Jason must have been an extremely self-assured, kind, intelligent man before dementia. I say that because even with dementia, Jason still comes across as a person I would love to have as my friend. I was glad for this interview, but I also know that many times, Jason is not able to be as mentally clear as he was during this interview. This video will help both caregivers and people in various stages of dementia. You two are very, very special people. Diane
Jason has such a fun and witty personality I love his answers I am amazed what he does remember and how he doesn’t mind talking about it My husband couldn’t because he was in later dementia which he passed from Alzheimer’s 😢 He was in denial Jason seems so different in a good way Thank you so much for sharing It’s good for caregivers too 👍❤
I, in no way, mean to diminish how horrible dementia and memory loss is on the the person who has it but I’d like to share something I observe daily with my mama who has it. She is absolutely the happiest person I know. Let me explain: Jason said you don’t know what you don’t know. She doesn’t know she’s no longer independent, that there’s anything wrong with her or with the world, she has no bills to pay, no stress about responsibilities, home repairs, etc. She works her puzzles, watches her shows, “does her housework” (what she THINKS is home keeping, is usually creating chaos and hiding things). She’s past the point of awareness that she has dementia but still cognitive enough to be able to enjoy what she loves. If she does realize she’s missing out on something, like traveling, it’s only for a moment. She lives completely in the present. As long as we keep her present moment happy, she’s happy. When I do make her angry, for instance at bath time, she forgets about it immediately. In her world. There’s no arguments, stress, trials, angry words, divorce, death,….simply bc she doesnt know what she doesn’t know. Jason, you summed it all up so simply. With my mom, this disease is no longer HER cross to bear. It’s mine. But she doesn’t know it. She’s happy and I’m glad.
This response helped me so much. My mother has dementia and I am struggling. But she is happy. She is happier and more agreeable than I’ve ever known her to be. Possibly the one (and only) positive of dementia.
Im so glad that this is the experience your mom has with dementia. It may also be that you are making that possible for her. I work in health care so I've seen both sides. Some like your mom who is totally oblivious to some who are so confused that its scary for them. Then still others who are very angry all the time. I also think it the personality of the person in general. I had one wife whos husband has dementia and that man is angry and uncooperative all the time. She said something that hit home for me. She said that he was a very strict man, he angered easily even in his early years he was a "my way or no way" kind of person. So of course now with dementia he still exhibits those characteristics. This would imply to me that your mother was probably a pretty happy person and in a way ignorance is bliss so to speak. I hope you are able and continue to be able to enjoy your time with her. God Bless.
Yes, it is different for each person with dementia. My daddy seemed scared and worried a lot of the time. It broke my heart and I spent most of my time reassuring him and calming him down. My best friends mom is very angry and combative, hitting and saying hurtful things to everyone. 😢
@@karenA.6375 I feel very lucky then because my mother was fairly disagreeable before dementia. She has truly never been sweeter than she is now. They also put her on Zoloft so maybe that helps.
This is for Jason: Jason you are an amazing person! You know you have a rough road ahead but you still have a great attitude. As this progresses you know you will trust your wife even more, your wife is your rock! Your smile and attitude has made my day, thank you very much!!!
You two have helped me a lot through my husband's dementia. I was told today that he has only a few days left to live. Even though I have known this is coming I just can't believe he will be gone. This last few months have progressed very quickly. Thank you guys for helping me so much. Prayers!
Excellent interview! A lot of great info from Jason. He may not realize it, but he’s helping a lot of us who are dealing with these problems. Thank you!😊
Jason, your willingness to share is so helpful to so many. I know someone in your situation who stays in denial. Your “it is what it is” attitude is great. And Leslie, much admiration for you!
Please know this is a blessing to so many people who feel alone, scared and overwhelmed. You both have lost so much and in turn are able to give so much. May God’s love uplift you both❤
Such an interesting interview with Jason. No real show timing , just a closer insight into how he was before dementia. Intelligent, dedicated, articulate.... He is an amazing person and it is sad to know where he is headed. Thank you for sharing.
As a mother of a grown son who was also a Marine in Desert Storm and Iraqi Freedom.... I just want to reach through this screen and hug Jason. It is so touching to hear where his head and heart are. And thank you Leslie, for loving this man...past, present and future. He needs you so.
Jason, with your long term memory being so good, would you consider writing a book about your adventures? I love listening to you talk about the funny things you have been through. You're an awesome story teller!
Jason, you are such an amazing individual being able to describe so eloquently what you are going through. Brew away Jason. Hope you and Leslie had a great day. ❤ Leslie you are an amazing individual and my heart goes out to both of you. ❤️ I wish there was a magic pill. Jason you were so real today and no “showtime” with this interview. You were so patient and I bet so exhausted by the end. ❤
100% agree. I love the showtiming, but also love the serious side. Thank you both for documenting your journey. It is and will be so helpful to a lot of patients and caregivers...
Hats off to Jason here, for navigating such a wide range of questions. I don't know the behind the scenes workings but this is so well done . Jason relayed his thoughts and gave us a clear picture of himself in different situations and times .Excellant Jason & Lesley
This was an amazing video. Jason was so calm and articulate. It seems like he does better in other places besides your home, maybe it doesn't feel so much like interrogation to him. It feels so unfair that someone like jason who has so much to offer the world has to have this disease. It is a testament to how much he trusts you Leslie that he will do these videos. Leslie, I know it doesn't feel like it sometimes. But you are doing a great job, and Jason is lucky to have you.
Jason,your handsome smile lit up my day. Opening the video was a great surprise to see your happy face. Thanks! for bringing all of us along on this unexpected health issue in your life’s journey. Thank you! for your service. Love, love you both.
This was EPIC🎉🎉🎉 I've been a caregiver for several dementia/alz people 😊 These q&a's Jason is doing are informative, educational and comforting for so, so many just starting their journey 🫶🏾 Thank you both for being so vulnerable and strong 🥰🥰🥰
Always applaud you guys for sharing. It has to be a huge help to others. Especially to hear it from Jason’s point of view. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
You are a wonderful couple! I was so impressed by both of you in this interview. It was calm, quiet, upbeat, and positive. Jason, you hit it out of the park! Thank you Leslie for making this happen as you do so often and so well. Love you both.
Jason is an incredible man with an awesome sense of humor, and so intelligent and articulate. I loved all of his answers. Thank you, Leslie and Jason. Sweetest couple on UA-cam 💞
Leslie, I LOVE your sweet laughter. I know we tend to focus on that ONE mean comment, but, Girl, you SHINE! You are doing an incredible job with your very own hubby..... Have you ever heard the family laughing at a funeral? (most people will look at us sideways when we do that). We can only cry so much, then comes the laughter. It's a survival skill, AND seems to come from your joy in marriage and in CHRIST!!
He is much more engaged by what he is proud of, projects, rather than focusing on the dementia so much..he looks so sad talking about it. I am heartbroken for him
Great video! Jason seemed to handle it better than some other ones. Leslie your such a kind compassionate person, that’s why Jason trusts you so much. Thanks!
Jason shared exactly what my husband shared with me. It’s amazing how they know and cope . My heart goes out to them. My heart goes out to us, we love them so
Leslie and Jason - I absolutely loved that segment. I think Jason felt so much more 'in control' answering your questions his way. Yes - I'm dealing with dementia from a 76 yr old partner. This 'interview' helped tremendously. ps: I still want to hear your side of everything also. ❤❤🙏🙏❤❤
He seems so aware and lucid at some level. At the beginning of this episode his eyes seemed so, I guess, almost wild but as it went on they looked more like regular Jason eyes. That make any sense.? He’s had such wonderful memories to hang on to together. You are tremendous Leslie.
I noticed that too, terry! He was looking all over the place, looked somewhat uncomfortable and unfocused, but as the questions went on, he was able to focus in on the questions.
Thank you so much for this video. My husband had primary progressive aphasia for over six years. He was diagnosed for six years but we know he had it longer than that. Your video mirrors so many things that we went through. I joined a caregiver support group at a local church. That was helpful and helped me learn not to take some of the things that he was saying personally, and to know how to be extra cautious without letting him know that. Having a circle of friends and support team was extremely helpful. He would plateau and be OK and then he’d take a dive downhill. I had to learn to check things like doors and water faucets. I learned to not correct, and not to argue. Reminiscing together was therapeutic and looking at old pictures also. He loved being around the grandchildren. That gave him a lot of joy. Not feeling comfortable to travel was one of the hardest things for us. Thank you again for sharing your journey. I know it’s helping a lot of others who are going through the same thing at this time.
This format was excellent. It gave Jason a chance to express himself which he seemed to enjoy. It also took some of the ‘burden’ off of you which was good. It is obvious Jadon is very intelligent, funny and charming. Dementia is so cruel. Sending hugs to you guys. 🤗💕
Jason is such a interesting, smart, funny, man…. #22 I think is the best video as of yet. Jason was relaxed, and was able to speak with ease What a guy😍 Leslie you are amazing too❤
I had Wyze cameras in various rooms of my Dad’s house so that I could check on him when I was out. I could even speak to him through it. It was especially helpful when other caregivers were with him. I caught one in the act of wheedling money from him by watching the playback. Thank you, Jason, for your service! And, thank you both for sharing on this channel!
Love you guys and your sense of humor when things are tough with you and all you're going through. I suffer with depression and anxiety but you really help. You make me smile. I admire you two so much and love you too, you and your family. You are all special people and very brave.❤❤❤😢🙏😍🥰.
I love your giggles together..."It's not the cooking...it's the fires in the kitchen". Of course I realise the scare you had over the kitchen fire must have been really terrifying, but it's so lovely to see Jason's sense of humour about it. Love from the UK
I appreciate your videos so much! I live with my elderly mother who has dementia. I moved in with my mother shortly after my husband passed away in 2915, and it wasn't long after I moved in that I realized something was wrong. You all help me in my own journey. God bless you both , ❤❤
As a caregiver I feel so overwhelmed with responsibilities and trying to stay one step ahead of what my husband needs. He's having so much more difficulty with speech and doesn't want to be around anyone except family. I'm his lifeline and security. I'm feeling the weight as I know you are Leslie. As always.....🙏🙏🙏
Ur videos have been the absolute most help I've found since I self diagnosed my early onset then ultimately medically diagnosed alcohol dementia than any other information in my research. Thank u both so much
Jason is so cute and funny sometimes. Well he’s always cute. But I lost my mom to dementia so it hurts me to see what you’re both experiencing. Prayers for you guys.
Wow this was so informative. I got so choked up with gratitude and love for you both when he answered these questions. You two have become my favorite couple! You both are witty, intelligent, and very caring and devoted to each other. A great example in the world today! I loved learning more about this disease. And even though both my fathers that went through this have fulfilled their journey in this lifetime this will definitely help me be better understanding of those going through this and those caregiving that I most likely will see again. Gosh I truly pray for a cure or a slow down the progression breakthrough. Blessings to you both! 🙏♥️
I love the talks with Jason when the window opens up and allows us to see ‘Jason’. And Leslie I think women have the best laughs especially when they get together and laugh so hard.
You 2 are the nicest people- Just a beautiful light of God's gifts- This is such a blessing because you are helping so many by educating. Thank you for taking the time to make this video and all of the other videos. You are so appreciated! Love to you both.
Thank you! In this video I can really see Jason's sweet and thoughtful, introspective side. In particular the question about your grandchildren ♥ My dad has alzheimer's and he loves, loves, loves his grandchildren as well.
Jason I’m so impressed with your intelligence and your ability to articulate. You seemed more relaxed in this video. Was that the ocean we heard in the background? It sounded like waves crashing but then it also sounded like machinery. Thank you for answering our questions. Leslie, you are amazing and I’m so impressed with your knowledge also. You two make the cutest couple and I’m sorry you have to deal with this horrible issue. ❤
Thank you, Jason, for speaking out and letting us know how you feel about having dementia. I'm glad you have memories that you think back on that make you happy. Your wit makes me laugh out loud.
Thank You both! You two are both impressing and inspiring with Your honesty and openness. Leslie, I understand why You fell totally for this guy. He is a keeper with his heart and soul. Jason, Your integrity and spirit leaves me in awe. I hope the decline reaches a screetching stop and You get to stay on this level for a long time. Looking forward to Your next video with cooking tips from the US to Your viewers from all over the world! ❤️🇳🇴
That was a wonderful interview, Jason was so informative about his feelings and about how his disease frustrates him. Thank you for being such a wonderful caregiver and videographer!! Keep telling your story!
Great post! Especially took to heart: Caregiver often struggles with THEIR "back off" point...not always obvious when a discussion has reached that point. And definitely not always easy. Thank you for your honesty, Jason. AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE.
You two are so amazing! Leslie you are something special. And Jason is so brave. I want to hug both of you. I am not going through Dementia with anyone. But you two are the perfect examples a love and compassion. ❤
Leslie!! What an awesome video especially for newly diagnosed patients and caregivers. But I also love how Jason is able to articulate “his” feelings and emotions about certain questions. I think this is also helpful to caregivers because it demonstrates that he clearly does not want want to be a burden and that there are times when he recognizes when he was wrong but is and was unable to correct it. And when the question was posed about your marital relationship and how that’s changed, boy! He didn’t have to say a word, the emotion was all over his face!! He deeply, truly and faithfully loves you. ❤
I love Jason’s upbeat attitude despite this health challenge. You are a wonderful wife and I commend you for supporting him and rolling with the punches. You guys sharing this intimate time in your life is much appreciated and will help so many caregivers. We have a place here in florida that’s called Joes place and it’s basically a daycare for people with Dementia paid for by the state of florida that gives much needed breaks to family members of those with this condition. I’m not sure if there is a program like this near you guys but I’m sure Jason could lead a group there and enjoy the break from home as well .
This was awesome. It was almost like talking to my husband! The last video reminded me of my husband, too. It really irritates me when people think they know how he ‘should’ act, or how much he ‘should’ be able to remember. It seems like they think there’s a cookie mold, & all dementia fits into the mold, & that’s how it’s supposed to be, or….. what, we’re lying about his diagnosis? I appreciate you two so much. I’m glad you’re doing these videos. Much love to you, & God bless.
I've already read the mean insulting comment 🤨 and your reply. I love when you (Leslie) are laughing while Jason is is "show timing". I've been watching you for awhile and I'm delighted that you are still having fun together! Jesus gives us joy, peace and hope even through our darkest times. My hubby is retired USAF. I do thank Jason for his service. However, i also thank Leslie for her service. Being a spouse is hard too. Jason, thank you for doing these videos. I don't have anyone, at this time, with dementia in my life. My father had pick's disease and this helps me understand what he was going through.
Thank you for sharing your lives. After watching this Q & A. I realize again that “if you’ve seen one person with dementia, you’ve seen one person with dementia “. I wanted to reminisce with my husband , but he would cry remembering all he was losing. Nighttime was hard as he thought going into the master bedroom was going to “that place”. He loved to travel, too, but didn’t understand why we couldn’t. I was the bad guy in many areas. I’m still healing, and still missing my sweet husband and best friend. Your videos help. Thanks, Leslie.
As always, I really enjoyed sharing time with you guys ❣️ It was wonderful to see Jason “at peace” and being able to answer questions with ease. I equally appreciate when it’s too difficult and Jason just doesn’t want to and can vocalize it. We can fully appreciate the highs and lows. I find it so sad that people can share disparaging remarks when you are doing your best to educate us. (And that being said, I was going to comment on the video that I think you had to turn off comments 😢. I think it was the video where Jason said he just wanted to be left alone and felt you checked up on him too much. It made me wonder if you had security cameras and wondered if it was something that might work for you. Our cameras can give a live feed to an app on my phone/iPad but also trigger a message when movement is seen and you can enable face recognition for specific people too. I thought it could be a way that would give Jason the space he wants when he wants it, but gives you peace of mind, Leslie, that you can check on him quietly ❤). Hugs to you both!
Thank you so much for sharing. Your helping me as well as many others I’m sure. It was reassuring to hear that Jason’s short term Memory comes and goes. My husband is the same and it can be very frustrating at times! We are also dealing with deteriorating physical health as my husband also has Parkinson’s . Sometimes it can feel like too much. I urge others to have a back up plan in mind as it has been difficult this last week when I have been dealing with a bad summer cold. Thanks for listening.
Oh Jason... I think you are such an incredible man ! Leslie you are an incredible woman ! My Husband has stage 5 mixed dementia ... ( Vascular/ Alzheimers ) . Jasons happy personality makes me smile and gives me a chance to calm down in my own life while dealing with our journey in dementia... Everyones journey in Dementia is different ... but we all have the incredibly hard life... We have been married for 53 years.... and there are ups and downs ... good days and bad days... but we were in love a long time ago and we still are today ! LOVE to you both and God Bless !
God Bless you both 🙏🙏 my late husband also suffered from dementia that was related to his vascular disease and Parkinson’s. My heart breaks for both of you. Thanks for sharing 😊
It’s not easy putting your life out there, it shows courage and commitment for your cause to educate others! Everyone’s story is different and by doing these videos someone out there may find comfort. Great job to both of you! 😊
Wow! Great video. Entertaining and also useful for others going through the adventures of cognitive decline in their family. Jason is handsome, humorous, and so dang intelligent. His wife is a fantastic life partner, a beauty, and an intelligent and sensitive caregiver. Despite his dementia, they are a power couple‼️‼️‼️
Thank you so much for your bravery in sharing your answers to these questions. I can't tell you how helpful this is to me as a caregiver for my husband.
I watch your videos regularly. I'm so inspired by you both as a couple, your new roles as they develop and also as individuals. I've never commented but I always enjoy and learn from them. Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable, both of you. I wish I could express just how reassuring it is to see a common denominator of love and kindness.
It so hurts my heart that dementia is robbing Jason of the life he so obviously loves. His sense of humor is over the top and he would be a joy to spend time with.
Jason must have been an extremely self-assured, kind, intelligent man before dementia. I say that because even with dementia, Jason still comes across as a person I would love to have as my friend. I was glad for this interview, but I also know that many times, Jason is not able to be as mentally clear as he was during this interview. This video will help both caregivers and people in various stages of dementia. You two are very, very special people. Diane
They sure are…I hope this journey for them is a slow ride. ❤
Well said!!!!!
They certainly seem to have a very special relationship. I’m so happy for them, both. ❤❤❤❤
Very well said.
So true! ❤
Wonderful interview with Jason. He remembers things of the past. Very special. Jason looked pleased to do the Q and A.
These two are amazing
They are an amazing couple. It is touching and beautiful that their love survives and continues forward.
Jason has such a fun and witty personality I love his answers I am amazed what he does remember and how he doesn’t mind talking about it My husband couldn’t because he was in later dementia which he passed from Alzheimer’s 😢 He was in denial Jason seems so different in a good way Thank you so much for sharing It’s good for caregivers too 👍❤
Jason seems so much calmer and serious during this questioning. Im so glad for him and for you leslie.
I, in no way, mean to diminish how horrible dementia and memory loss is on the the person who has it but I’d like to share something I observe daily with my mama who has it. She is absolutely the happiest person I know. Let me explain: Jason said you don’t know what you don’t know. She doesn’t know she’s no longer independent, that there’s anything wrong with her or with the world, she has no bills to pay, no stress about responsibilities, home repairs, etc. She works her puzzles, watches her shows, “does her housework” (what she THINKS is home keeping, is usually creating chaos and hiding things). She’s past the point of awareness that she has dementia but still cognitive enough to be able to enjoy what she loves. If she does realize she’s missing out on something, like traveling, it’s only for a moment. She lives completely in the present. As long as we keep her present moment happy, she’s happy. When I do make her angry, for instance at bath time, she forgets about it immediately. In her world. There’s no arguments, stress, trials, angry words, divorce, death,….simply bc she doesnt know what she doesn’t know. Jason, you summed it all up so simply. With my mom, this disease is no longer HER cross to bear. It’s mine. But she doesn’t know it. She’s happy and I’m glad.
This response helped me so much. My mother has dementia and I am struggling. But she is happy. She is happier and more agreeable than I’ve ever known her to be. Possibly the one (and only) positive of dementia.
Im so glad that this is the experience your mom has with dementia. It may also be that you are making that possible for her. I work in health care so I've seen both sides. Some like your mom who is totally oblivious to some who are so confused that its scary for them. Then still others who are very angry all the time. I also think it the personality of the person in general. I had one wife whos husband has dementia and that man is angry and uncooperative all the time. She said something that hit home for me. She said that he was a very strict man, he angered easily even in his early years he was a "my way or no way" kind of person. So of course now with dementia he still exhibits those characteristics. This would imply to me that your mother was probably a pretty happy person and in a way ignorance is bliss so to speak. I hope you are able and continue to be able to enjoy your time with her. God Bless.
Yes, it is different for each person with dementia. My daddy seemed scared and worried a lot of the time. It broke my heart and I spent most of my time reassuring him and calming him down. My best friends mom is very angry and combative, hitting and saying hurtful things to everyone. 😢
@@karenA.6375 I feel very lucky then because my mother was fairly disagreeable before dementia. She has truly never been sweeter than she is now. They also put her on Zoloft so maybe that helps.
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This is for Jason: Jason you are an amazing person! You know you have a rough road ahead but you still have a great attitude. As this progresses you know you will trust your wife even more, your wife is your rock! Your smile and attitude has made my day, thank you very much!!!
You two have helped me a lot through my husband's dementia. I was told today that he has only a few days left to live. Even though I have known this is coming I just can't believe he will be gone. This last few months have progressed very quickly. Thank you guys for helping me so much. Prayers!
Excellent interview! A lot of great info from Jason. He may not realize it, but he’s helping a lot of us who are dealing with these problems. Thank you!😊
That conversation will tremendously help other caregivers. Jason's sense of humor is purely contagious.
Jason, your willingness to share is so helpful to so many. I know someone in your situation who stays in denial. Your “it is what it is” attitude is great. And Leslie, much admiration for you!
I agree, Cathy. Your words “willingness to share” say so much about Jason’s beautiful character.
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Jason is so darn adorable. I just love his personality. ❤️
Please know this is a blessing to so many people who feel alone, scared and overwhelmed. You both have lost so much and in turn are able to give so much. May God’s love uplift you both❤
Such an interesting interview with Jason. No real show timing , just a closer insight into how he was before dementia. Intelligent, dedicated, articulate.... He is an amazing person and it is sad to know where he is headed.
Thank you for sharing.
As a mother of a grown son who was also a Marine in Desert Storm and Iraqi Freedom.... I just want to reach through this screen and hug Jason. It is so touching to hear where his head and heart are. And thank you Leslie, for loving this man...past, present and future. He needs you so.
Jason, with your long term memory being so good, would you consider writing a book about your adventures? I love listening to you talk about the funny things you have been through. You're an awesome story teller!
His life has been absolutely INCREDIBLE. If he can’t write the book himself I hope she or his children do!! It would be an amazing story
Jason, you are such an amazing individual being able to describe so eloquently what you are going through. Brew away Jason. Hope you and Leslie had a great day. ❤ Leslie you are an amazing individual and my heart goes out to both of you. ❤️ I wish there was a magic pill. Jason you were so real today and no “showtime” with this interview. You were so patient and I bet so exhausted by the end. ❤
I agree.
You two are lovely
100% agree. I love the showtiming, but also love the serious side. Thank you both for documenting your journey. It is and will be so helpful to a lot of patients and caregivers...
You both are such good people. Love you both and God bless you both.
Hats off to Jason here, for navigating such a wide range of questions. I don't know the behind the scenes workings but this is so well done . Jason relayed his thoughts and gave us a clear picture of himself in different situations and times .Excellant Jason & Lesley
As a fairly new caregiver for my husband's dementia, you guys helped me greatly with this video! Thank you.
This was an amazing video. Jason was so calm and articulate. It seems like he does better in other places besides your home, maybe it doesn't feel so much like interrogation to him. It feels so unfair that someone like jason who has so much to offer the world has to have this disease. It is a testament to how much he trusts you Leslie that he will do these videos. Leslie, I know it doesn't feel like it sometimes. But you are doing a great job, and Jason is lucky to have you.
Jason,your handsome smile lit up my day. Opening the video was a great surprise to see your happy face. Thanks! for bringing all of us along on this unexpected health issue in your life’s journey. Thank you! for your service. Love, love you both.
This was EPIC🎉🎉🎉 I've been a caregiver for several dementia/alz people 😊 These q&a's Jason is doing are informative, educational and comforting for so, so many just starting their journey 🫶🏾 Thank you both for being so vulnerable and strong 🥰🥰🥰
people WITH alz/dementia NOT dementia/alz people
Always applaud you guys for sharing. It has to be a huge help to others. Especially to hear it from Jason’s point of view. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
You are a wonderful couple! I was so impressed by both of you in this interview. It was calm, quiet, upbeat, and positive. Jason, you hit it out of the park! Thank you Leslie for making this happen as you do so often and so well. Love you both.
Thank you Jason for being willing to share. Thank you Leslie for helping others come to term, understand, give care to their loved one.
Jason is such a good guy…his smile is priceless. And Leslie you are amazing. The two of you are the best. Take care of yourselves.❤
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Jason is an incredible man with an awesome sense of humor, and so intelligent and articulate. I loved all of his answers. Thank you, Leslie and Jason. Sweetest couple on UA-cam 💞
Leslie, I LOVE your sweet laughter. I know we tend to focus on that ONE mean comment, but, Girl, you SHINE! You are doing an incredible job with your very own hubby..... Have you ever heard the family laughing at a funeral? (most people will look at us sideways when we do that). We can only cry so much, then comes the laughter. It's a survival skill, AND seems to come from your joy in marriage and in CHRIST!!
Thank you Jason and Leslie.
Thank you for your service, Jason.
Our son was also in Desert Storm, 24th infantry. Bless you both.💟
Love Jason’s funny side! I always get a giggle out of his silliness while videoing. ❤
He is much more engaged by what he is proud of, projects, rather than focusing on the dementia so much..he looks so sad talking about it. I am heartbroken for him
I love you two so much. Leslie I’m a nurse and I hope that I can honor my husband as much as you honor Jason. You are both in my prayers.
Dementia really does suck 🥺🥺
Great video! Jason seemed to handle it better than some other ones. Leslie your such a kind compassionate person, that’s why Jason trusts you so much. Thanks!
Jason shared exactly what my husband shared with me. It’s amazing how they know and cope . My heart goes out to them. My heart goes out to us, we love them so
Love Jason he’s so informative. If I didn’t know during this interview I wouldn’t know he has dementia.
Leslie and Jason - I absolutely loved that segment. I think Jason felt so much more 'in control' answering your questions his way. Yes - I'm dealing with dementia from a 76 yr old partner. This 'interview' helped tremendously. ps: I still want to hear your side of everything also. ❤❤🙏🙏❤❤
He seems so aware and lucid at some level. At the beginning of this episode his eyes seemed so, I guess, almost wild but as it went on they looked more like regular Jason eyes. That make any sense.? He’s had such wonderful memories to hang on to together. You are tremendous Leslie.
I noticed that too, terry! He was looking all over the place, looked somewhat uncomfortable and unfocused, but as the questions went on, he was able to focus in on the questions.
Thank you so much for this video. My husband had primary progressive aphasia for over six years. He was diagnosed for six years but we know he had it longer than that.
Your video mirrors so many things that we went through. I joined a caregiver support group at a local church. That was helpful and helped me learn not to take some of the things that he was saying personally, and to know how to be extra cautious without letting him know that. Having a circle of friends and support team was extremely helpful.
He would plateau and be OK and then he’d take a dive downhill. I had to learn to check things like doors and water faucets. I learned to not correct, and not to argue. Reminiscing together was therapeutic and looking at old pictures also. He loved being around the grandchildren. That gave him a lot of joy. Not feeling comfortable to travel was one of the hardest things for us. Thank you again for sharing your journey. I know it’s helping a lot of others who are going through the same thing at this time.
This format was excellent. It gave Jason a chance to express himself which he seemed to enjoy. It also took some of the ‘burden’ off of you which was good. It is obvious Jadon is very intelligent, funny and charming. Dementia is so cruel. Sending hugs to you guys. 🤗💕
So good to see Jason bright-eyed and bushy tailed! You guys make such a great team dealing with dementia!
Thank you Leslie for today’s insights. Prayers for strength especially evening and nights. Nights were scary times for us with my dad’s dementia.
Jason is such a interesting, smart, funny, man….
#22 I think is the best video as of yet. Jason was relaxed, and was able to speak with ease
What a guy😍
Leslie you are amazing too❤
WOW, THIS WAS A GOOD INTERVIEW. LOVE AND BLESSINGS TO BOTH OF YOU
I had Wyze cameras in various rooms of my Dad’s house so that I could check on him when I was out. I could even speak to him through it. It was especially helpful when other caregivers were with him. I caught one in the act of wheedling money from him by watching the playback. Thank you, Jason, for your service! And, thank you both for sharing on this channel!
I so wish I would've had cameras back when I was taking care of my grandma. I would've been able to leave more. 😮
I did the same with my mom. It really helped me relax, knowing I could keep an eye on her at all times.
Love you guys and your sense of humor when things are tough with you and all you're going through. I suffer with depression and anxiety but you really help. You make me smile. I admire you two so much and love you too, you and your family. You are all special people and very brave.❤❤❤😢🙏😍🥰.
Thank you for your service, Jason! It's good to see you chipper and happy.
I love your giggles together..."It's not the cooking...it's the fires in the kitchen". Of course I realise the scare you had over the kitchen fire must have been really terrifying, but it's so lovely to see Jason's sense of humour about it. Love from the UK
Jason-you are so articulate as you answer these questions. You give us all a better understanding of what it is like to live with dementia. Thank you.
I am so happy that Jason is doing better.
I love you both, Jason and Leslie. You are two bright lights here on earth and I am praying for your family everyday. ❤🙏🏻
I appreciate your videos so much! I live with my elderly mother who has dementia. I moved in with my mother shortly after my husband passed away in 2915, and it wasn't long after I moved in that I realized something was wrong. You all help me in my own journey. God bless you both , ❤❤
Jason is so articulate- my husband forgets words so is not very conversational anymore (plus he’s hard of hearing). Excellent Q& A.
how can you not love this guy? I really enjoyed this interview, you two both have such pure hearts.
As a caregiver I feel so overwhelmed with responsibilities and trying to stay one step ahead of what my husband needs. He's having so much more difficulty with speech and doesn't want to be around anyone except family. I'm his lifeline and security. I'm feeling the weight as I know you are Leslie. As always.....🙏🙏🙏
that is really hard...
That was the best interview ever…Thank you Jason 👏👏👏🥰🙏🏻
Ur videos have been the absolute most help I've found since I self diagnosed my early onset then ultimately medically diagnosed alcohol dementia than any other information in my research. Thank u both so much
Jason is so cute and funny sometimes. Well he’s always cute. But I lost my mom to dementia so it hurts me to see what you’re both experiencing. Prayers for you guys.
Wow this was so informative. I got so choked up with gratitude and love for you both when he answered these questions. You two have become my favorite couple! You both are witty, intelligent, and very caring and devoted to each other. A great example in the world today! I loved learning more about this disease. And even though both my fathers that went through this have fulfilled their journey in this lifetime this will definitely help me be better understanding of those going through this and those caregiving that I most likely will see again. Gosh I truly pray for a cure or a slow down the progression breakthrough. Blessings to you both! 🙏♥️
I love the talks with Jason when the window opens up and allows us to see ‘Jason’. And Leslie I think women have the best laughs especially when they get together and laugh so hard.
This was great, Leslie. Great questions. Jason also seemed a bit more calm and on track this time, as well. ❤️
You 2 are the nicest people- Just a beautiful light of God's gifts- This is such a blessing because you are helping so many by educating. Thank you for taking the time to make this video and all of the other videos. You are so appreciated! Love to you both.
Thank you! In this video I can really see Jason's sweet and thoughtful, introspective side. In particular the question about your grandchildren ♥ My dad has alzheimer's and he loves, loves, loves his grandchildren as well.
God bless y’all! Y’all are Awesome people! ❤❤❤❤❤
Jason seems so calm and happy during this session. Thank you for sharing.
Jason I’m so impressed with your intelligence and your ability to articulate. You seemed more relaxed in this video. Was that the ocean we heard in the background? It sounded like waves crashing but then it also sounded like machinery. Thank you for answering our questions. Leslie, you are amazing and I’m so impressed with your knowledge also. You two make the cutest couple and I’m sorry you have to deal with this horrible issue. ❤
Leslie, i hear you and see you as a caregiver. Thank you for these videos, because they help affirm our situation for both of us.
Thank you, Jason, for speaking out and letting us know how you feel about having dementia. I'm glad you have memories that you think back on that make you happy. Your wit makes me laugh out loud.
Thank You both! You two are both impressing and inspiring with Your honesty and openness. Leslie, I understand why You fell totally for this guy. He is a keeper with his heart and soul. Jason, Your integrity and spirit leaves me in awe. I hope the decline reaches a screetching stop and You get to stay on this level for a long time. Looking forward to Your next video with cooking tips from the US to Your viewers from all over the world! ❤️🇳🇴
My thoughts exactly
Can we see pictures of you and Jason through the years?
That was a wonderful interview, Jason was so informative about his feelings and about how his disease frustrates him. Thank you for being such a wonderful caregiver and videographer!! Keep telling your story!
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I'm sure this is not easy.
This is by far the best video you two have made in a long time or maybe ever. Holding you both close to my heart as you travel this rough road.
Jason you are a wonderful man ! I pray for you each day ♥
Great post!
Especially took to heart: Caregiver often struggles with THEIR "back off" point...not always obvious when a discussion has reached that point. And definitely not always easy.
Thank you for your honesty, Jason.
AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE.
You two are so amazing! Leslie you are something special. And Jason is so brave. I want to hug both of you. I am not going through Dementia with anyone. But you two are the perfect examples a love and compassion. ❤
THANK you for this informational video. Jason looks much more relaxed today…so nice to see.
Leslie!! What an awesome video especially for newly diagnosed patients and caregivers. But I also love how Jason is able to articulate “his” feelings and emotions about certain questions. I think this is also helpful to caregivers because it demonstrates that he clearly does not want want to be a burden and that there are times when he recognizes when he was wrong but is and was unable to correct it. And when the question was posed about your marital relationship and how that’s changed, boy! He didn’t have to say a word, the emotion was all over his face!! He deeply, truly and faithfully loves you. ❤
I respect that Jason states his biggest award is based on the 'team'.
I love Jason’s upbeat attitude despite this health challenge. You are a wonderful wife and I commend you for supporting him and rolling with the punches. You guys sharing this intimate time in your life is much appreciated and will help so many caregivers. We have a place here in florida that’s called Joes place and it’s basically a daycare for people with Dementia paid for by the state of florida that gives much needed breaks to family members of those with this condition. I’m not sure if there is a program like this near you guys but I’m sure Jason could lead a group there and enjoy the break from home as well .
That would be awesome for them both. Great suggestion. ( :
This was awesome. It was almost like talking to my husband! The last video reminded me of my husband, too. It really irritates me when people think they know how he ‘should’ act, or how much he ‘should’ be able to remember. It seems like they think there’s a cookie mold, & all dementia fits into the mold, & that’s how it’s supposed to be, or….. what, we’re lying about his diagnosis? I appreciate you two so much. I’m glad you’re doing these videos. Much love to you, & God bless.
I've already read the mean insulting comment 🤨 and your reply. I love when you (Leslie) are laughing while Jason is is "show timing". I've been watching you for awhile and I'm delighted that you are still having fun together! Jesus gives us joy, peace and hope even through our darkest times. My hubby is retired USAF. I do thank Jason for his service. However, i also thank Leslie for her service. Being a spouse is hard too.
Jason, thank you for doing these videos.
I don't have anyone, at this time, with dementia in my life. My father had pick's disease and this helps me understand what he was going through.
Thank you for sharing your lives.
After watching this Q & A. I realize again that “if you’ve seen one person with dementia, you’ve seen one person with dementia “.
I wanted to reminisce with my husband , but he would cry remembering all he was losing.
Nighttime was hard as he thought going into the master bedroom was going to “that place”.
He loved to travel, too, but didn’t understand why we couldn’t. I was the bad guy in many areas. I’m still healing, and still missing my sweet husband and best friend.
Your videos help. Thanks, Leslie.
Thank you so much Jason for answering the questions! Very appreciative that you took the time from your day for us.
What a sweet, humble man! God bless you both in this journey.
Excellent interview. Thanks to you both for doing these difficult videos. Sending hugs to you both.
As always, I really enjoyed sharing time with you guys ❣️ It was wonderful to see Jason “at peace” and being able to answer questions with ease. I equally appreciate when it’s too difficult and Jason just doesn’t want to and can vocalize it. We can fully appreciate the highs and lows.
I find it so sad that people can share disparaging remarks when you are doing your best to educate us.
(And that being said, I was going to comment on the video that I think you had to turn off comments 😢. I think it was the video where Jason said he just wanted to be left alone and felt you checked up on him too much. It made me wonder if you had security cameras and wondered if it was something that might work for you. Our cameras can give a live feed to an app on my phone/iPad but also trigger a message when movement is seen and you can enable face recognition for specific people too. I thought it could be a way that would give Jason the space he wants when he wants it, but gives you peace of mind, Leslie, that you can check on him quietly ❤). Hugs to you both!
Super interview, Jason and Leslie! Good to keep the time length as you did, so it is enjoyable for you both. I enjoyed this format.
Thank you so much for sharing. Your helping me as well as many others I’m sure. It was reassuring to hear that Jason’s short term
Memory comes and goes. My husband is the same and it can be very frustrating at times! We are also dealing with deteriorating physical health as my husband also has Parkinson’s . Sometimes it can feel like too much. I urge others to have a back up plan in mind as it has been difficult this last week when I have been dealing with a bad summer cold. Thanks for listening.
Thanks for answering so many questions!
You both are truly remarkable human beings.
Oh Jason... I think you are such an incredible man ! Leslie you are an incredible woman ! My Husband has stage 5 mixed dementia ... ( Vascular/ Alzheimers ) . Jasons happy personality makes me smile and gives me a chance to calm down in my own life while dealing with our journey in dementia... Everyones journey in Dementia is different ... but we all have the incredibly hard life... We have been married for 53 years.... and there are ups and downs ... good days and bad days... but we were in love a long time ago and we still are today ! LOVE to you both and God Bless !
God Bless you both 🙏🙏 my late husband also suffered from dementia that was related to his vascular disease and Parkinson’s. My heart breaks for both of you. Thanks for sharing 😊
It’s not easy putting your life out there, it shows courage and commitment for your cause to educate others! Everyone’s story is different and by doing these videos someone out there may find comfort. Great job to both of you! 😊
Thank you so much Leslie and Jason for this Q & A.
Wow! Great video. Entertaining and also useful for others going through the adventures of cognitive decline in their family. Jason is handsome, humorous, and so dang intelligent. His wife is a fantastic life partner, a beauty, and an intelligent and sensitive caregiver. Despite his dementia, they are a power couple‼️‼️‼️
Such a wonderful man! Leslie, you are an Angel. Hugs to you both ❤
Thank you so much for your bravery in sharing your answers to these questions. I can't tell you how helpful this is to me as a caregiver for my husband.
You are an amazing couple doing a terrific service with your honest talks on Alzheimers
Love this show. I couldn't pull myself away from the computer. Very informative for sure.
I watch your videos regularly. I'm so inspired by you both as a couple, your new roles as they develop and also as individuals. I've never commented but I always enjoy and learn from them. Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable, both of you. I wish I could express just how reassuring it is to see a common denominator of love and kindness.
Leslie and Jason great interview. God job Leslie!!!!❤
It so hurts my heart that dementia is robbing Jason of the life he so obviously loves. His sense of humor is over the top and he would be a joy to spend time with.