What I learned from my first pregnancy that I'm NOT doing again...

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  • @alissalovecchio9343
    @alissalovecchio9343 3 роки тому +577

    Can’t wait to see Jayden be a big sister. She’s gonna be the best! Ahhh the matching outfits! 🥺

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +56

      I can’t wait! 😍

    • @alissalovecchio9343
      @alissalovecchio9343 3 роки тому +11

      @@brittanyxavier and Anthony figuring out his way through dad good. It’s gonna be so cute! Also I meant *Jadyn* but it autocorrected lol

    • @khariezekiel5830
      @khariezekiel5830 3 роки тому

      i guess Im asking the wrong place but does anyone know a tool to get back into an instagram account?
      I was stupid lost the password. I love any tips you can offer me

  • @leahg9215
    @leahg9215 3 роки тому +176

    So excited for a nursery tour

  • @ARWENxUNDOMIELx
    @ARWENxUNDOMIELx 3 роки тому +154

    It’s a miracle Jayden turned out so healthy lol

  • @analopes-jj3uv
    @analopes-jj3uv 3 роки тому +330

    you should definitely recreate jayden’s baby pictures when new baby comes 🥺

  • @lillyw560
    @lillyw560 3 роки тому +17

    Recently i found out im pregnant for the first time at 16. shortly after I found your channel. I absolutely love your videos! They help me get by and not feel so alone. Because im so young, i have no support but you help me so much. Thank you so much.

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +10

      You are never alone and you will be an amazing mother. Sometimes what life has in mind for us isn’t always what we planned and there will be tough times, but put your baby first and you’d be surprised on what you can accomplish. I wish you a healthy pregnancy and you got this!! ❤️❤️

    • @lillyw560
      @lillyw560 3 роки тому +6

      @@brittanyxavier that means so much to me and brought tears to my eyes. thank you again! :)

    • @mika72.-Bois
      @mika72.-Bois 3 роки тому

      I hope you can find a support group for pregnant teens. See if you can find that in your area. Good luck.

  • @jacquesmorris5828
    @jacquesmorris5828 3 роки тому +91

    Just wanna say thank you so much, if it wasn’t for you I wouldn’t have the confidence to rock my style.

  • @jessicaf2104
    @jessicaf2104 3 роки тому +1

    love this thank you so much! I am in my 1st trimester, 1st baby and I AM EXHAUSTED! I never knew what tired was until now. And realized how many harmful things we put in our bodies until now

  • @thearly1122
    @thearly1122 3 роки тому +8

    I’m 9 weeks pregnant with my first and I TOTALLY RELATE! I feel so tired all the time and I quit drinking coffee and I am tired two hours after waking up! I also am craving junk food and cold items.

  • @user-fi2fh7vr6d
    @user-fi2fh7vr6d 3 роки тому +10

    I've suddenly got this obsession to just sit and binge your videos. 😭❤️

  • @ashleygaska3634
    @ashleygaska3634 3 роки тому +12

    The Preggie Oops from Target worked wonders for me I the 1st trimester. So glad to be over that! I'm 33 weeks today. Due May 25. Good luck!

  • @emiles8104
    @emiles8104 3 роки тому +31

    Am I the only one who has been watching her vids 24/7 😁

  • @anneliesegarcia2051
    @anneliesegarcia2051 3 роки тому +7

    cant wait for the baby! Im 14 like jayden and when I got a brother when I was 10 it was lifechanging! love you all

    • @blondes5427
      @blondes5427 3 роки тому

      My kids are now going be 8 years apart preg 24 week 1 day I'm glad mg kids can play still tho too is nice to have fun

  • @camillevbc
    @camillevbc 3 роки тому +55

    giving a like before watching cause i'm sure i'll love it 🥰

  • @wendyayebale8979
    @wendyayebale8979 3 роки тому +14

    We have the same story including the part of finding love and the teen pregnancy and all 💕 my husband took my daughter as her own and we are currently expecting our first 💕 ( 23 weeks )
    So excited to watch your videos just because I relate .

  • @marygracevramos
    @marygracevramos 3 роки тому +9

    Jadyn being a big sister is one of the best feeling ever!!! 😍

  • @Magic.Mamaaa
    @Magic.Mamaaa 3 роки тому +5

    So fun to hear the difference between your pregnancies. I love following along your motherhood journey!

  • @liciapellegrini1
    @liciapellegrini1 3 роки тому +7

    You have such a calming presence and I love your content. I’m so happy I found your channel a few weeks ago! My husband and I are also preparing to try for a baby this year so these videos have perfect timing lol! All the best with your pregnancy 😊❤️

  • @zejnepz9454
    @zejnepz9454 3 роки тому +11

    Omgg can’t wait to see Jayden had a BIG SISTER!!!! I love you guysss❤️❤️

  • @joselyn4789
    @joselyn4789 3 роки тому +7

    The nausea bands worker wonders for me. I was sooooo shocked.

  • @MarcoBella_19
    @MarcoBella_19 2 роки тому

    I watched this video before having my second baby and it did really help me to see the differences i could make by making better healthier choices. Thank you.

  • @juliamorr
    @juliamorr 3 роки тому +2

    Jadyn is going to be the BEST big sister!! I’m also 14 (but the youngest in my fam) and I’ve always wanted a younger sibling💞

  • @reaganbell1101
    @reaganbell1101 3 роки тому +4

    Jayden is going to be a great big sister!! I can’t wait to see all the memories all your family makes!! 🥺🥺🥺

  • @daniellemolina3854
    @daniellemolina3854 3 роки тому +6

    Im am beyond happy for you guys! CONGRATULATIONS! 🥳🥳🥳

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +5

      Aww thank you!!

    • @daniellemolina3854
      @daniellemolina3854 3 роки тому +2

      @@brittanyxavier OMG you replied! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! I wish you and your family well! ❤️

  • @anamariasaqellari4653
    @anamariasaqellari4653 3 роки тому +11

    Have the best pregnancy ❤️❤️

  • @agness6084
    @agness6084 3 роки тому +27

    this are so good tips! ilysm stay strong!!

  • @Carolina-yz6nu
    @Carolina-yz6nu 3 роки тому

    I am so so so excited to find out wether it’s going to be a baby boy or girl🥳 I am rooting towards baby girl💗👶

  • @daisyramirezbanuelos4240
    @daisyramirezbanuelos4240 3 роки тому +3

    Love this mother daughter relationship and can't wait for the new bean❤️🥰

  • @mariahmartin6958
    @mariahmartin6958 3 роки тому +4

    My mum had another baby as well I’m 21 and she’s only almost 2 now haha 😆 It’s crazy being that much older than her but she’s adorable 🥰

  • @ancciite9259
    @ancciite9259 3 роки тому +37

    Jayden is going to be the best sister! 😫💕

  • @adrisongbird
    @adrisongbird 3 роки тому +2

    Been following your IG account for yearsss and I am SO excited for this new chapter in your family’s life! ❤️ wishing you a safe & happy rest of your pregnancy🙏🏼

  • @carolinacneto
    @carolinacneto 3 роки тому +2

    I figured out yesterday you had this channel! Love following you on instagram but here is also special.
    Congratulations on your new baby ❤ You have a beautiful family!

  • @gaby-jd8cz
    @gaby-jd8cz 3 роки тому

    CONGRATS IM SO HAPPY OMGGGG I CANNOT WAIT. jaydens gonna be SUCH a good big sister omg i cannot wait so cute !! 💗💗💗💗

  • @jessicaroman5810
    @jessicaroman5810 3 роки тому +6

    Love you guys sm! So excited for this video ☺️🤍✨

  • @rikkihurt
    @rikkihurt 3 роки тому +6

    I'm so happy for you! Can't wait to find out the gender and hear name ideas! Xo
    I definitely think nowadays we can be overly cautious. While it's good to be healthy the majority of the time, I don't think there's anything wrong with giving in to temptation. I have 5 kids. All of my pregnancies were different, the only thing I noticed was that I was sicker with my boys and had more food adversions.
    With my 4th child (2nd boy) I had the weirdest food adversion yet... I could NOT stand meat. I couldn't stand the smell, the taste, the thought... It was like everything with protein was nasty to me and made sick for hours if I ate it. I'm a huge meat eater, especially beef (don't need anyone's opinion on that either lol) so for me to be put off meat was crazy. Meat, peanut butter, eggs, nuts - didn't want any of it. This lasted the entire pregnancy and about 4 months post partum... I was practically vegan.
    With my last baby I lost a lot of weight. I was slightly overweight but over all at the end of the pregnancy I had lost 26lbs from my starting weight. No clue why and the doctor wasn't happy about it. Lol

    • @rikkihurt
      @rikkihurt 3 роки тому

      Oh and with baby #2 - she was due late summer and I was drinking so much water I actually ended up in the hospital with water toxicity/water poisoning. I never even knew that could even happen. It's very dangerous and a horrible experience.

  • @Legal.Knievel
    @Legal.Knievel 3 роки тому +23

    McDonald's was the only thing I could stomach for weeks during my second pregnancy, which is weird because I normally get sick from McDonald's.

    • @alexisochoa2570
      @alexisochoa2570 3 роки тому +2

      Ugh I’m pregnant rn and I cant stop thinking about McDonald’s 💀😩😩 nothing sounds good but that 😂

  • @holly6578
    @holly6578 3 роки тому

    Literally couldn't be more excited for you 🥰

  • @sonjaijovana
    @sonjaijovana 3 роки тому +14

    I'm so happy for you 💕

  • @lauraharlow2088
    @lauraharlow2088 3 роки тому +9

    So funny how different countries have different advice for pregnancy food - I know in France the cheese thing is a lot less strict, and have heard many doctors say one wine maybe 1-2 x a week is ok for “reducing stress” - maybe this is old school

    • @kikuyugirl
      @kikuyugirl 3 роки тому +1

      No, France included, alcohol is a big no while pregnant. As for the cheese, we have pasteurized and unpasteurized, unlike in the us that’s why it seems less strict. Only pasteurized cheese is acceptable pregnant

  • @shawnie2543
    @shawnie2543 3 роки тому +10

    love ur channel, your like literally so inspiring💞

  • @nikolalohova
    @nikolalohova 3 роки тому +19

    Jayden is going to be best sister🥺🥰

  • @olwyndonohue1419
    @olwyndonohue1419 3 роки тому

    stoppp I can't wait! Your family is the cutest!!!

  • @mehzgirl5044
    @mehzgirl5044 3 роки тому +1

    I can't wait for next Thursday!😊💕

  • @EuniceWaikel
    @EuniceWaikel 3 роки тому

    Im so excited for you! We are on the same track I think but you're a little ahead. I had the same cravings, and nausea happen. The having something in your stomach all the time is soo helpful. Good luck and congrats again

  • @Supergraph1cultram0dern
    @Supergraph1cultram0dern 3 роки тому +1

    i am so beyond excited for you!!!

  • @KristinasDigitalDiary
    @KristinasDigitalDiary 3 роки тому +2

    You are ✨ GLOWING ✨

  • @letiziaagnolon4699
    @letiziaagnolon4699 3 роки тому +5

    soo happy for you!!

  • @meridsle6765
    @meridsle6765 3 роки тому +7

    I love that shirt combo so much❣️

  • @kkyyyllliieee
    @kkyyyllliieee 3 роки тому +2

    Y’all are the best family and y’all are so blessed. Continue to be yourself and be amazing! Lovd you guys and ur videos!

  • @Lolee56
    @Lolee56 3 роки тому +3

    I threw up constantly during my pregnancy... it got so bad I was severely dehydrated that I would need iv fluids at the hospital every week. Snacking often didn’t help... cuz anything that went in came back out including water. Wrist bands didnt help. Vitamin b didn’t help nor did ginger. Nothing. I had Hg so I was put on zofran and reglan the whole pregnancy. I remember the first 25 weeks were the ROUGHEST. I threw up so often that my throat would bleed and I developed an eating phobia from the constant throw up

  • @greenylee8227
    @greenylee8227 3 роки тому

    So excited for your journey!

  • @sammyuren2240
    @sammyuren2240 3 роки тому +4

    oh wow im early p.s. you are GLOWINGGG

  • @rogenniedominguez8291
    @rogenniedominguez8291 3 роки тому

    Food aversions can definitely stay afterwards, same for cravings. I NEVER drank milk or ate diary products because I had an I tolerance that made me puke ...until I got pregnant. To this day I love diary, crave it and have never vomited diary products since. I’m 5 months post- portum!

  • @TheImperfectReader
    @TheImperfectReader 3 роки тому +1

    A poster in front of that treadmill is a must.

  • @rikaylaaroha8352
    @rikaylaaroha8352 3 роки тому

    Yay I’m so excited for you, and Jadyn to become a sister

  • @carlipretorius7829
    @carlipretorius7829 3 роки тому

    My food aversions currently are onions, garlic and carrots. It literally tastes entirely different from before! I cannot stand it and I used to love it 😟

  • @smartgirlcode
    @smartgirlcode 3 роки тому +2

    The no-no list of foods is funny how country specific they are. In Finland ginger is off-limits as it's harmful for normal fetal development. 😳 This is a new thing here too, just few years old addition.

    • @pahlm55
      @pahlm55 3 роки тому

      ginger is not ok to eat during pregnancy in sweden too

  • @ailieanne9779
    @ailieanne9779 3 роки тому +2

    I want to be here for all the pregnancy 💕

  • @karinadiazdeleon3604
    @karinadiazdeleon3604 3 роки тому +1

    Omg on the 6th min 🤣 freaked me out so much i thought i was hacked or haunted lol omg i did not expect that!

  • @rosalitatrevitt6683
    @rosalitatrevitt6683 3 роки тому +3

    Peanut butter and green apples are the best snack

  • @YazhiniSP
    @YazhiniSP 3 роки тому

    - Take vitamin B6 for nausea, it was a game changer for me. I didn't have HG but threw up even bananas lol.
    - Read Emily Oster's book "Expecting Better". As a nervous first time mom, it really helped me calm down. She gives the data regarding what to worry about, and what to skip worrying about.
    - This video is pretty sweet too:)

  • @cocobuttershiningarmour7895
    @cocobuttershiningarmour7895 3 роки тому +3

    So happy for you! Love your channel so much 💕

  • @corpselizzy
    @corpselizzy 3 роки тому +1

    I have hyperemesis this pregnancy and lemme tell you im in my 2nd trimester i have to drink tons of water to stay hydrated im on medication and on a diet to help gain weight. i lost 10 pounds in only a couple days during early pregnancy do to throwing up 5 to 7 times a day i couldnt eat literally anything without vomiting it was horrific. i still puke alot in the mornings and i have to be careful what i eat but my meds are helping me alot i went from 123 pounds pre pregnancy to 129 basically 130 a couple days after i found out (3 weeks and 4 days is when i found out) to 118 shortly after. im now 14 weeks and just now hit 120.

    • @corpselizzy
      @corpselizzy 3 роки тому

      Things that DONT work with hyperemesis
      ginger
      saltines
      drinking water
      pressure bands
      eating small snack
      vitamin b6

    • @corpselizzy
      @corpselizzy 3 роки тому

      Things that have worked with hyperemesis for me (approved by my OB)
      - eating only what im craving avoiding what makes me nauseous
      - taking zofran twice a day
      - drinking ALOT of water with small meals
      - carbonated drinks have alot and OB gave me the ok
      - eating small meals of what im craving

  • @mlmincey95
    @mlmincey95 3 роки тому +3

    I had a meat aversion in the first trimester with my son. Chicken and beef were my worst enemy. But I loved fish and shrimp (limiting how much shrimp I ate lol) I loved junk too 😅

  • @claireriley7346
    @claireriley7346 3 роки тому

    Just a FYI sushi rice carries a lot of bacteria and that's why it's not recommend to eat while pregnant cause of the temperature, obviously most pregnant woman are fine like yourself but it's definitely risky eating it if you don't make it yourself 🌼

  • @molliedrewry7492
    @molliedrewry7492 3 роки тому +4

    You are so lucky that you were not physically sick! I’m still sick at 18 weeks :(

    • @molliedrewry7492
      @molliedrewry7492 3 роки тому +1

      Also congratulations!!! So happy for you and your family x

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +2

      Hang in there, you got this! 💪🏼

    • @mehzgirl5044
      @mehzgirl5044 3 роки тому

      Congrats, hope you feel better soon😊

  • @alettaa
    @alettaa 3 роки тому +2

    Where I live (Finland) it's crazy how much people adore sauna even during pregnancy. Apparently they used to even give birth in saunas sometimes.
    Personally heard what you also say: no sauna or hot tub. Strange to see what is a huge no in some countries and an absolute yes in others. 😅

  • @angelalopez6380
    @angelalopez6380 3 роки тому +5

    I’m early! I love your channel lol:)

  • @yazminguel530
    @yazminguel530 3 роки тому

    So happy for you guys, sending lots of love💖
    P.s. Lol super random, but I got scared during the part in the video that got dark. I thought it was a commercial from youtube (like a scary movie trailer, or one of those murder docs) , but then I heard your voice and I calmed down🙈😂

  • @conihormazabal6396
    @conihormazabal6396 3 роки тому

    Im so excited for u!! Also u are gorgeous without makeup

  • @informationmaniac827
    @informationmaniac827 3 роки тому

    How to make ginger tea, is it okay to take it during pregnancy?

  • @brandimagill5141
    @brandimagill5141 3 роки тому

    I also thought the same thing with my twins 13 years ago and my youngest 10 years ago I never had any nausea or morning sickness…..now 10 weeks with baby 4 I have had nausea and food aversions 🤮 and I am sooo exhausted if I don’t get some caffeine and I try to more than here and there but man I’m not sure if it’s my age or what but this pregnancy is was more rough than my others

  • @georgia5719
    @georgia5719 3 роки тому +9

    Now you can add a little leaf on ur rose tattoo I remember u saying 🥰

  • @inocenciadelcastillo
    @inocenciadelcastillo 3 роки тому

    My doctor said that sparkling water counts as caffeine and you can have up to 2 glasses a day, provided you don't have caffeine from other source (coffee, tea, other beverages etc)

    • @wakemeup9835
      @wakemeup9835 3 роки тому +2

      Why would sparkling water count as caffeine? It’s just carbonated water?

  • @racheln973
    @racheln973 3 роки тому +1

    Aaah I’m so early ily❤️❤️

  • @fionamercuri3937
    @fionamercuri3937 3 роки тому

    I had my first baby in 2007 to!!
    Trying for my 4th in 2021

  • @corpselizzy
    @corpselizzy 3 роки тому +1

    also not sure what your OB was smoking when she told you that bath temps dont matter they do actually extremely hot baths or showers raise your blood pressure which is dangerous in pregnancy so its recommended to take luke warm baths and showers around 100 degrees F. if you take too hot of a bath in early pregnancy it can also cause complications with brain development leading to brain that isnt completely formed. it also puts you at risk for miscarriage. Anything hotter than 100 is way to hot and puts you at a pretty high risk for serious complications. so not sure wth your OB was saying clearly was very new at her job.

    • @corpselizzy
      @corpselizzy 3 роки тому

      American pregnancy association lets you know all the risks of taking to hot of baths or showers during pregnancy i recommend you look into it.

  • @rosamay6685
    @rosamay6685 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you! Love this video.

  • @lynda.grace.14
    @lynda.grace.14 3 роки тому +28

    Japanese women eat sushi all the time. Find a top tier restaurant with a Japanese-trained sushi chef who will procure the freshest fish.

  • @innermostself1995
    @innermostself1995 3 роки тому +3

    try juicing your own ginger and adding lemon and hot water...

  • @ellagorman7923
    @ellagorman7923 3 роки тому

    My mom had me in 2007 when she was 16 and now she’s pregnant again

  • @livelongandprospermary8796
    @livelongandprospermary8796 2 роки тому

    You look just like IRL Rosie! She’s your twin!!!

  • @OLoveYourself
    @OLoveYourself 3 роки тому

    Im from Finlandia (where sauna was invented) and here it has been normal for many many years to use saunas even when pregnant... Fun fact: not too long ago women used to give birth in suanas 😀 its curious to see how ppl fear saunas in the world..

  • @leahg9215
    @leahg9215 3 роки тому +5

    Omg queen love you so much

  • @laceyednie3406
    @laceyednie3406 3 роки тому

    cant wait to see what the baby's nursery will look likeee

  • @genesisreynosoo
    @genesisreynosoo 3 роки тому

    Cant wait to show this to my boyfriend so he can’t stop thinking I’m exaggerating 🙃 I’m 2 months right now and all I can stomach are carbs 😩

  • @eviemcdaniel9970
    @eviemcdaniel9970 3 роки тому

    Your family is beautiful🥰🙃

  • @0227Vicky
    @0227Vicky 3 роки тому

    New subscriber here. I’ve been binge watching 😊

  • @runningintostyle
    @runningintostyle 3 роки тому +29

    me watching even though I am far from being a pregnant LOL

    • @halinazhu529
      @halinazhu529 3 роки тому +1

      omg same it's so interesting

  • @AndiieTee
    @AndiieTee 3 роки тому

    I’m finding that if I eat right before bed it helps me to not wake up as nauseated

  • @alia-wo5go
    @alia-wo5go 3 роки тому

    Yeyeyyy I can’t wait

  • @kmacleod29
    @kmacleod29 3 роки тому

    Acrylic and gel nails, dip, etc are full of chemicals and our nails are very absorbent. Also, if you are not doing them yourself you are likely in a salon with chemical fumes.

  • @ayahnmar
    @ayahnmar 3 роки тому +1

    heyy i love your channel you guys !! (quick question are yall still doing the iphone 12 giveaway)wishing you the best of luck

  • @leahg9215
    @leahg9215 3 роки тому +58

    I think it’s a boy

    • @leahkrogh2600
      @leahkrogh2600 3 роки тому +2

      Honestly, me too.

    • @nobodyouknow
      @nobodyouknow 3 роки тому

      not it’s. the baby isn’t an object

    • @leahkrogh2600
      @leahkrogh2600 3 роки тому +1

      @@nobodyouknow leave them be. We didn’t call the baby an object. Who even said a unborn baby is an object? I don’t think that was needed.

    • @nobodyouknow
      @nobodyouknow 3 роки тому

      @@leahkrogh2600 they classified the baby as “it”

    • @leahkrogh2600
      @leahkrogh2600 3 роки тому

      @@nobodyouknow okay? They didn’t mean it like the baby was an object?

  • @nicoletaincze7614
    @nicoletaincze7614 3 роки тому

    Nausea stopped now, at 18 weeks...🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️... Ooo, And I have two small kids to ...🥴🥴

  • @kwenasekwakwa-zafirovski1843
    @kwenasekwakwa-zafirovski1843 3 роки тому +2

    I'm 21 weeks with my first. My biggest food aversion in the first trimester was meat.. it has stuck until now 😅 Lol this baby and I are vegetarian. He also makes me dislike soda

    • @melissag0448
      @melissag0448 3 роки тому

      Omg me too!!! But we’re technically vegan!! It’s been rough as someone who was used to eat meat but it’s def been better
      27 weeks 🤗🤗

  • @Polinaparvanova
    @Polinaparvanova 3 роки тому +13

    this vid made me realise how little I know about being pregnant, I thought as long as you don't drink and do drugs you're good haha

  • @mayagenkova2712
    @mayagenkova2712 3 роки тому

    Can you share the channel with the workouts you recommend?

  • @leahg9215
    @leahg9215 3 роки тому +5

    Where is your sweater from

  • @urisseegatdula196
    @urisseegatdula196 3 роки тому +11

    Ngl, if I got pregnant (without the knowledge of this now) I would have been eating sushi everyday too. Its gonna be so dang hard if I ever do get pregnant.. cause I eat sushi every week 😅

    • @dayzdnconfuz3d
      @dayzdnconfuz3d 3 роки тому +1

      Japanese women don’t stop eating sushi. I probably wouldn’t eat low end or grocery store sushi- but going to a reputable Japanese restaurant you’re fine.

    • @Embraceyourcurls24
      @Embraceyourcurls24 3 роки тому

      I love sushi but I’m also pregnant too

  • @maferalf
    @maferalf 3 роки тому

    Getting a blue team feeling!