Cnith TheOnliestOne falling victim to your circumstances doesn’t always correspond with your character. We all make bad decisions and sometimes it takes others longer to learn their lesson. My father has spent the last 13 years in prison and I can say undoubtedly, making no excuse for his actions, the he is a good person. We aren’t all always given the same opportunities to succeed in life and I believe he didn’t understand how to think ahead and make better choices. It happens.
He's too old for the bullschℹ️💤✝️ Absolutely ridiculous! Getting head from Vagabond ❓❗😱 something is wrong with him. He messed up his degree yet wants to walk around like he's a gift. She's crazy for crossing the line so she gets what she got 🙄
@@walterbrown2425 Do you know me? No? Do you know anything about the United States crime and punishment ( incarceration) practices? It is not reasonable nor is it just to have to continue to pay for the same mistake. Americans dont rehabilitate. They incarcerate and when it comes to people of color they tend to be sentenced harsher than others. If a person commits and offense they owe a debt to society, but they dont owe their life. A person who finds themselves incarcerated will tell you the rate of recidivism is astounding. I dont have to know this mans particular offense to know anyone who enters into the system tends to stay in some capacity. If you feel the need to comment and attempt to tell me what i am doing, be grown enough to @ me.
@jabeck42 I dont know his offense. But in America its common knowledge when you enter the system, its hard to get out. People can have a drug offense like posession and unless they are financially able, they will take a plea deal(97% of cases are plea bargins). They may serve jail time if not probation. Any mistake gets them sent back potentially. Housing and finding a place to hire you, especially as a felon or someone with a drug offense or any offense frankly is difficult. You pay for what you did in jail ans continue to on the outside.
@@izealliaeldridge1901 The man is too old to be her son. Do you see a man I do not see? Do you wear glasses? He does not look young in any way!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They simply have different personalities. Stop calling this giant man her son!
What she said is true BUT if someone want to do better than they will... I regularly watch all the Judge shows and Judge Mathis was just (this week) talking about the same thing but he gave a solution... start your own business!! He actually named an agency that helps ex cons get franchises for a cleaning service and even helps them obtain contracts... I have an ex con relative who is actually one of the most financially successful people I know... he started a moving company years ago and now its doing very well, he has contracts with sports teams, colleges, Best Buy, Home Depot, etc
@ Miss954 I get that but why does a ex con have to start a business to earn money. This man has earned a degree in chemical engineering but he can’t use it to get work just because he went to prison?
True but I think that is all she knows that works. He said he is depressed; if he is just sleeping and eating it is feasible. She was able to get him to fall in line, she clearly cares for him and I think they are both pretty scared
When judge told him how much she liked him, he relaxed and smiled so wide....shows what happens when you talk sweet to people and let them know they're valuable... sometimes it needs to come from someone outside
@@MagicUzer I would understand if I was a dead beat! But unfortunately my Mom's did teach me 2 take responsibility for my actions... And every red cent I made went 2 them..
Lost my dad 3yrs ago. My whole family and I are still suffering. Especially my mother who had celebrated 50yrs married then he passed 4 days later. So I understand him
She was a guard,he was an inmate🤔,that set the tone for the entire episode, you can't make this up,and this is filled with dysfunction and deep rooted emotional issues.
I agree she don't respect him as her husband. She tries now to control him as her husband, the same way she did when he was a inmate. It don't work that way when you married.
James Edwards Absolutely!! I just said on an earlier post, she knew exactly what she was doing and I don’t have any sympathy for her, only the children that he created. SMH
He's seems like a good dude... Apparently, he's gotten a degree...which speaks volumes about his intellect... But in this episode, I sensed a bit of depression... And I can tell(even through the toughness)he loves his wife dearly...and she loves him too(hence her nagging him about his health)...
I really pray he gets his mind out, if he can get his mind out then he'll be good. Mr. Dukes is brilliant, esp if he has a degree in chemical engineering. Mrs. Dukes loves him, I can tell, but he's institutionalized & needs a lot of help. The little boy in him is fighting the Man in him; it takes longer for some. You picked a Man that requires 2 ✋🏾, a lot of prayer, & work.
hes definetly smart to get a chemical engineering degree thats not a small feet..he got caught up in making that fast money so its hard for him to get back into that ..shes trying to save him as a correctional officer but he has been institutionalized sadly
@@PrincessZaire100 Forgive Rico. He needs to place the blame somewhere instead of the person who is not taking care of himself. I hope Mr. Dukes gets the help that he needs because I can see that his wife truly loves him and wants him to be around.
There are intelligent, creative, and talented people locked up behind bars. We throwing away potential. We need to put emphasis on reformation, rehabilitation and recovery instead of punishment. Just sad how he can't use his degree, anybody can learn to speak better, not everyone can learn engineering.
Absolutely. I know prison can change people but there's a reason for-profit prisons exist and it's not for the bettering of repeat offenders. It is a modern day slave economy. There's too much money to be made by locking people up and that is disgusting.
I think being in prison messes some people's minds up. He may not remember anything he learned getting that degree, and if he's depressed his brain is in a fog anyway. He's got to build or be built back up before he can think out the box.
ROLF and I saw this episode last week but I couldn't pinpoint where I seen them at @DIAMOND CLUSTER HUSTLER, you on point, yes! But I do like fake Biggie.
This is one of my favorite episodes for many reasons but I loved this statement the most , "Being brave is facing what you are afraid of and doing it anyway" I admire Judge Lynn so much, I'm going to miss seeing her on DC. 😔
Ladies, Stop trying to be a 2nd mommy to these grown men. If they don't care about their health, then let 'em be! They'll only label you a nagging girlfriend/wife. Don't waste your time ladies! Your efforts of showing that you care will go UN-appreciated.
pchelloo while in the Mean time , we are the ones that have to look after them when they become too sick and past the point of helping themselves..and it’s us wives / girlfriend doing things we didn’t have too if they only looked after themselves in the first place , an ounce of prevention and all that..
A lot of people may agree with you and I can bet they are either alone, unmarried, divorce, or have never ever have any long lasting relationships in their entire live... They say, "misery loves company"... While it make sense to just leave the man alone if he doesn't want to visit the doctor or eat himself to death, it's not an option and a no brainer if she loves and care for the man well being... Why shouldn't she try to save him??? Aside from that he has kids... He has a relationship with some and they should have a father for as long as they can, irrespective of their father foolish behavior!!!
He does really need to go to the doctor... but you can't control a man into anything! Especially one like him! Lol He's rebelling and the more she pushes, the more he will rebel.
Thank you.... But honestly that goes for any human, you can't make anybody do what they don't want to do and the way she going about it isn't helping...
Chemical engineering degree? Man he smart, I did a year of ChE and said it’s gon be a no for me dawg. I guess it’s decisions that really take you somewhere in life, not schooling.
Dude either lying or probably got it from university of phoenix or something. I doubt a guy who can barley speak without cussing has the mental fortitude to get through engineering degree.
This guy went to the federal penitentiary probably for moving weight he most likely had some money before. He seems depressed hopes he gets it together.
Even hated by our own kind.. Smmfh.. But I can't shine without da hate.. Me and Wifey sittin here Readin all da comments... Wut don't kill us makes us stronger..
Like judge said . . It’s something about him that just makes you like him. . Like he’s not a terrible person he’s just had things he need to work through & hopefully he does & stays with this woman who loves him ❤️ she needs to change her approach on the way she tries to convince him to take care of himself . . Look how he was smiling when the judge was saying nice things about him . . She needs to persuade him in a nice way instead of a nagging way ppl respond differently to different approaches
Agreed ...he's been through a lot and he does need help and someone to lift his mood up a bit...he doesn't seem like a bad guy at all. It's a shame to see a very educated man being in prison then after prison he can't do what he has a degree in. That itself cud be part of what's killing him daily. And depression leads him to overeating.she just needs to understand that a bit more
Keeping marrying these pookie and rays then crying about them being pookies and rays.... don't get it. Guy does seem like he has given up on life, didn't seem to care about much
Just finished watching. Women need to do better. 1st thing they they tell female Correction Officers is NEVER get involved with an inmate. She thought she was special doing things the other CO didn't do and let her guard down. She is hurting from crossing that line.
@@amberjames987 Yeah she broke the rules cause she thought she was the only one that can reach him..... she wanted to tame the baddest one in the yard Now a decade later, this dude is out here filming homeless women blowing while on the job..... good one I hate that the Judge was kinda praising him as a ladies man cause he had close to 10 kids.... kinda sad, have a bunch of kids doesn't mean shit
If according to u most women are with a pooky what does the say about her pickens. pooky and Ray Ray is our heritage, culture and village. It's too large a percentage of men like him to avoid. We have no choice but to fix a man coming from broken men. If not pooky or Ray Ray it's Ned, Tang or Mario and u still complain. It's called loyalty right or wrong.
One thing I've noticed that a lot of women shouldn't wear on this show is jet black wigs or a synthetic wig (not unless u know how it make it look natural ). The camera just makes it look so much worse !
I know his pain. He needs blood pressure meds and hot yoga, she needs to find him a safe medical space and a safe mindful space for practice and healing. Brothers needs safe spaces as well. Her message is good, she needs to work on her messaging tho!
You two and Judge Toler did make this one of the best episodes, for a number of reasons. I hope you can feel your mother within and all around you, Mr. Dukes. Wishing you both the best and long healthy life for all of you.
He got book smarts but no common sense! The judge was right the system keeps a man down. I like them and hope they work it out. BTW, what was he in jail for? I like her look!
His laugh was so magnetic. His smile and laugh brightened my day. I agree with the comments, he’s a man with a lot on his mind most likely from the past. The type of degree he has and he knows he can’t use it?! as a man being stopped from providing is like being on quarantine. We all know the feeling. Just STUCK! He should seek counseling to help sort through it because he’s got a happiness that should be shared but something is suppressing it😕
Watched this episode today I laughed from beginning to end Mr Dukes 😁 is funny and most men don't listen to their wives when it comes to their health wishing I had someone who cares about me like that 🙁 but as always you have best advice 👏👏💞
Having to display any action like this on tv was to much but one thing it shined light on is my husband taking his health serious I can careless about the comments from people especially when half of the men in this world don't take their health serious. But one thing I can say after this show alot more women and men are addressing their health in better ways so that's a blessing in my eyes 🙏🙌💗
She's young, beautiful, loyal, and caring. Her mindset: "I'll get a jailbird (I know, everyone makes mistakes) with 50 kids, who doesn't make an effort to see them, is financially irresponsible, can't remain faithful, and is one cheeseburger away from being in hospice care". I simply don't get it.
He's got a lot of issues that he needs to work on. He's very angry and doesn't like to be advised .. sometimes you need to humble yourself enough to listen to the woman you chose to be on your side.
To prevent recidivism you have to completely change the way you think!! This man has a degree in CHEMICAL ENGINEERING!!! He's been free for years but mentally he's still incarcerated. They're relationship was something that shouldn't have happened in the first place and that's why it's crazy. He needs to get right internally and forgive himself and conquer all of his fears and be an amazing testimony!! 🙏🏽
He’s just a big teddy who needs a squeeze, she could also benefit from being a little softer. I think they can work it out though, I hope they try their hardest
He's still acting like he's in prison. Now someone tells him 24/7 what to do and what not to do. He needs to make the switch in his mind that he's now married and has to act like it. Judge Toler: be gone 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂I love them! Sir, you have a brain!! You're smart. It means something. That degree MEANS SOMETHING. Lol he's smart and charming and that's why he's got all those kids.
I really like him. Poor guy he's deperessed and she talked a lot. You can't change someone or make them do something unless they're ready to change. I wish him luck.
hahaha...is she really trying to change him? you can't change an adult. A man will change only cos he decides to, not cos he was told to. Try to change an adult and get hurt in the process.
I love her outfit but she messed it up with that hair😩 Men really should take their health more serious. I don’t men who don’t take care of their health. Then he curse like a sailor😬
Damn I can't believe I'm saying this... Rest in peace to my big homie. "Big Chill" Dexter Dukes. I wish I would have pulled up one more time just to hang with you for no reasonyou was a real big homie. Handed me my first blunt back in 96 when I was 13 back on rainbow Blvd lol. Much love to you and your family forever my nigga from Al
He's a big softie. But he seems like he does need a hug and a listening ear.
Don't think he woulda gone to jail if he was a softie. JS.
Being a softie and living the street life is not a conflict I’M ONE!!
I agree 100$
He is very smart. But he needs to work on alot within himself.
Cnith TheOnliestOne falling victim to your circumstances doesn’t always correspond with your character. We all make bad decisions and sometimes it takes others longer to learn their lesson. My father has spent the last 13 years in prison and I can say undoubtedly, making no excuse for his actions, the he is a good person. We aren’t all always given the same opportunities to succeed in life and I believe he didn’t understand how to think ahead and make better choices. It happens.
He's still feeling prison around the corner. He looks very tired tooo.
Because his body is always working overtime!
Sad... he needs counseling.
Free the man!! He is irresponsible
Mr. Dukes is a sweetheart yet rough around the edges. I think he’d benefit from a counselor. 💓🙏🏾
Exactly!
I agree they both can used counseling.. God bless them gorgeous couple
He's too old for the bullschℹ️💤✝️
Absolutely ridiculous! Getting head from Vagabond ❓❗😱 something is wrong with him. He messed up his degree yet wants to walk around like he's a gift. She's crazy for crossing the line so she gets what she got 🙄
She is rough and street. She nagging at him all the time like he's a child.
He appears to be clinically depressed. And her ‘care’ of him isn’t the help he needs. I hope they can talk to someone.
Yeah i was going to say he's depressed , he lost his mom and he's the only child, seems like he dosent care weather he lives or dies
As someone who’s been clinically diagnosed with depression, yes he’s definitely clinically depressed
Exactly he is definitely depressed and has given up poor guy
True
@@tiffanytoppin4061 it sadly seems so😢
The weird thing is I like him a lot also!! He has a beautiful and thoughtful spirit. I wish our system hadnt railroaded him so completely.
Appreciate da feed bacc. Thank u
@jabeck42 Are you serious Our system is not Fair for black men
jabeck42 she doesn’t know, she’s talking out the side of her neck
@@walterbrown2425 Do you know me? No? Do you know anything about the United States crime and punishment ( incarceration) practices? It is not reasonable nor is it just to have to continue to pay for the same mistake. Americans dont rehabilitate. They incarcerate and when it comes to people of color they tend to be sentenced harsher than others. If a person commits and offense they owe a debt to society, but they dont owe their life. A person who finds themselves incarcerated will tell you the rate of recidivism is astounding.
I dont have to know this mans particular offense to know anyone who enters into the system tends to stay in some capacity. If you feel the need to comment and attempt to tell me what i am doing, be grown enough to @ me.
@jabeck42 I dont know his offense. But in America its common knowledge when you enter the system, its hard to get out. People can have a drug offense like posession and unless they are financially able, they will take a plea deal(97% of cases are plea bargins). They may serve jail time if not probation. Any mistake gets them sent back potentially. Housing and finding a place to hire you, especially as a felon or someone with a drug offense or any offense frankly is difficult. You pay for what you did in jail ans continue to on the outside.
You can't be his wife and his correctional officer at the same time.
She kinda agressive with her mannerism!
True...
@brishaberries0101 she chose him because he was in a vulnerable position. She wanted someone she could control and they’re both insecure and immature!
@@izealliaeldridge1901 The man is too old to be her son. Do you see a man I do not see? Do you wear glasses? He does not look young in any way!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They simply have different personalities. Stop calling this giant man her son!
A ghetto hot mess!! Bye
I love the judge statement about the US carceral system.
I seriously agree I need everyone to hear her say that
What she said is true BUT if someone want to do better than they will... I regularly watch all the Judge shows and Judge Mathis was just (this week) talking about the same thing but he gave a solution... start your own business!! He actually named an agency that helps ex cons get franchises for a cleaning service and even helps them obtain contracts... I have an ex con relative who is actually one of the most financially successful people I know... he started a moving company years ago and now its doing very well, he has contracts with sports teams, colleges, Best Buy, Home Depot, etc
Very wise.
@ Miss954 I get that but why does a ex con have to start a business to earn money. This man has earned a degree in chemical engineering but he can’t use it to get work just because he went to prison?
Zenab Adjei right! Not everyone has funds to start up a business nor do they want to. I have my own business and it’s hard. You wear several hats.
I love how much she cares,she’s just carrying it wrong .
I agree
She's getting tired of it.
Life groomed them differently, she's trying to keep the home and he's trying to still make sense of it.
She acts like she is still his correctional officer while he still an inmate.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly
True but I think that is all she knows that works. He said he is depressed; if he is just sleeping and eating it is feasible. She was able to get him to fall in line, she clearly cares for him and I think they are both pretty scared
they love falling in love with inmates smh..many get fired for these..so much men on the outside but you fall inlove with a inprisoned one
@@helena3631 that’s weird
They kinda look like an old versions of Faith Evans and Biggie from the thumbnail lol
Sal M Geremew 😂
Real talk 🤣
Yep...i can see that👍🏾😹
Haha 😄 yeah .... he is Big Chill
Sal M Geremew 😂😂😂😂👌🤦♀️
When judge told him how much she liked him, he relaxed and smiled so wide....shows what happens when you talk sweet to people and let them know they're valuable... sometimes it needs to come from someone outside
The brother is certainly depressed. I feel sorry for him.
I feel sorry for those 11 kids..
Exactly
@@MagicUzer me2😢
N his wife talks too much
@@MagicUzer I would understand if I was a dead beat! But unfortunately my Mom's did teach me 2 take responsibility for my actions... And every red cent I made went 2 them..
The way he laughed when he turned around and look at himself.....killed me🤪🤣🤣🤣🤪
All the way out 😂😂😂😂
She has to learn to differentiate between her job and her being his wife.
Guess, what most women can not.
Kharia Taylor Yeah! Hahahahaha She was exhausting!
@@mobutter2879 👍
All wives are warden’s
@@jamesedwards3923 guess what you don't know that. Most women can
He could be really depressed over his mom's death.. I hope for all his kids sake he goes to the doctor and get his health on track
Exactly...I don't care how long ago the loss occurred, losing a parent hurts
I lost my fiancée and had a mental breakdown for 10 years.
Lost my dad 3yrs ago. My whole family and I are still suffering. Especially my mother who had celebrated 50yrs married then he passed 4 days later. So I understand him
You on Ashley Madison?
She was a guard,he was an inmate🤔,that set the tone for the entire episode, you can't make this up,and this is filled with dysfunction and deep rooted emotional issues.
I agree she don't respect him as her husband. She tries now to control him as her husband, the same way she did when he was a inmate. It don't work that way when you married.
She wanted someone she could control and manipulate. Or so she thought.
James Edwards Absolutely!! I just said on an earlier post, she knew exactly what she was doing and I don’t have any sympathy for her, only the children that he created. SMH
mogul mayz funny too though
Hes a tough dude but he’s a softie when it comes to her
Sure is... Dats my Wife and I love her 2 death!
@ yes it is..
He's seems like a good dude...
Apparently, he's gotten a degree...which speaks volumes about his intellect...
But in this episode, I sensed a bit of depression...
And I can tell(even through the toughness)he loves his wife dearly...and she loves him too(hence her nagging him about his health)...
West Side You are a good man,praying for you
From the hair I can tell this gonna be good
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lol I KNOW RIGHT LOL
It is! I saw it! 😂😂😂
It is! I saw it!!😂😂
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I really pray he gets his mind out, if he can get his mind out then he'll be good. Mr. Dukes is brilliant, esp if he has a degree in chemical engineering. Mrs. Dukes loves him, I can tell, but he's institutionalized & needs a lot of help. The little boy in him is fighting the Man in him; it takes longer for some. You picked a Man that requires 2
✋🏾, a lot of prayer, & work.
hes definetly smart to get a chemical engineering degree thats not a small feet..he got caught up in making that fast money so its hard for him to get back into that ..shes trying to save him as a correctional officer but he has been institutionalized sadly
@Rico Hall She's worried about his health and think it's the only way to get through to him but achieves the opposite.
@KiddRogers Wow
@Rico Hall I think out of frustration
@@helena3631 Yea I agree. Hope it turns around.
You can see his soul is in pain. She is doing her best.
I can tell he's a man that's been through alot.
Rico Hall no she isn’t. He even said the only thing wrong with her is the nagging, but she would stop if he took better care of himself.
@@PrincessZaire100 Forgive Rico. He needs to place the blame somewhere instead of the person who is not taking care of himself. I hope Mr. Dukes gets the help that he needs because I can see that his wife truly loves him and wants him to be around.
She is doing her best. Commendable. He is not doing his best.
“She ask the question and answers it 😄 true
Love this. Whoever is reading and feels stressed, lonely, despised, ostracized, sick and in pain. Stand firm you will be victorious
Amen
❤️❤️ thank you
THANKS GRACE FEELING EXACTLY THAT.
This is exactly how I feel! It's mentally and physically exhausting
Ameen. You too. Know it's an old post
I needed this as I am in pain
There are intelligent, creative, and talented people locked up behind bars. We throwing away potential. We need to put emphasis on reformation, rehabilitation and recovery instead of punishment. Just sad how he can't use his degree, anybody can learn to speak better, not everyone can learn engineering.
I was locked up in county a little under 4weeks,
the takeaway:
•im never coming back
• the level if ingenuity is unrivaled
Absolutely. I know prison can change people but there's a reason for-profit prisons exist and it's not for the bettering of repeat offenders. It is a modern day slave economy.
There's too much money to be made by locking people up and that is disgusting.
WE ALL LOVE OUR MAMAS ....THATS A LOVE THAT NO ONE CAN REPLACE😍
He got a chemical engineering degree. He needs to think differently. He's extremely smart. He got to think out of the box.
I think being in prison messes some people's minds up. He may not remember anything he learned getting that degree, and if he's depressed his brain is in a fog anyway. He's got to build or be built back up before he can think out the box.
Right!! And he has a wife who seems down to do what it takes to get him there despite the prison history!!
Not a legit degree,the judge was trying to be nice. without saying cooking up crack.
Kevin Copper daaanggg
@@kevincopper5645 how do you know? I'm curious.
*Divorce Court Halloween Edition:* Biggie & Faith
@Brian Wright Thank you
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I knew I was thinkin somethin. Glad someone said somethin
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ROLF and I saw this episode last week but I couldn't pinpoint where I seen them at @DIAMOND CLUSTER HUSTLER, you on point, yes! But I do like fake Biggie.
wow! degree in chemical engineering 👨🏾🏫⚗️
Incredible how smart he is and how much help he needs. He has some emotional issues that he needs help with
Exactly!
She hit the nail on the head with her remark on the prison system.
This is one of my favorite episodes for many reasons but I loved this statement the most , "Being brave is facing what you are afraid of and doing it anyway" I admire Judge Lynn so much, I'm going to miss seeing her on DC. 😔
The fact that he is trying to do less cussing is soo funny
She should have minded the BUSINESS THAT PAYS HER & it wasn't THE CONVICT 👊👊👊🙏🙏
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Well obviously she saw something in him that made her ignore any warning signs....
He’s a good dude
Convicts and inmates can ALWAYS find a RELATIONSHIP.
Lmfaooo and my azz can’t . And can’t even find a man to make time😂😅
Lynn is the funniest lady but she can be so relatable and genuine. I love her🥺🥺
he has a degree in chemical engineering smart brother
The judge was trying to be nice without saying cooking up crack. He dosen't have a degree.
Should have been smarter to stay on the right side of the law!
@@kevincopper5645 the way they spoke about it, he actually has a degree.
He's not to smart, he didn't keep himself out of prison.
@@kevincopper5645 I bet u don't wanna put no money on that!! LMAO.. I wish I would be coookin cracc!! It's not da 80's
He's a good man he just messed up .. he needs counselling
For real
He needs a Better Woman in his life.
He cant be that good hes been in prison...he overeats hes lazy he needs to pull himself together
It seem like he has given up
@pump you right
he's beaten down doesn't have a reason to try
This was so sad
Ladies, Stop trying to be a 2nd mommy to these grown men. If they don't care about their health, then let 'em be! They'll only label you a nagging girlfriend/wife. Don't waste your time ladies! Your efforts of showing that you care will go UN-appreciated.
pchelloo while in the Mean time , we are the ones that have to look after them when they become too sick and past the point of helping themselves..and it’s us wives / girlfriend doing things we didn’t have too if they only looked after themselves in the first place , an ounce of prevention and all that..
I'm a man and totally agree with you
But it's your HUSBAND. You cannot be that weak to words now, honestly.
If you love a person, you will do what it takes to show your love. Your advice sucks
A lot of people may agree with you and I can bet they are either alone, unmarried, divorce, or have never ever have any long lasting relationships in their entire live... They say, "misery loves company"... While it make sense to just leave the man alone if he doesn't want to visit the doctor or eat himself to death, it's not an option and a no brainer if she loves and care for the man well being... Why shouldn't she try to save him??? Aside from that he has kids... He has a relationship with some and they should have a father for as long as they can, irrespective of their father foolish behavior!!!
His body is out of prison but mentally he's there, psychologically trapped, THAT'S THE BIGGEST RISK OF FALLING IN LOVE WITH A CONVICT!!!!
Dead on!!!
RealTalk
That's it Sir!
Dwahn Denson 😂😂😂😂👌
So so true it’s a shame 😔
He's seems to want to chill out, and she's very over the top in fear of losing him to the streets or his his health issues.
If he only named his kids after flowers, one would certainly be named Daisy Dukes.
😂mannn is that ALL you got out of this case???... I haven't laughed this hard in a long time.... SMH...😅
😂😂 so random and funny
I miss the 90's.
Hang Tyme why are you like this 😂😂. I remember watching the reruns with my daddy
😁😂😂😂
I love him. His occasional smile is everything.
I like them lol. An he crack me up with his language 😂.
He does really need to go to the doctor... but you can't control a man into anything! Especially one like him! Lol He's rebelling and the more she pushes, the more he will rebel.
Thank you.... But honestly that goes for any human, you can't make anybody do what they don't want to do and the way she going about it isn't helping...
My grandma drags my grandpa to Kaiser kicking and screaming 😂
Women want to control a man. Worst fucking method.
@@jamesedwards3923 Not all women want to control a man... women or MEN who are controlling, usually are out of insecurity and fear.
chemical engineering? damn that is a very tough course to complete
That’s not a course but a major ..
Wow
She gonna make him have a heart attack sooner or later....this man is stressed
Mouton De lion No..he making himself have a heart attack..eating unhealthy fried, greasy food. & that’s why..his cholesterol is high.
uh no he’s gonna give HIMSELF a heart attack. she tryna help him. y’all weird
Chemical engineering degree? Man he smart, I did a year of ChE and said it’s gon be a no for me dawg. I guess it’s decisions that really take you somewhere in life, not schooling.
True.. I went da other way wit it..
There is NO WAY this guy has a chemical engineering degree!
Dude either lying or probably got it from university of phoenix or something. I doubt a guy who can barley speak without cussing has the mental fortitude to get through engineering degree.
Most criminals I have met are very smart. They just make dumb choices.
saucy05 nope, I know plenty who speak much worse
This guy went to the federal penitentiary probably for moving weight he most likely had some money before. He seems depressed hopes he gets it together.
Trust and believe me my brother I will
Now that's what I'm talking about , someone with an open mind. I fell bad for my brothas but you guys are sharp , strong and most hated.
@@westside1720 👍
Even hated by our own kind.. Smmfh.. But I can't shine without da hate.. Me and Wifey sittin here Readin all da comments... Wut don't kill us makes us stronger..
And Chemical engineering degree hopefully he gets a second chance
So he was a rule breaking/ institutionalized inmate yet she thought he works be great husband material? 🤔😩🤯
Most women see him as prime material
She got what she was looking for.
@@Kuzyapso STOP LYINGGGGG
@@Kuzyapso Prime material where 🤔
Judge, I don't know this man either but I fell in love with him too. I pray they stayed together I think they are a beautiful and wonderful couple.
Am I the only one seeing Ving Rhames in the movie "ANIMAL" when i look at Mr. Dukes????
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nope😅Lmmfao
No I see an older Tracy Morgan
More like an older unhealthy Tracy Morgan.
Like judge said . . It’s something about him that just makes you like him. . Like he’s not a terrible person he’s just had things he need to work through & hopefully he does & stays with this woman who loves him ❤️ she needs to change her approach on the way she tries to convince him to take care of himself . . Look how he was smiling when the judge was saying nice things about him . . She needs to persuade him in a nice way instead of a nagging way ppl respond differently to different approaches
Agreed ...he's been through a lot and he does need help and someone to lift his mood up a bit...he doesn't seem like a bad guy at all. It's a shame to see a very educated man being in prison then after prison he can't do what he has a degree in. That itself cud be part of what's killing him daily. And depression leads him to overeating.she just needs to understand that a bit more
💯💯💯
Keeping marrying these pookie and rays then crying about them being pookies and rays.... don't get it.
Guy does seem like he has given up on life, didn't seem to care about much
Just finished watching. Women need to do better. 1st thing they they tell female Correction Officers is NEVER get involved with an inmate. She thought she was special doing things the other CO didn't do and let her guard down. She is hurting from crossing that line.
@@amberjames987 Yeah she broke the rules cause she thought she was the only one that can reach him..... she wanted to tame the baddest one in the yard
Now a decade later, this dude is out here filming homeless women blowing while on the job..... good one
I hate that the Judge was kinda praising him as a ladies man cause he had close to 10 kids.... kinda sad, have a bunch of kids doesn't mean shit
Yet these are the men women want to breed with.
@@jamesedwards3923 if have,z xx see ghg this aww man no youRgcvd we can, a and be zxxd regards aE, yes bb Shiva
If according to u most women are with a pooky what does the say about her pickens. pooky and Ray Ray is our heritage, culture and village. It's too large a percentage of men like him to avoid. We have no choice but to fix a man coming from broken men. If not pooky or Ray Ray it's Ned, Tang or Mario and u still complain. It's called loyalty right or wrong.
33 😳 she look older than that or maybe it’s the way she dressed
I think its the wig that makes her look older too
She’s dressed older than him 🤣
beautifullyblended _ definitely the wig
I see that with a lot of these woman that date these older men. They start dressing their partners age. And also that wig don’t help her
One thing I've noticed that a lot of women shouldn't wear on this show is jet black wigs or a synthetic wig (not unless u know how it make it look natural ). The camera just makes it look so much worse !
I feel so bad for him, I pray that he gets the help he needs
Ah whole mess and a half. She needs help more than him to be with him on a whole. He needed help and she thought she could have fixed him, sad.
She acts like she's the warden. He needs help from her n medical personnel. She's always complaining but she married that man
I love this couple... They're funny. They love each other... You can tell they love each other...
Thank u4 ur input.... Cuzz not all people have sumthing positive 2 say
I pray that they will work it out and get counseling. They seem like good people!
I know his pain. He needs blood pressure meds and hot yoga, she needs to find him a safe medical space and a safe mindful space for practice and healing. Brothers needs safe spaces as well. Her message is good, she needs to work on her messaging tho!
You two and Judge Toler did make this one of the best episodes, for a number of reasons. I hope you can feel your mother within and all around you, Mr. Dukes. Wishing you both the best and long healthy life for all of you.
Unfortunately he just passed yesterday
@@mskay3345 awwww
He got book smarts but no common sense! The judge was right the system keeps a man down. I like them and hope they work it out. BTW, what was he in jail for? I like her look!
Selling drugs
His laugh was so magnetic. His smile and laugh brightened my day. I agree with the comments, he’s a man with a lot on his mind most likely from the past. The type of degree he has and he knows he can’t use it?! as a man being stopped from providing is like being on quarantine. We all know the feeling. Just STUCK! He should seek counseling to help sort through it because he’s got a happiness that should be shared but something is suppressing it😕
I couldn’t stop laughing brotha dukes is hilarious 😂
Thank u
I like his cool chill demeanor
Watched this episode today I laughed from beginning to end Mr Dukes 😁 is funny and most men don't listen to their wives when it comes to their health wishing I had someone who cares about me like that 🙁 but as always you have best advice 👏👏💞
Having to display any action like this on tv was to much but one thing it shined light on is my husband taking his health serious I can careless about the comments from people especially when half of the men in this world don't take their health serious. But one thing I can say after this show alot more women and men are addressing their health in better ways so that's a blessing in my eyes 🙏🙌💗
When I say I will miss Judge 😢😢😢😢💨 she's truly amazingly incredibly awesomely beautiful, inside and out 💖💖💖
She's young, beautiful, loyal, and caring. Her mindset: "I'll get a jailbird (I know, everyone makes mistakes) with 50 kids, who doesn't make an effort to see them, is financially irresponsible, can't remain faithful, and is one cheeseburger away from being in hospice care". I simply don't get it.
This is why dudes is going MGTOW.....
Say he got mad game with the ladies
She looks 44 not 33
Hang Tyme- 1 cheeseburger away😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@bdnicfwpat8755= Be Nice
He's got a lot of issues that he needs to work on. He's very angry and doesn't like to be advised .. sometimes you need to humble yourself enough to listen to the woman you chose to be on your side.
This man is mad funny. I haven't laughed this hard in years lmao
I wonder if she has a life insurance for him🤔
I like the way u think
Neisha Osaji Even if she did..it’s not like she wants him to die any time soon. Seems like she kinda likes him hahahahaha!
Every couple should have life insurance on each other
To prevent recidivism you have to completely change the way you think!! This man has a degree in CHEMICAL ENGINEERING!!! He's been free for years but mentally he's still incarcerated. They're relationship was something that shouldn't have happened in the first place and that's why it's crazy. He needs to get right internally and forgive himself and conquer all of his fears and be an amazing testimony!! 🙏🏽
A WHOLE DEGREE IN CHEMICAL ENGINEERING???😧
Ooohhh Judge has Papa Dukes blushing....
RIP. He died May 30, 2022. Taking your health for granted is not a game. I hope she had him insured.
She looks older than her age wow 33 or it's just me ,he look tired .
42
They both look old as hell😩
Tima Frazer She’s no more healthier than he is. And can we talk about how LOUD she is! Giving me a damn headache! I feel for him!
She does look older, maybe its all that crazy makeup
Yes she looks at least 45
He looks tired, I was shocked how young he is. He has an infectious smile😀
I love his sincerity and he’s a listener but just lost he can surly b better
He’s just a big teddy who needs a squeeze, she could also benefit from being a little softer. I think they can work it out though, I hope they try their hardest
He's still acting like he's in prison. Now someone tells him 24/7 what to do and what not to do. He needs to make the switch in his mind that he's now married and has to act like it. Judge Toler: be gone 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂I love them!
Sir, you have a brain!! You're smart. It means something. That degree MEANS SOMETHING.
Lol he's smart and charming and that's why he's got all those kids.
Mrs. Dukes, all I can say is, heck, you wanted to be wife #3.... sooooo, 😉 😊
I'll definitely keep this brotha in my prayers there something about him 🙏
Unfortunately he just passed yesterday. Rip Chill
@@mskay3345 wow 🙏🙏🙏🙏
She picked him, deal with it!!!
Right. This is so familiar!!!!
He woke up when he saw his old picture. 😂😂😂
I loved his laugh once he turned around 😆😆
I really like this couple. Hope he gets the help he needs to overcome his obstacles. Pleasantly entertained with this episode.
Judge Lynn face expression 😂😆😆😂😂 be killing me
I really like him. Poor guy he's deperessed and she talked a lot. You can't change someone or make them do something unless they're ready to change. I wish him luck.
Brotherman has a Degree in Chemical Engineering.
I don't know what he did wrong but I hope he bounces back.
This guy resembles Tracy Morgan.
😂😂
Wow he does remind you of Tracy Morgan! Sound like him to at times lol
😂😂
Omg I keot seeing Tcracy's face the whole time.
lbushquizeanic1 does
Good luck Judge!! 🤣😂 Looks like he needs her but she doesn’t know when to apply her method. I will say I love her for him. They are funny!
I watched this earlier on TV I couldn't wait for it to premier on UA-cam so I can read the comments.
I already know this is going to be crazy
hahaha...is she really trying to change him? you can't change an adult. A man will change only cos he decides to, not cos he was told to. Try to change an adult and get hurt in the process.
A college degree means nothing. If you are not going to use it.
"Cos?" not once but twice🤷🏿♂️ Wow!
I love her outfit but she messed it up with that hair😩
Men really should take their health more serious. I don’t men who don’t take care of their health. Then he curse like a sailor😬
Humans should take their health more serious. Do you know how many overweight unhealthy women I see daily.
They need a TV show, I'd definitely watch it! 😂😂😂😂
My uncle passed away earlier this year
Damn I can't believe I'm saying this... Rest in peace to my big homie. "Big Chill" Dexter Dukes. I wish I would have pulled up one more time just to hang with you for no reasonyou was a real big homie. Handed me my first blunt back in 96 when I was 13 back on rainbow Blvd lol. Much love to you and your family forever my nigga from Al
Hello this is Latisha I met you yesterday in the nail salon. Girllllllll you were telling the truth! Bless your heart beautiful ❤️
Judge was soooo on point!!!!
I like them 🤣🤣🤣. He tried hard to not curse. They are cute🤣