If he always purused then u didn't match his energy nd walked away, u never took a step forward in first place nd he got tired of ur games. Good for him, he dodged a bullet
"I" I was always the initiator. I would even travel 3 hours to see him on weekends and one day it just stopped. No warning no sign to warn me. Straight up told me I was his woman and told me we met for a reason and he was so into me. One day it was switch of a light switch he just stopped. So I went no contact. Know your worth! ❤
I was in this very situation end of last year so glad it ended in January. The sincerity in their words is so misleading and the persistence is hard to ignore. It's almost like he liked the chase more than me, he enjoyed the idea of me the way he painted it in his head but when he started to get to know me and what I wanted in a relationship all of sudden he is ghosting me and running for the hills.
Just had this situation. He is going through a divorce. He still loves her. I said go and fight for her. He says she needs to come to me. SMH! So I know he has women that he uses and I didn’t want to be one of them. He told on himself. I encouraged him to fix his marriage and I removed myself.
Well done!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻. And then those who are not divorcing but dissatisfied in their marriage and start chasing other women pursuing hard with emotional intimacy etc but in the end holding on to the moral high ground they are married etc...but still chasing you...at the end of the day it's still a one sided relationship / situationship and you still end up getting hurt ... so important to walk away!
I AM GOING THRU THIS RIGHT NOW!! I AM LOUD AM SPEAKING MY TRUTH!! MY PEACE IS EVERYTHING !! I DO LOVE HIM VERY MUCH, BUT I LOOVE ME MORE❤❤❤❤... YES, IT HURTS, BUT I AM DOING THIS FOR ME !!
👁 He played the pull away game on me and I told him I was breaking up with him. He was upset, but he screwed the pooch and lost a GOOD woman here. He must not have needed one because he did not try to keep me.
I can't love this video enough. I needed to stop at around 8 mintues just to digest all the wisdom. I am legit writing all this down so I don't forget. THANK YOU.
Lately this is a weekly occurrence. I’ve worked so hard to embrace the feminine nature and be less masculine and less “in control” etc. and now it’s ghost and fizzle constantly. I’m telling myself they just aren’t the right one, they’re not healthy masculine energy or I’m not for them so release it and follow my peace. But it’s wearing for sure.
After he put the engagement ring on my finger, then he pull back his energy,I had to do all the calling planning dates,and sex nights, he acted very cold towards me, and he keeps bringing up his ex, he wasted my time,but I'm keeping my ring, now I'm happy again because I have my peace❤
Yep I was doing all the girlfriend/wifey things without a TITLE. He didn't want a committed relationship but wanted me to do all these things for him SMH WOW! YES IT WAS ALL ON ME. THEN HE WOULD TELL PEOLE I WAS HIS FRIEND EVEN THOUGH WE WERE HOOKING UP. 🤨😡
Spot on Derrick. Mine kept asking when we are going for a drink. Once i agreed, afterwards, it all went down hill. I was the one always initiating the conversations. It finally came to the time to let him go.
I am crossing a period like this now. Makes me feel insecure, asking myself a lot of questions...I'll take distance cause it's draining my energy, also to be tested again and again and again... Thank you for your clear and on point advices in all videos!🤗
Mr Jaxn 🙏🏽... Another powerful message but two things were said briefly but my ears perked up when you said them. 1. In breadcrumbing... He's set a tone he's not willing to sustain and 2. You've won the battle with keeping him around physically but lost the war with loving self...Woooo! We as lovers tend to push aside, forgive others quickly and have a higher level of tolerance for what may look subtle at first. I love how you have EVOLVED from your life experiences from beginnings to now. I'm listening and learning ❤️ so I thank you. Keep them coming!!!
I just went through this. Except it's worse, I am carrying his kid now. Plus, he is dating more women on top of it. So, he has feelings for his ex, got me pregnant and now is dating other women.
DJ so true haha i was minding my own biz. Then started being all interested, texting, asking me out, long chats, gifts. after he had me 3/4 times that was it! Crickets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! completely pulled back
I was leading a protest at his place of work. He came out to ask about the protest as a way to make conversation. Got all up in my face wanting to spend time with me. After bout 2mo. Some intimacy but no relations. He was open some and started opening up more then disappeared. Tried to gas light me about my asking why he pulled away. So I pulled away. He did admit to him messing up in his past relationship. He doesn't speak negatively about his ex. Either way he brought her up to much for me. Especially to have grown kids and being divorced so long.
So true! I think there are a lot of lazy daters out there. I’d rather stay single to be honest….the rest of this video is so brilliant. Many are definitely one sided. That should be a red flag not a signal to try harder.
Best video on how true women really are lovers and not savages I ever heard. Thank you, D.! You are a blessing and a hope for all the women out there who need to remind themselves who they truly are: The Divine Feminine. ❤
I love this brother continue your good works may God Almighty heal relationships... the plan of the Devil is to destroy family... So I applaud your work continue teaching ...mentoring especially our women... I appreciate this it is helping me as a woman to improve on self love ...to grow healthy mind set ...to make better decisions... And most of all don't loose my dignity ....I support this because you see the good for someone who don't see the good in their self and you give yourself extra unnecessary work and stresses....just saying ....this Gemini Queen is a realist so yeah I love ppl who keeps it real 100 % and more though we are not all perfect in some ways .
Yep ! Been in that , and it was the eyopener i needed. Sick of middle school applicants , applying for the executive role of taking care of my heart ❤️
It is actually each character goes along with the character match. And this game is not fun and easy. Some men just don't want you. Some are not ready. Some hasn't forgotten his past love. We women need you guys all the time. And then when you aren't around we are broken. Maybe you guys are the same with some women. Or gender to gender whatever gender.
After being with my boyfriend for 2 years, we had amazing relationships he was fully invested, until he started to pull way I broke up then he came back giving me bread crumbs, I called him out tell on him I don’t want friendship with him , he asked to meet him in the middle, it hurts me but I said NO I want relationship or No 😢
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Facts. ❤
Definitely!!!!!
I will not chase but I will match your energy. You disappear to test me…I’m gone. Self love!❤
Same thoughts ❤
🙏🏼
Bingo
Amen🎉🎉
If you don't chase your peace, these men will leave you in pieces.
Please do a video and tell the married men to stay in their married lanes .Thanks in advance
Amen!!!
Amen
they are not happy in their marriages. thats why they change lanes. its just that simple.
Exactly 💯
Well that would be a contradiction…
I have in the past, but not ever again!!!! I will go silent in a new york minute! My peace of mind & goals is all I chase!!!!
YEP Been there he started heat and backed off no contact. I walked away I matched his energy.❤
Same!👍🏼
Same here. He ghosted me on Valentine's Day, AND his birthday was just a few days after that. I'm done.
If he always purused then u didn't match his energy nd walked away, u never took a step forward in first place nd he got tired of ur games. Good for him, he dodged a bullet
When he don't choose you you loose you! 100% correct!
"I" I was always the initiator. I would even travel 3 hours to see him on weekends and one day it just stopped. No warning no sign to warn me. Straight up told me I was his woman and told me we met for a reason and he was so into me. One day it was switch of a light switch he just stopped. So I went no contact. Know your worth! ❤
I can relate
I have observed this these days. Guys want the woman to pursue them. They Soft.
It’s such a turn off. Makes me question their sexuality too..
I” and I got tired! Was doing so much and felt unappreciated I refused to go thru 2023 drained ✌🏽💯
I CHOOSE PEACE ☮️, LOVE💖 and GOD ✨.
AMEN
I was in this very situation end of last year so glad it ended in January. The sincerity in their words is so misleading and the persistence is hard to ignore. It's almost like he liked the chase more than me, he enjoyed the idea of me the way he painted it in his head but when he started to get to know me and what I wanted in a relationship all of sudden he is ghosting me and running for the hills.
Same here
Omg same 😔
Just had this situation. He is going through a divorce. He still loves her. I said go and fight for her. He says she needs to come to me. SMH! So I know he has women that he uses and I didn’t want to be one of them. He told on himself. I encouraged him to fix his marriage and I removed myself.
Well done!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻. And then those who are not divorcing but dissatisfied in their marriage and start chasing other women pursuing hard with emotional intimacy etc but in the end holding on to the moral high ground they are married etc...but still chasing you...at the end of the day it's still a one sided relationship / situationship and you still end up getting hurt ... so important to walk away!
I've experienced this twice and now I just feel so numb and emotionally drained 😢
It’s to much to keep going through this with men
I AM GOING THRU THIS RIGHT NOW!! I AM LOUD AM SPEAKING MY TRUTH!! MY PEACE IS EVERYTHING !! I DO LOVE HIM VERY MUCH, BUT I LOOVE ME MORE❤❤❤❤... YES, IT HURTS, BUT I AM DOING THIS FOR ME !!
Going through it too....
Same here this I told him...I will leave you for ME.
That part
Yess🙌 girl someone wil bring more peace 🕊️
👁
He played the pull away game on me and I told him I was breaking up with him. He was upset, but he screwed the pooch and lost a GOOD woman here. He must not have needed one because he did not try to keep me.
Absolutely! That's exactly how I feel.. that's why I am just avoiding a relationship. I'm happy with myself.
I. If I got to chase it is the quickest way for me to lose interest.
Absolutely right!!! I am going through this and I let go! Toxic!!!
You are correct about everything. Some men are low down and dishonest.
Yes! This is me!!! I’m dying inside but had to walk away
I can't love this video enough. I needed to stop at around 8 mintues just to digest all the wisdom. I am legit writing all this down so I don't forget. THANK YOU.
Lately this is a weekly occurrence. I’ve worked so hard to embrace the feminine nature and be less masculine and less “in control” etc. and now it’s ghost and fizzle constantly. I’m telling myself they just aren’t the right one, they’re not healthy masculine energy or I’m not for them so release it and follow my peace. But it’s wearing for sure.
Also…. Finding my own closure instead of needing it from them. That’s a big help lately
After he put the engagement ring on my finger, then he pull back his energy,I had to do all the calling planning dates,and sex nights, he acted very cold towards me, and he keeps bringing up his ex, he wasted my time,but I'm keeping my ring, now I'm happy again because I have my peace❤
If both just behaved honestly, everything would come organically. ❤
Yep I was doing all the girlfriend/wifey things without a TITLE. He didn't want a committed relationship but wanted me to do all these things for him SMH WOW! YES IT WAS ALL ON ME. THEN HE WOULD TELL PEOLE I WAS HIS FRIEND EVEN THOUGH WE WERE HOOKING UP. 🤨😡
Worst kind of men! 😢
Now you know not to give those things without a title. Men will do less as possible for maximum results
I I I Everything you said so true. I had to let him go, the relationship felt like a job. I needed my peace back!
Spot on Derrick. Mine kept asking when we are going for a drink. Once i agreed, afterwards, it all went down hill. I was the one always initiating the conversations. It finally came to the time to let him go.
🙌🏿I have chased, no more!
I stopped chasing 88 days ago. I’m *ucking exhausted. 😢
dang you counting the days 🥱
I HAVE NO OPINION ON THIS MAN'S PERSONAL LIFE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER BUT HE TRULY BLESS ME EVERTIME HE OPEN HIS MOUTH,FOR THAT I SAY THANK YOU.
Derrick you are absolutely correct. Ladies listen Up
Real talk bro
Don't have time
Moving
Not chasing
Anything
I just went through this. I had to cut him off for good this time.
Listening to all this gives me anxiety, what happened to respect for one another, that's to much energy being wasted.
I am crossing a period like this now. Makes me feel insecure, asking myself a lot of questions...I'll take distance cause it's draining my energy, also to be tested again and again and again...
Thank you for your clear and on point advices in all videos!🤗
Every bit of what you said is so true. It took me a very long time to break it all down on my own. What you said is so true.
Mr Jaxn 🙏🏽... Another powerful message but two things were said briefly but my ears perked up when you said them. 1. In breadcrumbing... He's set a tone he's not willing to sustain and 2. You've won the battle with keeping him around physically but lost the war with loving self...Woooo! We as lovers tend to push aside, forgive others quickly and have a higher level of tolerance for what may look subtle at first. I love how you have EVOLVED from your life experiences from beginnings to now. I'm listening and learning ❤️ so I thank you. Keep them coming!!!
Yes. True facts.. stepped away from all that. Let it go. Restoring and focused on my life ..
Yes he wasted my time..
I just went through this. Except it's worse, I am carrying his kid now. Plus, he is dating more women on top of it. So, he has feelings for his ex, got me pregnant and now is dating other women.
What a mess!
Real talk bro
You on 🎯
Real message
You are just so inspiring
Genius, pure genius!
On point🎯. I am convicted. Doing what is right and moving on 🙏🏽
DJ so true haha i was minding my own biz. Then started being all interested, texting, asking me out, long chats, gifts. after he had me 3/4 times that was it! Crickets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! completely pulled back
You were hitting all the key points I’ve been suffering from. Thank you. I’m now a subscriber!
Wow. So true. I agree. Truth sets me free. Thank you again for sharing truth.
Thank you for this, sincerely. The Red Flags have been there from the beginning…!
I was leading a protest at his place of work. He came out to ask about the protest as a way to make conversation. Got all up in my face wanting to spend time with me. After bout 2mo. Some intimacy but no relations. He was open some and started opening up more then disappeared. Tried to gas light me about my asking why he pulled away. So I pulled away. He did admit to him messing up in his past relationship. He doesn't speak negatively about his ex. Either way he brought her up to much for me. Especially to have grown kids and being divorced so long.
😨🤯🤯💔💔💔 this was eye opening. "I" TRULY THANK YOU 🙏🏼😭🙏🏼
WOW Thank you for the message, handsome. Arrived at the time that it needed to be heard.
So true! I think there are a lot of lazy daters out there. I’d rather stay single to be honest….the rest of this video is so brilliant. Many are definitely one sided. That should be a red flag not a signal to try harder.
“I” … word for word this just happened!!! One of the supposed High Value Men…
Keep ‘em, my Colombian sisters
Yep has happened several times. It’s also those that I really was not interested in initially. I exited stage right.
AMENNNN! I thought it was my imagination!!
I’ve been in that position and it makes no sense to me with the dating world today. Pursuing me then falling off it’s strange 😅
Yes heard it all. Red flag. I poured encouragement and all the above. I cut it off.. I’m not wasting my precious time we don’t get back.
Definitely blessed this 48 y/o woman. ❤
Just went through this. I walked away
Games,games,games,games!!!!
They play because they got NO real consistency.
@@BrendaBaBoom : yet u girls chose them. Seems like if I wanna get girls nd sex I have to be like the guys u complain about
I
Holy smokes He showed up at my work said he was falling in love with me then ghosted me 🤷♀️
Yea got my attention... Then went hot and cold.. Tired of the bs
Same here sis like tf....what's wrong with these dudes....expected a chase but I ain't chased
Beautiful, just beautiful! Thank you!!!
My brother My God bless you always for encouraging all the woman 👩 its so true everything you saying 🙏🏽
So true, chasing sounds childish almost !
Lot of wisdom in this one ... thank you ... Needless to say ... yeah I've been through this.
Best video on how true women really are lovers and not savages I ever heard. Thank you, D.! You are a blessing and a hope for all the women out there who need to remind themselves who they truly are: The Divine Feminine. ❤
I thought he was my TF and so I had no idea, I am so happy for this information, thank you
Yes my brother I have been in that situation but I have overcome and loving myself more and the lord have favour me
True sis
I love this brother continue your good works may God Almighty heal relationships... the plan of the Devil is to destroy family... So I applaud your work continue teaching ...mentoring especially our women... I appreciate this it is helping me as a woman to improve on self love ...to grow healthy mind set ...to make better decisions... And most of all don't loose my dignity ....I support this because you see the good for someone who don't see the good in their self and you give yourself extra unnecessary work and stresses....just saying ....this Gemini Queen is a realist so yeah I love ppl who keeps it real 100 % and more though we are not all perfect in some ways .
Team Jaxn, always on point!
You are so on point!
AMEN IN THE NAME OF JESUS🙏🏽
I'm not wasting my
Time on nothing
Nothing from nothing
Leave nothing
This is so Real! Thank you Derrick!
Yes, happened to me, talked bad about his ex but still fooling around with her.
I like your topic. I never chase I get chased 😊
This is soooo true
Yep ! Been in that , and it was the eyopener i needed. Sick of middle school applicants , applying for the executive role of taking care of my heart ❤️
It is actually each character goes along with the character match. And this game is not fun and easy. Some men just don't want you. Some are not ready. Some hasn't forgotten his past love. We women need you guys all the time. And then when you aren't around we are broken. Maybe you guys are the same with some women. Or gender to gender whatever gender.
It's happened to me unfortunately 😕
To me just now recently, if it’s about being flaky nahhh!!
I' needed to hear this , thank you 🙏
On point ❤talk to me lady's know your values and worth Dimond queens 👸 be u
The 100% truth.
It's OK God will avenge me. No one gets away with anything in this world. U can't mistreat a chosen one and think you'll get away with it.
You are so good with your insight and manner of relaying what you know so right & exactly.
Your enthusiasm is adorable
Yes to all the above. All lauded on me to initiate
What I have just experienced this....eager to hear what you got to say....
Thank you, your message is Spot on. We need to hear this.
After being with my boyfriend for 2 years, we had amazing relationships he was fully invested, until he started to pull way I broke up then he came back giving me bread crumbs, I called him out tell on him I don’t want friendship with him , he asked to meet him in the middle, it hurts me but I said NO I want relationship or No 😢
Speak it brother!!!! You are on point! I don’t know what’s their problem! Just leave us alone!
I
I maintained the one sided relationship.
No more.
Truth been there, done that!!
This hit home!!😢
same!
So true💯💯💯👍🏼Thank you for great info👼🏽
Thank you!! I so needed this!! Preciate u so so much!!
Wat I think I think Ur spot on 💯because I been there I walked away best thing I did for me thank u ❤an✨⭐☀️🌟
God got me 😊
Out of mind out of sight 😊
Exactly!! 👏🏼