👗 WHAT TO WEAR ON A 1st DATE THAT WILL LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE OF YOU! ....AND EVEN PROPOSING 💍 ❤️

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  • @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES
    @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES 2 роки тому +191

    How many came here, not for the outfits but to hear Aunty Fumi's booming and hearty voice😍😍
    I just come to hear her laugh. It makes me smile and laugh at the same time. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @mula.a
      @mula.a 2 роки тому +6

      Here. I am married, no business looking at 1st date how to🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣we love just hearing aunt Fumi talk. Whatever the topic, we tune in. Lol

    • @dricirufiona2650
      @dricirufiona2650 2 роки тому +2

      me too🤣

    • @chibeauty
      @chibeauty 2 роки тому +3

      I love her .. I Adopt her!!! ❤️ I was mesmerized on first sight. Mmm..to have a feminine energy like this is a blessing.

    • @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES
      @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES 2 роки тому

      @@mula.a exactly 😂😂

  • @jolabillions7941
    @jolabillions7941 2 роки тому +145

    Recently got married and still watching. I watch everything Aunty Funmi posts period.

    • @Imohadah
      @Imohadah 2 роки тому

      .

    • @BlooDLineCosmetics
      @BlooDLineCosmetics 2 роки тому +2

      Congratulations 🙌💗

    • @maggief1851
      @maggief1851 2 роки тому +4

      Well, you can use it when you recreate your first date with your hubby.

    • @Richesworld1
      @Richesworld1 Рік тому

      Congratulations

    • @ENTREPRENEURV
      @ENTREPRENEURV 11 місяців тому

      Your home will glow and you continue to watch. That's a big statement girl!

  • @ChasB21
    @ChasB21 2 роки тому +84

    I am a stylist, and am always listening and looking for extra fashion tips(it's how I stay up on what's happening in fashion), but what was helpful for me with this post is the dating advice. Thanks!

  • @foxtail803
    @foxtail803 2 роки тому +23

    Fumi from a Papua New Guinean 🇵🇬/British / 🇦🇺Australian sista ( olive skin afro queen) Your style sense has enabled me over the past few years to bridge the gap between flare and fashion . As I have gone through my Cancer journey. Cancer free now.YAY!! Looking at clothes for my 50th Bday in 2 years. LOVE ❤ all your tips

    • @divadoll606
      @divadoll606 2 роки тому

      Wonderful news! Happy New Year and may you have many, many more.

    • @kmydesire12
      @kmydesire12 10 місяців тому

      Amen 🙏🏽 to your healing from Cancer

  • @livinghealthywithchef_nots6855
    @livinghealthywithchef_nots6855 2 роки тому +24

    You are the mother and the sister I never had, thank you so much for your guidance 🙏 ❤️.

    • @chibeauty
      @chibeauty 2 роки тому

      Me too ...I'm literally in tears..as I realize this.!!! 🥰

  • @josetteblackburn2253
    @josetteblackburn2253 2 роки тому +18

    Orange dress is a must have! I collect lace trimmed tank tops/camisoles in black, ivory, nudes, as an easy layer of lace to cover the decolletage-girls .

  • @ruthroo8954
    @ruthroo8954 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks

  • @Bloominglotus19
    @Bloominglotus19 2 роки тому +47

    You did it again, Fumi! I love all of the selected outfits. Thanks for the tip on the flesh colored pantyhose; my legs don't look as fabulous, because of my spider veins. Turned 54 last week and I'm ready to sparkle and mingle.

    • @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES
      @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES 2 роки тому +4

      All the best, Aunty.

    • @lindakoberna3465
      @lindakoberna3465 2 роки тому +5

      Self tanning helps and there are several concealers that will cover them up. Just set it with powder and a little setting spray

    • @Bloominglotus19
      @Bloominglotus19 2 роки тому

      @@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES Thank you🌹

  • @sharlenemullins1030
    @sharlenemullins1030 2 роки тому +13

    Thank you Fumi! This was a great episode! I'm 65 and want to date again. Love from U.S.A I've fallen in Love with your videos 🤩

  • @michelleqs78
    @michelleqs78 Рік тому +2

    Fumi, I just discovered your channel and I’m enamoured with your style and your big sister advice. We need more ladies promoting feminine, elegant and off course morality. ❤️

  • @MyDarling572
    @MyDarling572 5 місяців тому +1

    I love it! To summarize: How to show your shape without uncovering it. I'm ready for my speeddating event.

  • @gettheedgenow7079
    @gettheedgenow7079 2 роки тому +8

    All of your style selections are ideal. I purchased three Diane Von Furstenberg wrap dresses years ago: two are mid-calf length, and the third is a black maxi. These were some of the best purchases I ever made. I can dress them up or down, make them formal or casual. or sexy or all-business... My favorite go-to, If the occasion allows me to can get away with it, is a pair of premium jeans, a man-tailored white shirt, and a pair of YSL stripy sandals.

    • @SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade
      @SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 роки тому

      Yes DVF wrap dresses are timeless classics. I own a few knee length ones from years ago and 2 new ones and all of them are perfect for any occasion depending on shoes and jewelry selection

  • @Realaliatianna
    @Realaliatianna 2 роки тому +5

    Wow, I love how you explain it in such a beautiful way. I wish my mother had explained the importance of dressing as a lady in a RESPECTFUL and understanding way. Anything i heard that sounded condescending I ignored. Thank you for being so kind and understanding

  • @veronicagreene7502
    @veronicagreene7502 2 роки тому +6

    1. Like green dress that is backless. 2. Dress. 3. Flowy cut out dress. 4. Orange dress is nice goes with any completion. 5. Meghan Markle jeans and basic white shirt flats sunglass and tote bag. She did good she got prince lol. Love the outfits

  • @TemsD
    @TemsD Рік тому +1

    Thank you! Aunty Fumi 💝. I enjoy your videos so much🥰. They make me smile😊😊 especially when you laugh and smile. God bless you Ma for being such an inspiration💚 and guidebook on all things femininity, beauty & true confidence🙏🏽

  • @josetteblackburn2253
    @josetteblackburn2253 2 роки тому +11

    Thanks Fumi! You've raised the bar in so many ways. And you got me through Christmas! Thank you for your Instagram and UA-cam. You have helped me in so many ways... sister2sister. Much love!

  • @valentinapeters7728
    @valentinapeters7728 2 роки тому +3

    I love this woman so much! Everyone is welcome and everyone is inciuded!

  • @a.w5552
    @a.w5552 2 роки тому +33

    Thank you so much for this episode, kindly Fumi could you please do an episode on smart casual outfits for curvy girls ☺️ Happy Holidays 🎉🎉

  • @Lesy2317
    @Lesy2317 2 роки тому +7

    FUMI! I love, love, loooove your shirt, earrings, & ring. The makeup & hair is perfect for it.

  • @Oscarnodwannabe
    @Oscarnodwannabe 2 роки тому +7

    My goal is to start dating more next year, so this video is much appreciated!

  • @marjorjorietillman856
    @marjorjorietillman856 2 роки тому +3

    I think Meghan got the memo too. And her makeup was on point! You can’t loose with a white shirt and nice jeans! The only change I might make would be a half inch heel on the sandal, but that’s it!!😀👍🏼

  • @deejames1st
    @deejames1st 2 роки тому +14

    I’d be interested in seeing how to do a date night side pony tail. Thank you for these recommendations.

  • @desireejoseph6576
    @desireejoseph6576 2 роки тому +2

    Fumi,
    I looovvvve evarything about you & your channel. Your classiness & lady like style, speaking lovingly about your family & friends, your realness spoken, your laugh, etc. You have a beautiful spirit as a woman mother & wife. Keep doin whatchu doin' gurl.

  • @MsIvebeenthinking
    @MsIvebeenthinking 2 роки тому +1

    Auntie, I come for the laughs and always leave feeling full! My favorite part was "he loves your quirkiness, your silliness, etc"...Reminder for me that the right person will love all of me, just as I am...Merry Christmas...keep being you!

  • @ofonabasi2681
    @ofonabasi2681 2 роки тому +2

    Fummmmmmmiii, don’t I just love you and your humour.
    We the 50s need to hear more of this. Interviews and probation is a must. We are more confident and comfortable girls now.
    Much ❤

  • @jenniferdyer8449
    @jenniferdyer8449 Рік тому +2

    Thank you beautiful lady! I made 53 today going on a first date this Saturday.

  • @juliecc78
    @juliecc78 2 роки тому +6

    I was slightly depressed and Fumi with her magic charisma made me smile and awoke me from my misery. Thanks 🥰

  • @oliviajolly792
    @oliviajolly792 2 роки тому +12

    I black female age 66, 5'0", with a tummy, like something sexy that I can wear and still be in style. Waiting for a great man to enter into my life wholehearted. I love fashion!!!!!

  • @adaezejoy4470
    @adaezejoy4470 2 роки тому +1

    Aunty Funmi, I just LOVEeeeee you. You are the type of sister everyone needs around. I wish you were in my country, I would always come to see you. You are a great teacher.

  • @leracheltrend9653
    @leracheltrend9653 2 роки тому +6

    As a image coach, Fumi is definately my reference

  • @CiCiMoya
    @CiCiMoya 2 роки тому +3

    Fumi Please use affiliate links because you deserve that coin Momma! Love from Canada 🇨🇦💖

  • @Mz_Latee
    @Mz_Latee 2 роки тому +1

    Always appreciate your content!

    • @FumiDesaluVold
      @FumiDesaluVold  2 роки тому

      I appreciate that SIS! Thank you so much and Happy Holidays. ❤️

  • @DaraKFulton
    @DaraKFulton 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Aunty!!! This video is so helpful because I'm single (bad breakup/divorce ) and want to date again. I'm 41. Could you do a GRWM video on how to prepare for a first date (makeup, clothes, hair etc ) ? I'm a plus size (18/20) . Thanks so much and I absolutely LOVE You and your content 💗 😘

  • @ByteMwen
    @ByteMwen 2 роки тому

    When it comes to stockings, one of my favourite colours for all skin tones is smoke to off black sheer tights. They make every colour of leg look slimmer and sexier.

  • @emeraldlong6549
    @emeraldlong6549 2 роки тому +7

    Enjoyed this video very much; especially the dresses and their perfect colours! Thank you, Fumi. Blessings

  • @anitamichellejackson
    @anitamichellejackson 2 роки тому

    Fumi, you are a joy sister. And that laugh... I live my darling! I live!!!!!

  • @carladw3380
    @carladw3380 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks!

    • @FumiDesaluVold
      @FumiDesaluVold  2 роки тому

      Awwwwww, thank you so much my beautiful sister! 💛 Happy Holidays. 😊

  • @sherricason1548
    @sherricason1548 2 роки тому +1

    Don't show No meat Fumi 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾! Luv You!!! Preach!

  • @sherricason1548
    @sherricason1548 2 роки тому +1

    Bring It Fumi. Bring whateva you got!!!

  • @ijelleobiekwe3577
    @ijelleobiekwe3577 2 роки тому +14

    She's right when she says she will Fumminize us🤣 oh how I wish she were in all of our homes so she can teach me about make up and dressing.

  • @janiceburgess4679
    @janiceburgess4679 2 роки тому +9

    You videos always brings a smile! Thank you Fumi!💝

  • @jailamink6489
    @jailamink6489 2 роки тому +2

    I found you thru the Shanquella case,you are AMAZING,so classy❣️

  • @dcmuler
    @dcmuler 2 роки тому +1

    Your earrings are definitely me, uneven pairs, I love them

  • @gracebwide8789
    @gracebwide8789 2 роки тому +7

    I'm Fuminised 😊, Aunt Fumi.

  • @nycgirl6978
    @nycgirl6978 2 роки тому

    Good night Sister/daughter… you look fabulous in this video hair, makeup and your skin in that green… The message on point as always.

  • @ldyjacqui5172
    @ldyjacqui5172 2 роки тому +5

    Fumi, I Love the Orange dress for what I'm working with 👍🏽💜🌹

  • @ebymodebelu
    @ebymodebelu 2 роки тому

    I wore the orange dress for New Years! But in Red! I'm 43 years old, but people who saw me with my sister thought I was the younger one, and I'm older by 10 years.

  • @joylever6844
    @joylever6844 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Auntie Fumi from Panama City, Panama in Latin America. Learning a lot from your videos, but wondering if you would consider offering virtual image consulting sessions. I am a black, 49 yr old, 5'3", chubby woman working as a legal assistant and a translator/interpreter, trying to adjust your outfit advice to tropical weather!

  • @BeautifulDrkGirl
    @BeautifulDrkGirl 2 роки тому +4

    I've been looking through you videos for this lol. I just knew you already made this. Well I am in attendance Auntie!

  • @enspyreu9804
    @enspyreu9804 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much my Beautiful Sista, (In EVERY way), for ALL that you do!!
    You are a Jewel!
    Thank God for you!
    Be EnSpyre-d!
    ♥️
    Renee

  • @Iammartineb
    @Iammartineb 2 роки тому +1

    Fumi think about everything. This is my new big sis

  • @thenaturalpathtv
    @thenaturalpathtv 2 роки тому

    I love your dentition. They're sparkling white.

  • @bibikarim1506
    @bibikarim1506 2 роки тому

    Princess Fumi! Greetings from United States, I am in my 50s . Enjoying all your videos, love these colors, I am married, so caring for myself and self love is quite important to my wellness. Live for it, 🥰 ❤❤

  • @leerivera4464
    @leerivera4464 2 роки тому

    I love your videos because you are so true and real. You really want the rest of us, regardless of race, to be happy, to love, to grow, and to learn. To enjoy life! Thank you, and I love you. ❤️

  • @erickajohnson2494
    @erickajohnson2494 2 роки тому

    Fumi would you do Valentine’s date night looks for staying at home? I'm 53 yrs old and I've been married for 26 yrs and I'm running out of at home date night ideas! Please help! I love you sis❤️

  • @khadijahmuwakkil8502
    @khadijahmuwakkil8502 2 роки тому +1

    Fumi you just make me smile, you just exude everything I’m going to embody as I grow gracefully ❤thank you!

  • @lilia_spn
    @lilia_spn Рік тому

    i love that you are taking smaller - and bigger-busted sisters in to consideration. Makin' us feel included :)

  • @kberfect2428
    @kberfect2428 2 роки тому

    I love you Aunty Fumi. I have been walking in my feminine energy ever since I found the video on your bra taping hack. I look to you for fashion & relationship advice. Keep more coming🥰

  • @Hearwithyourears
    @Hearwithyourears 2 роки тому +4

    Hello sister Fumi could you please help we those with bad legs ( scars) how to dress as a lady? Thanks for sharing your talents and your intelligence with Us.

    • @SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade
      @SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 роки тому

      Skin tone stockings from Nubian Skin (UK based black owned company) they ship worldwide
      I have dark knees and wear a dress uniform for work, those Nubian Skin stockings help me feel confident

  • @ladyfitness67
    @ladyfitness67 2 роки тому +1

    I love 💕. Please can you do a video on table m/ dining etiquette. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @tanisha_tlc
    @tanisha_tlc 2 роки тому

    I love this video so much thanks for sharing! That GREEN dress is 🚨

  • @beachdiva8791
    @beachdiva8791 2 роки тому +1

    Same here. Just discovered this channel recently & I love it. Fumi you are the best! I especially love the Fumi laugh 😂 Not much into makeup but I live the inspiring words!🙏🏽

  • @NatashaBentash
    @NatashaBentash Рік тому +1

    You got a beautiful voice

  • @aalemahbailey
    @aalemahbailey 2 роки тому

    Yess.... Please show us some pony tail tutorial...

  • @isatukoroma2483
    @isatukoroma2483 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing fumi sis you so lovely i really enjoyed your videos always ❤❤❤

  • @skqq3250
    @skqq3250 2 роки тому

    You are seriously into details.

  • @rowenaramsaran4256
    @rowenaramsaran4256 2 роки тому

    Miss Fumi, Ur a sweetheart with an awesome vibe!!!!! Love from Trinidad🇹🇹 & Tobago🇹🇹.

  • @imanielohiykem3751
    @imanielohiykem3751 2 роки тому +3

    I love this so much ! And I love you❤
    The way you described the first dress and just everything👌🏾✨💕

  • @Annieathome716
    @Annieathome716 2 роки тому +2

    Totally appreciate you doing this video for the pre stage of a serious relationship, Aunty Fumi. I now beg for the date night attire 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @annaleewilliams8602
    @annaleewilliams8602 2 роки тому

    Lovely tips the blue jeans and white is my favorite .

  • @christinasmith2730
    @christinasmith2730 Рік тому

    Why did I even ask my aunt she gave me bad advice, I should have can here first ❤❤❤ ma'am every thing ur saying is on point and what I was thinking about doing especially the hair style I'm planning on having it in a nice ponytail and wearing something completely comfortable this my first date with a Africa man and I want to be beautiful and well comfortable I really like ur advice, God bless you ❤❤

  • @melaninbeauty6607
    @melaninbeauty6607 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Auntie Fumi, I am a new subscriber to your channel. I love your content, your very encouraging words and your love for others. I love the fact that you are talking about going on dates, can you make a video about being scared to date. I am a 36yr old single woman with no kids. I have not had the best luck with men. I was molested, and violated when I was younger and years later in my 20's I ended up in a domestic violence relationship. I have now been out of that relationship for a little over 7yrs and I have dealt with two guys (separate years) in my seven years of being single and neither one worked out. One was an undercover alcoholic who was very emotionally abusive so within 2 months I stopped talking to him. The other one was a liar and a narcissist who was living and still dealing with his child's mother and lied and told me he was living with a roommate. After my relationship with my ex who was physically, emotionally and mentally abusive I stayed single for 4yrs.But I decided to open myself up and trust people again and ended up running into the two men I just mentioned and I have shut my heart back down. I don't want to be single for the rest of my life but I am sooo afraid to meet and open up to others. Especially with all the things that have happened to me and what is going on in the world now with dating. How do I let my guard down and realize that everyone is not out to hurt me? Please make a video on this topic auntie Fumi. Sending love from NY 🥰

  • @agnesoundo5498
    @agnesoundo5498 Рік тому

    Fumi is always on point ❤❤. Stunning. Good advice..❤❤❤

  • @abigailoluwaseun6637
    @abigailoluwaseun6637 2 роки тому

    Good morning ma am grateful I stumbled on one of your videos on how to wear and walk with heels I was able to water a high heels on Christmas day...I have always want to wear heels but my ankles are always hurting me with a seconds of me wearing it but ma the day I watched ur video I practice wat u did the way u were walking how the heels are supposed to be sounding and I was so grateful that I could wear it in church for over 4houra without pulling it off.. thank u ma
    I will surely always follow you and watch more of your video cos I really want to work on my mode of dressing and some public etiquette... Thank u ma

  • @reneec3186
    @reneec3186 2 роки тому

    👀👀 can you do a video that show the best material to wear if you have cellulite? Not using spanks or hoses...which material shows the lease cellulite?

  • @petauification
    @petauification 2 роки тому

    Gorgeous Funmi, you are a beautiful combination of Grace Jones and Janet Jackson. Love your content 🙂

  • @nickolehall
    @nickolehall 2 роки тому

    The makeup is absolutely beautiful!

  • @carolmbithe8539
    @carolmbithe8539 2 роки тому

    Ati fuminise 🤣 Don’t I love you mama Fumi 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @theorderofthebees7308
    @theorderofthebees7308 2 роки тому

    🙏 Absolutely wonderful . Thank you so much . A friend sent me one of your videos and I am grateful . You are the aunt the universe wanted me to have . God Bless You !!!
    PS I love a good dress - what wonderful advice

  • @eunicelampley1576
    @eunicelampley1576 2 роки тому +5

    On point, on point as always. Very 👍🏾, pratical❤

  • @noludweqwabe7011
    @noludweqwabe7011 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤My favorite Fumi... Thank you sweetheart

  • @belindankoah9299
    @belindankoah9299 Рік тому

    All the dress for date are beautiful thanks you so much mum for this video

  • @lalaheart76
    @lalaheart76 2 роки тому

    The dresses are beautiful however it gets too cold ❄️ to wear those in winter where I am. Any suggestions please?

  • @LadyShanghai-wj1kh
    @LadyShanghai-wj1kh 2 роки тому

    I can’t wait for your lingerie line!!! It’s so needed!

  • @Sallyy150
    @Sallyy150 2 роки тому

    I will watching you talking about anything!

  • @clowe3726
    @clowe3726 2 роки тому

    Preach Sis Fumi!!!!! Great practical, intentional advice!

  • @jadinesimpson
    @jadinesimpson 2 роки тому

    Fumi I know ur having a fabulous Christmas n I'm sending blessings from the Fumi nation ur such a wonderful mother, sister n friend. I'm not dating as I don't met anyone but I'm bless to met u,u gave me hairline, thank you. U wish u were in my home I have enough Fumi if I have u,Kiss Adrian, n greetings to ur husband if they didn't keep u happy u wouldn't be so vibrant we love u Fumi

  • @sheilacowden9238
    @sheilacowden9238 2 роки тому

    All of those outfits were beautiful

  • @ladyinmauve
    @ladyinmauve 2 роки тому

    I love that orange dress😍
    Red is suggestive? Please tell. I prefer a deep red lip over pink and brown. I want to know how to pair colours.

  • @charmi3845
    @charmi3845 2 роки тому

    You are such a beautiful soul. I really love your positive vibes. Always wish you love happiness and success. And thank you for the tips lol!!!❤

  • @faithmoore7520
    @faithmoore7520 2 роки тому +3

    Love seeing you again ! Happy holidays!❤

  • @pmundy
    @pmundy 2 роки тому

    You are absolutely beautiful. I'm following your tips for skin brightening and moisturizing! Loving the content. And I will check out the orange/rust colored dress.

  • @abenawilliams6623
    @abenawilliams6623 2 роки тому

    Thankyou for this safe space.

  • @Mstees1
    @Mstees1 2 роки тому

    Fantastic......love them ! Thanks Fumi.

  • @sharonp.1376
    @sharonp.1376 2 роки тому +1

    Fumi you're the best 🇯🇲❤

  • @phyllispowell2979
    @phyllispowell2979 2 роки тому +3

    Love you Fumi, so encouraging

  • @QueenOfTheCoast
    @QueenOfTheCoast 2 роки тому +1

    This came at the perfect time cause I just got back on tinder.

  • @Heidi-Beth
    @Heidi-Beth 2 роки тому +1

    Love Love the green fluttery dress! Wish I would accept a date. Been single for 3 yrs in March of next year. No date yet, I could but, I don't.

    • @greenbutterfly2421
      @greenbutterfly2421 2 роки тому

      Sis why not accept a date? You never know, you might meet someone you like. Or maybe it’s a being emotionally ready kind of thing, if so then yeah get yourself in a good place first. Otherwise go for it!

  • @sharikabamjan416
    @sharikabamjan416 2 роки тому +2

    Love that 😂3 months probation part 😅❤

  • @AY-ij9hn
    @AY-ij9hn 2 роки тому

    like the green