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I learned this not only the HARD way, but the life-threatening way! Crazy but true! As a black man, it is dangerous to be a low-value man! A white man might be ignored for being low-valued but a black man, he will be targeted!
YOU MENTIONED GOD IN ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS PUTTING HIM FIRST... GOD REQUIRES ONE MAN AND ONE WOMAN, NOT A SO-CALLED ROTATION OR SLEEPING WITH DIFFERENT WOMEN, DOES YOUR GOD AGREE WITH THIS ?
To all the young guys that think anything he's saying is wrong: Im 38 and learned most of these the hard way. The man is trying to help so just listen.
The hardest pill to swallow is realizing nobody cares about you. They only care about what you can do for them. The moment you open up about your feelings, they either disappear or indirectly tell you that your feelings don’t matter.
1. Take Responsibility 2. Your feelings don’t matter 3. Struggles are inevitable 4. Value is determined by accomplishments 5. Love is based on how useful you are 6. Never put a woman before your purpose 7. Physicality matters 8. God first Beautiful video brother. Needed this recap.
Loved point 8. Everything else can have a shallow purpose but when you put God above it all, everything comes together with a deeper sense of meaning. Great video and message! God bless brother
As a Man this conversation should be had with every growing male. Black and White. No punches held. This is so real. “why do you care about your feelings?” That part.
I'm 46 married and dont usually comment.However THESE ARE FACTS!!! THIS young man is onnnn point..honestly I needed to hear this right now!💯💪💪 Keep up the great work my brotha
I still haven't figured out how to take responsibilty for my actions, but that is because the way I was raised and the way my daddy's daddy raised him. What I can say is that my wife of ten plus years has taught me how to be more caring towards others and that has gotten me a lot further in life than a lot of things have!
I’m a 20 yr old female and I’m just here to understand my boyfriend better so I can better aide him. These are some good points, I believe all men should follow at some point in their life. I will definitely show this to my nephews.
i got a down ass girl with me by my side at my lowest. everytime i try to “macho” out my feelings, she grounds me while at the same time tells me to step my shit up. every situation is different, and with all due respect, this sounds like you shackling yourself to a life that is fucking mundane and depressing as shit. yeah you got some gems in here, but you emotionally immature if you don’t acknowledge and regulate your feelings. they ARE important, bro. you just gotta find the balance. THAT’s being a man.
Frfr I was just gonna say something similar to like having a down ass female on your side when you’re still not exactly set up right yet I’m like shit now what I obviously don’t wanna push her away but I also know to let her know like hey I’m on my shit right now like on my purpose drive I don’t see nothing wrong with that as long as she don’t become too much of a distraction right? Especially if I’m a dad and shit too like a lot of these I already mastered but I do know I can work in some areas and still have compassion especially im a girl dad
You get it. We as humans need to break this chain of men not being allowed to show and feel emotions and start teaching each other and the next generations how to process and regulate them.
Thank you bro I needed to hear this.. I was raised with my father , but all his energy went into making my mom happy.. it was like he wasn't even there most of the day .. I missed out on a lot of these lessons.
It's not too late for you. Take these lessons, apply them to your life. Focus. Move forward, not in reverse. Your Purpose & your Vision is priority now.
I say this with love to not just men but everyone. Don’t let anyone tell you not to show or express your feelings and emotions. Emotional awareness is so important and knowing how to process and handle your emotions is so important. As men, I promise it’s okay to show your feelings, that’s why they are called FEEL-INGS we are meant to FEEL our emotions in order to navigate all aspects of life.
Bruh I don’t know how I got here at 32 years old I had to hear this shit. This was tough to hear but real. I wish I heard this shit years ago. I might have to watch this every morning before work
Great video bro. Coming off a week of falling with holidays and partying. Just listened to this while working before hitting the gym. Thanks man keep it up
I’m 100% with this guy man, if you get upset with your situation you’ll approach the issue aggressively and solve the problem of the situation rather than wasting time being upset with someone else and aggressively looking for someone to hurt etc. At the end of the day it’s all boils down to how you end up in life… You can end up being happy and rich if you chose your fight wisely, that’s better in my view than being angry with someone!
I think this video is the competent educational learning a lot of men need. i’m 20 years old. I endured a prolonged Period of emotional turbulence until I acquired the critical knowledge necessary to take decisive action, and defined the course of my life thank you for the invaluable advice I deeply appreciate the insight you have shared with all of us I am truly grateful for your guidance. stop infusing yourself with others personal lives the problem with people today is they strive to be something they are not. people often lose themselves trying to hard placing to much value on others opinions instead of focusing on their own goals and priorities there’s a tendency for people to be unnecessarily offended by words rather than understanding their context or purpose and to clarify, I stay away from all the immersing drama on the Internet I only watch UA-camrs like the infographics show people who are masculine confident in themselves, educational learning I have recently just become masculine and way more competent in myself. i’ve been a video gaming nerd throughout half my life, so thank you for this educational advice I have a brother that’s just as charismatic and as confident as you, I’m lucky to have him to find people like you
I’ve been trying not to laugh throughout this whole shit 😂. It’s just how raw and true you’re being throughout this whole video. But none of this is a joke 💯.
I am grateful for a Mother that taught me Accountability and Respect my Father to shows what kind of a person he is that I don't want to be Amen Brother
i really appreciate this video, im om my journey to become better for myself at 18. my father never talked to me things about this so im glad i can have someone to listen to for guidance
Dam right my brother. This poem says it all. Life is yours, death is mine. Peace is your, stress is mine. Happiness is yours, sorrow is mine. Everything is yours but you are mine. Only true MEN understand this.
Nah i disagree with not being happy. They key is you got to enjoy life even when shit ain't going right for you. If you can be ok in the eye of the storm you have achieved a super power 💯
Thank you so much for making this I found this by accident and I’m glad I did My life is dedicated to God and my purpose Everybody told me I was wrong for not chasing women but you showed me I was right the whole time. I’m not a beta, I’m not a simp, I’m not living paycheck to paycheck, I’m not fat, Im not depressed, etc
I'm 40 years old and now im finally listening to some real wisdom here i needed this on my 20 why now 😮youtube recommended me this at 40 this sucks makes you want to give up is like they want to force you to give up in life
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I learned this not only the HARD way, but the life-threatening way! Crazy but true! As a black man, it is dangerous to be a low-value man! A white man might be ignored for being low-valued but a black man, he will be targeted!
Yes sir. I know what I gotta do everyday so I get it done
Thanks big man I’m 20 and was scared but see the potential from the truth u letting out
YOU MENTIONED GOD IN ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS PUTTING HIM FIRST... GOD REQUIRES ONE MAN AND ONE WOMAN, NOT A SO-CALLED ROTATION OR SLEEPING WITH DIFFERENT WOMEN, DOES YOUR GOD AGREE WITH THIS ?
@ 😃😅😅😂😂 it’s life bro don’t act hipo
To all the young guys that think anything he's saying is wrong: Im 38 and learned most of these the hard way. The man is trying to help so just listen.
Yep, only 25 and I’ve learned 3 of these the hard way so far.
Yes im 50 and this gentleman spoke facts
Its always the hard way
Yea I’m 30 and the content was more than accurate.
Learned the hard way around 17-18 had to grow up fast
The hardest pill to swallow is realizing nobody cares about you. They only care about what you can do for them. The moment you open up about your feelings, they either disappear or indirectly tell you that your feelings don’t matter.
Facts!
1. Take Responsibility
2. Your feelings don’t matter
3. Struggles are inevitable
4. Value is determined by accomplishments
5. Love is based on how useful you are
6. Never put a woman before your purpose
7. Physicality matters
8. God first
Beautiful video brother. Needed this recap.
Make Masculinity Great Again
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@@brianbachmeier34 bruh.. on God.
It’s a tough pill to swallow , but it’s the truth .
No one said life is fair , all you can do is push forward and follow your purpose .
Number 1 is the first thing I realized as a man. If u in a situation YOU dont want to be in, it’s because of YOU.
Can you explain more ?
@@poisemeritbasically if your broke,in a crappy relationship, etc it’s your fault only you can change it for the better
@@mrk732 I see thank you
Loved point 8. Everything else can have a shallow purpose but when you put God above it all, everything comes together with a deeper sense of meaning. Great video and message! God bless brother
You are doing God’s work.
As a Man this conversation should be had with every growing male. Black and White. No punches held. This is so real. “why do you care about your feelings?” That part.
This is powerful. Young men need to hear and accept these things
The last one hit home!
Liked that you ended with that
For the first shall be last, and the last shall be first
Thank you for helping men across the world I’m 25 gaining all this knowledge ahead of the game
You are out here saving lives brother. I’m sending this to my son. He needs to hear it from a young awakened brother.
I’m 59 yrs and this brother dropping Jewels
i love this bro, this is a wakeup call that every man needs to hear!
I'm 46 married and dont usually comment.However THESE ARE FACTS!!! THIS young man is onnnn point..honestly I needed to hear this right now!💯💪💪 Keep up the great work my brotha
as you get older, its easier to not give a fuck about things and only focus on your bag and health
This is my kinda talk. Raw, uncut but with wisdom. New sub!
Love this. 2025 is only gains. We locking in and getting to work 💯
I still haven't figured out how to take responsibilty for my actions, but that is because the way I was raised and the way my daddy's daddy raised him. What I can say is that my wife of ten plus years has taught me how to be more caring towards others and that has gotten me a lot further in life than a lot of things have!
Man I'm 28 and I appreciate you being real bro keep up the good work and keep on saving the younger generation
I’m a 20 yr old female and I’m just here to understand my boyfriend better so I can better aide him. These are some good points, I believe all men should follow at some point in their life. I will definitely show this to my nephews.
I went soft and lost my girl I gave up on myself and purpose … needed this been grinding harder than ever though … never again
That’s thing you can focus on a girl n yo life just focus more on life woman don’t like men up in they face all the time make them do little chasing..
what a top man, well said brother, you should be on the TV, how refreshing to hear you
i got a down ass girl with me by my side at my lowest. everytime i try to “macho” out my feelings, she grounds me while at the same time tells me to step my shit up. every situation is different, and with all due respect, this sounds like you shackling yourself to a life that is fucking mundane and depressing as shit. yeah you got some gems in here, but you emotionally immature if you don’t acknowledge and regulate your feelings. they ARE important, bro. you just gotta find the balance. THAT’s being a man.
Frfr I was just gonna say something similar to like having a down ass female on your side when you’re still not exactly set up right yet I’m like shit now what I obviously don’t wanna push her away but I also know to let her know like hey I’m on my shit right now like on my purpose drive I don’t see nothing wrong with that as long as she don’t become too much of a distraction right? Especially if I’m a dad and shit too like a lot of these I already mastered but I do know I can work in some areas and still have compassion especially im a girl dad
You get it. We as humans need to break this chain of men not being allowed to show and feel emotions and start teaching each other and the next generations how to process and regulate them.
Well said
Just turned 22 glad I found this channel thank you man 🙏🏼
MAN THIS INFORMATION SLAP ME HARD
I gotta get my shit together. I’m going to get my shit together!!💪🏾
At 20 years old this is the most realest video I had seen in a long time 💯💪🏾
Thank you bro I needed to hear this.. I was raised with my father , but all his energy went into making my mom happy.. it was like he wasn't even there most of the day .. I missed out on a lot of these lessons.
It's not too late for you. Take these lessons, apply them to your life. Focus. Move forward, not in reverse. Your Purpose & your Vision is priority now.
I say this with love to not just men but everyone. Don’t let anyone tell you not to show or express your feelings and emotions. Emotional awareness is so important and knowing how to process and handle your emotions is so important. As men, I promise it’s okay to show your feelings, that’s why they are called FEEL-INGS we are meant to FEEL our emotions in order to navigate all aspects of life.
Brother has spoken the truth, solid value here.
This is this talk we need to use as our alarm clock.
The first rule alone is good enough I feel your energy bro respect
As a young man I definitely needed this .. thank you
just read : "unveiling your hidden potential" and you will realise everything
Okay but by who? There's alot of books with that
@@brandonlogan2600I agree.
The father I never had. Damn I really needed this
Thank you
these freaking videos have been insane! I've learnt so much in a short amount of time and gaining so much confidence cuz of it. Thank you brother
Real shit bro! I sent this video to my sons.
Bruh I don’t know how I got here at 32 years old I had to hear this shit. This was tough to hear but real. I wish I heard this shit years ago. I might have to watch this every morning before work
Well said, brother. The best I've ever heard. However, never tell men its too late. .Its never too late as long as you have health life and ability
Great video bro. Coming off a week of falling with holidays and partying. Just listened to this while working before hitting the gym. Thanks man keep it up
WILL SAID MY BROTHER,,,Keep Up The Great Work & Stay Blessed 💪🏾
I've watched MANY of your videos ....This by far your BEST ONE
I’m 100% with this guy man, if you get upset with your situation you’ll approach the issue aggressively and solve the problem of the situation rather than wasting time being upset with someone else and aggressively looking for someone to hurt etc. At the end of the day it’s all boils down to how you end up in life… You can end up being happy and rich if you chose your fight wisely, that’s better in my view than being angry with someone!
God bless this man right here. I'm glad im still hella young and figuring this out, not even 20, yet😤🫡
Proud of you bro
💯💯💯
You're young and easily influenced, most of this is bullshit, this guy would crumble in the real world.
At 26 this is clockwork to me. Most of these men are Soft.
Yes I agree. I was soft up until o turned 33 years old 10 years ago, unfortunately. Thankfully I woke up and I'm able to lead and teach my 3 boys....
You the softest of them all.
Clock work? or just common sense, i got red pilled in hs years of my life.
How they soft?
You’re the softest of them all
Mannnnnnnnn this channel is the realist I salute you fam this that conversation that needs to be had 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Yo my G all i gotta say is thanks thanks thanks this videos just boosted my coverall masculinity
I appreciate you bro
This should have more views. I needed to see this. Subscribed.
I can’t really find too many objections to voice. Dude is dropping jewels in this vid fam.
Thank you brother I AM TRULY HUMBLED and reignited to do more for self God FIRST im over 50 too
That part bout God giving us strong backs strong shoulders to handle the load of being a man choked me up. Needed that today brother.
The best video of the year wow!
One of the few great things happening to men. Thank you bro
Being a god fearing man and reading ur scriptures is deffo one of em
I think this video is the competent educational learning a lot of men need. i’m 20 years old. I endured a prolonged Period of emotional turbulence until I acquired the critical knowledge necessary to take decisive action, and defined the course of my life thank you for the invaluable advice I deeply appreciate the insight you have shared with all of us I am truly grateful for your guidance. stop infusing yourself with others personal lives the problem with people today is they strive to be something they are not. people often lose themselves trying to hard placing to much value on others opinions instead of focusing on their own goals and priorities there’s a tendency for people to be unnecessarily offended by words rather than understanding their context or purpose and to clarify, I stay away from all the immersing drama on the Internet I only watch UA-camrs like the infographics show people who are masculine confident in themselves, educational learning I have recently just become masculine and way more competent in myself. i’ve been a video gaming nerd throughout half my life, so thank you for this educational advice I have a brother that’s just as charismatic and as confident as you, I’m lucky to have him to find people like you
I’ve been trying not to laugh throughout this whole shit 😂. It’s just how raw and true you’re being throughout this whole video. But none of this is a joke 💯.
All I gotta say is thank you. You said lot of things I needed to hear.
I went to sleep last night talking to God. I'm up this morning listening to you. God responded to me through you. Praise God!! Thank you
The realest video I’ve seen on UA-cam
This is confirmation that I actually been on the right path I’ve been doing all of this recently & thought I was tripping lol
All the way from Africa Zimbabwe, thanks fam 🇿🇼
Appreciate you brother
Damn you went TF IN son! Your best vid yet.
Your on to something!!
If this doesn't motivate, I don't know what will! Thanks for this video!
Wish someone would have told me this sooner, thank you I’m going to watch this every morning.
This is my favorite video thanks for the love KD
this guy is 100 percent right and i will take his advice
Dropping GEMs my boy! Behind you 💯%! Salute
I’m 26 and I needed to hear this
Realest video on YT I've heard in a while!!! 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
Straight solid info! Especially closing out with putting God first, and everything will add accordingly ✍️🏾
This video deserve a million views bruh much respect
I am 15 and I watched this whole video and this is a tough truth
I needed this bro im really trying to grow and i came across this trying to change my life and my mindset
Im literally going to write those 8 tip on my whiteboard💪
This man spits facts like his life depends on it; thank you! 😂
I needed that bro I been slacking off real talk bro tight work game on
I needed to hear this I got this on repeat til it’s programmed into my mind
This Video Needs 1Milllion+ Views!!!!
I am grateful for a Mother that taught me Accountability and Respect my Father to shows what kind of a person he is that I don't want to be
Amen Brother
i really appreciate this video, im om my journey to become better for myself at 18. my father never talked to me things about this so im glad i can have someone to listen to for guidance
The brother speaks the truth about struggling men, and some women can endure the pains of world
Brother much love man we all need to hear this chase purpose not love 💯🚶🏿♂️➡️ 💰 💴 💵
Excellent video raw & to the point many need to hear this
Well said...and on time... I only listened up to part 3... but the message is clear. We are leaders not followers
Dam right my brother. This poem says it all.
Life is yours, death is mine.
Peace is your, stress is mine.
Happiness is yours, sorrow is mine.
Everything is yours but you are mine.
Only true MEN understand this.
You are the shit keep at it, the most realest thing I've ever seen on UA-cam. I appreciate you. Thanks
Appreciate you for this big bro 💯
i am 20 years old and Ive struggled a lot on what being a man really is and this helped astronomically. thank you
The day starts at 5:30am and ends at 8pm. Get stronger, smarter, and richer and then earn your rest
Thank you for the video man. I need stop fucking around. I’m 21 rn and already feeling behind and like I’m slipping into bad patterns
Same here 21 and glad I came across bro channel life been better every since taking his advice on many topics!
Man!!!!!!! He spitting crazy!!!!!
Nah i disagree with not being happy. They key is you got to enjoy life even when shit ain't going right for you. If you can be ok in the eye of the storm you have achieved a super power 💯
Amen Right 💯
Thank you so much for making this
I found this by accident and I’m glad I did
My life is dedicated to God and my purpose
Everybody told me I was wrong for not chasing women but you showed me I was right the whole time. I’m not a beta, I’m not a simp, I’m not living paycheck to paycheck, I’m not fat, Im not depressed, etc
Young brotha the conviction in your presentation is real!!!!!
I'm 40 years old and now im finally listening to some real wisdom here i needed this on my 20 why now 😮youtube recommended me this at 40 this sucks makes you want to give up is like they want to force you to give up in life