Hi Peter. I had a lucky escape 2 years ago. It's unbelievable when flying to Thailand. Common sense gets left in a safe deposit box in BKK. The girl I fell in love with was the sweetest girl on the planet. Then I woke up. The coffee smelt so good. My advice to all men visiting Thailand is talk to your best friend honestly and openly
Love the back drop. And referring to your story that was sad to hear. I have a Thai wife and we have been through cancer and other health problems but we have always stuck it out and it’s made us even more stronger
I knew a 70yo pensioner who had only been coming to Thailand for a couple years and still very naive, having a good time in Pattaya then met a lady in her late 40s or so she said. Within a year he went up the village, built a house, spent most of his savings, she controlled every aspect of his life and isolated him from his friends. He too fell ill, not sure what happened to him in the end, but whatever the ending she has a house and more money in the bank. Whenever they try to turn your friends against you or isolate you from them its a bad sign.
it can be hard to live in rural isaan.....tough on the physical side.. the extreme heat can get u if u are 70 + and in not a good overall condition....another thing is the social aspect...if u not fluent w. the language and for every little thing at the mercy of ur wife u pretty much isolated...maybe u are a city guy like the guy in the story...if ur wife is a ex hooker or similar who want to take advantage of u whenever possible...trampling on your love ....all these combined carry the potential to shorten your life significant
Hi Peter before you even mentioned the backdrop in this segment I recognised it right away, The Erawan National park is a must visit place in Kanchanaburi, we spent 2 nights on a river raft on the River Kwai in November 2012, a lot of places to visit, Hellfire pass, the Jeath museum, the Kanchanburi war cemetery, I have a relative buried there and of course the bridge over the river Kwai.
Great story Peter.such a Sad story .I ve heard this some many times Better have fun and call it a Day I feel after endless visits .Bar Girls great Fun but only fun as we both No !thanks very much doing a good job keep it going love the Back ground until the winter 2021 or 22 I’ll be Back I love it there Chris
I think I knew him, I also lived in Thailand for 25 yrs from 1981, also married multi times ( 4) first UK, second South Africa, third and forth Thai, knew Bernard Trink quite well, familiar with Washington square ( wild country bar). Good story
Afternoon Peter .quite upsetting story but very well read as always.thank you for your efforts and hard work.have a good evening and catch up soon.Damon 😊
All the warning signs were there for him to see but he naively chose to ignore them. This is a classic case of self-inflicted wounds. He should have listened to his family.
@@DaveTheRaveBangkok Harsh words, Dave. I knew him far better than you, and you're wrong. I think you and he probably had an issue as you were someone he was happy to avoid every time I invited him to join me whenever I met up with you.
I enjoy your stories very much cant wait to get back to thailand but in the meantime channels like yours are great its somthing to look forward to in these hard times
I've seen many a smart man get scammed by a Thai bar girl. Me included, but i embrace it as an adventure. Work out how much your willing to lose and go for it.
Thanks Peter for a great story and the waterfall ah yes in Chantaburi been there brings back memories, yep that's where I'll be retiring to. I have to agree with you not all Thai ladies are like Non, certainly not my Thai wife, I think when theres a big age gap this is part and parcel that the relationship does not work. My Thai wife and i believe it or not we were both born on the same day one year apart, I'm 61 and shes 60, we have been together since 2014
Yes Keith I have always thought that age difference is a big factor in making a relationship work. Think about it what 60 year old guy is interested in the latest pop songs.
Thanks Peter, a common story over the last decade + I have travelled to Thailand so nothing so say, most people have something to add, but in ignorance, everyone is an expert behind a keyboard in their mum's basement. I refuse to comment about the relationship as I was not there but if something smells of crap, it generally is, but he just run with the punches and commend him for his integrity. He sounds like a great guy that got put into the mincer. Farang life is cheap in LOS as you know, we are below the dog on the grand scale of things in general..
I have a few friends I met on my trips who never asked me for anything. In fact they have taken me out to dinner and beer drinks.even during covid and they lost their jobs never asked me for anything. Very few of these in thailand
I remember a friend of mine told me before i went to Thailand the Ist time was, Leave your emotions at the check in desk, go and have a great time whether is be Pattaya, Patong Etc, never been to Soi cowboy or Nana plaza, I remember being in the Legends bar in Patong a couple of years back, was my 12th time in Thai and talking to the manager, an Expat brit, he was shocked I'd never visited Nana plaza etc, I said I dont even go to Bangla rd, except when my Expat Aussie friend was managing the Heroes bar in Bangla rd in 2014. First time I went to Bangkok was when my now wife went back to visit family on my 5th visit to Thailand In November 2012 always flew Melbourne to Phuket direct or via Singapore.
Two years ago I travelled all over the 20 provinces that before Siams reformation to Thailand was called Issan, great people Khmer in the South East, Latonian in the North East, Buriram was an exceptional place to visit with most of the population the descendants of the Khmer with a completely different mindset to their Latonian Neighbours,I had a girlfriend from Buriram who I met in Bangkok I've known her for 12 years now and we still keep in Touch, My current Girlfriend is from Pretchubun that makes her Siamese through heritage and no doubt in my mind those North Eastern previously Latonian who are now Thais are a different ball game to the rest and to be avoided at all costs and moving up there to join the Family most definitely not my cup of Tea and yes make sure you have your tuberculosis vaccination among many others before living in Rural Thailand, I've had every one of them.
Peter du har helt rätt i att alla tjejer är inte som i detta levnadsöde. Jag hoppas vi träffas i Hua Hin så skall jag berätta om mina erfarenheter och som en sade det är 1 på 1 miljon som är som din hustru 🙏. Tack för en bra kanal med bra innehåll! historier från levande livet är mycket intressant att lyssna på👍 Sweden 🇸🇪
Du är mer än välkommen och en öl i Hua Hin låter coolt. Jag hoppas att vi inte behöver vänta länge för att komma tillbaka till Thailand men allt vi kan göra är att titta och vänta. Tack för dina positiva kommentarer.
I just wanted to say how much I enjoyed Phil’s company and now he’s not around how much I miss him. He was such a lovey bloke who always found time for me. Perhaps his friendly nature, generosity and kindness was his downfall in the end. The lady in question clearly took advantage of him and it’s all so very sad. I’m glad you included your epilogue as it’s important to note it’s difficult enough with all the cultural differences and language barriers for an Englishman (as on this occasion) to find true love in Thailand , without throwing a bar girl into the equation. 17 years ago I was lucky enough to have met the most wonderful, caring, well educated and generous Thai lady and we are still together to this day. I only say this to emphasise the point not all Thai ladies behave like Phil’s wife. Phil was a great bloke who, as the author stated, just had a bad throw of the dice. RIP my old buddy. NB. My wife my Son and I were at that very waterfall just before Covid kicked off. .... I need to get back to Thailand ...
Hi Peter! I've listened to your stories with both fascination and bemusement. I'm curious though if you have stories from "non-western" men who I'd imagine are also part of the scene. Also, what of western women and their experiences in the land of smiles?
As the stories are true experiences of viewers and not my personal experiences, I can only read what I am sent. I several stories from Western woman and Asian men but I cannot tell you what volumes they are as I have over 300 videos uploaded now.
Thank you pete For a well presented vlog been over many times am I the lucky one or not I don't know lost a grand or two a couple of times on relationships with Thai woman. A guy in a bar in pattaya gave me some advice he said would you buy a woman back home a house , a car so why do it in Thailand. And I remember guys telling me go to the village's to find a good woman well 60 % of them are ex bar girls and they other 40% have been told what to do. We think we can change them well never they are controlled by family and there thinking is tribunal ( no insult intended). Just like you and me go enjoy the culture food the beer and yes the ladys with the sunshine don't promise them any thing . The minute you fall in love is your downfall.........stay safe my friends
Yes Peter, I believe this could happen in Thailand... But I feel it could happen here in the US also... Life is Life, Love is Love, and Sorrow is Sorrow... Better to have loved, than to never know love at all... Life is rarely perfect, often tragic, but good friends are blissful...
I have many ex-pats in my travels to Thailand and I have seen several men in their late 60s and early 70s walking with baby strollers saying how happy they are with this child. One look at the child and you know that the child's not his. At the Opera Hotel (which is closed now 😩 ) would see many old men there around the pool drinking beer holding children My wife and I felt sorry but not in a bad way for these men They just seamed so lonely But the great news we both obtained are covid-19 vaccine and going back sometime this year. Hope to see you there someday Thank You
The thing is you feel sorry for these guys but if they have been divorced or just single and have been lonely for a number of years they are happy to take on someone else’s child just to have the enjoyment of belonging to a family. If you fall in love with somebody you can’t tell them you want to be with them but you are not prepared to take on the child, the girl would run a mile and quite rightly so. I don’t see the difference between these guys and other guys who do exactly the same with woman form their own countries.
Jeez, how many warning signs or lies did the poor guy need for him to accept the truth? Her actions clearly reflected her disinterest in him. There's no fool like an old fool!
I have a friend I work with 5 years.ago he was sweedish around 32 years old well educated he meet a Thai lady and ended getting married she had a good job working for Swiss company nestley and was building a house in Bangkok outskirts he offered her to join him in australia she refused .they both live happily together in thailand after 5 years still no kid.he run is own business from home and the last time I spoken to him.3 months. Ago was still happy men .so if you find a lady your age and educated yes I can work out
Yes but what's very important is there is a big difference between normal, decent Thai girls and girls who work in the bars who are selling themselves. I'm guessing your friends married a normal Thai girl and not a bar girl
I read the book private dancer over 20 years ago all the people and bars Stephen speaks of are actually based on real people and real bars! Most of the book is based on real events only the ending is fictitious
There are many many really nice Thai girls that are really easy to met through free dating apps (you can chat to them for months or even years before you ever turn up in Thailand and that way you learn a lot - the second girl I ever talked to, 10 years ago now, she met me at the station, looked after me, and I am treated as one of the family whenever I am in Thailand - they look after my Thai motorcycle - and I then I go off in my travels - I also have the same sort of arrangement in Cambodia)... maybe at least 30 something (40 something I think is even better - they look like the age of a 30 year old western woman) and with a child and divorced.. I think their chances or even wish to get married to a Thai man are low.. many Thai men will have nothing to do with a child that is not theirs. Why even get married ? many slightly older Thai women have a nice house anyway (and possibly a car as well) - nearly all such women I know have a property. I am aware of the behavior of some Thai men at 14 minutes in this video and often just demonstrates how desperate slightly older Thai women are for a man in their life - but I think most give up and have nothing to do with a Thai man. I do think Thai women warm to be treated with respect and understanding and there is no need to be an ATM - but my experience is all outside of the tourist regions or the ex-pat regions in other Thai cities. My experience is that like women world wide, they want someone who is genuine and kind. Thai women are simply the best.. shame the Thai government was not the same... but please, make an effort to understand Thai culture.... things are not always as they appear - "face" (image) is really important as is respect for older people (but don't abuse it)... and most of my time in spent in NE Thailand... and they are not all poor and desperate by any means (I have a lovely friend who is a university lecturer and has a really nice house - she looks at least 20 years younger that her chronological age) ... if you are in Thailand and see lots of other White faces, you are not in real Thailand.. younger Thai women do have "value" for their family, if she is young, attractive, educated and definitely no children - if you fall for a girl like this, expect to pay big time one way or another - hence my reference to older divorced with a child... I am 67...
Without wanting to sound negative I've heard so many stories about guys meeting girls on these apps that turned out to be prostitutes anyway you have to be so so careful
@@ThailandBound there might have been a couple who were very obvious - there are also a few who were in the game at one time and might still go to Pattaya if they are short of money, but these are still nice people - you don't have to live with every girl you meet or have sex with every girl you meet although I suspect many men do or want to.. there is also some older women (40s), like the divorced with one child, who have another western boyfriend (maybe some might have more than one - I would not tell them not to) overseas who visit very occasionally, so I keep a low profile as I really hope something works out for these girls as they are lovely and just trying to survive.... I don't know why guys make such hard work of it... I have an amazing 4 year old daughter in Cambodia (she can speak 3 languages which is fortunate because I cannot speak Khmer), her mother is a Colonel in the Cambodian police = own income (I was her first bf and that was pretty obvious) and does not ask me for anything - except she wanted a European father for a child as she would not go near a Khmer guy (not the first who has asked), something I can well understand - their family has 2 small farms which I can play with. I have another place I can call home in Udon, where I am treated like one of the family - they never ask for anything.... just don't how much better could I be treated ? I have had Thai 2 girls visit me in New Zealand, one twice and we went all over NZ by motorcycle (7,400 kms)... she was just drop dead gorgeous and it was funny to watch the reaction of Kiwi young guys.. now she was the "high value" one and if I had married her, which she would have welcomed, I would be back in NZ now and broke - her mother was the problem so I told her to marry the Thai guy her mother wanted her to marry - and her mother still gave him grief (I have offered her advice of what she needs to do). We are still in contact not that her husband will know. and this is hardly the half of it.. I am still a free agent, then there is the Philippines another story... it's not difficult if you are prepared to adapt and make an effort to learn..... now when I get near a western type girl (including a Colombian Doctor who stayed with me for a week in NZ - dark like most Asians) , they are just a sick joke, they expect you to chase after them and they funniest thing of all, mention SE Asia and they never talk to you again - I wonder why ? don't know which dating apps you are using ? the one I mainly have used, the only issue are the many (non Asian) scammers which are so obvious, yet I see they end up with some dumb western male "friends".. some people are just brain dead...
Oh for sure I agree, I am not saying “Most girls on the apps are hookers” but what I am saying is “Don’t assume that they have never been or are not currently just because they are on an app and not hanging off a pole.”
@@ThailandBound I am not sure what age range you are talking about... I think just because a western guy can "get" a much younger girl, it's the best thing to do.. and I would put that as a retired or close to retired western guy who goes for a 20s girl - you really are asking for trouble unless she is upper 20s, with a child and divorced, then maybe.. I think these guys get into trouble because they bring their western attitudes with them and refuse to make an effort to learn about Thai culture. The family I stay with in Udon, we laugh at the British idiot who married the daughter of a neighbor.. he really loses the plot and we speculate how he will get on in a Thai jail - because that is where his attitude will be taking him - he won't even realise that everyone is laughing at him - I wonder how many western men have an anger problem ? You can meet these guys and just know this is not going to work. I went to a traditional Thai wedding, and Aussie who had known her for only a few months - she had been married before and had children - I shook my head, the wedding must have cost a fortune. I heard it only lasted a few months. His best man was Welsh, and he was retired with a 20's girl friend with one child.. I heard he married her and then that did not last. I spent a year helping a friend though the family courts here in NZ, he married a young Spanish girl, had 2 children with her, and as soon as she had been in NZ long enough to get residency, she accused him of being violent and hence the court (and moved out into a family violence refuge - she gets all the government support).. we sorted all that out, but most guys cannot... this is such a common thing now... marrying these sorts of girls from any country and taking them back to your country is always asking for trouble. So my recommendation, is find a girl on a dating app, maybe 3, talk to them for a long time. Now, lot of girls I speak to about these dating apps, they say the guys soon ask for revealing photos - well she will hang on because she is desperate - but if he thinks she will ever fall for him now, forget it... I always ask about her family, her children.. and when I have got to meet these girls, there is never any trouble of heading straight for the bedroom.. I think most men refuse to make any changes to adapt to the new situation they are in. But I know some older guys who have done very well and are extremely happy. Also, say a 30 or 40s girl who might have been a working girl, they do this as they often see it as the only way they can support their family. They try as hard as they can in their own way.. so tell me, why does this make them a lessor person ?... if a guy decides to hand money over, then that is his choice - try saying no, or be very limited in what you hand over.. the other problem is that people in these sorts of countries seem to think that in western countries, the streets are paved with gold. I take some time to explain this is not the case and point out they only see the western people who can afford to get to their country. There would be lots who would love to spend time in an Asian country but simple they don't have the money... I can add, that I met this UK guy when I was motorcycling in NZ with my Thai girlfriend. I suggested he try Thailand. He even met a friend of mine there, and he gave me all the BS about how he would be "nice" to her and I even arranged for my friend in Udon (he would have no romantic chance there) to take care of him, hotel and all that. He then promptly ran off with one of her girls friends and stayed all the time in the Hotel with her. The first girl friend, when I met up with her again, she told me how angry he was and she told me she was in tears sometime. Now the give away was, that in the UK the nuclear power station he worked for, they closed, and he got a pay off etc etc... his wife then ran off with some guy she had been seeing for years, and hence his first real overseas trip to NZ... these people obviously have a whole pile of personality issues... which then they take with them where ever they go... they need to get their heads straight before they go...
I met my now wife on a Thai dating site, at the time I was 52 and she was 35, but she already lived in Melbourne studying, I couldn't have picked a more genuine, loving, loyal partner and hardworking soulmate with a solid family background, the good one's are definitely out there.
The waterfall is simply beautiful and looks to be a place that must be visited at least once when things are open..I think it's fault on both sides when it comes to bar girls, they're hardened by the years of being in that environment and tourists become hardened over the years when getting involved with a bar girl...not all bar girls are the same and not all tourists are the same...its just a crazy game we choose to get involved with..thanks for the story Peter
sometimes even when people know what happening right in front of them, they turn a blind eye as getting old and being alone is very scary to them. He knew the warning signs, but bless him all he wanted was for some to be there when needed. such a shame she wasn't there for him. But at least her brother was a decent man and done what he could. This is not the norm, most Thai women are amazing caring and their family will welcome you . Even sometimes the bar girl romance will work out but you need to be so carful read the signs. Sad story but well worth telling Peter.
In today's time, avoid long term vague contracts (like marriage). Find mutual passion with solid contraception (unlikely), or pay as you go for services rendered. Peace.
Very difficult to listen to this story. I hope this never happens to me or anyone I know . It's so easy to fall for beautiful young women. Sometimes they are really just to young .
Sounds like a great guy. I'm not sure he was the fool many might be quick to judge he was. He appeared to be willing to pay the price - the price in this case was the full knowledge of his wife's appalling character. All the same I had to smile that he still exerted control until towards the end, kept her 'wings clipped' over that card and showed her the liar she was by outing her lies over the first pregnancy. Well done Phil, you've earned your beer. And let's now hope the widow receives her karma in full. Engrossing story Peter.
I have spent 10 years going to thailand have never had a bargirl girlfriend . But had many relationships that girlfriend was a bargirl its their way ,still better than dating back home .
Pretty brutal story but absolutely no surprise the journey and final outcome. It's funny the timing, I was reading an article just the other day with bar girls who did anonymous interviews about their work. The theme all too common. Contempt for the older farangs who seek their company. One girl said the best case scenario for them is to marry an old farang and have a Thai man on the side. Thai women, in general, prefer their own. It's a cultural thing and that's the way it is. There are some exceptions of course, and good on the ones who truly care about each other. Just don't expect great things or genuine romance from bar girls generally speaking. The saddest part is, despite knowing that, guys still fall for the trap anyway. Good story Peter.
The devil is in the details...very good story. Her being a devil and with a make believe Thai husband hanging one step back brings to mind a friend who was with a bar girl that was chatting lively on her cell phone (when mobiles were very new.) When business was over and they where lying there, the door knob of the door started to shake and rattle similar to like if you locked the door lock and your key would not work. My friend started to get out of bed and check out the person trying to get in ( or testing the door?) His BF girl grabs his arm and said to not move. Later the next morning and a bit of thought about the earlier cell call the BF had had that it was the girl's husband who was trying to enter the room. The BF lady admitted as much after a few well pointed questions. The Bar Girl girl had a loose marriage to some thai guy and he was making sure she was earning her keep. Scary stuff .........Your story that you describe, Peter, makes sense now.
hi peter there are good kind hearted ppl in the world but there are many many fool sadly i met my gf on a dating agency in about 2010 we got married about 2016 she came uk for 2 years then back but we still talk every week 2 or 3 times but she wasn't a bar girl she was a government teacher when she came to uk she lost everything cant work in government school she gave up so much even now we will get together when this horrible virus goes cheers peter always enjoy
I don't get it, Thailand is 95% Buddhist. Like you said not all Thai women treat men in such a terrible way but I have heard enough stories over the years to verify that it happens quite often. For such a religious country you would think that they would have some conviction.....
The thing is David these stories are mainly about starving bar-girls who do what they need to do regardless of religion i.e., feed their children and families who have nothing, the story does not reflect regular Thai Society.
Can't wait to go back to.thailand for fun here in australia it cost you the same amount of money to have.the company of a average Asian lady for 30 minutes (if you don't get kicked out after 15 minutes) yet in thailand you can have the old night with a stunning young friendly lady.so let's be real and stop complaining .and forget about love
I like your stories very much, a lesson to be learned, yes indeed, I will suggest you that instead of always referring to Thailand guet stories from other south east Asia, Malaysia, Cambodia,Vietnam, ect. Been the fact that the bar girls, bar fines,ect is pretty much the same in this countries, they all copy cats of each other, same mentality same games people play..lol However I am sure that that may be some twist, and turns from country to country small stories. This will always help others expats in other Asian cities to learn the game and how is play and who knows you may guet also some more happy ending stories! I must admit I enjoy the lesson to learn the best! Just a suggestion my friend😉🍻
Hi Daniel thanks for the suggestion. My channel is strictly about Thailand as I spent almost 30 years travelling and living in the country although I have visited many of the countries you mention, I don't have so much knowledge as I do about Thailand.
it's important to realize that a farang's life is worth less than a thai's. and wealth in this life is most important in the next life so any means to an end is a holy thing, including murder. even if you have a kid with a thai, she controls everything in that child's life. and so the cycle repeats. buy two condos, rent one out, use that to build a healthcare system for you in ur old age; never share what you can't easily replace. stay out of bars, find a church, and there u'll find true friends. have friends in malaysia where even muslims won't do you like thais. have a job. consult. travel alone. all bank accts are secret. spread them out from country to country. hide everything from her. finally, even if ur sure she's not like the others, do all of the above anyway. in the end as an expat, ur alone. get tough and go out alone. u can do it if you have genuine faith.
@@ThailandBound after 15 yrs in thailand and SE asia, that's what I'd do. And will do. Good thing is that SE Asia is open again and ready for business!
Is difficult trying to keep all of the people happy all of the time but I do listen two suggestions, Re background video, it is on a DVD that I purchased some time ago that features Thailand it has music, videos, pictures etc...PS: I have a nice a 30-minute video to upload this Saturday coming, a real life story with no doom and gloom
HOW STUPID ARE THESE GUYS? MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS ON THIS QUESTION: Loneliness, depression, a feeling of rejection, a messy divorce, mental health issues, and a lack of communication skills, no self esteem, a lack of judgment and a lack of confidence; the list goes on and on. Many guys do not go into bars to find love and live happily ever after with their one in a million good bar-girl. They find that they are in the company of a pretty, young girl who showers them with affection and the girl seems to take a genuine interest in them which gives them a feeling of temporary happiness and total blindness to the real situation in front of them. The bar-girls are charming, cunning and good at what they do (They have years of practice and 100’s of victims) it is so, so easy for these kinds of guys to be sucked into a situation they did not plan and end up on a down would spiral with no hope of return. It is always easier to Judge rather than to understand and not all people should be painted with the same “Stupid” brush.
Your stories are an important education for newcomers. Please keep up your great work.
Thank you, I will as long as people keep sending them in.
Hi Peter. I had a lucky escape 2 years ago. It's unbelievable when flying to Thailand. Common sense gets left in a safe deposit box in BKK. The girl I fell in love with was the sweetest girl on the planet. Then I woke up. The coffee smelt so good. My advice to all men visiting Thailand is talk to your best friend honestly and openly
Hi Rob, Good advice let's hope everybody listens
Thanks for the story Peter 🇹🇭🇬🇧👍
Love the back drop. And referring to your story that was sad to hear. I have a Thai wife and we have been through cancer and other health problems but we have always stuck it out and it’s made us even more stronger
Hi Paul, So I am guessing my “Epilog” at the end of the video about Thai people and the girls is very important to you and your wife.
Thanks Peter for all stories good or bad .
I knew a 70yo pensioner who had only been coming to Thailand for a couple years and still very naive, having a good time in Pattaya then met a lady in her late 40s or so she said. Within a year he went up the village, built a house, spent most of his savings, she controlled every aspect of his life and isolated him from his friends. He too fell ill, not sure what happened to him in the end, but whatever the ending she has a house and more money in the bank.
Whenever they try to turn your friends against you or isolate you from them its a bad sign.
I hear this story again and again Paul, I know it makes you want to bang your head against the wall and shout out to these guys "Don't do it!"
it can be hard to live in rural isaan.....tough on the physical side.. the extreme heat can get u if u are 70 + and in not a good overall condition....another thing is the social aspect...if u not fluent w. the language and for every little thing at the mercy of ur wife u pretty much isolated...maybe u are a city guy like the guy in the story...if ur wife is a ex hooker or similar who want to take advantage of u whenever possible...trampling on your love ....all these combined carry the potential to shorten your life significant
Thanks for sharing Paul. These pieces of evidence is what should be shared to give foreigners a heads up
Another entertaining story Peter, well read..! Thanks...
Thanks Brenton, a truly sad, sad story.
I get so excited when I see you post new stories,I can’t wait for this lockdown to finish 555
It will be soon. Stay in prayer and in generosity with your loved ones 333
I always love the stories, keep them coming.
Another good story. Thanks for sharing.
Glad you enjoyed it
keep the stories coming they are very sobering , and keep us all on the rails
That was your best Story. Thanks
Touching story, rip Phil. I also read a nice tribute to him in a thai weekly column, stickman weekly.
Hi Peter before you even mentioned the backdrop in this segment I recognised it right away, The Erawan National park is a must visit place in Kanchanaburi, we spent 2 nights on a river raft on the River Kwai in November 2012, a lot of places to visit, Hellfire pass, the Jeath museum, the Kanchanburi war cemetery, I have a relative buried there and of course the bridge over the river Kwai.
So sorry to hear about his sad ending
He won’t be the last unfortunately
Great presentation Peter. So many lessons in this story
I really love these stories. I wished i had come across this youtube series before I went to Phuket. Keep up the hard work. Love Ya peter.
Great story Peter.such a Sad story .I ve heard this some many times Better have fun and call it a Day I feel after endless visits .Bar Girls great Fun but only fun as we both No !thanks very much doing a good job keep it going love the Back ground until the winter 2021 or 22 I’ll be Back I love it there Chris
I think I knew him, I also lived in Thailand for 25 yrs from 1981, also married multi times ( 4) first UK, second South Africa, third and forth Thai, knew Bernard Trink quite well, familiar with Washington square ( wild country bar). Good story
Yea that's a sad one :( poor guy sounded like a very nice person
Thanks Peter for your good videos.
That was a great story very sad
Afternoon Peter .quite upsetting story but very well read as always.thank you for your efforts and hard work.have a good evening and catch up soon.Damon 😊
Thanks Peter always good to get a bonus video
Cheers Anthony 👍
Thanks for sharing this well written and very moving story with us Peter 👍
All the warning signs were there for him to see but he naively chose to ignore them. This is a classic case of self-inflicted wounds. He should have listened to his family.
I think he fell in love Dave you know the old saying, "Love is blind"
@@ThailandBound yes and as for 'highly intelligent' he certainly was not!
@@DaveTheRaveBangkok Harsh words, Dave. I knew him far better than you, and you're wrong. I think you and he probably had an issue as you were someone he was happy to avoid every time I invited him to join me whenever I met up with you.
I enjoy your stories very much cant wait to get back to thailand but in the meantime channels like yours are great its somthing to look forward to in these hard times
Thanks Darren
Good story Peter
Thanks Mark
Very sad R.I.P Phil
Full credit to Nongs brother
Lololol
WOW! Very interesting story. There is never a boring moment in Thailand.
So true!
I've seen many a smart man get scammed by a Thai bar girl.
Me included, but i embrace it as an adventure. Work out how much your willing to lose and go for it.
Erawan waterfall, I've been there. nice day out. Horrible climb up all the waterfalls though.
Thanks Peter for a great story and the waterfall ah yes in Chantaburi been there brings back memories, yep that's where I'll be retiring to. I have to agree with you not all Thai ladies are like Non, certainly not my Thai wife, I think when theres a big age gap this is part and parcel that the relationship does not work. My Thai wife and i believe it or not we were both born on the same day one year apart, I'm 61 and shes 60, we have been together since 2014
Yes Keith I have always thought that age difference is a big factor in making a relationship work. Think about it what 60 year old guy is interested in the latest pop songs.
Sad story .but that can happen anywhere in the world. That the price to pay for a old men having the company of a much younger women
Yes Peter a very sad story.
Thanx for the moving story
You spoil us, and apparently speak Swedish. Keep them coming!
Thanks Goodness for Google translate (I don’t want to leave anyone out!)
Thanks Peter, a common story over the last decade + I have travelled to Thailand so nothing so say, most people have something to add, but in ignorance, everyone is an expert behind a keyboard in their mum's basement.
I refuse to comment about the relationship as I was not there but if something smells of crap, it generally is, but he just run with the punches and commend him for his integrity.
He sounds like a great guy that got put into the mincer.
Farang life is cheap in LOS as you know, we are below the dog on the grand scale of things in general..
I'm pretty sure it won't be the last story we here like this unfortunately
@@ThailandBound I like your work, keep it up buddy.
I always said use them for what they and nothing else
Yes I believe that could well be the Bargirl mindset. 😂
I have a few friends I met on my trips who never asked me for anything. In fact they have taken me out to dinner and beer drinks.even during covid and they lost their jobs never asked me for anything. Very few of these in thailand
Not a nice story but a valuable to the uninitiated.
i think the moral of the story really is dont marry or get emotionally involved with working girls , i can testify to that ,
I remember a friend of mine told me before i went to Thailand the Ist time was, Leave your emotions at the check in desk, go and have a great time whether is be Pattaya, Patong Etc, never been to Soi cowboy or Nana plaza, I remember being in the Legends bar in Patong a couple of years back, was my 12th time in Thai and talking to the manager, an Expat brit, he was shocked I'd never visited Nana plaza etc, I said I dont even go to Bangla rd, except when my Expat Aussie friend was managing the Heroes bar in Bangla rd in 2014. First time I went to Bangkok was when my now wife went back to visit family on my 5th visit to Thailand In November 2012 always flew Melbourne to Phuket direct or via Singapore.
Wow!!! Very heartfelt.
Very sad indeed but unfortunately he won't be the last who alls for a psychopath
Thailand Bound they do have one quality, I’ll leave it at that 😎
Hi Peter, may I please ask the name of the song at the end of the clip?
Hi, I honestly don’t know the name of the song, I got it from a Thai CD but as all the writing is in Thai I can’t help.
@@ThailandBound Thanks to letting me know. I've tried to Shahzam it but no luck.
Try typing in Isaan folk music into UA-cam
OK thanks, will do
Sao Mueng Non song by Aon Aondee 😁👍
Two years ago I travelled all over the 20 provinces that before Siams reformation to Thailand was called Issan, great people Khmer in the South East, Latonian in the North East, Buriram was an exceptional place to visit with most of the population the descendants of the Khmer with a completely different mindset to their Latonian Neighbours,I had a girlfriend from Buriram who I met in Bangkok I've known her for 12 years now and we still keep in Touch, My current Girlfriend is from Pretchubun that makes her Siamese through heritage and no doubt in my mind those North Eastern previously Latonian who are now Thais are a different ball game to the rest and to be avoided at all costs and moving up there to join the Family most definitely not my cup of Tea and yes make sure you have your tuberculosis vaccination among many others before living in Rural Thailand, I've had every one of them.
Peter du har helt rätt i att alla tjejer är inte som i detta levnadsöde. Jag hoppas vi träffas i Hua Hin så skall jag berätta om mina erfarenheter och som en sade det är 1 på 1 miljon som är som din hustru 🙏. Tack för en bra kanal med bra innehåll! historier från levande livet är mycket intressant att lyssna på👍
Sweden 🇸🇪
Du är mer än välkommen och en öl i Hua Hin låter coolt. Jag hoppas att vi inte behöver vänta länge för att komma tillbaka till Thailand men allt vi kan göra är att titta och vänta. Tack för dina positiva kommentarer.
@@ThailandBound jag ser framemot när restriktionerna släpper och vi kan resa igen samt ta ett par öl tillsammans kanon roligt 👍 ha de bäst🙏
Old guys with young ladies... sad but something to be expected
Thanks for the Story.
I just wanted to say how much I enjoyed Phil’s company and now he’s not around how much I miss him. He was such a lovey bloke who always found time for me. Perhaps his friendly nature, generosity and kindness was his downfall in the end. The lady in question clearly took advantage of him and it’s all so very sad. I’m glad you included your epilogue as it’s important to note it’s difficult enough with all the cultural differences and language barriers for an Englishman (as on this occasion) to find true love in Thailand , without throwing a bar girl into the equation. 17 years ago I was lucky enough to have met the most wonderful, caring, well educated and generous Thai lady and we are still together to this day. I only say this to emphasise the point not all Thai ladies behave like Phil’s wife. Phil was a great bloke who, as the author stated, just had a bad throw of the dice. RIP my old buddy.
NB. My wife my Son and I were at that very waterfall just before Covid kicked off. .... I need to get back to Thailand ...
I would like to go even further by saying that, "Not all bar-girls are anywhere near as bad as Nong was" and that's saying something.
Hi Peter! I've listened to your stories with both fascination and bemusement. I'm curious though if you have stories from "non-western" men who I'd imagine are also part of the scene. Also, what of western women and their experiences in the land of smiles?
As the stories are true experiences of viewers and not my personal experiences, I can only read what I am sent. I several stories from Western woman and Asian men but I cannot tell you what volumes they are as I have over 300 videos uploaded now.
@@ThailandBound thanks Peter. I'll just keep perusing the archives as I get up to speed. Greetings from Australia
Fantastic story well done
Farang actually means white foreigner.
I know this part of Thailand very well, highly recommend it :), same old story of a Northern bird... 1st time and all --- gee
Well read pete🤟🤟🤟
Hi Peter videos are excellent. You were saying in 1 of you videos to watch a true story about back packers getting killed. What was the name of it?
The Serpent BBCi player
Thank you pete
For a well presented vlog been over many times am I the lucky one or not I don't know
lost a grand or two a couple of times on relationships with Thai woman.
A guy in a bar in pattaya gave me some advice he said would you buy a woman back
home a house , a car so why do it in Thailand.
And I remember guys telling me go to the village's to find a good woman well 60 % of
them are ex bar girls and they other 40% have been told what to do.
We think we can change them well never they are controlled by family and there thinking
is tribunal ( no insult intended).
Just like you and me go enjoy the culture food the beer and yes the ladys with the sunshine
don't promise them any thing .
The minute you fall in love is your downfall.........stay safe my friends
Yes Peter, I believe this could happen in Thailand... But I feel it could happen here in the US also... Life is Life, Love is Love, and Sorrow is Sorrow... Better to have loved, than to never know love at all... Life is rarely perfect, often tragic, but good friends are blissful...
I have many ex-pats in my travels to Thailand and I have seen several men in their late 60s and early 70s walking with baby strollers saying how happy they are with this child. One look at the child and you know that the child's not his. At the Opera Hotel (which is closed now 😩 ) would see many old men there around the pool drinking beer holding children My wife and I felt sorry but not in a bad way for these men They just seamed so lonely But the great news we both obtained are covid-19 vaccine and going back sometime this year. Hope to see you there someday Thank You
The thing is you feel sorry for these guys but if they have been divorced or just single and have been lonely for a number of years they are happy to take on someone else’s child just to have the enjoyment of belonging to a family. If you fall in love with somebody you can’t tell them you want to be with them but you are not prepared to take on the child, the girl would run a mile and quite rightly so. I don’t see the difference between these guys and other guys who do exactly the same with woman form their own countries.
Jeez, how many warning signs or lies did the poor guy need for him to accept the truth? Her actions clearly reflected her disinterest in him. There's no fool like an old fool!
A few young fools out there as well
If I lived in Thailand no way I could settle down. I'd be too distracted by the even more beautiful ladies than the one I'm with
Oh the irony in this comment. 🤣🤣
i have a story i would like to share, where do i send it?
peter@thailand-bound.com (All small fonts)
I have a friend I work with 5 years.ago he was sweedish around 32 years old well educated he meet a Thai lady and ended getting married she had a good job working for Swiss company nestley and was building a house in Bangkok outskirts he offered her to join him in australia she refused .they both live happily together in thailand after 5 years still no kid.he run is own business from home and the last time I spoken to him.3 months. Ago was still happy men .so if you find a lady your age and educated yes I can work out
Yes but what's very important is there is a big difference between normal, decent Thai girls and girls who work in the bars who are selling themselves. I'm guessing your friends married a normal Thai girl and not a bar girl
@@ThailandBound yes my friend did married. A normal Thai lady.but ask those old men if they would have sleep.with a 60 years old women in they 20
Hi peter have you ever considered doing a livestream, might be good.
Yes I'll certainly think about it
Question please where is the tealak bar
Soi Cowboy, it's "Telak"
Yes it happens alot more than we know
Read the book called Private Dancer
Might have to get it online..was written by Stephen Leather, I believe
I read the book private dancer over 20 years ago all the people and bars Stephen speaks of are actually based on real people and real bars! Most of the book is based on real events only the ending is fictitious
it takes two to tango so just don't tango with bar girls just have fun!
Sad story. Nong's brother did the right thing, what a despicable lady.
Tip! Change your oil every 6k milles = best response
Another good one is don't work on a Sunday 😆
@@ThailandBound sad story but good tip, another great story
LoL 😂
Proving the old adage right, ‘Behind every good Man is a devious b**ch!’ 😀
I like that one mate, and I can see the truth in it - especially when we think back on our western women. 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
Love that song! Whats the title?
I'm afraid I don't know the title it's an old 60s Thai song
There are many many really nice Thai girls that are really easy to met through free dating apps (you can chat to them for months or even years before you ever turn up in Thailand and that way you learn a lot - the second girl I ever talked to, 10 years ago now, she met me at the station, looked after me, and I am treated as one of the family whenever I am in Thailand - they look after my Thai motorcycle - and I then I go off in my travels - I also have the same sort of arrangement in Cambodia)... maybe at least 30 something (40 something I think is even better - they look like the age of a 30 year old western woman) and with a child and divorced.. I think their chances or even wish to get married to a Thai man are low.. many Thai men will have nothing to do with a child that is not theirs. Why even get married ? many slightly older Thai women have a nice house anyway (and possibly a car as well) - nearly all such women I know have a property. I am aware of the behavior of some Thai men at 14 minutes in this video and often just demonstrates how desperate slightly older Thai women are for a man in their life - but I think most give up and have nothing to do with a Thai man. I do think Thai women warm to be treated with respect and understanding and there is no need to be an ATM - but my experience is all outside of the tourist regions or the ex-pat regions in other Thai cities. My experience is that like women world wide, they want someone who is genuine and kind. Thai women are simply the best.. shame the Thai government was not the same... but please, make an effort to understand Thai culture.... things are not always as they appear - "face" (image) is really important as is respect for older people (but don't abuse it)... and most of my time in spent in NE Thailand... and they are not all poor and desperate by any means (I have a lovely friend who is a university lecturer and has a really nice house - she looks at least 20 years younger that her chronological age) ... if you are in Thailand and see lots of other White faces, you are not in real Thailand.. younger Thai women do have "value" for their family, if she is young, attractive, educated and definitely no children - if you fall for a girl like this, expect to pay big time one way or another - hence my reference to older divorced with a child... I am 67...
Without wanting to sound negative I've heard so many stories about guys meeting girls on these apps that turned out to be prostitutes anyway you have to be so so careful
@@ThailandBound there might have been a couple who were very obvious - there are also a few who were in the game at one time and might still go to Pattaya if they are short of money, but these are still nice people - you don't have to live with every girl you meet or have sex with every girl you meet although I suspect many men do or want to.. there is also some older women (40s), like the divorced with one child, who have another western boyfriend (maybe some might have more than one - I would not tell them not to) overseas who visit very occasionally, so I keep a low profile as I really hope something works out for these girls as they are lovely and just trying to survive.... I don't know why guys make such hard work of it... I have an amazing 4 year old daughter in Cambodia (she can speak 3 languages which is fortunate because I cannot speak Khmer), her mother is a Colonel in the Cambodian police = own income (I was her first bf and that was pretty obvious) and does not ask me for anything - except she wanted a European father for a child as she would not go near a Khmer guy (not the first who has asked), something I can well understand - their family has 2 small farms which I can play with. I have another place I can call home in Udon, where I am treated like one of the family - they never ask for anything.... just don't how much better could I be treated ? I have had Thai 2 girls visit me in New Zealand, one twice and we went all over NZ by motorcycle (7,400 kms)... she was just drop dead gorgeous and it was funny to watch the reaction of Kiwi young guys.. now she was the "high value" one and if I had married her, which she would have welcomed, I would be back in NZ now and broke - her mother was the problem so I told her to marry the Thai guy her mother wanted her to marry - and her mother still gave him grief (I have offered her advice of what she needs to do). We are still in contact not that her husband will know. and this is hardly the half of it.. I am still a free agent, then there is the Philippines another story... it's not difficult if you are prepared to adapt and make an effort to learn..... now when I get near a western type girl (including a Colombian Doctor who stayed with me for a week in NZ - dark like most Asians) , they are just a sick joke, they expect you to chase after them and they funniest thing of all, mention SE Asia and they never talk to you again - I wonder why ? don't know which dating apps you are using ? the one I mainly have used, the only issue are the many (non Asian) scammers which are so obvious, yet I see they end up with some dumb western male "friends".. some people are just brain dead...
Oh for sure I agree, I am not saying “Most girls on the apps are hookers” but what I am saying is “Don’t assume that they have never been or are not currently just because they are on an app and not hanging off a pole.”
@@ThailandBound I am not sure what age range you are talking about... I think just because a western guy can "get" a much younger girl, it's the best thing to do.. and I would put that as a retired or close to retired western guy who goes for a 20s girl - you really are asking for trouble unless she is upper 20s, with a child and divorced, then maybe.. I think these guys get into trouble because they bring their western attitudes with them and refuse to make an effort to learn about Thai culture. The family I stay with in Udon, we laugh at the British idiot who married the daughter of a neighbor.. he really loses the plot and we speculate how he will get on in a Thai jail - because that is where his attitude will be taking him - he won't even realise that everyone is laughing at him - I wonder how many western men have an anger problem ? You can meet these guys and just know this is not going to work. I went to a traditional Thai wedding, and Aussie who had known her for only a few months - she had been married before and had children - I shook my head, the wedding must have cost a fortune. I heard it only lasted a few months. His best man was Welsh, and he was retired with a 20's girl friend with one child.. I heard he married her and then that did not last. I spent a year helping a friend though the family courts here in NZ, he married a young Spanish girl, had 2 children with her, and as soon as she had been in NZ long enough to get residency, she accused him of being violent and hence the court (and moved out into a family violence refuge - she gets all the government support).. we sorted all that out, but most guys cannot... this is such a common thing now... marrying these sorts of girls from any country and taking them back to your country is always asking for trouble. So my recommendation, is find a girl on a dating app, maybe 3, talk to them for a long time. Now, lot of girls I speak to about these dating apps, they say the guys soon ask for revealing photos - well she will hang on because she is desperate - but if he thinks she will ever fall for him now, forget it... I always ask about her family, her children.. and when I have got to meet these girls, there is never any trouble of heading straight for the bedroom.. I think most men refuse to make any changes to adapt to the new situation they are in. But I know some older guys who have done very well and are extremely happy. Also, say a 30 or 40s girl who might have been a working girl, they do this as they often see it as the only way they can support their family. They try as hard as they can in their own way.. so tell me, why does this make them a lessor person ?... if a guy decides to hand money over, then that is his choice - try saying no, or be very limited in what you hand over.. the other problem is that people in these sorts of countries seem to think that in western countries, the streets are paved with gold. I take some time to explain this is not the case and point out they only see the western people who can afford to get to their country. There would be lots who would love to spend time in an Asian country but simple they don't have the money... I can add, that I met this UK guy when I was motorcycling in NZ with my Thai girlfriend. I suggested he try Thailand. He even met a friend of mine there, and he gave me all the BS about how he would be "nice" to her and I even arranged for my friend in Udon (he would have no romantic chance there) to take care of him, hotel and all that. He then promptly ran off with one of her girls friends and stayed all the time in the Hotel with her. The first girl friend, when I met up with her again, she told me how angry he was and she told me she was in tears sometime. Now the give away was, that in the UK the nuclear power station he worked for, they closed, and he got a pay off etc etc... his wife then ran off with some guy she had been seeing for years, and hence his first real overseas trip to NZ... these people obviously have a whole pile of personality issues... which then they take with them where ever they go... they need to get their heads straight before they go...
I met my now wife on a Thai dating site, at the time I was 52 and she was 35, but she already lived in Melbourne studying, I couldn't have picked a more genuine, loving, loyal partner and hardworking soulmate with a solid family background, the good one's are definitely out there.
The waterfall is simply beautiful and looks to be a place that must be visited at least once when things are open..I think it's fault on both sides when it comes to bar girls, they're hardened by the years of being in that environment and tourists become hardened over the years when getting involved with a bar girl...not all bar girls are the same and not all tourists are the same...its just a crazy game we choose to get involved with..thanks for the story Peter
sometimes even when people know what happening right in front of them, they turn a blind eye as getting old and being alone is very scary to them. He knew the warning signs, but bless him all he wanted was for some to be there when needed. such a shame she wasn't there for him. But at least her brother was a decent man and done what he could. This is not the norm, most Thai women are amazing caring and their family will welcome you . Even sometimes the bar girl romance will work out but you need to be so carful read the signs. Sad story but well worth telling Peter.
In today's time, avoid long term vague contracts (like marriage). Find mutual passion with solid contraception (unlikely), or pay as you go for services rendered. Peace.
Thanks for making the video...another tragic story for sure. It's obvious his wife was only using him for income.....he certainly didn't deserve her.
Yes very sad story but I am afraid Phil will not be the last to suffer at the hands of a young, pretty Thai girl like Nong.
Very difficult to listen to this story. I hope this never happens to me or anyone I know . It's so easy to fall for beautiful young women. Sometimes they are really just to young .
Sounds like a great guy. I'm not sure he was the fool many might be quick to judge he was. He appeared to be willing to pay the price - the price in this case was the full knowledge of his wife's appalling character. All the same I had to smile that he still exerted control until towards the end, kept her 'wings clipped' over that card and showed her the liar she was by outing her lies over the first pregnancy. Well done Phil, you've earned your beer. And let's now hope the widow receives her karma in full. Engrossing story Peter.
Nice sentiments Nige, I totally agree 👍
I have spent 10 years going to thailand have never had a bargirl girlfriend . But had many relationships that girlfriend was a bargirl its their way ,still better than dating back home .
Pretty brutal story but absolutely no surprise the journey and final outcome. It's funny the timing, I was reading an article just the other day with bar girls who did anonymous interviews about their work. The theme all too common. Contempt for the older farangs who seek their company. One girl said the best case scenario for them is to marry an old farang and have a Thai man on the side. Thai women, in general, prefer their own. It's a cultural thing and that's the way it is. There are some exceptions of course, and good on the ones who truly care about each other. Just don't expect great things or genuine romance from bar girls generally speaking. The saddest part is, despite knowing that, guys still fall for the trap anyway. Good story Peter.
Great job peter
The devil is in the details...very good story. Her being a devil and with a make believe Thai husband hanging one step back brings to mind a friend who was with a bar girl that was chatting lively on her cell phone (when mobiles were very new.) When business was over and they where lying there, the door knob of the door started to shake and rattle similar to like if you locked the door lock and your key would not work. My friend started to get out of bed and check out the person trying to get in ( or testing the door?) His BF girl grabs his arm and said to not move. Later the next morning and a bit of thought about the earlier cell call the BF had had that it was the girl's husband who was trying to enter the room. The BF lady admitted as much after a few well pointed questions. The Bar Girl girl had a loose marriage to some thai guy and he was making sure she was earning her keep. Scary stuff .........Your story that you describe, Peter, makes sense now.
A gud lesson to be learned from this story for foreigeners marrying greedy thai girls
hi peter there are good kind hearted ppl in the world but there are many many fool sadly
i met my gf on a dating agency in about 2010 we got married about 2016 she came uk for 2 years then back but we still talk every week 2 or 3 times but she wasn't a bar girl she was a government teacher when she came to uk she lost everything cant work in government school she gave up so much even now we will get together when this horrible virus goes cheers peter always enjoy
I don't get it, Thailand is 95% Buddhist. Like you said not all Thai women treat men in such a terrible way but I have heard enough stories over the years to verify that it happens quite often. For such a religious country you would think that they would have some conviction.....
The thing is David these stories are mainly about starving bar-girls who do what they need to do regardless of religion i.e., feed their children and families who have nothing, the story does not reflect regular Thai Society.
Most Thais are Buddhist in name only.
Can't wait to go back to.thailand for fun here in australia it cost you the same amount of money to have.the company of a average Asian lady for 30 minutes (if you don't get kicked out after 15 minutes) yet in thailand you can have the old night with a stunning young friendly lady.so let's be real and stop complaining .and forget about love
As soon aa you said she was pregnant, I thought, I bet anything he's not the dad.
I like your stories very much, a lesson to be learned, yes indeed, I will suggest you that instead of always referring to Thailand guet stories from other south east Asia, Malaysia, Cambodia,Vietnam, ect. Been the fact that the bar girls, bar fines,ect is pretty much the same in this countries, they all copy cats of each other, same mentality same games people play..lol
However I am sure that that may be some twist, and turns from country to country small stories. This will always help others expats in other Asian cities to learn the game and how is play and who knows you may guet also some more happy ending stories! I must admit I enjoy the lesson to learn the best! Just a suggestion my friend😉🍻
Hi Daniel thanks for the suggestion. My channel is strictly about Thailand as I spent almost 30 years travelling and living in the country although I have visited many of the countries you mention, I don't have so much knowledge as I do about Thailand.
That woman is a devil 👿
Thailand is open,no excuses.
I’d say a 14 day hotel quarantine and the costs related to said quarantine is a good excuse not to visit Thailand right now.
Poor man unfortunately that's what.the bar girls do it's all about the money don't kid yourself it's anything else to them your just business .
Intelligent in all other respects. That about sums up 90% of us Asain infatuated Loving men.
God this is just heartbreaking 😢 His poor family. It's not the intense heat that warps intelligent men's minds, it's lady bits 💷🤦🏻♀️
Very sad story.
good adding that at the end 👍 the sharks are in the entertainment areas 🦈
it's important to realize that a farang's life is worth less than a thai's. and wealth in this life is most important in the next life so any means to an end is a holy thing, including murder. even if you have a kid with a thai, she controls everything in that child's life. and so the cycle repeats. buy two condos, rent one out, use that to build a healthcare system for you in ur old age; never share what you can't easily replace. stay out of bars, find a church, and there u'll find true friends. have friends in malaysia where even muslims won't do you like thais. have a job. consult. travel alone. all bank accts are secret. spread them out from country to country. hide everything from her. finally, even if ur sure she's not like the others, do all of the above anyway. in the end as an expat, ur alone. get tough and go out alone. u can do it if you have genuine faith.
Good advice
@@ThailandBound after 15 yrs in thailand and SE asia, that's what I'd do. And will do. Good thing is that SE Asia is open again and ready for business!
😃 👍👍👍👍👍
Seem like you have binge watching today 👍
Naan will get hers, KARMA 😡 her job doesn't matter she's heartless 💔
I wonder when/if we will be like him for someone like her.. i feel i became too red pilled by now but i guess we can never be sure
hi peter, love the stories, please please don't make them shorter, those who have ask for this obviously suffer from premature ej+
Is difficult trying to keep all of the people happy all of the time but I do listen two suggestions, Re background video, it is on a DVD that I purchased some time ago that features Thailand it has music, videos, pictures etc...PS: I have a nice a 30-minute video to upload this Saturday coming, a real life story with no doom and gloom
Issan + Bargirl + Pattaya + Tattoos + Smoker = bad ending.... how stupid are these guys
HOW STUPID ARE THESE GUYS? MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS ON THIS QUESTION: Loneliness, depression, a feeling of rejection, a messy divorce, mental health issues, and a lack of communication skills, no self esteem, a lack of judgment and a lack of confidence; the list goes on and on. Many guys do not go into bars to find love and live happily ever after with their one in a million good bar-girl. They find that they are in the company of a pretty, young girl who showers them with affection and the girl seems to take a genuine interest in them which gives them a feeling of temporary happiness and total blindness to the real situation in front of them. The bar-girls are charming, cunning and good at what they do (They have years of practice and 100’s of victims) it is so, so easy for these kinds of guys to be sucked into a situation they did not plan and end up on a down would spiral with no hope of return. It is always easier to Judge rather than to understand and not all people should be painted with the same “Stupid” brush.
@@ThailandBound it’s very sad to see indeed
@@francheskhajanvijitsakul7824 Hi Franchekha, I see you have a Thai last name.
@@ThailandBound might be because I’m a Bangkok 👧
So if I visit Thailand my name will change to a Thai name? 😂