It's a choice. When we accept that we have the power to choose better than many of us will be better off. Not to mention it's our responsibility to choose better.
As a single woman this is why these men think they can insult my intelligence and get upset when I call them on their ish and leave bc woman like this tolerate it ?
Something is wrong with this guy. He laughs and jokes at the most inappropriate times. He seems like a psycho I believe her when she said he threatened to kill himself if she left. He needs counseling urgently. She could use some therapy too
I think they both have some form of physical and or developmental delays. Did you notice her right hand and his right eye. She also made mention of a young lady who was delayed that he sought and recieved pictures from.
@@xandra_5099 Lack of common sense doesn't mean you're unintelligent. They aren't mutually inclusive, in fact, the most intelligent people usually end up being the people with the least amount of common sense. They tend to override common sense with logic. Not necessarily a good thing, I think common sense is important, just figured I'd throw that out there.
They got married because they like the ideal of being married but not the responsibility and commitment that comes with it and once again it's as if they've accepted the dysfunction and she has children to raised,you can't have them around this.
This fool done brought a woman he cheating with into the house....that automatic Divorce....he teaching the kids how to disrespect mommy and women...He should of been out
Whoever is going through hard times, an abusive relationship, rejection and depression. God knows and is more than able to set you free. On my youtube channel when i began God has always been faithful. Dont give up on God
That Mr Franklin is a jerk!!!! Dumb as a rock!!! MRS Franklin prefers to hold onto her hurts and frustrations. I am glad she said she's done bc I think she will be happier without him. Breaking phones? Ridiculous!
They both need to be apart from each other. It makes no sense having to be disrespected and to disrespect. Don't drag yourself so low to become like what you hate.
Two wrongs doesn't make a right. When you have people in your lives that not lifting you up they need to go. Both of them need time out to be alone and take a good inspection of themselves before going in any other relationships.
Wait, the update said they are talking more now...So she stayed with him?! I’m so done feeling pitty for these weak willed women who get all the help in the world and then ignore it and continue to repeat the same mistake, sorry.
Jazzy Jeff Real Talk Sadly it takes some people a lot of time and even more pain to become fully aware of their toxic situations and be accountable for the part they played. Even if you’re being faithful, you have to accept the fact that you allowed someone to continuously play with your heart! The saddest part is this couple isn’t aware of the damage they’re causing the innocent kids that they drag into their mess! 🤦🏽♀️ I don’t judge anyone bc I was hard headed, did things out of order and had to learn the hard way and now I know why my parents and elders tried to instill waiting to have sex, saving yourself for marriage and not having kids until you’re married. You also need to know and love yourself unconditionally before you get into a relationship so your partner knows how to love you. ✌🏽💜💙
Mrs. Jones Camillia Jones I get all that, but after working over 5 years with trouble kids as a mental health professional. I learned from that job you can’t save them all. Some people can get all the help and direction in the world and will continue to make the same bad decisions. At that point, I gotta take my emotion out of it and realIze let them learn the hard way.
I believe in fighting for marriage..., If I'm only one , I'm not going to tolerate THAT too long. Being Married is Serious Business !!! Maybe it had to take this, to make Him Understand. 2 wrongs don't make a Right!!! I Sincerely hope that they stay together and get JESUS in their marriage!!!
janelle henderson stay together? Not everyone receives religion like you. That man is not gonna change from church. That’s who he is. He would leave church and go right back to the same stuff without hesitation. God would not want this woman staying together and continually getting hurt
Only a few minutes in and I can't help but sense Joshua's predatory nature. When confronted about allegedly preying on a vulnerable girl and asking/receiving explicit photos he deflected and made the conversation about both parties infidelities... He makes up allegations about her in an attempt to assassinate her character and to desensitise his repulsive actions.
predatory nature ?? she sends pic to a man fresh out of prison!!! you know they haven't seen a woman in so long. They're not made up she said that's her ex. assassinated her character she ain't martain luther king!!!
Katrice Channel he knows and she allows it. She think revenge is a dish served cold but it gives her pain. She’s gave a crocodile tear performance at the end. Sis
Girl, leave him alone. He's a narcissistic person. You are beautiful. You deserve better you are enough and if he want to kill his self let Let him do it. I would one less stress.
I had an ex that used to threaten he would kill himself so I told him go ahead. He then told me I didn't care about him and I told him you're right because I care about myself more and broke up with him. Don't get me wrong we had some good times and he did care but he was insecure, controlling and emotionally/mentally abusive.
@@nicolette100 he's not all that good looking if he would have told her that he wasn't ready to be a relationship just stay single you know what I'm saying just like judge Faith she always said you want to be single just be single automatters just like judge Lynn Toler always says let her know and let her go
I hear stories like this sometime and I think my female friends are making it up until I see some guys like this on this show...where they find guys like this? Lol smh
It’s more like guys like these know how to find them. I had a friend who always dated guys like this. These type of guys know how to find women who have low self esteem and who will put up with anything just for the sake of having a man
The divorce court audience is weird. When a man is in an emotionally abusive relationship, everybody sympathizes and says he's trapped and needs to find it within himself to leave. When a woman is openly disrespected by her husband like this woman right here is then it's her fault she stayed. You know that most victims of abuse stay with their abusers for a long time until they finally are able to leave. She doesn't have to be perfect to be a victim of emotional abuse. People who have not lived in abusive households have no idea what it does to your mind so when you claim rationality from someone who is disrespected, treated less than and humiliated in public and private and you extend your holier than thou, self righteous vision of how she bought it upon herself, not only is that extremely ignorant but equally pathetic. She needs to get help and only with time she can hopefully leave him. He is a narcissist and maybe a sadist as well considering he laughs and giggles every time he disrespects and hurts her.
Aamna Here You have a point, some people are so traumatized that they don’t even know that they are being abused but they usually know that they are being treated poorly or they can show signs of Stockholm’s syndrome. But, when someone is constantly mistreating you, YOU, have to be the one to make the decision to stop allowing the abuse to continue whether that means separating from the person, leaving the person alone completely, seeking outside support. Personality disorders run on my mothers side of the family and at some point I had to decide to leave certain family member alone or set boundaries rather than just letting them keep getting away with hurting me over and over again. If you know a true Narcissist they will do just that, same things over and over and over until YOU stop it. So I agree with most of your post but I have to say that women, men whoever need to take a stand and not allow themselves to be subjected to such abuse. Take a stand against bullying Narcs it doesn’t have to be in a violent manner, but do something rather than nothing and letting it continue
@@ayteeshamarch8538 The general idea is true but every victim of abuse is in a different mental state. Many are too emotionally broken and with all the gaslighting, they actually believe they are the cause of their misery not their abusive partners. Abuse is not singular. It's layered and it manifests differently as well as affects people differently. It takes years to sometimes undo the trauma and be able to identify the gaslighting. It's not easy and it doesn't happen quickly. I personally believe that mental health assistance should be free so that people can genuinely benefit. You said that we have to do it ourselves at the end of the day no matter how terrible it is but we only extend that to people suffering from abuse who've probably developed mental issues as a result. We never ask people suffering from a physical ailment to toughen themselves up and find the strength to get over it. In my opinion, it's a double standard. Ultimately all of us want to be healthy and happy but people stuck in abuse need help from others as well, mostly from therapists. Leaving them be and praying for them to one day stand up and leave might seem great but it's not. We don't live in isolation. There are many abusive people who have the potential to become violent or dangerous otherwise. She is a victim that needs to contact a psychiatrist and get help. In my experience, and you can disagree with me, romantic relationships can be extremely hard to let go of if your partner is abusive as compared to an abusive relative (unless it's your parents which is horrible and much much worse).
If you’re gonna stay anyway then why cry to Judge Toler. I had a similar situation. I left when I was ready and done done. Women only leave when they done done. She’s not done done!
Facebook can't do anything, it's just an app. It's how people use the social media app when they are in a relationship. He has no business as a married man asking another women's anything sexual no matter what she post. He shouldn't friends with a bunch of single women and people in general as a married man.
Exactly, but it opens up access to people that otherwise they would not have, & allows people to “ creep” and leave messages, it’s just another level of Instagram, Social Media allows people to create facades of their lives, believe none of what your hear & half of what you see, in this situation ( social media) believe none of what you see 🤷🏽♀️
brishaberries0101 true but its a distraction and is a sneaky addiction same as drugs, video games, tv and all this other b.s that rob people of they marriage, relationships, real life etc, i know a man who was married 24yrs bought his wife her 1st smart phone 6yrs ago they divorced today because he said she started messaging old people from highschool on FB and then ran off wit one of the guys🤦🏽♂️ or my 20yr old son cant keep a job but u can play video games 8-10hrs straight or stay up til 3-4am but cant get up fir work at 7am and complaining about 25hrs a week job?!? i keep telling him all he is doing is allowing the video game to rob him of his future
Why do people get married if when things get tough they go find someone else to make them feel good like it’s going to make things in the MARRIAGE!!???!!! 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I’ll never understand that. Why step out.. you behave like adults and discuss what each of your issues are and come up with a solution, do the work and if that doesn’t help spark a change for the better or if someone doesn’t want to put in the work.... THEN it’s time to part ways .
Rriigghhtt like be single already if you don't wanna commit to a marriage or a relationship because just cuz you not married doesn't give you the right to hoe around on your partner without them knowing 🤷🏾♀️
Knew she wasn't gonna leave him 🤦🏾♀️. That low self-worth and codependency will keep a person trapped in unhealthy ish forever. I feel bad for her kids 😔.
I actually believed she did tell the guy she was pregnant. When she was asked to address her husband's allegations she responded by saying it was a lie and that he got someone pregnant.
Idk who told them what love is, but this ain’t it. Can’t start trying to play the Tic for Tac game and get mad that Player 2 is clearly better at being trash. Crazy that folks would rather waste 1, 5, 10 years on aint sh$t people than be Happy , free & loved by those that actually love you
They dont even have the same name how could they be married this need fasting prayer and holy water in Jesus mighty name amen Bless us Creator of the HEAVENS and EARTH
Well some people do not change their last names. If I ever do I will keep my last names because I recently change my September 2018 due to my Naturalization from my ex husband's last name. So it is possible. But them two people should walk across the street from each other just to avoid bumping into each orher.
The judge told them both. I got that stare on day of the funeral of our father while being in the Hearst. My response was, mother passed long time ago and we're burying dad today. And I kept doing what I were doing before the stare. See, I didn't let her actions define me. God is so good.
Valdosta use to be my old stomping grounds! Girl there is an entire military base filled with good men in Valdosta. Being treated bad and emotionally abused doesn’t have to be your only option. Life is just too short to endure that type of pain. I really do wish you the best.
You cannot make nobody leave until the individual realize there self worth and values and see there self as precious jewel. I had to learn that lesson and I pay the price for it.
Him: we adults at the end of the day
Judge Toler: could’ve fooled me
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Should have been:
Him: we are dogs at the end of the day
Because that's who they are.
Him: yess Ma’am
Judge toler: it was a question 🤣🤣🤣🤣
tai Oyebamiji 😂😂
That was funny! I😂😂😂😂
Not listening because he’s thinking of the next lie.
AM Degroat 😂😂😂
tai Oyebamiji 😩😭😭😭😂😂😂
Judge gave that man the classic black mama stare 😭😂 i love her
lol, i was thinking same, then i was like proof this nigga aint growed up yet 🤦🏽♂️
His stupid ass didn't catch it either. Had to get a dressing down. Fool
@jabeck42 my 4 children know exactly what it means!
She really did 😂😂 thought I was in trouble for two seconds
@@Porter5habazzMe too❕🤷🏽♂️ 🤭😩🤣
She subjects herself to this... he's DISGUSTING 🤮 and pitiful. However, us ladies need to understand we also contribute to our own unhappiness.
True she should have left the first sign of infidelity why stay?
He is more like a pet
It's a choice. When we accept that we have the power to choose better than many of us will be better off. Not to mention it's our responsibility to choose better.
Sherrod MacS not even that?!? this nigga a straight clown
Cadillac Deville preach sis👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
As a single woman this is why these men think they can insult my intelligence and get upset when I call them on their ish and leave bc woman like this tolerate it ?
Your the reason Becky's are winning
Honestly, if these women were more assertive, men would have to be more accountable and have to act properly.
Yes, you have to be more assertive to set the record straight. You are right!!! ☺️
@3165dwayne Exactly
Kjourney...truth.
Judge Lynn gave him the "Mama look". 😂
Lauren Kindred - That’s EXACTLY what look she gave him.
Yes Goodness. Gave me a flashback 💭.
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She sure did 😂😂😂
💖💖💖..i knew the look!!☺
Something is wrong with this guy. He laughs and jokes at the most inappropriate times. He seems like a psycho I believe her when she said he threatened to kill himself if she left. He needs counseling urgently. She could use some therapy too
I wud have left either way kos if he continues to show this crazy side he ain't my problem. He need assessment
I think they both have some form of physical and or developmental delays. Did you notice her right hand and his right eye. She also made mention of a young lady who was delayed that he sought and recieved pictures from.
Confusion and no straight answers..ijs
Ally Beatle urgently 😂
Nah I think he was nervous. Laughter is a go to move when nervous
Judge says: "Look at me!!"
His eyes: 🤪
I jus had to yall 😂😂
Weak asf 🤣 his goofy looking ass
Lol
Dead wrong 🤦🏽🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Lmaooo😂😂😂😂
WOW, "DON'T MAKE ME COME BACK THERE AGAIN", DO IT THEN JUDGE LYNN!!!!
Dwahn Denson - I felt that. That was momma right there.
Don't you dare have to make me look at you again.
Judge is getting TIDE of these folks lol
😂😂she teaching him manners that his mama didn't😖.
He is unintelligent and inconsiderate, she has low self-esteem and loud.
Thy both unintelligent as we can all tell but u just wanna pick on the guy....I see
Actually she's a college educated woman with several degrees under her belt
@@joshuafranklin1071 a college education doesn't get you common sense
@@xandra_5099 Lack of common sense doesn't mean you're unintelligent. They aren't mutually inclusive, in fact, the most intelligent people usually end up being the people with the least amount of common sense. They tend to override common sense with logic. Not necessarily a good thing, I think common sense is important, just figured I'd throw that out there.
@@caitlynmuniz3143 like yourself going on about grammar when conversations had nothing to do with it ??
They got married because they like the ideal of being married but not the responsibility and commitment that comes with it and once again it's as if they've accepted the dysfunction and she has children to raised,you can't have them around this.
I literally look for your comment every video ✊🏾lol
Or because he needed a place to stay and she want a daddy for her kids and someone to babysit
Exactly!!!!
I always look forward to your comments because you share great perspective!!! I'm a fan ☺️
They got married got she has low esteem and he needed a place to stay.. He probably don't work.
They just came on here to tell on each other. She did this, he did that! Who cares y'all both triflin
Your mammy 😂
Yeah for sure, He probably been cheating all the time.
@@joshuafranklin1071 Wow?!🤦🏽♀️
@@joshuafranklin1071 🤔
Feel sorry for the children ! Hope they don’t end up plum crazy with these people
That's black women 4 u
This fool done brought a woman he cheating with into the house....that automatic Divorce....he teaching the kids how to disrespect mommy and women...He should of been out
HaileM Bradley most likely
Sherrod MacS 💯💯💯💯
SHE IS Smart& very BRAVE to say that she's done& nothing will change! I admire her
Whoever is going through hard times, an abusive relationship, rejection and depression. God knows and is more than able to set you free. On my youtube channel when i began God has always been faithful. Dont give up on God
Amen!
In Jesus name 🙏
Cuz he won’t give up on you!
God will work out any situation. Be still, let God.
Amen, amen. God bless you for sharing the word. Blessings to all of you!
This episode aggravated my SOUL .... from the verbiage to the response from the husband 🤦🏽♀️
Don't forget she has the nerves to raise her children in this mess. child abuse...Now you see why these kids have no clue....
Sherrod MacS 💯
⅓ really ready
@@sherrodmacs3472 yes
That Mr Franklin is a jerk!!!! Dumb as a rock!!! MRS Franklin prefers to hold onto her hurts and frustrations. I am glad she said she's done bc I think she will be happier without him.
Breaking phones? Ridiculous!
He knows she isn't going anywhere.
Thats why he is so emotionless and nonchalant.
She may stay or leave. I would just love to see people stand in their Truth and choose Peace...from my mouth, to God's ears!🙏
@@libbymills4432 The update proves she stayed.
I love it when she gives the damaging community speech. Everytime she give that speech,,, the men whole demeanor change. "It's powerful."
2 minutes in I'm like something wrong with dude.
They appear to have physical ailments. He says he is gonna kill HIMSELF that is manipulation LET HIM GO MY SISTER.
shirley russell I noticed that too.
Right
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“Every woman in yo phone you got a cat to match her” 😂😂😂 I screamed
🗣️ "Be the reason the community rises above!"
They both need to be apart from each other. It makes no sense having to be disrespected and to disrespect. Don't drag yourself so low to become like what you hate.
Move on he no good for u.lady deserve better Just saying.
Mr. Cooney really? Considering he cheated first .. she did wrong ..but she is not worse than him.
Two wrongs doesn't make a right. When you have people in your lives that not lifting you up they need to go. Both of them need time out to be alone and take a good inspection of themselves before going in any other relationships.
She up there talking to dudes in the jail. It just not fair for her childeren..that what is fucked
They both need to stay together so they don't drag anyone else in that nonsense and mess #perfectmatch 🤣🤣
Wait, the update said they are talking more now...So she stayed with him?! I’m so done feeling pitty for these weak willed women who get all the help in the world and then ignore it and continue to repeat the same mistake, sorry.
Jazzy Jeff Real Talk Sadly it takes some people a lot of time and even more pain to become fully aware of their toxic situations and be accountable for the part they played. Even if you’re being faithful, you have to accept the fact that you allowed someone to continuously play with your heart! The saddest part is this couple isn’t aware of the damage they’re causing the innocent kids that they drag into their mess! 🤦🏽♀️ I don’t judge anyone bc I was hard headed, did things out of order and had to learn the hard way and now I know why my parents and elders tried to instill waiting to have sex, saving yourself for marriage and not having kids until you’re married. You also need to know and love yourself unconditionally before you get into a relationship so your partner knows how to love you. ✌🏽💜💙
Well....who else was gonna take her??
Mrs. Jones Camillia Jones I get all that, but after working over 5 years with trouble kids as a mental health professional. I learned from that job you can’t save them all. Some people can get all the help and direction in the world and will continue to make the same bad decisions. At that point, I gotta take my emotion out of it and realIze let them learn the hard way.
I believe in fighting for marriage..., If I'm only one , I'm not going to tolerate THAT too long. Being Married is Serious Business !!! Maybe it had to take this, to make Him Understand. 2 wrongs don't make a Right!!! I Sincerely hope that they stay together and get JESUS in their marriage!!!
janelle henderson stay together? Not everyone receives religion like you. That man is not gonna change from church. That’s who he is. He would leave church and go right back to the same stuff without hesitation. God would not want this woman staying together and continually getting hurt
I love this judge she knew how to manage her court room👍
He slow asf🤦🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
He’s/ He is ... slow af *
darrenj131 ok and your point is👀
Both are
AF !
I am so tired of them coming on here and wasting my judge time all that good advice she give for nothing
Only a few minutes in and I can't help but sense Joshua's predatory nature. When confronted about allegedly preying on a vulnerable girl and asking/receiving explicit photos he deflected and made the conversation about both parties infidelities... He makes up allegations about her in an attempt to assassinate her character and to desensitise his repulsive actions.
predatory nature ?? she sends pic to a man fresh out of prison!!! you know they haven't seen a woman in so long. They're not made up she said that's her ex. assassinated her character she ain't martain luther king!!!
Of course she didn't leave him.
Lauren Kindred Anytime a woman comes on here and says your honor I’m done she ends up staying with him it’s almost a given now
Lauren Kindred 🤷🏿♀️
Yep sadly they don't 🙄
Lauren Kindred people like to stay with dysfunctional people smh
They never leave
I feel sorry for those kids having to listen to these 2 everyday
They both a special crazy
Loc Dog That Part
Ain’t nobody gonna make me believe this is a real couple. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Carla Brazil sadly there are real couples like this
I am so grateful to be in a loving, faithful and respectful relationship🙏
Don’t feel bad for the woman.
Neither do I. She put up with it and complains. You don't like it. Then leave.
Dating is bad on its own but she married him so I agree with u.
Zachary Collier I agree he laughs at doing her wrong
Katrice Channel he knows and she allows it. She think revenge is a dish served cold but it gives her pain. She’s gave a crocodile tear performance at the end. Sis
Zachary Collier me either. Plus she cheated too. Soooo..
BOY IF YOU SAY "YES MA'AM" ONE MORE TIME!!
Rekki Rekki 😂
She looks old for 29
That’s what happens when you live in this kinda toxic energy constantly. It’s straight up draining
What you look like lil bitch
dance4life1208 all that dysfunction and drama do that to you
@@joshuafranklin1071 what's up with the name calling??
Everybody entitled to their own opinion !!!!
He done wore her out and drained her.
Both Of Them Are A Mess
A HOT ONE!
Yea he a dumbass and she look like a niga I used to rob banks wit!
Bluu_ Ice 🤣🤣🤣
Yep
Lmaooo bluu_ice
Girl, leave him alone. He's a narcissistic person. You are beautiful. You deserve better you are enough and if he want to kill his self let Let him do it. I would one less stress.
I had an ex that used to threaten he would kill himself so I told him go ahead. He then told me I didn't care about him and I told him you're right because I care about myself more and broke up with him. Don't get me wrong we had some good times and he did care but he was insecure, controlling and emotionally/mentally abusive.
He's definitely abusive.
@@nicolette100 he's not all that good looking if he would have told her that he wasn't ready to be a relationship just stay single you know what I'm saying just like judge Faith she always said you want to be single just be single automatters just like judge Lynn Toler always says let her know and let her go
That part when the judge asked her if he changed would she stay....and she said no...I'm tired....I felt that.
Does he understand the judge's questions?
Geesh....
Dude needs to go back to school.
Sharon Jackson he was in the “leg up” program in school
Life is the Bubbles 😆😆😆
School don't teach good sense
@@respektmyname15
As an educator, we teach comprehension skills...
Perhaps he was absent when that lesson was being taught...
@@sharonjackson268 Not comprehension skills!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and that requires some type of brain power to even comprehend what is being taught!
He cheating she cheating
Doctor: Yes
baby it is nothing but a gain by leaving him....
peace and blessings to you baby girl
Ladies, if nothing else, watch 14:59 and 17:57 ❤️ STEP ON!
Thank-you
I hear stories like this sometime and I think my female friends are making it up until I see some guys like this on this show...where they find guys like this? Lol smh
It’s more like guys like these know how to find them. I had a friend who always dated guys like this. These type of guys know how to find women who have low self esteem and who will put up with anything just for the sake of having a man
This season is off the chain. Where they find these ppl?
Facts. Every episode is crazy.
Lakia haha 😂 🤣 I was just saying the same thing in my post. Is this real? Unbelievable, these last few guests have been total nut cases
Valdosta Ga 😂😂😂
The divorce court audience is weird. When a man is in an emotionally abusive relationship, everybody sympathizes and says he's trapped and needs to find it within himself to leave. When a woman is openly disrespected by her husband like this woman right here is then it's her fault she stayed. You know that most victims of abuse stay with their abusers for a long time until they finally are able to leave. She doesn't have to be perfect to be a victim of emotional abuse. People who have not lived in abusive households have no idea what it does to your mind so when you claim rationality from someone who is disrespected, treated less than and humiliated in public and private and you extend your holier than thou, self righteous vision of how she bought it upon herself, not only is that extremely ignorant but equally pathetic. She needs to get help and only with time she can hopefully leave him. He is a narcissist and maybe a sadist as well considering he laughs and giggles every time he disrespects and hurts her.
Aamna Here You have a point, some people are so traumatized that they don’t even know that they are being abused but they usually know that they are being treated poorly or they can show signs of Stockholm’s syndrome. But, when someone is constantly mistreating you, YOU, have to be the one to make the decision to stop allowing the abuse to continue whether that means separating from the person, leaving the person alone completely, seeking outside support. Personality disorders run on my mothers side of the family and at some point I had to decide to leave certain family member alone or set boundaries rather than just letting them keep getting away with hurting me over and over again. If you know a true Narcissist they will do just that, same things over and over and over until YOU stop it. So I agree with most of your post but I have to say that women, men whoever need to take a stand and not allow themselves to be subjected to such abuse. Take a stand against bullying Narcs it doesn’t have to be in a violent manner, but do something rather than nothing and letting it continue
@@ayteeshamarch8538 The general idea is true but every victim of abuse is in a different mental state. Many are too emotionally broken and with all the gaslighting, they actually believe they are the cause of their misery not their abusive partners. Abuse is not singular. It's layered and it manifests differently as well as affects people differently. It takes years to sometimes undo the trauma and be able to identify the gaslighting. It's not easy and it doesn't happen quickly. I personally believe that mental health assistance should be free so that people can genuinely benefit.
You said that we have to do it ourselves at the end of the day no matter how terrible it is but we only extend that to people suffering from abuse who've probably developed mental issues as a result. We never ask people suffering from a physical ailment to toughen themselves up and find the strength to get over it. In my opinion, it's a double standard. Ultimately all of us want to be healthy and happy but people stuck in abuse need help from others as well, mostly from therapists. Leaving them be and praying for them to one day stand up and leave might seem great but it's not. We don't live in isolation. There are many abusive people who have the potential to become violent or dangerous otherwise. She is a victim that needs to contact a psychiatrist and get help. In my experience, and you can disagree with me, romantic relationships can be extremely hard to let go of if your partner is abusive as compared to an abusive relative (unless it's your parents which is horrible and much much worse).
I’m grateful for my marriage! Episodes like this put the whipped cream & cherry on top!!!😇
Well why you watching divorce court?
Susie Sue- well...like I said, it helps me appreciate my relationship & I’m just intrigued on how far some people stoop & go.😇
He isn't even cute😑🙄😒
she isn't easy on the eyes either
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Right it be the ugliest guy having high standards
*can I say gay on the camera?*
LOL what
Wow just cant get enough of Judge Toler's wisdom.
What time do you plan to cheat today?
Mr. Franklin: Yes ma'am
Ladies we’ve got to stop staying for the kids and because I love him.
Love thyself
If you’re gonna stay anyway then why cry to Judge Toler. I had a similar situation. I left when I was ready and done done. Women only leave when they done done. She’s not done done!
Just ratchet filthy NASTINESS.. not any real issues.. just dirty foolishness I. Done at 3:12
I’ll tell you, Facebook is the death of soooo many relationships . I will never-be on Facebook!
Facebook can't do anything, it's just an app. It's how people use the social media app when they are in a relationship. He has no business as a married man asking another women's anything sexual no matter what she post. He shouldn't friends with a bunch of single women and people in general as a married man.
Exactly, but it opens up access to people that otherwise they would not have, & allows people to “ creep” and leave messages, it’s just another level of Instagram, Social Media allows people to create facades of their lives, believe none of what your hear & half of what you see, in this situation ( social media) believe none of what you see 🤷🏽♀️
brishaberries0101 true but its a distraction and is a sneaky addiction same as drugs, video games, tv and all this other b.s that rob people of they marriage, relationships, real life etc, i know a man who was married 24yrs bought his wife her 1st smart phone 6yrs ago they divorced today because he said she started messaging old people from highschool on FB and then ran off wit one of the guys🤦🏽♂️ or my 20yr old son cant keep a job but u can play video games 8-10hrs straight or stay up til 3-4am but cant get up fir work at 7am and complaining about 25hrs a week job?!? i keep telling him all he is doing is allowing the video game to rob him of his future
Is Mr. Franklin slow or special?
BOTH!!
Sharon Jackson lmfao
???????
I think they both are.
@@MsZan2 Her right hand(on my left) is distracting me and this n***a is beyond remedial👀
He is so childish!! He can't even answer a question without trying to point a finger at her! And everything is funny!
This episode exhausted my spirit....
Nika Jackson right
Yall both a lil toxic .. keep it moving!
Why do people get married if when things get tough they go find someone else to make them feel good like it’s going to make things in the MARRIAGE!!???!!! 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I’ll never understand that. Why step out.. you behave like adults and discuss what each of your issues are and come up with a solution, do the work and if that doesn’t help spark a change for the better or if someone doesn’t want to put in the work.... THEN it’s time to part ways .
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Rriigghhtt like be single already if you don't wanna commit to a marriage or a relationship because just cuz you not married doesn't give you the right to hoe around on your partner without them knowing 🤷🏾♀️
People nowadays live for excitement and instant gratification.
loaded pipe 💯
everything wirks in theory
At least he was honest. We all knew she wasn’t leaving. Women only leave guys they can hurt, while staying loyal with the ones who hurt them
When she started crying, l cried it was sad
She was hurt.
The judge said if y'all are going to keep bringing me this foolishness... I'm pulling rank today 😍
He looks like a old ass Romeo and Bow wow and a little TI mixed together 🤔😂😜😀🤗
......now why you insulted those men like that
"I'm tired " I felt that😔
When she said "o my god" i thought of martin 🤣🤣
The look she gave him made me feel shame and I didn't even do anything.
I love Judge serving truth to him at the end
0:33 look at his eyes at that moment I knew he was crazy right there
LGBT community got folks shook.. he was afraid to say “gay friends” I wish I would be afraid to say the word gay
How did the judge ignore everything she did in the relationship and let her play victim when she did everything he did she’s no better
Why stay though? After the first cheat I'd be out the door.
Knew she wasn't gonna leave him 🤦🏾♀️. That low self-worth and codependency will keep a person trapped in unhealthy ish forever. I feel bad for her kids 😔.
EG Carswell she ain’t going to leave. She’s toxic herself. They perfect for each other
Huh you could of FOOLED Me🤣🤣🤣Smh He don't know when to Answer A Question🤣
She is a beautiful woman who deserves a better man who love her and treat her like a queen
Judge! That look at the very beginning is the same EXACT look I give my 5 year old when he tries me! And he hushes too! Too funny! 😂🤣
I miss you, judge Toler 😭
The way his lazy eye was...I already knew
THEY BOTH NEED TO BE GROWN. BYE WOMAN
RIGHT. Im not mad at him because he only did what that dummy allowed him to.
Bobby Smith and I’m not mad at her. He cheated and she cheated. Both dysfunctional. Perfect for each other.
Good luck on your new show Divorce Court keep Rick and God bless make me smile 😊
Fake pregnancy testES?🤔
I actually believed she did tell the guy she was pregnant. When she was asked to address her husband's allegations she responded by saying it was a lie and that he got someone pregnant.
AllDayFinesse don't forget scrange
The funny part was when he said ' when I threw her phone- I thought I was Jackie Robinson'. That was funny! 😂😂
Idk who told them what love is, but this ain’t it. Can’t start trying to play the Tic for Tac game and get mad that Player 2 is clearly better at being trash. Crazy that folks would rather waste 1, 5, 10 years on aint sh$t people than be Happy , free & loved by those that actually love you
I admire judge Lynn maintained her calm in dealing with this dude 👍
They dont even have the same name how could they be married this need fasting prayer and holy water in Jesus mighty name amen Bless us Creator of the HEAVENS and EARTH
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Fuck you
Well some people do not change their last names. If I ever do I will keep my last names because I recently change my September 2018 due to my Naturalization from my ex husband's last name. So it is possible. But them two people should walk across the street from each other just to avoid bumping into each orher.
And she didn't have a ring
@@3LynnMarie1 been married 14 years and dont wear a ring...doesnt make you not married.
Well said Judge Lynn 👏👏
U hit the nail right on the head 👌
On point
Both of them matches each other energy and that was not a compliment unfortunately.
“Hot mess in a shook champagne bottle”. Judge Tolar, you called this one. Wow!
They loook old
The judge told them both. I got that stare on day of the funeral of our father while being in the Hearst. My response was, mother passed long time ago and we're burying dad today. And I kept doing what I were doing before the stare. See, I didn't let her actions define me. God is so good.
TOXIC!
Why the hell do people get married stay single if you’re going to cheat 🤪😞 Judge Lynn needs to dismiss both of them
Well they both cheating and have kids together. Might as well stay with each other. Y’all perfect for each other anyway 🤷🏾♀️
The judge said they are not his kids (they are her chikdren).
Bayouma777 well they both cheaters. Still perfect for each other
she's a wonderful lady..."just don't let his consistency and who he is and his doings define your future. He's nasty and never gonna change".period.
They Both Got On My Nerves!!! Damn 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
“Mr. Franklin, Mr. Frank- Mr. Franklin Mr. Franklin, look at me. Look at me. 😐” LMFAO
He says. "I'm trying to!!!!"
They dont look like the pictures they showed st the beginning
Valdosta use to be my old stomping grounds! Girl there is an entire military base filled with good men in Valdosta. Being treated bad and emotionally abused doesn’t have to be your only option. Life is just too short to endure that type of pain. I really do wish you the best.
This Is Past Terrible!!! Jerry Springer Come Pick These Two Up Bcuz Its Trifling Smh!!!
You cannot make nobody leave until the individual realize there self worth and values and see there self as precious jewel. I had to learn that lesson and I pay the price for it.
They both something different. He not happy she not happy why stay in a marriage .. they both not being adults with kid's. They just playing house.
I never be watching but guarantee when someone start crying I’m watching for those 10 seconds 😂😂💜💜