7 Brutally Honest Lessons To ACTUALLY Improve Your Life

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  • @kristijanstevanovic5352
    @kristijanstevanovic5352 Місяць тому +9

    Thank you for these videos sir. Sometimes I feel like I will amount to nothing because I have completely wasted the last 10 years of my life with substance abuse and living for others, but when I watch one of your videos it reminds me of why I decided to get sober 4 months ago and it puts me back on track because I don't want to be in the same place I am in now at 35. This week I am committed to start spending at least 2 hours of every day to learn a new skill, I will create an event in my calendar to come back here and see whether I have lived up to my expectations or not.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      Love it! What will be the first skill you will look to learn about? 😊

    • @kristijanstevanovic5352
      @kristijanstevanovic5352 Місяць тому +3

      @simonalexandero I want to finish a course that will certify me as an English teacher that I have been postponing for a while!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      @@kristijanstevanovic5352 🔥

    • @OurWorldAhead
      @OurWorldAhead Місяць тому +3

      I feel similarly to you. I haven't had to deal with substance abuse (fortunately), but I have had depression and anxiety on and off since I was 12. Today I'm 29, and I've fallen down so many times, I don't have a count. I'm a lot further behind careerwise compared to my peers than I'd like. However, I always get myself up and continue to move forward-that's what's important. Sometimes it's really hard to believe that a successful career is possible for me, but something in me always tells me to keep going.
      Congratulations on your sobriety; you're taking steps forward. I believe in us :)

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      @@OurWorldAhead inspiring stuff. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️

  • @lauriexwang
    @lauriexwang Місяць тому +5

    Collapsing that gap between idea and execution. This! ❤️

  • @MonkeyShotLLC
    @MonkeyShotLLC Місяць тому +5

    i commit to owning my life, my decisions and their outcomes. My obstacle is me, not the excuses ive used.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      Love it. Some powerful foundations being laid ahead of the New Year 🔥

  • @alexalarape634
    @alexalarape634 Місяць тому +1

    I'm committed to working out throughout this week. And doing the needful to improve my worth in my career and in my upcoming exam.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      Love it. Sounds like an epic week in the making 🔥

  • @TheDeebossWay
    @TheDeebossWay Місяць тому +4

    I am committed to posting 1 video a week on my new UA-cam channel (aiming low to stay consistent).
    The vulnerability of posting my thoughts and ideas out there is definitely putting me out of my comfort zone but that’s how i will grow. Thank you for posting videos like these, they truly make a difference and have inspired me to start sharing my ideas on my new channel🙏🏼

  • @bisdak4666
    @bisdak4666 Місяць тому +1

    Very true, the pleasure today can be a pain tomorrow. I am living with it right now - the ramification humbled me.

  • @Karlamaee
    @Karlamaee День тому +1

    Thank you for this!! So much insights. More power to you! ❤

  • @DadLifeOfBrian
    @DadLifeOfBrian Місяць тому +2

    Thanks Simon for the value. Favourite part was the segment about private victories. These will keep you going amidst the turbulence.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      Absolutely Brian 🙌

    • @DadLifeOfBrian
      @DadLifeOfBrian Місяць тому +2

      @ I’m going to be accountable to watching your video from start to finish as soon as it shows up on my feed.😂 but in all seriousness, I’m going to post one long form video everyday on UA-cam in 2025. That’s my promise to myself.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      @@DadLifeOfBrian love it 🔥

  • @RLFabrizi
    @RLFabrizi 29 днів тому +1

    Thank you! I only found out about you the day before yesterday through the algorithm. I experience your talks as a mix of motivational speaking and ASMR (haha). From this particular one I take away that I wasn't aware enough of the difference between being interested in something and being committed to something. Keep up the good work, wherever you are.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much. Means a lot to hear you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @Tom-hn8pl
    @Tom-hn8pl Місяць тому +1

    One of the few good channels. Look what I just found! Thank you for the amazing video!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      Wow Tom!!! Thank you so much for the kind words and so glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @Preceda11
    @Preceda11 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you fro this video. So I will be ordering Christmas gifts by the end of the week and make plan for new part of my life.

  • @LittleTalksWithMyles
    @LittleTalksWithMyles Місяць тому +1

    Completely agree, if you are not willing to put in the work, nothing will just magically happen.

  • @JDKEY27
    @JDKEY27 Місяць тому +1

    I love every words you are saying in your videos. It motivates me to do better in life! More power to you Simon for inspiring us! ❤

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much and means a lot that you’re enjoying them ❤️

  • @sawnyein8567
    @sawnyein8567 Місяць тому +1

    Many thanks for sharing the ideas and knowledge.

  • @beewellnews5316
    @beewellnews5316 Місяць тому +1

    No excuses, action brings results! 🎉

  • @abdulazizalmaneea177
    @abdulazizalmaneea177 29 днів тому +1

    Great content - thank you brother 🙏🏼

  • @dinabaxter5393
    @dinabaxter5393 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for the timely reminder to take accountability of our own lives. Sometimes the only thing that holds me back is probably me

  • @feliciaflinders
    @feliciaflinders Місяць тому +2

    ❤ a very powerful and encouraging video. Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @ToriMonpremier
    @ToriMonpremier Місяць тому +1

    Starting today I plan to become more patient in life. ❤

  • @Orientalbackyardgarden
    @Orientalbackyardgarden Місяць тому +1

    Very powerful message. Thank you for giving guidance and insight ❤❤❤

  • @sanusimusa1576
    @sanusimusa1576 10 днів тому +1

    I am committed to grow my business to the highest level of success .

  • @suhud-al-yeqeen
    @suhud-al-yeqeen Місяць тому +1

    Wise words. Thank you very much

  • @The_nqeewn
    @The_nqeewn 20 днів тому +1

    Man I just found your videos they are awesome. Thank you

  • @shalinir-bl5tr
    @shalinir-bl5tr 17 годин тому +1

    Thank you sir .i commit to my schedule n say yes to new version of me .

  • @ettyxcbyrcburcbtxcfhcdtyurt
    @ettyxcbyrcburcbtxcfhcdtyurt Місяць тому +1

    one of my old friends has a phobia of odd numbers and scrambles to change the radio station until its an even number, she once kept dialing until we landed on the mormon channel and she finally calmed down

  • @yassinedouraid908
    @yassinedouraid908 Місяць тому +1

    You are very inspirational

  • @anthonyjavier94
    @anthonyjavier94 Місяць тому +1

    Such a timely content!
    I really want to focus on becoming an email marketing specialist and I’ve taken courses but I’m struggling to take actions.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      What action are you struggling with the most right now and what is stopping you?

    • @anthonyjavier94
      @anthonyjavier94 Місяць тому +1

      @@simonalexandero Improving my communication skills, building my portfolio, crafting workflows, and implementing the things I've learned from the niche that I am trying to learn. Self-doubt, perfectionism, and overthinking often get in the way then.
      The 7 lessons really resonated with me because these are the lessons that I should always keep in mind right now if I really want to get a better life.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      @@anthonyjavier94 what small action will you commit to taking today to move you a little more forward?

    • @anthonyjavier94
      @anthonyjavier94 Місяць тому +1

      @@simonalexandero It took me some time to think but I think I should start doing daily mindshift and discipline because my mind is way to preoccupied with my family and personal challenges.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      @@anthonyjavier94 👏

  • @emi62507
    @emi62507 Місяць тому +2

    I commit to read at least 5 research papers a day, with the aim of completing my literature review. Another commitment is to exercise outside (a jog and flexibility exercise) every morning - I’ve been putting this off for 2 years now. And spiritually I will start every day in the word and with a positive pray to tackle limiting beliefs about myself.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      Today is where things start changing for the better 🙌

    • @johnpetermwangimukuha
      @johnpetermwangimukuha 28 днів тому +1

      Great comment. I hope you've read 30 research papers as of today since posting this comment.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  28 днів тому

      @@johnpetermwangimukuha 🔥

  • @MemoriaVita
    @MemoriaVita Місяць тому +1

    thankyou simon

  • @aidarzhmkv
    @aidarzhmkv Місяць тому +2

    It is a good content bro! Keep it up!
    But please make it more dinamic, more interesting to watch👍🏼

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much and grateful for the feedback 🙏

  • @mabdullahsari
    @mabdullahsari Місяць тому +1

    Success is where opportunity meets preparation.

  • @willclouded
    @willclouded Місяць тому +1

    I am committed Into going to the gym this week , and make progress on a freelance work :)

  • @TheTektronik
    @TheTektronik Місяць тому +17

    The truth is nobody's gonna hand things down to you, you gonna to go and get it if you want it.

  • @israel9294
    @israel9294 Місяць тому +2

    Your not committed your just interested and so it won’t happen. “Well said” ….you are one of my favorite mentors.
    I’m gonna try harder to get things done. It’s so easy to fall in the cycle of doing nothing productive. Thank you for making these videos and sharing.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      Grateful to you for the kind words and support ❤️

  • @UTP504
    @UTP504 Місяць тому +1

    Let’s go my friend❤️💯.

  • @sistersofstyle
    @sistersofstyle Місяць тому +4

    I am committing to working out with weights 2x a week instead of my typical 1x (going into that second workout shortly), pushing beyond the chronic nerve pain I have daily, knowing it is importantly for my health. Very inspirational video, enforcing the drive I have to lead the life I am working toward. The reminder about building resilience through the hard work, and hard work now, easier work later, are both exactly what I need to hear, now. Thank you!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      So glad to hear and enjoy that second workout 💪

  • @johnpetermwangimukuha
    @johnpetermwangimukuha 28 днів тому +1

    thanks man.

  • @simonalexandero
    @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

    What will you commit to doing this week to improve your life?

  • @JC-dt7rn
    @JC-dt7rn Місяць тому +1

    There no end to “ better “ - sounds like a grind. I agree but listen to your inner voice.

  • @JJ-tr8cu
    @JJ-tr8cu Місяць тому +1

    Thanks. Going to hit 40 soon. Feeling lost lately.

  • @jeffhou4142
    @jeffhou4142 Місяць тому +1

    all in.

  • @annamutombo5799
    @annamutombo5799 Місяць тому +1

    I commit to reading daily, exercising at least a little bit daily and helping around the house in at least a small way daily and bigger chores every 2-3 days

  • @AirilleJanLajato
    @AirilleJanLajato Місяць тому +2

    I commit myself to running every morning this week, and to study every single day for my upcoming shifting exam.

  • @triston9312
    @triston9312 Місяць тому +1

    I will study 3 books in 2 and half month.thank u for this.❤

  • @uygar9931
    @uygar9931 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for the video. I like listening to these kinda videos while I cook in the kitchen. Concerning the question "Easy now, hard later" or "Hard now, easy later", i think it is important to find the balance, we cannot always focus on what is hard now and easy later. Life is also meant to enjoy, have fun and get pleasure. In France, leasure time is as important as working hard work in life. But this mentality changes unfornunately with this capitalist world.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      Well said and I hope you enjoyed the video overall 🙏

  • @monomr
    @monomr 24 дні тому +1

    I am committed to waking early in the morning if God gives me life ..to complete: meditation & prayer, exercise, reading for 10 minutes, practice piano, study Spanish and German to be fluent and be on time for my 9-5 work.

  • @sarachesches2864
    @sarachesches2864 Місяць тому +2

    Yo, Simon! Great video, super valuable, thanks for the information. Where could I contact you with a personal question?

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you Sara! You can drop me a DM via Instagram or email (address at the bottom of my About section on the channel)

    • @sarachesches2864
      @sarachesches2864 Місяць тому +1

      @@simonalexandero Thank you so much! I just sent you an email since the Instagram link isn’t working.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      @sarachesches2864 👊

  • @kcpauz
    @kcpauz 13 днів тому +1

    I'm listening to this on the first of January

  • @carltheyoda2155
    @carltheyoda2155 Місяць тому +1

    I needed to hear this today! I'm committing to write and publish my cold email and DM sequence this week! 12/11/24

  • @BUILDYOURFUTURETODAY
    @BUILDYOURFUTURETODAY Місяць тому +2

    I'm committed too
    1. Not Smoking Weed
    2. Studying for final Exams
    3. Building my Van

  • @Maxamuudcarab1
    @Maxamuudcarab1 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      👊👊👊

    • @Maxamuudcarab1
      @Maxamuudcarab1 Місяць тому +1

      Protect your time ??? QUESTION HOW do imanage myTime ??? Please answer

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      @@Maxamuudcarab1 what are you currently saying Yes to that isn’t really productive in terms of time spent?

    • @Maxamuudcarab1
      @Maxamuudcarab1 Місяць тому +1

      @simonalexandero I spend most of my time planning so how do I plan?? Answer

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      @@Maxamuudcarab1 start with reflecting on what an ideal day looks like 🙌

  • @michaelwhitham4501
    @michaelwhitham4501 Місяць тому +4

    After a couple of weeks now threatening to clean the dust of my pushbike and start the steps to getting fit again and failing and make excuses every time,I commit to going out on the bike tomorrow

  • @Mumin_Official
    @Mumin_Official Місяць тому +1

    0:22

  • @Dhruvtank-dm
    @Dhruvtank-dm Місяць тому +2

    I will try to focus on my goal with consistency but some time i feel dmotivated and i m not be able to focus in my goal

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      What would be helpful for you in keeping yourself on track and more consistent?

  • @aaliyahluv89
    @aaliyahluv89 Місяць тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @schoolneverteach
    @schoolneverteach 10 днів тому +1

    Great nudges

  • @jacksoncyprianblaze6730
    @jacksoncyprianblaze6730 Місяць тому +1

    Remember--knowledge builds up like compound interest and winners act like winners before they became winners that you know. Ask Usain Bolt, ask Daniel Dubois, ask Simon Alexander Ong and many more winners in various areas of life!

  • @ismelfigueroa
    @ismelfigueroa Місяць тому +1

    Very inspiring Simon, now, let’s do it, bye.

  • @seanelliot22
    @seanelliot22 22 дні тому +1

    I am committed to creating more content and consuming less of it

  • @BiancaArtsPlanning
    @BiancaArtsPlanning Місяць тому +1

    I commit to work on my side hustle 5 hours a week. By the end of 2025, I will have a second income.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому +1

      Love it Bianca and so excited to see hear how your 2025 progresses 🔥

  • @Jauwly
    @Jauwly 8 днів тому +1

    I am committed to going to the gym

  • @deadroller
    @deadroller Місяць тому +1

    love the message and the channel, but wondering if the meaning of life is really this non-stop grinding on improving yourself. Feel like there should be a balance.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      Thank you and you’re right. Very important to get a balance between working hard to improve yourself and enjoying time to just be, to live and to enjoy the present 👏

  • @Premterror007
    @Premterror007 Місяць тому +1

    I’m going to keep learning coding and become a Robotic software developer.

  • @connoroshea
    @connoroshea Місяць тому +2

    I am going to have a songwriting lesson with an established professional songwriter.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      I can feel the commitment in this Connor 🔥

  • @markrolandeugenio1177
    @markrolandeugenio1177 26 днів тому +1

    I will give more time to become more disciplined and consistent in trading.

  • @MefenamicSoundwaves
    @MefenamicSoundwaves Місяць тому +1

    200k portfolio and 6 pack 2025

  • @AndyRoidEU
    @AndyRoidEU Місяць тому +1

    Platitudes up until 01:10

  • @sawnyein8567
    @sawnyein8567 Місяць тому +1

    Man

  • @SimeonTodd
    @SimeonTodd Місяць тому +1

    eating whole foods 80% of the time

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      Love it Simeon! And will be so good for your energy 🔥