wanted to fix my stuttering issue and be more serious about it as I want to be better at speaking. These tips are so useful and with the examples you've given too, they look great :D Hope that I can be more confident in speaking soon with more practising
Bro my problem is that I start to think what will people think when I stutter how I m going to speak because I will stutter. These thoughts make me loose my confidence and I stutter even more than I expect.
Couldn’t have said it better. I always think I’m going to stutter before I say anything and it makes it worse. But when I don’t think about it I don’t stutter at all. I think stuttering is a mental thing…at least for me
I will be starting my career in law enforcement pretty soon and I do have a problem with stuttering. Radio communication is a big factor and I stress a lot on that due to my stutter.
I work as a chief of staff, which involves a lot of talking in meetings. What helps me is that I don’t care anymore, I stutter but still air my opinion. Because stuttering doesn’t limit our intelligence or abilities. We mustn’t let it limit us
I stammer myself and controlling my nerves help....i do everything in hurry and very clumsy... I want to complete my work in a minute and say the complete paragraph in a minute so after using many tricks... controlling my nerves and mind help me...now I do things one at a time neatly and I don't rush to say or do things and it calms my anxiety ...i do things slowly and talk slowly and it helps and control my anxiety mind
I feel a dry mouth makes me stutter. Its hard to get words out when there is a feeling of tightness in the mouth and throat. Also found out high cortisol levels can worsen stuttering
Thanks Sir. I'm a French student and I study now in an English University. But it's very difficult for me to learn and speak English because I'm stuttering. It's so painful 😣
"Accordion to research, 9 out of 10 people don't notice when you replace words with random musical instruments. " This is what dropping the first letter of the word reminds me of. Most people won't even notice.
I also add a sound on start on some word so instead of bread i add a little sound of w so like w bread or i act like iam thinking like mmmmm brad yeah bread it sometimes work
I often struggle saying my name “Anna” or my son’s name “Ivan”. I resort to saying “h-Anna” and “E-van” for my son. Is there any other variation I could try for either of these? I feel like the sound changes I use are a bit too extreme and noticeable 😅
You are just great. I have a question about mimicking practice (which you've talked about in your free workshop). I'm Iranian and don't talk in English. Do you think it's a good idea to mimic Jordan Peterson? Will it help me? I talk in Persian, can I mimic an English speaker?
Yes, you can certainly imitate Dr Peterson. He’s a great speaker to learn from. And yes, you can mimic across languages because you’re not so much imitating accents or languages, rather, you’re imitating things like inflections, using your hands, and other speech skills. Let me know how it goes!
All this stuff is just things that just make you think even more about the process of talking, which is the last thing you should be thinking about. You need to learn how to focus your attention 100% on the topic of conversation and the thought you are trying to express, and you need repeated practice with talking normally like that to overwrite your habit of non-fluent speech. You need to learn how to forget the process of producing words. This is how a "normal" person talks. When you want to walk to another room, you don't think about moving each muscle in your legs as you take each step - you just think about where you want to go then you walk there. It should be this way with speaking as well, but we're in the bad habit of talking consciously rather than subconsciously. Also, look into reducing dopamine in your life. It seems many stutterers have more trouble talking when there has recently been an influx of dopamine in their brain for whatever reasons. I'm not a doctor so DYOR.
Do you stutter? It does'nt work like that my friend. No matter how much you try to ignore your stutter it still happens.Maybe the dopamine part is true
@@cjay7740Imagine what he says is absolutely true.Frankly speaking anticipation plays a very pivotal role in development and prolongation of stammering.Fluent speakers don't plan their words.
We don’t give up, we keep trying. Stuttering sucks trust me I know but we owe it to ourselves to keep trying until we find a system that works for us. Keep your head up.
Keep your head up. I learned just to still be yourself and you can still be the man. I have a lot of friends and have always been kind of popular bro. So just do you. Try to talk smooth and calm and smile when you talk. Confidence beats stuttering !! Still remember stuttering is apart of you, so if it happens just keep flowing.
Sometimes I setting in v Class in attendancr time I dont say yes sir because of stutters and students often makes my fun because of stutters I am really sad about this may allah❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ blessed me❤❤❤❤
A lot of love and support from his parents, NOT try to control his breathing, take pauses ( + word stretching, over articulation, reading out loud very clear ) and feed the subconscious mind with positive affirmations ( "I speak very well and clear; I trust myself; I love myself unconditionally; My opinion matters so incredibly much" ) and so on. God bless you and your son! 🙏
@@thymenabottle2515 glad to help! It's very important that we should realise that stuttering/stammering/mumbling etc. IT'S NOT A DISEASE, that's why it doesn't have a cure. Stuttering is an emotional problem and has to be fixed by its deep root, then it will disolve itself. Singing can help sooo much cuz it has a lot of emotional and physical benefits. 😊
@@edwardrotaru7897, my late husband and I adopted our grandson, when he was 2. He went to be with the Lord in 2010. The stutter started a couple yrs later. I’ve thought lately, that maybe mild Aspergers, because his social skills are lacking. So, did the stutter bring on what appears to be from the spectrum. He is rarely empathetic, except for his dog. Sometimes, I see a 12 yr old in a man’s body. He got through high school, without a glitch. Good grades, never got in trouble. And yet he sat by himself, everyday at lunch, for 4 years.
learned this all by myself really right now maybe need some more loud reading. As for the second tip sometimes it's so unnatural to use it but if u force it it helps tremendously all though really hard for me now but gonna try and work it
This is very cool!! I've been stuterring more than usual for the past two years. I wonder if these tricks work for other languages as well. I'll try!! I'm from Brazil, so I'll try these out it portuguese
Yeah I always have different season of stuttering. Some parts of the year I’m great mostly where life is good and I’m not stressed. When life is stressful and I’m going through a lot I stutter more then often.
The only reason I’m bad at talking is because I have really bad nasal problems and my teeth look like a 5 year olds and I need braces really bad and just imagine talking with your nose closed that’s how I feel and I also have 12 cats and 5 dogs so it makes it worse.
I struggle with stuttering, it has affected me in many ways i find it harder to make friends because I can't speak whats on my mind I always keep quiet, even when I try talking I find it extremely difficult. I still have a decent amount of friends but stuttering has really makes my confidence drop. I have a hard time saying the first word of every sentence, for example I have to force the word out and it is not easy. Is there a solution to this problem?
At this point I dont feel like I have stuttering, I only have problems with the first word of my sentence. After I get my first word out I talk normally and smoothly, I have problems starting convos because the first word of my sentence gets stuck or jammed
They are the following: • The Brain that Changes Itself - Norman Doidge • Rewire Your Brain - John B Arden • 12 Rules for Life - Jordan Peterson • High Performance Habits - Brendon Burchard • Atomic Habits - James Clear These are just a few of my favorite books for overall self-development which includes speech improvement.
Shout out to everyone going through life with a stutter
Ikr
It's a struggle
Thanks man. 🤝🏻😢
Yea it’s hard
Its terrible man I've been like this since I learned to speak
wanted to fix my stuttering issue and be more serious about it as I want to be better at speaking. These tips are so useful and with the examples you've given too, they look great :D Hope that I can be more confident in speaking soon with more practising
Thank you for the kind words! You got this!
How are you these days?? I can't help my self
Hand movements really work, I swear.
Ryt
You’re right, they definitely work!
I found soft onset ie smoothing out the start of the word works for me.
"Dropping the first letter" sounds weird.
Bro my problem is that I start to think what will people think when I stutter how I m going to speak because I will stutter. These thoughts make me loose my confidence and I stutter even more than I expect.
Start to say to yourself over and over, 'I dont care what anyone thinks about me , I can say what I want to say what i want to say.'
Same here bro😢
Me too
Couldn’t have said it better. I always think I’m going to stutter before I say anything and it makes it worse. But when I don’t think about it I don’t stutter at all. I think stuttering is a mental thing…at least for me
Same with me, these days I’m pushing myself to not care about what people think
This is the most helpful video on stuttering I’ve ever seen. Thank you so very much!
Speaking is a skill that comes so naturally to so many people, many people don’t understand why stutterers find it so hard to utter some simple words.
I stammer but I'm ok and fluently when speaking in English than my native language.Your tools are useful thank you.
same mate
Same fam can’t say shit in my native
Same bro
For me i stutter on words start with vowel and Drop the first letter is really helpfull for me. Thanks❤️
samee
I ALWAYS stutter saying “I” I just feel stuck
I stutter only words start with vowel,A,E,I,O,U,but suggest me
Same, please tell me,how to reduce my stutter
@@sunilwiski6014same
Not that I'm not grateful to be alive but stuttering has made me into the kind of person i don't even wanna be and it stresses me out everyday
It got to the point where i ain't even grateful.
I will be starting my career in law enforcement pretty soon and I do have a problem with stuttering. Radio communication is a big factor and I stress a lot on that due to my stutter.
I work in security and I completely relate with this!
Don’t worry both of you’ll. you will overcome this one day
I work as a chief of staff, which involves a lot of talking in meetings. What helps me is that I don’t care anymore, I stutter but still air my opinion. Because stuttering doesn’t limit our intelligence or abilities. We mustn’t let it limit us
@@JenniferEzeokoli same here. I don't care anymore.
@@arinzeconfidenceakachukwu6787 We are wonderfully made and we can become anything we want to become
Excellent sir I am speech therapist in India at Hyderabad
Where is your address I am form lb nagar inhave stuttering problem
I stammer myself and controlling my nerves help....i do everything in hurry and very clumsy... I want to complete my work in a minute and say the complete paragraph in a minute so after using many tricks... controlling my nerves and mind help me...now I do things one at a time neatly and I don't rush to say or do things and it calms my anxiety ...i do things slowly and talk slowly and it helps and control my anxiety mind
I got a flashback to pro90d when your intro played 😂
Great video
I needed this, thank you.
Making gestures really help us♥️
it worked man thank you so much i appreciate it
Thank you very much for me over articulation works the best
But yes to speak like that i need to control my emotions
Great video :)
I hope these tips help me. Thank you for sharing
Excellent service, very effective
I feel a dry mouth makes me stutter. Its hard to get words out when there is a feeling of tightness in the mouth and throat. Also found out high cortisol levels can worsen stuttering
Great work boss
Any tips for people who stutter with Ls?
I started on your suggestions
very good advice. thanks
very nice bro all the tips are so practical ,thankyou
Thank you very much brother 👍
For tool 1 (word stretching), be careful not to sound sarcastic when you use it.
Thank you so much
Thank you so much ❤️
I will try this out
Really I am motivated by you
Good job Thank you sir 👌
Thank you sir i hope this tips will helpful for us From East Africa, brother keep hadworking
nice method you explain
Thanks mate
Thanks Sir.
I'm a French student and I study now in an English University.
But it's very difficult for me to learn and speak English because I'm stuttering. It's so painful 😣
Thank you ❤
Thank you so much ❤😊
"Accordion to research, 9 out of 10 people don't notice when you replace words with random musical instruments. " This is what dropping the first letter of the word reminds me of. Most people won't even notice.
I also add a sound on start on some word so instead of bread i add a little sound of w so like w bread or i act like iam thinking like mmmmm brad yeah bread it sometimes work
Brother I speak too fast and i stutter much. if i become nervous gets so worse.Can you give me some real suggestion?
Please ,when you get stuck and you want to breath, do you have to use the airflow technique or the diaphragm tecnique
Im trying to become a UA-camr so yea i need to fix it but its harder than it sounds.
when id talk to myself i wouldnt stutter but when i talk to other people thts wuen id start stuttering
Same, I also talk just fine to myself (for the most part) but when I start talking to another person, that's when I start stuttering
Word stretching 99% works for me ❤
I didn't understood what he said about Word stretching what it means exactly .
My life is so lonely because of stuttering now a days
@@anassheikh7451 End the word slower than your usual word ending speed 99% times success this way for me try it. Good luck
I often struggle saying my name “Anna” or my son’s name “Ivan”. I resort to saying “h-Anna” and “E-van” for my son. Is there any other variation I could try for either of these? I feel like the sound changes I use are a bit too extreme and noticeable 😅
I get stock with choreography. The 'k'
You are just great. I have a question about mimicking practice (which you've talked about in your free workshop). I'm Iranian and don't talk in English. Do you think it's a good idea to mimic Jordan Peterson? Will it help me? I talk in Persian, can I mimic an English speaker?
Yes, you can certainly imitate Dr Peterson. He’s a great speaker to learn from.
And yes, you can mimic across languages because you’re not so much imitating accents or languages, rather, you’re imitating things like inflections, using your hands, and other speech skills. Let me know how it goes!
@@speakyourmindmethod your answer was detailed and in one word, perfect! Thank you brother!
I can’t say words that start with L or when I speak to fast
I have trouble wit the word specific and other certain syllables
Speak with an internal (non visible to others) rhythm or beat
You know it works when even before start speaking the block disappears
Let me ask a question.how I motivate myself to stick that tools everyday.sometimes.I forget.like im excited and fear?
Refer to my “How to stop stuttering under pressure” video from last week. I talk about that topic specifically. Thanks for the comment!
focusing on my voice to be beautiful is my trick
Hello sir,
I have a lot of stammering while talking on the call, then tell me some tips for this.
To be honest I don’t really stammer on call especially with girls weda video call cos have spoke to a girl on video call for 1hr
What would you switch with a letter H . I am stuck with the word How
Italians probably didn't know that they've mastered speech with the help of their hand gestures and movements.
And British too: Bo'oh o wo'eh 😂
the daily routine download link doesnt work
Do you have courses online...?
Yes I do. You can find my coaching programs here: www.speakyourmindmethod.com/store
I see you have a lot of sound proofing on your walls. Do you think that helps with your stutter?
I am a Liberian from west Africa and I want to stop stuttering i need help, how?
I am Also having alot of problem Due to overthing
Can you help me a i have stader for 3 years
Why
How to do a B
All this stuff is just things that just make you think even more about the process of talking, which is the last thing you should be thinking about. You need to learn how to focus your attention 100% on the topic of conversation and the thought you are trying to express, and you need repeated practice with talking normally like that to overwrite your habit of non-fluent speech. You need to learn how to forget the process of producing words. This is how a "normal" person talks. When you want to walk to another room, you don't think about moving each muscle in your legs as you take each step - you just think about where you want to go then you walk there. It should be this way with speaking as well, but we're in the bad habit of talking consciously rather than subconsciously. Also, look into reducing dopamine in your life. It seems many stutterers have more trouble talking when there has recently been an influx of dopamine in their brain for whatever reasons. I'm not a doctor so DYOR.
Do you stutter? It does'nt work like that my friend. No matter how much you try to ignore your stutter it still happens.Maybe the dopamine part is true
@@cjay7740Imagine what he says is absolutely true.Frankly speaking anticipation plays a very pivotal role in development and prolongation of stammering.Fluent speakers don't plan their words.
nothing works. i hate everything. i hate being stutter.
We don’t give up, we keep trying. Stuttering sucks trust me I know but we owe it to ourselves to keep trying until we find a system that works for us. Keep your head up.
Keep your head up. I learned just to still be yourself and you can still be the man. I have a lot of friends and have always been kind of popular bro. So just do you. Try to talk smooth and calm and smile when you talk. Confidence beats stuttering !!
Still remember stuttering is apart of you, so if it happens just keep flowing.
Same 😔
This video sucks. Moving on
When I hear the word I'm about to say, it instantly alleviates my stutter for a bit. Not sure how to use that without luck, but that works for me.
Same goes for me duhhh
Stuttering is very hard
I struggle with P’s so i turn it into a B or in between
Sometimes I setting in v
Class in attendancr time I dont say yes sir because of stutters and students often makes my fun because of stutters I am really sad about this may allah❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ blessed me❤❤❤❤
My 19 yr old grandson gets stuck on the first word. Plus he talks really fast. HELP
A lot of love and support from his parents, NOT try to control his breathing, take pauses ( + word stretching, over articulation, reading out loud very clear ) and feed the subconscious mind with positive affirmations ( "I speak very well and clear; I trust myself; I love myself unconditionally; My opinion matters so incredibly much" ) and so on. God bless you and your son! 🙏
@@edwardrotaru7897 thank you!
@@thymenabottle2515 glad to help! It's very important that we should realise that stuttering/stammering/mumbling etc. IT'S NOT A DISEASE, that's why it doesn't have a cure. Stuttering is an emotional problem and has to be fixed by its deep root, then it will disolve itself. Singing can help sooo much cuz it has a lot of emotional and physical benefits. 😊
@@edwardrotaru7897, my late husband and I adopted our grandson, when he was 2. He went to be with the Lord in 2010. The stutter started a couple yrs later. I’ve thought lately, that maybe mild Aspergers, because his social skills are lacking. So, did the stutter bring on what appears to be from the spectrum. He is rarely empathetic, except for his dog. Sometimes, I see a 12 yr old in a man’s body. He got through high school, without a glitch. Good grades, never got in trouble. And yet he sat by himself, everyday at lunch, for 4 years.
Jesus is the only way
One more tip- just try to sing the word u find difficulty at
learned this all by myself really right now maybe need some more loud reading. As for the second tip sometimes it's so unnatural to use it but if u force it it helps tremendously all though really hard for me now but gonna try and work it
Take your time when talking, think about what you really want to say, and say it three times in your head I promise this also works
This is very cool!! I've been stuterring more than usual for the past two years. I wonder if these tricks work for other languages as well. I'll try!! I'm from Brazil, so I'll try these out it portuguese
Yeah I always have different season of stuttering. Some parts of the year I’m great mostly where life is good and I’m not stressed. When life is stressful and I’m going through a lot I stutter more then often.
I get stuck with Bata..., Uma,,,
I love you bro, changing my life
The only reason I’m bad at talking is because I have really bad nasal problems and my teeth look like a 5 year olds and I need braces really bad and just imagine talking with your nose closed that’s how I feel and I also have 12 cats and 5 dogs so it makes it worse.
I struggle with stuttering, it has affected me in many ways i find it harder to make friends because I can't speak whats on my mind I always keep quiet, even when I try talking I find it extremely difficult. I still have a decent amount of friends but stuttering has really makes my confidence drop. I have a hard time saying the first word of every sentence, for example I have to force the word out and it is not easy. Is there a solution to this problem?
At this point I dont feel like I have stuttering, I only have problems with the first word of my sentence. After I get my first word out I talk normally and smoothly, I have problems starting convos because the first word of my sentence gets stuck or jammed
I stutter only words start with vowel, A,E,I,O,U,pls suggest me for my problem 🙏
When I get nervous to talk or excited I stutter a lot and I get embarrassed
Some one told me this would help me. I hope it will. It's been a long ride of embarrassment Virgo life
Thanks for this, I am definitely trying this out.
hey, any progress?
What are the books behind you, such as atmoic habits?
They are the following:
• The Brain that Changes Itself - Norman Doidge
• Rewire Your Brain - John B Arden
• 12 Rules for Life - Jordan Peterson
• High Performance Habits - Brendon Burchard
• Atomic Habits - James Clear
These are just a few of my favorite books for overall self-development which includes speech improvement.
Thank you very much for sharing the list.@@speakyourmindmethod
I need this video
Great Advice Bro