It's been years since I did this but I've had some clients mention I should comment here because they had to dig a bit to find me haha Here I am! I still am so honored I got this platform to speak on and I appreciate all the support, thank you Tedx!
I've watched a lot of videos about dating, read a lot about it, and dated a lot. This video is the best thing I've seen out of all the materials I've gone through. Everyone who dates needs to see this.
Can someone explain why do they date? I grew up in a single parent household. Relationship just doesn’t seem necessary to me. It’s like trying so hard to get into college while your dream job doesn’t need a college degree.
People do it just so they can be like others in the world People do it because they wanna be able to say me too when others say they have (blank) The truth is getting married is NOT a necessity of life I understand why religion back in the day promoted the whole concept of marriage but in this current day and age it’s becoming an outdated and antiquated concept really fast and quick And the results as far as divorce rate and unhappy married couples attests to this facts
While I don't have any real issue with the message here, I do feel the title is mistitled. It doesn't really help me to actually GET a date, but is more focused on having realistic standards and views on dating itself--which is important, but I don't believe that is what holds me back. Actually finding someone to meet with in person is the pain point of dating for most men out there.
This is so true. It's hard to meet single women in the real world. Where are they hiding?! And, dating apps are too overcrowded to actually make a connection with anybody.
The reason as a guy you can't get a date is because of the reasons she already listed lot of women are doing - they are limiting themselves to a very small demographic using superficial criteria. She's encouraging them to self reflect on their biases/preferences
Oddly I have had no issue - but - it started with being clear in my mind - she could not start with the idea that I was less valuable or had less real emotions because I am a man.....
I was all excited to hear Ruby talking about the height issue first... until she gave people the okay to still ignore partners that are equal to or shorter than them. Ruby: If height doesn't matter, then no height difference matters. It's unacceptable bias that, quite easily, eliminate 30-50% of eligible partners. You talk about hair being able to be fixed - height is fixed at birth. If it's an issue, the person is focusing on factors that do not lead to a long-term, loving, respectful relationship.
It's been years since I did this but I've had some clients mention I should comment here because they had to dig a bit to find me haha Here I am! I still am so honored I got this platform to speak on and I appreciate all the support, thank you Tedx!
Love this!
thank you, your speech, your energy , your intelligence, and the content are addictive,i enjoyed this so much and i wish you the best
came from reddit... this is underrated
I wasn't expecting her to be so sharp and on point. But she knows her stuff . if only more dating coaches took this approach more relationship advice.
Omkar very
I've watched a lot of videos about dating, read a lot about it, and dated a lot. This video is the best thing I've seen out of all the materials I've gone through. Everyone who dates needs to see this.
Does she work I need dading couch.
The right date? If you're me you're just trying to find someone that wants to date.
Can someone explain why do they date? I grew up in a single parent household. Relationship just doesn’t seem necessary to me. It’s like trying so hard to get into college while your dream job doesn’t need a college degree.
People do it just so they can be like others in the world
People do it because they wanna be able to say me too when others say they have (blank)
The truth is getting married is NOT a necessity of life
I understand why religion back in the day promoted the whole concept of marriage but in this current day and age it’s becoming an outdated and antiquated concept really fast and quick
And the results as far as divorce rate and unhappy married couples attests to this facts
While I don't have any real issue with the message here, I do feel the title is mistitled. It doesn't really help me to actually GET a date, but is more focused on having realistic standards and views on dating itself--which is important, but I don't believe that is what holds me back. Actually finding someone to meet with in person is the pain point of dating for most men out there.
This is so true. It's hard to meet single women in the real world. Where are they hiding?! And, dating apps are too overcrowded to actually make a connection with anybody.
The reason as a guy you can't get a date is because of the reasons she already listed lot of women are doing - they are limiting themselves to a very small demographic using superficial criteria. She's encouraging them to self reflect on their biases/preferences
Im staying single... very happily single.
I am a widower, and they can't get passed that, I been labeled as damaged goods without even getting to know me
His issue wasn’t her hair. His issue is being a control freak!
you go girl! If only more people could think like this - put value in what matters versus surface level.
True Cara
anytime someone says "client"....
Love this. Knocked it out of the park Ruby!
I agree with her.
I'll rather stay single and not letting my boyfriend feel unattractive. not everyone can develop attraction.
Oddly I have had no issue - but - it started with being clear in my mind - she could not start with the idea that I was less valuable or had less real emotions because I am a man.....
Dating Coach.. awesome!!!!
Were can she be find?
Regards from Iceland
I always get ghosted
Perfectly said, perfectly presented, and a phenomenal message!!
I don't have any record, I am 22 and I coudn 't find right women, I don't know what's wrong with me.
first mistake is you are looking for one when you bellow 30 yo
Excellent talk!! That's the approach I take to dating but unfortunately not many other people do so.
I was all excited to hear Ruby talking about the height issue first... until she gave people the okay to still ignore partners that are equal to or shorter than them. Ruby: If height doesn't matter, then no height difference matters. It's unacceptable bias that, quite easily, eliminate 30-50% of eligible partners. You talk about hair being able to be fixed - height is fixed at birth. If it's an issue, the person is focusing on factors that do not lead to a long-term, loving, respectful relationship.
cool
Is she a filipina?
DJ jam villanueva that’s a Vietnamese last name
@@jnrx2007 I thought she was Vietnamese. She would have been a great dentist !
@@eddenoy321 Who cares what her ethnicity is, racists.
the right date is MGTOW
All these emotional women are just fatiguing to listen to!
She's selling a product. She has no idea about mens dating
She is the reason why so many young men have given up on dating.