What Men Think When You Finally Start Acting Cold

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  • @jodaisy113
    @jodaisy113 7 місяців тому +109

    No wonder dating is a nightmare … gotta play these roles

  • @lashelljohnson9163
    @lashelljohnson9163 7 місяців тому +75

    It literally sounds like wanting who doesn’t want you.

    • @FavDogBisquit
      @FavDogBisquit 7 місяців тому

      It is…. Challenges are welcomed inhale

    • @FavDogBisquit
      @FavDogBisquit 7 місяців тому +1

      It is…. Challenges are welcomed inhale

  • @itme7297
    @itme7297 8 місяців тому +133

    Whenever someone gets like that I just assume I became ugly to them 😂

  • @MindTheBusinessThatPaysYou
    @MindTheBusinessThatPaysYou 7 місяців тому +35

    It’s scary how sharp you are with reading people, omg lol. But this is also what makes your material so good! Thank you for sharing some of your personal stories as well as educating us.

  • @esnova11
    @esnova11 7 місяців тому +36

    The lawyer girl just played u with extra love bumbing and gave u a sense of importance, and when u thought u got her, she flipped on you with cold shoulder.

  • @hangtran7700
    @hangtran7700 6 місяців тому +17

    The fact is, sometimes it seems like they are playing game but it doesn’t ! In fact it needs more time for some people to get to know you. If you act eagerly too much too soon, for sure they will freak out and pull away because it’s uncomfortable ! Please put yourself in other’s place and you’ll understand why they act distance.

  • @laarazain9449
    @laarazain9449 8 місяців тому +28

    Omg your videos are scarily accurate these days for me 😱

  • @michellescherer7858
    @michellescherer7858 8 місяців тому +31

    i love the consistency. i can count and there being something new every time i check your channel. thank you

  • @memunadamore5479
    @memunadamore5479 7 місяців тому +18

    Always want what you cant have theory

  • @reemsaif3105
    @reemsaif3105 2 місяці тому +1

    It sounded like it was your turn to attract a needy person to feel what it s like. Life is a living school. Thanks for the video ❤

  • @Lovewarrior108
    @Lovewarrior108 8 місяців тому +19

    😂 recovering teletubby here this is wonderful advice . I fee so much more confident now a days . My phone mustve fekt my pulse because this algorithm is so Intutive ! Love the videos ❤

    • @idalisdesiree765
      @idalisdesiree765 7 місяців тому +1

      At first I was like what teletubby are you talking about?! 😂😂

  • @ksref
    @ksref 8 місяців тому +9

    Perfect timing! Love the background screen btw

  • @jobunny919
    @jobunny919 6 місяців тому +14

    Men would do anything and everything but leave you.- even if they don't like you. Alex carried on a relationship with a girl he thought was needy and creepy lol

  • @alondramunoz9355
    @alondramunoz9355 7 місяців тому +19

    I can’t do this. I just wanna both love each other and that’s it. Why do we have to play these games. Once I don’t like you you like me and when I like you then you don’t like me

    • @whyherrodere3784
      @whyherrodere3784 6 місяців тому +2

      I feel the same but it is what it is, at least we're aware and since dating is like this just see it as a multiplayer game and give the chance to ppl u see fit. Have fun with it and maybe try roster dating (dont sleep with them tho). That way u don't get easily attached and see love more objectively

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire 8 місяців тому +24

    what a smart girl in the end, the lawyer...!
    reflexion is half the rent.

  • @mayaveraviel2895
    @mayaveraviel2895 8 місяців тому +98

    Bc she must be dating emotionally unavailable people

  • @hiraaltaf528
    @hiraaltaf528 7 місяців тому +7

    The thing with me is.........i am always cold........i have a hard time expressing emotions............... It's not a good thing I just walk away very quickly......... But still feel used.........

  • @alchemicalsoul
    @alchemicalsoul 7 місяців тому +16

    These people need to stop dating and book a therapist appointment. Stop entertaining unhealed trauma. What's left is your soul connections. If you keep living through biology and psychology, you'll stay stuck in cycles.

    • @lishaw1776
      @lishaw1776 6 місяців тому +2

      Exactly insecure and unsure people need to leave the dating pool it's them tainting the pool a heck of a lot...

  • @candietapia13
    @candietapia13 8 місяців тому +13

    Thank you for the video. It was funny when you freaked out for a moment because you thought you saw a lizard, threatening to burn the house down 😂. Have a great day, chico.

  • @AndreaDutton
    @AndreaDutton 7 місяців тому +4

    Every guy I have been with in a long term relationship I met through friends and we almost immediately became boyfriend/girlfriend. All but one wanted to marry and I dunno… apparently I an a lovable asshole or something bc I freak out and walk away. I did accept a proposal and even had kids with a man I was with for 7 years but I was kind of his caretaker and felt it would be unfair to my kids. I have always been an advocate for fathers and I would love to find a balance between genuine passion and grounded stability for my kiddos. They are happy kids though and it is terrifying in some ways to consider that bringing the wrong guy in at this point could ruin that. So I am single and not really looking but still find these videos useful to keep in mind for later. So bless you for your effervescent and helpful tips!

  • @MindTheBusinessThatPaysYou
    @MindTheBusinessThatPaysYou 7 місяців тому +5

    “I gave the psycho look” 😂 omg. The first thing I thought about was that video where you demonstrated that look. I almost choked on my drink watching 😂😂😂

  • @biaotoch
    @biaotoch 8 місяців тому +5

    2:22 lol that’s funny and actually makes sense

  • @theprettiestyellow
    @theprettiestyellow 7 місяців тому +2

    Love the salt/sugar analogy

  • @indigoglo
    @indigoglo 8 місяців тому +23

    Ur the best ❤🙌
    Besteeessst🎉
    Awe Father Alex. You really are like a father to us ladies who's pops never taught us these lessons .
    We Love You🩷

    • @2009juicyfruit
      @2009juicyfruit 7 місяців тому

      😒.... He's a Teacher Sis. That's it

  • @teanna4569
    @teanna4569 7 місяців тому +2

    It’s easy to slow things down just create some distance which should happen normally anyway

  • @TheHealthyNarcissistTarot
    @TheHealthyNarcissistTarot 5 місяців тому +1

    Yo this is true but i acutely love hanging out with me. Love your excitement and style. Super fun to watch. Get it!!

  • @lucysnowe4271
    @lucysnowe4271 21 день тому

    True. My ex admitted to my friends he really did love me way past when we were broken up. I guess it also applies to potential relationships.

  • @robinfitzgerald6943
    @robinfitzgerald6943 8 місяців тому +13

    Hi everyone. Checking in from the Sip. Mississippi

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 7 місяців тому +6

    😂 Father Alex ; u are the one going too fast .

  • @STAR-LIGHT.1111
    @STAR-LIGHT.1111 6 місяців тому +5

    Never underastimate a good woman 😂 LMAO

  • @Jasmynshawntel
    @Jasmynshawntel 7 місяців тому +2

    So grateful I found your videos!!! Definitely been helping me the last couple days! ❤

  • @FavDogBisquit
    @FavDogBisquit 7 місяців тому +7

    So basically… if you really like them and are warm it’s an issue?!

  • @GG-nm7jw
    @GG-nm7jw 7 місяців тому +4

    Happy international teachers day Dalexis🎉you work so hard for us thank you!!!

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  7 місяців тому +4

      Thank you very much. I appreciate that. I've heard that Mark Rosenfeld got. Wish that Happy teachers Day multiple times. Must be nice

  • @Bb-k4gd
    @Bb-k4gd 7 місяців тому +1

    Haha you are so funny 😂 it’s good to have your perspective on things, even tho I always just act authentically. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @rebeccastute8702
    @rebeccastute8702 4 місяці тому +1

    Oh man I hope that one day you will grow up and stand strong next to a strong woman.

  • @birdy5275
    @birdy5275 7 місяців тому +2

    You’re right

  • @softlife45
    @softlife45 8 місяців тому +147

    She's pretty and?... is she fun, is she smart, does she have a personality, a life a career, hobbies? Just being pretty isn't enough
    That's my thoughts on a man too. He's attractive and? Shouldn't be any different for a woman

    • @thesofiacode6336
      @thesofiacode6336 8 місяців тому +21

      Attractiveness is important … downplaying someone’s beauty won’t make you chosen

    • @softlife45
      @softlife45 7 місяців тому

      ​@@thesofiacode6336 so that's why no one has wifed u . Ur not attractive got it thanks

    • @thesofiacode6336
      @thesofiacode6336 7 місяців тому

      You look like you have big feet

    • @softlife45
      @softlife45 7 місяців тому +7

      ​@@thesofiacode6336 aww I hurt ur feelings with the truth 😂❤.have a wonderful day

    • @thesofiacode6336
      @thesofiacode6336 7 місяців тому +1

      @@softlife45 you listen to Florida. You can’t hurt nobody feelings 🤣

  • @Mary-c1b3s
    @Mary-c1b3s 8 місяців тому +6

    Not the psycho look 😂

  • @cherisew
    @cherisew 8 місяців тому +4

    You are always right on time.

  • @anandanabila8439
    @anandanabila8439 3 місяці тому +1

    I pull completely and stop reacting from now I prefer silence

  • @lucia4836
    @lucia4836 5 місяців тому +3

    Can you make videos on how to meet men offline? I never do and I don’t know how to make eye contact with strangers and stuff

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks, Alexis.

    • @serenedione
      @serenedione 7 місяців тому +1

      His name is definitely not Alexis 😂

  • @Choseforthepurpose
    @Choseforthepurpose 3 місяці тому

    Great video !

  • @ChakrabunnyTarot
    @ChakrabunnyTarot 6 місяців тому

    "Is that a lizard?" 😂😂😂 That was perfectly awesome.

  • @hayyo9138
    @hayyo9138 7 місяців тому +5

    What do you think about Tomisin’s videos ? Do you agree with what he says ? I think you give similar advices

  • @suzannaflores1164
    @suzannaflores1164 8 місяців тому +1

    Well put gracias!

  • @Akash.8470
    @Akash.8470 7 місяців тому +3

    She just like me fr

  • @priyanka3791
    @priyanka3791 2 місяці тому +3

    When i act cold that means im gone, i am moving on. Enough of ur shit

  • @rensii-e8b
    @rensii-e8b 8 місяців тому +9

    Can you or someone elaborate on the when you meet someone online, they usually treat you uglier than you are. Thanks.

    • @sabrinavenuti4812
      @sabrinavenuti4812 7 місяців тому +3

      Cuz there’s hundreds of options. There’s always going to be someone better looking than the girl or guy you’re with

    • @softlife45
      @softlife45 7 місяців тому

      The fact u have to meet someone online already screams ur unattractive. Idk why u can't comprehend that

  • @zainabrose96
    @zainabrose96 3 місяці тому

    Love your vids! I'm addicted, Alex! ❤

  • @AA-ex4gv
    @AA-ex4gv 5 місяців тому +1

    So basically... Love bomb and then stop, so the other person notices it and start missing your validation and you?

  • @SK-no2pp
    @SK-no2pp 8 місяців тому +8

    Alex, how can I bring up wanting consistency or frequency of keeping in touch? I can’t go 4-5 days without any contact from a guy that claims he really likes me. He’s avoidant but idk

    • @theprettiestyellow
      @theprettiestyellow 7 місяців тому +7

      He's not afraid enough to lose you.

    • @Pixidou
      @Pixidou 3 місяці тому

      Same here. I spoke up for myself and now I’m ghosted

    • @SK-no2pp
      @SK-no2pp 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Pixidou well that means they weren’t the person for you. Do you want someone who ghosts just because you speak your truth?

  • @Masterr-life
    @Masterr-life 5 місяців тому +1

    Warm like Teletubbies😂

  • @lexyalejandra95
    @lexyalejandra95 7 місяців тому +1

    You never miss Father Alex 🥺😇

  • @Lelalu84
    @Lelalu84 Місяць тому +2

    Game playing bs. This is nonsense. Just date men instead of boys like this and you will have a healthy relationship. This type of guy is not worth your time.

  • @claire6568
    @claire6568 8 місяців тому +3

    Is Alex reading my mind 👁️👄👁️

  • @ROWDYMIDGETZ
    @ROWDYMIDGETZ 8 місяців тому +3

    Teletubbie 😂

  • @mariearena9961
    @mariearena9961 7 місяців тому +3

    Realizing i have teletubby vibe 😭

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 7 місяців тому

      😂 aw I think it's cute and the right man will love you for it no worries.

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire 8 місяців тому +8

    ...also, Teletubbies gotta go for other sweet Teletubbies...! All those Satans are not our match.

  • @jackiearroyo21
    @jackiearroyo21 7 місяців тому +2

    What do u suggest when he pulls back n just wants to be friends? My guy has his own business n work life is crazy busy, he has cancer n deals with 2 elderly parents, and 1 has Dementia. He still calls, texts, n shows that he still cares. He said it feels like added pressure. Help!!

    • @softlife45
      @softlife45 7 місяців тому +3

      He doesn't like you lol that's his way of rejecting u

    • @yourfutureisnow6480
      @yourfutureisnow6480 7 місяців тому +2

      Added pressure?? Honey, please know your worth.

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 7 місяців тому

      ​@@softlife45 but why is he still calling and texting her? Because he only wants her aa a friend for support?

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 8 місяців тому

    Yes‼️‼️🥶🥶❄️❄️🍦🧊🧊

  • @Reshme77
    @Reshme77 8 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful girl....and? What else?

    • @softlife45
      @softlife45 8 місяців тому +4

      Exactly, what else do they have to offer?

  • @kairosunltd130
    @kairosunltd130 7 місяців тому

    Papa Alex 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿💎💎💎🥰😍

  • @pauladiaz7101
    @pauladiaz7101 7 місяців тому

    Dissatisfied life

  • @rosaryofthecross7149
    @rosaryofthecross7149 7 місяців тому

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 7 місяців тому

    Maybe one of her friend spoke to her or remind her of the past relationships.

  • @rabiyarazaq5070
    @rabiyarazaq5070 8 місяців тому

    😂😂😂

  • @ulfatkhan5750
    @ulfatkhan5750 7 місяців тому +2

    I like watching your videos but you swear a lot. Can you please avoid swearing?

  • @farhiaadeed2227
    @farhiaadeed2227 7 місяців тому +2

    😂😂😂