Wedding Guest List Tips - Who you SHOULD NOT Invite!

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  • Опубліковано 28 гру 2024

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  • @ladychebli
    @ladychebli  4 роки тому +11

    I hope you found these wedding guest list tips helpful! What part of creating your list has been the most difficult for you?

    • @gusulises1758
      @gusulises1758 3 роки тому

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  • @helloyou.
    @helloyou. 3 роки тому +16

    I remember being a little girl at my parent’s friend’s weddings - such great memories. I’m glad my parents took me to elegant events when I was a child: the ballet, the theater, fancy dinners, weddings, etc… It showed me what to look forward to later in life and gave me the opportunity to learn how to emulate good behavior. My husband and I loved having kids at our wedding, we don’t think they’re annoying at all.

  • @thelaceyknight
    @thelaceyknight 4 роки тому +17

    Thank you so much for clarifying this for me. My fiancé and I are going through our guest list now and we have decided NO CHILDREN as guest unless they are IN the wedding as part of the wedding party. Anyone 17 and under can stay home. No offense. Also the acquaintances: they can come off the list too. That includes family. If I haven't spoken to a cousin in over 2 years, they are definitely not invited. This video helped a lot!!!

  • @maddieluckett1204
    @maddieluckett1204 4 роки тому +12

    Yes!! Invite kids!! They make it memorable and fun!!

  • @Michelle-Anna
    @Michelle-Anna 2 роки тому +12

    I am team kids at the wedding because I've been to so many weddings as a kid myself and I remember it always being the best time ever (like especially seeing all my cousins and other relatives I rarely got to see in every day life) and it got me into loving weddings so much until today! So yeah, kids make great memories there too ^^

  • @unknownbrah
    @unknownbrah 3 роки тому +23

    Any tip for South Asian weddings: Don’t feel bad not inviting toxic family members

    • @elizabethsoteloandfamily4091
      @elizabethsoteloandfamily4091 3 роки тому +3

      My mother in law is toxic. She got mad and basically cussed my husband out and called him ungrateful for not being a bridesmaid at my wedding lol. She never calls to talk to us or swings by the house ever. My husband didn't want to invite his own mother to our wedding. I'm gonna have a wedding coordinator in case she tries anything psycho

    • @erinnichols4866
      @erinnichols4866 2 роки тому +1

      Valid.

  • @wiseproentrep4641
    @wiseproentrep4641 Рік тому +1

    it is so helpful especially Im planning now for a wedding. Thank you so much for this

  • @398jeffersd
    @398jeffersd 4 роки тому +12

    Thank you! It is so stressful. I’m thinking of cutting out the reception altogether just to avoid the guest list.

    • @KassOlivares
      @KassOlivares 3 роки тому +2

      Ugh same here 🙄😩

    • @mrssonikuri
      @mrssonikuri 3 роки тому +1

      saaaaaameeee
      im getting married in 2 weeks

  • @MA-hq4qx
    @MA-hq4qx 4 роки тому +8

    THANK YOU FOR THIS!!! ❤️ Love how you kept it 💯... While being gracious, one shouldn’t go broke over those who aren’t as involved in your life. ❤️

    • @ladychebli
      @ladychebli  4 роки тому +1

      I’m so happy you found this helpful! I struggled with a lot of those details during my wedding process, and I hope this was helpful for you! Thanks for watching!

  • @layla5312
    @layla5312 3 роки тому +5

    Kids yes because kids make the world happy and beautiful

  • @richardcristobal9174
    @richardcristobal9174 4 місяці тому

    yeah kids as a ring bearer & flower girl!!!🌸🌸🌸💍💍💍

  • @dco8886
    @dco8886 3 роки тому +6

    We decided to spend less than 10k so we having an immediate family only wedding lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @stacykosasih4633
    @stacykosasih4633 3 роки тому +1

    Exactly what I have on my mind. Thank you. You’re so beautiful

  • @kateroil1501
    @kateroil1501 Рік тому

    I foud your video really informative - thanks :)

  • @moodsandviews
    @moodsandviews 4 роки тому +2

    Such great advice!!

    • @ladychebli
      @ladychebli  4 роки тому +1

      Qandeel Sheikh you’re the sweetest always!

  • @amyroberson6167
    @amyroberson6167 4 роки тому +1

    Love this !! Thank you

  • @myrnamalak425
    @myrnamalak425 4 роки тому +5

    Love it!! ❤️❤️❤️ everything u said is so true. Def no kids 🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️ ! Keep the videos coming! Also u look fabulous 🤗

    • @ladychebli
      @ladychebli  4 роки тому +1

      Myrna Malak thank you ❤️❤️❤️ lol you’re so sweet!

  • @beeroth3093
    @beeroth3093 3 роки тому +17

    Kids do NOT belong at a wedding. There is no reason to add that extra stress to the bride the family and everyone having to accommodate the safety of a toddler or the mishaps little kids can cause. Wedding nightmare

    • @mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137
      @mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137 Рік тому +1

      Well that's why I'm going to have baby sitters there to watch the kids.
      My kids are apart of the wedding too, but I understand they can't be at the wedding the entire time.
      I'm planning a kids party for them in a separate space to run concurrently during the cocktail hour and wedding reception.

  • @nicoleeisler7089
    @nicoleeisler7089 2 місяці тому

    Its so heartbteking to See how weddings have turned from being a joyful family Event where children were welcome cause they would make any ocasion more joyful (plus lets be honest - a family is only a family if there s children. Otherwise its just a couple) to a production where its all just about apearences. True kids are messy but take them out of the equation and you might as well go to a funeral instead of a wedding. Everything will be formal there. Nice decore etc. And no one will dare to laugh or anything...
    Plus... who are u getting married for? The ppl you try to Impress by having everything well organized and quiet or yourself?

  • @jenniferrudiman7090
    @jenniferrudiman7090 2 роки тому +7

    Sorry but I don’t agree with your advice to give both sets of parents you guest list and to allow them any say especially if the couple is paying for the wedding. Sounds like more of a process than it needs to be

    • @angels8248
      @angels8248 Місяць тому

      I agree but assumed their parents were paying for the wedding. If not, no say so.

  • @khatiyachendaprem9958
    @khatiyachendaprem9958 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Jesus I found your video I am ready to hurt some feelings NO KIDS, ONLY immediate family and very very very close friend , no work friends, and acquaintances because I'm not going stress on my wedding day ! I am not going to pay for people that was never been there for me at my lowest point of my life. Forgive me I sound very harsh. Keep them kids at home I am not liable for them breaking and messing everything up they don't belong at wedding.

  • @alexandrasalvagni6269
    @alexandrasalvagni6269 Рік тому +2

    How do you feel about inviting a friend, but NOT that friends fiancée? I think they might not come if their partner doesn’t come, but we don’t know her. I know that I wouldn’t want my man going to a wedding unless I’m going with him

    • @angels8248
      @angels8248 Місяць тому

      I think that’s fine and am considering the same. If they’re a true friend, they show up regardless of if they can bring a plus one. I’m not paying for people I don’t know (or know well enough) like she said!

  • @dvegh97
    @dvegh97 2 роки тому +2

    If I ever get married It's going to be a country music wedding

  • @c.f.6005
    @c.f.6005 3 роки тому +4

    No kids

  • @nataliaalbuquerque2403
    @nataliaalbuquerque2403 4 роки тому +4

    No kids!!!

  • @rosiequintero9098
    @rosiequintero9098 3 роки тому +2

    I want kids at my wedding but not everyones kids. I need my nieces and nephews there and my kids need their cousins. By the way I have teens.

  • @MelissaElene
    @MelissaElene 4 роки тому +2

    Good advice Mona!

    • @ladychebli
      @ladychebli  4 роки тому +1

      Melissa Rizk thanks babe! Lol I know the guest list is always the most difficult!

  • @neshachristian-hendrickson5598
    @neshachristian-hendrickson5598 6 місяців тому

    I am definitely having kids at a wedding. First, all my friends have kids, they wouldn’t be able to come. And secondly, I have lots of god kids, I love kids

  • @katylikesbasil6225
    @katylikesbasil6225 2 роки тому +5

    This is not good advice? There’s no way I’ll be handing my list over to my family to pick people to invite? It’s not their wedding 😂🙈

  • @scottcharney1091
    @scottcharney1091 4 роки тому +2

    I'm pretty sure that it's "whom."

  • @Odo-so8pj
    @Odo-so8pj 3 роки тому +4

    Mother in law? 🤣😂

  • @vacaspen4002
    @vacaspen4002 Рік тому +1

    No kids too immature and bored to respect others and understand why.

    • @scoots291
      @scoots291 6 місяців тому

      Sounds like my adult cousin 😂