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There’s a difference between living “with” your parents and living “off” your parents.
facts!!
hmm, in some sence it is the same
I think he is talking about even if your parents live with you. To truly be a man you need to have your own tree under your roof.
@@barz7377 who decided that? these self proclaimed men? you know how unappealing some of these men are that focus so much on manliness to impress women? they come off as too arrogant
@apple seed I agree. I will say their is some life experience to some degree that you won't experience not being on your own. It's not just about being a man. It's about the process of being responsible and a adult.
This depends on the culture... The world doesn't revolve around you Americans, you know
Being a self-sustaining man isn’t an “American”, trait.
It’s universal.
@@TASconfidential this comment is dumb
@@TASconfidential and what about old parents...
Exactly
@@TASconfidential taking care of your parents isn't an American trait too i guess..
“You’re not a man” this is American thinking. everyone has different situations but never free load of your parents. I brought a house and invited my parents. I’ll never put them in a retirement home that’s the sad thing to do
As long as they understand that it's YOUR household and NOT theirs. Just in case they get any ideas of trying to infantilize you.
This cartoon doesn’t speak for America. He speaks for mentally stunted cartoon people.
"I work on a computer for a living, I'm gonna put on a black polo and tell people how to be manly"
And that too without proper grooming
To be more specific, " I clean the mess that got inside of the computers, belonging to guys that are in a long term romantic relationship with their hands!"
😅😅
He makes more than enough money to live on his own, so...
@@obitouchiha6439Still doesn't make him a man.
@@SilentMerc331 Yes it does. He doesn't live like a child/dependent.
This is western culture... And a primary reason why a lot of westerners are poor.
Primary reason why you are a bigot
They will never understand this lol
As a westerner who moved in with his dad and grandmother recently because both need help around the house, I absolutely hate how most people in our culture view living with your parents. I get being a freeloader is crap, but if you're taking care of your family what is there to look down on? I think people who just throw their family members in a home should be looked down on worse than an adult who lives with and takes care of his family.
@@dothvarter well yeah... If you're not living with your family like some cultures, you're going to be poor. People always want to make it on their "own", but are never part of a community. That's why they're poor. Even if you make as high as 80k, you're still going to be poor because guess what? All that money is going to go towards what you need. And god forbid you get into a medical emergency that put you out of work for months, plus a bill that your insurance won't fully cover. You'd be financially screwed.
Americans are always about "individuality", but never part of a community that pools resources. THAT is primarily why they're poor, and why most of them will work until they die.
It's a psyop mostly by rich folks who were born into rich families of businessmen and women and make money off of renting out and selling properties to low and middle class people and make it more difficult for young people to buy or rent their first property.
Ok. If nobody’s care about my problems why care if I live with my parents?
Thats what i comment bro ... if nobody cares why doing this video??
@@cosmesalido1338 Because this guy is a typical out of touch and narrow minded rich schmuck.
Exactly. This comment should be pinned to the top. Someone elses living situation isnt anyone elses business and other people need to focus on themselves
Exactly
you have a point bro I was also thinking the same.
In asian culture it’s normal for the kids to look after their parents when they are old. So it really depends on what country your from but I assume your only talking about white American men.
Looking after parents when they are old, means that they are Living with you and you are the person who is providing. This is a good trait of manhood.
@@TASconfidential too bad women dont see it that way yet expect you to accept her kids
In Asia people live with their parents life long so this is definitely for Western culture.
The problem with living with your parents is that she feels your diverting money away from her to look after your elderly parents. Most women would rather your parents die in a nursing home just so she can get the latest handbag and jewellery more often.
If you living on your own indelendentlty: One Credit. If you are independently living with your parents because you are caring for them: TWO Credits.
I don't live with my parents, my parents live with me
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My parent actually does live with me...and it's pretty much the same thing. I don't recommend it. Be on your own and fast.
There’s really no difference... maybe if you have a really big house like 5,000sqft then yea
I'm not stuck in here with you your stuck in here with me
I don’t care being a Man, I don’t want to live without my parents ❤️
Me too..who gives u fcuk what he says 😂
I love my parents too much, we get along pretty well, rarely fight, I help them put when they need it, I pay them to live there. Especially in these difficult times its better to stay with family (if they care about you and are good people)
Yea if you get along with them it fine
Im not a man anyways, im short. Thus a manlet
A real man wouldn't sit in front of a camera to preach jibberish to others about a bunch of generalizations
Thank you
Glad to see we all disagree with this prick
If you are over 30.and live at home with parents you are a loser
Exactly, a real man wouldn’t care about this dudes opinion, they would do what they want to do.
This is literally an American mindset. My Caribbean family and cousins all lived together and next to each other for 2 decades, and we all helped each other out financially to become successful. My sister and I lived with my parents until we were both 31. We saved and invested enough to comfortably pay off debt and live on our own. My sister, who is a doctor, is now married w/ kids, I just got married and am an accountant. All my first cousins are now married and living on their own as well.
America has to stop this BS of gaslighting after someone turns a specific age they need to be out of the house because this is destroying the family nucleus
You know how many times I've stated this to people these mfs never listen all tgey do is complain about bills yet these parents say nope it's my house you go get your own while still deep in depth its supposed to be a team thing to pat off depth especially if you have 12 kids grown up in the house working off the depth to pass it own to another house
America won't stop because the top 5% owns all the real estate, they will always be rich as long as Americans keep thinking they need to rent a place ASAP after finishing college lmao
Depends. Elon musk living with his parents will destroy this argument. If you are successful, nobody gives a fuck
Facts ! Its social conditonning that makes ppl rush to get their own place
Bingo! 💯
It's like, you're not a man unless you own your own house!
Even if you're not successful, you're still a real man for taking care of your family. That's most important.
Wow a man putting down other men if they live with their parents. Real mature. Men, do what makes you happy and if your parents are happy with their adult son living at home, then that’s no ones business.
I think most men would be happier if they didn't live with their parents. I lived with my father until I was 28 and moving out did wonders for my self esteem.
@@benchristensen7754 good for you
@@benchristensen7754 you THINK but not actually know?
Real insight my dude
@@benchristensen7754 sometimes living with your parents until you're properly stable to be on your own is better than just living with them just because you know because you only live with your parents as a grown up but don't contribute don't have a job or isn't having a goal or a dream and just being a freeloader then yeah that's just not a man
Yup
If you pay your parents rent, clean up after yourself and overall responsible then you are independent
If you still have to follow your parent's rules, are you really independent?
@@obitouchiha6439 depends on the rules, if it's all the things I've mentioned then your mostly independent. You would have to do the same with a roommate and even by yourself. But if your parents rules are strict then no
@@24week61 Realistically, most parents are not that chill, which in a way makes sense since it's not their job to be their son's/daughter's friend.
@@obitouchiha6439What would you consider “rules”
@@Tranquility._ They can threaten to kick you out if you do anything that goes against their religious and cultural beliefs.
My mother has cancer and is unfit to work. I help give her company and don't rely on her financially - what is this ignorant video?
Then he says "nobody cares about your problems"...so if nobody cares, then why make an ignorant video?
Wow! This comment and other comments make me feel better
I do the exact same for my father and grandmother. People like this guy are useless. Taking care of your family regardless of what anyone says or thinks makes you a real man.
@@brandocalrissian3294don’t listen to this idiot in this video. In fact don’t ever listen to any westerner who tries to shame you for living with your parents, especially if you’re helping them with rent and caring for them. These people only understand individualism and selfishness, they do not know the meaning of community or collectivism. It’s all about ‘me me me’ for them. Yet they wonder why their divorce rate is so high 🙄
Just because you are living with ur parents, doesn't mean you're depending on them. We live with our parents for love, not for their money.
Come on Americans!
Sometimes people live with their parents maybe because they're elderlies and cannot do something without another person help
@@CCP-Dissident right that it
I take care of my parents now that I'm able to. But man, I have some friends who have parents that are downright scum. I can see why they needed to get out of the household. It depends on who the parent is.
@@CCP-DissidentI recently left my apartment and moved in with my grandmother and father because both need help around the house and I refuse to have them live in a home or something. I love them. Yeah, my social life has taken a hit because I'm 34, but I would never forgive myself if I just threw money around and put them in a home.
Not all Americans are saying that
Lol I am a man. And I'm not going to abandon my family to prove that I'm one. My value comes from what I do for others now where I pay my head. Praise God.
In subcontinent we live with our parents for whole life😂
Yes 😂
its really pathetic. im also indian. and I hate that. here people actually cant afford to move out once they are over 18 because there isn't any space left in India. its almost impossible.
@@nishuboi2009 naw man you can move out or move to another city if you really want to
@@IndiaAgainstSlaveryIAS if everyone starts following the American culture then there wouldn’t be any space to even walk on the streets.
@@nishuboi2009 not everyone has to. If you really want to,you can. If you like living with parents then you can do that as well without having any judgement. I personally live with my parents at 30 as I am involved in my family business which operates out of our residence and also am involved in social work with my father's organisation.
This guy clearly doesn't love his parents
What type of toxic ass leverage thinking is this? "If you loved your parents, then you would refrain from doing whatever you want." LOL.
@@obitouchiha6439My brain cells just got fried from reading that. 😂
@@Geo-Global-oz5kl Still sniffing that COPEium?
yeah but some of us was born into poverty, I live with my parents and I have saved up tons from it.
I’m glad people are checking this guy in the comments and not all blindly agreeing
“Stop blaming prices” is the wildest thing I’ve heard this week, such a toxic mindset
We could literally be living in a second Great Depression and it be like you’re not a man unless you are living on your own.
If the point of view is to be responsible for your own life we must have a fighting mindset to not blaming the prices
@@punyatabunganyou’re an Uber driver bro join the revolution
In Serbia, and most Balkan countries, living with parents is considered manly, opposed to living a lonely, recluse, isolated life alone. Take care of your parents, they are not immortal! Spend much time with them, and cherish those moments. Do not let this typical american lifestyle change you.
Pa to je jedino prirodno, roditelji djeca, none i nonići, rodbina da živi zajedno i blizu, američko društvo je bolesno... djeca se odsele tisucama kilometara daleko i vide se s roditeljima za božić svake prijestupne, plaćaju skupe stanove i kredite za fakultet cjeli život.. bolesno.. a onda roditelji odu u starački dom i svi ih zaborave. Trebamo sačuvati naše običaje i kulturu
What's wrong with living alone?
It’s okay to live with your parents
Not really.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive That’s just your opinion
@@BulldogMindsetArchive ikr huh I'm good on that
If you're okay with them having the authority to dictate what you can and cannot do, sure. 🤷🏻♂️
@@obitouchiha6439 I live with my parents they don't dictate what is that I do , I'm an independent man
Never judge a book by its cover you goof
Ikr!
Who exactly gets to define what a Man is and isn’t? You? You can be a manly man if you live with your parents. There I said it
True, he’s likely trying to talk about the men in society that are weak. It’s smart to live at home but not if your leeching off others and not contributing to yourself or the house. There comes a time that if your not preparing and bettering yourself while living at home then WTF are you doing. It’s a short video so he just went for the main topic of the message.
Respectfully disagree. I take care of a sick parent and don't think of it as a hindrance. It was mutually beneficial. I got to save enough for a Master's and a house while living with my dad and he got chronic care. I'm 31. If a woman can't accept that then whatever.
As a woman, i would accept that. Do what u need to do.
@@katlovegood4921he's an outlier. Majority of people living with their parents are moochers
I'm 40, I recently went through a hard divorce
I live with my mom for about 7 to 8 months now.
I make sure my child support is covered and I help out my ex and mom the best I can.
But things just don't seem to get better.
My mindset and depression is bad
Very toxic environment.
My problems and my life.
I hope everything is ok now!! :)
I'm so so sorry. I really hope too, that things are better for you. If they aren't yet, please don't give up. Take it one day at a time, one goal at a time. There's always hope and you can change things at any given moment. God bless🙏🌸
Meanwhile this man says you’re not a man. What a jerk 😤
You're not the only one dealing with a divorce, child support or any other issues related to that. You're blessed to be young enough to still work and provide. If you really want to know how blessed you are, walk into a cancer center & observe all the individuals who wish they were in your shoes.
@@joeshmoe8952 and many who wouldn't want to be in those shoes. It's a bad place to be, regardless if others are also going through the same or worst things.
I don't live with my parents
My parents live with me
I pay for the household.
Proud to be indian 🇮🇳😎
“No one cares about your problems”. That statement literally causes rebellions.. every time
Gotta disagree with this one. Strategy > mindset, esp in the short/medium term. You can execute a strategy even with bad mindset. I agree that living with your parents is bad for mindset (ask me how I know) but often it's ok to sacrifice short term independence for long term gain and doing so doesn't make you less of a man (although the world will certainly see you as less of one).
Do what you gotta do and accept the consequences of your actions, but don't let others dictate whether you are a man or not.
If done correctly, living with your parents can help you save enough to buy a home free and clear.
@@MetehanArslan I asked yours but she told me to just keep hitting it
“No one cares about your problems. No one cares about your excuses.”
How bout we actually work towards becoming a society that has COMPASSION towards another person’s situation. How about we actually have CONVERSATIONS and discuss things and LEARN about one another rather than judging people on surface level bullshit with this “one size fits all” nonsense. We might actually be more productive and happier if we actually did that.
We live with our parents our whole life and our children lives with us their whole life and that's continue on and on..
We're Asian🤗
What if your child decides to move out, regardless? 🤷🏻♂️
@@obitouchiha6439Never. No Asian children will ever do that.
@@AB-ux4kp Buddy, I'm Asian and I moved out at 16. What are you talking about? LOL.
@@obitouchiha6439 Good for you.
@@obitouchiha6439 india.
You say you aren’t judging but you are LMAO “you are not a man”
I'm only saying the truth.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive In your mind. To us rational adults you are spewing toxic and ignorant BS.
Don't listen to this moron , if you move away from home make sure it is for a good reason like getting a job in another city or getting married
@@David-vt9hr Nobody is required to get married to move out. Some of us prefer to live alone. 🤷🏻♂️
Based on what? What is your “truth” based on?
Take care of your mom when you are 30 and she is 60, she gave you everything, give something back. You are more a man If you take care of your parents 👍
I still take care of my mom. You just don't have to live under their roof to do so.
You're not legally obligated to give anything back just because you were brought into existence against your will.
@@obitouchiha6439 and who raised
@@obitouchiha6439 You?
@@balebinaku6684 A couple of bigoted religious nut jobs who believe in theocracy and are financially irresponsible, which led them to have kids while poor. I'll be damned before I sacrifice the finances needed to continue living on my own.
I'm 34. My parents are awesome. I built my own house on a trailer and have it parked on their land. I pay rent. I pay all my own bills and work full time. I enjoy spending time with my parents and want to enjoy our time together while they are still alive (in their late 60s). Their house will be mine when they die anyway so why leave? I've lived on my own before and it was nothing but struggle and loneliness, now with all the money I save, I have gone on vacations around the world. I have no interest in having kids or getting married any time soon so why would I move out, waste money on rent, and spend all my time alone? It's one thing if living at home is toxic but if not, try to see the good aspects. People who say you NEED to move out obviously don't have good relationships with their parents or have bought into capitalist bs of "everyone needs to buy a house".
Depends on what culture you live in of course, but in the US even if you are dependent financially, but still living on parent's property, women are not going to be interested.
All a women thinks in that scenario is "he makes money, but he wont move out... why?".
If you don't care about finding a woman, then yea I see no issue.
@@someone-ji2zb Well, I'm gay and have happily been in a relationship for a year... in fact he's thinking of moving in... my parents absolutely love him lol I'm 100% financially independent. Like I said in the original post though, I'm gonna get the house when they die and they're gonna need someone to care for them eventually so why would I move? It makes no sense when I get to travel the world with all this extra money.
@@MrMountainchris Ok, you are talking about a man though. Big difference between what a man can accept in a relationship and what a woman will.
@@someone-ji2zb Honestly that's really shallow. Lots of people live with family for a variety of reasons... American society is entirely based in consumerism which is the only reason anyone here thinks that it's somehow bad to do this. The people in charge want you in debt, they want you to buy crap you don't need to fuel their fortunes.... I reject all that. Only things that matter in life are friends, family, and experiences. If you look at the majority of the non--western world people live with multiple generations in a household and are happier for it. Our society is sick and vapid. But to each their own.
@@MrMountainchris I don't disagree, but in the US it simply isn't like that and likely never will be again.
For thousands of years, most of the planet's cultures had their kids stay with them until marriage, both man and woman. It was never viewed as some kind of failure.
Past 30 and I live with my parents but I pay half rent and other bills and buy my own food and shit. I dont mooch off of them. Almost finished with my Bachelor's Degree and then I will be moving out. If a girl don't like it oh well.
Facts
True that. If she really likes you, you don't care where you live
You true king 👑
tysm, I just kicked out my newborn baby telling him to work at mcdonalds instead of freeloading smh
Good job, you're an alpha among alpha men. Kicking out family to be self made is the american way
@@Alaskanman alpha? more like sigma
That's the American thing to do
@@Alaskanman nah paying rich, bloodsucking, parasitic landlords’ mortgages for them, so they can get 3 or more homes, makes you a man
Making shitty videos like this that noone asked for… that makes you an alpha
Having more money to travel, eat healthy, have hobbies, invest, eventually buy your own home and just generally enjoy life more… that makes you a beta male cuck
A newborn baby is not an adult.
If nobody cares about my problems then why care about my life choices??
I prefer to live and take care of my parents .
I love the premise of motivating people by putting them down. This is the culture that needs to end.
For real.....I'm sick and tired of the constant unsolicited meaningless advice
This guy is probably a secret Landlord who is just mad because you are not renting on his Property to make him rich
@@andradeb2695That or he's just an asshole.
I’m 34 and I live with my mom
😂😂😂😂😂
I am 26, same her too
@@abdiguhad1784 what you do for work
@@Scars_on_my_nose I work supermarket
@@Scars_on_my_nose I living in Europe Norway
I’ll become a man when or IF rent becomes less expensive 😂
Yea I am sick of hearing this crap from people much older. It isn't like it was before... average rent in the US is $1,100, and they almost all ask for triple the asking price in monthly income as a requirement.
How many 20-30 year olds are making $3,300 a month? Not many... in 2021, average income of single men under the age of 40 was $39k a year.
Agreed. It’s bullshit.
"if you're dependant on your parents" just because you make excuses not to take care of your parents doesn't mean we all do! ☺️
How much you wanna bet this dude sends his parents to a nursing home
Living with your parents as a grown ass adult means that you sacrifice your right to do whatever you want. As long as you live under their roof, you live by whatever rules they demand that you follow. If you're okay with that, then by all means, keep living with them.
@@obitouchiha6439 well, if u pay the bills and the house is under ur name then no, they live in ur house 🤷♀️
@@katlovegood4921 in this economy, most millenials only have enough money to rent a 1 bedroom apartment, just barely. Anyways, nobody has any legal obligation to be their parents caretakers, some of us are not family oriented, and that's okay, that's our right.
@@katlovegood4921 And one other thing, it is extremely difficult to date and have a sex life if one is living with their parents. Super awkward.
Yeah, to make it short, "ABANDON YOUR PARENTS LIKE THEY ARE TOTALLY STRANGERS".... Your son will abandon you too when you old
That has nothing to do with what I said. I care for my parents very much, in fact I hired 2 full time employees to watch my mom who has Parkinson's. But you can't become a man until you leave the bird's nest.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive Translation: I put her in a retirement home so I don't have to deal with her because I'm a narcissistic fuckface.
@@jackcarraway4707 The man has his own damn life to live, for f*ck's sake.
So you think that young adults are not entitled to have a life that doesn't include their parents? That's crazy.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive its disgusting you should yourself take care of her or atleast be with her
like a wise Indian man once said " how do you live like that " family is everything only in America do you see children throw there parents in a nursing home to be left and forgotten
Living with your parents as a grown ass adult means that you sacrifice your right to do whatever you want. As long as you live under their roof, you live by whatever rules they demand that you follow. If you're okay with that, then by all means, keep living with them.
@@obitouchiha6439 whatever you want....that depends on how you raised....a family men will take take care of his loved ones his entire life....thats what makes him happy
@@souldevil6997 I was raised by religious, conservative parents who don't believe in freedom or moving out before marriage, but I moved out while single, regardless of their feelings. Free will is always a dominating factor.
@@obitouchiha6439 i am providing and living with my parents by my choice.....that makes me happy and proud of my self...
@@souldevil6997 That's the point. You have the choice to make the decision. Not being forced.
people with healthy relationships with their parents be chillin in the living room
Still precludes them from being the man. It's just the reality.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive The man that you are, is how you treat others and how hard you are able to work in order to get what you want. As you know, rent is high. You say stop blaming prices and society. You know how much a home is nowadays? This generation has been given a more difficult life then past generations. As for these boomers, they can sit behind their multi million dollar home that they got for less then half a million back in the old days, while saying ‘When I was your age’ all they want. And adults living with their parents is due to inflation. More inflation, means more houses will be foreclosed. Which means more people will be homeless, which also means the crime rate will go up, because some people resort to robbing places to make money, or even allow themselves to get caught on purpose just so they can get three meals a day, roof over their head etc. I do think though, at a certain age people need to be able to provide for themselves. Stop wondering why more adults live at home, and look at how much the average house costs here in BC. A lot of people live with their parents because they need help paying for the house, and vice versa.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive signing a lease doesn't make you a man , your character your persona , how you treat others is what makes you a man being independent starts with your mindset
@@hudsongraham649 Get roommates. 🤷🏻♂️
@@obitouchiha6439 Not everyone wants to live with other people. But, unfortunately, you have to be a millionaire to live by your self in a house here in BC. The best the average middle class person can do here on their own is a Condo. I heard a story of a couple that worked three jobs, but still can’t afford a house. People making 100k a year and still living pay check to pay check, and my walking trails getting destroyed just so that they can make this unaffordable development. But, according to this idiot in the video, a real man doesn’t live with their parents even if they help with the rent. And, what, living with roommates that you don’t even really know, almost basically strangers, moving in with them makes you a real man? That’s illogical
So all our ancestors who lived 3 sometimes even 4 generations to a single house were never men? It’s only recent generations that were able to even purchase houses. With this economy no one should be ashamed to live with their parents. If interest rates keep going up I think a lot of people will be.
My brother went through a giant rough patch his senior year of college and had to move back home. He is 27 now and lives at home, but he works ~50 hours/week, pays for his own car, insurance, etc. the only thing he really doesn’t pay for is food. He’s managed to save up a lot of money over the past few years and is going to start looking for a place of his own soon now that I’ve moved out for college. He’s been through more I’m his life than most people could ever imagine (without getting into the details) and even though he lives at home, he’s most definitely a a man.
@@aodhan7 And where does it say I have to do that? Quite frankly, the details are not the business of random people on the internet.
Why don't you dorm with him then?
If you feel the need to put other men down and judge them because of things they maybe can't help, YOU'RE not a man. REAL men don't spend their lives posting cringe videos telling others how to live their lives. REAL men don't need to be led like a dog, letting others tell them what to do. Also living "with" parents and living "off" parents aren't the same thing.
it's funny that when I worked in IT and tended to the tech in many hospitals and nursing homes, most of the elderly who were abandoned by their children there had that same personality as this dude. The irony is that these "independent" people are now on disability and are a huge money pit on taxpayer dollars just to stay alive.
So much for being "independent" when the taxpayer needs to spend to keep these people alive... IF these people were REALLY independent, they wouldn't have need any form of government assistance, even AFTER retirement.
It really depends on the situation. I live at home but I pay them rent. Also I'm saving money to buy a property all the while working full time and going to college. The rent in my area is insanely high and I could never save enough to buy a property living by myself. As long as your working on improving yourself and trying your best to get out of the situation you're good. Don't listen to this alpha male bs.
I support myself off $60k a year and have been on my own for 8 years but I don't think it's anyone's place to call a man "not a man" for their living situation. Let's lift each other up and realize our government is who we should look sideways at.
This is bad advise for those who need a chance to save money for a house instead of pissing rent money.
He says I am not judging you then goes on judging.
I recently got out of the military to live at my dad's house because he is very sick and can't live alone. I can easily get my own apartment, but why fill up a crooked landlord's bank account when I can put the same money into the mortgage and any needed repair/remodel to the house?
But according to this 🤡 I'm not a man.
In every culture in the world besides white American culture people live with their parents and take care of them and it’s normal. This whole living on your own thing is becoming less and less feasible for most Americans anyway with the cost of living going up. And shaming people for it - especially the young generation - needs to
stop.
the false sense of "independence" and "freedom" is a method to keep people poor in order to maintain their social status. If people keep spending money for their "independence" they'll remain desperate enough to accept poor working conditions from their employers to maintain it.
Well I'm 34 living with my mom. Can't move out cause housing prices. I don't want to rent. Also I have to pretend to be broke out my ex will take me for more child support.
Don't care lol
Thanks for the engagement.
The Way, House prices are going for the majority of middle-class and under people houses will be only achieved by inheritance. I wouldn’t be surprised if babies now end up living with the hole family in a single house
To asian friends ,when American says "living with your parents" it is more than physical act of staying at same house with parents , it means living on parents money and not contributing anything .
That is opposite of living with parents mean in Asian countries where when the kids get older they assume the duty of earning and providing for the family . That is entirely different concept which Americans may not be famlier with
No, when Americans say don’t live with parents they’re really mean don’t live with your parents in any shape or form. I’m American, but I’m also Mexican and Black and in my culture you live with your parents in a multi-generational home till you get married and move in with your husband’s family or if your parents are elderly you stay with them to take care of them. A white American woman shamed me for not having my own home when I was 18 because she thought it was disgraceful that I stayed home with my parents even though I was staying home to take care of them.
The thing is, in America, child abuse is very common, so a lot of children don't want to feel obligated to take care of the person who may have beat them, molested them.
This can be said about US and their social dynamics.
For the rest of the world, we live with parents. The people who live with their parents pay for all bills, take care of our old parents who get sick and lonely. This is more manly than your idea of man 😜 If you define manhood with responsibility ;)
There is a diff3nce between living with your parents and living off your parents
True.
I had everything… a job, a girl, health, until I suffered from a back injury. Any idea how miserable you can feel if everything fel away? Yes, i still live with my parents and its not always easy ! “If your enlightened, go live with your parents “ they tell! And it’s true ! Let no one tell you if your a man ar not ! There to many talking heads on the internet who only see thing’s from their perspective!
Depending on your parents is shameful. But depending on the government is perfectly acceptable.
Neither are commendable.
Landlords like this Advice and are willing to put your message in BillBoards! "These Hooligans need to move out and rent on my property to make me Rich" Tenants Wanted!
I think this guy owns land and rents living spaces, so it's no wonder he is shaming people into giving more than half of their income to give him equity.
This guy is living a superhero movie where the aliens only know of the USA.
Being able to take care of your old parents is the manliest thing in my opinion.
I’m going through this right now, moved back home at 35 because of the pandemic, saved up a ton and help my parents with the bills and chores. I’m single, healthy, own my car, investing, have no debt, a great job and career opportunities, the only thing I lack is privacy. I Have the funds for a down payment on a house but waiting on things to settle down in this chaotic world. Now the question is, come this spring 2023, do I move out and throw my money away with rent (a decent apt is around $2k in my area) or stay at home. I think I’m going to end up renting. I definitely need my own space especially at 36. Opens more opportunities when it comes to the social life. But at the same time, the fact I have two loving parents who are getting older is something I shouldn’t overlook. Time is flying.
Thanks for sharing. Great that your family is willing to keep you in 100%, but to be a man, you just have to be on your own.
@@BulldogMindsetArchiveand apparently broke, homeless and miserable. Good to know. Great advice.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive Bruh, no offense but you come off as the beta in this conversation.
Living with your parents doesn't always means dependent on your parent
World doesn't revolve around US
Than if nobody cares about you and your problems than why caring if you live with your parents???
Boom. Exactly. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t say you don’t care about somebody’s problems but then lecture them on where they should live lmao
Being a hypocritical idiot is a must to be an "aLpHa MaLe"
shot from his mothers bathroom.
I felt bad until I read the comments. This guy with a pony tail is making me feel bad lol
I think alot of people misunderstood what he said. I doesn't mean living with your parents, it's living off your parents. Alot of people who live with their parents are dependent on them financially.
Nah he is shaming men who live w their parents even if they are paying rent
@@x97s who cares lol
I bet he doesnt agree with you. Read some of his replies to the comments.
Paying rent or not, it’s not really the point. His main argument is that by doing so it mentally cripples you and stunts your growth. The freedom is not the same as completely living on your own.
@@gracieluf424 - so, people who have roommmates are stifling their growth because they dont do it all by themselves?
I'm sorry man, my parents are elderly..I'm not blaming anyone, I happy to help my parents..and I don't have a job yet but I do drive them to their appointments, do their errands, cooking and help around the house..that's honestly the least I can do for them..
Cultural differences. This is mostly a western thing. Indians even those with high end degrees live with their parents.
He talking about living with parents to save money, and leaving them to become a real man.
Me, who live in a society where men live with their parents to provide them well in their old age, so that they can live thier rest of life without worries.
"Bulldog mindset"
*"Little dog syndrome"*
Bullshit Mindset
Applied for 1000s of jobs , can’t get any call backs
Time to hit the streets after dark.
This obtuse dork doesn't care what struggles people are having finding jobs that pay enough to move out, he only cares that you find one and move out.
Living with your parents is a sign of love and respect and it shows that how much you care them in their old ages
Coooooopppeeeee
It’s crazy how much Life opens up out there when you are rid of that pesky rent payment every month. Doors open up you don’t even know about. You can actually live a life when you don’t have to pay 15-3500 a month. It’s a whole different world you’re living in when you stay with your parents and don’t have to pay.
Bro you live with a woman you don’t live on your own are y’all going half on the bills?
I think id rather date a man who lives with his parents. I would think its suspicious if an unmarried single man has his own house
He's 100% correct. Do it if you must, but don't pretend we are peers.
Nope, when I become financially independent, I would still want my mom to live with me so that she can take care of me.
Im not even a man, but this is super hurtful.
Don't let social media dictate your situation. Everyone is on their own timeline. You move out when you have your finances in order, gainfully employed with a strong career, reliable transportation, built good credit, and when you feel comfortable about your situation.
People are quick to judge. Don't let them push you out, and then you're in an even worse situation, living pay check to pay check with no game plan or savings. Then you take on more credit card debt and loans you can't afford. It's not cool in my book, lol.
I hope this message helps those understand that there is no rush here. While in your 20s and 30s come up with a game plan to have a career and do your research on what it is you want to do in life. I'm in my early 30s and when I decided to switch careers into tech as a Software Engineer I did the necessary steps to achieve my goal. Best of luck to everyone and their life journey. 😅
@@regulus7181 Yep, still in tech.
@aodhan7 I switched careers by doing a 4-month coding bootcamp. I already graduated from college back in 2013 with a bachelors degree in Broadcast Communications. I was kind of fed up with the pay, and I didn't want to take 2 years getting another degree in computer science, so I thought a coding bootcamp was the best option for me.
TLDR : rushing into a relationship with a good girl will only ruin the possibility of respect
Im 24 years old with alot of creative skills i spent my teen’s learning while avoiding real life shit/ not being instructed well in the first place cause my dad worked most of the time neglecting the real life conversations because it was work home eat sleep so practical things like son this is how u xyz was often looked over…I spent the last two years dating a woman that wasn’t all the way put together herself but is much more of an adult when we met i was staying on my godparents couch in the middle room she was there during my godsis bday n we vibed i let her know that i wasn’t really in a position to be someones man but she was willing to try fast forward and she slowly fell out of love being with a 24 year old man that doesn’t know how to take good care of himself I realized it and broke it off but now it seems like i used her cuz while chasing my goal building my brand to her it just seemed like i was waisting money being a starving artist
Ok look, I see a lot of people getting on to this man for speaking FACTS! Im dealing with this exact situation right now with my husband. You want to look at your husband as the protector but if he can't even stand up to his parents for you, you loose respect for him. My husband works and so do I but we are saving up to move out. But I honestly feel like it puts a HUGE strain on your relationship with your in laws! The sad part is I really think he would be fine with living with them for the rest of his life, and I feel like I'm the only one pushing him to leave. Any advice?? I want to be able to have a good relationship with his parents but it is not possible living under the same roof because his father verbally abuses both of us but more me than anyone else. If anyone has any advice it would be much appreciated!
Ask yourself how much this relationship means to you. By pushing him to move out, you're destroying his financial future. If you don't think it'll last, then don't burden him with the task of moving out. Just leave him.
So, it's "lose," not "loose." "Loose" is used to describe something that is not tightly secured to an object. Also, do you both have enough to move out? Do you make enough on your own to sustain yourself, without your husband and his family?
We live with our parents to provide for our parents and not living them alone and it’s better than not even caring even if the die
Living with your parents as a grown ass adult means that you sacrifice your right to do whatever you want. As long as you live under their roof, you live by whatever rules they demand that you follow. If you're okay with that, then by all means, keep living with them.
@@obitouchiha6439 oh really ? Mostly all the Indians live in a joint family and they are very happy bro!! And you are being disrespectful towards your parents.
@@funwithsurabhi9002 An individual wanting to move out and live their own life is "disrespectful?" That's crazy. LOL.
@@obitouchiha6439 Leaving w your parents is sacrificing your rights ?
I guess according to you abandoning your old parents is good
I lived with my parents until 42. I worked a full time job and pay a the bills nothing wrong
If you’re rich sure get out. For the majority of us we don’t want 90% of our pay cheque going to rent
You’re a man regardless of how wealthy you are. Some men are making minimum wage and doing hard work. What’s wrong with that? It’s better than stealing or being homeless.
There are factors, not excuses, that contribute to delayed independence: competence, learning disabilities, economic opportunities, not knowing what field you would be competent in, undertaking career paths that don't work out and starting back at square one, being in the process of learning skills to qualify for a career that pays enough to be independent, finding a way to qualify for jobs when you have no experience that almost every employer demands once those skills are attained.
It's not my responsibility to provide for other people, and why would I respect any woman who is that judgmental?
I am currently learning skills for a career field that I hope to God will finally let me be independent, in the meantime I am man enough to tell you to GFY.
I don't disagree with you at all. However, until you move out, you still won't be a man.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive You're entitled to your opinion of what a "man" is. At any rate, you gave me something to think about, specifically to be careful not to be objectified as a provider. What if, God forbid, something happens that takes your wealth, or renders you physically invalid, are you confident that your wife would stick with you?
Life happens, and you could find yourself back to your before pictures, so don't be so apt to judge.
I'm doing what I need to do to improve my situation. Until then, my opinion of you stands. As I said, GFY.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive Is this the only criteria you use for determining "being a man."
True! The longer you are dependent, the longer it will take you to be an independent man.
Not really
This is not true. If anything it will make it easier if you have money saved up. I wish I lived with my parents.
I was living away from my folks for a decade, went through a tough separation and wasn’t able to find any place to live within my budget so went back to live with my folks while I save for a year to go find a place to live in my motherland. That doesn’t make me less of a man.
Exactly. I lived away for a few years. Then that situation got crazy so I moved back with the parents. Now I'm paying half the rent, buying majority of food & paying the whole internet bill.
Plot twist, I live with my parents and help financially support them and support my Mom with her disability. Your not a Man if you make sweeping generalizations for clickbait.
Noooooo! I’m living with my parents. And helping them, BECAUSE THEY’RE OLD TO CARRY SOME STUFFS,
that’s sooo stupid
We understand that but the other situation naw better get your own place
@@shadowsmith1386 I don’t think you truly understand what caring for elderly órense entails. They need 24/7 care, and take it from me, you are much better off caring for them yourself then sending them to a nursing home or letting an aide come to your home unsupervised.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 Are you slow I said it ok to be there for them I said get your own place just in case if you wanna get married or have kids
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 He is just an angry landlord who needs you to rent on his property to make him rich
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 24/7 care? HARD PASS, lol. I'm not sacrificing the individual life that I had to bust my ass to earn.
Now I'm getting mad...I feel bad for my parents' cowardice. It became toxic for doiing a lot of favors to me like a slave. Reason for moving out is because I had stuck with my autistic brother, unnecessary drama and disrespecting my life as if doesn't listen to my issues and simply antagonize what I do.
Move out. It's your choice. Live your life and accept the consequences. I've got a full video on it here ua-cam.com/video/D6LaQsrt3lU/v-deo.html&ab_channel=BulldogMindset
A lot of people living with their parents are the main breadwinners for their household and take care of their parents. This isn’t indicative of every man who lives with his parents.
A real man will be silent.