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Oh yeah !
I would have loved if you had included someone with more socially conservative views than these women, to ignite a broader conversation!
I have never seen so many bots in a comment section.
Denim girl knows what's up
Nice video. A video on men would be interesting.
0:55 "I changed my tire multiple times" may look like bragging, but "That shows that I'm not a great driver" spun it off into a beautiful joke!
Yeah! Super humble!
OMG I never imagined to get so many likes. Thank you so much guys!
I went to school with her and she's honestly so nice and sweet!!
@@briannabermudez7259 Nice to hear that people like her didn't change their habits since childhood...
@@athenawindyy966 omg thanks
"YOU CAN RAISE WOMEN UP WITHOUT PUSHING MEN DOWN." That's what I've been saying all this time. This woman is really smart.
Noelle Redmond I read that as peach and was very confused for like 2 minuets
Denki Elric bruh 😂😂😂😂
It's sad that common sense is considered smart now
that same girl in the beginning of the video was saying that todays extreme feminism where men are put down is good....
Damion Palmer
*woman
She’s a woman.
totally unrelated but I feel like this room is really cold. Everyone has big jackets on and it just looks very drafty.
Yup.And the cement floor makes it look like its outside
My guess is like 40° and that not cold to me thou since I live where it's cold lol
@Enri Playz No? she can wear however much makeup she wants.
@Enri Playz yeah its gross
@@joeschmoe7866 ..... I’m guessing you haven’t listened to ANY of the points made in the video. Just remember, woman wear makeup for THEM not others, or the public eye. If she feels confident, has a healthy lifestyle then there should be by no means you feeling okay to even agree to that statement.
whenever i watch these i’m always thinking “damn if i was there i would say...” lmao i can’t help it
Then think about saying it and then how are you going to defend your statement.This way of thinking on these videos could improve you.
Just say it out loud. I was talking to the mirror. 😫
@@6xmaaaa no fr i would pause every once in a while and go off at my reflection lmao
@@whatsupworld7816 ikr
omg you should def make your channel in your thoughts abt these topics, i would probs watch tbh
MeToo isn’t about women, it’s about ANYONE who has been sexually harassed or raped. There are men in the movement as well.
@@omarelmasri9939 that is not what femminsm stands for, they're not feminists. Feminists can be men or women but if they say that they don't represent feminism. Ive heard men say stuff like that to other men. its not the femminsm its ignorance don't let them make you hate women and femminsm. And that is the exact reason im a feminist so that men wouldn't feel weak because of sexual assault and women wouldn't feel like sluts
Pomegranate Omar wow, sorry to hear that:( hope you're doing all right now.
Pomegranate Omar I’m very sorry that happened to you. You’re not weak. And what really makes me mad is that if a man touches a woman without consent then ppl will get super mad at him and call him a rapist but if a woman touches a man without consent ppl say that the men should be happy a women wants him and enjoy it. And if the guy tries to stop the woman uses his hands then ppl call him an abuser. Men can’t win with this and it pisses me off. No means no, doesn’t matter what gender it is. Also you were very young and it makes me very sad to hear that. They weren’t feminists, I don’t even think there is a word to describe those “feminist”. Even tho I’m a girl it pains me to see other women do this to men and use the fact that they are women to get what they want even if the guy doesn’t want it. I’m still very sorry for what happen and I hope you’re doing well.
Aye Yo
Thank you, i am 😊
emmie_girl
Thank u ❤️❤️
If I were to give an example on equality is this:
Man = 3 + 1 = 4
Woman = 2 + 2 = 4
Men and women are equal and should be equal, but we are not identical.
Damn, nice one
nice analogy
FRISHR I must say I don't really agree. I would say everyone is very different and you should be proud of that. Even the differences between men and women. They are not the same! they aren't equal (have different traits by nature, on average better at some things, worse at others) BUT!! Everyone should be TREATED EQUALLY! :)
Chris Boom No not everyone should be treated equally, you act different to people even if you don’t realise and you do that because it just feels right to you. Some people don’t deserve to be treated the same as others, in my eyes you should always be given as many as logical (in your situation) chances for sure, BUT it ends somewhere and that’s the moment you are treated differently AND fair at the same time! I agree that everyone should get equal chances and opportunities, not exactly treated the same! This is just my opinion tho
Nergis BLINK I very much agree with you. Of course it is very natural to treat everyone according to what feels natural to you on an individual level. I was more talking about if you don‘t know the person. You should then give them the same treatment without any pre-existing bias and give them the same chance you give everyone regardless of age, gender and race etc :)
Respect to the black girl that stood up for herself alone almost every time.
Yes I liked her too just except the abortion one
@@swallalalisa3045 I dont agree with her BUT everyone has a unique way of thinking and that is just her belief. 😊
@@sarahkhoja2561 why not tho? if adoptions a choice that saves your career / years and the kids life, isn't it fairer on you and the kid overall? (apart from exceptions like results of rape, etc.)
@@faux4780 Its the mamas choice. I mean when you go to the grocery store do you dictate what strangers buy and pick up? No, you dont. Same way you and no one else should dictate a mothers choice to do what she wants with her own body. No one should have the right to dictate someone elses choices which is why I am for the pro choice movement. I mean isnt that why we live in America? To have our own choices and freedoms? What's the point if your not allowed to make decisions for your own body?
@@sarahkhoja2561 your equating lives to groceries, and your not a mother if your baby died by your choice, your just a woman, the choice is raising it or giving it away, thats the choice for your life, deciding whether your in a position to sacrifice career / have the maturity should be enough, yeah its your body but its their life... your infringing on its freedom to live by not just having it then giving up for adoption if you cant handle a baby rn in your life, not very american tbh
Seriously tho
The girl with the denim jacket is extremely educated and understands the real meaning of feminism 👏
i loved her
@@nanochad2979 in saying that tho women are less likely to be employed due to ‘benefits’ like maternity leaves. While I understand the logic behind that, such as the employer would like their company to be as productive as possible, it’s still an unfair situation. It takes two to be pregnant and only one faces the consequences, career-wise.
@@nanochad2979 middle eastern countries have extremely sexist views. Women lack many rights there. For ex, You can’t even open a bank account without a mans permission. But even then, in a country such as the US, where we all have the same rights basically, it’s not rlly abt that. It’s abt equal treatment and equal value between both genders. Because worldwide women are seen with less value then men. As a result of the patriarchy. And every women no matter where from has the fear of sexual assault because there’s always predators.
Egalitarianism left the chat.
@@nanochad2979 Do you think industrialization is a significant factor of its own? Lol. If you want to talk modern society, and ignore the rest of the world, maybe look up the recent Activision Blizzard lawsuit. I think it would be much harder for you to name an equivalent multi-billion company run by women that has a work culture of oppressing men.
Blonde woman with Jean jacket was really smart. She is an extremely reasonable person.
Yeah i agree with her on everything 😂😂
Yeah, she actually was
She looks a lot like Kate McKinnon
Elton John Is A Proud Lesbian yes I agree 100%
@Caitlyn jenner is a MANMAN What?
The girl with the denim jacket is one of the few feminists that actual hold the original values from first wave feminism.
I agree! Except Susan B. Anthony (founder of the Feminist Movement) was Pro Life. But besides that, I think she was spot on.
Interesting! I didn't know that. Will do some googling later...
I dont think shes one of the few. I think most feminists, myself included would agree with her. Unfortunately the feminists that we see most often are the really extremist radical feminists because they are the loudest. A lot of people are feminists, but you wouldnt know because they're not loud about it.
@@aquaman6166
True.
First and second wave. Third and fourth wave feminism are just terrible.
Can we do do all gen z think the same
That’s would be hilarious
We'd probably pose random memes that we can't even understand/comprehend.
@@suacemanaquiatan9380 yep that is why it would be hilarious
That would be so funnyyyyy I volunteer to participate
@@HannahTuttle same here
@David Winehouse wtf are you on about
That girl with the glasses and the grey coat and black hair is so gorgeous
@@mementomori1749 how was it racially motivated...
@@mementomori1749 you’re not making any sense at all lmao
@@mementomori1749 she never mentioned her skin color
@@mementomori1749 What’s wrong with saying a specific woman is beautiful?? You’re making this into something it’s not. Obviously the woman’s beauty stood out to her
@@mementomori1749 there was another black woman in that room too lol
When the girl in the red jacket said that she had changed her tires multiple times they all clapped for her 😂👏👏
I feel like that was such a sexist question.. I watched the “Do all men think the same” and they weren’t asked anything like “I know how to change a diaper” or “I know how to cook a nice meal”
Christina Simonetti “sexist question” 🤣🤣🤣 I swear you feminist always have to bring sexism into things. GROW UP!!!
Christina Simonetti because everyone should know how to cook a meal and maybe a diaper. Not everyone knows how to change a tire.
Nova but everyone should lol
Christina Simonetti aw sweetie is offended, poor baby
"YOU CAN RAISE WOMEN UP WITHOUT PUSHING MEN DOWN" - TOTALLY AGREE. Feminism is supposed to be about men and women being EQUAL, not claiming women are "better" because that's just as bad.
Mark Alexander. Feminism used to be great. I miss the old feminism where we women, wanted to be treated and seen equal to men. But when the men got threatened and laughed at us we retaliated. Then we became just as bad as them. It’s pretty sad actually
@@upscaleavenue You must be deaf then. It's been talked and complained about by pretty much everyone for MANY decades! In fact it's talked about WAY more than women claiming to be "better" than men.
Women are better - in some areas. And men are better - in some areas.
We’re not equal in every area.
@Upscale Avenue...okay so according to you a boy/man living right now should be blamed for actions and thoughts that happened in the past? Even a boy who was born just 10 to 16 years ago? coz the repercussions of such strong extreme feminism is going to be tolerated by him not by the actual people who had those thoughts in the past.
Harish Singh guys need to recognize that they are the solution to this problem. They have to understand that it is men’s fault society is where it’s at - but we men can change it. We need women’s help though, but it’s our responsibility
i feel like this is one of the first videos where we havent collectively decided to hate on someone in the comments.
it got flipped, there is a collective love for someone.
Cause it’s women dummy
Go look at the men’s version of this video
@@FirstLast-nz9vo cause that guy was actually insane. He was blatantly misogynistic.
the thing with the “would you raise a boy/girl differently” is that it’s equity not equality. equality is everything being exactly the same but equity is it being how it needs to be to better suit the individual. if i had a son i would teach him to be respectful of everyone, but to not let anybody tell him it’s okay to harm/upset women just because of gender. just like i would teach a girl it’s not okay to be rude to boys. but i would also teach her it’s not okay to bully girls for looks. it depends how you look at the situation.
Yeah, that's how I see it.
Equality is treating every gender exactly the same (Which is actually extremely unhelpful because depending on your gender, you WILL have different needs and experiences in this world)
Equity is making sure you're doing your best to accommodate all genders so that they're all at the same level.
Like a very hypothetical example of Equality vs Equity would be making sure all your kids have access to tampons- except your son doesn't need tampons so it wouldn't make sense, so you should be giving all the tampons to your daughter instead of your son. Or making sure all your kids have binders- except your son and daughter have no need for them while your gender non conforming child does, so you give THEM all the binders.
@@tarasuzanne7867 but i think it's a loaded question. Because they are expected to go either 1 way or the other, left or right. The personcwho went towards the right would be no better than the person who went towards the left. What is important is how they explained the reason they moved in that direction slightly. It's not like a few of them moved all the way towards the right. Then that would be extreme and clearly a feminist.
I totally agree. If you form a group of people who support every religion and do not discriminate against any one and consider one above other. Including Christians, Muslims, Hindus, Jewish everyone. Say one day you call everyone for dinner and as you are an organisation which supports every religion equally you can't serve everyone PORK on their plate. I mean that's equality that's what you are supposed to do that's what your motto is right? But you just can't do that. You sometimes think of equity because equality doesn't work everywhere.
If u have a son who's big like mike Tyson then chances r that he will not listen to u raging hormones aggression and competition will eventually be in his head girls on the other hand do not have this so they should be taught differently
How would that be different for a male child and a female one?? Everyone should be taught not to take advantage of anyone else sexually, that is pretty obvious. Also girls not being rude to boys? What? So you would let the other way exist?
"Every woman should be feminist"
Everyone : agrees
Denim girl : well that's not feminist
Everyone : *surprised pikachu face*
big brain time
ikr that's what i said! same thing with woman should run the world. feminism is about equality!
@@myhobbylol but what she said is true
I think people realized the truth in that and learned from that. I don't think they were necessarily shocked.
@@myhobbylol i dont fully agree that feminism is about equality anymore. maybe early feminism is about that but not modern feminism or radical feminism. i say this because if you ask a large group of people if they support equality between the sexes, pretty much all of them would agree. but if you then ask them if they support feminism then it would be very divided. to me this suggests that there is something to feminism which is currently not aligning to this postulated definition. maybe, by definition, this is what feminism is however there is a very large proportion of feminists who dont truly embody this definition and so the describing oneself as a feminist has become tarnished. im not trying to attack feminism or anything like that, its just my subjective observation about its current state.
True feminism: uplifting men and women without putting either down.
Isnt that just good people?
This is a lie. All ideologies will claim that they are for the betterment of men and women. You have to look at what the ideology claims is the solution and evaluate whether it is true or false. Most forms of feminism today seek to blurry the distinctions between men and women and in so doing they actually harm men and women, because when you deny differences it makes working with the strengths and weaknesses of each gender more difficult.
@@cyclonemt they say women and men are the same yet they want women to run the world .
That's a myth.
What you're referring to is called "egalitarianism."
then it shouldnt be called "feminism" idk how you can empower both sexes with a word feminine in it.
"You can raise women up without pushing men down" -> Followed by her approving of something that completely contradicts her previous statement.
You also came from a "curb your ..." video ?
😂
@@vinith8669 I saw the curb vid after this one, but it's so true tho.
@@vinith8669 I did
For anyone that's confused. The short hair girl in red said "you can raise women up without pushing men down" but when they had to choose between disagree or agree to "i believe the world would be better if it were run by women" (bringing men down) she choose to agree which is contradicted to what she said previously.
Can we just appreciate how civil they are being?
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Because they're all feminists. Some extreme and some not. Now if they'll put couple of women with conservative view in the same room, the situation would be slightly different 😁
Off topic but i love your sayaka pfp
I know, I think this is the first spectrum video where I liked everybody 😂
@@ritam4926 Black girl with glasses, she's not.
Oh man a conservative housewife would have been an interesting addition to this.
Dihydrogen Monoxide it’s unfortunate that you feel that way. There’s nothing wrong with being either of those things
Totally! We need all points of view.
A conservative housewife would have chosen not to participate.
Conservative women are actually really feminist in a way when it comes to gender roles. They are more likely to shoot guns, hunt and do more stereotypical masculine things.
If anything, they'd have more of a reason to be a feminist. You think they always love being at home, and existing to raise kids. Nah. You just misconstrue the word conservative
Denim jacket girl is the perfect example of a feminist, I swear
I thought so too, i wish someday we all gonna be that raisonnable 😍
John Smith I like how we are referring to her as the denim jacket girl, I think that’s so funny!
yeah, she was okay though. not a toxic feminist
The modern gamer 33 most feminists are completely ok and not toxic bruh
She's empowered.
I feel like the American definition of ‘flirting’ is really different to the European one. All the examples they gave were commenting ‘you are beautiful/look nice’ or catcalling.
Flirting to me is like a dance, it’s not necessarily what is said, but how it’s said, certain looks or smiles, it’s a build up of chemistry and tension.
That should be what it is but in America we are pretty... anti-social? Idk what to call it but we just grow up expecting those to only really be said by family or those close to you and anyone else who says it is interested in u.
@@verryberryman7655 yeah, that’s the same in Europe. Someone who’s a stranger saying ‘you’re beautiful’ kind of as an opener or out of the blue would be considered.... a bit much? Like quite full on.
Good flirting (in my book) would be say asking you a couple of questions, getting a bit of back and forth chat going, making a few jokes, maybe a bit of teasing - none of that has to be based around comments on how the person looks. I love it when strangers flirt like that with me and am not offended at al! It’s like just testing the water to see if there is chemistry.
@@lilymm35 agreed.
I was irritated by her description as well
Yeeeeessss
It would be nice if more men actually really flirted, held a conversation, danced and finessed their way around women.
THE LADY IN THE JEAN JACKET IS MY NEW FAVORITE PERSON
the girl in the blue denim jacket literally has said exactly what i was thinking for every question
We need more women like you.
:^|
I am a man but I thought exactly the same way as her too
Well I disagree with some of her opinions like abortion
Jonathan Hubbard-Shaw ok simp
That woman with the glasses was a little nervous throughout the video but I don't know why cuz she's literally like a freakin' genius.
Spewkkk🔥🔥
absolutely! except for her stance on abortion i completely agreed with her on everything
@@darkangel4994 yes exactly my view
Dark Angel i definitely understood the views within her stance though!!
Dark Angel yeah I hate when people bring up adoption but don’t do anything to fix the system
Changing a tire should be taught in driver’s Ed
it is bud
@@Saltesheep not where I’m from , we had to teach ourselves ..
@@spicy_ctrlo7132 yeah, maybe watch a youtube video
@@Saltesheep lmao I taught myself on a highway I’m just saying it should be taught in school just like a lot of other stuff
I disagree, you could learn that by yourself. Many resources available today to help anyone.
The dark haired with gray and black outfit woman is gorgeous. I love her style
Same
The black lady with the glasses?
I love how respectful each of the women were whether they agreed or disagreed with each other.
They were all the same level of respectability
+victoria marie, respect is a rare site these days.
I love how poorly educated they are I want to show them why they're wrong about most of their views in this video
@@miguelmuniz5528 why don't you share with us what they're wrong about
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People are acting like this girl is the only sane feminist. She’s not, y’all just ignore the real ones because y’all would rather complain about the radical ones
Actually I think the problem is that most of the time the media portrays the radical feminist which makes us believe that’s how they are when really they aren’t all like that! The radical ones are very irritating but the ones simply arguing for equality (Which I think we have) have very interesting points!
M. Nelson because we are aware that the media is incredibly biased or only showing certain parts of a movement or ideology I think the responsibility is put on the consumers of media to critically analyze what they are being told and to find other sources of knowledge or experience with the group to form an opinion on them. I really disagree with “that’s the only side we are shown” because that means you know the opinions you have are not complete so it is now on you to go find the necessary information to make a complete opinion
PERIODDDD
the majority are radical
It’s just like cops can’t have bad apples well feminist are full of bad apples
This is the first spectrum video that I've seen where it just felt like a conversation and yes each woman had different views and beliefs, but no one was super abrasive, constantly interrupted or was rude. I rly enjoyed it!
same, as a guy I find this videos fascinating to see different perspectives. Feel like this sort of conversation rather than arguments when discussing different views and beliefs is far more likely to actually change minds.
The blond girl with the jean jacket is really what I mean when I sag I'm a feminist she's really smart. The young black lady too even if I don't agree with her about abortion (I'm pro choice) It's surprising than this time I loved everyone in this video they are all really mature and just discuss about their opinion politely. I just think that it would be really interesting to see more different age ranges 😁
Yeees i am like 70% this blonde nas 30 % this girl with glasses and this with red lipstick 💜
They should do one with kids that way we can see the innocence in their decisions
I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!
Are you talking about kids below the age of 7 or above the age of 7? Kids above 7 are literally the most not pure thing ever in my region of New York. I'm a child myself, so I know this as a fact, we aren't pure angels like people describe kids as. If you're talking about below 7 though, it works I guess.
@@remnants_s9275 ur a child?
@@gabrieltarikhomar1447 Being under the age of 18 counts as that, so yeah. I'm in the same generation you guys are talking about. Like it's really funny how you people take them as pure angels, but then it gets annoying.
@@remnants_s9275 I agree , I'm only 11 years old and nobody is pure where I live.
damn, this is the most healthy feminism I've ever seen and listen to.
@@samuelprince7895 so that's why left-wing demonstration mostly full of hearsay, stupidity, ignorance, wrath, hate speech, and accusation. there are most of the time boys among them. I see where you are going.
Feminism is toxic.
@@toxicdermyillunary4103 You were being so nice and tolerant, then you had to go and muck it up.
@@pyroshayniac1090 I think I am as tolerant as you toward male (boys) so it goes both ways tbf
@@toxicdermyillunary4103 terms like male and female are very mean please try to not use them
It takes immense courage to stand for your beliefs especially when you know that the audience disagrees with you. Props to the black girl 👏
@Holy muffin the ones in the video
You’re praising someone who doesn’t think a women should have the choice to her own body? Sorry but if it was someone else that was pro choice, the comments would be slandering them.
@@Ashley-km4qi Has it ever crossed your mind, that for pro life, it’s not always about the woman, sometimes it’s about the child? I don’t hold grudges against pro choice (if they aren’t aggressive activists), but you obviously do hate pro life. Try being a bit more open minded about other opinions, don’t twist people’s words around, it helps make the world less toxic
@@eliben4066 So in other words, it’s not about the fetus or “child”, as they are not even a human yet, it’s about the woman. You can’t argue with what science has already proved about abortion.
@@Ashley-km4qi if I may ask, what exactly determines if you’re human or not? What I learned from my embryology class is that humans have very unique dna. It’s what separates us from animals and plants. A human female and a human male procreating then creates a human baby, correct? If it’s not human yet, then what is it and when does it become human? What is it before it becomes human?
This actually was a good video, they were respectful and weren't having a screaming match yet they disagreed. Plus they weren't pushing anyone down.
Foster care and adoption is not the dumping ground for your unwanted babies.
Periodt
Abortion shouldn’t be legal too
@@lol3615 Or have so many restrictions applied
its thier body
Słythęrix why
I love how respectful they are. Most people in these videos just argue.
*Mostly_Silent HIGHLY liked this*
It's cause they're women, and women are typically more polite and organized.
The Coaster Roaster Generalization
@@CoasterRoaster Ironically sexist.
Edit: A few of my comments have been deleted for being sexist? (Not by me)
@@KeanuOR it's not sexist, it's just biological
1:02 When she said she changed her tire multiple times and they all clapped my heart went: 😭😭🥺
It may not be a HUGE achievement but they were so sweet.
“We can raise women up without pushing men down” but isn’t she the same person who said that “women need to go a little bit extreme in order to meet in the middle?” Like how does one correlate to another?
Being a feminist is not dragging men down to our level but raising women up to the same level that men are on. Being extreme about it means fighting harder, not doing the opposite..
@@catzcatzcatzcatz we're already on the same level
@Daniel Han Feminist logic
It just means you have to push harder to get what you need in life, dragging men down is not the objective of feminism.
@@JS-pn4tj male logic also ..need to meet in the middle. Is it so awful for you? You don't want your Mum to be treated with equality??
Q: should all woman be feminist
Denim jacket lady : telling us what to do is anti feminist
audience : touché 🧐
I think there is and there will always be a misconception on what feminism is.
When I think about feminism, it is not necessarily being a radical protester, it is at least someone who acknowledges women have come a long way to have equal opportunities as men.
Just like asking a non white person to not be racist, why would you be against your own rights?
I actually didn't like that response bc feminism is bout having the same opportunities a men and being able to choose the life we want to live. If you believe that we should have the things mention above you are feminist, even if you don't label yourself as that.
I think every woman should be feminist because the other option implies you don't want women to have opportunities and rights
I dont get it , what did she mean?
@@guokfdukknbgjk9416 she means that telling a woman what to do or believe is anti feminist. Feminism stands for the support of women, no matter what they choose to do or believe. Therefore, saying that every woman should be a feminist is actually not feminist
@@elisahernandez6613 See that's the thing, you are out here making a woman'a choice for her when it's not your life or your mind, it's hers and we all need to respect that.
Not all children get the luxury of being adopted. Especially into loving , supportive homes.
This.
Ok so because these children weren’t chosen they shouldn’t have life. Would you go up to a child in foster care and think it would have been better if they were aborted? If you think yes then that’s your opinion and I respect it but I personally don’t agree.
* screams * I said what I said because a lot of people use the excuse that babies can be adopted as opposed to abortion. The fact is that not all (I would even even argue that most) children have the luxury of being adopted into loving supportive homes. So putting a blanket statement making it appear to be absolute is extremely misleading. I didn’t once say or imply or believe that children in foster homes would have been better off aborted. BUT what I do believe is that no one should be able tell anyone what’s best for their life if they were to become pregnant.
@@laural4739 I was in foster care for 17 years (my entire life) and I KNOW that if I was aborted I would not have known, but my mother's life would have been much better if she was not forced into having me and then putting me into foster care. The experiences I had in foster care were traumatic (severe sexual abuse/rape and emotional abuse) and the system did not support me during those times and then when my foster parents kicked me out at 17, I had NO support. I am now 23 and I am struggling to pick up the pieces of my life and I now have no living biological family and no longer have foster parents in my life. I am struggling so, so much and I am all I have. I inherited illnesses from my mother, I have PTSD from my childhood abuse, I can not work and I am struggling to study. I KNOW I am a burden on the system and although I am grateful for my life, I know there are many others like me. And I know the pressure it puts on society. And I know how hard my mother struggled being faced with the reality of having to give birth to a child she did not want. I often believe I am the exception when it comes to foster kids being swallowed by the system and turning into nothing because I do not want to be a statistic, but my GOD the obstacles I have had to overcome don't seem worth it for all the damage that the forced birth of me caused. There are MANY reasons why someone can not have a child and many more reasons why someone would not be ok with putting a child into foster care.
@@Loveamandapatrice That's the thing it's not their life it's their son or daughter's life and they don't have the right to choose whether their son or daughter has the right to live.
Who is here after "curb you feminism" video
Me lol
Me!
Fax
I thoroughly enjoyed this, appreciated how each woman articulated herself. Thank you for this one.
I love how in this episode of Jubilee there was absolutely no hostility, everyone was respectful and they let the other person finish. They fed off of each other’s ideas and it was a true treat to see
Sam Salsa That shows how dishonest they are. None of them had the courage to be their real self. They purposely avoided conflict.
For the first time is women’s history
Jubilee probably picked somewhat similar women. Since they didn't have that big of differences.
Honestly, I was going to comment this too. I think a big reason is that women are taught to be kind, courteous, and to have manners. Seeing how all these women treated each other was very heartwarming. (:
I know right. I was scared of watching this one cause i was afraid of them being a bunch of social justice warrior feminists. But i was surprised in a good way. Good episode, made me rethink my positions on certain topics
This is one of the healthiest, most well-balanced, respectful spectrum episodes I’ve ever seen.
it has got to me my favorite yet, so clever and made me question some of my beliefs instead of just agreeing or disagreeing with them.
I thought they were all lovely and respectful, and it was refreshing to watch.
And you know why? w o m e n
@@catttyun sexist lad
@@catttyun I was about to say the same thing
"in a lot of cultures adoption is not ok" uh in those same cultures then neither would abortion...
I didn't know adoption wasn't okay, that's weird.
In those same cultures neither would pre martial sex. But all of a sudden after the act is done she remembers her cultures beliefs and values and wants to uphold them
@@Spiqaro in Islam adoption isnt allowed, but taking care of a child is if that makes sense. So they are not allowed to share the same name but taking care of them is a very positive and nice thing to do
She said she was pro life but she doesnt want the government to restrict her options
It was pro birth. Pro life is not a real thing.
Bringing people up without bringing others down. That's what life should be about!
The woman in the denim is so confident in her beliefs, I feel like feminists nowadays are conforming to what the media says feminists should be, while she's just true to herself, and can then influence other people positively, instead of forcing her beliefs on people.
@Bia L what do you mean?
I assume that you are a person of color based on your profile picture (sorry if I'm wrong) but do you think a POC shouldn't be against racism?
Not necessarily an extremist but to support what they are mainly fighting for
@@angelasaes I don't understand what you're asking me. But yes, I am a black female, and I think black people should be against racism.
@@londonlouise9797 I think for feminism it should be the same.
Just knowing our gender has been oppressed for years and support the movement that gave us more freedom
@@angelasaes I'm saying that women nowadays are following the media's definition of feminism, instead of thinking about the original purpose of the movement. Some feminists have become extremists, and for some it's no longer about equality, but about women taking power and replacing men.Some feminists force their beliefs on others, and become hostile, which then takes support away from feminism, and makes women compete with each other to be "correct" in their beliefs. I agree with what you're saying, and I feel like there are aspects of the movement that have changed in ways I don't necessarily agree with.
THE GIRL IN THE DENIM JACKET.
that's it. that's all I wanted to say.
ILYSM 🙏❤️
@@cassidygard are you the girl in the denim?😂
I did NOT like her
The first feminist on the media I can wholeheartedly agree with for a long time now. She's just a gem.
@@gibbon_person4685 why??
Ok but there group hug at the end 🥺❤️
I love this. even the most extreme of the lot, the girl in the tartan, is really respectful and willing to hear out. And i learned quite a bit honestly
I couldn't stop looking at the girl with glasses. She is absolutely stunning
She was really pretty, right?
Wow that's very nice to say
Same!!
Erotic Tomato ArE yOu ThAt CoLoR bLiNd???
She might not like that you just tried to flirt with her shes gonna get triggered
As a man who was taken advantage of by a woman, we should teach women AND men, that they should respect peoples. Bodies
Thank you!! I agree 100% Plenty of times back in college I witnessed women "climb onto the drunk mans lap". It isn't just men who are guilty of these sorts of things.
As a woman who was assaulted by another woman, you don't know how awful those gender stereotypes truly are until you are finally revealing the pain you live with to others, and it isn't that you aren't believed, but because you were assaulted by a woman, you should be able to get over that easily because that's not as traumatic for you as if a man assaulted you, right? :(
@@ErraticConduct I hope your feeling better. And I agree, sexual harassment and rape either by a man or woman should be treated the same. They both cause so much emotional pain I can never imagine. No one deserves to be hurt that way
Yes, we should absolutely teach men and women. The thing is, most women are taken advantage of by men, I guess that’s why people think that only women are taken advantage of.
True!!
This was so beautiful I want to cry 😢
The girl with the red jacket said that we don't need to push people down to go up then few moments later she started to push men down that's big brain
there is a difference between flirting and harassment..
Nobody said there wasn't 🙄
& men don't seem to know what it is. better to just stop letting men flirt with strangers until they can figure it out
Well some men need to figure out what that is. Women constantly get flirted with and when they don’t reciprocate they’ll be harassed for their number, followed, threatened. It’s madness. This has happened to me and multiple friends
+Inge Van Der Ross Agreed...I thought that the responses to that were kinda weird...the question was about flirting, not cat-calling/harassment. I would imagine many of those women would have had a different answer if the question was location specific. It was such a vague question that it leaves too much room for someone to misunderstand.
@@crstph You might want to phrase that differently....
I'm a man and I don't know how to change a tire.
Ur a real man :)))
What are you doing with your life..
Chill it's joke
How
Are you really a man then (this is a joke) sorry for the miss understanding
still a real man
It would be interesting to see where people stand if they were blindfolded when initially picking a side. I feel like there could be pressure when you see everyone going to a certain side
I love these spectrum videos! They're very educational. I've just watched the men one and this one and it's great to know how different and how similar they think compared to each other and compared to the opposite sex. Being born female and transitioning, I understand men a lot more than I do women only because (to be honest) women are more complex creatures than men are and I've been more interested in how men think growing up. This video educates me on both of their views and how much I really know.
The girl in the denim is what I mean when I say I’m a feminist
I see you Kirsty ❤️
@@cassidygard wait wait wait are you denim jacket girl in the video or I'm just unnecessary confused?
fangirl in neverland I think she is
👏🏽👏🏽♥️♥️yaaasss
@@cassidygard is that u jacket girl?
The lady that laughed so hard when she said “telling a women to do something is actually anti-feminist” god i died 😂
The girl in the denim is killing it.
yeah she was the best
* God
@@oliviagrace6914 why does god need to be capitalized
@@ok-gs5wc for respect
@@ok-gs5wc idk man maybe because God created u?
I loveee the questions in this episode, I was so interested to hear theirs answers
"We need to go to extremes so women can gain power" "we can't push men down to bring women up" pick a side
She means women need to be extreme to get on the same level, nothing about how we need to put down men
I think she changed her mind after what the blonde girl in the denim jacket said
Spectrum idea: Introverts and Extroverts
No
Yes
Introverts r just gonna be like "I'm so weird ecks dee"
Introvert:neither agree nor disagree
Lol Lmao extroverts are annoying
All of them said great things, I liked how even if they disagreed they were still open minded
the group hug was so cute
i hate the whole "just put them up for adoption" argument. there are already 400,000 kids in the foster care system in the United States
So we should just abort them right. I mean if u abort the kid right then u won’t see them ever again just like close adoption. If we give them up for adoption the kids would atleast have the chance to live.
Ikr we should abort the kids thats already born into this wolrd too
@@dhanajon5528 underrated comment
They only think of the unborn fetus but don’t care about what happens to them when they come out
@@annaduke1019 I care. Pro-Choice does not.
All of these women are so intelligent. I love how they express their opinions and talk so respectful to each other even when they do not agree.
@Juliana Silva Actually, the question literally said 'EVERY woman SHOULD be a feminist'. That's not really the same as 'I want more women to be feminists'. Of course it was worded provocatively due to the nature of the video and they maybe just meant the latter, but I get how she came to her conclusion. If you were to go through with that statement, you would actually have to force some people.
Also, the sentence they used implies that people should have a certain opinion solely based on their gender, when according to my personal definition of feminism (as there are different kinds of it), gender should just not be important at all and especially not the only reason for someone to do or think something.
@Juliana Silva Actually I think the last part of your comment is really interesting, because it kind of sounds like you're looking down on women, who do not consider themselves feminists/like you are mad at them? Do you believe they are undeserving of the rights they have, because they are not fighting for them themselves? Correct me if I misunderstood your tone, that's always really hard over the internet and English is not my native language.
About your question: To me, the sentence 'Every woman should be a feminist' just implies that. As I have said in my comment, I think that statement is different from 'I want more women to be feminists', which is the phrasing you used. I also would like more women to be feminist, or at least not look down upon other feminists, so that the movement would be stronger. But the word choice 'all ... should be' just has a certain connotation to me. As I said: If we were to turn the world into one where that phrase is valid, meaning a world in which every woman would be a feminist, it would, as of right now, mean to force that role onto people, when in my head feminism is about not forcing roles onto people, as I said, based on gender.
But I see how that could be interpreted as linguistic pettiness, which maybe isn't appropriate since I am not a native speaker.
Not all
Well one brought up the wage gap, which in fact doesn't exist. So maybe a little misinformed
Not all of them right on.
"Every woman should be a feminist" is a trick question. That really wasn't fair. The word "should" is sneaky. A better phrasing would be "There's no reason for a woman NOT to be a feminist."
"Feminist" has become a trick phrase. Do we mean a feminist who truly believes in equality such as those of the 1920's suffragists? Or are we talking about the 2010's feminists who hate men, but then lie and say that it's still all about equality?
@@Spiqaro You are defining "2010 feminism" on behalf of women, and there is a term for that. This is a ploy that young boys on the internet and redpills use to gaslight one another into demonizing feminism. I literally know *no women* and *no feminists* who hate men. And I know a f*-ton of women.
All the feminists I encounter are *humanists* -- with compassion being the underlying thread. There's a bizarre misconception online that being pro-women necessitates being anti-men, and it does not.
Also, the amount of issues that women suffer (typically at the hands of men) is *staggering.* I understand that men have issues, too. But women are, by and large, the victims. Of unspeakably violent, terrible things. *Let's take a moment to acknowledge that.*
@@firstylasty9417 Why did my comment offend you? If we are to be equals, then 1920's feminism applies and is perfectly fine. However, as soon as we go into trying to talk about how men commit more harm against women and the like, then it causes antagonism and a belief in victimhood. It's exactly the sort of thing that has started to occur within these last 10 years.
@@coltj5907 That's too bad. Anyways, how was your day?
@@Spiqaro it was alright, job applications, work. How are you doing?
The women with the jeansjacket is speaking straight facts
I would just like to say:
CATCALLING IS NOT FLIRTING!!
I would like to add:
A compliment is not a flirt. It CAN be, but it is not always meant (or interpreted) as a flirt.
@@Temzy17 do you mean end of it because making such blatant grammatical errors like I may not use punctuation but using grammar just saying end of makes no sense
@Tro Ivas Does anyone really likes being catcalled tho? In my opinion it isnt a compliment. If you would like to let me know you think i look nice or whatever, dont cat call, just walk up to me and tell me. Cat calling feels objectiving and makes me uncomfortable
Tro Ivas you‘ve never been catcalled, have you?
@Tro Ivas Catcalling is pretty much yelling at someone about how they are attractive and you wanna hit on the sidewalk. it is kinda weird, regardless of how you feel about it. walking up to the person is not catcalling. they are different, bruh.
Can’t wait till younger Gen-Z get asked these questions
I wanna be there lol
Anna Pagnin idk gen-z is crazy 😳
Anna Pagnin nah they gonna be weird
they’re gonna be so political and add weird memes in it at the same time.
i would love to do this but i am 12 and i feel like they probably wouldn't let me but i basically agree with all of them
i’ve never seen so much respect in a comment section it’s insane!!! the points and defenses made in this video are honestly v educational and incredibly these women are v strong
3:15 Men won't meet you in the middle. Men won't meet you at all.
Cassidy is a TRUE feminist. She doesn't think that women are better than men; she actually believes in equality
Love to you Freya! ❤️❤️
Yeah, I actually like her, and I don't like feminists lol. (Speaking as a woman). I just identify as an egalitarian because I think everyone should be and have equal opportunity.
yes😄😄😄 people tend to forget the definition of EQUALITY that often leads to disagreement. I believe that both genders should learn respect and empower both sides. some women are rude and and disrespectful to men(even to the same gender) and some men are not all crazy maniacs,degrading perverts or rude...
@@MaddieNiec here's a definition I love for true feminism; it's about bringing females UP to the level of privilege men receive. Thus leading to equality. So at it's core it is about equalising and not one better than the other.
@@pgan Technically not true. I mean, your definition isnt off. But in reality it isn't actually equality. It is equality of the basis of WOMEN.
What happens if there is a privledge that women hold that men do not have? Going by the definition of feminism (which you also used) then that is a O.K and nothing a "true feminist" should "correct".
So, a more correct word for feminism by the definition, is women empowerment and not gender equality.
The blonde woman in denim (Cassidy?) offered a whole new perspective I’ve never thought about before. Like I’ve always supported the equality part of feminism, but her view on stressing that woman are more superior has the same potential to basically do the same thing as saying “men should rule the world”. Really made me think, thank you.
Yeah right, Like She is real for sure. definitely opened my eyes.
People say things like this all the time all that shows is you only listen when someone you already partially agree with is speaking
@@ScreamingManiac Was about to say the same thing.
Hi, I didn’t get what she said can someone please explain ?
Mayssem Mosbah, she was saying that it is very unequal to say that men or women specifically should rule the world.
this is wholesome! Lady with the large earrings is so sweet!
I really enjoyed this, thank you so much!!
I was expecting the girl in the jean jacket to be crazy but she actually had a good head on her shoulders
to be crazy lol
Y lol
Why did you expect her to be crazy?
Eika Pumpkin she got that stereotype you know what i mean...
Says the girl in the pink bathsuit XD gdamn
I think you should treat girls and boys the same but I don't think you can "raise" them the same because they aren't the same.
Everyone should be raised differently meeting the needs they have and everyone has different needs.
Hiitsivyyy Yeah I agree. You *have* to raise kids differently because our world 🌎 does not allow girls and boys to be raised the same.
Agree. We're equal but also different
What I took from the question is that if girls and boys should be taught to be an good adult.
Totally agree. Girls and boys are treated the same but when they’re being raised there will be some differences since they’re not the same.
Nobody is the same at the individual level, but the point is we shouldn't treat people differently because of their genitalia, because it means nothing
Woooow I loved all of them! Such an interesting conversation :0
The female with the grey over coat, especially being from New York, is very like wow
I agree with that one girl. Just because your a feminist that doesn't mean you have to be anti men
Edit: thanks for all the likes and replies
most of them are anyways..
Being a feminist NEVER meant to be anti-men. Feminism by definition wants to break all the barriers women have so they can have the same freedom and opportunities as men. Saying that that is being "anti-men" makes no sense, we're not fighting against men or hating them, we just want to have the same rights.
@@musiicismylife4 exactly!!!! Literally google the damn definition!
@@musiicismylife4 Understandable, feminism has a strong and important history. But honest question, what rights are you fighting for in current society that are afforded to men but not women?
@@zenreel440 A loud minority I'd say
The woman with glasses is a perfect definition of "silent killer". She's pretty shy but damn she's intelligent.
How is she shy she talked the most ?
she’s not shy though. u do realize they cut out so much of what these people are saying. even after they’ve cut out parts she still talked a very good amount.
I would agree with you, but she's pro-life.
@@sofytofy damn that ruins it all
@@youraveragestalker8438 right lmfaoo when I heard that about her I lost all hope lol
Love this, everyone was so pleasant !
@@tarasuzanne7867 some where hypocrite
This is my favourite spectrum episode, and I've seen nearly all of them by now 😁 these women all seem like great people ❤
“Do all Boomers think the same?”
Joabi_a YESSSS
ok boomer
@Pham Minh Hieu who asked
@Pham Minh Hieu Actually the ratio is pretty equal. There are bad women such as men
Lmaooo
The girl in the denim jacket us hands down the most level headed person I've seen
"How is it any different than saying that the world would be better if it were run by men"
So many people forget about that. But overall, I respect all of them
It's actually not logical. Because the premise is flawed, one would have to assume the playing field is even before saying how would it be different. If your dominant arm is more exercised, treated better than your left, sure you can hold ten pound weights in each hand but it will be easier on the dominant hand.
Let's start by lifting up women to even the playing field.
@@marcinnguyen3971 "Run by women" does not imply complete totality, it is not referring to being completely 100% run only by women. Casually speaking, we say all the time, "XYZ is run by men" speaking about the majority, while we also still acknowledge we have some women leaders.
And you're also completely ignoring historical data. Things have not been equal for a very long time, so to imply the opposite extreme would be equally problematic isn't sound. It's a balance fallacy.
This hijabi saying the most haram things ever
Ikr
Can I please be a part of a video on bipolar depression? thanks :)
“I changed my tyre multiple times-“
Erin: Thats not vegan
SmileySims LOL
i JUST watched that video before this how did you do that
LMAOOOOO I DID NOT SEE THAT COMING
Erin needs a snickers 😂
emilyfan505 but there not vegan
The black woman with glasses is so intelligent and pretty
Minus any woman being anti abortion lol
alina m nope that’s why she’s intelligent
@alina m that is the smartest thing in the whole video. She didn't even say she was against it entirely, just that its very situational. She is against abortion being used as a form of birth control by people who CHOOSE to risk getting pregnant and have an otherwise healthy pregnancy.
Im so sorry for the women with such a lack of education on the subject matter. I hope that you never need an abortion. The guilt you will feel for these judgements will be SUBSTANTIAL!!!!
SOMEONE YOU KNOW AND LOVE HAS HAD AN ABORTION. PERIOD.
Ian, the question was "do you believe abortion should be legal?" She stood in the "somewhat disagree" line and, yes, said its "situational". She said only in cases of fatality, and rape should it be allowed.
Ask yourself this:
What if someone is being manipulated or coerced?
What about sex trafficing?
What if the mother is underage?
What if there are no financial means to bring this child into the world?
What if the child is to be born with multiple birth defects?
What if the parents do not want to pass on certain medical genetics?
When the government has historically AND CURRENTLY policed reproductive justice, how can you trust them to make choices for birth? Who decides that the reason you want to abort is just?
As a WOMAN, how can you EVER trust that a man would believe you if you went to an abortion clinic and told them you were raped? Especially, as this woman is, a Black woman.
Sure, some people probably use abortion as a source of birth control. What was their sex education like? What is their access to resources like doctors, hospitals, or contraceptives?
Natalie Well, she thinks the wage gap is real
This is the most respectful and polite conversation!
this was one of the best spectrum videos i’ve seen. they were all respectful and spoke eloquently and were open minded to each other’s opinions.
@@tarasuzanne7867 but not all of them had the exact same thoughts/answers on every topic/questions. they communicated well with each other and had good conversations.
As a man, I learned a lot watching this
Same
What kind of things did you learn? I'm so curious :)
Honestly, this is a wrong place to learn anything. And I'm a woman.
@@prernaesther6090 no it is a good place to learn about woman! Men can see woman's opinion!
Glad to hear that!! ❤️
The woman in the denim jacket has been the most thoughtful of all. She didn't let blind feminism cloud her thoughts or beliefs.
wtf is "blind feminism"... imo she wasn't thinking deeply enough, how would she guarantee women can make their own decision without feminism? it's not forcing people to do anything, it's saying that if you don't think you should be a feminist but you think women should be equal and be able to do what they want, your thought process doesn't line up
@@DiabolicalPaperClip paradox.
Feminism is about free-ing women to make their own decision, not to be told this or that.
If women is told that they should be/do this or that (and have to do it), then it's anti feminism.
@@aff291 The other thing is imo she misinterpreted feminism. It's not about just ensuring women can do and think whatever and that's the end of it. It's about removing the boundaries that prevent women from being free to think and act. Imo her thinking she doesn't need feminism or to back the movement is a symptom of a misogynistic society that tells women they aren't REALLY oppressed and don't need a liberation movement. Don't tell her what to think but reform of the aspects of society that create such a contradictory mindset.
It's actually pretty deep.
And she was right about feminism nowadays.
A lot of so-called feminist are being feminist not because they want to empower women, to bring the equality, but to hate and bringing down men. And forced people to be/thinking like them, invalidate other people who disagree with them.
@@DiabolicalPaperClip removing the boundaries? What are the boundaries then?
Sorry it's very sensitive, but one of the boundaries is traditional/conservative teaching/norms of some religions, which restrict women from doing a lot of thing.
She doesn't say she doesn't need feminism, she disagree if a woman should or is forced to be a feminist.
Because forcing a women to be something she doesn't want to is anti feminist.
I know some women (friends of mine, unfortunately) who choose to live a "patriarchal/misogynistic" life and doesn't need feminism, that's what they want, what would you do about it?
I absolutely love this video.
I love the woman in Grey Jacket! She thinks too much before move, made her careful of what she might says 😊