I picked that book up yesterday at goodwill… then put it back because I know what it is. Everyone around me knows what it is but this helped. Trauma bond holding me and me pretending it’s what I’m choosing.
If you see it again, pick it up. it's worth the read. just knowing muhc more clearly what's happening to you is incredibly empowering! please don't choose to pretend. you'll only be stuck in trauma bonds for so much longer!
The devil tried to extinguish your light but God said not so!! Even when you are telling your story, your beautiful God light shines! I’m so glad you are sharing.
"You dont know where you stand with them and one time I called him Dr jekyl and Mr Hyde" Yes!!! 😮😮😮😮😮 Thats EXACTLY what happened in my situation, to the exact word!
Man i could cry right now!!!! Watching this because I’m trying to get out and it’s hard it’s almost like this man programmed me I feel very isolated alone confused i told him I’m lost and i need to find myself i’m walking on egg shells i cut my whole family off even my mom this man always smothering me and i hate him for that ok now I’m crying because i have no one at all to text are talk too i’ve been with him for 7 years and today was the day I put my foot down and I would not except no more of this I’m mentally completely checked out of the relationship I don’t want it I don’t need it anymore damage is done I have chronicle back pain PTSD as well suffer from bad anxiety mood swings like crazy I even got diagnosed with bipolar disorder still in therapy right now but today I have the strength to finally walk away after 7 years of just all damaged and like you said it was not just mean words it was more than that
I’m so sorry to hear this. I understand & clearly remember that feeling of being stuck. Please reach out to me & book a discovery call. This is type of work I do with women to help you survive & escape. 🤎🤎
I picked that book up yesterday at goodwill… then put it back because I know what it is. Everyone around me knows what it is but this helped. Trauma bond holding me and me pretending it’s what I’m choosing.
If you see it again, pick it up. it's worth the read. just knowing muhc more clearly what's happening to you is incredibly empowering! please don't choose to pretend. you'll only be stuck in trauma bonds for so much longer!
AND they keep coming back....even though they are unable to BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, because they are children.
Yes exactly. The term "arrested development," really does fit. They are stuck in a stage of their childhood.
The devil tried to extinguish your light but God said not so!! Even when you are telling your story, your beautiful God light shines! I’m so glad you are sharing.
Thank you Sis! And Amen. God said that was enough. I’m so grateful!
"You dont know where you stand with them and one time I called him Dr jekyl and Mr Hyde" Yes!!! 😮😮😮😮😮 Thats EXACTLY what happened in my situation, to the exact word!
It’s awful. So confusing.
@@OUTHERETRYNASURVIVE Yeah it gives you cognitive dissonance. These are demons, Ive never known anyone evil to this level.
Thank you.I. Am a male and it hurts me that There is so much mistrust and hatred out there.
verbal abuse is nothing new to me 💔 thank you so much for sharing this wonderful video to us.
I’m so sorry you’re experiencing that 😞😞😞😞
Man i could cry right now!!!! Watching this because I’m trying to get out and it’s hard it’s almost like this man programmed me I feel very isolated alone confused i told him I’m lost and i need to find myself i’m walking on egg shells i cut my whole family off even my mom this man always smothering me and i hate him for that ok now I’m crying because i have no one at all to text are talk too i’ve been with him for 7 years and today was the day I put my foot down and I would not except no more of this I’m mentally completely checked out of the relationship I don’t want it I don’t need it anymore damage is done I have chronicle back pain PTSD as well suffer from bad anxiety mood swings like crazy I even got diagnosed with bipolar disorder still in therapy right now but today I have the strength to finally walk away after 7 years of just all damaged and like you said it was not just mean words it was more than that
I’m so sorry to hear this. I understand & clearly remember that feeling of being stuck. Please reach out to me & book a discovery call. This is type of work I do with women to help you survive & escape. 🤎🤎
I thank God I came across this video.
I’m so glad it helped 🫶🏽
Oh ow! Sorry for what you went through.
Thank you for this confirmation, you described my exact situation right now..
So glad I could help! And so sorry you’re going through! 😞
Thank you for sharing your expereinces.
Thank you for watching 🤎
@@OUTHERETRYNASURVIVE you're welcome
Thank you for this video! Every single thing, even some examples I'm going through with my partner. I feel so trapped..
I’m so sorry. I remember the feeling. 😞 just know the truth that you are NOT & you will break free. Don’t give up. Ever!
Me too but I’m waking up and getting stronger every day