HOW DOES HE TALK TO YOU?
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- Recently my fiancee came to me and said that she felt really guilty about a situation that happened in her past. She was friends with a guy that would do things for her, trying to win her over eventhough she had made it clear to him that she was not interested in anything more than a friendship. Long story short, he kept doing things for her and she later realized that he may have an idea that she was using him. That was the thing that caused the guilt and she wanted to give him his money back. She doesn't want to be viewed as a user or a bad person. However all I heard was, "I want to give a man that likes me some money" and I reacted in a negative way. Because of the way I reacted, she decided not to go through with repaying they guy.
A week later a similar situation happened to me, where I felt guilty about something that I had done and I was reminded of something that I learned in the past. Guilt is God's way of letting you know that you messed up. Everybody always tells you to talk to God about your problems, but they never seem to speak on how he talks to you. I firmly believe that this is one of the ways and when it happens, you need to ask for forgiveness and/or make some changes in your life so that it never happens again. Guilt comes from your conscience and I believe that God uses your conscience to guide and speak to you in different ways. Needless to say, I felt bad for standing in the way of my fiancee clearing the slate. So after I had this realization I felt that I had to apologize and let her know that I support her decision.
I know this video is a little different from what you're used to hearing me talk about, but I just felt that it was a good lesson in this situation. I hope you understand what I'm trying to tell you.
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Your video about your daughter missing you had me crying. Also you are a good narrator. Have you thought about writing?
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Open communication is the best. Humility and being vulnerable is head on.
When the slirit spesks to you, you have to respond.
nah, I don't agree with one thing. "The Friend Zone" isn't being rejected by someone you like and they just wanna be friends. It's one person stringing you along to keep you as a backup options or whatever then just dropping you like you're nothing saying they are keeping you as a "friend". idk
I’m happy to see that a man actually thinks this far. You’re a blessing. Thanks for sharing. I’ve wondered if this was possible. Now I know with the right man it is! Thanks
Ditto and even more so a black man...refreshing!
I’m from the south and we call that confirmation. It’s definitely God confirming that this is the correct answer, it’s a wonderful feeling. I have shared your channel with my sons in college, as well as all my nieces and nephews. May God continue to bless you, so that you can teach the youth. They seem to take these things better from someone their age.
Thank you so much for your support. I really appreciate it. 🙏🏽😊🤝
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Love the fact that your a black man speaking on your walk with Christ keep up the good work
We seen this before with Derrick Jaxon
@@id6584 yes and no derrick just said whatever to appease women, at least here he talks to both men and women
@@id6584 No we have not! Mr.Jaxn did not show us his walk with Christ, he showed self righteousness(a sin) narcissism(self exaltation a sin) lack of self control(a sin) he blamed Jesus Christ when he fell short and got caught. (No accountability for his actions) which to me is a lack of conscience (too much sin) which would indicate that God has left him and why. Mr.Shumake here is showing his flaws and taking accountability for his own mishaps in life and not blaming anyone for his shortcomings. He's actually doing the Lord's work by speaking truth and being open, honest and vulnerable, like the apostles low-key.
I’m an introvert too😭 but this video was so insightful!! Thank you
Love your candidness and maturity about the situation.
Thank you
@@TheShumakeWay you're more than welcome, homie!
Your revelation is valid. I appreciate you sharing your testimony. Thank you.
I've experienced the Supermarket scenario. A guy approached me with his wife and newborn and told me it was his third time seeing me ( I never noticed him prior to that night). He asked if I believed in GOD and told me that I was destined for something great. It was a moment I couldn't describe but realized that GOD was speaking to me through this individual.
I can relate to everything you have said. God is so faithful to us even when we aren't but yet so merciful to put us back on the right track. I pray that God continues to lead both you and your fiance in everything you do!
Thank you 🙏🏽
I'm experiencing this now. This is 1 testimony i will carry for the rest of my life.
Even when i was willfully disobedient He was faithful.
I like that all your advice comes from personal experience. You not being overly preachy (as far as I know. I'm new). I always take things I see on UA-cam with a grain of salt but keep doing what you doing.
It's this podcast I listen to sometimes called "The Adult Chair", you should give it a listen if/when you have time. You did something anyone should do as an adult, and that's take responsibility for your actions/words. Yours. Not anyone else's.
It takes a lot of courage and confidence to share your personal experiences with people. Thank you for your transparency sir💯
So many layers to this video. 1) her process, 2) yours, 3) the revelation of you being an introvert. Those were the things I saw, perhaps others caught more. Thank you for posting this. I’ve found our society doesn’t celebrate this kind of sophisticated self-reflection and growth process.
God's continued blessings on you and your finance. Integrity is a must in a healthy relationship!
Thank you 🙏🏽
I been similar situations to have men offer to do things for me because they wanted to me to look at them favorably. While I was tempted to take these gifts, I felt guilty knowing that I didn’t like them the way they liked me. I’ve had friends who took gifts from men that didn’t like and I’ve always cautioned them about it. One of my ex who knew me since childhood never initiated buying me things because he saw how I didn’t accept it in the past from other men. He was shocked when I told him it was because I didn’t like them and wasn’t willing to reciprocate my time and sexual affection to them.
Well said!
same. I have friends who take stuff from men knowing they have no interest in the man. And when the man's feelings start to get the better of him and he blows up they act like "well he should've seen I didn't like him" smh how could you when you're giving him mixed signals
Good for you...thou it was hard on both of you, this is awesome communication, trust and grace with one another. It's beautiful, that you both hear the Lord...beautiful....forgive each other, yourselves and keep loving and respecting each other HARD. #shonuff
Thank you so much for sharing this. Clearly your fiancé and you have a contrite spirit, which is so understated in today’s world, but crucial in our growth with God. It’s so refreshing to hear this instead of the narcissism going on in the world.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Yes, you're girl was wrong for that, but she sounds like a beautiful person. We all mess up sometimes but God always gives us an opportunity to do better next time. Peace.
She is a beautiful person indeed. She wasn’t trying to be malicious. She honestly thought he was a friend doing favors for his friend until she realized the extent of his feelings. That’s when she started feeling guilty. She learned from this experience though. We both did really.
I want to know how she was wrong? This man did what he wanted to do. She did not ask him for anything, so how is she a villain? If anything HE was wrong to try and buy a woman's love.
I'm an introvert as well. I love hearing you speak on things about life, relationships and God. God has done a great work in your life.
Definitely has. I appreciate you 🤝
I love when you talk about God!☺️
Yes... Shumake!! Humans are uniquely made by God and when guilt set in, this means we "most definitely" know that what we have done is wrong. However, if you ignore the guilty feeling and continue on with the wrong doing, that guilty feeling will stop. God will give you a pass for not knowing that what you have done is wrong, but if you do know and continue to do wrong and is able to change and don't put forth a good effort to change, you will suffer the consequences.
Thank bro you helping me out a lot by watching videos l also believe God speaking to us subconsciously and thru other people lately I been feeling like he been speaking to me a lot thru my trials and tribulations in my life
Trust and believe God will get a message to you when he wants to. Even if he has to turn your life upside down to get your attention, you will get that message. I’ve learned that it’s better to submit and do what you’re being called to do.
Trust in the Lord God with all your heart lean not into your own understandings in all thy way acknowledge him and he will direct your paths amen
I believe that the guilt you're referring to is the Holy Spirits conviction. (John 16: 8) The Holy Spirit was speaking to you and continues to do so, thanks for sharing .💫
I agree
I like your videos so far and you seem to be an honest person. I hope 🤞 to GOD you don’t turn out to be some of these fake UA-cams who are not Sincere when it comes to their contents just for views and money 💴. Stay true to yourself and us the viewers as well. May GOD continue to bless you so much more in your life!
You don’t have to worry about that. Thank you for your support 🤝
@@TheShumakeWay you’re welcome
he’s always speaking it’s just a matter of you positioning yourself to hear. i’ve heard him speak audibly once that i can remember. im a “seer” he knows how to show me stuff in the spirit. he also confirms his word through other ppl so i understand.
Amen!
I'm really enjoying yoh videos though❤❤Keep going👊🏾Much love from Haiti🇭🇹
Thank you 🤝
It’s called a trained conscious. It stops you from doing things that you will later feel guilty for doing. Not after, but before. Now that’s what a trained conscious is. You talk to God before you commit the sin. That’s the power God gives his people. Wishing you and your lady the best.🥰🥰🌹
I’ve been in situations like this with guys. I walked away a couple times because it made me uncomfortable.
I've always been afraid to take anything from these guys, because it's rare that a guy will do ANYTHING for a female out of the goodness of his heart. I don't want them throwing it up in my face or him saying I used him. There's always a "quid pro quo". I fooled around with a guy as I was coming out of a 2 year relationship. The rebound guy worked at a car wash. Ironically, he didn't have a car, but was attractive. I had no deep feelings for him. I decided I'd use him to take my mind off my ex. So, I didn't take anything from him. One night, as we were sitting in MY car, this dude bit me on the neck as hard as he could. He didn't draw blood, but left a mark on my neck. He did it to leave a mark in case I was going to see someone else. Down the road a few weeks he threatened to burn down my house after he'd been skulking around spying on me (and saw me dibbling with my ex again). So, it doesn't matter whether they do for you or not. If you're honest about your intentions it doesn't matter to them. Just know you did your best and were honest. Why you record in your car? That's your business. Everybody is spooked by Jaxn🙄🙄 now.
You are also at fault here. Stop trying to play with people's emotions to feel better. You don't know their true background or what they ve been through aswell. The fact that society tends to pit women without any wrong doesn't absolve you of one in a given situation. You had your part to play, same as he had his apparent issues. I know putting out his faults makes you feel better with leaving the situation, but you are neither innocent in your story.
@@moderndaycynic695 I'm not worried about him or Jaxn. I recall Shumake saying he wasn't like Jaxn in another video, when someone asked. Yeah, our stubborn, misguided, wicked community is in bad shape. We're worse towards each other, than any other group. I don't recall you or anyone else doing anything about it. But it's about to be over. I'm entitled to my opinion just like everyone else on here "busybody"🙄. You seem to be worried about what others as well, to post this comment.
The reason for this video was definitely legit.
I'm definitely going through my spiritual journey..leveling up spiritually, physically, emotionally and financially
No one is perfect. Mistakes will be made. At least you recognized it & apologized. So many don't bother to do that.
You're a very beautiful and respectful man. The two of you are blessed to have each other.
I definitely understand but some people not going to understand cause they not there yet
I would not & will not ever feel bad about getting stolen headphones from Walmart of all places. The Walton family is super wealthy and they don't even offer their low paid employees health insurance, but I respect your decision. Your journey is personal so you did what was right for you! Maybe bc I've been so honest and loyal and still got done wrong, I'm bitter🤷🏾♀
It’s important to remember that you don’t get your blessings from the people in your life or the people you meet. You get them from God. There is no reason to ever be bitter. As long as you keep your heart right and you’re doing what you have to do, you’ll be blessed.
@@TheShumakeWay I will let that marinate & reflect on it. Thanks for sharing your wisdom & insight 🙏🏾
Thank you Sir!!! Luv your straight from the heart 🔥 talks! You are doing the dang thang!!! Keep on speaking how you speak! We hear you! Thank you! Much success to you and the rest of Team Shumake! Peace and Respect. FATHER GOD, YAHWEH'S BEST ALWAYS!
This video is Sign from God since I’m feeling Guilty right now on something that I shouldn’t have done and I feel like, I will get bad Karma coming on my way.
Forgive yourself 🙏🙏
Pray for forgiveness and never do what you did again. The further you put it behind you, the better off you’ll be.
Everybody makes mistakes, you have recognised your wrongs and taking responsibility for your actions.. maybe try to seek forgiveness but you have to forgive yourself x
Such an awesome young man.... responsible, integrity, and very personable....you have a personality that puts people at ease.... Enjoy your insight, funny insightful stories of wisdom and most of all keep up the good work 🆒🆙💯
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing I fully understand God is sooooooo amazing Once I started seeking Him He showed up and keeps revealing himself I understand what your saying. Love your love for God yourself your woman your kids and humanity. Yes yes helping your loved ones stay and be free. I’m introverted too but when I speak people enjoying listening. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️🖤🖤🖤
That self-accusing spirit can weigh heavy on your mind! Thanku for sharing your transparency! Be blessed.💯💪😎🙏
She’s feeling so blessed that she didn’t want anything to come back on her.
I think that’s what it was too
This is definitely something that I’ve spoken with my friends about. Not all of them believe in God so it was hard for me to explain my faith to them. It’s actually amazing the ways in which God speaks to us. I actually told one of my friends exactly what you said about how I think that God speaks to me through my Conscience and I also explained how people that I did not even know would say things to me that would confirm things, or actually be word for word what I have said to someone else.. just like you speaking now. I never knew the term for that because I honestly do not know much about the Bible itself, but the exact words you used in this video just strengthens my faith even more. I can definitely relate to my conscience speaking to me and being so loud that I cannot even focus on anything else until I either pray about it or work to make it right. Thank you for speaking to us about this topic 🙏🏿
This is actually how I found my purpose... Following that voice
@@TheShumakeWay that’s amazing! I still have a ways to go in terms of discipline and not giving in to temptations. I have faith that when I finally make it out to the other side, I will find my purpose as well.
Thank you for sharing this part of your spiritual and emotional journey with us. We learn so much from you!
Are You MARRIED? Why You USING The SAME Tactic As DERRICK And Give Advice Trough The Car All The Times What's Is This? What Make You Think Is APPEALING SWEET Or INNOCENT, I Don't GET It!
RESPECT, RESPECT, REAL RESPECT, ALOT OF MORE RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER, AMEN 🤲🙏🙇♀️♥️🎤😁👍👌🤗🙆♀️😀🎊😷🙋♀️👩🙏🏽😄💒💒🎉BE BLESS, BE ENCOURGE, GOD BLESS, JESUS #1, PRAYER WARRIOR, PRAY 🙏🏽🙏🙏🏽🙏🙏🏽🙏🙏🏽🙏
This video has definitely hit home for me I’m going through a complete 180 in my life right now and I’ve been feeling like God is honestly touching me, listening to my spirit ,making become closer to him like no other, I’ve been thinking about having conversations with ppl just to free my Conscience and like you said move forward to a clean slate to begin my life’s purpose. Great video!
Follow that voice. You’ll feel 10x lighter.
@@TheShumakeWay I do I just got out a very toxic relationship in which now I’ve had to step back giving circumstances but now I feel light my chest has no weight and I now God has better things coming my way!
@@darionaaa Oh I’ve been there before. It will work out
I can relate to everything in this video cause I go through this a lot
Thank you for making this video because I’ve been growing my relationship with God and I love how you mentioned the various ways He’ll talk to us. Great video!
This was confirmation. I needed to hear this
Thank you. 🙏🏾 I asked God for something and the response was in this video. God bless you and your family. 🙏🏾❤️
You’re a sweet kid. Your mom did a good job.
Please speak on being a boyfriend and fiancee and how that person shows up in a relationship with God and your partner. Secondly, am I hearing that your partner needed to get permission from you to act on what she was being led to do?
Man....You got me really thinking how the conscience is the human regulator for what God is trying to tell us. Those who ignore it continually do wrong to themselves and to others. Genius!
Can you PLEASEEEEEE share your opinion on “The Real- submitting to your man”
A lot of ppl are made about Jeanie’s standpoint but I kind of agree.... what about you?
Short answer, gotta be to the right partner. Lots of couples be giving too much for so little. No equal trade off
Keep moving in purpose. This authenticity and honesty is much needed. May God richly bless you and your family ♥️
you are a good man sir. !
I try to be. Thank you 🙏🏽
Jesus is please. It is good to hear you talk about Jesus as a young man. Look here now! Jesus word says: if we don't talk about him he will make the rocks call on him. Jesus word is real. And Jesus is real. We do not need to know everything to love Jesus. Just except Jesus in your heart. My Lord!
This man is seriously beautiful. Time to model.
Good stuff! I agree with you regarding not discussing how The Most High talks to us. That's so important to know while we're doing our best on this life journey. Thanks for sharing! Peace.
I can relate to you as an individual. Like yourself, I am an introvert person and don't like to be the center of attention. I would much rather sit in the back and watch. Also, I want to say, keep making your videos. You definitely have a genuine relationship with God because the Holy Spirit is not going to let you sin without conviction and to the point where you can't enjoy the sin. You are a very understanding, honest, humble, and transparent man.
This helped me. Thank you for being obedient to God🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing that information. In life it’s not about money. It’s how we treat others. We have to love and respect one another. It goes a long a long way. God will bless you.
When truth had me buy stolen ice 💼 I was like what the hell truth? That’s why u passing out money. This person was able to get so u buy & most likely u will bless someone with it in time. Weh
Definition of a Man…A HIGH VALUE MAN….
Voice of communication comes vision clips of things like u just say voice cause one can never identify each detail of consciousness.
I know my conscience be eating me alive when I do something wrong!
I really like what you're saying here & I think this message is helping someone right now who really needs to hear it.I do believe that if most people communicated like this there would be less dysfunction in families & friends or significant others would be on good terms most of the time.Talk about life being good, because right now everybody is going through something & having understanding is everything.
There is blessing in being obedient We all need to be better listener. Read Deuteronomy 28.
This video was confirmation. Last night I had a very strong sense of guilt that almost brought me to tears. But i put myself in this situation with this guy that has one leg. (He has prosthetic leg)
He has a good job and he is handsome but at the same time i know that this is not the man God has for me. Its really our belief systems that separate us not his disability. But i felt sense of extreme guilt because I dont know what this man go through when it comes to his love life. And what if he is falling for me and he think its his leg that's the reason Im walking away. God told me to bless him and move forwArd. But it is very hard. I feel bad.
Exactly.. You put this out cause I'm in this right now. God bless you with a Full amount of abundance.💜💜
Thank you 🙏🏽
Going through this right now! Thank you so much for this video!!! I appreciate it!
My pleasure
You made me cry..... just because u took that time do right. Your one in a million. blessing to you God is good ❤😇
Whoever showed you how to know God was a God sent 🙏 angel 😇
Aye man I don’t agree with everything u say but I looked at multiple videos so I wouldn’t have a biased opinion but I got nothin but respect for somebody who stand on what they say
Great video 👍🏾
Thank you big brother. I needed to see this. 🙏🏾💕
Just subscribed to your channel! Thank you for what you're doing.
Thank you 🙏🏽. Welcome to the family
You throwing alot of disclaimers out on her behalf..... Character speaks for itself.
Your Queen should have not accepted anything from the friend zoned gentleman.
Right on point. Great message. Thank you bro.
are u a taurus? you speak so calm and focused. love hearing your thought and experiences!
Thank you 🙏🏽... I’m a Sagittarius
Excellent content👍👍 11/25/22🙏❤️
Where you be driving too?!..lol
Amen. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🌷🌻🙂💯🌟
That’s so true
An apology from depth of sincere heart forms key’s knowledge knowing a girl light bright looking like Me’ that My love child will come on her 👠 & bless my beautiful daddy tone girl that I may enjoy motherhood from love’s point of view. It takes 3 with Me’
You have an immaculate woman g. Keep thriving.
Great topic! A very good book on the different ways God speaks to us, is called "God is that You, Me or the Devil" by Kevin Winters, really deep and insightful!
I needed to hear that. Thanks. I heard this before and the first time I thought it was about relationships. But I listened to it again and now I realize it's about learning how God moves. I am going through something like that in my life: learning to rely on different cues. And I needed to hear that to know that I'm not wrong in where I'm headed. Thank you so much.
God is definitely talking to me through you watching these videos. Glad I can across your channel brother 💪🏻💪🏻 keep it up bruh
You mentioned in this video the different ways God speaks to us. And in another video of yours I watched prior to this one, you talked about God restoring. I just asked the Lord if he would restore what I have lost and for a more abundant life earlier in the day before I even knew about this channel. This was a double confirmation that the Lord is listening and hears our smallest request. And the prayer was not for the purpose of personal gain, but to discover my purpose in order to serve others, to have good desires met and to find joy in life. Thank you for being a vessel.
SPEAK ON BROTHER I ADMIRE YOUR LEVELS OF MATURITY ITS VERY ENCOURAGING
Amazing message.. Thank you
Thank you!
I admire your honesty,insight, integrity and uniqueness. You are a beacon of light and full of wisdom. Thank you for establishing your
You Tube channel. 💯
My dear brother, I totally agree with you. Your thoughts are definitely coming from Jehovah. Don't ever doubt it. I'm appreciate your words of wisdom
Thank you💯
Beautiful testimony! God Bless you and your family.
Thank you for making these videos, keeping it real and dropping gems. I recently went through a breakup/situationshio ending. This is knowledge for me to heal and know how to move forward with more wisdom than before. Thank you again!🙌🏾
Let's get married lol we are the same way I just subscribed off the last video and I know my mission to help ppl too as well.
I am oconfirming that you are speaking truth
Deuteronomy 4:1-16 ; Deuteronomy 28 Thank you
Keep pushing forward! Your stories are always appreciated. An I appreciate your honesty as a man