I used to be taken advantage of too. Why? Very abusive, cruel parents. I had zero confidence. Never had a healthy, balanced relationship. The Bible calls these beliefs, strongholds. Good news is once I recognized that and allowed Jesus to heal & guide me, life has changed exponentially. Great video, Dalexis.
Amen! According to the bible, demons have a legal right to attack you when you agree with them. It's like a contract. People with low self-esteem are constantly agreeing with negative information about themselves. They get exactly what low self belief attracts. So start agreeing with God about who you are! Your confidence will grow & your choices/relationships will be more self loving 🌻
I forgive and love my parents ❤ I forgive and send love to demons who have attacked me ❤ I have alchemized my pain into power ❤ thank you God for the journey ❤ thank you for sharing ❤
Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Just remember that your person (soulmate) would want to be with you, they’d choose you. If someone doesn’t want to be with you, there’s a reason behind it. I hope you can heal from this situation :)
I feel like alot off overly nice people or anxious people never where aloud to show negative emotions in there childhood. Always the lowest in the rang
"I'm literally crying... it's not because I faced it and became a victim, it's because I faced it and came out of it. I have left that environment and those people, and it was not something I could have done alone. It was truly the hand of God that brought me out of that."
I removed the word sorry & replaced it with thank you. Instead of “sorry I was late”. It’s “thank you for waiting”….only use sorry when you have a serious apology to deliver. People will respect that more. And yes RBF totally works.
Girl be forreal. He didn't say you couldn't Apologize when the time is right. He said stop over apologizing . The term you're using will get you fired lol keep it up
@@softlife45😹 Oh I’m totally forreal 😝& I’ve never been fired….Notice I DID say to use the word sorry when it was serious. I’m not talking about someone who is late for work all the time….Even “sorry” isn’t gonna fix that crap. I’m suggesting nuance….not black & white behavior.
@@softlife45You misunderstood my nuanced point. I’m not taking about people who are late for work all the time. “Sorry” won’t even fix that BS behavior lol
That’s extremely sad that people who once have been weak and can sense other peoples weakness won’t respect weak people. Weakness isn’t bad. We’re so conditioned to be strong, when actually it doesn’t mean anything unless you want to live in a world we’re only the fittest survive. Weakness isn’t bad, it’s a sign that someone needs help. Truly strong people I’ll help. They won’t look down on someone’s weakness. What’s wrong with needing help? And why do we seek to be strong all the time? Can we just be okay with weakness? Sometime you’re weak in life. That’s just how it is, and, some of the most beautiful moments are either in weakness or produce some sort of weakness, Can we stop judging it? If you broke your leg that leg is weak. You won’t get it to just magically be strong just because you want it to, and guess what helps healing? Support and protection. Not disrespect, and looking at it like oh you’re such a weak piece of leg, I can’t respect you, You disgust me when that leg actually is working harder than anything else in your body to heal but It’s a process and takes time, protection, rest, acceptance and love. I will never understand this society…
YES THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. You are like one of the few people that actually knows how to love and accept things in life. Thanks for being a smart and loving human!!!
@@softlife45 what if you can’t? What if you’re disabled or elderly? Or have a mental illness from abuse? It’s okay to take advantage of them? Disgusting
@@softlife45 and how do you get a backbone if you supposedly don’t have one? Can you buy them somewhere? Or are you talking about overcompensation from being wounded so much you’re now becoming the very thing that hurt you? And you don’t even know that some unconscious evil is controlling you and your consciousness is split? And you’re hiding your vulnerable aspects in an attempt to appear as something you’re not? ‘Someone strong who has a ‘backbone’ who thinks it’s okay to exploit weak people’ cognitive dissonance much?
@@softlife45 Thinking miss treating others is disgusting. Just because someone has morals don't mean they are weak or picked on just means they are a better person and would not take advantage of someone
“People only respect people who have strength”. “That’s why people don’t respect kids”. “Weak people are dehumanized and taken advantage of”. Why would I learn to play a game when the prize is a manipulative, opportunistic person who takes advantage of people who are smaller and have less power than them? What would happen if I’m ever in a situation where I need to depend on this person? I’d rather be alone.
I’m this girl ur describing. I was in a 19 year abusive relationship. I’m fighting like hell to break out of this behavior. Your channel is helping me sooo much. Thank you ❤
Just THANK YOU this was me so far. Now , I am changing and improving myself for me because i am so sick and tired of myself and the relationships I've been having so far. It is time for me to stop that
This is amazing stuff to listen, wisdom, mind training, attitude. I used hope at least people when they see me weak they will not take advantage of me out of compassion but not everyone is on the level, most people are like animals thus they will walk over you without any consideration.
What happened to her that she feels the need to be this way ? I hate when parents can't see that their children's major issues usually reflect badly on their parents and childhoods
nah but it's not about *never* apologizing ! It is very important to apologize for stuff that one has done wrong, if someone is not willing to do that i'm gone...! Alex is talking about not apologizing multiple times for the same thing or not apologizing for sth that needs no sorry.
Same. I only give out genuine apologies now. If I am truly sorry and I know I’ve done wrong and I know I owe an apology I give it. And then I drop it. But I don’t run around apologizing for everything anymore thank God❤
@makeishainniss2440 this is why no one likes black women. Yall are so ignorant. It's not about NOT apologizing. It's about doing it at the appropriate time then move on. Over apologizing is weak
It’s true. I even see this at work. But what does that make the people that take advantage and take the apologies as a weakness? 🤔 D€m0ns that need to be demolished?
@@Kima89 not in the literal sense jeje i live with my baby’s dad, and emotionally I feel sad everyday and I can’t leave until I fix my health and get a job
Father Alex's commentary contains both helpful and potentially harmful views. Here's a breakdown: Helpful views: - Emphasis on self-awareness and recognizing harmful patterns - Importance of assertive communication and setting boundaries - Need to address underlying trauma and insecurity - Encouragement to develop strength and confidence - Warning against relying too heavily on others for emotional validation Potentially harmful views: - Overly critical tone and language - Labeling people as "weak" or "gullible" - Implying that those who don't set boundaries are "asking" for exploitation - Suggesting that people with trauma or insecurity are "romantics" and "insecure" - Encouraging individuals to "toughen up" without acknowledging systemic issues or privilege Toxic views: - Victim-blaming (implying that individuals are responsible for their own exploitation) - Shaming and judgmental language - Lack of empathy and understanding for those struggling with trauma or insecurity It's important to approach his commentary with a critical eye, recognizing both the helpful advice and the potentially harmful language and implications.
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 AI " assisted" Alex I am still writing from the heart. I love your videos, Love your vulnerability, transparency and Love for learning and growth. I am learning a lot from you and appreciate you.. 🙏🏼❤️ 🕊️
@@MindfulAttraction2.0I am a victim and I do not feel blamed. At some point we have to realize that we get ourselves into these situations and our weakness causes certain people to get drunk with power and learn how to put our guards up more.
This is a great Episode. Would be better if you dropped that vulgar language. What i appreciate about the show is that you wait until the end of the videos to sell and advertise your business. :)
I used to be taken advantage of too. Why? Very abusive, cruel parents. I had zero confidence. Never had a healthy, balanced relationship. The Bible calls these beliefs, strongholds. Good news is once I recognized that and allowed Jesus to heal & guide me, life has changed exponentially. Great video, Dalexis.
Amen! According to the bible, demons have a legal right to attack you when you agree with them. It's like a contract. People with low self-esteem are constantly agreeing with negative information about themselves. They get exactly what low self belief attracts. So start agreeing with God about who you are! Your confidence will grow & your choices/relationships will be more self loving 🌻
I forgive and love my parents ❤ I forgive and send love to demons who have attacked me ❤ I have alchemized my pain into power ❤ thank you God for the journey ❤ thank you for sharing ❤
Wow this video woke me up @mindfulattraction Please help me heal and get strong. ❤
@@Love_7777why are you sending love to demons. Demons are demonic spirits trying to mess up your life by making you believe negatively about yourself
I'm ready to stop being a wimp because I want a long and healthy life!
"You are a bunny. Asking help from hyenas"😂😂😂 can't stop laughing.
You lack social cues.That wasn't meant to be funny.
@@softlife45 and you have no sense of humor.
You always lurking around here making negative comments to people I notice. Sucks to be miserable 😖
Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Just remember that your person (soulmate) would want to be with you, they’d choose you.
If someone doesn’t want to be with you, there’s a reason behind it. I hope you can heal from this situation :)
I feel like alot off overly nice people or anxious people never where aloud to show negative emotions in there childhood. Always the lowest in the rang
Time to grow up and stop blaming your past
Girl, go somewhere. Nobody got time for you
Exactly it's truma not so easy to get over for some people😢
@@katherineharris2354 move on and grow up
"I'm literally crying... it's not because I faced it and became a victim, it's because I faced it and came out of it. I have left that environment and those people, and it was not something I could have done alone. It was truly the hand of God that brought me out of that."
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Yall so weak in these comments I swear
So you can help others,Thank God🙏
Weakness breeds aggression.
It goes both ways.. Some People eventually become s the agresor,.. Other times you just becomes weaker n weaker..
I removed the word sorry & replaced it with thank you.
Instead of “sorry I was late”. It’s “thank you for waiting”….only use sorry when you have a serious apology to deliver. People will respect that more.
And yes RBF totally works.
What’s RBF..?
Girl be forreal. He didn't say you couldn't Apologize when the time is right. He said stop over apologizing . The term you're using will get you fired lol keep it up
@@softlife45😹
Oh I’m totally forreal 😝& I’ve never been fired….Notice I DID say to use the word sorry when it was serious.
I’m not talking about someone who is late for work all the time….Even “sorry” isn’t gonna fix that crap.
I’m suggesting nuance….not black & white behavior.
@@lucky0197Resting “Ditch” Face…When I try to spell it out my comment is deleted 😹😹😹
@@softlife45You misunderstood my nuanced point.
I’m not taking about people who are late for work all the time. “Sorry” won’t even fix that BS behavior lol
That’s extremely sad that people who once have been weak and can sense other peoples weakness won’t respect weak people. Weakness isn’t bad. We’re so conditioned to be strong, when actually it doesn’t mean anything unless you want to live in a world we’re only the fittest survive. Weakness isn’t bad, it’s a sign that someone needs help. Truly strong people I’ll help. They won’t look down on someone’s weakness. What’s wrong with needing help? And why do we seek to be strong all the time? Can we just be okay with weakness? Sometime you’re weak in life. That’s just how it is, and, some of the most beautiful moments are either in weakness or produce some sort of weakness, Can we stop judging it? If you broke your leg that leg is weak. You won’t get it to just magically be strong just because you want it to, and guess what helps healing? Support and protection. Not disrespect, and looking at it like oh you’re such a weak piece of leg, I can’t respect you, You disgust me when that leg actually is working harder than anything else in your body to heal but It’s a process and takes time, protection, rest, acceptance and love. I will never understand this society…
Dude get a backbone
YES THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. You are like one of the few people that actually knows how to love and accept things in life. Thanks for being a smart and loving human!!!
@@softlife45 get a heart
@@softlife45 what if you can’t? What if you’re disabled or elderly? Or have a mental illness from abuse? It’s okay to take advantage of them? Disgusting
@@softlife45 and how do you get a backbone if you supposedly don’t have one? Can you buy them somewhere? Or are you talking about overcompensation from being wounded so much you’re now becoming the very thing that hurt you? And you don’t even know that some unconscious evil is controlling you and your consciousness is split? And you’re hiding your vulnerable aspects in an attempt to appear as something you’re not? ‘Someone strong who has a ‘backbone’ who thinks it’s okay to exploit weak people’ cognitive dissonance much?
I think people that over apologized are very self conscious ,perfectionist and avoids conflict.
This made me cry. I used to do all these things and finally snapped out of it.
I love that little space you have there. The exposed brick and industrial style stairs 😍.
I always say sorry for everything i need to stop
I am very sad for that girl 😢 i guess she could be waching this wherever she is i hope she learnt to love herself and know she is worthy
i;m tired of being disrespected in my job, relationships, and family
I'm sorry you deserve better change your ways stand your ground say no.
Then stop being a punk😂
@@softlife45I think the real punk in this situation is you
Set boundaries with people.
disgusting of people to think it’s okay to take advantage of weak people…
I don't think it's a conscious though it happens on an energetic level
Then stop being weak tf 😂
@@softlife45 Thinking miss treating others is disgusting. Just because someone has morals don't mean they are weak or picked on just means they are a better person and would not take advantage of someone
@@bunnyboo6295shut up and get a backbone
@bunnyboo6295 get a backbone
Princess Diana kinda had that body language :(
It takes a while to change body language from weak to strong. It's not an on-off switch. Takes time and practice.
“People only respect people who have strength”. “That’s why people don’t respect kids”. “Weak people are dehumanized and taken advantage of”. Why would I learn to play a game when the prize is a manipulative, opportunistic person who takes advantage of people who are smaller and have less power than them? What would happen if I’m ever in a situation where I need to depend on this person? I’d rather be alone.
Yeah what the actual fuck
You are a great man Alex, you’ve grown so much. I love your compassionate side, how you help your friends 🥰 ✨And honest advice to protect WOMEN💫
I’m this girl ur describing. I was in a 19 year abusive relationship. I’m fighting like hell to break out of this behavior. Your channel is helping me sooo much. Thank you ❤
THIS one seems like the epitome/heart of your podcast/message to the world/purpose/gift/ministry and coaching! Well done🏆
I can relate to a lot of things mentioned in this video. I thought maybe I was autistic but maybe I was actually just traumatized.
I like how you genuinely care about women ❤
This is great. I love how you integrate psychology behind people’s actions.
Just THANK YOU this was me so far. Now , I am changing and improving myself for me because i am so sick and tired of myself and the relationships I've been having so far. It is time for me to stop that
This is amazing stuff to listen, wisdom, mind training, attitude. I used hope at least people when they see me weak they will not take advantage of me out of compassion but not everyone is on the level, most people are like animals thus they will walk over you without any consideration.
aawh i really like you for your compassion here ☺
Damn this came just in time. Thank you for sharing ❤
Aww she’s just a baby ❤ protect her at all cost
What a way you have with words! Thank you for these videos
Thanks for being vulnerable and speaking out
My daughter (27) tries to do this to me. When she was younger I let it slide but, now I stand up for myself and she plays victim and gives excuses
Good for you keep standing up for yourself!! 💗
What happened to her that she feels the need to be this way ? I hate when parents can't see that their children's major issues usually reflect badly on their parents and childhoods
Yeah if u have any form of mental illness ptsd bipolar borderline its hard
Yeah because most humans are horrible people
Thank you, Father ❤
😀 sounds like he really is the priest
@@CeciledeLuirelol he's a Virgo which means he's a hermit.... hermit/ priest.... same thing lolll
@@nadinemiranda hahaha ; )
@@nadinemirandau using these weird zodiac is why u get treated like trash it's weird
Thank you Father Alexis 🙏🏽🫡
Great video Dalexis
Dude your helping me out here sh*** I’m so happy for this
People over apologise because they were criticised their entire childhood
I stopped apologizing a long time now.
nah but it's not about *never* apologizing ! It is very important to apologize for stuff that one has done wrong, if someone is not willing to do that i'm gone...! Alex is talking about not apologizing multiple times for the same thing or not apologizing for sth that needs no sorry.
Same. I only give out genuine apologies now. If I am truly sorry and I know I’ve done wrong and I know I owe an apology I give it. And then I drop it. But I don’t run around apologizing for everything anymore thank God❤
I get what you are saying no I can apologize for the big things, but the little repetitive apologies I have stopped.
@@makeishainniss2440 okay sure, then you're fine 🙂
@makeishainniss2440 this is why no one likes black women. Yall are so ignorant. It's not about NOT apologizing. It's about doing it at the appropriate time then move on. Over apologizing is weak
Why would you become a hyena then? When you were once weak and knew how horrible it was why would you become like them?you should wake up instead.
This is why u stay getting punked lol
@@softlife45 people punk themselves by treating others like that. Truly strong people don’t take advantage of weakness. If they do they’re weak
What are all these new places you’ve been recording in ??
Very important message
This information is gold
This place is so pretty
Hey! alex make some videos on office behaviour and controlling people socially.
You become amaizing 👌👌 thnks for all the info
I love it 😅 everything you say makes sense
Your hair lovely and hilarious 😆
I love the Zebra example. 🦓
It’s true. I even see this at work. But what does that make the people that take advantage and take the apologies as a weakness? 🤔 D€m0ns that need to be demolished?
Narcissists psychopaths sociopaths Machiavellian the dark triad
You are an amazing person
The body language 🤣🤣 I'm screaming
You lack social cues. That wasn't meant to be funny
@@Kima89 take it up with your dead granny boo 💀
Oh I am already in hell and like you said I feel so debilitated
Why are you in hell?
@@Kima89 not in the literal sense jeje i live with my baby’s dad, and emotionally I feel sad everyday and I can’t leave until I fix my health and get a job
The thumbnail hahaha screams listen up Alysia’s!
Why would you borrow $ from a woman
Being romantic is weak? That's some really screwed up thinking. You can be firm with boundaries around people yet have your rose colored glasses on.
OMG . This vídeo is about me 😭
…this feels to personal 😂
Hi!!
Thank you❤
He knows whats hes talking about
Hmm…. I have some of these traits
I respect kids
Thankyou🙏💙💙💙💓
Omggggggg he fucking died!!! 😆
I say sorry cause i just want tou to know i am , why are two little words so serious 😢❤
Super true
Thank you
What city do you live in Alex?
Real
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Father Alex's commentary contains both helpful and potentially harmful views. Here's a breakdown:
Helpful views:
- Emphasis on self-awareness and recognizing harmful patterns
- Importance of assertive communication and setting boundaries
- Need to address underlying trauma and insecurity
- Encouragement to develop strength and confidence
- Warning against relying too heavily on others for emotional validation
Potentially harmful views:
- Overly critical tone and language
- Labeling people as "weak" or "gullible"
- Implying that those who don't set boundaries are "asking" for exploitation
- Suggesting that people with trauma or insecurity are "romantics" and "insecure"
- Encouraging individuals to "toughen up" without acknowledging systemic issues or privilege
Toxic views:
- Victim-blaming (implying that individuals are responsible for their own exploitation)
- Shaming and judgmental language
- Lack of empathy and understanding for those struggling with trauma or insecurity
It's important to approach his commentary with a critical eye, recognizing both the helpful advice and the potentially harmful language and implications.
What in the AI is this
Oh very interesting 🤔
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 AI " assisted" Alex I am still writing from the heart. I love your videos, Love your vulnerability, transparency and Love for learning and growth. I am learning a lot from you and appreciate you.. 🙏🏼❤️ 🕊️
@@MindfulAttraction2.0I am a victim and I do not feel blamed. At some point we have to realize that we get ourselves into these situations and our weakness causes certain people to get drunk with power and learn how to put our guards up more.
@@clouddancer46 dude shut up and get a backbone
I just wonder what happened to your hair.
Hey
Oh, hey Melissa 😒
🤣🤣🤣🤣@@MindfulAttraction2.0
I use to be that way not now though@@MindfulAttraction2.0
@@MindfulAttraction2.0😂😂😂 I’m dead
😂😂😂😂😂 Where's Tyrone at
Because they are Afraid to be alone Wtf you are not correct about everyone in that situation most so they have a choice to leave
Very triggering
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This is a great Episode. Would be better if you dropped that vulgar language. What i appreciate about the show is that you wait until the end of the videos to sell and advertise your business. :)
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I love this man
A L E X . 💪😍
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