Can You Get Your Ex Back After Begging And Pleading?

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  • Clay Andrews says YES to the question, "Can You Get Your Ex Back After Begging And Pleading?"
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    A lot of the people who have gone through a breakup have felt devastated after losing their loved one. Unfortunately, a lot of people, end up in damage control mode, doing and saying things that might come through as desperate or off-putting like begging and pleading for their ex to come back. Sometimes, the harder we try, the farther we push them away.
    When you've done this, is it possible to get your ex back after begging and pleading? Clay Andrews says YES! But there are certain things that you have to work on to have a chance of getting your ex back.
    The immediate action should be to GET OUT OF DAMAGE CONTROL MODE. When you are stuck in this mindset, everything is about you - what you want, what you need. But guess what, your ex doesn't really care about what you want and need right now. They are prioritizing themselves first.
    Watch the full episode to uncover the OTHER STEPS on how you Can You Get Your Ex Back After Begging And Pleading!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 101

  • @jasonarokiaraj9817
    @jasonarokiaraj9817 4 роки тому +77

    There are some people who will say, “An ex is an ex for a reason. Never go back to your ex.” However, Clay Andrews, Brad Browning, Kate Spring, Amy North, Coach Melannie and Coach Lee aren’t that person. They tell you how to re-attract your ex. Trust me. There’s still hope. You just have to be patient and not rush through the process. The only way that there’s no hope at all and you need to give up forever is if he or she has filed a legal restraining order against you or if he or she has passed away.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  4 роки тому +4

      Hi Jason, Thanks for your thoughts and I'll give this a thumbs up.

    • @clarahammar966
      @clarahammar966 3 роки тому

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      @clarahammar966 3 роки тому

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      @doctorgood6390 3 роки тому

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  • @laylaoesco239
    @laylaoesco239 Рік тому +2

    You’re the most self respected coach that I have come across & you also articulate yourself very well as well as your self image online good job 🎉❤I feel better too!

  • @natedawg6547
    @natedawg6547 3 роки тому +16

    I needed to hear this... Thanks

  • @SimplyMillie24
    @SimplyMillie24 3 роки тому +12

    What if they thought I was begging and pleading but I was trying to right a wrong that I believed existed? 🤔

    • @tercsi1
      @tercsi1 3 роки тому

      Millie Goodermont same here

    • @petersonwells9794
      @petersonwells9794 3 роки тому

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      @petersonwells9794 3 роки тому

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      @petersonwells9794 3 роки тому

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      @petersonwells9794 3 роки тому

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  • @riselle1
    @riselle1 3 роки тому +5

    I did the whole begging. Moving on from beating myself up lol

    • @prettydisabled9060
      @prettydisabled9060 2 роки тому

      How did things pan out? Did you do no contact/radio silence?

  • @thelasthourgetready
    @thelasthourgetready 2 роки тому +5

    Perfect! Excellent! So wise. This is exactly why Im ignoring the begging, it's self centered. If there was understanding it would be different.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  2 роки тому

      Thanks for the positive feedback. :-) Truly appreciated.

  • @ahnafinkiad5050
    @ahnafinkiad5050 4 роки тому +11

    Hi Clay. She can't remember the positive moments of the relationship and sees the whole relationship in a negative light. So, how can I make her remember ONLY the positive moments and how can I make her forget and Let go of those negative emotions and grudges she's holding towards me? Does talking about the past makes more harm than good?

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Ahnaf, I understand that you may want to build that connection with your ex but it sounds like both of you needs to work to be on the same team. You can check our Connect and Commit course as this may help you strengthen your connection. >> modernlove.life/connect-and-commit

    • @doctorgood6390
      @doctorgood6390 3 роки тому

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      @doctorgood6390 3 роки тому

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  • @EthanC_09
    @EthanC_09 2 роки тому +5

    So my ex and I have been broken up for 2 months and it was a toxic breakup… I’ve begged and pleaded and pretty much have done everything in the book to get her back… she says things that hint at her feelings towards me, yet denies having any and says that we will not be together again. However, she said that we could meet up on Memorial Day weekend and that if I didn’t contact her for some time, maybe she’d actually miss me… it’s so hard to not contact her, because I feel lonely and I’m afraid that she’s moving on to other people even though she says she isn’t. What the hell should I do and do I have a chance?

    • @ridhikhakhar8064
      @ridhikhakhar8064 Рік тому

      What happened?

    • @MM-gp9mb
      @MM-gp9mb Рік тому

      Leave her alone. No contact is the best wat for her to miss u. U she won't miss u if ur sleays there trying to get hurt back. U just look pathetic, especially as a man. Women aren't attracted to men they perceive to be weak.

    • @gracelikerain5039
      @gracelikerain5039 Рік тому +2

      That doesnt sound like she likes u in a romantic way she was just trying to be nice to you

  • @karlashmeedavlasta6365
    @karlashmeedavlasta6365 4 роки тому +5

    My ex already reached out twice after only one week.
    It sounded like she was missing the dog, so I let her...
    I already took her back once, which obviously turnt out to be a mistake.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  4 роки тому

      Hey Karla, Whether you take your ex back or move forward in life is something that we truly respect. What is important is that you are now aware of your personal values and the qualities of a healthy relationship that you want in life. :-) Sending more positive energies on your end.

    • @clarahammar966
      @clarahammar966 3 роки тому

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      @clarahammar966 3 роки тому

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    • @clarahammar966
      @clarahammar966 3 роки тому

      +1 (3 6 1) 2 0 1--3 0 6 4..

    • @doctorgood6390
      @doctorgood6390 3 роки тому

      He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship

  • @susandepompa5546
    @susandepompa5546 4 місяці тому

    I broke up with him and then when he said bye, I started pleading and begging, and I don’t know why, but he has not responded at all to me.. how can I fix this?

  • @tercsi1
    @tercsi1 3 роки тому +6

    @Coach Clay how are you supposed to show you have changed when you are in no contact? My ex is 53 and does absolutely no social media. And we have no mutual friends. I'm in day 31 if no contact. Should I wait after day 60 to contact him again? I did do the pleading and showing up for about 2 months. We were together for 4 years and engaged.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 роки тому +2

      Hi Traci68, thanks for your question. When it comes to showing someone that we have changed, it is something that they have to experience over a period of time. the consistency of our actions and how we bring these change in the dynamics will allow them to experience the changes that you have made. an authentic change is something that comes out naturally because it has become a part of our new behavior.

    • @petersonwells9794
      @petersonwells9794 3 роки тому

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    • @petersonwells9794
      @petersonwells9794 3 роки тому

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      @petersonwells9794 3 роки тому

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      @petersonwells9794 3 роки тому

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  • @sigprofile7305
    @sigprofile7305 2 роки тому +1

    Guys..if the only way thiis work is if the person is deeply in love with you..whne the love is deep it dont take long for forgivenss especially if there was no cheating or beating....if the person hasnt responded in three weeks..move on..

  • @Calida2308
    @Calida2308 4 роки тому +4

    I dated my crush for about one month in August. We both had a crush on the other. BUT we aren't allowed to date bcauze of his position in army n mine.. He is a commander n its forbidden to date me. So we stopped dating .. But i couldn't handle it as I saw a lot between us.. We had a Gr8 chemistry..n he acted not very clear so I started fighting.. Texted a lot of emotional stuff.
    N he told me this pushes him away n my texting n telling tht I gonna stop, but never do it, annoy him.
    Thtswhy he wouldn't want normal contact yet.
    How should I continue if he avoid to meet me. N I am very sure he not only avoid to see me bcauze of job.. I am very sure he couldn't handle seeing me.. Wht should i do? Should I go totally silent?

    • @clarahammar966
      @clarahammar966 3 роки тому

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      @clarahammar966 3 роки тому

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      @doctorgood6390 3 роки тому

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  • @socketchannel4995
    @socketchannel4995 2 роки тому

    Have I still hope if I begged on and of like every two week until 2 months and someday post breakup?
    To stay serious in no contact I asked her to block me everywhere

  • @KtuluLeaderRise
    @KtuluLeaderRise 2 роки тому

    What if I broke up with her because she was hanging out with a guy to much after I told her I wasn’t okay with it. They’re friends that’s it now I know that but I tired to get back and she said she wanted to take it slow and try but not as a couple. So it confused me and I begged and chased her for 2 weeks even telling her I would give her space and coming back the next day did that twice. Before the official break up I broke up with her 2 times in two week for same reason I think I was trying to get a reaction. Anyways yesterday she said she needed to set boundaries and I finally said it sounds like she needed more space and she was just afraid to say it so I Said I will give her space and respect it and wish her the best. Anyway she might come back if I go no contact ?

  • @susandepompa5546
    @susandepompa5546 4 місяці тому

    What if he don’t respond at all😊

  • @michaelcolvin8702
    @michaelcolvin8702 4 роки тому +2

    My dumb butt called friends when anxiety was in over drive and she has nothing to do with me now. And was more angry cause of a lot and took car back I bought her. But she thinks she didn’t do anything wrong

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  4 роки тому +2

      Hi Michael, I'm sorry to hear that you have to go through this tough time when you feel worried. what are the things that you have learned so far from the experience? What are the things you feel that you can and should avoid doing when you feel anxious?

    • @michaelcolvin8702
      @michaelcolvin8702 4 роки тому +1

      @@ClayAndrews lock myself In the closet. When I do lol. Nah I really believe it screwed my chance up I should pit stop to it long time ago before it got that far

    • @ZOne_26
      @ZOne_26 3 роки тому

      @@michaelcolvin8702 same boat

    • @doctorgood6390
      @doctorgood6390 3 роки тому

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  • @ZK-lj8ls
    @ZK-lj8ls 4 роки тому

    What if she has a order of protection against me? She filed this when I wouldn't stop texting her for 2 days.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  4 роки тому +2

      Hi ZK, it is best to respect the law and the authorities. It sounds like her wall of reactance is very high this time for her to make that course of action. That last thing that we wanted to happen is for you to have concerns with the authorities.

    • @MistSGM
      @MistSGM 3 роки тому +3

      Sorry man, no chance.

    • @doctorgood6390
      @doctorgood6390 3 роки тому

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    • @booitslovelace1674
      @booitslovelace1674 2 роки тому

      Hey how did it go?

  • @andrewbrown2888
    @andrewbrown2888 Рік тому

    You will waste your time and make a fool out of yourself.Dont waste your time.

  • @mercwiffamouff7301
    @mercwiffamouff7301 4 роки тому +3

    Lol there's your thumbs up

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you for that. :-)

    • @mercwiffamouff7301
      @mercwiffamouff7301 4 роки тому

      @@ClayAndrews my ex is my friend and she said she still loves me... But like wants to not date anyone. Thinks she's broke

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      @doctorgood6390 3 роки тому

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  • @muhammadhumayoon8100
    @muhammadhumayoon8100 3 роки тому +3

    I can die but never Begging