You know what’s a great sign that it’s over it’s telling the other person that’s it’s over like don’t stay with someone and then treat em like crap hoping they leave just break up and be done
She seem the type who think hanging on to a man is a life goal. Bet she's the first to tell a single woman that she is nothing because no man wants her. She is confused and desperate. She's thick in the head.
She went through a traumatic experience and he wasn't there for her on multiple occasions,that was evident that he didn't care anymore and did not want the relationship.
Kay Haley That is the real sad part. This young lady is totally clueless. She needs to lose the stress factors from her life in order to regain her health.
Young Reezy1233 😂😂😂 I get that even she said he moved because of a great job offer. But he didn’t ask her to go with him, and he was short with her when they talked on the phone. He was DONE with her. It’s mostly her fault. A person can’t deal with someone else’s negativity on a steady basis, it wears a person down. Because they had been friends for such a long time, it felt natural for her to vent with him. That was her undoing.
Him: how’s your day? Her: oh it’s pretty rough. Due to the circumstances, I can’t even eat right now. Him: I didn’t want to hear all of that. The rest of us: WELL, WHY DID YOU ASK?! People have bad days, sometimes and if it’s so bad that she can’t even get enough together to properly feed herself, he should be concerned for her. Not griping about her having the audacity to truthfully answer that question.
Yes! And if got such a good job in Atlanta, why couldn't he help her buy food she could eat at least like chicken soup if she doesn't feel well and foods that will build her back up nutritionally too. He knew she was having a tough time financially (because she was too ill to work), but all he cared about was himself "living his best life" as he kept saying over and over.
Sounds to me her day was always bad. Pretty much since he's known her. Sometimes when you weigh people all the time with your issues it can become draining. She said it in her opening statement that he knew how to pick her up. Yes he did it as a friend and boyfriend . And he got tired of if. But she has to also remember you can't take everything to your man. Men have a try to fix it mindset. It's easy to see his faults but we women need to start looking at our own.
Mr. Cooney I’m not going off of looks. I’m saying attractive people can usually get away with a lot more. The way he’s treating her, you’d think he was really sexy or something and women would be lining up for him. Also, no matter how you look, you can be more or less attractive depending on what kind of person you are at heart, and this dude isn’t kind, so it makes him look even less attractive than he already is.
I’ve noticed it’s always the most negative, selfish & nasty people preaching about positivity. She needs to love herself and FIND the meaning of true support & love.
She needs to get talk therapy .. ur lover isn't ur therapist . Yes talk to them but don't burden and offload. Apart of self love is being alone until u have healed so you don't bleed onto each other.
Wow the fact that she had a heart attack at 28 years old really shows that even if you are "young" if you are in a stressful, toxic or dysfunctional situation it can literally almost make you drop dead. I feel for this woman. She really believes that this man cares about her. She totally ignored all the red flags and spent 10 years with this fool.
Thank you. I'm 20 and not even that attractive to most women so I have never had one. But I know what not to do and he did a list of trifling things to her. If I had a woman who was unlucky enough to have been shot and had a heart attack before 30, you're damn right I'll find a way to come see her. I wouldn't care if I got fired or had to borrow money from people. I'll cherish her every day even when I'm not in a talkative mood I'll just listen to her and hear her convey those thoughts while figuring out solutions for them.
Alyssa Gillespie yeah she had ptsd from getting shot so she had a lot of issue and she still has a bullet in her shoulder so she’s on different medications and they probably stress her heart
Girl im from buffalo NY this girl is a hottttt messss....she got a whole daughter that aint 10 yrs old. I think she playing theese reality shows up....smh. yea she been thru alot but she put herself thru 90 percent of it. Straight messy asf. This whole shit is funny asf to me 🤣
@@devinleandra3373 I had a gut feeling something wasn't adding up and she's not as innocent as she made herself to be . Unfortunately the judge ate it up and the entire social media issue with her leaving him out the photos for more likes was a red flag. I was on her side until that. As a man I will say that we dont just go from fully supporting a woman to a " fuck you I care less what happens " without a solid reason. She got the attention but none of the love from those same people when shit hit the fan. Can you blame him for leaving and not visiting if someone picked social media likes and attention from other people before you ?
It seems to be much more to this story. He mentioned that he’s tired of the mixed signals and going back and forth with her. He mentioned that he wants to live his best life, like she’s living her best life. I believe she used him as an emotional punching bag. He was an amazing friend to her; a good shoulder to cry on and he knew how to ‘deal’ with her. However, he wasn’t good enough to be with her publicly because he damaged her image. It’s one thing to just not want to post your personal life on social media and it’s another to seek affirmation from the masses. She admitted to using men for attention and drinks, but technically has a whole man. What does that say about her character? Many people are viewing her as the victim and I see her as an opportunist. It’s terrible that she got shot and had a heart attack. I sympathize with her on that, but anything else...it’s gonna be a NO for me dogggg! This guy came across as a jerk, but he was tired of being in her life for her convenience. This girl didn’t want anything serious with him, she loves what he did for her but was not in love with him.
Beloved, this man proved to you his true feelings when he didn't show up doing your most devastating time. Move on!! You got this! Wishing you the #BEST life ever!!
Beginning of this episode I was calling him Mr. Klump. Calling him a piece of sh!t. and part of me still feels that way honestly ... BUT. LADIESS "If I post him my likes will go from 700 to 22".." i've never seen danielle post me NEVER "Let me tell you something.. It may seem trivial but it's demoralizing.. It leaves a feeling of inadequacy that leads to Resentment.. Being with someone who needs to maintain the appearance of being attainable no matter what your career is.That man is overweight and is probably dealing with his own insecurities and to be in a relationship where you essentially don't feel like your partner is proud of you. Alot of people will read this and still won't understand. That leads to RESENTMENT..
All of a sudden, I started wiping tears from my eyes. I didn’t realize I was even crying. She was shot and in the hospital - no one would have kept me away. I don’t care how much money I’ve got
lol apparently not because she back on the show again and was trying to convince a man who told her UP FRONT that he was polyamorous, that she can change him smh. She ain't learn shit. Made herself look foolish twice.
'I didn't ask for your life story' omg!!! Wow!!! I'm sending prayers that a good man finds this woman, sweeps her off her feet and takes away all her stresses and worries. This guy is disgusting.
That's how females end up disappointed 😞. No one can sweep anyone off their feet and take away their stress. You will end up being a bitter old nag because anyone you end up with will never measure up to that expectation. Relationships are not fantasy...stay in the real world. That 20 something year old need better goals in life.
How, he said he called everyday and talked whenever she wanted to, but couldn't be there. It's always funny when a man has emotionally left a relationship, he's wrong and all these other names, but when a woman leaves the same way, she's so strong. C'mon, everybody's has there breaking point, he just reached his. Like he said he will always be there for her, but not in a relationship, there is nothing wrong with that.
That boy I'm not even calling him a man is trifling as all hell and may be the worst person I've seen on the show yet. I'm single and if I ever had a woman who was unlucky enough to get shot and have a heart attack before 30. I would cherish her everyday and find a way to come see her in person or on the phone. I don't blame her at all for just doing her on social media he's not worth the clothes he wore in court.
I agree.He can't say he couldn't save money to catch a cheap flight.I have gotten so many deals for less than $100 roundtrip.But that's his excuse & he sticking with it.Men like him makes me happy to be single.
@@Reezy12333 And your point is? She could have died. He should treat her like he wants to be treated. You can bet if he had been shot and later had a heart attack she would've been there. He just using pitiful excuses.
My Grandma, Momma, and Great-Grandma use to me the same thing that Judge Lynn Toler, "Never make a man tell you that he doesn't want you more than once". REAL TALK THO!!!! She will find her good man that will love you for you.
Wow dumbed her on national t.v I can only imagine how heartbroken she must feel. She is a beautiful woman she will pull through this. Girl leave him alone he’s not worth it.
She should have left his sloppy looking self a long time ago. I think he told her something different before the show and that's why she looked at him like that. I think he is gay
This woman is fabulous. Does she not know that her test could become her testimony. She is both beautiful on the inside and out. She should become a motivational speaker of some sort. All the best to her. She is still so young and has her whole life in front of her. God bless her!
I’m confused how I’m watching an episode on catfish tht just aired tonite & she’s claiming to have been in a relationship with a man on the internet she met when she was 14. Been together 6 years, tht she’s never met but she’s supposed to have been with this man here?!!! Huh!!!
This Humpty Dumpty of an excuse that calls himself a man , is a waste of everything .. let’s be magnanimous here and pray life “ his best life” doesn’t dish up a truck load of s**t to him.. and he’s on the receiving end of what he did / didn’t do for this woman.. everyone has a right to complain to their partner if something is going wrong in their day , week ,month or year.. he had no empathy.. that was his problem, he is selfish and put himself first .. Karma ! What goes around comes around. Lady you’re so going to shine without him..
She even manages to ignore the way he looks at her during this episode. She’s in denial and he is a coward. If he didn’t want her, he should have said so and hit the bricks.
@Elle D yeah. He literally did everything to show her to just go away. If someone isn't into you everything about you would bother him. He don't see her then he can't stand listening to her. OMG I would be like bye. I would hate to burden someone when I can have someone who would do nothing to talk to me. Hell no.
@@BruinPhD2009 absolutely. She was ignoring everything in the end by the way she was looking at him and laughing, like get over it we gonna be together but the judge was like look at me wake up hello he don't want you. Gee I wouldn't want her either at this stage too bloody clingy.
He's narcissistic, rude and a damn fool, with his Telly Tubby looking behind. She's strong, she's beautiful, she's a survivor, she's caring, she's a phenomenal woman and she'll shine even brighter now that he's exited stage left. May the issues with the PTSD and her health improve so much so that it's no longer a problem.
I just finished watching her last appearance on the show and I just pray she takes time out to focus on her self and take a break from dating. Find love and everything you desire within you 💕
I’m so glad you said this. I just saw this for the first time but I knew her face. Somebody lying and show hopping. She was flying to SC and this did was in ATL. What’s tea ☕️
@15:30-15:45...see that look she gave him after he told her he was done. Good thing Judge Toler intervened, she looked like she was gonna go off on him; but the judge is right, he said in many ways that he didn't want her: * He can't drop everything and leave * He don't like to be around negative people * He's trying to live his best life * He says she's always been the same way, always in drama Heal yourself. Love yourself. Be strong. There's a good man out there who will love you for you and be there for you 🙏
After the first few minutes of the episode I knew something was wrong when she was telling her heart breaking story and it didn't seem to move anything with him but was actually smiling!!!! It was disturbing... I hope she can get over him as soon as possible and grow big 🌹
Shot three times Had a heart attack Had a birthday Walking a dog he doesn’t have He had to fold the dishes So called camping trip He clearly showed her didn’t want her when he didn’t show up when she got shot.
@@AriusBLK honey i knew somebody would be funny. 😂 so I covered all bases. He said EVEN IF I WAS ONLY HIS GIRLFRIEND HE WOULD'VE WALKED TO BE WITH ME IF I ALMOST DAMN DIED. 🤷🏾😂🥰😘
rochelle rochelle What ? He said he doesn’t want to be with her … and Which of his actions told anything different? Was it the … 1) Not showing up to the Hospital? 2) The making of excuses to avoid conversations? 3) The refusal to leave work for her ? 4) The no contact in 4 months ? You females really need to finally take accountability for your choices and decisions. This “Sisterhood of Failure” and “Self-Delusion” is old, useless, and pathetic. Time to be an adult now. Either that or just stick to cat farming.
3165dwayne Yes … they are. What you’ve witnessed was a live demonstration of … “Real time Stupidity in action”. What she typed was COMPLETELY STUPID … correct? The Stupid are not ignorant. They have full knowledge and information of the subject at hand. However, the stupid are sociopaths that project their hidden personal agendas onto the situation. The Stupid are dangerous and Evil.
It's really not about him it's simply the rejection of him moving on that she's having a hard time with.. She doesn't love that dude she wants him for therapy...
Wow! This episode has me in tears, upset, and happy at the same time! Ms. Richardson, Sis, GODdess, BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, I know I don't you PERSONALLY, however! I have so much love/ hugs for YOU, and I will continue to keep you in my PRAYERS! BLESSINGS and best wishes to you throughout your LIFE journey!! 😊🤗 As for as that BUBBLE HEAD NO NECK HEARTLESS FRUIT CAKE! Mr. Daniels, GET rid of him! GOD GOT YOU Sis! Mrs/MS Judge Toler I just NEED to SAY this from the bottom of my HEART and from SPIRITS, THANK YOU ENDLESSLY! YOU ARE ONE powerful GREAT BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN! YOU ADD ON TO MY LIFE! YOU INSPIRE ME TO BECOME GREATER! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!😊🤗🖤
My heart goes out to Danielle and I can see the heart break in her face and all I wanna do is hug this young lady till all that pain disappears. GOD HAS A WONDERFUL MAN FOR YOU DANIELLE JUST BE STRONG AND STAY PRAYERFUL BABY GIRL.
Well look at him. He doesn’t even want to be a couple but he wants for her to be promote the idea of a relationship to keep guys away. Her reasoning may have been dumb but it’s good that she didn’t in reality.
shae moore I think he was referring to throughout the relationship. I think now he is done with her. Personally, I don’t care about being posted, but he does so that’s why it bothers him.
He doesn’t wanna be with her and he’s been saying that shes a beautiful girl and she’s need to love herself more ❤️. To many men out here willing to do what you want with out asking for her to be begging for him to do it..
Can we gather here and appreciate Judge Lynn, this woma is a powerhouse 🔥 I look forward to hearing her heartfelt, potent and profound advices at the end of the court hearing ❤️🔥
Girl first of all, 10 YEARS????? And no kids??? Why are you with him??? I had 2 kids but after 5 years I left. If he doesn't want you, he doesn't want you!! Have some pride!! Choose yourself!! Choose real peace!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Oh his facial expression as she speaks about what’s going on he doesn’t care about the relationship. Ohhh he’s really sorry and trifling. He irks me to no end. Never love a man more than he loves you.
One thing that stands out to me is that she said “I’m hard to deal with and he knows I’m hard to deal with” which means she was like that before her crises. firstly: if she’s hard to deal it’s his fault because he knew and I think he just got tired of it. However, you can’t know you’re hard to deal with and just have the “that’s how I am” attitude and expect people to want to stay.
Somehow I feel there's more to that story than what's being said by her. He said she was always about drama...im thinking maybe she was once again in that drama thats why she was innthe wrong place. The man doesn't want to be in anymore of it, move on and find someone who can handle it all. You've got one life to live.
I love it when she tells women that bit about never letting a man tell them that he doesn't want them more than once... and I'm a man!! VERY TRUE.
Olumide that statement changed my life.
That girl is like velcro she sticks...she still calling him now.
Alot of these black women come off as entirely way to hard-up and willing to deal with anything in order to chase a piece of a man.
Olumide Thanks for being Honest “King”
It applies both ways. Men too should never take rejection from a woman more than once.
She ignored EVERY DAMN SIGN!! He showed her over and over that he didn't care.
he seems self centered and a time waste...dont she see from all her experiences that lifes short
Sometimes you just have to let people be....
You know what’s a great sign that it’s over it’s telling the other person that’s it’s over like don’t stay with someone and then treat em like crap hoping they leave just break up and be done
@@Sabrewood13 Those of us who are not assholes know this...
She knee.cery well he done with her....she knew. .
Everything about him irritated me. His clothes, his face, his attitude.
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Especially the clothes lol 😆
Yes Lord!!!
Agreed.
YES!! So smug and glib and arrogant!! I'm feeling like he's narcissistic!
He doesn’t even care about her as a friend let alone a girlfriend.
MsYBBG his facial expression says that too🥴
Right
She seem the type who think hanging on to a man is a life goal. Bet she's the first to tell a single woman that she is nothing because no man wants her. She is confused and desperate. She's thick in the head.
“Darnell has been there for me in so many ways..”
Darnells face 🥴
😩🤣🤣🤣 that emoji
The relationship would’ve been over when he didn’t come to see me when I got shot furthermore she can do better then that lame
BabyKorey Kopasetik THANK YOU 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He didn't have no problem ending the relationship when he got whatever he wanted from her
PERIOD
Period
I hope she’s listening to him speak. He doesn’t like her very much.
He speaks as if he never liked her at all
@Nancy Write I didnt want to say it but...I think you're right. It would explain why he is so disinterested in her
@Nancy Write
He moved to ATL , he is closer to where he wants to be .
@@jacksonernie484 I'm so glad I wasn't the only one thinking this.
She like velcro she won't let go... And she stressful
She went through a traumatic experience and he wasn't there for her on multiple occasions,that was evident that he didn't care anymore and did not want the relationship.
Right he EVEN moved to get away from her n she's still clueless
Kay Haley That is the real sad part. This young lady is totally clueless. She needs to lose the stress factors from her life in order to regain her health.
Charles Anderson he didn’t move because of her y’all don’t listen
This is co-dependency not love. He's heartless towards her because he's gay.
Young Reezy1233 😂😂😂 I get that even she said he moved because of a great job offer. But he didn’t ask her to go with him, and he was short with her when they talked on the phone. He was DONE with her. It’s mostly her fault. A person can’t deal with someone else’s negativity on a steady basis, it wears a person down. Because they had been friends for such a long time, it felt natural for her to vent with him. That was her undoing.
Him: how’s your day?
Her: oh it’s pretty rough. Due to the circumstances, I can’t even eat right now.
Him: I didn’t want to hear all of that.
The rest of us: WELL, WHY DID YOU ASK?! People have bad days, sometimes and if it’s so bad that she can’t even get enough together to properly feed herself, he should be concerned for her. Not griping about her having the audacity to truthfully answer that question.
Squish Squish this really irked me too. Like, what answer was he really looking for & why even ask her?
Yes! And if got such a good job in Atlanta, why couldn't he help her buy food she could eat at least like chicken soup if she doesn't feel well and foods that will build her back up nutritionally too. He knew she was having a tough time financially (because she was too ill to work), but all he cared about was himself "living his best life" as he kept saying over and over.
Sounds like someone I loved so deeply .. it’s so HARD to let go
I was told by one of my professors that when people ask how are you doing it's just a figure of speech, they really don't care
Sounds to me her day was always bad. Pretty much since he's known her. Sometimes when you weigh people all the time with your issues it can become draining. She said it in her opening statement that he knew how to pick her up. Yes he did it as a friend and boyfriend . And he got tired of if. But she has to also remember you can't take everything to your man. Men have a try to fix it mindset. It's easy to see his faults but we women need to start looking at our own.
Man she made me cry when she started explaining what happened to her.. truly felt so bad for her, she deserves way better!! ❤️
This dude is disgusting. Like, if you're not into her cool, but he treated her like trash. And he ain't even cute! She can do way better.
Mr. Cooney he’s not cute why you mad that’s your boo 😂😂
Mr. Cooney I’m not going off of looks. I’m saying attractive people can usually get away with a lot more. The way he’s treating her, you’d think he was really sexy or something and women would be lining up for him. Also, no matter how you look, you can be more or less attractive depending on what kind of person you are at heart, and this dude isn’t kind, so it makes him look even less attractive than he already is.
@@chrisbriscoe7138 yep, if he was cool he'd be cute, but for some reason he se er Ms t think he doesnt even have to try!!! THERE FOR, hes HIDEOUS
How exactly is he mistreating her? I missed that part.
The Urban Authority that’s what I’m trying find out Man lives in another state having to take care of his bills n was talking to her everyday otp
I’ve noticed it’s always the most negative, selfish & nasty people preaching about positivity. She needs to love herself and FIND the meaning of true support & love.
Exactly, he's very pompous, selfish and toxic.
She needs to get talk therapy .. ur lover isn't ur therapist . Yes talk to them but don't burden and offload. Apart of self love is being alone until u have healed so you don't bleed onto each other.
Miss TJ so true!!!
So true
@@missmaverick3477 whether you are a male or female those are profound words. I felt that. Yo quiero mucho.
He’s emotionally not available. He can’t be bothered caring for her. She needs to move on.
Absolutely, she needs to move on because he isn't it her. This lady has been through a horrendous ordeal..
Jazzy Jeff Real Talk
Wow … an actual solution.
Be careful, they have idiots lurking around.
She should've moved on long ago.
Nd he's always broke
@@AriusBLK 😂😂😂
Darnell in Atlanta living his whole other life. She just doesn't get it even if the sky opens up and an angel whispers it in her ears
Did anyone else hear him say “you don’t look cute”?!!!
Yep!
Yup. I was hoping Judge would’ve said something about it
He said.."it don't look cute"..I'm assuming the shortness of it etc.
When??
LMAOOOOOO
Wow the fact that she had a heart attack at 28 years old really shows that even if you are "young" if you are in a stressful, toxic or dysfunctional situation it can literally almost make you drop dead. I feel for this woman. She really believes that this man cares about her. She totally ignored all the red flags and spent 10 years with this fool.
Thank you. I'm 20 and not even that attractive to most women so I have never had one. But I know what not to do and he did a list of trifling things to her. If I had a woman who was unlucky enough to have been shot and had a heart attack before 30, you're damn right I'll find a way to come see her. I wouldn't care if I got fired or had to borrow money from people. I'll cherish her every day even when I'm not in a talkative mood I'll just listen to her and hear her convey those thoughts while figuring out solutions for them.
@@shamardavis6357Nothings impossible if someone else is doing it.
@@JohnSmith-db1qi Even if she was on drugs, he could have visited her in the hospital.
Well she got shot. So the heart attack could have been complications from that.
Alyssa Gillespie yeah she had ptsd from getting shot so she had a lot of issue and she still has a bullet in her shoulder so she’s on different medications and they probably stress her heart
He looks corny, sounds corny. Let that go sis😩 he's a CORNBALL!!!!
Exactly! He ooozes WHACK! She can do soooooo much better
He looks like the nutty professor, she looks beautiful.
Exactly, he's LITERALLY on here trying to play her. Mean while there's NOTHING ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ATTRACTIVE ABOUT FAT BOY😏🤔😩😧 The nerve of him 😤
We accept what we believe we deserve. I hope sis knows better now
@@SpiffyPenguin factz
he wants a MAN and i dont understand how she dont see that, he moved 2 ATLANTA say no more
24blunt 🖐🏾
Same thing i said he living his best gay life
Lol right ! 😂😂😂
Atlanta...what goes on in atlanta stays in atlanta?
Baby,I said the same thing that's why he moved to Geogia.Gay Gay Gay is all I saw
She was just on Catfish last night from a 6 year relationship with another man. She has a lot going on
Girl im from buffalo NY this girl is a hottttt messss....she got a whole daughter that aint 10 yrs old. I think she playing theese reality shows up....smh. yea she been thru alot but she put herself thru 90 percent of it. Straight messy asf. This whole shit is funny asf to me 🤣
@@devinleandra3373 I had a gut feeling something wasn't adding up and she's not as innocent as she made herself to be . Unfortunately the judge ate it up and the entire social media issue with her leaving him out the photos for more likes was a red flag. I was on her side until that. As a man I will say that we dont just go from fully supporting a woman to a " fuck you I
care less what happens " without a solid reason. She got the attention but none of the love from those same people when shit hit the fan. Can you blame him for leaving and not visiting if someone picked social media likes and attention from other people before you ?
@@devinleandra3373 was she shot?
@Katherine Washington can I get a link to that episode please?
@@beb5407 You won't because it never happened. Lol
It seems to be much more to this story. He mentioned that he’s tired of the mixed signals and going back and forth with her. He mentioned that he wants to live his best life, like she’s living her best life. I believe she used him as an emotional punching bag. He was an amazing friend to her; a good shoulder to cry on and he knew how to ‘deal’ with her. However, he wasn’t good enough to be with her publicly because he damaged her image. It’s one thing to just not want to post your personal life on social media and it’s another to seek affirmation from the masses. She admitted to using men for attention and drinks, but technically has a whole man. What does that say about her character? Many people are viewing her as the victim and I see her as an opportunist. It’s terrible that she got shot and had a heart attack. I sympathize with her on that, but anything else...it’s gonna be a NO for me dogggg! This guy came across as a jerk, but he was tired of being in her life for her convenience. This girl didn’t want anything serious with him, she loves what he did for her but was not in love with him.
Oh my, shut the front door you said it .
Nah
Right on
Well spoken👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Bang what you said
Baby girl, I just wanna hug you.
He’s trifling!
May you live a long happy life.
Why does he think he is a victim?
He did not act like a boyfriend, he was not even a good friend.
Exactly! Though If bullets and cardiac arrests aren't enough to justify family emergency for this guy I wouldn't want any affiliation with him lmao
He's a narcissist
She's not family....
Not even a good person in general. Damn. I know acquaintances or semi strangers that would've been more concerned!
He looks doughy far. Girl he has no feelings for you.
Carlton from Fresh Prince of Bel Air has let himself go
😂😂😂😂😂
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Out here looking like a damn lesbian.
😂😂😂😂🙄
😂😂😂😂😂
Beloved, this man proved to you his true feelings when he didn't show up doing your most devastating time. Move on!! You got this! Wishing you the #BEST life ever!!
Beginning of this episode I was calling him Mr. Klump. Calling him a piece of sh!t. and part of me still feels that way honestly ... BUT. LADIESS
"If I post him my likes will go from 700 to 22".." i've never seen danielle post me NEVER "Let me tell you something.. It may seem trivial but it's demoralizing.. It leaves a feeling of inadequacy that leads to Resentment.. Being with someone who needs to maintain the appearance of being attainable no matter what your career is.That man is overweight and is probably dealing with his own insecurities and to be in a relationship where you essentially don't feel like your partner is proud of you. Alot of people will read this and still won't understand. That leads to RESENTMENT..
When she was crying.... he was smirking. He looks like an entire fool....... not impressed with you sir.
I don't think he was trying to impress you 😂
His smug look in the being irritates me. 🤨The audience cared more about her than he did
Smug!!!! That's the word!!!
Right - he started smirking when she said she was shot. Disgusting!
Yeah. He needed several slaps.
This guy looks like one of those public defenders that as soon as you see them.. you know you gone lose 🤦🏽♀️
Facts🤣🤣🤣
😆😆😭
I’m crying!!!
Hell naw!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Bih.. I'm weak 😂😂😂🤣🤣
All of a sudden, I started wiping tears from my eyes. I didn’t realize I was even crying. She was shot and in the hospital - no one would have kept me away. I don’t care how much money I’ve got
" let me call you right back, i gotta fold the dishes" 🤣 I'm using that one from now on
Darnell went to Atl for a man.... pay attention sweetheart. Prayers, love and light to you sis♥️
Thank you, my thoughts exactly he ain’t into her at all
@@sorriad4491 you mean that your man is into men
Facts😭😭😂😂🗣
Yup.... did anyone see his tits... just saying
THANK YOU!
She is so BEAUTIFUL and genuine. I hope she heals from all that she has gone through and finds someone who is worthy of her.
She talks like HES A CATCH!!!!! Little lady you can do better- LOVE YOURSELF!!! The Good Lord didn't keep you here for this THING
"genuinely" annoying as f**k!!
lol apparently not because she back on the show again and was trying to convince a man who told her UP FRONT that he was polyamorous, that she can change him smh. She ain't learn shit. Made herself look foolish twice.
When the Nutty Professor is turning down a beautiful fine woman you know it's truly a man's world. Smh
@Mrs Sippy Sippy lol
LOL glad someone else saw that too. I''ve been leaving nutty professor comments for a while now. Just now saw that someone else agrees:p
That’s it I was thinking he reminds me of someone didn’t know who now I know
Best comment!! LMAO
@@misslc7864 😀😅🤣😂
Judge Lynn this episode is one for the books 📚 👌! Thank you!
'I didn't ask for your life story' omg!!! Wow!!! I'm sending prayers that a good man finds this woman, sweeps her off her feet and takes away all her stresses and worries. This guy is disgusting.
That's how females end up disappointed 😞. No one can sweep anyone off their feet and take away their stress. You will end up being a bitter old nag because anyone you end up with will never measure up to that expectation. Relationships are not fantasy...stay in the real world. That 20 something year old need better goals in life.
He’s not Definitional He’s OPTIONAL ✨ God I’ll be putting that quote to very good use
asia harris y’all should already know this
almoody6872 I sure do I just like the quote
Me too
This girl was dealing with PTSD and he couldn’t even be a shoulder for her to lean on. He’s a prick.
A weak prick
Honestly
Nice to say that without knowing the backstory…
Fuck it
How, he said he called everyday and talked whenever she wanted to, but couldn't be there. It's always funny when a man has emotionally left a relationship, he's wrong and all these other names, but when a woman leaves the same way, she's so strong. C'mon, everybody's has there breaking point, he just reached his. Like he said he will always be there for her, but not in a relationship, there is nothing wrong with that.
That boy I'm not even calling him a man is trifling as all hell and may be the worst person I've seen on the show yet. I'm single and if I ever had a woman who was unlucky enough to get shot and have a heart attack before 30. I would cherish her everyday and find a way to come see her in person or on the phone. I don't blame her at all for just doing her on social media he's not worth the clothes he wore in court.
I agree.He can't say he couldn't save money to catch a cheap flight.I have gotten so many deals for less than $100 roundtrip.But that's his excuse & he sticking with it.Men like him makes me happy to be single.
All facts
Goal Digger they saying he trifling kuz when she got shot n had a heart attack he wasn’t there physically which they live in 2 different states
@@Reezy12333 And your point is? She could have died. He should treat her like he wants to be treated. You can bet if he had been shot and later had a heart attack she would've been there. He just using pitiful excuses.
Queen RedBone he could’ve gotten a bus 🚌 ticket if he really to. Mom alway said “if there is will, there’s a way”
I just wanted to go through my screen and hug her. . . I pray sis finds someone that will love, respect and VALUE her. 🙏🏾💯😢
My Grandma, Momma, and Great-Grandma use to me the same thing that Judge Lynn Toler, "Never make a man tell you that he doesn't want you more than once". REAL TALK THO!!!! She will find her good man that will love you for you.
Wow dumbed her on national t.v I can only imagine how heartbroken she must feel. She is a beautiful woman she will pull through this. Girl leave him alone he’s not worth it.
She should have left his sloppy looking self a long time ago. I think he told her something different before the show and that's why she looked at him like that. I think he is gay
He's smart. He understands female nature.
The look on his face 60 seconds in say, no he does not want to be there; meaning with you.
She's so sweet and understanding towards his carelessness towards her. He hurts her and she still speaks so highly of him. 😢
This woman is fabulous. Does she not know that her test could become her testimony. She is both beautiful on the inside and out. She should become a motivational speaker of some sort. All the best to her. She is still so young and has her whole life in front of her. God bless her!
I’m confused how I’m watching an episode on catfish tht just aired tonite & she’s claiming to have been in a relationship with a man on the internet she met when she was 14. Been together 6 years, tht she’s never met but she’s supposed to have been with this man here?!!! Huh!!!
Im from buffalo this girl a whole mess 🤣 i think she playing theese reality shows she was also on another judge show years ago
@ Deven berder which ones !?!?!
@@devinleandra3373 links please 🥺🤔 so she wasn't actually shot or not 🗣️👀
This Humpty Dumpty of an excuse that calls himself a man , is a waste of everything ..
let’s be magnanimous here and pray life “ his best life” doesn’t dish up a truck load of s**t to him.. and he’s on the receiving end of what he did / didn’t do for this woman..
everyone has a right to complain to their partner if something is going wrong in their day , week ,month or year.. he had no empathy.. that was his problem, he is selfish and put himself first .. Karma ! What goes around comes around.
Lady you’re so going to shine without him..
I totally agree with you......
Totally agree!!!! Step young lady, when karma happens you don't want to be anywhere around
Kathy Marie - I 99% agree with you. However, I refuse to “totally agree” like the other 2 suck-ups on this thread😬
U say Humpty Dumpty I say the Grimace from McDonald's.
Calm down
OMG she's still unsure about him. He was out the moment he didn't come to see you after been shot. He said he don't want you. Man.
Yep. He's gone long time ago. He wished her the best.
She even manages to ignore the way he looks at her during this episode. She’s in denial and he is a coward. If he didn’t want her, he should have said so and hit the bricks.
@Elle D yeah. He literally did everything to show her to just go away. If someone isn't into you everything about you would bother him. He don't see her then he can't stand listening to her. OMG I would be like bye. I would hate to burden someone when I can have someone who would do nothing to talk to me. Hell no.
@@BruinPhD2009 absolutely. She was ignoring everything in the end by the way she was looking at him and laughing, like get over it we gonna be together but the judge was like look at me wake up hello he don't want you. Gee I wouldn't want her either at this stage too bloody clingy.
He down in atl living his best life..... side eye
Better check his underwear for smear and man deposits
He's narcissistic, rude and a damn fool, with his Telly Tubby looking behind. She's strong, she's beautiful, she's a survivor, she's caring, she's a phenomenal woman and she'll shine even brighter now that he's exited stage left.
May the issues with the PTSD and her health improve so much so that it's no longer a problem.
When she said that his presence in her pictures doesn't get her much likes that hurt him. She is too independent for him.
I learn so much from this show
Same!
Good.Dont be chasing these men. You're too valuable.😉🖤
Same
Same here
This dude is leaving me feeling disgustipated.
@Mrs Sippy Sippy Thanks, Disgustipated is the name of a song by Tool.
Never Let a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once.. #Word
I just finished watching her last appearance on the show and I just pray she takes time out to focus on her self and take a break from dating. Find love and everything you desire within you 💕
She was on catfish tonight talking to BJ lmaoo
Hahahahq girl i saw the episode to
Link please
I’m so glad you said this. I just saw this for the first time but I knew her face. Somebody lying and show hopping. She was flying to SC and this did was in ATL. What’s tea ☕️
She jump show to show for fame & Darnell is really her cousin
@15:30-15:45...see that look she gave him after he told her he was done. Good thing Judge Toler intervened, she looked like she was gonna go off on him; but the judge is right, he said in many ways that he didn't want her:
* He can't drop everything and leave
* He don't like to be around negative people
* He's trying to live his best life
* He says she's always been the same way, always in drama
Heal yourself. Love yourself. Be strong. There's a good man out there who will love you for you and be there for you 🙏
Josie H Agree. They have known each other so long, he is her fallback, but he has moved on. She needs to let go, and move on.
Her reaction stunned me! "He trying to make me act a fool."
After the first few minutes of the episode I knew something was wrong when she was telling her heart breaking story and it didn't seem to move anything with him but was actually smiling!!!!
It was disturbing... I hope she can get over him as soon as possible and grow big 🌹
Exactly
He's just a selfish, inconsiderate, jerk. That is all. She is SOOOooo much better off. Way too beautiful to deal with his immature nonsense.
True dude is a real clown!!
He doesn’t deserve her! She’s a fighter, she’s beautiful and she’s young! She can do bad all by herself 🥰😍👏🏾
Shot three times
Had a heart attack
Had a birthday
Walking a dog he doesn’t have
He had to fold the dishes
So called camping trip
He clearly showed her didn’t want her when he didn’t show up when she got shot.
and was on a bus that flipped over 37 times, my car got blown up and I lost my James Brown tape.....🤣
She's a survivor more Blessings and Peace 🙏🙏 🙏 to her .
My husband said he would've WALKED to me if I got shot. 🥴 wheeeew chile! GOODNIGHT! 😋🥰💦😂
lovemymiyah OK mines would have did whatever he had to do to get to me
Amen🙌
lovemymiyah
That’s not his wife
@@AriusBLK honey i knew somebody would be funny. 😂 so I covered all bases. He said EVEN IF I WAS ONLY HIS GIRLFRIEND HE WOULD'VE WALKED TO BE WITH ME IF I ALMOST DAMN DIED. 🤷🏾😂🥰😘
He got a brother?😜
He dont love you girl...
This has to be the most beautiful day time tv stage set I’ve ever seen.
Poor baby, she’s so beautiful I hope she find the true love she deserves and may God stay with her.
He’s telling her he doesn’t want to be with her, but his action tell something diff. But, that’s why you go by actions..anyone can tell you anything
rochelle rochelle 💯
rochelle rochelle
What ?
He said he doesn’t want to be with her … and
Which of his actions told anything different?
Was it the …
1) Not showing up to the Hospital?
2) The making of excuses to avoid conversations?
3) The refusal to leave work for her ?
4) The no contact in 4 months ?
You females really need to finally take accountability for your choices and decisions.
This “Sisterhood of Failure” and “Self-Delusion” is old, useless, and pathetic. Time to be an adult now.
Either that or just stick to cat farming.
3165dwayne
Yes … they are.
What you’ve witnessed was a live demonstration of … “Real time Stupidity in action”.
What she typed was COMPLETELY STUPID … correct?
The Stupid are not ignorant. They have full knowledge and information of the subject at hand.
However, the stupid are sociopaths that project their hidden personal agendas onto the situation.
The Stupid are dangerous and Evil.
Right
Let him go. Forget it. He told you straight up
Rajsheem Prosser Cold blooded. He said “I don’t want to be with you.”
All the trauma destroyed her she needs healing n therapy
HE TOLD HER:
It's really not about him it's simply the rejection of him moving on that she's having a hard time with.. She doesn't love that dude she wants him for therapy...
I agree.
I agree..rejection or unrequited love is a demon if it's not put in it's proper place.
Of course he's acting like nothing happened, He left a long time ago. It"s been over.
Exactly!!! He's been left her! Moving to another state was just to let her know, and she still does not get it.
Wow! This episode has me in tears, upset, and happy at the same time! Ms. Richardson, Sis, GODdess, BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, I know I don't you PERSONALLY, however! I have so much love/ hugs for YOU, and I will continue to keep you in my PRAYERS! BLESSINGS and best wishes to you throughout your LIFE journey!! 😊🤗 As for as that BUBBLE HEAD NO NECK HEARTLESS FRUIT CAKE! Mr. Daniels, GET rid of him! GOD GOT YOU Sis! Mrs/MS Judge Toler I just NEED to SAY this from the bottom of my HEART and from SPIRITS, THANK YOU ENDLESSLY! YOU ARE ONE powerful GREAT BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN! YOU ADD ON TO MY LIFE! YOU INSPIRE ME TO BECOME GREATER! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!😊🤗🖤
My heart goes out to Danielle and I can see the heart break in her face and all I wanna do is hug this young lady till all that pain disappears. GOD HAS A WONDERFUL MAN FOR YOU DANIELLE JUST BE STRONG AND STAY PRAYERFUL BABY GIRL.
She just literally said she doesn’t post him because she gets less likes
K Lew facts I said the same thing
K Lew exactly ... dumb bitch smh
Well hell I see why.. listen to this fool 😂
Well look at him. He doesn’t even want to be a couple but he wants for her to be promote the idea of a relationship to keep guys away. Her reasoning may have been dumb but it’s good that she didn’t in reality.
shae moore I think he was referring to throughout the relationship. I think now he is done with her. Personally, I don’t care about being posted, but he does so that’s why it bothers him.
What? She's crying over this bowtie wearing Fat Albert?
Lmaoo
Lmaoo too funny
The folding dishes is wild 🤣
He doesn’t wanna be with her and he’s been saying that shes a beautiful girl and she’s need to love herself more ❤️. To many men out here willing to do what you want with out asking for her to be begging for him to do it..
Can we gather here and appreciate Judge Lynn, this woma is a powerhouse 🔥 I look forward to hearing her heartfelt, potent and profound advices at the end of the court hearing ❤️🔥
Yep.. Darnell checked out long time on that relationship
The first one to make me shed tears. When she spoke of her experience...
Girl first of all, 10 YEARS????? And no kids??? Why are you with him??? I had 2 kids but after 5 years I left. If he doesn't want you, he doesn't want you!! Have some pride!! Choose yourself!! Choose real peace!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Girl. This man don't want you. At every turn he's shown he couldn't be bothered with you. Move on.
He would never see or hear from me in life...
Clout chasing at its finest! He came on national television to dump her....sis please move on
Taylor Williams
How can he clout chase … when SHE brought him on the show ??
Stop
"He's optional, not definitional" Preach judge lynn! Preach!
I think he's on the DL. It's took him a while to realize it. After moving to Atlanta he indulged and that's why he started moving away from her.
He is a joke and heartless .
He’s saying he’ll be her friend yet couldn’t show up for her after two huge emergencies. 🙄
I laughed so much when he said he'd always be there for her.
Damn She Been Through Alot Smh Stay Strong Black Queen!!!
Queen don't get shot
I just realized she was on another episode of divorce court, season 23 episode 86 Danielle Richardson vs Logan James, crazy huh 🤔?
She's seems abusive and toxic, he's more seems like a jovial friendly guy, but the relationship is one sided.
Oh his facial expression as she speaks about what’s going on he doesn’t care about the relationship. Ohhh he’s really sorry and trifling. He irks me to no end. Never love a man more than he loves you.
Honestly I thought this man was gay before he spoke. 😂
Mrs Sippy Sippy 😂😂😂 gay as hell. He may as well come out. We already know.
He replied to me on Instagram, stating he's not gay. RIGHT!
Sure......🙄
@@givememore4free exactly what I said BWAHHAAH
He Folding a lot dishes in Atlanta 😉
Super Gay🤣🤣🤣
Why would he be gay?
she was not trying to hear toler after he told her he dont want her
One thing that stands out to me is that she said “I’m hard to deal with and he knows I’m hard to deal with” which means she was like that before her crises. firstly: if she’s hard to deal it’s his fault because he knew and I think he just got tired of it. However, you can’t know you’re hard to deal with and just have the “that’s how I am” attitude and expect people to want to stay.
The “After the Show” statement from her says she’s still in denial about Darnell
Somehow I feel there's more to that story than what's being said by her. He said she was always about drama...im thinking maybe she was once again in that drama thats why she was innthe wrong place. The man doesn't want to be in anymore of it, move on and find someone who can handle it all. You've got one life to live.
Karen Dunbee
Wow … finally someone intelligent
Prayers 🙏 for u miss
Homegirl was on Catfish last week 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Link please 🥺
Rule #1.. never give anyone your ALL!
He has no sympathy for her ,it's so sad .