Is It Possible to Stop Being Possessive in a Relationship?

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  • Опубліковано 6 лис 2024

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  • @mirsharipovbehzod
    @mirsharipovbehzod Рік тому +95

    Pain of possessiveness has healed me. Absolutely true.

    • @telugulomatladudam3722
      @telugulomatladudam3722 Рік тому +2

      Same is applicable for the pain of ignorance if the pain of ignorance is unbearable we will know who we are we will realise self

    • @MusicaParaTodos111
      @MusicaParaTodos111 Рік тому +2

      Same here :/
      Was ... a total life teach ❤

    • @testing38919
      @testing38919 Рік тому +1

      What did your possessiveness lead to that eventually heal you of it?

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid Рік тому +66

    You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great

  • @Corteum
    @Corteum Рік тому +29

    Paraphrase: _Completeness doesnt happen by getting this or that (i.e. objects, possessions, expereinces, credit). It only happens when you're alive at/to your core. The moment you touch that, then you're truly alive... then you can play it like a game._

    • @jigarrpatel3606
      @jigarrpatel3606 Рік тому

      Stll need details explanation…

    • @Corteum
      @Corteum Рік тому +2

      @@jigarrpatel3606 No. What it needs is practice and persistance. It's more practical.

  • @amarendraborah6941
    @amarendraborah6941 Рік тому +11

    Relationships thrive on mutual respect, mutual trust, reciprocity, and fellow - feeling ! When that trust is lost, everything is lost @

  • @nupurbharti3157
    @nupurbharti3157 Рік тому +5

    I am in the same situation right now
    When I try to walk away
    Consequences happen
    But this clear vision is much needed this moment

  • @NondualityChannel
    @NondualityChannel Рік тому +37

    Being possessive in a relationship will only cause both parties suffering.
    I am non-attached to my wife and she tells me this is the easiest relationship she has ever had.

    • @0nelight19-SaveSoil
      @0nelight19-SaveSoil 7 місяців тому

      when you are really possessive, there is only one party 😂 therefore I prefer Sadhgurus technology 🥰

    • @NondualityChannel
      @NondualityChannel 6 місяців тому

      @@0nelight19-SaveSoil You can not even possess yourself, so how can you hope to possess anyone or anything else?

    • @beastgalaxygaming9402
      @beastgalaxygaming9402 2 місяці тому

      I believe my possessiveness and stupidity is going to make me lose the love of my life. I want to be less possessive, but what do you mean by un-attached to your wife? I don't understand that because I'm extremely attached to my girlfriend so much that each one of her mood affects me. I wanted to know your insights on being "Un-attached"

  • @knowpassword
    @knowpassword Рік тому +7

    “The less you have the more you gain!”

  • @manrajchauhan5862
    @manrajchauhan5862 Рік тому +4

    The Last Statement he made is the way I have been living ever since I completed inner engineering. And I would have never imagined it's way more beautiful and fun way to be. If not for this being I would have never tasted even a single drop of freedom. Thank you Will never be enough. So I surrender myself to the process.

  • @holyhelper7400
    @holyhelper7400 Рік тому +24

    This satsang is of immense value.. where can get the full episode?

  • @ouwqaplmruzvearlfgalwhclak
    @ouwqaplmruzvearlfgalwhclak Рік тому +4

    This man is the treasure in the current world

  • @madhutalwar3333
    @madhutalwar3333 Місяць тому

    Not finding words ...how to express my extreme thanks ..the way u transform a person. Many Many Thanks.

  • @sourabhsharma9395
    @sourabhsharma9395 2 дні тому

    Listening in 2024❤️when the pain surrounds you from your loved ones...that will eventually heal you one day.. until then...no matter how hard you try to possess ..it will give you just pain❤️

  • @priyaramdoo4762
    @priyaramdoo4762 Рік тому +3

    Sadhguru you saved me ..I am so grateful to You❤🙏

  • @gaurikasingh4473
    @gaurikasingh4473 11 місяців тому +2

    So beautifully expressed my situations and gave the answer i was looking for thank you so much guru ji ❤

  • @ludibinoinprogress
    @ludibinoinprogress Рік тому +5

    Fantastic Sadhguru 😊🙏🏻 thank you with all my heart for everything 🫶🏼

  • @MaryTea-yp5tj
    @MaryTea-yp5tj Місяць тому

    WOW~ a few words and I finally get it! Thank you!

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending32534 Рік тому +2

    Reactions from processions brings out the visual truth from Reactions 😊

  • @consciouschirag
    @consciouschirag Рік тому +1

    Please also answer, how to not be pushy in relationships?
    i.e. not forcing ourselves, our ideas, etc. onto other people, accepting others & respecting their individuality.

    • @Zyrenyafantasy
      @Zyrenyafantasy Місяць тому

      Low your expectations

    • @atharvamore2280
      @atharvamore2280 12 днів тому +1

      First and most important Be happy in your own company. Respect yourself. And happily go into the relationship, dont forget you are individual. Once you go happily into relationship you are not gonna talk or beg the person for happiness. Thats where relationship starts growing.

  • @Devi-pg4rj
    @Devi-pg4rj Рік тому

    How is Sadhguru so clear on everything 😁🙏

  • @saras03
    @saras03 Рік тому +5

    A great mentor ❤🔱

  • @harshsoneji2070
    @harshsoneji2070 Рік тому +6

    Just at the right time Sadhguru.

  • @rudyponzio5871
    @rudyponzio5871 Рік тому +7

    🙏🏻You can't even posses yourself. You can't love what you can't live without. That's called something else altogether. 🫐

  • @AmandaZ-ft2ow
    @AmandaZ-ft2ow Рік тому +1

    Missed your videos!
    With Gratitude! ! !❤⚜️❤
    Blessed Be! ! !❤🙏❤

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 Рік тому +4

    "whatever you are doing, do it whole souled so as to Yah"

  • @alienallen2983
    @alienallen2983 Рік тому +1

    👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚

  • @ShantiDevi-m9y
    @ShantiDevi-m9y Місяць тому

    You opened my eyes 🙏🙏🙏

  • @speaktruth3612
    @speaktruth3612 Рік тому +2

    MY SADHGURU 💯 FOR LIFE🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤ PRANAM

  • @selvarajchettiar5039
    @selvarajchettiar5039 Рік тому +1

    NAMASKARAM SADHGURU 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @michae2869
    @michae2869 Рік тому

    Amazingly enlightening

  • @humane_and_selfless__love722

    Thanks Sadhguru. 🙏 💕 Thanks for everything. 💕 I'm praying for the best for you and your family.

  • @srisurya2001CAaspirant
    @srisurya2001CAaspirant Рік тому +8

    This video came to me at a tight time..❤

  • @BikramNeupane-d5v
    @BikramNeupane-d5v Рік тому

    salute to video maker, the intro, BGs and Sadhguru's audio was all perfect.

  • @RickWitan
    @RickWitan Рік тому

    🪷 Maharaj, thank You for Your insightful words. Attachment is suffering, regrettably. Please keep me off this path so I do not suffer just as my parents went through much much suffering. My humble pranams 🙏🏾🪷

  • @chaththa85
    @chaththa85 Рік тому +14

    Thanks so much Sadhguru!❤ This came to me at right time 🙏🥹

  • @luzbeelluzbella369
    @luzbeelluzbella369 Рік тому

    Sadguru!!! Buddha your Nemesis is my friend.

  • @deltacharge
    @deltacharge Рік тому +2

    I agree to the utmost degree of Agreement XD Nicee One!

  • @Penbuddy418
    @Penbuddy418 Рік тому

    Thanks Sadhguru for motivating us i respect you a lot

  • @GR-rk2fi
    @GR-rk2fi Місяць тому

    I only learn through pain. Problem is, there is still so much to learn...

  • @bowloflight2201
    @bowloflight2201 Рік тому +1

    9:53 🙏🏽

  • @tchaliz4925
    @tchaliz4925 7 місяців тому +1

    I have been reading the comments, and well, intelectually, we all have the same understanding. But, feeling not complete as far as you can remmenber is not intectual thing at all, it s only a ball of pain that you carry inside, and all you dream of is someone you can give love, take care of, but someone you are not affraid to lose, cause ypu got used to lose what you love. What thought can cope with such basic animal / compulsive yes, pain ?

  • @heeralsharma9765
    @heeralsharma9765 Рік тому

    Sadhguru Namaskar Pranam Blessings Please Aum Namah Shivaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @AnthonyMoitzger-nw1id
    @AnthonyMoitzger-nw1id Рік тому +4

    I believe both should be positive in a relationship. And celebrate it. For neither one walks alone anymore. Peace 🕉 and joy.8888 🎶 🙏

  • @ishakeister6725
    @ishakeister6725 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir

  • @108Marycelestial
    @108Marycelestial Рік тому

    No never be possessive. Be good and considerate instead. ❤

  • @bohdanbasenko4092
    @bohdanbasenko4092 Рік тому +4

    That’s me!!!😂😂😂
    Right in the beginning of this video.
    It seems I am going viral 😄😊

  • @jack-e-designs
    @jack-e-designs Рік тому +1

    True.💗it’s all a vibe.💗🦋💛

  • @navinnimgale155
    @navinnimgale155 Рік тому +1

    How lovely ❤❤❤

  • @soubhikmukherjee2982
    @soubhikmukherjee2982 Рік тому

    Namaskaram Guruji ❤

  • @EnergyReleased
    @EnergyReleased Рік тому

    Wow… Amazing…❤

  • @swarnalidutta7235
    @swarnalidutta7235 Рік тому +2

    Very true❤

  • @raghavendrapachahara9643
    @raghavendrapachahara9643 Рік тому

    Beauty of thoughts really 😊😊😊😊

  • @pallavivaidya7423
    @pallavivaidya7423 Рік тому +1

    Shambho ❤

  • @JoseRamosUSA
    @JoseRamosUSA Рік тому +2

    Thank you Sadhguru

  • @MusicaParaTodos111
    @MusicaParaTodos111 Рік тому

    Redemption by the pain

  • @iammadhurima
    @iammadhurima Рік тому

    Where can we get the full satsang?

  • @juncuspatens
    @juncuspatens Рік тому +1

    "Is it ok..." -Jagadish Vasudev
    "If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about answers."
    - Thomas Pynchon

  • @kajalagarwala3697
    @kajalagarwala3697 Рік тому

    What if the other person doesn't know how to maintain a certain boundary with others?

  • @ishaartworks
    @ishaartworks Рік тому

    5:32 & 7:24

  • @abhisheksingh-lp1vw
    @abhisheksingh-lp1vw 5 місяців тому +1

    I only thought of breaking up with her 😢 no one knows how much i think of her including her also. I am very much possessive to her against every single boy , even for her cousins also, i know this sounds cheap but it is. My body goes in a freeze mode .i can't focus. So much depressed.

  • @SuperJamalShah
    @SuperJamalShah Рік тому

    Sadhguru, how would you differentiate possessiveness with persistence? 😊🎉

  • @avinash6820
    @avinash6820 Рік тому +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍😊😊💖💖
    Jai Gurudev!

  • @sivaroyal4246
    @sivaroyal4246 Рік тому +2

    Aum namasivaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we Рік тому +1

    Bérhmànad sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha atí Anand sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @HAR_HAR_MAHADEV3335
    @HAR_HAR_MAHADEV3335 Рік тому

    I don't shift but I decrease all my desires through entering a state of samadhi…..like a shiva did when sati died…..I wanna possess with samadhi state for skipping this time 💀na punyam na papam….na soukhyam na dhukam…..chidanada ruph shivoham shivoham

  • @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk
    @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk 8 днів тому

    👉temple 🕵️😊

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we Рік тому

    Jai shree satguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @tahiyamarome
    @tahiyamarome Рік тому +1

    Life will relieve you of all you think you possess in any case. So enjoy what enters your life and wave sweetly when it leaves.
    Why do so many people get upset with intensity? Why do people who go fully into things get reprimanded, called too much, over- invested, crazy?

  • @sachinbhat1857
    @sachinbhat1857 Рік тому

    Where can I find background tune...

  • @Naresh14316
    @Naresh14316 Рік тому

    Peace of vioce

  • @fotispasas5324
    @fotispasas5324 Рік тому +1

    Try what fully, I didn’t get that part please help

    • @prithwirajjadhav1611
      @prithwirajjadhav1611 Рік тому

      I'm not sure if this is the correct answer, but he told once that -
      If u disconnect for 3 days, no TV, no mobile, no visitors, no talking, just being there, silent, then many things will be suddenly clear to you within no time!

  • @monikawy231
    @monikawy231 7 місяців тому

    Yes possessivess is bad

  • @ekansh6267
    @ekansh6267 Рік тому

    💯💯🔥

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we Рік тому

    Bérhmànad sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha atí Anand sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @anamazinglife5628
    @anamazinglife5628 Рік тому +1

    💜💙

  • @rupalideshpande1746
    @rupalideshpande1746 Рік тому +1

    🙏❤🙏

  • @saras03
    @saras03 Рік тому

  • @lokeshbarri6052
    @lokeshbarri6052 Рік тому

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @shreeharikulkarni5614
    @shreeharikulkarni5614 Рік тому

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending32534 Рік тому +1

    Judgment is in the 👀 of the beholder😇👻

  • @chichi-x3u1u
    @chichi-x3u1u Рік тому

    Medium selected. no, no choice

  • @anoopcomputech4109
    @anoopcomputech4109 Рік тому

    😊

  • @samyadeepsengupta460
    @samyadeepsengupta460 Рік тому +1

    Possessive ness is not good

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending32534 Рік тому

    Put a fork on it 😅

  • @aryabolke8226
    @aryabolke8226 Рік тому

    🌺💖💖

  • @Tourhours
    @Tourhours Рік тому

    🧤

  • @Tourhours
    @Tourhours Рік тому

    111

  • @RoslynDoe
    @RoslynDoe Рік тому

    Earth is a prison not a school

  • @chullotm1970
    @chullotm1970 Рік тому

    Save Soil!

  • @camilacatriman7293
    @camilacatriman7293 Рік тому +1

    🙏🩵🦋

  • @StarLink85
    @StarLink85 Рік тому

    ❤️💛💚💙💜💖

  • @s.g.5318
    @s.g.5318 Рік тому

    Get a cat you love, it'll teach you how painful possessiveness is

    • @tchaliz4925
      @tchaliz4925 7 місяців тому

      Dogs givve us unconditional love, cats teach us how to love and expect nothing in return, is that what you mean?

  • @rashmiyadav4062
    @rashmiyadav4062 9 місяців тому

    💕💕💕💕💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kspavankrishna
    @kspavankrishna Місяць тому

    .

  • @ShantiDevi-m9y
    @ShantiDevi-m9y Місяць тому

    😂😂

  • @A.Shek_
    @A.Shek_ Рік тому

    I am tired of listening into the same narrative from Sadhguru that all is in ur control, when you want to switch it on you can or you can just be or be high all the time e.t.c. I have never came across any of his followers who say Yes I am like that. I am tired of hearing this at the point that either I want to experience it staright on upfront or just forget about Sadhguru & his wisdom which is not going to happen !! Sigh...

    • @shivankchopra8552
      @shivankchopra8552 Рік тому +2

      I understand what you are going through, i am sometimes in same boat as you frustrated (even abusing) Sadhguru when I try to implement what he says into my life and things are going out of control.
      But it does work slowly when you are constantly trying to improve fiercely. I have done inner engineering, so when i practice shambhavi regularly, i start getting the power of sticking to making choices my way, instead of getting frustrated with situations and people.
      But this takes time, years of consuming mental shittiness takes sometime to cleanup man

    • @A.Shek_
      @A.Shek_ Рік тому +1

      @@shivankchopra8552 Heard ! Thanks man, perhaps inshud keep aside all complaints n struggles and practice shambhavi for atleast 6 months to test & analyse change if any. Its been 2 months of continuous practice from me till now & sometimes my practice mis successful & sometimes not(to much distracted by my own monkey chatter). Let's see after 6 months or a year. 🤔

    • @sgthasb
      @sgthasb Рік тому

      solution is that swhen you try to get satisfaction out of hearing to your ideal or you want to find out something knew even if you had already read the title and found that what already will be content then you will be bored,,, so only solution is sadhna and practice.

    • @shivankchopra8552
      @shivankchopra8552 Рік тому

      ​@@A.Shek_ Sure bro, all the best to you!
      Doing Shambhavi I have realized that you tend to get better with more practice. As in you build more insight into keeping the mind mum. It's like 1000 ways in which you discover how every thought is just shiet at the end of all day.
      At this point of my life, I am beginning to pretty much give in to the fact that if not for outer help like shambhavi, I by myself would never be able to direct my mind by my will. So I have like given into Shambhavi and let it do all the heavy lifting. Cheers! 🍻

    • @karunasreejetty917
      @karunasreejetty917 Рік тому

      Then make an effort. Do Shambhavi Kriya.

  • @rutviumrigar1720
    @rutviumrigar1720 Рік тому

    Thank you Sadhguru 🙏

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we Рік тому

    Jai shree satguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @IamItziar
    @IamItziar Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Puranvlogs143
    @Puranvlogs143 Рік тому

    ❤❤

  • @untouched5131
    @untouched5131 Рік тому

    🙏