the police over this?? it’s giving male Karen energy. I woulda fought him for u if I were there 👊🏻