I never remember anyone in my life EVER said they were happy or glad to see me...So. I always made sure that my grandchildren heard that from me each and every time I saw them, even if for just a minute.....One day I heard my little granddaughter tell my little dog "I happy to see you"....So I was so happy to hear that....Now they are grown and I still tell them .....Even on the phone I will say I am happy to hear you.....I believe everyone should feel important to somebody, once in a while.....
I had to take a minute to really take in one you shared Yvonne....this is a lesson that once you learn it does change your world. I know your grandchildren love you so very very much....and I am so grateful for you tonight for sharing your life and reminding me how crucial it is to make somebody feel like that truly matter....xxooo Love to you, Susan & Desi
TODAY, I would use a sentence. Help lift up the forgotten I took out a friend since we met in 1980. We were career woman until our life's journey took down different paths. My friend Mary is in a nursing home now for 5 years. She is in low place and I stepped up and took her to thrift stores and out to eat. I bought her some new clothes as she looked disheveled. My do I feel good I stepped out of myself to treat her. And forget about my burdens. It worked out great.
I was brought to tears when my 50 year old son recently said, "Thanks for a great childhood.". It really took me by surprise since I was a single mom of three and really struggled to make ends meet.
I would choose your words, but add one. Commitment! If I had committed my life to the Lord with all my heart, so many choices would have been different. I didn’t know him! I feared him and wanted to lead a moral life, and when I got to know him, I slid back by the world. There comes a time when you see he is your life! He is your hope! He is everything you need. Commitment to him is your shield! It is a path to wisdom. His word is a song, revelations, truth, packed with history, love, experiences, and a future! I want to hear him, so I listen, I talk to him, and I study his word. It is his voice that comes through and his Spirit that fills. I am his, and he is mine! Thank you Susan for a wonderful message!
I loved the memory that your friend shared about being on a train as a child with soldiers during the Korean war. My dad was a soldier during that war and several years ago I ask him to tell me about his military service and he talked about riding the train as a soldier to basic training and different places. Your friends words brought back my dad's words to me.
The actual 5 words my mother told me were "Don't depend on a man." Those words have helped create the independent person I have become. However, within that growth are my favorite words, persistence, perception, planning, passion, principles, all a foundation for achieving a good life.
My mom has passed on, and our relationship wasn't always easy. Towards the end of her life though, on one of our phone calls she said to me, "I love everything about you." She usually wasn't one to give many compliments, but those five words meant more to me than you could ever imagine. I tear up just thinking about it.
A dear sister friend suddenly passed away this week. It has made me appreciate all the time we spent laughing and talking. I hope she is happy I miss her voice I miss our time.🌈🦋❤️
I am sorry for your loss Carol.My birth mother will be buried on Tuesday.My adopted mother died 2011.Its a strange situation. I didn't know my birth mother until i found her when i was 36.i am now 58.
I was brought up by my Nan after my mum left just before I turned 2 years old. I was often bullied and taunted by the neighbourhood children for not having a mum and dad. The 5 words that have always stayed with me were said by my Nan, as she took me in her arms to comfort me as I sobbed. She said, "They're jealous because you're beautiful".
I tried hard to remember something really good that happened in my life when I was a kid,,we were dirt poor,,and made fun of at school...Even teachers treated us different...But my best memory about my school days is my second grade teacher made me a costume to wear in a play...Because I didnt have one...She was special...
Susan, my mom and dad divorced when I was a little child. Mom always told me he didn't want children but she thought once she had me maybe he'd change his mind. He didn't. Later after years went by, he invited my family to his and my stepmom's house. Note: I had been there when I was 16. Long story. Anyway, while we were there my dad told me it was true he didn't want children. He didn't like the messy baby years but after that he loved having a daughter. He told me he was so proud of the woman I had become. And that he loved me very much. We planned our first Thanksgiving together for them to come to our house. But the week before, I received a call from my stepmom that my dad had died of a massive heart attack. I was so glad that I had forgiven him and we had a chance to talk.
My 5 words are a statement from my mother. I didn’t appreciate how wise Mom was when she was with us. Mom always said ”you make your own happiness “. The more advanced I get into my life, the truer that statement is. Have a beautiful day everyone.
Mary, for some reason, I needed to see your comment and it really spoke to me. It’s so true! Can’t live other’s lives. Must make our own way and happiness.
my mother passed away when I was 38 years old.. I am now 70.. but the 5 words she said to me are still with me.. "You are your worst enemy" .. When ever I feel less than... or down.. or not measuring up to my expectations, I remember those words ... and they are so true ... its my vision of me, not the worlds vision of me ... and I snap out of it!!!!
I hope you realize how many souls you have touched. Your energy is so calming it enables one to connect with your words and look deep into ourselves to value what can enrich our lives. Thank you.
My words are “not everyone has to like you”. I know I’m a people pleaser. It’s tough for me not to be. I worried for a long time if someone didn’t like me. I was in my forties when the thought popped in my head that not everyone has to like you. It was freeing. I also didn’t have to like everyone. I was taught to always get along with all. Many times people hurt me when I was growing up. Girls in school who I know now weren’t worth my time. People I worked with who I knew didn’t care for me. I would get a feeling they were just tolerating me. I didn’t do anything to them. I was always nice to everyone. I just suddenly realized I don’t have to like them. I would be pleasant enough but I didn’t have to talk to them. I wouldn’t waste my time worrying whether they liked me. My girlfriend would worry if someone didn’t like her. I asked her if they were important in her life. Of course she said no & I said then why care what they think? Those words helped her. Your video was beautiful. Seeing all the backroads & what was on them. Beautiful photography. Love you,Lucy
When you were talking about the lady that could not believe that her husband was dead , brought me back to the time when my brother was murdered. I was only 23 years old and I had to bury him on my own. My mother could not handle it and except it. At the time I chose to do a closed coffin because he was shot in the head. The day of the showing , which was just a gathering of friends and family to show respect to my parents , she could not handle it. She was emotionally distraught and kept saying that her son was not dead . So I had decided to get together with the funeral director to let her see her son before he was buried. It was against my better judgment but I could not let my mother go through her life thinking that maybe her son was somewhere out there and we never buried him. I’m not sure if he gave her any closure or not but me being so young , I think I did the best I could. I don’t think she ever got over his death. I hope though my decisions made it a little bit easier for her in her life. She’s gone now but I think about her every single day. She’s with my brother now and I hope she’s happy !
Dear Chrissy, I think what you did was such a loving and caring thing. You were grieving the loss of your brother and you were so brave when your mom could not be..That's love🌹 I'll never forget your story. And may we all take some comfort that we'll all be together again💕
I always am reminded of a quote on a marker in my Bible that was given to me when I was a young girl: “Your life lies before you as white as driven snow; be careful how you tread it for every step will show.” So I try to live by these words: love, forgive, grateful, hopeful, and thankful.
I find not judging people the most difficult personally. When I see how some of my family behave, I find it impossible not to judge them. That is a tough one.
"Congratulations, you have a son"! And just like that, my life has never been the same; and never will be again. That boy means everything to me and gives meaning to every breath I take :-)
The five words that have impacted my life most are confidence, strength, integrity, independence, and self-worth. My Aunt instilled those words in me as young girl and they have carried me through my life, especially in the toughest of times. Lovely video, Susan! Hugs to you and Desi. 💕
I’ve been going through a difficult time and you have helped cheer me up and encourage me in ways you could never know. You are simply beautiful, inside and out. Also, my 12-year-old daughter just adores you. I am so grateful that we stumbled upon your channel. Thank you for just being wonderful you and for sharing that contagious smile, sense of humor, and priceless wisdom with all of us. You’re doing what you were created to do.❤️
Susan, it was brought to my attention after watching this video, what a treasure trove you have and are leaving to your son and grandchildren. All your videos are just ripe with who you are and what your heart is made from and by whom. A minister once said that “tell your children everything about your childhood and life”, as that is how they will know who they are! When your time here on earth is done, what a gift you are leaving to them by all of your UA-cam videos that you have made over the years that you have been doing them. I am blessed to have found you and to “know” you in such a personal way! I love you, my dear!
My whole life my mother was always there for me. Whenever I did something for her or was just leaving her house after a visit, I’d say I Love you Mom and she ALWAYS said I love you more! Every time. I realised one day that I had continued what she did with me with my children. I dropped my son off for something and he said Thanks Mom Love you! I responded with “I Love you More!” He always smiled when we do that. We said goodbye to mother last July at age 95. She passed in my arms at home. My last words were I Love you and I felt in my heart her say I Love you More! So not 5 words but 4 special ones!
It has been such a VERY hard news year with politics and Covid but when I heard Oprah say that she changed her internal question about people from "What's WRONG with you?" to "What HAPPENED to you?" she felt all judgement dissolve away...and it works! It has really made me a more positive, sensitive person, open to someone's 'history', as you said, Susan! Also, love the Lilysilk on you!
Susan, you are so special. You see the world in so much more depth and detail, far beyond what it appears on the surface. To many, an abandoned building is just dry weathered wood. You see history, a life once lived by pioneers, a life- giving windmill, a bench holding people! You have such a special way of seeing the world. Thank you for sharing and bringing your vision and wisdom to us, and helping us live fuller, richer lives.
I just found your channel today. It was suggested to me. As soon as I started watching I felt that Holy Spirit connection. I love how God places people in our lives to help is when we’re struggling. I just went through a divorce in 2020 and I also am rebuilding my life. I don’t have much, but I have hope and faith so I know I will make it. Your video on your divorce made me cry. I will be 62 next month.
Oh Denise I am so happy you found me and Desi!!! I know just what you mean when you get that true chill knowing that God has put you on a path. I had that today and it just made me so grateful to be alive. I know going through a divorce is one of the hardest things we can go through in life....all those hopes and dreams packed away in boxes and all that love....I am wishing you the very best. It sounds like you are doing very well...I am sending you love and good wishes for this coming week!!! xxoo Susan & Desi
I unfortunately have quite a few regrets that truly affected my life. I wish life were like the movies and I could have a do over. You do have a calming way about you which this type A personality needs. ❤️💕
You are such a breath of fresh air. The story of the blind woman at the bus stop is a great reminder of our blessings and so many others that we need to take notice from time to time.
My mom always told me “always put your family & yourself first” they are the ones you will always count with!! I miss you precious mami 😘❤️💕🦋 She was always right!! 🙌🏻🦋🙌🏻
You know....I think you were born to do this!! The wisdom that you have garnered through it all is coming out just when women like myself need it. When I saw the American flag and the bench that was dedicated, I began to choke up. Life is going by so fast and I want to slow it down somehow because I have finally gotten to the age that EVERYTHING makes a difference to me. I understand choices now and consequences. The windmill broken but still listlessly turning in the wind, the chair onced used but then forgotten, no longer useful, now left behind. All of the memories left behind in the abandoned home. Your words and thoughts really help me and challenge me. I want to make a difference in peoples lives and live the life that I have left with all of the gusto that I can muster! Love you Songbird! The waters flowing in the creek were mesmerizing. Have a wonderful week. XO
You are so right Ginger...life moves so fast...and I guess that is our cue to slow down... "I understand choices now and consequences " ....I am just starting to put it together! Love to you and yours Ginger...I am so glad you are here! xxoo Susan & Desi
@@LittlePoet Thank you Susan for your sweet reply. The one thing I forgot to say before I hit the post button was ......that silk blouse and gorgeous skirt was perfection! You looked stunning! That one will be a real "head turner"! 🌹👍
Mom always said “catch more flies with honey than vinegar “.... little more than five lol My words to live by are faith , love , showing grace and forgiveness .
I have reinvented myself through my life from so many others expectations that sadly I lost myself! So your video tonight showed me I really have to find myself some how and some where!
Your backroads footage brought back so many memories for me. Our mother was a painter and photographer and would often take us kids along with her when scouting out the backroads of our town in search of old abandoned farmhouses and barns to photograph as inspiration for her paintings. Sometimes we would make a day of it and pack a lunch of egg salad and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches to eat as she would sit and sketch the country scenes to later paint. She would have enjoyed this video. I have five words that I have unfortunately just put into practice in the past few years. It's amazing how it can change the nature of a relationship ... Let someone else be right (even if they're not :) . Love to you and that darling little Desi. Laurie
Why are your memories making me cry? What a glourious picture you paint of love, expression and curisoity...may I just say, wow....your Mother was everything...and you have told me for many years that but it wasn't until tonight it really sunk in!!!! Thank you Laurie!
You live in such a beautiful area. Mine were six words. I worked at a TV station in Lexington,KY and a famous psychic was in the building to be a guest on a show. I was a secretary and walked by in the the hall and he stopped me and told me "you are having a baby girl". I had just suspected I was pregnant and yep it was a baby girl and he told me the weight! !! lol So that was kind of interesting. I loved this. Have a blessed week, Susan. xox, Melissa
Oh...a baby girl!!! And you did....and the way you love your daughter and let her be everything is so beautiful. It's hard to show love if we grew up with nobody really loving us...but you did it, Melissa!!! I so admire you...love you always, Sues
Love your sweet spirit Melissa. Love your channel and watch every post. Should have known you you would be a kindred soul if Susan’s. Two amazing women. 💕
Thought provoking. At nearly 67, I guess I don’t know me well enough for 5 words of definition. I have one...forgiveness. I must learn to accept the forgiveness of Jesus and forgive myself. That one word trips me up all of the time. I fail to achieve even just one day where I can say, Yeah, I did this one whole day correctly. But His mercies are new each morning, and I try again.
This video so resonated with me because I chose to not be a victim any more. That was 3 years ago.. I had to learn to love myself and learn what is this word LOVE that people use so freely.So I had to take a deep down hurtful search into my past and why I am me.Glad to have met you Susan. We can only learn to love by loving & start with yourself.
I watched your video with tears rolling down my cheeks, you talk so emotionally & you get me to think about my life & how great full I am but the self pity still emerges when I’m not feeling well especially when I’m in pain etc. There’s so much to learn from your beautiful videos & just to watch the scenery you film makes me want to go out & do the same. In the mean time I’ll wait in eagerness for your next video. 😊
That was a great video! For me...it’s the same 1 word applied 5 ways that has been very impactful to how I live my life. The word is ‘choices’. When I realized that in every moment, in every situation, I have a choice to make and that choice can impact me and impact others so I need to choose wisely, thoughtfully, and purposefully, not just be reactionary. As a result, more often than not I can extend grace to others and/or to myself. These are the 5 areas of choices: ...my thoughts ...my beliefs ...my words ...my actions ...my responses to everything Blessings to you! 😊
The five words that changed my life and is still changing my life today is contrition, confession, penance, amendment, and receive! I never had complete joy in my life till I applied these five words! That same joy turns into love and action! We are not perfect people but with a little help we can be the best we can be! Loved the road trip to the backroads of Michigan! I was raised on a farm in south west Texas! So its where my heart is! Blessings!
I live with consequences everyday of my life. Consequences for bad choices. I accept it and count my blessings everyday as well. God's mercy endures forever.
@@sabine3769 pray for your partner and let God work on him. If he is abusive you need to leave. It only will get worse. I dont know your age but maybe start your own life. Go to a Bible believing church and if not working get a small job to start to build self confidence.
For me, forgiveness is either immediate or in cases of deep down in the soul wounds; a process. But it's always a choice. I heard someone say we can choose to 'be bitter or be better.' I choose to be better. And what I've discovered is the root of unforgiveness is self-centered. Forgiveness I've found, is centered. 🌻
Thank you again lovely lady- Consequences=mistakes/learning experiences; old chair=past days/moments; forgiveness=accept, forget, move on; gratitude=thankful; history=roots, how life once was, lessons, strength, compare.
Susan, What an outstanding video with so much wisdom. You inspire all of us to be better people. Words are so important. I try to make a few people feel better every day with kind words.
These beautiful words changed and is still changing and molding me into the 57 year old woman that I've become : Faith, Grace, Stillness, Peace, and Endurance. There are so many more, but these precious words have seen me through life's journey thus far.
That is beautiful! Endurance...this is what a woman must get very good at....thank you for sharing your words Crystal.....so much meaning. xxoo Happy weekend, Susan & Desi
The five words for me are. Follow the yellow brick road. As a child I would have a troubling dream over and over. Dreamed about a hyway, it was new and black with a shiny white stripe down the middle. I would be walking on it. Then it would start breaking up like pieces of a puzzle, floating away. I would be trying to grab the pieces to put them back together. At 41 I found JESUS and he showed me the golden path. I have followed the yellow brick road ever Sence. Been to many country's and am now 84years old this year, living in the middle east. Helping others to find Jesus and his road home. Happy, contented, comitment, faith, last of all JOY are my 5 words now. God bless all of you dear sisters.
My mom always said “make the best of things “which when I was younger didn’t mean as much as it does now. I respect, and admire so much that she always made the best of things, didn’t complain much, even though she could have, and took wonderful care of her three girls. Miss you, mom and always will.
HOME (the loving home, and small town where I was born and raised in Maine that will remain in my soul forever..first kiss, favorite swimming hole, football field, church, and cemetery where my elders lie). COURAGE (being brave through the ups and downs of life. Times i didn’t think I would survive. I am still here. I made it through. I am strong!). MEMORY (appreciating how very precious memories are. I can close my eyes and be back holding my new born baby boy, or at a concert with an old boyfriend, or my first day of high school, and memories sustain us when we have lost loved ones or parents or lovers. We are blessed with memory. Let us appreciate that gift. Especially when Alzheimer’s steals that joy from so many). FAITH ( as I get older, my faith in God deepens. All the things my parents instilled in me rise to the top as we age. What would we do without faith?). LOVE ( love is the most important thing in life. It heals...it sustains...it brings joy. Even when it breaks our hearts, it reminds us that we are alive)
Hi Susan:) I read most all the comments and didn’t have 5 words I could come up with on the spot but recently I truly found the meaning of grateful and blessed. I always go by what ur Mother said and I mentioned something almost exact in another video of yours in the comments-putting ur troubles and blessings in a piles along with others-and I always choose mine:). You son saying “I’m so happy to see you” was priceless 😊🤗❤️🙏
Remembering our past is who and what we are . But living and dwelling in the past is the past and that’s not the direction we are going. Life is short, live your life moving forward
One of my favorite poems for many years, it has long guided me: "Things said or done long years ago Or things I did not do or say But thought that I might say or do, Weigh me down, and not a day But something is recalled, My conscience or my vanity appalled." William Butler Yeats
I am glad you spoke about saying 'Forgive me' because I have learned of the difference between saying "I''m sorry" and "Please forgive me. "I am sorry" does not check for the reactions or feelings of the offended, whereas, "Please forgive me" is more healing because that person must actively affirm reconciliation, an extension of kindness from the wronged one. This is a game changer: Please forgive me. I use it with kids I work with, too, when they have troubles. Forgiveness is an active thing. So thank you for bringing that up. My first word is 'Gratitude' because I went along many years not really thinking of this, especially after divorce when things were so hard. It was struggle, struggle, struggle. But, actually, I had a lot going for me. As you say, others had it much worse. Maybe I felt a little 'lucky' but had to go deeper to cultivate gratitude. That has been a game changer, too. Along with this, my fast pace sort of self-involvement, is 'Listen'. That takes time and: Humility. So I guess I have 4 now: forgive, gratitude, listen, humility. And, of course, love, SAYING "I love you" which we did not do in my family and still can make me feel funny to say it (Except to my daughters). Thank you so much for this video and exercise. Very heartwarming and reassuring and hope-engendering!!
Susan...this is by far, THE BEST video you've done! So much wisdom, which is rare these days, it all spoke to my heart. These are such important issues in life...about action vs. inaction, apathy vs caring...or that when you saw your little boy so happy after he saw Daddy and you moved out of your feeling of dejection and gave him a great big smile...You're not preaching...you are speaking universal truth. I wish all people understood their history, both the good and the bad, for it makes up who we are, to either aspire to more or move beyond what was done and make our corner a better place for ourselves and the next generation.
Oh thank you Noelle! That means the world to me...I felt like maybe it was too much and then I realized that's sort of life for us at times...and that we can talk about these things....when you rote " apathy" you hit the nail on the head for me...I have been thinking about this so much. The art of not caring is something I want to leave behind for good. Just the power of a smile...losing all the other stuff and just letting love take over, well you wrote that beautifully....maybe some truths are just that...truth and a better way of living. I hope your new week is a great one Noelle...I so appreciate you understanding and sharing your thoughts! xxoo Susan & Desi
Five words... I have three words.. Three words that are simple, and three words that get tossed around that at times, have lost their meaning. A little back story: I grew up in a house that never said these words. In fact, a lot of opposite words were said to me for as long back as I can remember. I heard things like, "I hate you", "I wish you were never born", "I don't want to see you", "You're ugly", "I don't want you", "I hate you"... and on and on. So I vowed, when I was 7 years old, to never say things like what I heard. I grew up and I had 3 daughters. I told them I loved them from moment 1. They heard that constantly. They heard that they were wanted and that I was happiest being with them.. I still to this day tell them I love them every day. Now days it can be in a text! But I tell them, and they know. I now have 6 grandchildren and 1 great-grandchild. I always tell them I love them. Whenever I see them or talk to them, I never let that time go by where I don't say, "I love you". And they know that my three words, my "I love you" words are NOT meaningless. My three words don't even come close as to convey what is in my heart.
I grew up the same way! Not everyone has a wonderful childhood. I am reminded of the words by Sandra Bullock in Hope Floats. " Childhood tis something you live your whole life trying to get over" That's the way I feel, so I truly understand!
Thank you for sharing all that you do. I have been inside for many months with health problems and your videos give me a window to the wonderful things in this world.
At the beginning of the video it had the date 6-6-20 and this made me smile as my birthday is 6-6. The five words that I identify as me now are... I love and accept myself. It certainly took time to realize and enjoy this about myself and I’m happy to say it’s lovely. Thank you for taking the time to do what you do for all of us who enjoy the sharing of your life’s experiences with us each week.
I think it was Joyce Myers, who said if your depressed it's because you got yourself on your mind to much!! Think of others, how very true. My word is Listen!! Sometimes we miss alot by not truly Listening! Pay attention to the ones you love! & Laugh, Enjoy your self!! Xoxo
Hi Susan,i love those pictures. Thats how i see your country. Its beautiful. Today my son returns home from his university town.Three years, just a flash.Yet the most difficult of changes happened in those years. Plus,many happy times too.This week our town,country opened up from Lockdown.Im so happy for everyone. However my life stays in lockdown. I live with chronic pain.Its horrendous. Thank you for acknowledging us.I have been in Lockdown for 24 years. Locked into my body.What keeps me sane is my son who arrives in a few hours. My daughters and sons in law raising families in such difficult times. My beautiful grandchildren and the joy they bring. My most relatable words are "LOVE And MISS YOU ALWAYS " Thank you Susan and care to all your viewers. Hi little Desi.
Gratitude, for sure, will get you through some rough spots. Purpose has become essential to me as I grow older. Nonjudgemental is my favorite of the nice things anyone has ever said about me. Acceptance is the one I still struggle with, mostly accepting the challenges thrown my way. Tops on the list for me, though, is perspective. Sometimes you have to take a few steps back in order to gain it. Thanks for the beautiful video, Susan!
just one for now. RESPECT. When considering what advice I would give my son as he opened his own restaurant, I came up with this. Respect for employees, customers, vendors.... And I bought magnetic letters to spell it out. The word is still on the hood above the range, 11 years later.
This video was incredible Susan! The coat looks amazing on you and so does the silk shirt! Lily Silk has such a wonderful reputation. Five words...love, loyalty, heart, grit, and simplicity. Love you Susan❤️.
Ah thank you so much, Laura! You are just the best....I was out to buy new spring makeup and I had a list of your favorites...I had way too much fun!!!! I tried a new Glow Tint by Joah and wow....I wear it alone or under my makeup but for summer, it's just amazing! I love your five words....." simplicity" is a word that is so underrated. Thank you so much for being here...I hope your daughter is doing well! Love to you and yours always, Susan
I never remember anyone in my life EVER said they were happy or glad to see me...So. I always made sure that my grandchildren heard that from me each and every time I saw them, even if for just a minute.....One day I heard my little granddaughter tell my little dog "I happy to see you"....So I was so happy to hear that....Now they are grown and I still tell them .....Even on the phone I will say I am happy to hear you.....I believe everyone should feel important to somebody, once in a while.....
I had to take a minute to really take in one you shared Yvonne....this is a lesson that once you learn it does change your world. I know your grandchildren love you so very very much....and I am so grateful for you tonight for sharing your life and reminding me how crucial it is to make somebody feel like that truly matter....xxooo Love to you, Susan & Desi
@@LittlePoet Thank you, you make me feel important.......
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That is just beautiful Yvonne.💕
@@yvonnefitts5229 you are important...and a great teacher to us all!
TODAY, I would use a sentence. Help lift up the forgotten I took out a friend since we met in 1980. We were career woman until our life's journey took down different paths. My friend Mary is in a nursing home now for 5 years. She is in low place and I stepped up and took her to thrift stores and out to eat. I bought her some new clothes as she looked disheveled. My do I feel good I stepped out of myself to treat her. And forget about my burdens. It worked out great.
This is so beautiful Suzanne...my best moments are when I forget all about me...xxoo Happy weekend to you! Susan & Desi
Wonderful God Bless you!!
I was brought to tears when my 50 year old son recently said, "Thanks for a great childhood.". It really took me by surprise since I was a single mom of three and really struggled to make ends meet.
WOW!! This is so beautiful!
@Lois Campbell. Words to cherish! Priceless!!!!
5 words.... God so loved the world.
Yes.❤️❤️🥰. These five words are EVERYTHING.
Those are the best 5 words!
The last words my husband spoke to me...”I will love you forever”....so him. So beautiful.
So beautiful!!!
How wonderful!
I would choose your words, but add one. Commitment! If I had committed my life to the Lord with all my heart, so many choices would have been different. I didn’t know him! I feared him and wanted to lead a moral life, and when I got to know him, I slid back by the world. There comes a time when you see he is your life! He is your hope! He is everything you need. Commitment to him is your shield! It is a path to wisdom. His word is a song, revelations, truth, packed with history, love, experiences, and a future! I want to hear him, so I listen, I talk to him, and I study his word. It is his voice that comes through and his Spirit that fills. I am his, and he is mine! Thank you Susan for a wonderful message!
YES, we must have JESUS in this life and the one to come !!
Amen!
Thank you for your wonderful message!
I loved the memory that your friend shared about being on a train as a child with soldiers during the Korean war. My dad was a soldier during that war and several years ago I ask him to tell me about his military service and he talked about riding the train as a soldier to basic training and different places. Your friends words brought back my dad's words to me.
@Daisy Davis. Love this....
The actual 5 words my mother told me were "Don't depend on a man." Those words have helped create the independent person I have become. However, within that growth are my favorite words, persistence, perception, planning, passion, principles, all a foundation for achieving a good life.
My mom has passed on, and our relationship wasn't always easy. Towards the end of her life though, on one of our phone calls she said to me, "I love everything about you." She usually wasn't one to give many compliments, but those five words meant more to me than you could ever imagine. I tear up just thinking about it.
What a wonderful gift.
My words are time kindness happiness respect and love. A e
A dear sister friend suddenly passed away this week. It has made me appreciate all the time we spent laughing and talking. I hope she is happy I miss her voice I miss our time.🌈🦋❤️
I am sorry for your loss Carol.My birth mother will be buried on Tuesday.My adopted mother died 2011.Its a strange situation. I didn't know my birth mother until i found her when i was 36.i am now 58.
@@cathyrosen7748 I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend, Cathy. I hope your good memories bring you comfort and peace.
And this too shall pass.
I say that more and more and it feels so good and peaceful Lynn
Jesus,the LIGHT of the World!!!
I was brought up by my Nan after my mum left just before I turned 2 years old. I was often bullied and taunted by the neighbourhood children for not having a mum and dad. The 5 words that have always stayed with me were said by my Nan, as she took me in her arms to comfort me as I sobbed. She said, "They're jealous because you're beautiful".
this made me cry.......you are still so beautiful to carry those words to me and the others here...:)
Love, mercy, forgiveness, acceptance, repentance.
Hello Jennifer 🥰
Agree!
I tried hard to remember something really good that happened in my life when I was a kid,,we were dirt poor,,and made fun of at school...Even teachers treated us different...But my best memory about my school days is my second grade teacher made me a costume to wear in a play...Because I didnt have one...She was special...
Bless your dear teacher!❤️
She must have had a warm heart .... she will be blessed
Counting our blessings, instead of our troubles can change our lives in many ways...
Susan, my mom and dad divorced when I was a little child. Mom always told me he didn't want children but she thought once she had me maybe he'd change his mind. He didn't. Later after years went by, he invited my family to his and my stepmom's house. Note: I had been there when I was 16. Long story. Anyway, while we were there my dad told me it was true he didn't want children. He didn't like the messy baby years but after that he loved having a daughter. He told me he was so proud of the woman I had become. And that he loved me very much. We planned our first Thanksgiving together for them to come to our house. But the week before, I received a call from my stepmom that my dad had died of a massive heart attack. I was so glad that I had forgiven him and we had a chance to talk.
My 5 words are a statement from my mother. I didn’t appreciate how wise Mom was when she was with us. Mom always said ”you make your own happiness “. The more advanced I get into my life, the truer that statement is. Have a beautiful day everyone.
Mary, for some reason, I needed to see your comment and it really spoke to me. It’s so true! Can’t live other’s lives. Must make our own way and happiness.
@@Bonilee well said Bonniek”make your own way”!
Gratitude, compassion, kindness, gentleness, science. Hugs. 💖👩🏻
my mother passed away when I was 38 years old.. I am now 70.. but the 5 words she said to me are still with me.. "You are your worst enemy" .. When ever I feel less than... or down.. or not measuring up to my expectations, I remember those words ... and they are so true ... its my vision of me, not the worlds vision of me ... and I snap out of it!!!!
This really touched my heart...thank you so much for sharing it!!!!! Oh my!!!! I will always remember your Mothers words too....
@@LittlePoet you are so sweet to take the time to reply... have a peaceful happy night with little Desi in your cozy sanctuary
Im missing my parents im 58 and they died 5 years ago 5 weeks apart. You are lifted up in prayer 🙏.
I hope you realize how many souls you have touched. Your energy is so calming it enables one to connect with your words and look deep into ourselves to value what can enrich our lives. Thank you.
What a beautiful thing to say to me Lorraine...thank you so much...my gosh you made my day!!! I hope your day is going well! xxoo Susan
@@LittlePoet Most Welcome. I meant every word. Take care.
My words are “not everyone has to like you”. I know I’m a people pleaser. It’s tough for me not to be. I worried for a long time if someone didn’t like me. I was in my forties when the thought popped in my head that not everyone has to like you. It was freeing. I also didn’t have to like everyone. I was taught to always get along with all. Many times people hurt me when I was growing up. Girls in school who I know now weren’t worth my time. People I worked with who I knew didn’t care for me. I would get a feeling they were just tolerating me. I didn’t do anything to them. I was always nice to everyone. I just suddenly realized I don’t have to like them. I would be pleasant enough but I didn’t have to talk to them. I wouldn’t waste my time worrying whether they liked me. My girlfriend would worry if someone didn’t like her. I asked her if they were important in her life. Of course she said no & I said then why care what they think? Those words helped her. Your video was beautiful. Seeing all the backroads & what was on them. Beautiful photography. Love you,Lucy
When you were talking about the lady that could not believe that her husband was dead , brought me back to the time when my brother was murdered. I was only 23 years old and I had to bury him on my own. My mother could not handle it and except it. At the time I chose to do a closed coffin because he was shot in the head. The day of the showing , which was just a gathering of friends and family to show respect to my parents , she could not handle it. She was emotionally distraught and kept saying that her son was not dead . So I had decided to get together with the funeral director to let her see her son before he was buried. It was against my better judgment but I could not let my mother go through her life thinking that maybe her son was somewhere out there and we never buried him. I’m not sure if he gave her any closure or not but me being so young , I think I did the best I could. I don’t think she ever got over his death. I hope though my decisions made it a little bit easier for her in her life. She’s gone now but I think about her every single day. She’s with my brother now and I hope she’s happy !
🙏🏻💔🙏🏻
Dear Chrissy, I think what you did was such a loving and caring thing. You were grieving the loss of your brother and you were so brave when your mom could not be..That's love🌹
I'll never forget your story. And may we all take some comfort that we'll all be together again💕
What a brave Soul, and a great sister .
Thank you for sharing your story. A great sadness and one that will be alongside you forever. Stay well, be happy. 👣
I always am reminded of a quote on a marker in my Bible that was given to me when I was a young girl:
“Your life lies before you as white as driven snow; be careful how you tread it for every step will show.” So I try to live by these words: love, forgive, grateful, hopeful, and thankful.
Love it!
This is profound!
I find not judging people the most difficult personally. When I see how some of my family behave, I find it impossible not to judge them. That is a tough one.
I don’t know about five words but I love to hear ‘grandma’ from my grandchildren, no matter how old they are getting
Trish, I so agree!! Mine call me nanni. No sweeter sound
"Congratulations, you have a son"! And just like that, my life has never been the same; and never will be again. That boy means everything to me and gives meaning to every breath I take :-)
Oh, I love that!
The five words that have impacted my life most are confidence, strength, integrity, independence, and self-worth. My Aunt instilled those words in me as young girl and they have carried me through my life, especially in the toughest of times. Lovely video, Susan! Hugs to you and Desi. 💕
I’ve been going through a difficult time and you have helped cheer me up and encourage me in ways you could never know. You are simply beautiful, inside and out.
Also, my 12-year-old daughter just adores you. I am so grateful that we stumbled upon your channel. Thank you for just being wonderful you and for sharing that contagious smile, sense of humor, and priceless wisdom with all of us. You’re doing what you were created to do.❤️
Susan, it was brought to my attention after watching this video, what a treasure trove you have and are leaving to your son and grandchildren. All your videos are just ripe with who you are and what your heart is made from and by whom. A minister once said that “tell your children everything about your childhood and life”, as that is how they will know who they are! When your time here on earth is done, what a gift you are leaving to them by all of your UA-cam videos that you have made over the years that you have been doing them. I am blessed to have found you and to “know” you in such a personal way! I love you, my dear!
My whole life my mother was always there for me. Whenever I did something for her or was just leaving her house after a visit, I’d say I Love you Mom and she ALWAYS said I love you more! Every time. I realised one day that I had continued what she did with me with my children. I dropped my son off for something and he said Thanks Mom Love you! I responded with “I Love you More!” He always smiled when we do that. We said goodbye to mother last July at age 95. She passed in my arms at home. My last words were I Love you and I felt in my heart her say I Love you More! So not 5 words but 4 special ones!
After reading this I am crying Shannon....all I can say is, I love you more and you make me love life more.
@@LittlePoet Thank you. Your posts always touch my heart in a special way. Like a close friend I’ve never met. 💕
It has been such a VERY hard news year with politics and Covid but when I heard Oprah say that she changed her internal question about people from "What's WRONG with you?" to "What HAPPENED to you?" she felt all judgement dissolve away...and it works! It has really made me a more positive, sensitive person, open to someone's 'history', as you said, Susan! Also, love the Lilysilk on you!
Susan, you are so special. You see the world in so much more depth and detail, far beyond what it appears on the surface. To many, an abandoned building is just dry weathered wood. You see history, a life once lived by pioneers, a life- giving windmill, a bench holding people! You have such a special way of seeing the world. Thank you for sharing and bringing your vision and wisdom to us, and helping us live fuller, richer lives.
Integrity, perseverance, courage, kindness, hope.
Hello there 🥰
I just found your channel today. It was suggested to me. As soon as I started watching I felt that Holy Spirit connection. I love how God places people in our lives to help is when we’re struggling. I just went through a divorce in 2020 and I also am rebuilding my life. I don’t have much, but I have hope and faith so I know I will make it. Your video on your divorce made me cry. I will be 62 next month.
Oh Denise I am so happy you found me and Desi!!! I know just what you mean when you get that true chill knowing that God has put you on a path. I had that today and it just made me so grateful to be alive. I know going through a divorce is one of the hardest things we can go through in life....all those hopes and dreams packed away in boxes and all that love....I am wishing you the very best. It sounds like you are doing very well...I am sending you love and good wishes for this coming week!!! xxoo Susan & Desi
I unfortunately have quite a few regrets that truly affected my life. I wish life were like the movies and I could have a do over. You do have a calming way about you which this type A personality needs. ❤️💕
I agree - Regret is such a major thing for me too. I'd love a do over with the knowledge i have now.
What a privilege and a comfort to look up at you and have you for a mom.
You are such a breath of fresh air. The story of the blind woman at the bus stop is a great reminder of our blessings and so many others that we need to take notice from time to time.
My mom always told me “always put your family & yourself first” they are the ones you will always count with!! I miss you precious mami 😘❤️💕🦋 She was always right!! 🙌🏻🦋🙌🏻
You know....I think you were born to do this!! The wisdom that you have garnered through it all is coming out just when women like myself need it. When I saw the American flag and the bench that was dedicated, I began to choke up. Life is going by so fast and I want to slow it down somehow because I have finally gotten to the age that EVERYTHING makes a difference to me. I understand choices now and consequences. The windmill broken but still listlessly turning in the wind, the chair onced used but then forgotten, no longer useful, now left behind. All of the memories left behind in the abandoned home. Your words and thoughts really help me and challenge me. I want to make a difference in peoples lives and live the life that I have left with all of the gusto that I can muster! Love you Songbird! The waters flowing in the creek were mesmerizing. Have a wonderful week. XO
You are so right Ginger...life moves so fast...and I guess that is our cue to slow down... "I understand choices now and consequences " ....I am just starting to put it together! Love to you and yours Ginger...I am so glad you are here! xxoo Susan & Desi
@@LittlePoet Thank you Susan for your sweet reply. The one thing I forgot to say before I hit the post button was ......that silk blouse and gorgeous skirt was perfection! You looked stunning! That one will be a real "head turner"! 🌹👍
Yes - the things I didn't do. I was once handed an opportunity to extend a great kindness to someone and I will always regret not doing it.
Mom always said “catch more flies with honey than vinegar “.... little more than five lol
My words to live by are faith , love , showing grace and forgiveness .
I have reinvented myself through my life from so many others expectations that sadly I lost myself! So your video tonight showed me I really have to find myself some how and some where!
My five words: Kindness, Compassion, Love, Family & Wellness.
Most powerful words for me:
„I am sorry.“ 🙏🏻💕
Words that have taught me - kindness, tolerance, forgiveness, honesty and love. xx
“Congratulations, you are a Mother”.....couldn’t even imagine how much I “grew”. I was in my thirties ☺️!
I love the intros to your videos! You are so talented and a beautiful soul! Thank you for all you do. 🇨🇦
Your backroads footage brought back so many memories for me. Our mother was a painter and photographer and would often take us kids along with her when scouting out the backroads of our town in search of old abandoned farmhouses and barns to photograph as inspiration for her paintings. Sometimes we would make a day of it and pack a lunch of egg salad and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches to eat as she would sit and sketch the country scenes to later paint. She would have enjoyed this video. I have five words that I have unfortunately just put into practice in the past few years. It's amazing how it can change the nature of a relationship ... Let someone else be right (even if they're not :) . Love to you and that darling little Desi. Laurie
Why are your memories making me cry? What a glourious picture you paint of love, expression and curisoity...may I just say, wow....your Mother was everything...and you have told me for many years that but it wasn't until tonight it really sunk in!!!! Thank you Laurie!
You live in such a beautiful area. Mine were six words. I worked at a TV station in Lexington,KY and a famous psychic was in the building to be a guest on a show. I was a secretary and walked by in the the hall and he stopped me and told me "you are having a baby girl". I had just suspected I was pregnant and yep it was a baby girl and he told me the weight! !! lol So that was kind of interesting. I loved this. Have a blessed week, Susan. xox, Melissa
Oh...a baby girl!!! And you did....and the way you love your daughter and let her be everything is so beautiful. It's hard to show love if we grew up with nobody really loving us...but you did it, Melissa!!! I so admire you...love you always, Sues
Love your sweet spirit Melissa. Love your channel and watch every post. Should have known you you would be a kindred soul if Susan’s. Two amazing women. 💕
@@ShannonHagan *blush and Melissa is a beautiful soft soul....I agree! ..xxoo
@@ShannonHagan Oh thank you so much!!!!!
Spooky. I am living next to Castlewood Park..in Lexington Ky reading your story.
Love, redemption, grace, hope, gentleness 🦋
Thought provoking. At nearly 67, I guess I don’t know me well enough for 5 words of definition. I have one...forgiveness. I must learn to accept the forgiveness of Jesus and forgive myself. That one word trips me up all of the time. I fail to achieve even just one day where I can say, Yeah, I did this one whole day correctly. But His mercies are new each morning, and I try again.
Amen! Amen! I totally agree..that’s me also…..without the Forgiveness of the Lord I can’t Forgive myself!! ❤️🙏🏻🇦🇺🙏🏻❤️
Kathy i like what you wrote.
Yes, yes, yes❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎
This video so resonated with me because I chose to not be a victim any more. That was 3 years ago.. I had to learn to love myself and learn what is this word LOVE that people use so freely.So I had to take a deep down hurtful search into my past and why I am me.Glad to have met you Susan. We can only learn to love by loving & start with yourself.
Rhonda, I completely agree with you. I could have written your post. You said what i wanted to say perfectly. :)
I watched your video with tears rolling down my cheeks, you talk so emotionally & you get me to think about my life & how great full I am but the self pity still emerges when I’m not feeling well especially when I’m in pain etc. There’s so much to learn from your beautiful videos & just to watch the scenery you film makes me want to go out & do the same. In the mean time I’ll wait in eagerness for your next video. 😊
Wow! You captured my feelings exactly…. 🌠❤🔥
That was a great video!
For me...it’s the same 1 word applied 5 ways that has been very impactful to how I live my life. The word is ‘choices’.
When I realized that in every moment, in every situation, I have a choice to make and that choice can impact me and impact others so I need to choose wisely, thoughtfully, and purposefully, not just be reactionary. As a result, more often than not I can extend grace to others and/or to myself.
These are the 5 areas of choices:
...my thoughts
...my beliefs
...my words
...my actions
...my responses to everything
Blessings to you! 😊
Just beautiful and insightful Betty!
Susan, I have been binge watching your videos, at least twice. They give me so inspiration. God Bless You Susan an of course Desi
My daughter taught me to see both sides...I appreciate that lesson
The five words that changed my life and is still changing my life today is contrition, confession, penance, amendment, and receive! I never had complete joy in my life till I applied these five words! That same joy turns into love and action! We are not perfect people but with a little help we can be the best we can be! Loved the road trip to the backroads of Michigan! I was raised on a farm in south west Texas! So its where my heart is! Blessings!
I live with consequences everyday of my life. Consequences for bad choices. I accept it and count my blessings everyday as well. God's mercy endures forever.
Agreed. Wise choice. Peace friend.🌷
His grace is sufficient for all of us!
I live with consequenses married but very very unhappy. Tough partner. I dont have courage to get out. Praying for freedom and peace.
@@sabine3769 pray for your partner and let God work on him. If he is abusive you need to leave. It only will get worse. I dont know your age but maybe start your own life. Go to a Bible believing church and if not working get a small job to start to build self confidence.
For me, forgiveness is either immediate or in cases of deep down in the soul wounds; a process. But it's always a choice. I heard someone say we can choose to 'be bitter or be better.'
I choose to be better. And what I've discovered is the root of unforgiveness is self-centered. Forgiveness I've found, is centered.
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Wonderful, touchibg, thought provoking video. Will watch more than once to fully absorb your heartfelt words.
Thank you again lovely lady- Consequences=mistakes/learning experiences; old chair=past days/moments; forgiveness=accept, forget, move on; gratitude=thankful; history=roots, how life once was, lessons, strength, compare.
Susan, What an outstanding video with so much wisdom. You inspire all of us to be better people. Words are so important. I try to make a few people feel better every day with kind words.
These beautiful words changed and is still changing and molding me into the 57 year old woman that I've become : Faith, Grace, Stillness, Peace, and Endurance. There are so many more, but these precious words have seen me through life's journey thus far.
That is beautiful! Endurance...this is what a woman must get very good at....thank you for sharing your words Crystal.....so much meaning. xxoo Happy weekend, Susan & Desi
A beautiful video Susan! I especially enjoyed the birds singing in the background.
The five words for me are.
Follow the yellow brick road.
As a child I would have a troubling dream over and over. Dreamed about a hyway, it was new and black with a shiny white stripe down the middle. I would be walking on it. Then it would start breaking up like pieces of a puzzle, floating away. I would be trying to grab the pieces to put them back together. At 41 I found JESUS and he showed me the golden path. I have followed the yellow brick road ever Sence. Been to many country's and am now 84years old this year, living in the middle east. Helping others to find Jesus and his road home. Happy, contented, comitment, faith, last of all JOY are my 5 words now. God bless all of you dear sisters.
Love, trust, forgiveness, acceptance and faith! Love your videos! Hugs to Desi!
Your videos are always so insightful. Thank you so much for sharing wisdom and grace with us. 🦋
My mom always said “make the best of things “which when I was younger didn’t mean as much as it does now. I respect, and admire so much that she always made the best of things, didn’t complain much, even though she could have, and took wonderful care of her three girls. Miss you, mom and always will.
My best is good enough. Those are my five words in a phrase.😍
It's never preachy when we share our experiences and lessons
Hearing my adult children say " I love you mama "
Forgiveness is a wonderful thing!.. love, patience, understanding, thankfulness. ❤⚘
HOME (the loving home, and small town where I was born and raised in Maine that will remain in my soul forever..first kiss, favorite swimming hole, football field, church, and cemetery where my elders lie). COURAGE (being brave through the ups and downs of life. Times i didn’t think I would survive. I am still here. I made it through. I am strong!). MEMORY (appreciating how very precious memories are. I can close my eyes and be back holding my new born baby boy, or at a concert with an old boyfriend, or my first day of high school, and memories sustain us when we have lost loved ones or parents or lovers. We are blessed with memory. Let us appreciate that gift. Especially when Alzheimer’s steals that joy from so many). FAITH ( as I get older, my faith in God deepens. All the things my parents instilled in me rise to the top as we age. What would we do without faith?). LOVE ( love is the most important thing in life. It heals...it sustains...it brings joy. Even when it breaks our hearts, it reminds us that we are alive)
God, Mother, Father, Son, Husband.
Those Five are forever in my Heart.
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THANK YOU SUSAN, IM FULL OF GRATITUDE AND LOVE💜. WONDERFUL VIDEO🦋
Hi Susan:) I read most all the comments and didn’t have 5 words I could come up with on the spot but recently I truly found the meaning of grateful and blessed. I always go by what ur Mother said and I mentioned something almost exact in another video of yours in the comments-putting ur troubles and blessings in a piles along with others-and I always choose mine:). You son saying “I’m so happy to see you” was priceless 😊🤗❤️🙏
Oh thank you Julie...you are so sweet!!!
Remembering our past is who and what we are . But living and dwelling in the past is the past and that’s not the direction we are going. Life is short, live your life moving forward
One of my favorite poems for many years, it has long guided me:
"Things said or done long years ago
Or things I did not do or say
But thought that I might say or do,
Weigh me down, and not a day
But something is recalled,
My conscience or my vanity appalled." William Butler Yeats
This is the human condition for those who can love. Bittersweet.
Your videos always make me feel so melancholy
Your comment makes me feel melancholy...:) Have a great weekend my friend, Susan & Desi
I am glad you spoke about saying 'Forgive me' because I have learned of the difference between saying "I''m sorry" and "Please forgive me. "I am sorry" does not check for the reactions or feelings of the offended, whereas, "Please forgive me" is more healing because that person must actively affirm reconciliation, an extension of kindness from the wronged one. This is a game changer: Please forgive me. I use it with kids I work with, too, when they have troubles. Forgiveness is an active thing. So thank you for bringing that up.
My first word is 'Gratitude' because I went along many years not really thinking of this, especially after divorce when things were so hard. It was struggle, struggle, struggle. But, actually, I had a lot going for me. As you say, others had it much worse. Maybe I felt a little 'lucky' but had to go deeper to cultivate gratitude. That has been a game changer, too. Along with this, my fast pace sort of self-involvement, is 'Listen'. That takes time and: Humility. So I guess I have 4 now: forgive, gratitude, listen, humility. And, of course, love, SAYING "I love you" which we did not do in my family and still can make me feel funny to say it (Except to my daughters). Thank you so much for this video and exercise. Very heartwarming and reassuring and hope-engendering!!
Your words are so beautiful!
Susan...this is by far, THE BEST video you've done!
So much wisdom, which is rare these days, it all spoke to my heart.
These are such important issues in life...about action vs. inaction, apathy vs caring...or that when you saw your little boy so happy after he saw Daddy and you moved out of your feeling of dejection and gave him a great big smile...You're not preaching...you are speaking universal truth.
I wish all people understood their history, both the good and the bad, for it makes up who we are, to either aspire to more or move beyond what was done and make our corner a better place for ourselves and the next generation.
Oh thank you Noelle! That means the world to me...I felt like maybe it was too much and then I realized that's sort of life for us at times...and that we can talk about these things....when you rote " apathy" you hit the nail on the head for me...I have been thinking about this so much. The art of not caring is something I want to leave behind for good. Just the power of a smile...losing all the other stuff and just letting love take over, well you wrote that beautifully....maybe some truths are just that...truth and a better way of living. I hope your new week is a great one Noelle...I so appreciate you understanding and sharing your thoughts! xxoo Susan & Desi
5 Things of my life.Family, Friends,Love,Dreams,and Freedom.Love to you and Desi!!Finia Moraiti from Greece.
My life is filled with ease, joy and blessings. This is my life affirmation.
Five words... I have three words.. Three words that are simple, and three words that get tossed around that at times, have lost their meaning. A little back story: I grew up in a house that never said these words. In fact, a lot of opposite words were said to me for as long back as I can remember. I heard things like, "I hate you", "I wish you were never born", "I don't want to see you", "You're ugly", "I don't want you", "I hate you"... and on and on. So I vowed, when I was 7 years old, to never say things like what I heard. I grew up and I had 3 daughters. I told them I loved them from moment 1. They heard that constantly. They heard that they were wanted and that I was happiest being with them.. I still to this day tell them I love them every day. Now days it can be in a text! But I tell them, and they know. I now have 6 grandchildren and 1 great-grandchild. I always tell them I love them. Whenever I see them or talk to them, I never let that time go by where I don't say, "I love you". And they know that my three words, my "I love you" words are NOT meaningless. My three words don't even come close as to convey what is in my heart.
I grew up the same way! Not everyone has a wonderful childhood. I am reminded of the words by Sandra Bullock in Hope Floats. "
Childhood tis something you live your whole life trying to get over" That's the way I feel, so I truly understand!
Thank you for sharing all that you do. I have been inside for many months with health problems and your videos give me a window to the wonderful things in this world.
My five words... You're stronger than you know.You really are.Something I learned about myself and continue to remind my adult daughters.
At the beginning of the video it had the date 6-6-20 and this made me smile as my birthday is 6-6. The five words that I identify as me now are... I love and accept myself. It certainly took time to realize and enjoy this about myself and I’m happy to say it’s lovely. Thank you for taking the time to do what you do for all of us who enjoy the sharing of your life’s experiences with us each week.
Blessings, faith, grace, mercy and love...❤
I think it was Joyce Myers, who said if your depressed it's because you got yourself on your mind to much!! Think of others, how very true. My word is Listen!! Sometimes we miss alot by not truly Listening! Pay attention to the ones you love! & Laugh, Enjoy your self!! Xoxo
One of your best videos ever susan ,my two words would be thank you 🙏🙏🙏
This is a good daily affirmation for me, 'Everything I do and say has consequences'.
Oh gosh, me too Debbie!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It took me forever to learn that!!!
Grateful, love, kindness, caring and humble.
Hi Susan,i love those pictures. Thats how i see your country. Its beautiful.
Today my son returns home from his university town.Three years, just a flash.Yet the most difficult of changes happened in those years. Plus,many happy times too.This week our town,country opened up from Lockdown.Im so happy for everyone. However my life stays in lockdown. I live with chronic pain.Its horrendous. Thank you for acknowledging us.I have been in Lockdown for 24 years. Locked into my body.What keeps me sane is my son who arrives in a few hours. My daughters and sons in law raising families in such difficult times. My beautiful grandchildren and the joy they bring.
My most relatable words are
"LOVE And MISS YOU ALWAYS "
Thank you Susan and care to all your viewers. Hi little Desi.
Gratitude, for sure, will get you through some rough spots. Purpose has become essential to me as I grow older. Nonjudgemental is my favorite of the nice things anyone has ever said about me. Acceptance is the one I still struggle with, mostly accepting the challenges thrown my way. Tops on the list for me, though, is perspective. Sometimes you have to take a few steps back in order to gain it. Thanks for the beautiful video, Susan!
My 5 words: Begin, Courage, Faith, Charity and Hope.
Love, kindness, gratitude, true friend. 🙂🌷💕
Love, forgiveness, compassion, loyalty and kindness.
just one for now. RESPECT. When considering what advice I would give my son as he opened his own restaurant, I came up with this. Respect for employees, customers, vendors.... And I bought magnetic letters to spell it out. The word is still on the hood above the range, 11 years later.
This video was incredible Susan! The coat looks amazing on you and so does the silk shirt! Lily Silk has such a wonderful reputation. Five words...love, loyalty, heart, grit, and simplicity. Love you Susan❤️.
Ah thank you so much, Laura! You are just the best....I was out to buy new spring makeup and I had a list of your favorites...I had way too much fun!!!! I tried a new Glow Tint by Joah and wow....I wear it alone or under my makeup but for summer, it's just amazing! I love your five words....." simplicity" is a word that is so underrated. Thank you so much for being here...I hope your daughter is doing well! Love to you and yours always, Susan
Responsibility, Motherhood, Endurance, Gratitude, Legacy.
Grace, truth, Jesus, creativity, individuality