@roser8911 Oh, it's not about the respect, once we walk away, of course, it is worthless. It's all about power and feelings good afterward. Our worth is more important and it's sad that they realized that after we are gone. Now we can leave them on read. 👻
that text better be from my bank alerting me he made a deposit. pay for your mistakes. pay me my respects. only then will he truly respect you. sad but true. if he doesn't, another man will. ✌️
If you want to walk away and not sure, u may say you just need a space for now, and tell them you are not leaving them, just need a space a few days, etc, and you will see in that time how whole dynamic works. But if you said you are gone, both have to figure out tht how it worked before it doesn't work, and both willing to work towards both interests, other wise it will be death with thousand cuts.
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counselor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
It Works on frienships too! Once my best friend walked away from me because i wasn’t respecting her boundries I was shocked. I wasn’t doing it on purpose but I needed that wake up call and after some time I apologised and changed my behaviour. Our friendship since then never been better. I respect her 100%. Some people are texting you not even on purpose, this is just human nature you need to show them how to treat you ❤
@roser8911Mature thought….sometimes if we stuck at situation where we think if i keep myself at distance he will respect me and love me more but … if person can’t value you in your presence, n start missing you when u walk away it means he didn’t appreciate you for who r at first and when he stopped getting that special treatment from others after you walked away ..is the reason he started respecting you… even if he comes back chances are more his behaviour would be same.
I'm here because I walked away, he's still shocked because i left precisely when I was supposed to chase and cling in response to his manipulation strategies. He has never failed before, didn't figure that I watch channels like this one 💅, thank you Alex, I want you to know that some of us do listen...
The point of the video is to GAIN respect. The focus ISN’T being with the person or getting them back ladies. Better to leave someone and them respect you then being so attached you don’t respect yourself. Some change some don’t who cares. Your time and goals of what you really want in a relationship is more important! Be willing to Actually walk away which means you don’t care.
If you walked away multiple times then he knows you always come back. He takes that for granted, and it diminishes your self-respect to keep going back.
@@sashatasha9725 it's really good advice..if I wouldn't be in love, it would be super easy to do it. But when you really like someone its very hard to make things hard for them to come back, because you want them to come back !!
The point is you save the energy of yelling about what you deserve and blah blah. If they start the same bs you walk away AGAIN that’s the point lol no wasted time or energy
Wal away and don’t look back. Deal with the discomfort and emotions and as time goes on you will feel better and have dignity. You are not teaching them a lesson, you are simply not engaging yourself with people who don’t value you and treat you how you’d want to be treated.
Well I can't believe you said that just now... Woman as in humanity, we need respect of course. Love is something simple it's all about mind and your person will come at the right time. But respect is something else, wherever you go to, whatever you do, if disrespect ever comes to your face, you're weak if you don't know how to handle that. Getting the respect you deserve is way more important than love. Wake up ladies
@@norixie3148 you walked away you earn the respect ,then what? Go get another man then walk away?? Only men need respect women dont, thats gender psychology fact , respect won't make women happy, when a man respect you means he have no feelings for you anymore
@@sameichang3928 what the heck are you talking about? Respect does not belong to any gender. İmagine someone being in love with you but has a sick mind so he gives you the most horrible experiment thinking it's love. How would you handle getting disrespected in a relationship? Also, there are some good men out there who has been raised with good manners and who knows how to treat woman&be respectful towards them. So I'm asking why would you settle for less than you deserve and get a shitty relationship where there's no respect like what the actual heck
@@norixie3148 if a man treats you horribly even if you walk away he won't respect you , so this video is a bullxxxt, the only way this channel teach you how to dealing with men is being cold being a bixxh playing games ignore them being hot and cold and walk away , how could men respect sick minded women? And if you don't respect them, how could you expect them to respect you?
You gotta financially prepare and if that’s impossible, seek family and friends to help you ❤ be humble because its okay to ask for help. The right people will help you i promise
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Facts...he is right ladies! Turn that energy, and you will see a text message on your phone as early as 8am in the morning. 🤣🤣🤣
True. But I don’t need men to respect me once I walked away…. What’s the point? I don’t care if they respect me or not lol 😂
@roser8911 Oh, it's not about the respect, once we walk away, of course, it is worthless. It's all about power and feelings good afterward. Our worth is more important and it's sad that they realized that after we are gone. Now we can leave them on read. 👻
@@She_bydeee yes 🙌🏼
I got the 6am text 😂
that text better be from my bank alerting me he made a deposit. pay for your mistakes. pay me my respects. only then will he truly respect you. sad but true.
if he doesn't, another man will. ✌️
My biggest mistake was walking away only to go back several times. That’s why he lost respect for me more. I’m gone for good now and lessons learned.
If you want to walk away and not sure, u may say you just need a space for now, and tell them you are not leaving them, just need a space a few days, etc, and you will see in that time how whole dynamic works. But if you said you are gone, both have to figure out tht how it worked before it doesn't work, and both willing to work towards both interests, other wise it will be death with thousand cuts.
Even walking away when you’ve lost the leverage is still empowering. Lessons learned.
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counselor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
Walk away. She will with time regret it. She may or may not come back but she will feel it if you put all your energy on you
It Works on frienships too! Once my best friend walked away from me because i wasn’t respecting her boundries I was shocked. I wasn’t doing it on purpose but I needed that wake up call and after some time I apologised and changed my behaviour. Our friendship since then never been better. I respect her 100%. Some people are texting you not even on purpose, this is just human nature you need to show them how to treat you ❤
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True. But I don’t need men to respect me once I walked away…. What’s the point? I don’t care if they respect me or not lol 😂
I’m sick of them
Knowing I’m willing to walk away and acting in ways that cause me to walk away. Sick of it.
@roser8911Mature thought….sometimes if we stuck at situation where we think if i keep myself at distance he will respect me and love me more but … if person can’t value you in your presence, n start missing you when u walk away it means he didn’t appreciate you for who r at first and when he stopped getting that special treatment from others after you walked away ..is the reason he started respecting you… even if he comes back chances are more his behaviour would be same.
Exactly 💯
@@yemerocksbrilliant 💯
Whenever I start watching dating videos.. that’s when ik I’m in some toxic ish again. Clear sign😂 love your videos though, ty!
I'm here because I walked away, he's still shocked because i left precisely when I was supposed to chase and cling in response to his manipulation strategies. He has never failed before, didn't figure that I watch channels like this one 💅, thank you Alex, I want you to know that some of us do listen...
In.exact.same.situation.
I listen to you and Tony Gaskins, you both bring golden wisdom.
SAME ❤
The point of the video is to GAIN respect. The focus ISN’T being with the person or getting them back ladies. Better to leave someone and them respect you then being so attached you don’t respect yourself. Some change some don’t who cares. Your time and goals of what you really want in a relationship is more important! Be willing to Actually walk away which means you don’t care.
I got my notebook 📓. I’m ready to start taking notes 📝
We got our Father Alex back without the music and clips🙏 thank you thank you thank you! just you, your wisdom and microphone! Lovely setting too✨💙
If they kick you you’ll say their playing soccer 😭😭😭
3:25 i can’t 😂😂 i feel called out😭
I love how guys just put me in situations where I have to come back to your strategy. 😂. Alex don’t leave us okay!!!!! We love you 😘
I'm so happy that I was willing to walk away,they actually love you even more for that.
Father Alex you make me smile. I just walked away and your videos are making me feel like a superstar 😀
I walked away multiple times and got lulled in again every time. The original problem never went away. Dont know what to do anymore
If you walked away multiple times then he knows you always come back. He takes that for granted, and it diminishes your self-respect to keep going back.
Same here!! Same bs nothing changed..
@@catspyjamas7944but if you never go back how are you going to be with the person 🤷
He says in other videos you're not supposed to make it easy to come back so they think twice next time
@@sashatasha9725 it's really good advice..if I wouldn't be in love, it would be super easy to do it. But when you really like someone its very hard to make things hard for them to come back, because you want them to come back !!
Thank you father Alex. I needed to hear this.
Tested and approved 🙏🏻💯 thank you father alex ❤ best advice in all aspects of life i swear ! Not only in dating. You’ll never struggle again !
dude you got swagger
Haha real gs walk away in silence. Awesome sentence. Ok will be a g now❤
Hahahahhaa the creepy anxious face😂
No jail time for the Father Alex therapy 😂😂
Loved this class and took notes 😅
Great material. Thank you✨🪽
Or they walk into the arms of a redheaded woman but then eventually block her too because they’re uncomfortable with emotional intimacy…called it 😂
dismissive avoidant shit
Jolene strikes again
My finger is always on that red button 🔴
LADIES; listen to this man!! “real g’s move in silence”
And if you need to vent talk to god or write it in a journal; don’t send them the long paragraph 😂😂😂
But what is the point. I walked away twice and when they started to respect me after a while when we got back together they started the same bs.
The point is you save the energy of yelling about what you deserve and blah blah. If they start the same bs you walk away AGAIN that’s the point lol no wasted time or energy
Wal away and don’t look back. Deal with the discomfort and emotions and as time goes on you will feel better and have dignity. You are not teaching them a lesson, you are simply not engaging yourself with people who don’t value you and treat you how you’d want to be treated.
You walked away twice that means you didn't really walk away forever
Right in time as always❤👏🏻
father alex i love your laugh
That anxious creepy fn look took me out 😂😂
Have you seen the video clips from the series Bridgerton? You look a lot like the character in the show Duke of Hastings (Simon).
Yeah, when men are this low and powerless, it drains the fucking shit out of us as well.❤
9:52 you are hilllllarious 😂
Women who cannot have kids are not a wifey material so I'm doomed just at the start.😢
keep that to yourself. he doesn't need to know. 💍
Not true hun. Your value is find in your personality and spirit and in God not in whether we can have babies or are virgins or not etc.
Thank you
You are so smart
But women dont need respect we need love
Well I can't believe you said that just now... Woman as in humanity, we need respect of course. Love is something simple it's all about mind and your person will come at the right time. But respect is something else, wherever you go to, whatever you do, if disrespect ever comes to your face, you're weak if you don't know how to handle that. Getting the respect you deserve is way more important than love. Wake up ladies
@@norixie3148 you walked away you earn the respect ,then what? Go get another man then walk away?? Only men need respect women dont, thats gender psychology fact , respect won't make women happy, when a man respect you means he have no feelings for you anymore
@@sameichang3928 what the heck are you talking about? Respect does not belong to any gender. İmagine someone being in love with you but has a sick mind so he gives you the most horrible experiment thinking it's love. How would you handle getting disrespected in a relationship?
Also, there are some good men out there who has been raised with good manners and who knows how to treat woman&be respectful towards them. So I'm asking why would you settle for less than you deserve and get a shitty relationship where there's no respect like what the actual heck
@@norixie3148 if a man treats you horribly even if you walk away he won't respect you , so this video is a bullxxxt, the only way this channel teach you how to dealing with men is being cold being a bixxh playing games ignore them being hot and cold and walk away , how could men respect sick minded women? And if you don't respect them, how could you expect them to respect you?
Speak for yourself.
💯 agree
Dalexisp 💕
All I want to know is
Who is Mellisa? 🤣
Same so,
💯 words❤
Oh father Alex❤❤❤. But yes you walk away. Then what. Then you sit there all by yourself???
❤
Me - seeing 3 Red Flags 📌
🚩 Ayt imma leave 😂✈️🛫
What happens if you dont have a home or a place to go if you leave them and thats the only thing holding you back?
You gotta financially prepare and if that’s impossible, seek family and friends to help you ❤ be humble because its okay to ask for help. The right people will help you i promise
Pray and ask the Lord for help. God will come thru for you. Amen!
Where do u stay at? I like your place. It looks pretty nice…
😊
5:40 you’re just so fucking smart it’s such a turn on by itself
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Can a rich man really not have a personality or does he just not want to speak to you
shut up Vanessa 🤣🤣🤣🤣
How are you so smart?
He's very smart. When he completely consecrates his life to the Lord. Watch out. He'll be a powerhouse.
Been watching you for a few years. Why are you so cute?
He's a looker.
Your accent 👌🏾🫶🏽
Haha
🤣🤣🤣creepy look
Gays
Loved this class and took notes 😅
Loved this class and took notes 😅
Loved this class and took notes 😅