My Top 5 Tricks to Stop Stuttering

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    Speech coach, Marcus Lapp, shares his top 5 tricks/tools to overcome stuttering and start speaking more fluently.
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    00:00 Intro: My Top 5 Tricks to Stop Stuttering
    02:29 Tool 1: Word Stretching
    03:15 Tool 2: Over-Articulation
    05:14 Tool 3: Drop the First Letter
    07:54 Tool 4: Soften the Consonants
    10:11 Tool 5: Use Your Hands

КОМЕНТАРІ • 134

  • @anthonynguyen8031
    @anthonynguyen8031 10 місяців тому +251

    Shout out to everyone going through life with a stutter

  • @thorasgardian2075
    @thorasgardian2075 Місяць тому +23

    For me i stutter on words start with vowel and Drop the first letter is really helpfull for me. Thanks❤️

    • @zacherydayment9005
      @zacherydayment9005 Місяць тому

      samee

    • @Brownie278
      @Brownie278 Місяць тому

      I ALWAYS stutter saying “I” I just feel stuck

    • @sunilwiski6014
      @sunilwiski6014 9 днів тому

      I stutter only words start with vowel,A,E,I,O,U,but suggest me

    • @sunilwiski6014
      @sunilwiski6014 9 днів тому

      Same, please tell me,how to reduce my stutter

  • @annaikonocampbell
    @annaikonocampbell 17 днів тому +4

    This is the most helpful video on stuttering I’ve ever seen. Thank you so very much!

  • @zenny9986
    @zenny9986 Рік тому +36

    wanted to fix my stuttering issue and be more serious about it as I want to be better at speaking. These tips are so useful and with the examples you've given too, they look great :D Hope that I can be more confident in speaking soon with more practising

    • @speakyourmindmethod
      @speakyourmindmethod  Рік тому +4

      Thank you for the kind words! You got this!

    • @vvek7643
      @vvek7643 Рік тому +2

      How are you these days?? I can't help my self

  • @roshmatthew4472
    @roshmatthew4472 Рік тому +52

    Hand movements really work, I swear.

    • @abdoudaniels_99
      @abdoudaniels_99 Рік тому +1

      Ryt

    • @hasbunallah1ummah489
      @hasbunallah1ummah489 11 місяців тому +1

      You’re right, they definitely work!

    • @robertmcdonald4691
      @robertmcdonald4691 10 місяців тому

      I found soft onset ie smoothing out the start of the word works for me.
      "Dropping the first letter" sounds weird.

  • @nickythao9344
    @nickythao9344 Рік тому +31

    I will be starting my career in law enforcement pretty soon and I do have a problem with stuttering. Radio communication is a big factor and I stress a lot on that due to my stutter.

    • @ayyo-jason
      @ayyo-jason 11 місяців тому +1

      I work in security and I completely relate with this!

    • @TheYoungertwich
      @TheYoungertwich 11 місяців тому +2

      Don’t worry both of you’ll. you will overcome this one day

    • @JenniferEzeokoli
      @JenniferEzeokoli 28 днів тому

      I work as a chief of staff, which involves a lot of talking in meetings. What helps me is that I don’t care anymore, I stutter but still air my opinion. Because stuttering doesn’t limit our intelligence or abilities. We mustn’t let it limit us

    • @arinzeconfidenceakachukwu6787
      @arinzeconfidenceakachukwu6787 21 день тому +1

      ​@@JenniferEzeokoli same here. I don't care anymore.

    • @JenniferEzeokoli
      @JenniferEzeokoli 21 день тому

      @@arinzeconfidenceakachukwu6787 We are wonderfully made and we can become anything we want to become

  • @pradipanp
    @pradipanp 5 місяців тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @julieteke8642
    @julieteke8642 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much

  • @user-lx4cp7mc5l
    @user-lx4cp7mc5l 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you very much brother 👍

  • @user-ov1zu3og4w
    @user-ov1zu3og4w Місяць тому

    Thank you so much ❤️
    I will try this out

  • @Azhe765
    @Azhe765 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ❤😊

  • @lucylove410
    @lucylove410 Рік тому +4

    Great work boss

  • @xaroplayz6440
    @xaroplayz6440 6 місяців тому +3

    it worked man thank you so much i appreciate it

  • @Punam09366
    @Punam09366 4 місяці тому +1

    very nice bro all the tips are so practical ,thankyou

  • @doyinsolaolaniyi1257
    @doyinsolaolaniyi1257 День тому

    I hope these tips help me. Thank you for sharing

  • @igiranezagilbert6319
    @igiranezagilbert6319 11 місяців тому +1

    Really I am motivated by you

  • @uraussinan3658
    @uraussinan3658 9 місяців тому +1

    I love you bro, changing my life

  • @FavourTobi-vv6jk
    @FavourTobi-vv6jk Рік тому +3

    Making gestures really help us♥️

  • @MOHITSingh-ud8ff
    @MOHITSingh-ud8ff 25 днів тому

    Thanks mate

  • @SpeakingWarrior
    @SpeakingWarrior 15 днів тому

    nice method you explain

  • @IGNACY-fp8zo
    @IGNACY-fp8zo 10 місяців тому +8

    When I hear the word I'm about to say, it instantly alleviates my stutter for a bit. Not sure how to use that without luck, but that works for me.

  • @BlueRoad_Vietnguyen
    @BlueRoad_Vietnguyen 7 днів тому

    Good job Thank you sir 👌

  • @stevepoirier5344
    @stevepoirier5344 8 місяців тому

    Great Advice Bro

  • @lkgpuanimho0349
    @lkgpuanimho0349 5 місяців тому +10

    Speaking is a skill that comes so naturally to so many people, many people don’t understand why stutterers find it so hard to utter some simple words.

  • @srikrishnavarma540
    @srikrishnavarma540 Рік тому +2

    I started on your suggestions

  • @AbdulMoiz0074
    @AbdulMoiz0074 10 місяців тому +33

    Bro my problem is that I start to think what will people think when I stutter how I m going to speak because I will stutter. These thoughts make me loose my confidence and I stutter even more than I expect.

    • @nurhayat81
      @nurhayat81 10 місяців тому +12

      Start to say to yourself over and over, 'I dont care what anyone thinks about me , I can say what I want to say what i want to say.'

    • @nithinkumar3960
      @nithinkumar3960 2 місяці тому +1

      Same here bro😢

    • @dawahnowvideos945
      @dawahnowvideos945 2 місяці тому +1

      Me too

    • @Brownie278
      @Brownie278 Місяць тому +3

      Couldn’t have said it better. I always think I’m going to stutter before I say anything and it makes it worse. But when I don’t think about it I don’t stutter at all. I think stuttering is a mental thing…at least for me

    • @JenniferEzeokoli
      @JenniferEzeokoli 28 днів тому

      Same with me, these days I’m pushing myself to not care about what people think

  • @maxamedadan3219
    @maxamedadan3219 10 місяців тому

    Thank you sir i hope this tips will helpful for us From East Africa, brother keep hadworking

  • @sleeperino3054
    @sleeperino3054 5 місяців тому +2

    I got a flashback to pro90d when your intro played 😂
    Great video

  • @JoyAfeyo
    @JoyAfeyo 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for this, I am definitely trying this out.

  • @THEKNIGHT940
    @THEKNIGHT940 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you very much for me over articulation works the best
    But yes to speak like that i need to control my emotions
    Great video :)

  • @NextLevelMinimal
    @NextLevelMinimal Рік тому +2

    learned this all by myself really right now maybe need some more loud reading. As for the second tip sometimes it's so unnatural to use it but if u force it it helps tremendously all though really hard for me now but gonna try and work it

  • @joezuvv
    @joezuvv 2 місяці тому

    I need this video

  • @OforiBen1987
    @OforiBen1987 Рік тому +11

    I stammer but I'm ok and fluently when speaking in English than my native language.Your tools are useful thank you.

  • @FrimpongRachael-vb6pl
    @FrimpongRachael-vb6pl 3 місяці тому

    Please ,when you get stuck and you want to breath, do you have to use the airflow technique or the diaphragm tecnique

  • @alycesnowfall6033
    @alycesnowfall6033 4 місяці тому +1

    I stammer myself and controlling my nerves help....i do everything in hurry and very clumsy... I want to complete my work in a minute and say the complete paragraph in a minute so after using many tricks... controlling my nerves and mind help me...now I do things one at a time neatly and I don't rush to say or do things and it calms my anxiety ...i do things slowly and talk slowly and it helps and control my anxiety mind

  • @rodrigoiglesias6938
    @rodrigoiglesias6938 Місяць тому +1

    This is very cool!! I've been stuterring more than usual for the past two years. I wonder if these tricks work for other languages as well. I'll try!! I'm from Brazil, so I'll try these out it portuguese

    • @Ones_Legacy
      @Ones_Legacy Місяць тому +1

      Yeah I always have different season of stuttering. Some parts of the year I’m great mostly where life is good and I’m not stressed. When life is stressful and I’m going through a lot I stutter more then often.

  • @kissiotniel1601
    @kissiotniel1601 6 місяців тому

    Thanks Sir.
    I'm a French student and I study now in an English University.
    But it's very difficult for me to learn and speak English because I'm stuttering. It's so painful 😣

  • @preciousjahi8524
    @preciousjahi8524 3 місяці тому +1

    Take your time when talking, think about what you really want to say, and say it three times in your head I promise this also works

  • @cohlly
    @cohlly 11 місяців тому +3

    when id talk to myself i wouldnt stutter but when i talk to other people thts wuen id start stuttering

  • @hadiahmadzadeh4235
    @hadiahmadzadeh4235 Рік тому +2

    You are just great. I have a question about mimicking practice (which you've talked about in your free workshop). I'm Iranian and don't talk in English. Do you think it's a good idea to mimic Jordan Peterson? Will it help me? I talk in Persian, can I mimic an English speaker?

    • @speakyourmindmethod
      @speakyourmindmethod  Рік тому +2

      Yes, you can certainly imitate Dr Peterson. He’s a great speaker to learn from.
      And yes, you can mimic across languages because you’re not so much imitating accents or languages, rather, you’re imitating things like inflections, using your hands, and other speech skills. Let me know how it goes!

    • @hadiahmadzadeh4235
      @hadiahmadzadeh4235 Рік тому

      @@speakyourmindmethod your answer was detailed and in one word, perfect! Thank you brother!

  • @user-ce6vz7sg9m
    @user-ce6vz7sg9m 8 місяців тому +3

    Stuttering is very hard

  • @julieteke8642
    @julieteke8642 11 місяців тому

    I get stock with choreography. The 'k'

  • @goldenkris9158
    @goldenkris9158 10 місяців тому

    What would you switch with a letter H . I am stuck with the word How

  • @billionroses5578
    @billionroses5578 9 місяців тому +1

    Do you have courses online...?

    • @speakyourmindmethod
      @speakyourmindmethod  9 місяців тому

      Yes I do. You can find my coaching programs here: www.speakyourmindmethod.com/store

  • @AbdallahhYT
    @AbdallahhYT Рік тому +4

    I struggle with P’s so i turn it into a B or in between

  • @sunxm03
    @sunxm03 10 місяців тому +1

    What are the books behind you, such as atmoic habits?

    • @speakyourmindmethod
      @speakyourmindmethod  10 місяців тому +2

      They are the following:
      • The Brain that Changes Itself - Norman Doidge
      • Rewire Your Brain - John B Arden
      • 12 Rules for Life - Jordan Peterson
      • High Performance Habits - Brendon Burchard
      • Atomic Habits - James Clear
      These are just a few of my favorite books for overall self-development which includes speech improvement.

    • @sunxm03
      @sunxm03 10 місяців тому

      Thank you very much for sharing the list.@@speakyourmindmethod

  • @asmcriminaL
    @asmcriminaL Місяць тому

    "Accordion to research, 9 out of 10 people don't notice when you replace words with random musical instruments. " This is what dropping the first letter of the word reminds me of. Most people won't even notice.

  • @nittygritty5251
    @nittygritty5251 27 днів тому

    Italians probably didn't know that they've mastered speech with the help of their hand gestures and movements.
    And British too: Bo'oh o wo'eh 😂

  • @IrfanKhan-xq6nf
    @IrfanKhan-xq6nf 11 місяців тому +2

    Brother I speak too fast and i stutter much. if i become nervous gets so worse.Can you give me some real suggestion?

  • @user-xe3yv6ob6j
    @user-xe3yv6ob6j 9 місяців тому +1

    I also add a sound on start on some word so instead of bread i add a little sound of w so like w bread or i act like iam thinking like mmmmm brad yeah bread it sometimes work

  • @Rj12922
    @Rj12922 6 місяців тому

    the daily routine download link doesnt work

  • @denciodenjay9518
    @denciodenjay9518 Рік тому +1

    Let me ask a question.how I motivate myself to stick that tools everyday.sometimes.I forget.like im excited and fear?

    • @speakyourmindmethod
      @speakyourmindmethod  Рік тому +2

      Refer to my “How to stop stuttering under pressure” video from last week. I talk about that topic specifically. Thanks for the comment!

  • @askan_production8970
    @askan_production8970 Місяць тому

    I struggle with stuttering, it has affected me in many ways i find it harder to make friends because I can't speak whats on my mind I always keep quiet, even when I try talking I find it extremely difficult. I still have a decent amount of friends but stuttering has really makes my confidence drop. I have a hard time saying the first word of every sentence, for example I have to force the word out and it is not easy. Is there a solution to this problem?

  • @annaikonocampbell
    @annaikonocampbell 17 днів тому

    I often struggle saying my name “Anna” or my son’s name “Ivan”. I resort to saying “h-Anna” and “E-van” for my son. Is there any other variation I could try for either of these? I feel like the sound changes I use are a bit too extreme and noticeable 😅

  • @BryerTheKing1
    @BryerTheKing1 25 днів тому +1

    Im trying to become a UA-camr so yea i need to fix it but its harder than it sounds.

  • @BeforeChrist21
    @BeforeChrist21 6 місяців тому

    I have trouble wit the word specific and other certain syllables

  • @askan_production8970
    @askan_production8970 Місяць тому

    At this point I dont feel like I have stuttering, I only have problems with the first word of my sentence. After I get my first word out I talk normally and smoothly, I have problems starting convos because the first word of my sentence gets stuck or jammed

  • @rafaelbravo3623
    @rafaelbravo3623 8 місяців тому

    Speak with an internal (non visible to others) rhythm or beat
    You know it works when even before start speaking the block disappears

  • @sanjuthapamagar1747
    @sanjuthapamagar1747 Рік тому +4

    Hello sir,
    I have a lot of stammering while talking on the call, then tell me some tips for this.

    • @Ugtoonbackup
      @Ugtoonbackup 7 місяців тому

      To be honest I don’t really stammer on call especially with girls weda video call cos have spoke to a girl on video call for 1hr

  • @sunilwiski6014
    @sunilwiski6014 9 днів тому

    I stutter only words start with vowel, A,E,I,O,U,pls suggest me for my problem 🙏

  • @rajarani8295
    @rajarani8295 Рік тому +2

    I get stuck with Bata..., Uma,,,

  • @olilumgbalu5653
    @olilumgbalu5653 2 місяці тому

    I see you have a lot of sound proofing on your walls. Do you think that helps with your stutter?

  • @bushgeeplay4503
    @bushgeeplay4503 7 місяців тому

    I am a Liberian from west Africa and I want to stop stuttering i need help, how?

  • @princeclevinopog3782
    @princeclevinopog3782 6 місяців тому

    focusing on my voice to be beautiful is my trick

  • @lahiruhlg
    @lahiruhlg Місяць тому

    Word stretching 99% works for me ❤

    • @anassheikh7451
      @anassheikh7451 14 днів тому

      I didn't understood what he said about Word stretching what it means exactly .
      My life is so lonely because of stuttering now a days

    • @lahiruhlg
      @lahiruhlg 14 днів тому

      @@anassheikh7451 End the word slower than your usual word ending speed 99% times success this way for me try it. Good luck

  • @monzemendez
    @monzemendez 27 днів тому

    When I get nervous to talk or excited I stutter a lot and I get embarrassed

  • @newmusic4870
    @newmusic4870 Рік тому

    I am Also having alot of problem Due to overthing

  • @user-xk9kv3cw8f
    @user-xk9kv3cw8f 9 місяців тому

    Can you help me a i have stader for 3 years

  • @kevinknoll5890
    @kevinknoll5890 3 місяці тому

    Some one told me this would help me. I hope it will. It's been a long ride of embarrassment Virgo life

  • @tanmayaadebta927
    @tanmayaadebta927 10 місяців тому +2

    One more tip- just try to sing the word u find difficulty at

  • @mattyoutubes
    @mattyoutubes 2 місяці тому

    All this stuff is just things that just make you think even more about the process of talking, which is the last thing you should be thinking about. You need to learn how to focus your attention 100% on the topic of conversation and the thought you are trying to express, and you need repeated practice with talking normally like that to overwrite your habit of non-fluent speech. You need to learn how to forget the process of producing words. This is how a "normal" person talks. When you want to walk to another room, you don't think about moving each muscle in your legs as you take each step - you just think about where you want to go then you walk there. It should be this way with speaking as well, but we're in the bad habit of talking consciously rather than subconsciously. Also, look into reducing dopamine in your life. It seems many stutterers have more trouble talking when there has recently been an influx of dopamine in their brain for whatever reasons. I'm not a doctor so DYOR.

  • @thymenabottle2515
    @thymenabottle2515 Рік тому +6

    My 19 yr old grandson gets stuck on the first word. Plus he talks really fast. HELP

    • @edwardrotaru7897
      @edwardrotaru7897 Рік тому +3

      A lot of love and support from his parents, NOT try to control his breathing, take pauses ( + word stretching, over articulation, reading out loud very clear ) and feed the subconscious mind with positive affirmations ( "I speak very well and clear; I trust myself; I love myself unconditionally; My opinion matters so incredibly much" ) and so on. God bless you and your son! 🙏

    • @thymenabottle2515
      @thymenabottle2515 Рік тому +1

      @@edwardrotaru7897 thank you!

    • @edwardrotaru7897
      @edwardrotaru7897 Рік тому

      @@thymenabottle2515 glad to help! It's very important that we should realise that stuttering/stammering/mumbling etc. IT'S NOT A DISEASE, that's why it doesn't have a cure. Stuttering is an emotional problem and has to be fixed by its deep root, then it will disolve itself. Singing can help sooo much cuz it has a lot of emotional and physical benefits. 😊

    • @thymenabottle2515
      @thymenabottle2515 Рік тому

      @@edwardrotaru7897, my late husband and I adopted our grandson, when he was 2. He went to be with the Lord in 2010. The stutter started a couple yrs later. I’ve thought lately, that maybe mild Aspergers, because his social skills are lacking. So, did the stutter bring on what appears to be from the spectrum. He is rarely empathetic, except for his dog. Sometimes, I see a 12 yr old in a man’s body. He got through high school, without a glitch. Good grades, never got in trouble. And yet he sat by himself, everyday at lunch, for 4 years.

    • @Jakehenderson799
      @Jakehenderson799 6 місяців тому

      Jesus is the only way

  • @FilmFortune
    @FilmFortune Місяць тому

    The only reason I’m bad at talking is because I have really bad nasal problems and my teeth look like a 5 year olds and I need braces really bad and just imagine talking with your nose closed that’s how I feel and I also have 12 cats and 5 dogs so it makes it worse.

  • @emirhan3922
    @emirhan3922 3 місяці тому +1

    nothing works. i hate everything. i hate being stutter.

    • @with4tt477
      @with4tt477 3 місяці тому +1

      We don’t give up, we keep trying. Stuttering sucks trust me I know but we owe it to ourselves to keep trying until we find a system that works for us. Keep your head up.

    • @Ones_Legacy
      @Ones_Legacy Місяць тому

      Keep your head up. I learned just to still be yourself and you can still be the man. I have a lot of friends and have always been kind of popular bro. So just do you. Try to talk smooth and calm and smile when you talk. Confidence beats stuttering !!
      Still remember stuttering is apart of you, so if it happens just keep flowing.

    • @anassheikh7451
      @anassheikh7451 14 днів тому

      Same 😔

  • @user-il5uc6oe1l
    @user-il5uc6oe1l Місяць тому

    This video sucks. Moving on