I love how in this episode of Jubilee there was absolutely no hostility, everyone was respectful and they let the other person finish. They fed off of each other’s ideas and it was a true treat to see
Honestly, I was going to comment this too. I think a big reason is that women are taught to be kind, courteous, and to have manners. Seeing how all these women treated each other was very heartwarming. (:
I know right. I was scared of watching this one cause i was afraid of them being a bunch of social justice warrior feminists. But i was surprised in a good way. Good episode, made me rethink my positions on certain topics
@@joeschmoe7866 ..... I’m guessing you haven’t listened to ANY of the points made in the video. Just remember, woman wear makeup for THEM not others, or the public eye. If she feels confident, has a healthy lifestyle then there should be by no means you feeling okay to even agree to that statement.
Conservative women are actually really feminist in a way when it comes to gender roles. They are more likely to shoot guns, hunt and do more stereotypical masculine things.
If anything, they'd have more of a reason to be a feminist. You think they always love being at home, and existing to raise kids. Nah. You just misconstrue the word conservative
Are you talking about kids below the age of 7 or above the age of 7? Kids above 7 are literally the most not pure thing ever in my region of New York. I'm a child myself, so I know this as a fact, we aren't pure angels like people describe kids as. If you're talking about below 7 though, it works I guess.
@@gabrieltarikhomar1447 Being under the age of 18 counts as that, so yeah. I'm in the same generation you guys are talking about. Like it's really funny how you people take them as pure angels, but then it gets annoying.
If I were to give an example on equality is this: Man = 3 + 1 = 4 Woman = 2 + 2 = 4 Men and women are equal and should be equal, but we are not identical.
FRISHR I must say I don't really agree. I would say everyone is very different and you should be proud of that. Even the differences between men and women. They are not the same! they aren't equal (have different traits by nature, on average better at some things, worse at others) BUT!! Everyone should be TREATED EQUALLY! :)
Chris Boom No not everyone should be treated equally, you act different to people even if you don’t realise and you do that because it just feels right to you. Some people don’t deserve to be treated the same as others, in my eyes you should always be given as many as logical (in your situation) chances for sure, BUT it ends somewhere and that’s the moment you are treated differently AND fair at the same time! I agree that everyone should get equal chances and opportunities, not exactly treated the same! This is just my opinion tho
Nergis BLINK I very much agree with you. Of course it is very natural to treat everyone according to what feels natural to you on an individual level. I was more talking about if you don‘t know the person. You should then give them the same treatment without any pre-existing bias and give them the same chance you give everyone regardless of age, gender and race etc :)
I feel like that was such a sexist question.. I watched the “Do all men think the same” and they weren’t asked anything like “I know how to change a diaper” or “I know how to cook a nice meal”
@@sarahkhoja2561 why not tho? if adoptions a choice that saves your career / years and the kids life, isn't it fairer on you and the kid overall? (apart from exceptions like results of rape, etc.)
@@faux4780 Its the mamas choice. I mean when you go to the grocery store do you dictate what strangers buy and pick up? No, you dont. Same way you and no one else should dictate a mothers choice to do what she wants with her own body. No one should have the right to dictate someone elses choices which is why I am for the pro choice movement. I mean isnt that why we live in America? To have our own choices and freedoms? What's the point if your not allowed to make decisions for your own body?
@@sarahkhoja2561 your equating lives to groceries, and your not a mother if your baby died by your choice, your just a woman, the choice is raising it or giving it away, thats the choice for your life, deciding whether your in a position to sacrifice career / have the maturity should be enough, yeah its your body but its their life... your infringing on its freedom to live by not just having it then giving up for adoption if you cant handle a baby rn in your life, not very american tbh
"YOU CAN RAISE WOMEN UP WITHOUT PUSHING MEN DOWN" - TOTALLY AGREE. Feminism is supposed to be about men and women being EQUAL, not claiming women are "better" because that's just as bad.
Mark Alexander. Feminism used to be great. I miss the old feminism where we women, wanted to be treated and seen equal to men. But when the men got threatened and laughed at us we retaliated. Then we became just as bad as them. It’s pretty sad actually
@@upscaleavenue You must be deaf then. It's been talked and complained about by pretty much everyone for MANY decades! In fact it's talked about WAY more than women claiming to be "better" than men.
@Upscale Avenue...okay so according to you a boy/man living right now should be blamed for actions and thoughts that happened in the past? Even a boy who was born just 10 to 16 years ago? coz the repercussions of such strong extreme feminism is going to be tolerated by him not by the actual people who had those thoughts in the past.
Harish Singh guys need to recognize that they are the solution to this problem. They have to understand that it is men’s fault society is where it’s at - but we men can change it. We need women’s help though, but it’s our responsibility
@@myhobbylol i dont fully agree that feminism is about equality anymore. maybe early feminism is about that but not modern feminism or radical feminism. i say this because if you ask a large group of people if they support equality between the sexes, pretty much all of them would agree. but if you then ask them if they support feminism then it would be very divided. to me this suggests that there is something to feminism which is currently not aligning to this postulated definition. maybe, by definition, this is what feminism is however there is a very large proportion of feminists who dont truly embody this definition and so the describing oneself as a feminist has become tarnished. im not trying to attack feminism or anything like that, its just my subjective observation about its current state.
@@omarelmasri9939 that is not what femminsm stands for, they're not feminists. Feminists can be men or women but if they say that they don't represent feminism. Ive heard men say stuff like that to other men. its not the femminsm its ignorance don't let them make you hate women and femminsm. And that is the exact reason im a feminist so that men wouldn't feel weak because of sexual assault and women wouldn't feel like sluts
Pomegranate Omar I’m very sorry that happened to you. You’re not weak. And what really makes me mad is that if a man touches a woman without consent then ppl will get super mad at him and call him a rapist but if a woman touches a man without consent ppl say that the men should be happy a women wants him and enjoy it. And if the guy tries to stop the woman uses his hands then ppl call him an abuser. Men can’t win with this and it pisses me off. No means no, doesn’t matter what gender it is. Also you were very young and it makes me very sad to hear that. They weren’t feminists, I don’t even think there is a word to describe those “feminist”. Even tho I’m a girl it pains me to see other women do this to men and use the fact that they are women to get what they want even if the guy doesn’t want it. I’m still very sorry for what happen and I hope you’re doing well.
@@nanochad2979 in saying that tho women are less likely to be employed due to ‘benefits’ like maternity leaves. While I understand the logic behind that, such as the employer would like their company to be as productive as possible, it’s still an unfair situation. It takes two to be pregnant and only one faces the consequences, career-wise.
@@nanochad2979 middle eastern countries have extremely sexist views. Women lack many rights there. For ex, You can’t even open a bank account without a mans permission. But even then, in a country such as the US, where we all have the same rights basically, it’s not rlly abt that. It’s abt equal treatment and equal value between both genders. Because worldwide women are seen with less value then men. As a result of the patriarchy. And every women no matter where from has the fear of sexual assault because there’s always predators.
@@nanochad2979 Do you think industrialization is a significant factor of its own? Lol. If you want to talk modern society, and ignore the rest of the world, maybe look up the recent Activision Blizzard lawsuit. I think it would be much harder for you to name an equivalent multi-billion company run by women that has a work culture of oppressing men.
The woman in the denim is so confident in her beliefs, I feel like feminists nowadays are conforming to what the media says feminists should be, while she's just true to herself, and can then influence other people positively, instead of forcing her beliefs on people.
I assume that you are a person of color based on your profile picture (sorry if I'm wrong) but do you think a POC shouldn't be against racism? Not necessarily an extremist but to support what they are mainly fighting for
@@londonlouise9797 I think for feminism it should be the same. Just knowing our gender has been oppressed for years and support the movement that gave us more freedom
@@angelasaes I'm saying that women nowadays are following the media's definition of feminism, instead of thinking about the original purpose of the movement. Some feminists have become extremists, and for some it's no longer about equality, but about women taking power and replacing men.Some feminists force their beliefs on others, and become hostile, which then takes support away from feminism, and makes women compete with each other to be "correct" in their beliefs. I agree with what you're saying, and I feel like there are aspects of the movement that have changed in ways I don't necessarily agree with.
This is a lie. All ideologies will claim that they are for the betterment of men and women. You have to look at what the ideology claims is the solution and evaluate whether it is true or false. Most forms of feminism today seek to blurry the distinctions between men and women and in so doing they actually harm men and women, because when you deny differences it makes working with the strengths and weaknesses of each gender more difficult.
@@pnut3844able women do get charged and arrested for sexual harassment. A feminist is someone you believes in women’s rights and equality, lots of women do get away with these things, but it does not mean feminism is a joke.
@@Jt665 that's ridiculous, go look at tiktok to view some legit sexual harassment. Look at the stats and tell me if women are given equal jail time that men are given for the same crime. Tell that to our justice system
@@pnut3844able They were talking about women and catcalling, somehow you made it all about men, as lots of men do in order to devaluate women's experience.
@@mementomori1749 What’s wrong with saying a specific woman is beautiful?? You’re making this into something it’s not. Obviously the woman’s beauty stood out to her
I think there is and there will always be a misconception on what feminism is. When I think about feminism, it is not necessarily being a radical protester, it is at least someone who acknowledges women have come a long way to have equal opportunities as men. Just like asking a non white person to not be racist, why would you be against your own rights?
I actually didn't like that response bc feminism is bout having the same opportunities a men and being able to choose the life we want to live. If you believe that we should have the things mention above you are feminist, even if you don't label yourself as that. I think every woman should be feminist because the other option implies you don't want women to have opportunities and rights
@@guokfdukknbgjk9416 she means that telling a woman what to do or believe is anti feminist. Feminism stands for the support of women, no matter what they choose to do or believe. Therefore, saying that every woman should be a feminist is actually not feminist
@@elisahernandez6613 See that's the thing, you are out here making a woman'a choice for her when it's not your life or your mind, it's hers and we all need to respect that.
@Juliana Silva Actually, the question literally said 'EVERY woman SHOULD be a feminist'. That's not really the same as 'I want more women to be feminists'. Of course it was worded provocatively due to the nature of the video and they maybe just meant the latter, but I get how she came to her conclusion. If you were to go through with that statement, you would actually have to force some people. Also, the sentence they used implies that people should have a certain opinion solely based on their gender, when according to my personal definition of feminism (as there are different kinds of it), gender should just not be important at all and especially not the only reason for someone to do or think something.
@Juliana Silva Actually I think the last part of your comment is really interesting, because it kind of sounds like you're looking down on women, who do not consider themselves feminists/like you are mad at them? Do you believe they are undeserving of the rights they have, because they are not fighting for them themselves? Correct me if I misunderstood your tone, that's always really hard over the internet and English is not my native language. About your question: To me, the sentence 'Every woman should be a feminist' just implies that. As I have said in my comment, I think that statement is different from 'I want more women to be feminists', which is the phrasing you used. I also would like more women to be feminist, or at least not look down upon other feminists, so that the movement would be stronger. But the word choice 'all ... should be' just has a certain connotation to me. As I said: If we were to turn the world into one where that phrase is valid, meaning a world in which every woman would be a feminist, it would, as of right now, mean to force that role onto people, when in my head feminism is about not forcing roles onto people, as I said, based on gender. But I see how that could be interpreted as linguistic pettiness, which maybe isn't appropriate since I am not a native speaker.
For anyone that's confused. The short hair girl in red said "you can raise women up without pushing men down" but when they had to choose between disagree or agree to "i believe the world would be better if it were run by women" (bringing men down) she choose to agree which is contradicted to what she said previously.
When even one of these women has a different opinion than the other ones, they discuss it and ultimately understand the point of view and might even encourage it. How incredibly civilised. I love it
It's bc they're being recorded by a camera. People act more civil normally. Trust me if it weren't for that this would be a completely different kind of discussion.
@@pnut3844able You're right. You also have to take into account the format of this survey. They are supposed to just explain why they chose this or that option, not debate with each other.
@@samuelprince7895 so that's why left-wing demonstration mostly full of hearsay, stupidity, ignorance, wrath, hate speech, and accusation. there are most of the time boys among them. I see where you are going.
The blonde woman in denim (Cassidy?) offered a whole new perspective I’ve never thought about before. Like I’ve always supported the equality part of feminism, but her view on stressing that woman are more superior has the same potential to basically do the same thing as saying “men should rule the world”. Really made me think, thank you.
the thing with the “would you raise a boy/girl differently” is that it’s equity not equality. equality is everything being exactly the same but equity is it being how it needs to be to better suit the individual. if i had a son i would teach him to be respectful of everyone, but to not let anybody tell him it’s okay to harm/upset women just because of gender. just like i would teach a girl it’s not okay to be rude to boys. but i would also teach her it’s not okay to bully girls for looks. it depends how you look at the situation.
Yeah, that's how I see it. Equality is treating every gender exactly the same (Which is actually extremely unhelpful because depending on your gender, you WILL have different needs and experiences in this world) Equity is making sure you're doing your best to accommodate all genders so that they're all at the same level. Like a very hypothetical example of Equality vs Equity would be making sure all your kids have access to tampons- except your son doesn't need tampons so it wouldn't make sense, so you should be giving all the tampons to your daughter instead of your son. Or making sure all your kids have binders- except your son and daughter have no need for them while your gender non conforming child does, so you give THEM all the binders.
@@tarasuzanne7867 but i think it's a loaded question. Because they are expected to go either 1 way or the other, left or right. The personcwho went towards the right would be no better than the person who went towards the left. What is important is how they explained the reason they moved in that direction slightly. It's not like a few of them moved all the way towards the right. Then that would be extreme and clearly a feminist.
I totally agree. If you form a group of people who support every religion and do not discriminate against any one and consider one above other. Including Christians, Muslims, Hindus, Jewish everyone. Say one day you call everyone for dinner and as you are an organisation which supports every religion equally you can't serve everyone PORK on their plate. I mean that's equality that's what you are supposed to do that's what your motto is right? But you just can't do that. You sometimes think of equity because equality doesn't work everywhere.
If u have a son who's big like mike Tyson then chances r that he will not listen to u raging hormones aggression and competition will eventually be in his head girls on the other hand do not have this so they should be taught differently
How would that be different for a male child and a female one?? Everyone should be taught not to take advantage of anyone else sexually, that is pretty obvious. Also girls not being rude to boys? What? So you would let the other way exist?
People are acting like this girl is the only sane feminist. She’s not, y’all just ignore the real ones because y’all would rather complain about the radical ones
Actually I think the problem is that most of the time the media portrays the radical feminist which makes us believe that’s how they are when really they aren’t all like that! The radical ones are very irritating but the ones simply arguing for equality (Which I think we have) have very interesting points!
M. Nelson because we are aware that the media is incredibly biased or only showing certain parts of a movement or ideology I think the responsibility is put on the consumers of media to critically analyze what they are being told and to find other sources of knowledge or experience with the group to form an opinion on them. I really disagree with “that’s the only side we are shown” because that means you know the opinions you have are not complete so it is now on you to go find the necessary information to make a complete opinion
I really like the girl with the long grey coat and the girl with the denim jacket. They both had very good opinions on certain matters and they expressed themselves very well. Very happy with the group of people they chose for this.
Because they're all feminists. Some extreme and some not. Now if they'll put couple of women with conservative view in the same room, the situation would be slightly different 😁
For the flirting question, well for me it really depends. There’s a difference between someone telling me I’m beautiful and someone saying “damn your hot.”
Ok so because these children weren’t chosen they shouldn’t have life. Would you go up to a child in foster care and think it would have been better if they were aborted? If you think yes then that’s your opinion and I respect it but I personally don’t agree.
* screams * I said what I said because a lot of people use the excuse that babies can be adopted as opposed to abortion. The fact is that not all (I would even even argue that most) children have the luxury of being adopted into loving supportive homes. So putting a blanket statement making it appear to be absolute is extremely misleading. I didn’t once say or imply or believe that children in foster homes would have been better off aborted. BUT what I do believe is that no one should be able tell anyone what’s best for their life if they were to become pregnant.
@@laural4739 I was in foster care for 17 years (my entire life) and I KNOW that if I was aborted I would not have known, but my mother's life would have been much better if she was not forced into having me and then putting me into foster care. The experiences I had in foster care were traumatic (severe sexual abuse/rape and emotional abuse) and the system did not support me during those times and then when my foster parents kicked me out at 17, I had NO support. I am now 23 and I am struggling to pick up the pieces of my life and I now have no living biological family and no longer have foster parents in my life. I am struggling so, so much and I am all I have. I inherited illnesses from my mother, I have PTSD from my childhood abuse, I can not work and I am struggling to study. I KNOW I am a burden on the system and although I am grateful for my life, I know there are many others like me. And I know the pressure it puts on society. And I know how hard my mother struggled being faced with the reality of having to give birth to a child she did not want. I often believe I am the exception when it comes to foster kids being swallowed by the system and turning into nothing because I do not want to be a statistic, but my GOD the obstacles I have had to overcome don't seem worth it for all the damage that the forced birth of me caused. There are MANY reasons why someone can not have a child and many more reasons why someone would not be ok with putting a child into foster care.
@@Loveamandapatrice That's the thing it's not their life it's their son or daughter's life and they don't have the right to choose whether their son or daughter has the right to live.
I feel like the American definition of ‘flirting’ is really different to the European one. All the examples they gave were commenting ‘you are beautiful/look nice’ or catcalling. Flirting to me is like a dance, it’s not necessarily what is said, but how it’s said, certain looks or smiles, it’s a build up of chemistry and tension.
That should be what it is but in America we are pretty... anti-social? Idk what to call it but we just grow up expecting those to only really be said by family or those close to you and anyone else who says it is interested in u.
@@verryberryman7655 yeah, that’s the same in Europe. Someone who’s a stranger saying ‘you’re beautiful’ kind of as an opener or out of the blue would be considered.... a bit much? Like quite full on. Good flirting (in my book) would be say asking you a couple of questions, getting a bit of back and forth chat going, making a few jokes, maybe a bit of teasing - none of that has to be based around comments on how the person looks. I love it when strangers flirt like that with me and am not offended at al! It’s like just testing the water to see if there is chemistry.
The lady that laughed so hard when she said “telling a women to do something is actually anti-feminist” god i died 😂 The girl in the denim is killing it.
Women are just naturally colder then men apparently. My girl cooks me with the heat where we live and always seems to be cold. My dad did the same to my mother as well lol.
@@minumeyli yeah u are lol. Men be getting tortured because of it. It's part of a man's struggles to be with a cold women who frequently uses you as a body warmer. Not that I mind that part lol.
10:15 i strongly agree with you. it is not about removing a man’s chair in a meeting, it’s about adding your own chair around the table. i hope it makes sense lol
Yeah, it makes sense... But she didn't make sense when she said that feminism should be more extreme and put men down at 3:05 WTF. It's kinda contradictory, don't you think?
I think she just said that just to say that. Modern day feminism is really about putting men down to lift women up. Saying and doing are two different things
But why should that chair be added? Simply because a woman wants it there? Was she elected into that position? No? Then it shouldn't matter if it's a man or woman at that table, because they were voted in as a representative.
@@Sxjp Sadly, it's in everything in this country. It is the bedrock. So it wouldn't be farfetched to unearth the underpinning of conditioning. Especially towards black women.
@Mailley Pierson I don't know where I technically stand on abortion. I believe it is murder and I would never have an abortion. That being said...banning abortion will solve literally nothing. Abortions will be done dangerously, which will result in girls and women being put at risk. I think we need more access to birth control and contraceptives, as well as more accountability for rapists and sex offenders
The girl in the denim jacket us hands down the most level headed person I've seen "How is it any different than saying that the world would be better if it were run by men" So many people forget about that. But overall, I respect all of them
It's actually not logical. Because the premise is flawed, one would have to assume the playing field is even before saying how would it be different. If your dominant arm is more exercised, treated better than your left, sure you can hold ten pound weights in each hand but it will be easier on the dominant hand. Let's start by lifting up women to even the playing field.
@@marcinnguyen3971 "Run by women" does not imply complete totality, it is not referring to being completely 100% run only by women. Casually speaking, we say all the time, "XYZ is run by men" speaking about the majority, while we also still acknowledge we have some women leaders. And you're also completely ignoring historical data. Things have not been equal for a very long time, so to imply the opposite extreme would be equally problematic isn't sound. It's a balance fallacy.
This is the first spectrum video that I've seen where it just felt like a conversation and yes each woman had different views and beliefs, but no one was super abrasive, constantly interrupted or was rude. I rly enjoyed it!
same, as a guy I find this videos fascinating to see different perspectives. Feel like this sort of conversation rather than arguments when discussing different views and beliefs is far more likely to actually change minds.
Thank you!! I agree 100% Plenty of times back in college I witnessed women "climb onto the drunk mans lap". It isn't just men who are guilty of these sorts of things.
As a woman who was assaulted by another woman, you don't know how awful those gender stereotypes truly are until you are finally revealing the pain you live with to others, and it isn't that you aren't believed, but because you were assaulted by a woman, you should be able to get over that easily because that's not as traumatic for you as if a man assaulted you, right? :(
@@ErraticConduct I hope your feeling better. And I agree, sexual harassment and rape either by a man or woman should be treated the same. They both cause so much emotional pain I can never imagine. No one deserves to be hurt that way
Yes, we should absolutely teach men and women. The thing is, most women are taken advantage of by men, I guess that’s why people think that only women are taken advantage of.
Well some men need to figure out what that is. Women constantly get flirted with and when they don’t reciprocate they’ll be harassed for their number, followed, threatened. It’s madness. This has happened to me and multiple friends
+Inge Van Der Ross Agreed...I thought that the responses to that were kinda weird...the question was about flirting, not cat-calling/harassment. I would imagine many of those women would have had a different answer if the question was location specific. It was such a vague question that it leaves too much room for someone to misunderstand.
Juliana Silva I think denim girls point was that forcing woman to be feminist would be telling them what to do and not letting them be independent which is what feminism is. And (my personal opinion) I don’t believe in the murder of a unborn life form without its voices or written consent therefore I agree with long coat girl Again, just y opinion
@Juliana Silva Let people have their own opinions. Just because you believe in those things, doesn't mean that everyone else has to. Me personally, I get the whole pro choice thing, and I guess I am pro choice, but at the same time the thought, that this fetus would be an actual person one day, upsets me. But I uderstand that women should be able to decide on their own, if they want to give birth. It's a controversial topic.
@Juliana Silva She never said women shouldn't rule the world. The question asked if the world would be better with women ruling it. At the end of the day all of that is subjective. If you are a great leader by all means lead regardless of your sex. I believe that women with the qualifications to be leaders should be given the same chances as men. As for abortion we all are here today because we weren't aborted and were given the chance to live. You are here giving your opinions and views because you weren't cut out into pieces. Shouldn't that mean something? I can understand rape, premature age, and even health complications but to just terminate a child due to recklessness is not fair. The fetus/baby/however you wanna call it has it's own body too. It has it's own dna. And in alot of cases it fits if not most all of the criterias of a living organism so u can't say its dead or not living. And if u actually take the time to research what actually happens to babies when they're killed during later trimesters you'd understand where people are coming from.
“We can raise women up without pushing men down” but isn’t she the same person who said that “women need to go a little bit extreme in order to meet in the middle?” Like how does one correlate to another?
Being a feminist is not dragging men down to our level but raising women up to the same level that men are on. Being extreme about it means fighting harder, not doing the opposite..
4:59 I feel like strangers flirting and/or complimenting you is fine. There is a line between flirting and catcalling/disrespect but that's a whole different conversation.
Yes! There’s a difference between flirting and harassment. But if someone would prefer to not have anyone flirt with them at all, that’s their preference
Filrting it's ok, but it's something more intimate. I live in Spain and here catcalling it's whistling at you while looking at your ass like if it was a steak, screaming stuff like "I would f*ck that ass so bad" and things like that. It's awful.
Women are human beings. *Not all human beings are the same, and though there are shared experiences amongst groups, each human has a unique experience. And most importantly has value.* This logic when applied to all human beings can make the world a better place. *Be kind. Don’t assume that you have all the answers.* Allow yourself the possibility that you are wrong about a thing and therefore have empathy. Ps. I really loved all the thought processes. “You don’t have to push someone down to raise someone up.”
The blond girl with the jean jacket is really what I mean when I sag I'm a feminist she's really smart. The young black lady too even if I don't agree with her about abortion (I'm pro choice) It's surprising than this time I loved everyone in this video they are all really mature and just discuss about their opinion politely. I just think that it would be really interesting to see more different age ranges 😁
I love how they always have a different variety of woman. White, black, gay, straight, old, young, religious, non religious. So they have a variety of different answers to compare to people.
You’re praising someone who doesn’t think a women should have the choice to her own body? Sorry but if it was someone else that was pro choice, the comments would be slandering them.
@@Ashley-km4qi Has it ever crossed your mind, that for pro life, it’s not always about the woman, sometimes it’s about the child? I don’t hold grudges against pro choice (if they aren’t aggressive activists), but you obviously do hate pro life. Try being a bit more open minded about other opinions, don’t twist people’s words around, it helps make the world less toxic
@@eliben4066 So in other words, it’s not about the fetus or “child”, as they are not even a human yet, it’s about the woman. You can’t argue with what science has already proved about abortion.
@@Ashley-km4qi if I may ask, what exactly determines if you’re human or not? What I learned from my embryology class is that humans have very unique dna. It’s what separates us from animals and plants. A human female and a human male procreating then creates a human baby, correct? If it’s not human yet, then what is it and when does it become human? What is it before it becomes human?
Yeah, I actually like her, and I don't like feminists lol. (Speaking as a woman). I just identify as an egalitarian because I think everyone should be and have equal opportunity.
yes😄😄😄 people tend to forget the definition of EQUALITY that often leads to disagreement. I believe that both genders should learn respect and empower both sides. some women are rude and and disrespectful to men(even to the same gender) and some men are not all crazy maniacs,degrading perverts or rude...
@@MaddieNiec here's a definition I love for true feminism; it's about bringing females UP to the level of privilege men receive. Thus leading to equality. So at it's core it is about equalising and not one better than the other.
@@pgan Technically not true. I mean, your definition isnt off. But in reality it isn't actually equality. It is equality of the basis of WOMEN. What happens if there is a privledge that women hold that men do not have? Going by the definition of feminism (which you also used) then that is a O.K and nothing a "true feminist" should "correct". So, a more correct word for feminism by the definition, is women empowerment and not gender equality.
I love how all the girls showed that they were really listening to what each person had to say, it’s not Aw inspiring or anything, I just think it’s sweet.
wtf is "blind feminism"... imo she wasn't thinking deeply enough, how would she guarantee women can make their own decision without feminism? it's not forcing people to do anything, it's saying that if you don't think you should be a feminist but you think women should be equal and be able to do what they want, your thought process doesn't line up
@@DiabolicalPaperClip paradox. Feminism is about free-ing women to make their own decision, not to be told this or that. If women is told that they should be/do this or that (and have to do it), then it's anti feminism.
@@aff291 The other thing is imo she misinterpreted feminism. It's not about just ensuring women can do and think whatever and that's the end of it. It's about removing the boundaries that prevent women from being free to think and act. Imo her thinking she doesn't need feminism or to back the movement is a symptom of a misogynistic society that tells women they aren't REALLY oppressed and don't need a liberation movement. Don't tell her what to think but reform of the aspects of society that create such a contradictory mindset.
It's actually pretty deep. And she was right about feminism nowadays. A lot of so-called feminist are being feminist not because they want to empower women, to bring the equality, but to hate and bringing down men. And forced people to be/thinking like them, invalidate other people who disagree with them.
@@DiabolicalPaperClip removing the boundaries? What are the boundaries then? Sorry it's very sensitive, but one of the boundaries is traditional/conservative teaching/norms of some religions, which restrict women from doing a lot of thing. She doesn't say she doesn't need feminism, she disagree if a woman should or is forced to be a feminist. Because forcing a women to be something she doesn't want to is anti feminist. I know some women (friends of mine, unfortunately) who choose to live a "patriarchal/misogynistic" life and doesn't need feminism, that's what they want, what would you do about it?
she’s not shy though. u do realize they cut out so much of what these people are saying. even after they’ve cut out parts she still talked a very good amount.
I kinda smirked when so many said they couldn't change a tire. Then I realised I don't know how to either. And realised that I'm sexist without knowing it sometimes. Ugh
I’m a woman and sometimes realize I think or say sexist things. It shows that you’re a good person for admitting you have these internalized sexist thoughts. It depends on how you’re raised. Your first thought on something is what you’re conditioned to think, and your second thought is your real opinion.
1:02 When she said she changed her tire multiple times and they all clapped my heart went: 😭😭🥺 It may not be a HUGE achievement but they were so sweet.
im white myself and it was not meant to shade white girls WHATSOEVER. BUT LET BLACK WOMEN HAVE THEIR MOMENT PLEASE!! they really deserve it, i know many of them are still being discriminated which is DISGUSTING, so i just wanted to remind them that they‘re genuinely beautiful and should be appreciated way more! i am proud of what they‘ve been through - now its their time to shine 👸🏿👸🏾👸🏽
@@Temzy17 do you mean end of it because making such blatant grammatical errors like I may not use punctuation but using grammar just saying end of makes no sense
@Tro Ivas Does anyone really likes being catcalled tho? In my opinion it isnt a compliment. If you would like to let me know you think i look nice or whatever, dont cat call, just walk up to me and tell me. Cat calling feels objectiving and makes me uncomfortable
@Tro Ivas Catcalling is pretty much yelling at someone about how they are attractive and you wanna hit on the sidewalk. it is kinda weird, regardless of how you feel about it. walking up to the person is not catcalling. they are different, bruh.
"Every woman should be a feminist" is a trick question. That really wasn't fair. The word "should" is sneaky. A better phrasing would be "There's no reason for a woman NOT to be a feminist."
"Feminist" has become a trick phrase. Do we mean a feminist who truly believes in equality such as those of the 1920's suffragists? Or are we talking about the 2010's feminists who hate men, but then lie and say that it's still all about equality?
@@Spiqaro You are defining "2010 feminism" on behalf of women, and there is a term for that. This is a ploy that young boys on the internet and redpills use to gaslight one another into demonizing feminism. I literally know *no women* and *no feminists* who hate men. And I know a f*-ton of women. All the feminists I encounter are *humanists* -- with compassion being the underlying thread. There's a bizarre misconception online that being pro-women necessitates being anti-men, and it does not. Also, the amount of issues that women suffer (typically at the hands of men) is *staggering.* I understand that men have issues, too. But women are, by and large, the victims. Of unspeakably violent, terrible things. *Let's take a moment to acknowledge that.*
@@firstylasty9417 Why did my comment offend you? If we are to be equals, then 1920's feminism applies and is perfectly fine. However, as soon as we go into trying to talk about how men commit more harm against women and the like, then it causes antagonism and a belief in victimhood. It's exactly the sort of thing that has started to occur within these last 10 years.
Just say Blonde women in the Jean jacket and the women in all black with the shaved head.... stating her race was not needed. You clearly did not say white women for the blond lady, so why say black women?
I think you should treat girls and boys the same but I don't think you can "raise" them the same because they aren't the same. Everyone should be raised differently meeting the needs they have and everyone has different needs.
Nobody is the same at the individual level, but the point is we shouldn't treat people differently because of their genitalia, because it means nothing
In those same cultures neither would pre martial sex. But all of a sudden after the act is done she remembers her cultures beliefs and values and wants to uphold them
@@Spiqaro in Islam adoption isnt allowed, but taking care of a child is if that makes sense. So they are not allowed to share the same name but taking care of them is a very positive and nice thing to do
Yo Cassidy is spitting facts! Seems like such a smart girl. I really like how she notices double standards in the feminist movement and doesn’t align herself perfectly to the community’s statements. Evaluate what you hear for yourself. It’s okay to disagree with some arguments in a movement you consider yourself a part of. Hell yeah!
when in the intro i heard her claim to be a feminist i was expecting the typical borderline hardcore feminist that just thinks feminism is the best and without fault. turns out, i was wrong. quite ironic too, given that ive mocked several feminists a few times on how theyre prejudiced against people wit certain label, background, or belief. definitely a much needed slap on the face for me. :-))
I lost a good friend of mine because she started to be toxic feminist, and then she came to that level where she told me, she cannot be a friend of me, because 1. I don’t understand her because I am male, and 2. because I am gay, and find guys sexual attractive I hate women So I must admit I don’t like feminism, although I wanna like it and be a part of it, and that video just helps me more to get over this and help women empowering! I know this comment must seem strange haha
Kylie Jenner I understand why your experiences with extreme feminism would affect how you view the movement; it totally makes sense. Regardless of if your ex-friend calls herself a feminist, her statements are sexist, through and through. It’s unfortunate that misandrists use feminism to boost their awful narrative, and it gives everyone in the group a bad name by extension. I don’t consider those extreme and hateful people as a legitimate part of the community, as they don’t want equality; they want revenge. Nowadays it’s actually pretty dicey to openly call yourself a feminist, as people immediately jump to that stereotype (which again, I completely get). I try not to let that impede on my beliefs by setting a good example of what the (first world) movement should be. There are so many double standards that negatively affect men, and you best believe I acknowledge them when it suits the conversation, the same that I would do for double standards against women. Casually, mind you, as I’m not the political type who goes on those tirades lol. I think the “feminism” term is still quite important though, because in third world countries, they’re often a century behind in women’s (and other minorities’) rights. The movement needs to be female-centric over there. While over in Canada, we can fight to rid the inequalities on both sides, because we’ve made so much progress to where girls and guys have equal rights. If it weren’t for that, I don’t think I would apply myself to the label. Not sure why I wrote a whole novel explaining my views lol. Just wanted to say that the toxic mentality some women have is definitely not what most of us approve of. Not me at least! And I hope to be a part of getting rid of that stigma by not being a sexist asshole while still calling myself a feminist. Cheers! :)
@@mophead_xu everyone in that room considered themselves feminists and yet she disagreed in the major points with all of them .Yesshe labels herself as a feminist, but she thinks the same way most anti feminist think.
She seemed to have her own developed philosophy and she has rational thinking to act as her own person. Her beliefs were very respectable and she knew how to support but highlighting past issues to demonstrate the issue of double standards. She was brilliant
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Oh yeah !
I would have loved if you had included someone with more socially conservative views than these women, to ignite a broader conversation!
I have never seen so many bots in a comment section.
Denim girl knows what's up
Nice video. A video on men would be interesting.
0:55 "I changed my tire multiple times" may look like bragging, but "That shows that I'm not a great driver" spun it off into a beautiful joke!
Yeah! Super humble!
OMG I never imagined to get so many likes. Thank you so much guys!
I went to school with her and she's honestly so nice and sweet!!
@@briannabermudez7259 Nice to hear that people like her didn't change their habits since childhood...
@@athenawindyy966 omg thanks
I love how in this episode of Jubilee there was absolutely no hostility, everyone was respectful and they let the other person finish. They fed off of each other’s ideas and it was a true treat to see
Sam Salsa That shows how dishonest they are. None of them had the courage to be their real self. They purposely avoided conflict.
For the first time is women’s history
Jubilee probably picked somewhat similar women. Since they didn't have that big of differences.
Honestly, I was going to comment this too. I think a big reason is that women are taught to be kind, courteous, and to have manners. Seeing how all these women treated each other was very heartwarming. (:
I know right. I was scared of watching this one cause i was afraid of them being a bunch of social justice warrior feminists. But i was surprised in a good way. Good episode, made me rethink my positions on certain topics
"YOU CAN RAISE WOMEN UP WITHOUT PUSHING MEN DOWN." That's what I've been saying all this time. This woman is really smart.
Noelle Redmond I read that as peach and was very confused for like 2 minuets
Denki Elric bruh 😂😂😂😂
It's sad that common sense is considered smart now
that same girl in the beginning of the video was saying that todays extreme feminism where men are put down is good....
Damion Palmer
*woman
She’s a woman.
totally unrelated but I feel like this room is really cold. Everyone has big jackets on and it just looks very drafty.
Yup.And the cement floor makes it look like its outside
My guess is like 40° and that not cold to me thou since I live where it's cold lol
@Enri Playz No? she can wear however much makeup she wants.
@Enri Playz yeah its gross
@@joeschmoe7866 ..... I’m guessing you haven’t listened to ANY of the points made in the video. Just remember, woman wear makeup for THEM not others, or the public eye. If she feels confident, has a healthy lifestyle then there should be by no means you feeling okay to even agree to that statement.
I love how respectful they are. Most people in these videos just argue.
*Mostly_Silent HIGHLY liked this*
It's cause they're women, and women are typically more polite and organized.
The Coaster Roaster Generalization
@@CoasterRoaster Ironically sexist.
Edit: A few of my comments have been deleted for being sexist? (Not by me)
@@KeanuOR it's not sexist, it's just biological
Oh man a conservative housewife would have been an interesting addition to this.
Totally! We need all points of view.
A conservative housewife would have chosen not to participate.
Conservative women are actually really feminist in a way when it comes to gender roles. They are more likely to shoot guns, hunt and do more stereotypical masculine things.
If anything, they'd have more of a reason to be a feminist. You think they always love being at home, and existing to raise kids. Nah. You just misconstrue the word conservative
@@Jackholiday1025 I never said they wouldn't do any of those things, and that's hardly how the word feminism is used today.
They should do one with kids that way we can see the innocence in their decisions
I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!
Are you talking about kids below the age of 7 or above the age of 7? Kids above 7 are literally the most not pure thing ever in my region of New York. I'm a child myself, so I know this as a fact, we aren't pure angels like people describe kids as. If you're talking about below 7 though, it works I guess.
@@EverWhishper ur a child?
@@gabrieltarikhomar1447 Being under the age of 18 counts as that, so yeah. I'm in the same generation you guys are talking about. Like it's really funny how you people take them as pure angels, but then it gets annoying.
@@EverWhishper I agree , I'm only 11 years old and nobody is pure where I live.
whenever i watch these i’m always thinking “damn if i was there i would say...” lmao i can’t help it
Then think about saying it and then how are you going to defend your statement.This way of thinking on these videos could improve you.
Just say it out loud. I was talking to the mirror. 😫
@@6xmaaaa no fr i would pause every once in a while and go off at my reflection lmao
@@whatsupworld7816 ikr
omg you should def make your channel in your thoughts abt these topics, i would probs watch tbh
If I were to give an example on equality is this:
Man = 3 + 1 = 4
Woman = 2 + 2 = 4
Men and women are equal and should be equal, but we are not identical.
Damn, nice one
nice analogy
FRISHR I must say I don't really agree. I would say everyone is very different and you should be proud of that. Even the differences between men and women. They are not the same! they aren't equal (have different traits by nature, on average better at some things, worse at others) BUT!! Everyone should be TREATED EQUALLY! :)
Chris Boom No not everyone should be treated equally, you act different to people even if you don’t realise and you do that because it just feels right to you. Some people don’t deserve to be treated the same as others, in my eyes you should always be given as many as logical (in your situation) chances for sure, BUT it ends somewhere and that’s the moment you are treated differently AND fair at the same time! I agree that everyone should get equal chances and opportunities, not exactly treated the same! This is just my opinion tho
Nergis BLINK I very much agree with you. Of course it is very natural to treat everyone according to what feels natural to you on an individual level. I was more talking about if you don‘t know the person. You should then give them the same treatment without any pre-existing bias and give them the same chance you give everyone regardless of age, gender and race etc :)
When the girl in the red jacket said that she had changed her tires multiple times they all clapped for her 😂👏👏
I feel like that was such a sexist question.. I watched the “Do all men think the same” and they weren’t asked anything like “I know how to change a diaper” or “I know how to cook a nice meal”
Christina Simonetti “sexist question” 🤣🤣🤣 I swear you feminist always have to bring sexism into things. GROW UP!!!
Christina Simonetti because everyone should know how to cook a meal and maybe a diaper. Not everyone knows how to change a tire.
Nova but everyone should lol
Christina Simonetti aw sweetie is offended, poor baby
If only everyone could be this respectful toward each other no matter if they agreed or disagreed with each other.
Yes
A lot of people respond to different opinions with disrespect no matter what. Unfortunately respect and shared opinion are not inverse relationships.
🙏🙏🙏
I wish
If only humans could comprehend the meaning of respect, if 2 people have a different opinion nowadays, we have war.
Respect to the black girl that stood up for herself alone almost every time.
Yes I liked her too just except the abortion one
@@swallalalisa3045 I dont agree with her BUT everyone has a unique way of thinking and that is just her belief. 😊
@@sarahkhoja2561 why not tho? if adoptions a choice that saves your career / years and the kids life, isn't it fairer on you and the kid overall? (apart from exceptions like results of rape, etc.)
@@faux4780 Its the mamas choice. I mean when you go to the grocery store do you dictate what strangers buy and pick up? No, you dont. Same way you and no one else should dictate a mothers choice to do what she wants with her own body. No one should have the right to dictate someone elses choices which is why I am for the pro choice movement. I mean isnt that why we live in America? To have our own choices and freedoms? What's the point if your not allowed to make decisions for your own body?
@@sarahkhoja2561 your equating lives to groceries, and your not a mother if your baby died by your choice, your just a woman, the choice is raising it or giving it away, thats the choice for your life, deciding whether your in a position to sacrifice career / have the maturity should be enough, yeah its your body but its their life... your infringing on its freedom to live by not just having it then giving up for adoption if you cant handle a baby rn in your life, not very american tbh
"YOU CAN RAISE WOMEN UP WITHOUT PUSHING MEN DOWN" - TOTALLY AGREE. Feminism is supposed to be about men and women being EQUAL, not claiming women are "better" because that's just as bad.
Mark Alexander. Feminism used to be great. I miss the old feminism where we women, wanted to be treated and seen equal to men. But when the men got threatened and laughed at us we retaliated. Then we became just as bad as them. It’s pretty sad actually
@@upscaleavenue You must be deaf then. It's been talked and complained about by pretty much everyone for MANY decades! In fact it's talked about WAY more than women claiming to be "better" than men.
Women are better - in some areas. And men are better - in some areas.
We’re not equal in every area.
@Upscale Avenue...okay so according to you a boy/man living right now should be blamed for actions and thoughts that happened in the past? Even a boy who was born just 10 to 16 years ago? coz the repercussions of such strong extreme feminism is going to be tolerated by him not by the actual people who had those thoughts in the past.
Harish Singh guys need to recognize that they are the solution to this problem. They have to understand that it is men’s fault society is where it’s at - but we men can change it. We need women’s help though, but it’s our responsibility
"Every woman should be feminist"
Everyone : agrees
Denim girl : well that's not feminist
Everyone : *surprised pikachu face*
big brain time
ikr that's what i said! same thing with woman should run the world. feminism is about equality!
@@myhobbylol but what she said is true
I think people realized the truth in that and learned from that. I don't think they were necessarily shocked.
@@myhobbylol i dont fully agree that feminism is about equality anymore. maybe early feminism is about that but not modern feminism or radical feminism. i say this because if you ask a large group of people if they support equality between the sexes, pretty much all of them would agree. but if you then ask them if they support feminism then it would be very divided. to me this suggests that there is something to feminism which is currently not aligning to this postulated definition. maybe, by definition, this is what feminism is however there is a very large proportion of feminists who dont truly embody this definition and so the describing oneself as a feminist has become tarnished. im not trying to attack feminism or anything like that, its just my subjective observation about its current state.
MeToo isn’t about women, it’s about ANYONE who has been sexually harassed or raped. There are men in the movement as well.
@@omarelmasri9939 that is not what femminsm stands for, they're not feminists. Feminists can be men or women but if they say that they don't represent feminism. Ive heard men say stuff like that to other men. its not the femminsm its ignorance don't let them make you hate women and femminsm. And that is the exact reason im a feminist so that men wouldn't feel weak because of sexual assault and women wouldn't feel like sluts
Pomegranate Omar wow, sorry to hear that:( hope you're doing all right now.
Pomegranate Omar I’m very sorry that happened to you. You’re not weak. And what really makes me mad is that if a man touches a woman without consent then ppl will get super mad at him and call him a rapist but if a woman touches a man without consent ppl say that the men should be happy a women wants him and enjoy it. And if the guy tries to stop the woman uses his hands then ppl call him an abuser. Men can’t win with this and it pisses me off. No means no, doesn’t matter what gender it is. Also you were very young and it makes me very sad to hear that. They weren’t feminists, I don’t even think there is a word to describe those “feminist”. Even tho I’m a girl it pains me to see other women do this to men and use the fact that they are women to get what they want even if the guy doesn’t want it. I’m still very sorry for what happen and I hope you’re doing well.
Aye Yo
Thank you, i am 😊
emmie_girl
Thank u ❤️❤️
Seriously tho
The girl with the denim jacket is extremely educated and understands the real meaning of feminism 👏
i loved her
@@nanochad2979 in saying that tho women are less likely to be employed due to ‘benefits’ like maternity leaves. While I understand the logic behind that, such as the employer would like their company to be as productive as possible, it’s still an unfair situation. It takes two to be pregnant and only one faces the consequences, career-wise.
@@nanochad2979 middle eastern countries have extremely sexist views. Women lack many rights there. For ex, You can’t even open a bank account without a mans permission. But even then, in a country such as the US, where we all have the same rights basically, it’s not rlly abt that. It’s abt equal treatment and equal value between both genders. Because worldwide women are seen with less value then men. As a result of the patriarchy. And every women no matter where from has the fear of sexual assault because there’s always predators.
Egalitarianism left the chat.
@@nanochad2979 Do you think industrialization is a significant factor of its own? Lol. If you want to talk modern society, and ignore the rest of the world, maybe look up the recent Activision Blizzard lawsuit. I think it would be much harder for you to name an equivalent multi-billion company run by women that has a work culture of oppressing men.
Blonde woman with Jean jacket was really smart. She is an extremely reasonable person.
Yeah i agree with her on everything 😂😂
Yeah, she actually was
She looks a lot like Kate McKinnon
Elton John Is A Proud Lesbian yes I agree 100%
@Caitlyn jenner is a MANMAN What?
This is one of the healthiest, most well-balanced, respectful spectrum episodes I’ve ever seen.
it has got to me my favorite yet, so clever and made me question some of my beliefs instead of just agreeing or disagreeing with them.
I thought they were all lovely and respectful, and it was refreshing to watch.
And you know why? w o m e n
@@catttyun sexist lad
@@catttyun I was about to say the same thing
the girl in the blue denim jacket literally has said exactly what i was thinking for every question
We need more women like you.
:^|
I am a man but I thought exactly the same way as her too
Well I disagree with some of her opinions like abortion
Jonathan Hubbard-Shaw ok simp
i feel like this is one of the first videos where we havent collectively decided to hate on someone in the comments.
it got flipped, there is a collective love for someone.
Cause it’s women dummy
Go look at the men’s version of this video
@@FirstLast-nz9vo cause that guy was actually insane. He was blatantly misogynistic.
The woman in the denim is so confident in her beliefs, I feel like feminists nowadays are conforming to what the media says feminists should be, while she's just true to herself, and can then influence other people positively, instead of forcing her beliefs on people.
@Bia L what do you mean?
I assume that you are a person of color based on your profile picture (sorry if I'm wrong) but do you think a POC shouldn't be against racism?
Not necessarily an extremist but to support what they are mainly fighting for
@@angelasaes I don't understand what you're asking me. But yes, I am a black female, and I think black people should be against racism.
@@londonlouise9797 I think for feminism it should be the same.
Just knowing our gender has been oppressed for years and support the movement that gave us more freedom
@@angelasaes I'm saying that women nowadays are following the media's definition of feminism, instead of thinking about the original purpose of the movement. Some feminists have become extremists, and for some it's no longer about equality, but about women taking power and replacing men.Some feminists force their beliefs on others, and become hostile, which then takes support away from feminism, and makes women compete with each other to be "correct" in their beliefs. I agree with what you're saying, and I feel like there are aspects of the movement that have changed in ways I don't necessarily agree with.
True feminism: uplifting men and women without putting either down.
Isnt that just good people?
This is a lie. All ideologies will claim that they are for the betterment of men and women. You have to look at what the ideology claims is the solution and evaluate whether it is true or false. Most forms of feminism today seek to blurry the distinctions between men and women and in so doing they actually harm men and women, because when you deny differences it makes working with the strengths and weaknesses of each gender more difficult.
@@cyclonemt they say women and men are the same yet they want women to run the world .
That's a myth.
What you're referring to is called "egalitarianism."
then it shouldnt be called "feminism" idk how you can empower both sexes with a word feminine in it.
I think there’s a difference between being polite when flirting/complementing someone. And being aggressive towards women
Yes. Also women can be aggressive towards men but do they ever get a sexual harrassment situation? Nope. Double standards. Feminism is a joke
@@pnut3844able women do get charged and arrested for sexual harassment. A feminist is someone you believes in women’s rights and equality, lots of women do get away with these things, but it does not mean feminism is a joke.
@@Jt665 that's ridiculous, go look at tiktok to view some legit sexual harassment. Look at the stats and tell me if women are given equal jail time that men are given for the same crime. Tell that to our justice system
@@pnut3844able They were talking about women and catcalling, somehow you made it all about men, as lots of men do in order to devaluate women's experience.
handsome: polite
ugly: aggressive
pretty much
That girl with the glasses and the grey coat and black hair is so gorgeous
@@mementomori1749 how was it racially motivated...
@@mementomori1749 you’re not making any sense at all lmao
@@mementomori1749 she never mentioned her skin color
@@mementomori1749 What’s wrong with saying a specific woman is beautiful?? You’re making this into something it’s not. Obviously the woman’s beauty stood out to her
@@mementomori1749 there was another black woman in that room too lol
This is definitely the most respectful, kind, and knowledgeable one of these videos I have seen yet. They were so respectful to each other’s beliefs.
ikr. same with the pornstar one lol
Everytime someone said something: "I agree, but I don't agree"
Sadly most women seem to rather agree with eachother for the sake of consensus than tell their real view of things.
They are all nice to each other in every one
Susanne Forsberg What
I love how respectful each of the women were whether they agreed or disagreed with each other.
They were all the same level of respectability
+victoria marie, respect is a rare site these days.
I love how poorly educated they are I want to show them why they're wrong about most of their views in this video
@@miguelmuniz5528 why don't you share with us what they're wrong about
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I'm a man and I don't know how to change a tire.
Ur a real man :)))
What are you doing with your life..
Chill it's joke
How
Are you really a man then (this is a joke) sorry for the miss understanding
still a real man
Can we do do all gen z think the same
That’s would be hilarious
We'd probably pose random memes that we can't even understand/comprehend.
@@suacemanaquiatan9380 yep that is why it would be hilarious
That would be so funnyyyyy I volunteer to participate
@@HannahTuttle same here
@David Winehouse wtf are you on about
Q: should all woman be feminist
Denim jacket lady : telling us what to do is anti feminist
audience : touché 🧐
I think there is and there will always be a misconception on what feminism is.
When I think about feminism, it is not necessarily being a radical protester, it is at least someone who acknowledges women have come a long way to have equal opportunities as men.
Just like asking a non white person to not be racist, why would you be against your own rights?
I actually didn't like that response bc feminism is bout having the same opportunities a men and being able to choose the life we want to live. If you believe that we should have the things mention above you are feminist, even if you don't label yourself as that.
I think every woman should be feminist because the other option implies you don't want women to have opportunities and rights
I dont get it , what did she mean?
@@guokfdukknbgjk9416 she means that telling a woman what to do or believe is anti feminist. Feminism stands for the support of women, no matter what they choose to do or believe. Therefore, saying that every woman should be a feminist is actually not feminist
@@elisahernandez6613 See that's the thing, you are out here making a woman'a choice for her when it's not your life or your mind, it's hers and we all need to respect that.
That woman with the glasses was a little nervous throughout the video but I don't know why cuz she's literally like a freakin' genius.
Spewkkk🔥🔥
absolutely! except for her stance on abortion i completely agreed with her on everything
@@darkangel4994 yes exactly my view
Dark Angel i definitely understood the views within her stance though!!
Dark Angel yeah I hate when people bring up adoption but don’t do anything to fix the system
All of these women are so intelligent. I love how they express their opinions and talk so respectful to each other even when they do not agree.
@Juliana Silva Actually, the question literally said 'EVERY woman SHOULD be a feminist'. That's not really the same as 'I want more women to be feminists'. Of course it was worded provocatively due to the nature of the video and they maybe just meant the latter, but I get how she came to her conclusion. If you were to go through with that statement, you would actually have to force some people.
Also, the sentence they used implies that people should have a certain opinion solely based on their gender, when according to my personal definition of feminism (as there are different kinds of it), gender should just not be important at all and especially not the only reason for someone to do or think something.
@Juliana Silva Actually I think the last part of your comment is really interesting, because it kind of sounds like you're looking down on women, who do not consider themselves feminists/like you are mad at them? Do you believe they are undeserving of the rights they have, because they are not fighting for them themselves? Correct me if I misunderstood your tone, that's always really hard over the internet and English is not my native language.
About your question: To me, the sentence 'Every woman should be a feminist' just implies that. As I have said in my comment, I think that statement is different from 'I want more women to be feminists', which is the phrasing you used. I also would like more women to be feminist, or at least not look down upon other feminists, so that the movement would be stronger. But the word choice 'all ... should be' just has a certain connotation to me. As I said: If we were to turn the world into one where that phrase is valid, meaning a world in which every woman would be a feminist, it would, as of right now, mean to force that role onto people, when in my head feminism is about not forcing roles onto people, as I said, based on gender.
But I see how that could be interpreted as linguistic pettiness, which maybe isn't appropriate since I am not a native speaker.
Not all
Well one brought up the wage gap, which in fact doesn't exist. So maybe a little misinformed
Not all of them right on.
"You can raise women up without pushing men down" -> Followed by her approving of something that completely contradicts her previous statement.
You also came from a "curb your ..." video ?
😂
@@vinith8669 I saw the curb vid after this one, but it's so true tho.
@@vinith8669 I did
For anyone that's confused. The short hair girl in red said "you can raise women up without pushing men down" but when they had to choose between disagree or agree to "i believe the world would be better if it were run by women" (bringing men down) she choose to agree which is contradicted to what she said previously.
When even one of these women has a different opinion than the other ones, they discuss it and ultimately understand the point of view and might even encourage it.
How incredibly civilised. I love it
agreed
It's bc they're being recorded by a camera. People act more civil normally. Trust me if it weren't for that this would be a completely different kind of discussion.
@@pnut3844able have you watched this series? People disagree FREQUENTLY.
@@pnut3844able no, I genuinely think that even if they weren't recorded, that wouldn't change much...
@@pnut3844able You're right. You also have to take into account the format of this survey. They are supposed to just explain why they chose this or that option, not debate with each other.
damn, this is the most healthy feminism I've ever seen and listen to.
@@samuelprince7895 so that's why left-wing demonstration mostly full of hearsay, stupidity, ignorance, wrath, hate speech, and accusation. there are most of the time boys among them. I see where you are going.
Feminism is toxic.
@@toxicdermyillunary4103 You were being so nice and tolerant, then you had to go and muck it up.
@@pyroshayniac1090 I think I am as tolerant as you toward male (boys) so it goes both ways tbf
@@toxicdermyillunary4103 terms like male and female are very mean please try to not use them
The blonde woman in denim (Cassidy?) offered a whole new perspective I’ve never thought about before. Like I’ve always supported the equality part of feminism, but her view on stressing that woman are more superior has the same potential to basically do the same thing as saying “men should rule the world”. Really made me think, thank you.
Yeah right, Like She is real for sure. definitely opened my eyes.
People say things like this all the time all that shows is you only listen when someone you already partially agree with is speaking
@@ScreamingManiac Was about to say the same thing.
Hi, I didn’t get what she said can someone please explain ?
Mayssem Mosbah, she was saying that it is very unequal to say that men or women specifically should rule the world.
the thing with the “would you raise a boy/girl differently” is that it’s equity not equality. equality is everything being exactly the same but equity is it being how it needs to be to better suit the individual. if i had a son i would teach him to be respectful of everyone, but to not let anybody tell him it’s okay to harm/upset women just because of gender. just like i would teach a girl it’s not okay to be rude to boys. but i would also teach her it’s not okay to bully girls for looks. it depends how you look at the situation.
Yeah, that's how I see it.
Equality is treating every gender exactly the same (Which is actually extremely unhelpful because depending on your gender, you WILL have different needs and experiences in this world)
Equity is making sure you're doing your best to accommodate all genders so that they're all at the same level.
Like a very hypothetical example of Equality vs Equity would be making sure all your kids have access to tampons- except your son doesn't need tampons so it wouldn't make sense, so you should be giving all the tampons to your daughter instead of your son. Or making sure all your kids have binders- except your son and daughter have no need for them while your gender non conforming child does, so you give THEM all the binders.
@@tarasuzanne7867 but i think it's a loaded question. Because they are expected to go either 1 way or the other, left or right. The personcwho went towards the right would be no better than the person who went towards the left. What is important is how they explained the reason they moved in that direction slightly. It's not like a few of them moved all the way towards the right. Then that would be extreme and clearly a feminist.
I totally agree. If you form a group of people who support every religion and do not discriminate against any one and consider one above other. Including Christians, Muslims, Hindus, Jewish everyone. Say one day you call everyone for dinner and as you are an organisation which supports every religion equally you can't serve everyone PORK on their plate. I mean that's equality that's what you are supposed to do that's what your motto is right? But you just can't do that. You sometimes think of equity because equality doesn't work everywhere.
If u have a son who's big like mike Tyson then chances r that he will not listen to u raging hormones aggression and competition will eventually be in his head girls on the other hand do not have this so they should be taught differently
How would that be different for a male child and a female one?? Everyone should be taught not to take advantage of anyone else sexually, that is pretty obvious. Also girls not being rude to boys? What? So you would let the other way exist?
People are acting like this girl is the only sane feminist. She’s not, y’all just ignore the real ones because y’all would rather complain about the radical ones
Actually I think the problem is that most of the time the media portrays the radical feminist which makes us believe that’s how they are when really they aren’t all like that! The radical ones are very irritating but the ones simply arguing for equality (Which I think we have) have very interesting points!
M. Nelson because we are aware that the media is incredibly biased or only showing certain parts of a movement or ideology I think the responsibility is put on the consumers of media to critically analyze what they are being told and to find other sources of knowledge or experience with the group to form an opinion on them. I really disagree with “that’s the only side we are shown” because that means you know the opinions you have are not complete so it is now on you to go find the necessary information to make a complete opinion
PERIODDDD
the majority are radical
It’s just like cops can’t have bad apples well feminist are full of bad apples
Denim jacket girl is the perfect example of a feminist, I swear
I thought so too, i wish someday we all gonna be that raisonnable 😍
John Smith I like how we are referring to her as the denim jacket girl, I think that’s so funny!
yeah, she was okay though. not a toxic feminist
The modern gamer 33 most feminists are completely ok and not toxic bruh
She's empowered.
I really like the girl with the long grey coat and the girl with the denim jacket. They both had very good opinions on certain matters and they expressed themselves very well. Very happy with the group of people they chose for this.
YES
my thoughts exactly.
1.1K likes but only 3 comments, just sad.
Wait u like the girl who was against abortion?
@@a_lil_bit_shady Yes? That’s what I said?
Can we just appreciate how civil they are being?
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Because they're all feminists. Some extreme and some not. Now if they'll put couple of women with conservative view in the same room, the situation would be slightly different 😁
Off topic but i love your sayaka pfp
I know, I think this is the first spectrum video where I liked everybody 😂
@@ritam4926 Black girl with glasses, she's not.
For the flirting question, well for me it really depends. There’s a difference between someone telling me I’m beautiful and someone saying “damn your hot.”
Damn you're hot
@@bakugokatsuki908 damn, you're not :)
@@fairyjuggalo8368 Ok virgin
@@bakugokatsuki908 do you seriously want a 13 year old to lose her virginity-
@@fairyjuggalo8368 Lmao, the way the didn't reply
Not all children get the luxury of being adopted. Especially into loving , supportive homes.
This.
Ok so because these children weren’t chosen they shouldn’t have life. Would you go up to a child in foster care and think it would have been better if they were aborted? If you think yes then that’s your opinion and I respect it but I personally don’t agree.
* screams * I said what I said because a lot of people use the excuse that babies can be adopted as opposed to abortion. The fact is that not all (I would even even argue that most) children have the luxury of being adopted into loving supportive homes. So putting a blanket statement making it appear to be absolute is extremely misleading. I didn’t once say or imply or believe that children in foster homes would have been better off aborted. BUT what I do believe is that no one should be able tell anyone what’s best for their life if they were to become pregnant.
@@laural4739 I was in foster care for 17 years (my entire life) and I KNOW that if I was aborted I would not have known, but my mother's life would have been much better if she was not forced into having me and then putting me into foster care. The experiences I had in foster care were traumatic (severe sexual abuse/rape and emotional abuse) and the system did not support me during those times and then when my foster parents kicked me out at 17, I had NO support. I am now 23 and I am struggling to pick up the pieces of my life and I now have no living biological family and no longer have foster parents in my life. I am struggling so, so much and I am all I have. I inherited illnesses from my mother, I have PTSD from my childhood abuse, I can not work and I am struggling to study. I KNOW I am a burden on the system and although I am grateful for my life, I know there are many others like me. And I know the pressure it puts on society. And I know how hard my mother struggled being faced with the reality of having to give birth to a child she did not want. I often believe I am the exception when it comes to foster kids being swallowed by the system and turning into nothing because I do not want to be a statistic, but my GOD the obstacles I have had to overcome don't seem worth it for all the damage that the forced birth of me caused. There are MANY reasons why someone can not have a child and many more reasons why someone would not be ok with putting a child into foster care.
@@Loveamandapatrice That's the thing it's not their life it's their son or daughter's life and they don't have the right to choose whether their son or daughter has the right to live.
The girl in the denim is what I mean when I say I’m a feminist
I see you Kirsty ❤️
@@cassidygard wait wait wait are you denim jacket girl in the video or I'm just unnecessary confused?
fangirl in neverland I think she is
👏🏽👏🏽♥️♥️yaaasss
@@cassidygard is that u jacket girl?
I feel like the American definition of ‘flirting’ is really different to the European one. All the examples they gave were commenting ‘you are beautiful/look nice’ or catcalling.
Flirting to me is like a dance, it’s not necessarily what is said, but how it’s said, certain looks or smiles, it’s a build up of chemistry and tension.
That should be what it is but in America we are pretty... anti-social? Idk what to call it but we just grow up expecting those to only really be said by family or those close to you and anyone else who says it is interested in u.
@@verryberryman7655 yeah, that’s the same in Europe. Someone who’s a stranger saying ‘you’re beautiful’ kind of as an opener or out of the blue would be considered.... a bit much? Like quite full on.
Good flirting (in my book) would be say asking you a couple of questions, getting a bit of back and forth chat going, making a few jokes, maybe a bit of teasing - none of that has to be based around comments on how the person looks. I love it when strangers flirt like that with me and am not offended at al! It’s like just testing the water to see if there is chemistry.
@@lilymm35 agreed.
I was irritated by her description as well
Yeeeeessss
It would be nice if more men actually really flirted, held a conversation, danced and finessed their way around women.
The lady that laughed so hard when she said “telling a women to do something is actually anti-feminist” god i died 😂
The girl in the denim is killing it.
yeah she was the best
* God
@@oliviagrace6914 why does god need to be capitalized
@@ok-gs5wc for respect
@@ok-gs5wc idk man maybe because God created u?
It must be cold in that room cause they all have their jackets and sweaters on, hands in pockets.
10:28 “I need the warmth” clearly you’re right then!
Girls are always cold... 😂
NCanseco not me lol I guess I’m special
Women are just naturally colder then men apparently. My girl cooks me with the heat where we live and always seems to be cold. My dad did the same to my mother as well lol.
@@minumeyli yeah u are lol. Men be getting tortured because of it. It's part of a man's struggles to be with a cold women who frequently uses you as a body warmer. Not that I mind that part lol.
I’m a man & I don’t know how to change a tire .
Jerry L. Bruh 😂 I’m a girl and I don’t know how to braid my own hair
p 3vedi
I don’t even know how to plat 😭😂
I’m pretty sure my dad and brother don’t either 😂
That's not vegan
@@Katie-iv7rh I'm a guy and I know how to do that :D Super proud of myself for it :P
THE LADY IN THE JEAN JACKET IS MY NEW FAVORITE PERSON
10:15 i strongly agree with you. it is not about removing a man’s chair in a meeting, it’s about adding your own chair around the table.
i hope it makes sense lol
Yeah, it makes sense... But she didn't make sense when she said that feminism should be more extreme and put men down at 3:05 WTF.
It's kinda contradictory, don't you think?
Ayslan Ferrari I was about to comment the same thing she literally contradicted herself using her own words 😂
@@ayslanferrari8028 I believe she meant extreme as in ultra passionate, not putting down men, but being dramatic in trying to pull women up :)
I think she just said that just to say that. Modern day feminism is really about putting men down to lift women up. Saying and doing are two different things
But why should that chair be added? Simply because a woman wants it there? Was she elected into that position? No? Then it shouldn't matter if it's a man or woman at that table, because they were voted in as a representative.
Everybody is talking about the girl in the denim jacket and I agree she is incredibly insightful and wise, but the girl in the grey jacket thing. Wow
@Dave Chapelle dude can you please not bring race into this?
I Liked The Person In The Yellow Jacket.
@@Sxjp Sadly, it's in everything in this country. It is the bedrock. So it wouldn't be farfetched to unearth the underpinning of conditioning. Especially towards black women.
Dave Chapelle gurl what-
@Mailley Pierson I don't know where I technically stand on abortion. I believe it is murder and I would never have an abortion. That being said...banning abortion will solve literally nothing. Abortions will be done dangerously, which will result in girls and women being put at risk. I think we need more access to birth control and contraceptives, as well as more accountability for rapists and sex offenders
The girl in the denim jacket us hands down the most level headed person I've seen
"How is it any different than saying that the world would be better if it were run by men"
So many people forget about that. But overall, I respect all of them
It's actually not logical. Because the premise is flawed, one would have to assume the playing field is even before saying how would it be different. If your dominant arm is more exercised, treated better than your left, sure you can hold ten pound weights in each hand but it will be easier on the dominant hand.
Let's start by lifting up women to even the playing field.
@@marcinnguyen3971 "Run by women" does not imply complete totality, it is not referring to being completely 100% run only by women. Casually speaking, we say all the time, "XYZ is run by men" speaking about the majority, while we also still acknowledge we have some women leaders.
And you're also completely ignoring historical data. Things have not been equal for a very long time, so to imply the opposite extreme would be equally problematic isn't sound. It's a balance fallacy.
This is the first spectrum video that I've seen where it just felt like a conversation and yes each woman had different views and beliefs, but no one was super abrasive, constantly interrupted or was rude. I rly enjoyed it!
same, as a guy I find this videos fascinating to see different perspectives. Feel like this sort of conversation rather than arguments when discussing different views and beliefs is far more likely to actually change minds.
Theres a difference between flirting and catcalling.
They don't even know what flirting is
Catcalling is just disrespectful in my opinion 🤷🏼♀️
aspen dean When it’s actually catcalling, but 95 percent of the time it is actually flirting
@@leenguyen6056 what's your definition of flirting?
i think flirting needs two people if one isn't comfortable then it isn't flirting.
Can’t wait till younger Gen-Z get asked these questions
I wanna be there lol
Anna Pagnin idk gen-z is crazy 😳
Anna Pagnin nah they gonna be weird
they’re gonna be so political and add weird memes in it at the same time.
i would love to do this but i am 12 and i feel like they probably wouldn't let me but i basically agree with all of them
I couldn't stop looking at the girl with glasses. She is absolutely stunning
She was really pretty, right?
Wow that's very nice to say
Same!!
Erotic Tomato ArE yOu ThAt CoLoR bLiNd???
She might not like that you just tried to flirt with her shes gonna get triggered
Changing a tire should be taught in driver’s Ed
it is bud
@@Saltesheep not where I’m from , we had to teach ourselves ..
@@spicy_ctrlo7132 yeah, maybe watch a youtube video
@@Saltesheep lmao I taught myself on a highway I’m just saying it should be taught in school just like a lot of other stuff
I disagree, you could learn that by yourself. Many resources available today to help anyone.
I was expecting the girl in the jean jacket to be crazy but she actually had a good head on her shoulders
to be crazy lol
Y lol
Why did you expect her to be crazy?
Eika Pumpkin she got that stereotype you know what i mean...
Says the girl in the pink bathsuit XD gdamn
As a man who was taken advantage of by a woman, we should teach women AND men, that they should respect peoples. Bodies
Thank you!! I agree 100% Plenty of times back in college I witnessed women "climb onto the drunk mans lap". It isn't just men who are guilty of these sorts of things.
As a woman who was assaulted by another woman, you don't know how awful those gender stereotypes truly are until you are finally revealing the pain you live with to others, and it isn't that you aren't believed, but because you were assaulted by a woman, you should be able to get over that easily because that's not as traumatic for you as if a man assaulted you, right? :(
@@ErraticConduct I hope your feeling better. And I agree, sexual harassment and rape either by a man or woman should be treated the same. They both cause so much emotional pain I can never imagine. No one deserves to be hurt that way
Yes, we should absolutely teach men and women. The thing is, most women are taken advantage of by men, I guess that’s why people think that only women are taken advantage of.
True!!
there is a difference between flirting and harassment..
Nobody said there wasn't 🙄
& men don't seem to know what it is. better to just stop letting men flirt with strangers until they can figure it out
Well some men need to figure out what that is. Women constantly get flirted with and when they don’t reciprocate they’ll be harassed for their number, followed, threatened. It’s madness. This has happened to me and multiple friends
+Inge Van Der Ross Agreed...I thought that the responses to that were kinda weird...the question was about flirting, not cat-calling/harassment. I would imagine many of those women would have had a different answer if the question was location specific. It was such a vague question that it leaves too much room for someone to misunderstand.
@@crstph You might want to phrase that differently....
The dark haired with gray and black outfit woman is gorgeous. I love her style
Same
The black lady with the glasses?
Maybe a "do all millennials this the same" next?
T.O.P yesssss!!! Definitely.
Yes please!
Bruh I read "do all minerals think the same" and I was so confused lmao
In California absolutely. All have: 2 digit IQs, high estrogen levels, and a fair amount of soy.
@T.O.P yeah they should since older gen z are now adults so we might think completely differently from the younger gen z
The denim jacket girl and and long coat black woman were absolutely stunning and confident
Juliana Silva
I think denim girls point was that forcing woman to be feminist would be telling them what to do and not letting them be independent which is what feminism is.
And (my personal opinion) I don’t believe in the murder of a unborn life form without its voices or written consent therefore I agree with long coat girl
Again, just y opinion
@Juliana Silva Let people have their own opinions. Just because you believe in those things, doesn't mean that everyone else has to. Me personally, I get the whole pro choice thing, and I guess I am pro choice, but at the same time the thought, that this fetus would be an actual person one day, upsets me. But I uderstand that women should be able to decide on their own, if they want to give birth. It's a controversial topic.
@Juliana Silva You seem to have misunderstood what they meant
I mean they ight I guess
@Juliana Silva She never said women shouldn't rule the world. The question asked if the world would be better with women ruling it. At the end of the day all of that is subjective. If you are a great leader by all means lead regardless of your sex. I believe that women with the qualifications to be leaders should be given the same chances as men. As for abortion we all are here today because we weren't aborted and were given the chance to live. You are here giving your opinions and views because you weren't cut out into pieces. Shouldn't that mean something? I can understand rape, premature age, and even health complications but to just terminate a child due to recklessness is not fair. The fetus/baby/however you wanna call it has it's own body too. It has it's own dna. And in alot of cases it fits if not most all of the criterias of a living organism so u can't say its dead or not living. And if u actually take the time to research what actually happens to babies when they're killed during later trimesters you'd understand where people are coming from.
THE GIRL IN THE DENIM JACKET.
that's it. that's all I wanted to say.
ILYSM 🙏❤️
@@cassidygard are you the girl in the denim?😂
I did NOT like her
The first feminist on the media I can wholeheartedly agree with for a long time now. She's just a gem.
@@gibbon_person4685 why??
“We can raise women up without pushing men down” but isn’t she the same person who said that “women need to go a little bit extreme in order to meet in the middle?” Like how does one correlate to another?
Being a feminist is not dragging men down to our level but raising women up to the same level that men are on. Being extreme about it means fighting harder, not doing the opposite..
@@performancerecordings we're already on the same level
@Daniel Han Feminist logic
It just means you have to push harder to get what you need in life, dragging men down is not the objective of feminism.
@@JS-pn4tj male logic also ..need to meet in the middle. Is it so awful for you? You don't want your Mum to be treated with equality??
4:59 I feel like strangers flirting and/or complimenting you is fine. There is a line between flirting and catcalling/disrespect but that's a whole different conversation.
YES 👏
Yes! There’s a difference between flirting and harassment. But if someone would prefer to not have anyone flirt with them at all, that’s their preference
Filrting it's ok, but it's something more intimate. I live in Spain and here catcalling it's whistling at you while looking at your ass like if it was a steak, screaming stuff like "I would f*ck that ass so bad" and things like that. It's awful.
I personally find being wolfwhistled flattering
Bonnie Burton honestly, i think a lot of people can agree, but at the same time it feels like you are being made into an object, rather than a person
I love it when everybody turns to face the person who's talking
Amen!!!
Women are human beings. *Not all human beings are the same, and though there are shared experiences amongst groups, each human has a unique experience. And most importantly has value.* This logic when applied to all human beings can make the world a better place. *Be kind. Don’t assume that you have all the answers.* Allow yourself the possibility that you are wrong about a thing and therefore have empathy.
Ps. I really loved all the thought processes. “You don’t have to push someone down to raise someone up.”
Puting Pinoy yeah but no one cares everyone knows people dont always think the same but still enjoy the discussion being had
It's a series
But men have it worse
YAAAAS PINOY I AGREEEEE
@@micheal6702 Awww sweetie that's adorable. Nice try, I'm super triggered lol
The blond girl with the jean jacket is really what I mean when I sag I'm a feminist she's really smart. The young black lady too even if I don't agree with her about abortion (I'm pro choice) It's surprising than this time I loved everyone in this video they are all really mature and just discuss about their opinion politely. I just think that it would be really interesting to see more different age ranges 😁
Yeees i am like 70% this blonde nas 30 % this girl with glasses and this with red lipstick 💜
Foster care and adoption is not the dumping ground for your unwanted babies.
Periodt
Abortion shouldn’t be legal too
@@lol3615 Or have so many restrictions applied
its thier body
Słythęrix why
As a man, I learned a lot watching this
Same
What kind of things did you learn? I'm so curious :)
Honestly, this is a wrong place to learn anything. And I'm a woman.
@@prernaesther6090 no it is a good place to learn about woman! Men can see woman's opinion!
Glad to hear that!! ❤️
I love how they always have a different variety of woman. White, black, gay, straight, old, young, religious, non religious. So they have a variety of different answers to compare to people.
It takes immense courage to stand for your beliefs especially when you know that the audience disagrees with you. Props to the black girl 👏
You’re praising someone who doesn’t think a women should have the choice to her own body? Sorry but if it was someone else that was pro choice, the comments would be slandering them.
@@Ashley-km4qi Has it ever crossed your mind, that for pro life, it’s not always about the woman, sometimes it’s about the child? I don’t hold grudges against pro choice (if they aren’t aggressive activists), but you obviously do hate pro life. Try being a bit more open minded about other opinions, don’t twist people’s words around, it helps make the world less toxic
@@eliben4066 So in other words, it’s not about the fetus or “child”, as they are not even a human yet, it’s about the woman. You can’t argue with what science has already proved about abortion.
@@Ashley-km4qi if I may ask, what exactly determines if you’re human or not? What I learned from my embryology class is that humans have very unique dna. It’s what separates us from animals and plants. A human female and a human male procreating then creates a human baby, correct? If it’s not human yet, then what is it and when does it become human? What is it before it becomes human?
@@Ashley-km4qi Absolutely heartless
Cassidy is a TRUE feminist. She doesn't think that women are better than men; she actually believes in equality
Love to you Freya! ❤️❤️
Yeah, I actually like her, and I don't like feminists lol. (Speaking as a woman). I just identify as an egalitarian because I think everyone should be and have equal opportunity.
yes😄😄😄 people tend to forget the definition of EQUALITY that often leads to disagreement. I believe that both genders should learn respect and empower both sides. some women are rude and and disrespectful to men(even to the same gender) and some men are not all crazy maniacs,degrading perverts or rude...
@@MaddieNiec here's a definition I love for true feminism; it's about bringing females UP to the level of privilege men receive. Thus leading to equality. So at it's core it is about equalising and not one better than the other.
@@pgan Technically not true. I mean, your definition isnt off. But in reality it isn't actually equality. It is equality of the basis of WOMEN.
What happens if there is a privledge that women hold that men do not have? Going by the definition of feminism (which you also used) then that is a O.K and nothing a "true feminist" should "correct".
So, a more correct word for feminism by the definition, is women empowerment and not gender equality.
I love how all the girls showed that they were really listening to what each person had to say, it’s not Aw inspiring or anything, I just think it’s sweet.
Yeah even the small arguments are like “yeah i dont agree but im fine with your opinion not hitting mine”
The woman in the denim jacket has been the most thoughtful of all. She didn't let blind feminism cloud her thoughts or beliefs.
wtf is "blind feminism"... imo she wasn't thinking deeply enough, how would she guarantee women can make their own decision without feminism? it's not forcing people to do anything, it's saying that if you don't think you should be a feminist but you think women should be equal and be able to do what they want, your thought process doesn't line up
@@DiabolicalPaperClip paradox.
Feminism is about free-ing women to make their own decision, not to be told this or that.
If women is told that they should be/do this or that (and have to do it), then it's anti feminism.
@@aff291 The other thing is imo she misinterpreted feminism. It's not about just ensuring women can do and think whatever and that's the end of it. It's about removing the boundaries that prevent women from being free to think and act. Imo her thinking she doesn't need feminism or to back the movement is a symptom of a misogynistic society that tells women they aren't REALLY oppressed and don't need a liberation movement. Don't tell her what to think but reform of the aspects of society that create such a contradictory mindset.
It's actually pretty deep.
And she was right about feminism nowadays.
A lot of so-called feminist are being feminist not because they want to empower women, to bring the equality, but to hate and bringing down men. And forced people to be/thinking like them, invalidate other people who disagree with them.
@@DiabolicalPaperClip removing the boundaries? What are the boundaries then?
Sorry it's very sensitive, but one of the boundaries is traditional/conservative teaching/norms of some religions, which restrict women from doing a lot of thing.
She doesn't say she doesn't need feminism, she disagree if a woman should or is forced to be a feminist.
Because forcing a women to be something she doesn't want to is anti feminist.
I know some women (friends of mine, unfortunately) who choose to live a "patriarchal/misogynistic" life and doesn't need feminism, that's what they want, what would you do about it?
This actually was a good video, they were respectful and weren't having a screaming match yet they disagreed. Plus they weren't pushing anyone down.
Ok but that black and grey jacket is giving me life
I want her whole, it screams strong independent woman haha
The world doesn’t have to be run by women, but by open minded and understanding people it doesn’t mind if they’re men or women, they’re people
But its run by men and this is good? XD
i think there should be a balance but i do agree.A women can be a just as good of a leader as men but they can also be just as bad and vise versa
Only when it suits women..
Imagine this when ran by men girls are put lower
Women runs it men are down.
Only people that go in between will work
@@lilygreen221 stop it. Do some research and stop just repeating the same nonsense you're told. Look how many women politicians we have smh.
It's so refreshing to see people respectfully disagree
Daniel Hobgen You can’t just say “psychology 101” when you’ve never taken an actual psychology course lmaoo
@@karinamurphy7957 It's called a figure of speech. Do you take everything you hear literally?
Bringing people up without bringing others down. That's what life should be about!
The woman with glasses is a perfect definition of "silent killer". She's pretty shy but damn she's intelligent.
How is she shy she talked the most ?
she’s not shy though. u do realize they cut out so much of what these people are saying. even after they’ve cut out parts she still talked a very good amount.
I would agree with you, but she's pro-life.
@@sofytofy damn that ruins it all
@@youraveragestalker8438 right lmfaoo when I heard that about her I lost all hope lol
I kinda smirked when so many said they couldn't change a tire. Then I realised I don't know how to either. And realised that I'm sexist without knowing it sometimes. Ugh
Wait I’m a girl is it bad that I don’t know either? Should I be worried? Ah
Anne Kearns Lmaoo nah I’m a guy, I don’t know. I bet most people don’t know regardless of gender
I’m a woman and sometimes realize I think or say sexist things. It shows that you’re a good person for admitting you have these internalized sexist thoughts. It depends on how you’re raised. Your first thought on something is what you’re conditioned to think, and your second thought is your real opinion.
Anne Kearns ima a dude I have no idea how to do anything which involves like making things
@@rishabbomma9361 I'm a girl and I can fix things but that doesn't matter I think it is that I watched my dad fix things.
Spectrum idea: Introverts and Extroverts
No
Yes
Introverts r just gonna be like "I'm so weird ecks dee"
Introvert:neither agree nor disagree
Lol Lmao extroverts are annoying
The girl with the red jacket said that we don't need to push people down to go up then few moments later she started to push men down that's big brain
I feel like the girl in the grey coat has very strong opinions but doesn’t admit it
Just say the black girl
@@smilesxo06 everyone isn’t comfortable with just calling people by their race....
Cassidy: Telling a woman she should do something is actually anti-feminist
Erin: It's also not vegan
Lol
Well.....you're comment is not vegan either hahhah
these erin memes really are everywhere lmaooo i saw one on a dance moms video
LMAOO
Tbh Erin seems like she could be a feminazi
The girl who knows how to change a tire reminds me of the misfit from the breakfast club.
LMAO i see it😂 she just speaks and acts a bit more sophisticated lol
Oh she does
Oh my goodness! YES!!!!
omg i was thinking the exact same thing!
But cuter
1:02 When she said she changed her tire multiple times and they all clapped my heart went: 😭😭🥺
It may not be a HUGE achievement but they were so sweet.
that woman in the front. WOW. black beauty is on another level, i swear y‘all are gifts from God.
nat x they really are.
She is very beautiful but eyy man everyone has different opinion on beauty
God is the internet that much of a wasteland?
Had nothing on the white blonde girl. Plus what she said actually made sense.
im white myself and it was not meant to shade white girls WHATSOEVER. BUT LET BLACK WOMEN HAVE THEIR MOMENT PLEASE!! they really deserve it, i know many of them are still being discriminated which is DISGUSTING, so i just wanted to remind them that they‘re genuinely beautiful and should be appreciated way more! i am proud of what they‘ve been through - now its their time to shine 👸🏿👸🏾👸🏽
I would just like to say:
CATCALLING IS NOT FLIRTING!!
I would like to add:
A compliment is not a flirt. It CAN be, but it is not always meant (or interpreted) as a flirt.
@@Temzy17 do you mean end of it because making such blatant grammatical errors like I may not use punctuation but using grammar just saying end of makes no sense
@Tro Ivas Does anyone really likes being catcalled tho? In my opinion it isnt a compliment. If you would like to let me know you think i look nice or whatever, dont cat call, just walk up to me and tell me. Cat calling feels objectiving and makes me uncomfortable
Tro Ivas you‘ve never been catcalled, have you?
@Tro Ivas Catcalling is pretty much yelling at someone about how they are attractive and you wanna hit on the sidewalk. it is kinda weird, regardless of how you feel about it. walking up to the person is not catcalling. they are different, bruh.
The woman in the Grey trench coat IS GORGEOUS!
And top of all, she is not a feminazi😀😀
The young black lady? Yea, she is good looking. She also didn't seem like a radical as a few of the others did. Very smart!
@The Mountain lol I won't get whooshed today satan
@@nicholebooth821 😂😂😂Satan wow😅😅It had me laughing hard
she's gorgeous asf!
"Every woman should be a feminist" is a trick question. That really wasn't fair. The word "should" is sneaky. A better phrasing would be "There's no reason for a woman NOT to be a feminist."
"Feminist" has become a trick phrase. Do we mean a feminist who truly believes in equality such as those of the 1920's suffragists? Or are we talking about the 2010's feminists who hate men, but then lie and say that it's still all about equality?
@@Spiqaro You are defining "2010 feminism" on behalf of women, and there is a term for that. This is a ploy that young boys on the internet and redpills use to gaslight one another into demonizing feminism. I literally know *no women* and *no feminists* who hate men. And I know a f*-ton of women.
All the feminists I encounter are *humanists* -- with compassion being the underlying thread. There's a bizarre misconception online that being pro-women necessitates being anti-men, and it does not.
Also, the amount of issues that women suffer (typically at the hands of men) is *staggering.* I understand that men have issues, too. But women are, by and large, the victims. Of unspeakably violent, terrible things. *Let's take a moment to acknowledge that.*
@@firstylasty9417 Why did my comment offend you? If we are to be equals, then 1920's feminism applies and is perfectly fine. However, as soon as we go into trying to talk about how men commit more harm against women and the like, then it causes antagonism and a belief in victimhood. It's exactly the sort of thing that has started to occur within these last 10 years.
@@coltj5907 That's too bad. Anyways, how was your day?
@@Spiqaro it was alright, job applications, work. How are you doing?
blonde with denim blue jacket and the black women with shaved head: I like their view
tathagata51 ” femenism has become extreme ” ” would the world be a better place if women ruled it? Yes ” Try to agree with them both if you can.
Cassidy and Yvette. They got names, ya know.
Just say Blonde women in the Jean jacket and the women in all black with the shaved head.... stating her race was not needed. You clearly did not say white women for the blond lady, so why say black women?
@@Maria.Colors2025 blonde kinda implies white
M. Mills
Because whoever wrote that was white and they tend to racialize everyone else but themselves
I think you should treat girls and boys the same but I don't think you can "raise" them the same because they aren't the same.
Everyone should be raised differently meeting the needs they have and everyone has different needs.
Hiitsivyyy Yeah I agree. You *have* to raise kids differently because our world 🌎 does not allow girls and boys to be raised the same.
Agree. We're equal but also different
What I took from the question is that if girls and boys should be taught to be an good adult.
Totally agree. Girls and boys are treated the same but when they’re being raised there will be some differences since they’re not the same.
Nobody is the same at the individual level, but the point is we shouldn't treat people differently because of their genitalia, because it means nothing
“Do all Boomers think the same?”
Joabi_a YESSSS
ok boomer
@Pham Minh Hieu who asked
@Pham Minh Hieu Actually the ratio is pretty equal. There are bad women such as men
Lmaooo
"in a lot of cultures adoption is not ok" uh in those same cultures then neither would abortion...
I didn't know adoption wasn't okay, that's weird.
In those same cultures neither would pre martial sex. But all of a sudden after the act is done she remembers her cultures beliefs and values and wants to uphold them
@@Spiqaro in Islam adoption isnt allowed, but taking care of a child is if that makes sense. So they are not allowed to share the same name but taking care of them is a very positive and nice thing to do
She said she was pro life but she doesnt want the government to restrict her options
It was pro birth. Pro life is not a real thing.
the girl in the front with the short black hair and gray coat is beautifull
her name is Rachel
all of them are 😊
@@oskyluvr you're right. They're all beautiful. Everyone is beautiful in their own way
just say the black girl
@@ahahaahaha7617 why?
Yo Cassidy is spitting facts! Seems like such a smart girl. I really like how she notices double standards in the feminist movement and doesn’t align herself perfectly to the community’s statements. Evaluate what you hear for yourself. It’s okay to disagree with some arguments in a movement you consider yourself a part of.
Hell yeah!
when in the intro i heard her claim to be a feminist i was expecting the typical borderline hardcore feminist that just thinks feminism is the best and without fault. turns out, i was wrong.
quite ironic too, given that ive mocked several feminists a few times on how theyre prejudiced against people wit certain label, background, or belief. definitely a much needed slap on the face for me. :-))
I lost a good friend of mine because she started to be toxic feminist, and then she came to that level where she told me, she cannot be a friend of me, because 1. I don’t understand her because I am male, and 2. because I am gay, and find guys sexual attractive I hate women
So I must admit I don’t like feminism, although I wanna like it and be a part of it, and that video just helps me more to get over this and help women empowering!
I know this comment must seem strange haha
Kylie Jenner
I understand why your experiences with extreme feminism would affect how you view the movement; it totally makes sense. Regardless of if your ex-friend calls herself a feminist, her statements are sexist, through and through. It’s unfortunate that misandrists use feminism to boost their awful narrative, and it gives everyone in the group a bad name by extension. I don’t consider those extreme and hateful people as a legitimate part of the community, as they don’t want equality; they want revenge.
Nowadays it’s actually pretty dicey to openly call yourself a feminist, as people immediately jump to that stereotype (which again, I completely get). I try not to let that impede on my beliefs by setting a good example of what the (first world) movement should be. There are so many double standards that negatively affect men, and you best believe I acknowledge them when it suits the conversation, the same that I would do for double standards against women. Casually, mind you, as I’m not the political type who goes on those tirades lol.
I think the “feminism” term is still quite important though, because in third world countries, they’re often a century behind in women’s (and other minorities’) rights. The movement needs to be female-centric over there. While over in Canada, we can fight to rid the inequalities on both sides, because we’ve made so much progress to where girls and guys have equal rights. If it weren’t for that, I don’t think I would apply myself to the label.
Not sure why I wrote a whole novel explaining my views lol. Just wanted to say that the toxic mentality some women have is definitely not what most of us approve of. Not me at least! And I hope to be a part of getting rid of that stigma by not being a sexist asshole while still calling myself a feminist. Cheers! :)
@@mophead_xu everyone in that room considered themselves feminists and yet she disagreed in the major points with all of them .Yesshe labels herself as a feminist, but she thinks the same way most anti feminist think.
She seemed to have her own developed philosophy and she has rational thinking to act as her own person. Her beliefs were very respectable and she knew how to support but highlighting past issues to demonstrate the issue of double standards. She was brilliant
Why are all their outfits soo cute 😁
M and A Team no just the tiny black girl with the glasses has nice taste in fashion everyone else looks dirty
@@ritabos7162 no they don't tf
@@ritabos7162 wtf if you don't like their style that's ok,but no need to call them dirty looking!!! That's so rude
And yes they do look great!!
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