How I Met My Husband After an Unplanned Pregnancy...

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • Hi guys! For episode 4 I’m telling my dating story of how I met my husband as a single mother.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 341

  • @brittanyxavier
    @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +128

    If you liked this video, make sure to check out the first episode in the series - ua-cam.com/video/yWt1T7fEVRM/v-deo.html

  • @chelseaheninger998
    @chelseaheninger998 3 роки тому +1134

    Oh my gosh I’m CRYING over Jaden being so excited when she said “you’re gonna marry mommy!? Hehehe” GAHHH I LOVE YOU GUYS😭🤍 and when she puts her hand over her eyes. I cannot deal.

    • @helloalexandraa
      @helloalexandraa 3 роки тому +55

      And jadyn was holding a little mermaid purse when “prince Eric” proposed to her mom 😭

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +88

      I knowww 😭 she was so excited 🥰💞

    • @chelseaheninger998
      @chelseaheninger998 3 роки тому +20

      I didn’t even notice she was holding a little mermaid purse!😍 How freaking adorable.

  • @lilianaagredano6498
    @lilianaagredano6498 3 роки тому +543

    Did anyone else completely loose it when they showed memory engagement clip with little Jaden and Anthony proposing to both of them? I went from fine to bawling in literally half a second.

  • @helloalexandraa
    @helloalexandraa 3 роки тому +1292

    What are the odds that the one guy that stood out to you at the bar was already mutual friends with the person you came with AND almost didn’t even go out that night 🥲

    • @sincerelysof
      @sincerelysof 3 роки тому +65

      Plus he also scanned the room and felt attracted to her!

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +216

      that’s why we always say it was meant to be 🙏🏼

    • @helloalexandraa
      @helloalexandraa 3 роки тому +16

      @@brittanyxavier thank you for sharing so much of your family’s story 😭

    • @dominikamihokova784
      @dominikamihokova784 3 роки тому

      It was meant to be for sure!!!!

    • @shannonmccarthy3461
      @shannonmccarthy3461 3 роки тому +3

      Literally they both didn't really wanna go imagine if either of them went... Literally meant to be

  • @ThulisileKolweni
    @ThulisileKolweni 3 роки тому +938

    You can tell Anthony loves it’s here and loves being a father. He is gold . Such a beautiful story and moments ❤️♥️😍😘💕😘.

  • @LayneFable
    @LayneFable 3 роки тому +502

    THAT PROPOSAL

  • @allibrooks4094
    @allibrooks4094 3 роки тому +418

    oh my goodness jayden’s little giggle during ur proposal 🥺

  • @vivianag_
    @vivianag_ 3 роки тому +122

    “Can I call you Dad?”🥺😭 so cuteeee
    You are so strong and an inspiring woman!🤍🤍

  • @quinngonzalez7372
    @quinngonzalez7372 3 роки тому +267

    "omg don't call him over i just ate garlic fries" is the most relatable thing ever

    • @Ellie-pm9he
      @Ellie-pm9he 3 роки тому +8

      ... nO- gArliC trUfFle friEs. IT'S IMPORTANT-

  • @juanna8822
    @juanna8822 3 роки тому +92

    I met my boyfriend similarly the same way, I wasn't supposed to go out that night to a restaurant because it was a Monday and I had work the next morning. When I first walked in I went with one of my friends, who I mentioned to "I think that guy is so cute!". She then took my drink and told me we are sitting at the table beside them, and I had no other choice! We hit it off right away and coming up 2 years now!

  • @justace7869
    @justace7869 3 роки тому +182

    As a child of this situation, I want to thank you for sharing your journey to motherhood. My parents (aka my Brittany & Anthony) are my world and hearing your story gives me even more appreciation for their journey to creating the family I am grateful to have today. Sending your family tremendous love on the next chapter 💕

  • @mariapaularodriguez886
    @mariapaularodriguez886 3 роки тому +56

    Absolutely love how you guys included her and he included her in the proposal. Being a daughter of a single mom I always have grown up knowing how important I was in the dynamic and feeling included is so HUGE for kids ! It was so sweet to see. Love this love so much for you guys ♥️♥️

  • @d26s10
    @d26s10 3 роки тому +152

    What a beautiful family unit, you guys are wonderful for sharing such a mature and responsible approach to love and raising kids.

  • @kita3256
    @kita3256 3 роки тому +23

    Anthony is honestly worth more than the most precious gem. That proposal and wedding 😭❤️ your daughter is so blessed.

  • @gabyromero8939
    @gabyromero8939 3 роки тому +438

    i hope the big announcement is that she’s preggo!!!

    • @isabelmalagon8879
      @isabelmalagon8879 3 роки тому +3

      Samee

    • @menzi7282
      @menzi7282 3 роки тому +3

      awww same that would be great 😊🥺😌

    • @niamhwatson
      @niamhwatson 3 роки тому +20

      I'm sure it's a collab or some business announcement.

    • @esmehdz2359
      @esmehdz2359 3 роки тому +1

      Omg I’m was so thinking the same 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @Victoria-ci2ud
      @Victoria-ci2ud 3 роки тому +6

      That would be awesome but its not likely

  • @kathiacruz9896
    @kathiacruz9896 3 роки тому +99

    OMG JAYDEN’S GIGGLE WHEN HE PROPOSED!!!!!!!!!! I’m crying 😭

  • @sydneywettengel8599
    @sydneywettengel8599 3 роки тому +192

    When did Jadyn change her last name to Xavier? Did Anthony adopt her?
    Loved this series! ❤️ Such a good example of a strong family unit! Can’t wait for next weeks announcement!

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +124

      when she was in 4th grade 🥰 She had my maiden name as her last name before.

  • @TediRae
    @TediRae 3 роки тому +24

    This whole story hits home more than I can express. I became pregnant my senior year of high school. I met my now husband when my son was a month old. He was in college and we took it slow. 13 years later, my son is 13 and our daughter is 9. We have a beautiful life we built together. My sons dad use to see him but stopped like 4-5 years ago... It is heartbreaking to see your child go through that. But he has always had my husband since he was a month old. truly a blessing a man can love a child so strongly, and biology is the only factor. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @Peanutwhiskers77
    @Peanutwhiskers77 3 роки тому +24

    My parents separated when I was very young, my dad took full responsibility of me while my mom didn’t really want to be a part of my life. My dad gave her the freedom to visit me whenever and never bad mouthed her even though she did very hurtful things to the both of us. It was very important to him that I came into my own conclusion when I got older, I’m very grateful my dad did everything he could for me and tried to make my life as normal as possible being a single dad. Growing up in a conservative country didn’t make it easy to have a child be born out of wedlock, let alone being a single parent. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏🏽 Good parents are truly a blessing and I thank God for making him my dad.

  • @nicoleroden9647
    @nicoleroden9647 3 роки тому +20

    My parents never spoke negatively about my biological father and I am so appreciative of that. I have always been my "step"-father's daughter.

  • @victoriawinhumphries7161
    @victoriawinhumphries7161 3 роки тому +100

    Brittany you are so strong and Iike listening to your story. It gives me some hope in life. Thank you for helping me without you knowing it.

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +8

      Aw I love that! Thank you for following along! 🥰

  • @raquelcrochet_designs
    @raquelcrochet_designs 3 роки тому +517

    He does look like prince Eric lol

  • @ejmakesus6
    @ejmakesus6 3 роки тому +102

    The child support I can relate too as well. Sad how some ‘dads’ don’t step up to their responsibilities 😑

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 роки тому +41

      literally. huge character issue

    • @ejmakesus6
      @ejmakesus6 3 роки тому +10

      @@brittanyxavier you said it so well 🙌🏻⭐️

  • @juanna8822
    @juanna8822 3 роки тому +35

    I'm crying with how BEAUTIFUL your love story is

  • @femmefartale4466
    @femmefartale4466 3 роки тому +13

    'I realized I can NOT live without them' AWWW my heart melted, you guys are so cute ♥

  • @goodtalker
    @goodtalker 3 роки тому +8

    Somewhere in this world a young woman and young man will watch this. Their spirits will be lifted, and they will know, that things are going to be fine, by realizing the great, great example you two have set. God Bless.

  • @klepece
    @klepece 3 роки тому +8

    OMG!!! Will you be a flower girl ❤❤❤❤
    I'm crying my eyes out! I'm 6 months pregnant and single, the dad decided to ghost me completely... thank you for this beautiful story! And thank you for being so honest in previous videos about the strugle ❤ I'm so proud of you being so young and getting through this. I'm 38 and I feel broken right now, don't know how to deal with all of it! Everyone around me is expecting me to feel confident and happy... but I'm freaking out! Your story made me feel normal... I've been feeling so guilty for not being able to be happy...
    You seem like a very nice family. I wish you all the best 💞

  • @BrendaMang
    @BrendaMang 3 роки тому +19

    the proposal with Jaden included had me so teary and happy 💛

  • @Whymee24
    @Whymee24 3 роки тому +12

    I'm not an emotional person and totally didn't plan on watching even the 1st video...... but now I'm 4 episodes in, crying tears of joy for you, and am absolutely subscribing :') :') :'). Thank you for sharing

  • @gematrujillo8002
    @gematrujillo8002 3 роки тому +73

    I just binged your story and omg I’m crying. I love your family sooo much!!!

  • @SuperNancyFancyPants
    @SuperNancyFancyPants 3 роки тому +14

    This entire story is too cute! Jaden is adorable. I literally could not with the engagement clips. *Insert cry face here* ❤️

  • @Mai-id4fw
    @Mai-id4fw 3 роки тому +6

    This is so lovely!!! He’s a great guy, & you can only find these few rare men’s like that on this planet! 💕✨ Gods gift! So happy for you & your little family!

  • @marybarrett6123
    @marybarrett6123 3 роки тому +4

    My sons birth-dad dropped out of his life pretty much after we separated & divorced. When he was 7yo I married my 2nd husband & had a similar "name" situation. We my so that he could either call by his 1st name or dad. His response was, " I finally get to have a dad?!"
    When he turned 13yo we offered him the choice of adoption. He didn't choose that because he always hoped his bio-dad would come back & want to be in his life. When he turned 19 we asked him what he wanted for his birthday. He said he wanted his dad to adopt him...so he did. They are so much alike that no one would ever guess that they aren't blood related.

  • @lekc716
    @lekc716 3 роки тому +5

    I’m tearing up watching this❤️I love how Anthony not only treats Brittany after everything she went through but how she treats Jayden and respects her and loves her

  • @MT-zm1yb
    @MT-zm1yb 3 роки тому +12

    You are such a good mom and parent, your daughter is going to grow up to be an amazing human being.

  • @KristinasDigitalDiary
    @KristinasDigitalDiary 3 роки тому +71

    This series was incredible and truly inspiring for you to share with us, thank you for your bravery 🤎🥺🥰

  • @summerdow7149
    @summerdow7149 3 роки тому +27

    I would love to see a video if Jaden is ok with it, maybe a video of how Jaden felt when she was little and how she is now with having her dads in her life:)

  • @gonda3435
    @gonda3435 3 роки тому +55

    True viewers know she told this story already

  • @alexisdionisio4282
    @alexisdionisio4282 3 роки тому +4

    To have parents completely understand their child and what they go thru is amazing.

  • @lin_zp
    @lin_zp 3 роки тому +6

    the video of him proposing.... omg i sobbed. how special wow

  • @sophiag.s2978
    @sophiag.s2978 3 роки тому +10

    hearing your story made me very emotional aswell. My mommy died when i was 9 (im 14 now), and i was living with my grandparents for about a month. Then all of a sudden i thought i was just visiting my dad for the weekend but I ended up staying with him forever. I still visit my grandparents tho. Also ive lived with my single mom and grandparents since i was born. My mom and dad had never gotten married, and she didnt have a job which is why she stayed with my grandparents. My grandparents would take care if me while she went to school aswell. Very similar situations. Except my step mom is horrible to me :(

    • @MaryPraveena
      @MaryPraveena 3 роки тому

      I’m so sorry... I hope and pray your stepmom has a change of heart. My stepfather was horrible to me until I was able to cut ties when I graduated (he is mentally unstable and doesn’t want my mom having anything to do with her family or kids). When things are hard, remember that you are so loved and you will do bigger and better things.

  • @sairathealchemist
    @sairathealchemist 3 роки тому +18

    So cute how he proposed to Jayden to be the flower girl 💕

  • @libbysmith5729
    @libbysmith5729 3 роки тому +15

    this story!! it had melted my heart you guys are such an amazing couple. and like you are both so understanding about things and just seem so so welcoming and warm-hearted - such a good family sending so much love and good vibes for your future :)))

  • @juanitap9087
    @juanitap9087 3 роки тому +9

    crying when he gave the ring to Jadyn, sooooo cuteeeeee

  • @kaylynr8335
    @kaylynr8335 3 роки тому +11

    On the verge of tears this entire video. Your story is so beautiful and personally so relatable you guys are so down to earth and I really have loved watching this whole series. Many many blessings to you Anthony and Jayden ♥️

  • @GoodBadBeautifulLife
    @GoodBadBeautifulLife 3 роки тому +7

    UA-cam recommended this series to me a week or two ago and I've been following along with every episode. After watching this video especially I can't believe you were so worried you wouldn't be maternal while you were pregnant. Your maturity at such a young age was incredible and it's so obvious from hearing you both speak that Jadyn was priority number 1 from the start. Awesome family and now I can't wait for next week's announcement!

  • @urisseegatdula196
    @urisseegatdula196 3 роки тому +4

    It makes me so happy to see how he and jadyn got along. When they met ugh. So happy

  • @zeynepcakir7946
    @zeynepcakir7946 3 роки тому +45

    This was an amazing series. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @chryssas.556
    @chryssas.556 3 роки тому +4

    Brittany you are literally the best mother and the best role model for your daughter. You are incredible. You are exactly the type of woman that I want to be someday.

  • @thesimofalltrades3703
    @thesimofalltrades3703 3 роки тому +24

    ANTHONY HAS ENTERED THE CHAT!!

  • @jadhurshanashangar
    @jadhurshanashangar 3 роки тому +16

    Thank you for sharing your story 💖. Your an incredible strong woman and love your such great role model to your daughter.

  • @biancamahon5603
    @biancamahon5603 3 роки тому +5

    I just saw the birth of your second daughter! I totally enjoy an love you guys so much! Great content! All the best! 🥰

  • @meganmarino2012
    @meganmarino2012 3 роки тому +4

    This series you have is so incredibly helpful. It’s so easy to feel lonely and hopeless as a single mother. This gives me so much hope!

  • @MZ-nm8eb
    @MZ-nm8eb 3 роки тому +8

    Your videos got randomly recommended to me and I ended up subscribing ☺️ You guys are too cute and your girls are so lucky to have you as parents 🥰

  • @SR-ju4uh
    @SR-ju4uh 3 роки тому +5

    You all are such a beautiful family. Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and honest. I enjoyed this series so much! ❤️

  • @suzzyy8669
    @suzzyy8669 3 роки тому +1

    Jaden was right, he was a true prince with a heart of gold! Y’all make such a beautiful loving family!❤️

  • @ohshesayydee
    @ohshesayydee 3 роки тому +3

    Her dad is my dad. Its sad and stress on the child in the long run to constantly feel obligated to make those trips when it should be the parent. Check in with her often, I'm 28 and its still the same.

  • @annapinault
    @annapinault 2 роки тому +2

    Wow you guys went about this in such a responsible and mature way. Everything from when you first talked to how you let Jaden come to her own conclusions about her birth dad. Well done.

  • @elliep.6897
    @elliep.6897 Рік тому +2

    I want to meet my own Anthony too. Unfortunately, the Anthony that I met only broke my heart to pieces😢😢 (yes, Anthony was his name)

  • @trinakay9072
    @trinakay9072 3 роки тому +3

    I love Claremont! I met my husband at the press in Claremont as well ❤️ Now we have a beautiful 9 month old baby boy! Congratulations to you and your husband on your pregnancy!

  • @Amy-ol7jk
    @Amy-ol7jk Рік тому +2

    hey! I am in a similar situation. Were you ever afraid of Jayden being controlled and mistreated by her father? How have you managed this risk whilst she's so far away when she visits him.

  • @mariannedressler6784
    @mariannedressler6784 3 роки тому +4

    My goodness!! What a beautiful outcome for what started out as a very dark time in your life! ❤️

  • @martanowak194
    @martanowak194 3 роки тому +2

    I’ve watched all of the episodes about your pregnancy and your hard situation. Finally I feel like I understand my mom better and what she did for me❤️

  • @JanealJohnson
    @JanealJohnson 3 роки тому +1

    Your view on Jayden’s relationship with both dads and not talking bad about the other one in front of her is exactly what I did with my daughter, who just turned 28 and has 2 daddy’s her dad and my husband of 24 yrs

  • @Not_The_Momma
    @Not_The_Momma 3 роки тому +2

    Just the way they look at each other is so genuine!

  • @nondumisoshange5117
    @nondumisoshange5117 3 роки тому +14

    Bless anthony and your whole family :)

  • @ME-tp8em
    @ME-tp8em 3 роки тому +6

    We reap what we sow= law of cause and effect 🙌🏽
    you’re beautiful souls, love your story 💗

  • @AriMari26
    @AriMari26 3 роки тому +6

    Soo cute!! I understand because im Anthony in my relationship, i have a “heart” boy! And i love him with all my heart

  • @Gurl-5150
    @Gurl-5150 2 роки тому +1

    Britney you are an incredible mother and you and Anthony together are just an incredible couple

  • @ejmakesus6
    @ejmakesus6 3 роки тому +3

    Oh my gosh the tears right now. Up to proposal.. I can relate . My husband came into my life & joined my family ( single mom of 3 at the time )
    Love your channel ❤️
    Such a beautiful couple
    The 3 of you are beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Polinaparvanova
    @Polinaparvanova 3 роки тому +8

    beautiful story, I'm learning so much from you about knowing my worth and believing in myself

  • @georgia5719
    @georgia5719 3 роки тому +143

    I’m getting a feeling you might be pregnant again?? 🥺❣️

  • @isabellitss
    @isabellitss 3 роки тому +4

    What a beautiful story with hardships and a happy to be continue. I didn’t cry with the beginning of the story but man him proposing to both was my undoing haha

  • @eleonoraianieri5479
    @eleonoraianieri5479 3 роки тому +6

    What a wonderful story! So happy from you guys, you deserve it all❤️

  • @not_cat661
    @not_cat661 3 роки тому +1

    Jayden must be so excited and sooo sooo sooo happy am like in tears rn I can't watch anything but you guys your guys content is everything ❤️😭

  • @monksdaughter
    @monksdaughter 3 роки тому +8

    I LITERALLY CRIED! SOOO CUTE!

  • @bluepeachwhispers6845
    @bluepeachwhispers6845 3 роки тому +6

    😭 this is so heartwarming 😭🥰 so happy for the three of you 💛

  • @luizabarros5247
    @luizabarros5247 3 роки тому +6

    This is so cute. I'm so glad you found each other! :)

  • @cristinavalladares9953
    @cristinavalladares9953 3 роки тому +9

    GOD IS PERFECT AND HE MAKES NO MISTAKES!! Your story is a testimony, whether you're religious or not, everything and i mean everything, happens for a reason. I don't even know you, I'm just another viewer, but it literally fills my heart of joy and love to see you guys so happy and so wholesome. May you continue to have an amazing journey together

  • @user-hm9gp4um7o
    @user-hm9gp4um7o 3 роки тому

    You are an inspiration story.. all of the times you were worried not been a good mom. That is the definition of being a good mom. 💗

  • @presley6339
    @presley6339 3 роки тому +1

    I thank you for not taking Jaden away from her dad my dad has had his kid taken away

  • @martinsmummy2008
    @martinsmummy2008 Рік тому +1

    What a beautiful story ❤

  • @isassfilmss
    @isassfilmss 3 роки тому +1

    I am crying, i really love the way you love each other. I am a big fan of you, there's no way to say you are amazing people and humans beens. I'm from México and I'm improving my english by watching videos from people who speak english, and i'm really happy that i truly understand everything you say, and i am so so happy that I choose you as an "international" vloger haha to learn, i am really interested in your work as fashion vlogers, but also, now i am interested in you as people and as a family, i really wish you all the blessings. And i send you a huge hug from Coahuila.

  • @cheried9390
    @cheried9390 3 роки тому +1

    I just found your channel, watched your story of your unplanned pregnancy to this one. Very touching story. I’m so happy for you. That this is a happy story. 🥰

  • @thesimofalltrades3703
    @thesimofalltrades3703 3 роки тому +6

    These videos have had me CRYING!! like every single time.

  • @greenylee8227
    @greenylee8227 3 роки тому +7

    Was wondering if you were going to upload! Made my night ❤️

  • @LauraBuarque_
    @LauraBuarque_ 3 роки тому +1

    My god... I’m just I’m tears with your story❤️ god is so perfect and is always present in our lives and what happened to you guys just confirms that for me🥰🥰 congratulations!!

  • @lexiv4210
    @lexiv4210 3 роки тому +8

    was anxious all day lol I love this series

  • @kingdomtruth7773
    @kingdomtruth7773 Рік тому +1

    Lastly, it’s wonderful how the Lord worked things out for you. By His Providence the Lord lead you to find to find a loving man, who had a somewhat similar experience being the child of a young mother like you were.
    Also, he not only seems to have been a good fit for you and you both ended up getting married, but also, he seems to be a good father figure to your daughter, his step-daughter. So, by God’s grace He turned all that pain to be a blessing.❤
    Reklamation Ministries 😊

  • @l00c55
    @l00c55 3 роки тому +5

    I really hope y'all have a baby, I know y'alls daughter would be the BEST big sis!!

  • @BeautifulInsideHere
    @BeautifulInsideHere 3 роки тому +2

    Your story gives me so much hope for the future for me and my baby 💕

  • @lamariereyes6696
    @lamariereyes6696 3 роки тому

    What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing! I’m a single mom and haven’t dated for years! I guess because of being fearful about bringing someone new into our lives. Fearful about everything that comes with it as well...but it is so refreshing to hear stories like this and how well it all worked out. Truly gives me hope ❤️ God Bless

  • @clarizzjealmanzanida366
    @clarizzjealmanzanida366 2 роки тому +1

    I love Anthony....your soo LUCKY ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Lindsay1930
    @Lindsay1930 3 роки тому

    You are good for letting her still see her father. Not just because of child support even though that's a lot but how he has treated you. God has really blessed you with a keeper

  • @boucles89
    @boucles89 3 роки тому

    Had to pause to comment... I’ve just reached the proposal and I’m beaming! Jadyns giggle and then giving her a ring too! You are such a beautiful family! 🥰

  • @ashleymaxinne2122
    @ashleymaxinne2122 3 роки тому

    I know I’m very late but I started watching your videos last week (the Dior baby shower). But after watching the Part 1,2 and 3 videos and this video, you guys became one of my favourite people on UA-cam, I love what you guys put out, your content and your videos. Whenever I would watch one of your guys’ videos and I’m not sure if it’s just me but I feel like I’m also part of the family. I’m so thankful that I watched the baby shower video. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @stussybuagas1566
    @stussybuagas1566 3 роки тому +2

    We need more guys like Anthony

  • @michellejosephh
    @michellejosephh 3 роки тому

    your story needs to be a movie, its so special

  • @briannas.garcia2982
    @briannas.garcia2982 2 роки тому

    this is literally the cutest thing ever, the flower girl ring, I cant!

  • @Sarahhhh33
    @Sarahhhh33 3 роки тому

    The proposal scene!! Are you kidding me I AM SOBBING