Yes, the instant switching between cutesee, toddler, crying voice to adult accusatory voice, wasn't sincere either. Even with all that, I was on her side when the text messages from the mother were read. She CHOSE to get pregnant by a pdf?? Wtf, parents are supposed to protect their underage children. That was a vile and vicious, blame shift... so I can see how the daughter has become this 'victimy'.
The person I feel the most sorry for is the 12 year old son. The mother throws it in the grandmother's face that she is responsible for her terrible life because she didn't allow her to abort or adopt him out...WOW! My heart aches for him. I couldn't imagine how it is for him at that house
Imagine in a couple of years if/when he/his friends find this video, poor baby, it's going to tear him to pieces :( most likely he already knows part of it tho, kids aren't dumb, they know when their parents are faking it/forcing their behavior.
She sat there crying about how her mom never gave her the care she needed regarding her autism, then fully admitted to calling her mom when her son acts out saying "you need to come get him, I'm DONE" and how she doesn't have enough time to give her son the things he NEEDS for his autism. She blamed her mom multiple times for not letting her abort or adopt out her kid!? She said it so flippantly, too, so u know she's done it MANY times before, love how she had money for that god awful wig but couldn't pay $30 a month for the phone she says she NEEDS!? What a perpetual victim. The judge saying your still her mom and u should know better and it's still ur job to take care of her, like wtf!? NO she's an adult and at a certain point it's no longer her job to bail her daughter out of any and every bit of trouble and it's especially not her job to care for her daughters kid simply because she "wouldn't let me abort or adopt out the kid. The entitlement of the daughter saying "well it IS ur fault my life us a mess and ya I CAN blame u 🙄 what a brat, I bet the reason she always calls her mom to deal with her out of control child is because her mom is FAR better at giving that child the care, authority & structure he needs for his autism. I don't buy all the fake crying & it only shows how entitled she is & how she manipulates everyone around her to give ĥer what she wants, it's completely disgusting for her to talk so openly about how she didn't want her son. She made the decision to not listen to her mom about the creep she was sleeping with and she got pregnant because of it, then of course the creep wanted nothing to do with her or the kid which I'm sure her mom warned her about but she was too busy trying to rebel to have some GD sense and now she's blaming her mom for her poorly thought out life, love that she cried to her "friends" that her mom was never there for her but then by her own admission sends her kid away to her mommy because she cant handle being an adult 🤡 I feel so bad for this kid.
@@nekoabernathy9831 Also, mom can't force her not to put him up for adoption if she's over the age of 18. She would just rather go and cosplay than be a parent.
@punkgaopher even if she was 16 or 17 she's still legally the child's mom & able to make that decision on her own, the only reason she listened to her mom & kept the baby was because the father of the baby left her so she had no where to go, she was a spoiled a$$ teen who didn't want to get a job & have to deal with being an adult, so she let her mom decide because she thought that meant her mom would raise the baby & she wouldn't have to do any work whatsoever. This theory is further backed up by the texts where she's telling her mom "you made me keep the baby so ya my life being ruined IS ur fault & I can blame u" plus the fact she added "you promised you'd ALWAYS help me" she's an overgrown spoiled baby who's too selfish to think about anyone else's needs, wants, or trauma but her own. All she kept talking about was her "struggles" & how her mom owed it to her to give her whatever she wanted. She pretended to cry over the fact that her bad behavior as a kid (which, of course, was because of everyone else) took her mom away from her siblings but is STILL doing that, she's not sorry, or guilty or apologetic she's faking all that to get what she wants like a toddler throwing a tantrum because that's what she's done her whole life & it worked with the judge because she got the sympathy she wanted & the judge reprimanded her mom for not mothering her ADULT daughter.
19:11 “you should’ve thought about that before allowing a pedophile to get you pregnant”….. that’s from the mother. I think that woman was raped and her mother didn’t care.
She can buy hair dye and get (at least one) tattoo though. She needs to grow up and get her priorities straight. I can imagine in another 8 years her son taking her to court and telling the judge what a F'd up life she gave him.
@@curiousnarwhalThat doesn't really matter to what Britty said. All a private company means is that the shares aren't available for purchase on a stock exchange.
Yes it can, my Facebook is set to private, literally the only people that can see anything on my page are friends. The fact that my friends can see what, if anything, I post doesn't mean it's not private.
Right she had an excuse for literally everything. The whole she ruined my life for making me have a baby. Girl bye u wasnt worried bout him being an adult when u was giving him some bow all of a sudden an adult took advantage of u. Girl he was 22 and u were 17/18 u were a willing participant. And it's obvious she was by the way the mom was making her own up to her responsibility. The only person that ruin her life was her and the nerve of her to think other wise is crazy. She need to put her big girl panties on and get her shit together. And how u gon be a behavioral therapist but can't control ur own kid. Lies
Right! Her sister isn't even involved with her owing money for a phone yet she's on TV accusing her of some mess. Classic deflection on trying to be a victim and running her mouth to get out of paying her bills. What a bum..smh...
THE DEFENDANT IS OUT OF LINE SHE SHOULD'VE PD HER MOTHER. SHE PUT BS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO GAIN SYMPATHY KNOWING IT'LL GET BK TO HER MOTHER THE PERSON SHE CALLS SMDH
I worked with therapists for years and many definitely should not be therapists. Blind leading the blind. Many haven’t worked on themselves let alone be able to help people
Not a psychotherapist. A behaviour therapist. They do stuff like learning how to take turns, how to categorize shapes, how to sit in a chair. Preschool skills.
Seriously. I bought my phone used for $300 six years ago. Still works perfectly. Even when I upgrade, it'll be another used phone and no where NEAR 1,100.
It's because there's way more to the story, it's probably not the first time this kid has acted out and he probably throws fits like a toddler only a 2 year old does FAR less damage then a 12 year old boy. I have a LOT of knowledge and experience in special needs children, my sister is special needs and for years I was her in school aide so I spent whole school days in special needs classes and the teachers needing my help, later as I grew up I studied medicine, child development and mental illnesses in adolescents, unfortunately my physical disabilities and chronic illnesses kept me from actually getting a degree. Anyway in my experience parents of special needs children usually do 1 of 2 things, they either completely coddle the child and the child can do no wrong or the other situation(which I suspect this mom does) is they believe the child isn't capable of learning whatsoever. Special needs children are far more capable then their parents believe and no matter how much you tell them they can't be bothered to teach their kid right from wrong, I remember a lot of the kids saying how they wish they were just treated like any other kid, they want to learn, they want to be social, they want to be punished if they do something wrong, and most of all they just want the same child experience that any other kid would get. In this case I'm betting the kid is violent and screams as loud as possible, hitting the mom, kicking, throwing themselves around and even making threats of jumping out the car window, it's because she's not bothered to teach him properly that she "can't take it anymore" im also betting granny treats him like any other kid and he listens to her that's why she always called her mom to come and take the child. Mom 100% seems like a perpetual victim who uses her autism as an excuse to be horrible bet she guilt tripped mom at any opportunity, probably stayed with that pervert because it made her mom mad and she wanted to get back at her. I just hope someone in that little boys life cares enough to get him the therapy and learning assistance he NEEDS
What stunned me the most, was her admission of career. She works as a behavioural therapist for children with Autism - "a practitioner who helps people overcome unwanted or unhealthy behaviours"... when she clearly has not got those fundamental skills in her own life. I hope any parent watching this that has their children under her care, imediatelty removes them. She is displaying unhealthy mentality to past trauma and has clearly demonstrated her morality in regards to financial situations.
An adult with autism has far knowledge on the subject.Its no different than a psychiatrist having a mental health issue when most do.They tend to make the best ones.You don’t have to have your own life perfect to know what to do for others.If she had received the right treatment and not pt n a psychiatric hospital I’m sure she would be a lot more stable
@@emilysjones9746 I never mentioned her having autism being a reason she should not have that job. I simply felt that due to her actions on the show and her actions on social media, that she doesn’t have the fundamental skills needed for such an important role. She works with children; Children with autism. Her role is to help and guide these children through the trails and tribulations of life. One she has not mastered and appears to still display poor judgement. There is nothing wrong with wanting people in these roles to be held to a high standard, regardless of whether they have mental health issues. Also… cause you really annoyed me with your reply. Autism is a spectrum. Having autism doesn’t mean you understand or can relate to every single person on the spectrum. My only request for any professional working as a mental health advocate, psychiatrist or therapist is that regardless of their own diagnosis, that they are fit for their role.
I worked as a nurse and often spoke out on D.V and said "you don't have to tolerate tht to patients" and went home and was a church mouse out of fear of violence from my now ex-husband I was a great advocate for others but couldn't advocate for myself but I didn't bring a child into the situation for a variety of issues ( it was o k I be tortured but not a helpless child) it's classic medical field issues the pulmonary dr smokes the anti addiction specialist is addicted to opiods etc
@@gouhle2 completely agree with this, I know the comments are saying about DV, I won’t speak on that at all, What the comment is saying is that she has issues in morality and airing dirty laundry, I agree I wouldn’t want my impressionable child with a mentor who has a malicious streak like this, who doesn’t feel remorse screwing over their family and is always pointing the finger at the parent, she should not be guiding people when some people need to take responsibility and accountability themselves
Yep! She needs to realize her mom will not be around forever & everything she depends on her for, she will have to deal with herself (or seek outside help).
The defended is such an actor. “Poor me” She’s the victim in everything. It’s everyone’s else’s fault. Hate people like her. Take some accountability in your dang life!!
came to the comments to see the victim comments about the defendant after her first sentence…. “what behavior problems does your son have?” “autism, adhd, & WE BOTH HAVE PTSD DUE TO PHYSICAL ABUSE” ….she didn’t ask about you lady….knew she was a professional victim from her first sentence; people like her are the worst her wiping away tears that aren’t there is priceless
The defendant's memory is just fine when it comes to remembering the excuses for her lousy attitude and irresponsibility. She is immoral and thinks that's okay. Her "tears" went away rather quickly. 17:24 Social media is a support system? Really? Not working apparently nor should it replace reality. Her therapist should be arrested for impersonating a therapist.
It's a support system in the since that they all lap up her BS, validate her clearly crazy self with the go queens, yes queens, you're strong queen. No one tells her anything negative and I'm betting if they try she says their toxic and cuts them off. So she surrounds herself with people that will help her stay a victim
Don’t you know that the thing now it’s in trend. Poor me I’m so held down, poor me, feel bad for me look don’t you see my tears, I’m so weak. 🤷🏽♀️ yes sad I know
@@lee4094 I agree. It's weird and people think it's some kind of flex ( it's not)at whoever is MORE of a victim. She may have wanted people to see tears with all of her supposed "crying" but I'm still waiting just to see one drop..lol..smh.
I have a child with severe behavioral issues and this mother needs community/state intervention for her son. She shouldn’t be expected to care for him on her own. My adopted son has required daily in-home services, an education from a school for behaviorally challenged children, in-patient psychiatric hospitalizations, on campus boarding school for behaviorally challenged children, multiple psychiatric medication regimens, multiple counseling providers, and police interventions. I pray the Mom has sought help for her & her child!! 🙏🏻
Parents aren't the only influence on their children. They play a significant role in their development, but there's other outside influences that can shape a person's character.
She had all the cards! Autism and has an autistic child, PTSD, mother institutionalised her, gay, various health issues - did I miss any? She just kept adding to her list.
When I heard “the phone was a guilt gift from her mother for all the terrible things she’s done to her in her life” I knew she was just going to be a professional victim and not take responsibility for her actions.
It never ceases to amaze me how people post information about their personal lives on social media for everyone to see! Your personal lives are nobody's business but your own, people.
With this nutjob that would be ....Never. Society has made it very easy for people to act this way. It's time we started calling people out on their craziness and false accusations.
Never. Babies have to latch on to mommy's tit forever and ever. It is logical. 31 year olds need mommy to pay all their bills and raise their children.
I have a rule- I don’t lend family money. If I have it and I decide to give it to them that’s it, it’s over. This keeps drama and lawsuits away. Parents suing their own kids is ridiculous and shows you don’t have a good trusting relationship. If you don’t want to help them, say no. But don’t do it knowing they are financially strapped and having difficulties and then take them to court ruining whatever thread of a relationship you have left. These parents are azzholes and knew she wouldn’t be able to complete this deal they made. They knew it full well.
Mom if your daughter has not learned to pay off her debts by now, she never will. There is more to this than just the phone. Seems like a toxic relationship between mom and daughter! If money is an issue don’t get the $1100 phone get the cheap one.
She was 17… she can’t even consent at the age wtf Is wrong with you? And most places you need a parents permission to abort and she wouldnt let her Phyxkin weirdo
12:00 oh!!! That makes more sense. The mom told her to have a child the daughter didn’t want. I bet any amount of money the mom told her “god wanted that way and I will help you” and that why the daughter calls the mom when she can’t handle raising the kid. I mean going after your daughter for $380 does not make sense to me.
She wants to know what actually happened between the family. Sometimes it's not about the actual case. Sometimes it's about what's really going on. In people's lives and people will bring up silly things to sue about when the bigger issue is emotional
If you look at how long this case is, it is not your typical 10 to 15 minutes. This one is unedited, but the usual ones are highly edited just so that they get to the facts of the case and the juicy parts. But now that the show is canceled, they're going to try to squeeze everything out of the footage that they already have.
Knowing the mother didn't deny any of the statements the daughter made about her past and her making the comment about needing more attention at 2, I tend to believe the daughter. Seriously, what mother complains about what a child does at 2 when they are now almost 30? Does the daughter have issues, yes, but the mother definitely caused majority of these problems. The idea of suing your daughter over 400 bucks is just nuts. Knowing her boyfriend is currently paying her bills, what in your right mind thinks that she will be able to pay this additional bill?
I couldn't believe it when she complained that her daughter had been trouble since she was 2. The mum is blaming a toddler for being a handful?! Wtf?! And all this escalated because the daughter had the audacity to ask her mum for help. What does mum do? Suggest daughter calls the cops on her 12 year old son! The mum is a piece of work who clearly didn't want children. Abaolute disgrace.
Actually her mom did raise her Hand to try to dispute but by the time it came they had already moved on. I don't think the mother was perfect but I definitely think the daughter over exaggerates to make herself more of a victim. She's clearly only telling things she think will give her victim points while leaving out her actions. Just because kids are kids doesn't mean they are easy always easy to handle and doesn't mean it won't get worse with time as they learn to manipulate more. Her mom could've said something as simple as I have been paying more attention to you since you were two without any malice but because the daughter is intent on being a victim with many ailments that coincidentally bring out empathy in people, she could've taken that statement the worst way possible without giving mother any grace or understanding.
I can't believe a daughter would bash her mother on social media. When her mother was paying for a phone plan and the daughter only had to pay $30 a month for the payment of the phone. Actions have consequences. For the daughter and the mother in this case.
Mother complained about she had to deal with her as a 2 year old ???? Yes, of course, she was your child. You had her. Toddlers and kids are work, but also great blessings. Miss when my children were toddlers. Tough, but so rich having them .
I watched this for 23mins and i have YET to see a tear drop smh I am wowed that the judge fell for this I juat pray they get it together as mother n daughter
I think what children need to understand is that any help over the age of 18 is help and isn't required. Any help you get after 18 you shouldn't be expected and should be appreciative of.
Now that I'm an adult !! I feel so bad for my poor mother putting up with my shit 😂 I now feel I have to compensate her for all the hard work !! But we both help each other when we can ❤️🙏
That's if parents did their job before 18. If parents were crap, then the adults are going to be crap, and your reasoning that people just become magically "mature" at age 18 is idiocy.
Some of the best therapists have been on the receiving side themselves. It's a lot easier to connect to some people if they've been through the same thing you have. In fact, lots of clients prefer to see someone who knows firsthand what they're going through. Having a mental illness doesn't make you incompetent.
She's not a mental health therapist. She said on the show that she was a behavioral therapist with children with autism. In the comments, she said she was a behavioral technician.
EVERYTHING in writing. ESPECIALLY between family. Or just write it off as a loss. If they are repaid, nice! But if not... it was already written off so no loss.
Such a sad family situation. Wishing all of them more healing, peace and kindness, and dare I say maturity (growing up)? And for anyone claiming ptsd, etc., I truly hope they seek and get good help to move past it. Life is precious and much TOO SHORT to spend it all in a victimlike state. Wishing everyone very well, much happiness, love and all the best. 💜
My daughter had a baby at 17 and is now 31 and a mother of two. Hard working, loving and doesn't whine and use her family and put them down or play the victim. This chick is ridiculous. So self centered.
Why do they never think about getting a prepaid plan?? They ALWAYS HAVE to be put on their phone plans and have to pay either for the line or the phone. If they couldn't afford it before, what makes you think because they're on your phone plan they will now?? Just about every major carrier has a prepaid plan.
Shit they give out smartphones w paid minutes, txt and data if ur on any kind of assistance like foodstamp, wic ect. Literal homeless people that have slept outside for years have phones these days.
* Not to mention, she was just paying monthly for the phone. Which means Mom has been paying for the service (which is more expensive ) this whole time. I’m sick of people using their “disabilities, PTSD” as an excuse to behave badly then use it again as a shield so no one can call them out on their BS
When the mom said: she had a kid, she should be able to take care of it as an adult, that bothered me. There's obviously a lot of baggage in that family but it felt unneccessarily harsh.
The daughter has an excuse or a victim incident for everything in her life. Victim mentality- poor me, poor my child, poor everything and one else is the reason for her wrong doings.
Have you ptsd?Do you know the impact it has on you? Have you a child who has autism and adhd and going through puberty? Maybe key your judgmental attitude to yourself.Her mother is awful in the way she described her grandchild.He doesn’t have behavioural issues,he has a disability that by the sounds of it isn’t being treated in the right way.I get so annoyed with people ignorance in neurological disorders.her mother sectioning her at 12 instead of getting a diagnosis and the appropriate treatment for Asd.Also her mother condoned and made it continue a relationship with an adult.She may have been 17 but if you know anything about autism you will know it affects the persons development and brain.They are never going to be their true age in their brain development and are super vulnerable people who need help in making adult decisions.
@emilysjones9746 dogs and fish and gerbils can be trained so stop the disabled crap mental problems is not an excuse for bad behavior the daughter isn't disciplined and is not raising the child right
@emilysjones9746 stop making excuses for that victim. The grandmother didn't say anything disrespectful about her grandson. Children with those disabilities can have behavioral issues! And you have no idea what took place to have her sectioned!
People who do all that “crying” but don’t shed a single tear really irritate me.
Was going to say same thing, all that crying but not a single tear..
@@RoniMontcalm The fakeness of it all😂😂
Crocodile tears. Fake fake fake
😂 I checked the Comments for exactly what you said. Not one tear was shed.
Yes, the instant switching between cutesee, toddler, crying voice to adult accusatory voice, wasn't sincere either.
Even with all that, I was on her side when the text messages from the mother were read. She CHOSE to get pregnant by a pdf?? Wtf, parents are supposed to protect their underage children. That was a vile and vicious, blame shift... so I can see how the daughter has become this 'victimy'.
The person I feel the most sorry for is the 12 year old son. The mother throws it in the grandmother's face that she is responsible for her terrible life because she didn't allow her to abort or adopt him out...WOW! My heart aches for him. I couldn't imagine how it is for him at that house
Imagine in a couple of years if/when he/his friends find this video, poor baby, it's going to tear him to pieces :( most likely he already knows part of it tho, kids aren't dumb, they know when their parents are faking it/forcing their behavior.
She sat there crying about how her mom never gave her the care she needed regarding her autism, then fully admitted to calling her mom when her son acts out saying "you need to come get him, I'm DONE" and how she doesn't have enough time to give her son the things he NEEDS for his autism.
She blamed her mom multiple times for not letting her abort or adopt out her kid!? She said it so flippantly, too, so u know she's done it MANY times before, love how she had money for that god awful wig but couldn't pay $30 a month for the phone she says she NEEDS!? What a perpetual victim.
The judge saying your still her mom and u should know better and it's still ur job to take care of her, like wtf!? NO she's an adult and at a certain point it's no longer her job to bail her daughter out of any and every bit of trouble and it's especially not her job to care for her daughters kid simply because she "wouldn't let me abort or adopt out the kid. The entitlement of the daughter saying "well it IS ur fault my life us a mess and ya I CAN blame u 🙄 what a brat, I bet the reason she always calls her mom to deal with her out of control child is because her mom is FAR better at giving that child the care, authority & structure he needs for his autism. I don't buy all the fake crying & it only shows how entitled she is & how she manipulates everyone around her to give ĥer what she wants, it's completely disgusting for her to talk so openly about how she didn't want her son. She made the decision to not listen to her mom about the creep she was sleeping with and she got pregnant because of it, then of course the creep wanted nothing to do with her or the kid which I'm sure her mom warned her about but she was too busy trying to rebel to have some GD sense and now she's blaming her mom for her poorly thought out life, love that she cried to her "friends" that her mom was never there for her but then by her own admission sends her kid away to her mommy because she cant handle being an adult 🤡 I feel so bad for this kid.
@@nekoabernathy9831 Also, mom can't force her not to put him up for adoption if she's over the age of 18.
She would just rather go and cosplay than be a parent.
@punkgaopher even if she was 16 or 17 she's still legally the child's mom & able to make that decision on her own, the only reason she listened to her mom & kept the baby was because the father of the baby left her so she had no where to go, she was a spoiled a$$ teen who didn't want to get a job & have to deal with being an adult, so she let her mom decide because she thought that meant her mom would raise the baby & she wouldn't have to do any work whatsoever.
This theory is further backed up by the texts where she's telling her mom "you made me keep the baby so ya my life being ruined IS ur fault & I can blame u" plus the fact she added "you promised you'd ALWAYS help me" she's an overgrown spoiled baby who's too selfish to think about anyone else's needs, wants, or trauma but her own. All she kept talking about was her "struggles" & how her mom owed it to her to give her whatever she wanted.
She pretended to cry over the fact that her bad behavior as a kid (which, of course, was because of everyone else) took her mom away from her siblings but is STILL doing that, she's not sorry, or guilty or apologetic she's faking all that to get what she wants like a toddler throwing a tantrum because that's what she's done her whole life & it worked with the judge because she got the sympathy she wanted & the judge reprimanded her mom for not mothering her ADULT daughter.
Thats weird bc you dont me...at all 😂😂 go off tho @nekoabernathy9831
Maaaaaan when Douglas smiles the sun comes out, birds sing, skies are blue, it’s a breezy 72 degrees and all is right in the world. 😂
I caught his little side smile, too. Made my day X
but no 'Thank you Douglas' doesn't feel like People's Court
That's racist!
@@namnack🤔
@@namnack😂😂😂 Get outta here with that nonsense!
This daughter is not fooling me…. She is full of you know what. She has learned to play the system and play victim
19:11 “you should’ve thought about that before allowing a pedophile to get you pregnant”….. that’s from the mother. I think that woman was raped and her mother didn’t care.
She works 3 jobs but can't pay a $30 phone bill??
She can pay... Just don't want to
Not her priority
She can buy hair dye and get (at least one) tattoo though. She needs to grow up and get her priorities straight. I can imagine in another 8 years her son taking her to court and telling the judge what a F'd up life she gave him.
@@rubyfisch5077I think that’s a wig
Right! Make it make sense
Judge Judy would’ve told the defendant “I DONT BELIEVE YA ! NEXT “😂😂
Then why aren’t you watching Judge Judy instead of Judge Milian?
Not only I don’t believe you, but…Pay the lady.
“Private” & “Facebook” can’t be used in the same sentence..
Yes it can
Facebook was a private company until it held an IPO in 2012.
@@curiousnarwhalThat doesn't really matter to what Britty said. All a private company means is that the shares aren't available for purchase on a stock exchange.
Yes it can, my Facebook is set to private, literally the only people that can see anything on my page are friends. The fact that my friends can see what, if anything, I post doesn't mean it's not private.
Neither can the plaintiff coming on a court room tv show and airing out every little private problem.. what is worse? Lol.
Girl bye pay that lady, nobody’s buying that victim story. This is ridiculous
Do you know her personally? 🤔
Do you?
I’m buying it. Mom is garbage.
Right she had an excuse for literally everything.
The whole she ruined my life for making me have a baby. Girl bye u wasnt worried bout him being an adult when u was giving him some bow all of a sudden an adult took advantage of u. Girl he was 22 and u were 17/18 u were a willing participant. And it's obvious she was by the way the mom was making her own up to her responsibility. The only person that ruin her life was her and the nerve of her to think other wise is crazy. She need to put her big girl panties on and get her shit together.
And how u gon be a behavioral therapist but can't control ur own kid. Lies
@@basicimagemarketing6499 what is she a victim of?
Airing your family's dirty laundry for nearly $400 is ridiculous.
Right! Her sister isn't even involved with her owing money for a phone yet she's on TV accusing her of some mess. Classic deflection on trying to be a victim and running her mouth to get out of paying her bills. What a bum..smh...
She didn't air. Her daughter did.
in the mothers eyes this was already aired to the world through the post, I am sure they have both learned something from this experience.
Agreed!
THE DEFENDANT IS OUT OF LINE SHE SHOULD'VE PD HER MOTHER. SHE PUT BS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO GAIN SYMPATHY KNOWING IT'LL GET BK TO HER MOTHER THE PERSON SHE CALLS SMDH
She’s a therapist? I can’t 😂
A therapist for kids with autism but can’t deal with her own kid with autism. #insane
I worked with therapists for years and many definitely should not be therapists. Blind leading the blind. Many haven’t worked on themselves let alone be able to help people
Not a psychotherapist. A behaviour therapist. They do stuff like learning how to take turns, how to categorize shapes, how to sit in a chair. Preschool skills.
I would never want this woman as a therapist
Most are like this 💀
I will never understand how someone with no phone get the privilege of picking one of the most expensive phone they can get .. smh mind blowing!
Seriously. I bought my phone used for $300 six years ago. Still works perfectly. Even when I upgrade, it'll be another used phone and no where NEAR 1,100.
America
Better get a Trac Phone and keep it moving 😂
@@Fribee83exactly!!!
The privilege is her mom.
To be fair, it is really weird the mom tells her to just call the cops on her 12 yo grandson..
I mean what is she supposed to do?
It's because there's way more to the story, it's probably not the first time this kid has acted out and he probably throws fits like a toddler only a 2 year old does FAR less damage then a 12 year old boy.
I have a LOT of knowledge and experience in special needs children, my sister is special needs and for years I was her in school aide so I spent whole school days in special needs classes and the teachers needing my help, later as I grew up I studied medicine, child development and mental illnesses in adolescents, unfortunately my physical disabilities and chronic illnesses kept me from actually getting a degree.
Anyway in my experience parents of special needs children usually do 1 of 2 things, they either completely coddle the child and the child can do no wrong or the other situation(which I suspect this mom does) is they believe the child isn't capable of learning whatsoever. Special needs children are far more capable then their parents believe and no matter how much you tell them they can't be bothered to teach their kid right from wrong, I remember a lot of the kids saying how they wish they were just treated like any other kid, they want to learn, they want to be social, they want to be punished if they do something wrong, and most of all they just want the same child experience that any other kid would get. In this case I'm betting the kid is violent and screams as loud as possible, hitting the mom, kicking, throwing themselves around and even making threats of jumping out the car window, it's because she's not bothered to teach him properly that she "can't take it anymore" im also betting granny treats him like any other kid and he listens to her that's why she always called her mom to come and take the child. Mom 100% seems like a perpetual victim who uses her autism as an excuse to be horrible bet she guilt tripped mom at any opportunity, probably stayed with that pervert because it made her mom mad and she wanted to get back at her.
I just hope someone in that little boys life cares enough to get him the therapy and learning assistance he NEEDS
@@nekoabernathy9831very well put.
What stunned me the most, was her admission of career. She works as a behavioural therapist for children with Autism - "a practitioner who helps people overcome unwanted or unhealthy behaviours"... when she clearly has not got those fundamental skills in her own life. I hope any parent watching this that has their children under her care, imediatelty removes them. She is displaying unhealthy mentality to past trauma and has clearly demonstrated her morality in regards to financial situations.
An adult with autism has far knowledge on the subject.Its no different than a psychiatrist having a mental health issue when most do.They tend to make the best ones.You don’t have to have your own life perfect to know what to do for others.If she had received the right treatment and not pt n a psychiatric hospital I’m sure she would be a lot more stable
@@emilysjones9746 I never mentioned her having autism being a reason she should not have that job. I simply felt that due to her actions on the show and her actions on social media, that she doesn’t have the fundamental skills needed for such an important role. She works with children; Children with autism. Her role is to help and guide these children through the trails and tribulations of life. One she has not mastered and appears to still display poor judgement. There is nothing wrong with wanting people in these roles to be held to a high standard, regardless of whether they have mental health issues.
Also… cause you really annoyed me with your reply. Autism is a spectrum. Having autism doesn’t mean you understand or can relate to every single person on the spectrum.
My only request for any professional working as a mental health advocate, psychiatrist or therapist is that regardless of their own diagnosis, that they are fit for their role.
I worked as a nurse and often spoke out on D.V and said "you don't have to tolerate tht to patients" and went home and was a church mouse out of fear of violence from my now ex-husband I was a great advocate for others but couldn't advocate for myself but I didn't bring a child into the situation for a variety of issues ( it was o k I be tortured but not a helpless child) it's classic medical field issues the pulmonary dr smokes the anti addiction specialist is addicted to opiods etc
@@gouhle2 completely agree with this, I know the comments are saying about DV, I won’t speak on that at all, What the comment is saying is that she has issues in morality and airing dirty laundry, I agree I wouldn’t want my impressionable child with a mentor who has a malicious streak like this, who doesn’t feel remorse screwing over their family and is always pointing the finger at the parent, she should not be guiding people when some people need to take responsibility and accountability themselves
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That daughter needs intense therapy. Whoever that is rubbing her like she's a pet, he needs to stop the enabling.
He's her emotional support animal
@@RanbowriterUh oh
Daughter is great at playing the ‘victim’… so annoying
I literally was saythe same thing as soon as she opened her mouth
She came up with every title in victomhood she possibly could EVERY one lol
Facts.
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Why do I not believe the daughter? I think she's airing too much crap over a phone
The defendant is a victim for life… grow up girl and get your act together. You can’t blame your family forever.
well, that's obviously how her mother raised her.
@@lauraanne5175 we are responsible to get over our mommy and daddy issues.
I Do Mine.🤬
I feel sorry for you but I don't you think you're deserve everything you don't get a job pay for your phone and leave your mother out of it
Yep! She needs to realize her mom will not be around forever & everything she depends on her for, she will have to deal with herself (or seek outside help).
The judge is very family oriented and has a good heart.💖💝
The defendant’s friend rubbing her shoulders and back throughout the testimonies was ridiculous and distracting. Was this really necessary?
Absolutely NOT necessary, but SOOOO telling!
Enabler
all part of her case presentation
Thought that was her significant other until she stated she was gay😬
Beta enabler.
And award goes to the daughter for great dramatization
The defended is such an actor. “Poor me” She’s the victim in everything. It’s everyone’s else’s fault. Hate people like her. Take some accountability in your dang life!!
But adulting is hard! 😂
Yup
And throwing around‘I have PTSD’ 🙄
@@michelleharper2940 from a event she has no recollection of even though she's 11. yea im not buying it
@@michelleharper2940doesn’t that make you upset…especially when you have people really suffering like soldiers from PTSD
This judge is so amazing. She is very empathetic and understanding of humanity along with applying the law
The defendants wig is as bad as the acting😂
Yes 😂 no tears fake fake fake
Y’all stop it’s to early for this foolishness 😭
Ya'll ain't feeling the party city princess fiona wig?
😂😂 But the color…👍🏼
Clown 🤡 wig
came to the comments to see the victim comments about the defendant after her first sentence….
“what behavior problems does your son have?”
“autism, adhd, & WE BOTH HAVE PTSD DUE TO PHYSICAL ABUSE” ….she didn’t ask about you lady….knew she was a professional victim from her first sentence; people like her are the worst
her wiping away tears that aren’t there is priceless
The victimhood is strong in this one. Most of us have had issues to overcome in life. It is a choice to be a permanent victim.
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She is a phony victim who hired a back rubber to try to avoid adult responsibility.
So she's crying over trauma that she can't even remember ? 🤨
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Your comment shouldn't be so funny but it is! 😂😂
Lol sounds like it 😂
thats why she wrote it down or read it some where or made it up. she probably has a ghost writer
The body keeps score
The defendant's memory is just fine when it comes to remembering the excuses for her lousy attitude and irresponsibility. She is immoral and thinks that's okay. Her "tears" went away rather quickly. 17:24 Social media is a support system? Really? Not working apparently nor should it replace reality. Her therapist should be arrested for impersonating a therapist.
Lol for real!
It's a support system in the since that they all lap up her BS, validate her clearly crazy self with the go queens, yes queens, you're strong queen. No one tells her anything negative and I'm betting if they try she says their toxic and cuts them off. So she surrounds herself with people that will help her stay a victim
@@honestyisadyingvirtue That infamous "echo chamber".
The daughter is full of it she pulled every card in her deck. Mental illness, child abuse, cps, molestation, financial abuse, sibling favoritism.
Lifetime victim. Geez. That defendant lives a pity me life. What an actor.
Don’t you know that the thing now it’s in trend. Poor me I’m so held down, poor me, feel bad for me look don’t you see my tears, I’m so weak. 🤷🏽♀️ yes sad I know
@@lee4094 I agree. It's weird and people think it's some kind of flex ( it's not)at whoever is MORE of a victim. She may have wanted people to see tears with all of her supposed "crying" but I'm still waiting just to see one drop..lol..smh.
I feel sorry for her boyfriend. No telling what she blames on him.
All that crying the daughter did without shedding a single tear 😭
If you’re a behavioral therapist then why can’t you handle your child? Very sad case all around
I’ve worked in that field and they literally take anyone. People are given very little to no training because the need is so high
It’s entirely different with your own child who you’re emotionally invested in!
I have a child with severe behavioral issues and this mother needs community/state intervention for her son. She shouldn’t be expected to care for him on her own. My adopted son has required daily in-home services, an education from a school for behaviorally challenged children, in-patient psychiatric hospitalizations, on campus boarding school for behaviorally challenged children, multiple psychiatric medication regimens, multiple counseling providers, and police interventions.
I pray the Mom has sought help for her & her child!! 🙏🏻
Parents aren't the only influence on their children. They play a significant role in their development, but there's other outside influences that can shape a person's character.
She’s not a child.
She had all the cards! Autism and has an autistic child, PTSD, mother institutionalised her, gay, various health issues - did I miss any? She just kept adding to her list.
You can’t help someone who always sees themselves as a victim. Defendant needs to grow up
Yes
When I heard “the phone was a guilt gift from her mother for all the terrible things she’s done to her in her life” I knew she was just going to be a professional victim and not take responsibility for her actions.
Where was the music for the defendant 😂 gave her a dry ass entrance
They wanted us to solely focus on the party city wig
Right? I was scared me for a second 😂 and make them look so evil?
lol 😝
Oh no don’t say that because then she’s gonna add that to her list of things wrongly done to her
They did her dirty 💀😭😂
It never ceases to amaze me how people post information about their personal lives on social media for everyone to see!
Your personal lives are nobody's business but your own, people.
How can she not afford $30 a month …. For a phone!! That’s a steal
Word.
Remember, she has 3 jobs too. Smh
@@jmar5127 😂😂😂
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She can. She just chooses not to.
Judge Judy would have yelled at that guy for keep rubbing the defendant's back lol!
It's the finger
At what point does an adult child take responsibility for themselves?
Yeah actually some do.
Some never do. I have a friend in bad health about 70 years old. He's still blaming his mother. She's been gone for a decade or more.
With this nutjob that would be ....Never. Society has made it very easy for people to act this way. It's time we started calling people out on their craziness and false accusations.
Never. Babies have to latch on to mommy's tit forever and ever. It is logical. 31 year olds need mommy to pay all their bills and raise their children.
I have a rule- I don’t lend family money. If I have it and I decide to give it to them that’s it, it’s over. This keeps drama and lawsuits away. Parents suing their own kids is ridiculous and shows you don’t have a good trusting relationship. If you don’t want to help them, say no. But don’t do it knowing they are financially strapped and having difficulties and then take them to court ruining whatever thread of a relationship you have left. These parents are azzholes and knew she wouldn’t be able to complete this deal they made. They knew it full well.
Mom if your daughter has not learned to pay off her debts by now, she never will. There is more to this than just the phone. Seems like a toxic relationship between mom and daughter! If money is an issue don’t get the $1100 phone get the cheap one.
Exactly. You don't need an $1100 phone, especially she's living with someone else. 🤨🤨😂😂
For sure. They both need therapy to just get accountability and then move on with their lives. Whether it’ll leave them separated or closer
I wouldn't want this girl around my child ever! She needs to be evaluated before working another day with children!!!😠
That wig screams “I’m the victim”
The wig screams "gypsy rose"
It’s so shiny too😂😂
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That wig is the only victim 😂
@@sarahdaniel5794 We're also victims for having to see it 😂
The fake crying & dude rubbing all over her everytime she does is ANNOYIIIIIING!
I wonder how often her mother told her to stay away from that “adult” but then when she became pregnant you now want your mother to do what?!!
She was 17… she can’t even consent at the age wtf Is wrong with you?
And most places you need a parents permission to abort and she wouldnt let her
Phyxkin weirdo
@JaiB-xr9fl😂😂 not the case but thanks for the assumption random internet user
@JaiB-xr9fl it is 2 years ago lil ol me 🥰😘
12:00 oh!!! That makes more sense. The mom told her to have a child the daughter didn’t want. I bet any amount of money the mom told her “god wanted that way and I will help you” and that why the daughter calls the mom when she can’t handle raising the kid. I mean going after your daughter for $380 does not make sense to me.
Cant even finish this one. Shes annoying. The daughter.
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My heart goes out to this family! Can’t imagine what it’s like in their shoes!!🙏
Stay strong 💪🏽 mom. I understand exactly what you are going through
If mom was that awful?
You would stay away from her.
Nor borrow from her.
Defendant laid it allllll out here. None of it has to do with the phone. I'm not sure why Judge let it go on for so long. She normally doesn't.
She wants to know what actually happened between the family. Sometimes it's not about the actual case. Sometimes it's about what's really going on. In people's lives and people will bring up silly things to sue about when the bigger issue is emotional
She does come off a little nosey and I think she knows those extra details not only help the case but make for juicy episodes lol
If you look at how long this case is, it is not your typical 10 to 15 minutes. This one is unedited, but the usual ones are highly edited just so that they get to the facts of the case and the juicy parts. But now that the show is canceled, they're going to try to squeeze everything out of the footage that they already have.
6:28 This!!!! Too many adults don't want to raise their kids and demand the grandparents take total responsibility for them!
The daughter thinks her Mom is so bad she should look at herself!!!!
This judge is a unique human veing. Shes beautiful pleasant kind
Those huge bags under the defendants eyes are very telling. She's exhausted.
I'm so sick of professional victims. Seems like they are everywhere now
Knowing the mother didn't deny any of the statements the daughter made about her past and her making the comment about needing more attention at 2, I tend to believe the daughter. Seriously, what mother complains about what a child does at 2 when they are now almost 30? Does the daughter have issues, yes, but the mother definitely caused majority of these problems. The idea of suing your daughter over 400 bucks is just nuts. Knowing her boyfriend is currently paying her bills, what in your right mind thinks that she will be able to pay this additional bill?
I couldn't believe it when she complained that her daughter had been trouble since she was 2. The mum is blaming a toddler for being a handful?! Wtf?! And all this escalated because the daughter had the audacity to ask her mum for help. What does mum do? Suggest daughter calls the cops on her 12 year old son! The mum is a piece of work who clearly didn't want children. Abaolute disgrace.
What does this have to do with her being responsible for her bill… with 3 jobs?
Actually her mom did raise her Hand to try to dispute but by the time it came they had already moved on. I don't think the mother was perfect but I definitely think the daughter over exaggerates to make herself more of a victim. She's clearly only telling things she think will give her victim points while leaving out her actions. Just because kids are kids doesn't mean they are easy always easy to handle and doesn't mean it won't get worse with time as they learn to manipulate more. Her mom could've said something as simple as I have been paying more attention to you since you were two without any malice but because the daughter is intent on being a victim with many ailments that coincidentally bring out empathy in people, she could've taken that statement the worst way possible without giving mother any grace or understanding.
I can’t believe a mother would sue her child over a cell phone. That’s ridiculous
I can't believe a daughter would bash her mother on social media. When her mother was paying for a phone plan and the daughter only had to pay $30 a month for the payment of the phone. Actions have consequences. For the daughter and the mother in this case.
6:50 This mom is ridiculous!! Putting your daughter down when she needs a break WOW DISGUSTING!!!
Thanks to those who were kind and compassionate. We never know what someone is going through.
Mother complained about she had to deal with her as a 2 year old ???? Yes, of course, she was your child. You had her. Toddlers and kids are work, but also great blessings. Miss when my children were toddlers. Tough, but so rich having them .
Wow. Shes gonna go through like playing the victim.
Should've went to Walmart to get a cheap phone on Straight Talk
I have straight talk!
Something that I learned from Judge Milian and have always remembered ... "Say it, forget it ... write it, regret it."
And...she's a therapist?
Cobblers children, yo.
The defendent said she is angry. ! If anyone should be Angry, it's the plaintiff. Geesh
I watched this for 23mins and i have YET to see a tear drop smh I am wowed that the judge fell for this
I juat pray they get it together as mother n daughter
I think what children need to understand is that any help over the age of 18 is help and isn't required. Any help you get after 18 you shouldn't be expected and should be appreciative of.
Well said 👏!
Now that I'm an adult !! I feel so bad for my poor mother putting up with my shit 😂 I now feel I have to compensate her for all the hard work !! But we both help each other when we can ❤️🙏
That's if parents did their job before 18. If parents were crap, then the adults are going to be crap, and your reasoning that people just become magically "mature" at age 18 is idiocy.
Playing the "victim" will only get you so far. You have to face your responsibility and pay your bills.
How can one have PTSD and be a therapist themselves? I didn’t know that was a thing.
Yeah, therapists always have their own therapist. And those with experience have developed the empathy required to connect and help others.
@kaylahall1219 you can work with people who don't have the trauma as you .
Some of the best therapists have been on the receiving side themselves. It's a lot easier to connect to some people if they've been through the same thing you have. In fact, lots of clients prefer to see someone who knows firsthand what they're going through. Having a mental illness doesn't make you incompetent.
@@Sileaine nobody said you couldn't. some people are more comfortable seeing someone who knows personally what they're going through.
She's not a mental health therapist. She said on the show that she was a behavioral therapist with children with autism. In the comments, she said she was a behavioral technician.
The defendant is typical of the worst qualities of her generation: attention-seeking, blaming, and total lack of accountability.
Im 33 and social media support sound dumb. Everything isnt for social media.
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Exactly…
I really hope the son NEVER sees this case. This is appalling 😮😢 - Both of them need help!! All the best to them ❤
🤳 Creating a "TEXT CONTRACT" is the single best thing to learn from this show!!!
🎸Judge Millian rocks!
EVERYTHING in writing. ESPECIALLY between family.
Or just write it off as a loss. If they are repaid, nice! But if not... it was already written off so no loss.
No tears to be found 🥱🥱
She is WHY some people should not produce.
Such a sad family situation. Wishing all of them more healing, peace and kindness, and dare I say maturity (growing up)?
And for anyone claiming ptsd, etc., I truly hope they seek and get good help to move past it. Life is precious and much TOO SHORT to spend it all in a victimlike state.
Wishing everyone very well, much happiness, love and all the best. 💜
My daughter had a baby at 17 and is now 31 and a mother of two. Hard working, loving and doesn't whine and use her family and put them down or play the victim. This chick is ridiculous. So self centered.
Her mother seems like she doesn’t like her daughter since the age of two…..very sad 😢
That lady is so broken. I pray she finds happiness and healing.
Plaintiff tried hard to be emotional at last by wiping the invisible tears
Why do they never think about getting a prepaid plan?? They ALWAYS HAVE to be put on their phone plans and have to pay either for the line or the phone. If they couldn't afford it before, what makes you think because they're on your phone plan they will now?? Just about every major carrier has a prepaid plan.
Shit they give out smartphones w paid minutes, txt and data if ur on any kind of assistance like foodstamp, wic ect. Literal homeless people that have slept outside for years have phones these days.
@@alyssahamlett I forgot about that, very true!
* Not to mention, she was just paying monthly for the phone. Which means Mom has been paying for the service (which is more expensive ) this whole time. I’m sick of people using their “disabilities, PTSD” as an excuse to behave badly then use it again as a shield so no one can call them out on their BS
When the mom said: she had a kid, she should be able to take care of it as an adult, that bothered me. There's obviously a lot of baggage in that family but it felt unneccessarily harsh.
If the plaintiff can’t find the message her daughter posted why she moving the papers like she about to pull it out ?
😂 They all think if they just keep shuffling the papers. It's magically gonna show up.
Nerves do be like that sometimes.
The friend/man rubbing her constantly annoys the crap outta me.
The daughter has an excuse or a victim incident for everything in her life. Victim mentality- poor me, poor my child, poor everything and one else is the reason for her wrong doings.
Yup 💯
Have you ptsd?Do you know the impact it has on you? Have you a child who has autism and adhd and going through puberty? Maybe key your judgmental attitude to yourself.Her mother is awful in the way she described her grandchild.He doesn’t have behavioural issues,he has a disability that by the sounds of it isn’t being treated in the right way.I get so annoyed with people ignorance in neurological disorders.her mother sectioning her at 12 instead of getting a diagnosis and the appropriate treatment for Asd.Also her mother condoned and made it continue a relationship with an adult.She may have been 17 but if you know anything about autism you will know it affects the persons development and brain.They are never going to be their true age in their brain development and are super vulnerable people who need help in making adult decisions.
@emilysjones9746 dogs and fish and gerbils can be trained so stop the disabled crap mental problems is not an excuse for bad behavior the daughter isn't disciplined and is not raising the child right
@emilysjones9746 stop making excuses for that victim. The grandmother didn't say anything disrespectful about her grandson. Children with those disabilities can have behavioral issues! And you have no idea what took place to have her sectioned!
What a messy case 😳… first off I wouldn’t sue my kid & air our disfunction
I wish after the verdict was its own show.
If “ I PLAY THE VICTIM” was a person 🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️💀💀
What happened to all the tears? The defendant is such a liar.
The defendant needed judge Judy
No one needs Judge Judy! Ugh!
This defendant is shedding no tears.
Her support “group” is her therapist.
I feel so sorry for the son/grandson. How dare they discuss getting rid of him to foster care so cruelly? Especially when he’s special needs
And tell me none of his classmates' parents saw this on TV? He'll see this episode or hear about it unless he's severely autistic
I would never sue my kids. If I don't have the money to give them, I would say no.
The victimhood runs deep with this one. Shes just has a smorgasbord of excuses and will never take accountability.
Bonus points fornusing rhe word word 'smorgasbord'. An uxeocted deligjtful word tjat kust made my day!
No excuse for posting bad things about your family!
1:00 THE BEGINNING PART WITH NO MUSIC WAS SO CREEPY 😂😂😂
I was like wtf is going on here lol 😂
Yeah right that mom screams mommy dearest!
This mother is awful really. She has a disabled daughter raising a disabled grandson and she sues over 400$
Allegedly disabled.