Become unstoppable.

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  • Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
  • Becoming “her” is a mindset shift that starts and evolves from you. Your energy shifts, your mindset, your goals, and your purpose all flows from you.
    People from your past will not always enjoy your growth journey but their opinions are irrelevant. They know an old version of you and she doesn’t exist any longer. You are allowed to change, evolve, and desire more for yourself. You don’t need approval or validation. Life is too short to stall your blossoming. As always, this message is sent with love. 💕

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  • @vita926
    @vita926 7 днів тому +32

    Perfect timing and perfect reminder as I’m healing from a breakup and keep getting pulled back into the toxic patterns that I want to move past. I’ve spent a lot of today in mediation focused on letting go, so I feel this video was sent to me in a way 🙏🏽

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  6 днів тому +4

      Awww what an incredible thing, I believe in confirmations as well so I am honored to be part of your healing journey & I thank you for sharing and allowing me to receive the messages I needed too. I send you love on your journey as well because it is not an easy one! You will evolve into such a beautiful space from here!♥️♥️

    • @vita926
      @vita926 6 днів тому +1

      @@alonnaelaine thank you ❤️

    • @genelbey
      @genelbey День тому

      You're awesome 😎🎉

  • @ParadiseIsGleaming
    @ParadiseIsGleaming День тому +6

    Going through this with a parent…. mom to be EXACT!
    I let her disturb my peace for the last time last night and I’ve made my mind up to just mask my emotions around her
    I can’t and will not give her my good or my bad.
    Cause it’s DRAINING, she literally found something about me to poke at and had no authority to because it’s pertaining to how I parent my child
    I’m not all loud and ratchet with him 24/7. I talk TO HIM and reassure him and APOLOGIZE and let him tell me when I’m wrong or when I’ve hurt his feelings and I listen!!!
    She be wanting to talk and have me to just listen but when you come invading my peace and I’ve done nothing to you ohhh I have every right to speak up for myself.
    She left the conversation with her feathers ruffled and still hasn’t apologized or saw where she needs to take accountability at.
    Mind you she did all of this in front of my 8 year old son.
    I had to talk to him yet AGAIN and let him know that was rude and unkind what she did.
    That she did not have to behave that way any she doesn’t she automatically get respect because of a title or DNA.
    My son is VERY emotionally intelligent🤔 wonder who instilled that in him…. Me
    And she has a bad I mean strong problem with control issues and manipulation.
    I just can’t talk to her in a heated debate for her to try and tell me to lower my voice cause trust me I haven’t, when I raise my voice the whole world 🌎 will know it!!
    Tired of holding stuff in but also tired of talking to someone where there is no resolution and nothing but land minds every other few miles, days/weeks/months apart.
    It’s toxic asf

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  8 годин тому +1

      Yes it is and trust me the process of seeing “family” clearly is really difficult because we’re taught to care & prioritize them. It is a brave thing to do, not only for yourself but also your son and any children he has in the future. You are changing generational patterns of thinking and behavior - for a time it will feel like you are so alone. However, the people who you discover from this point forward will align with the version of you that wanted more and they will be exactly what your higher self knew you always deserved. It is a beautiful and expansive path you are on and you are never alone.♥️ Thank you for being here and being courageous enough to share your story.

  • @del3492
    @del3492 13 днів тому +13

    This was so timely and helpful. thank you so much

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  13 днів тому

      @@del3492 ♥️♥️ I love that it was, thank you for sharing!

  • @beeloocheemateo
    @beeloocheemateo День тому +2

    😮😮😮😮 PREACH !!!

  • @HermSupreme
    @HermSupreme 12 днів тому +13

    The Power of Letting Go. Its definitely a beautiful thing and opens up for so many new opportunities. Keep up the great content!

  • @fozet
    @fozet 5 днів тому +8

    I came across content at the right time- you’re beautiful and wise !
    Looking forward to hearing more from you
    Thank you so much!

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  5 днів тому

      Thank you so much! I appreciate your kind words, they really mean a lot!♥️🦋

  • @Tina_45
    @Tina_45 6 годин тому +1

    Just turned 28, realized I need to get my act together so this is perfect timing!

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  4 години тому

      You will evolve at every stage, so you’re on time for whatever path you feel aligned with!♥️♥️ I’m so glad this message resonated & you could take something from it. When I was 28, things were constantly shifting. Being open to the journey is what makes it so much fun. Your inner child will be the perfect guide for certain steps & other times your future self will desire something different. The flow that comes from calmly tuning into those energies will literally take you so far. So much love on your journey my friend!!♥️

  • @Onechance_ngl
    @Onechance_ngl 2 дні тому +3

    Whew. This is way too relatable. I listened to you along with my morning affirmations and meditation line up. Thanks for helping me get my day started!

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  2 дні тому +1

      🥹 That made my day, I am honored to be part of your morning routine. I hope you felt the love & positive energy!

    • @Onechance_ngl
      @Onechance_ngl 2 дні тому

      @@alonnaelaine I absolutely did. Definitely had to subscribe!

  • @make_emfall_inlovee
    @make_emfall_inlovee День тому +1

    First video and great one at that 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  7 годин тому

      Thank you beautiful!!♥️♥️

  • @TitatheCreator
    @TitatheCreator 12 годин тому +1

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾this is a word i have been through this and i am currently experiencing this. The way you break it down your choice of words perfect. Thanks for sharing 🫶🏾

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  9 годин тому +1

      Thank you so much for listening!🥹🙏🏾

  • @JanaeMeeks
    @JanaeMeeks 58 хвилин тому

    Girrrrrrllllll u are speaking to my life Thank you so much for this video I am going to watch repeatedly to become unstoppable an stand on my newest version and my aligned version ❤

  • @KeturahsKaleidoscope
    @KeturahsKaleidoscope 2 дні тому +2

    heavy on the "you're not reacting the way I want you to." I had a friend like this I would always get upset and flustered.

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  2 дні тому

      Me too, I had to learn to connect back with myself to not “be” who they felt they could benefit from.

  • @BricejenkinsTV
    @BricejenkinsTV День тому +1

    Love this ! Needed this 💪🏾🤞🏾

  • @GoddessGlowEmpowerment
    @GoddessGlowEmpowerment День тому +1

    This is sooo on point

  • @SpoiledBrittany
    @SpoiledBrittany 23 години тому +1

    loved it! keep going loved 1 ❤

  • @foxy654
    @foxy654 5 годин тому +1

    Love this!! Just subscribed 🙌🏾

  • @NoPlace-LikeHome
    @NoPlace-LikeHome День тому +1

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @TheExoticBrownSkin
    @TheExoticBrownSkin День тому +1

    THIS IS SO GOOD

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  8 годин тому

      Thank you so much!!♥️🙏🏾

  • @jenlove555
    @jenlove555 День тому +1

    I can definitely relate to ur philosophy 😊💗

  • @prettylittleinvestor
    @prettylittleinvestor 5 годин тому +1

    I had no idea, for my whole adult life my sisters hated me and purposely left me out. I just found out how much envy they held towards me about my blessings. Full on gifts from my mother that I never deserved, that I never asked for, that god put on my mother to give to me. Why weren’t my sisters mad at my mom for bestowing the blessings? Becuz they didn’t want her to stop giving to them ALSO! My mom was giving to them as much as me, but they felt they deserved what my mom gave them but what I got I was undeserving of (and I was, that’s why they were blessings). My sisters are more financially and professionally successful than me because with all my moms blessings, she couldn’t buy my career or my bank account. It blew my mind why they hated me and I can’t cure anyone’s envy 👍 I lay that at the foot of the cross and let God fight the battle ✝️

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  4 години тому +1

      The pain that comes from sisterhood betrayal is very painful and I completely understand the inability to reconcile the experience. I’ve had to mourn the loss of people still living. It’s not easy but the journey made me so much stronger & the clarity of purpose was potent. Whoever you are meant to touch with your story will benefit from you processing those moments now. Thank you for sharing your story, it is so necessary to know we are not alone.♥️♥️

    • @prettylittleinvestor
      @prettylittleinvestor 4 години тому

      @@alonnaelaine I was looking at an old vision board from 2016 talking about wanting a restored relationship with my sisters… And it was like, man, I’ve been trying to bring something back for years that’s never going to come back 💔

  • @annettebunch7984
    @annettebunch7984 3 дні тому +2

    Take one day at a time its ok ..Get to know whats good for you on your new journey ❤❤❤i understand healing takes time...Take all the time you need

  • @annettebunch7984
    @annettebunch7984 3 дні тому +1

    Beautifully said yes!! I needed this message ❤❤❤❤❤❤im going through everything you are talking about..but im moving on in silence

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  3 дні тому

      I’m so glad it helped! It isn’t always easy to do it in silence but there is so much peace to gain!♥️

  • @AMtothepm29
    @AMtothepm29 8 днів тому +3

    This so helpful. I had an epiphany.

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  7 днів тому

      Thank you for being here!♥️🙏🏾

  • @Shirleyk.
    @Shirleyk. 5 днів тому +2

    💯 facts !!

  • @Blessseddbb
    @Blessseddbb День тому +2

    20:26 whew this is NOT normal . I’m a single mom but after traveling to islands so much I’d rather have slow mornings why rush and the he** with closure

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  7 годин тому

      😭😭 Ok, I had to unpack to realign with a slower pace and ease. The process of giving myself closure was empowering because we truly do decide when and how we move forward.♥️ Love this for you!

  • @ShondaD_
    @ShondaD_ 4 дні тому +1

    This video was everything for me to hear today❤ new subbie.

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  4 дні тому

      Thank you so much for being here & for your support! It means a lot!🥹♥️

  • @dailyrepsofficial
    @dailyrepsofficial 3 дні тому +1

    To become unstoppable, embrace the wisdom of Epictetus: 'It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.'
    Your mindset shapes your strength. Harness resilience and focus, and you'll forge an unbreakable path to your goals.

  • @Moreeelifeee
    @Moreeelifeee 14 годин тому +1

    14:00

  • @_glooo
    @_glooo 4 дні тому +1

  • @leilanibond4309
    @leilanibond4309 22 години тому +1

    Every single word. They intentionally try to bring out an old version that doesn't exist anymore

  • @jamarkusw7064
    @jamarkusw7064 12 годин тому +1

    hey, do you mind if i get the music for your outro? a nice vibe i can chill to around the house

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  9 годин тому

      Absolutely, it’s by MeridianMusic called Lazy Cow.

  • @thehaircave205
    @thehaircave205 3 дні тому +1

    Can I do yo hair

  • @coriyoutubehandle
    @coriyoutubehandle 2 дні тому +1

    so you're saying these 'people' will never change / don't expect them to or they are just like that until they decide to?

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  2 дні тому +3

      The inner work that’s necessary for someone to change is too difficult for some. The courage to show up for yourself is a gift & some people struggle with seeing other people elevate beyond what they “expected” them to do. So we leave people where they are with love and no judgement. If they meet us at that new place and we’re meant to align then we do, if not, it’s all good too.

    • @coriyoutubehandle
      @coriyoutubehandle 2 дні тому +1

      wow you break things down effortlessly 😥

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  2 дні тому +1

      I am truly humbled you think so. Honestly, thank you for that. I just decided to make something beautiful out of my experiences & share them with others. I appreciate your comments and that you were listening.🙏🏾

    • @coriyoutubehandle
      @coriyoutubehandle 2 дні тому

      Na I can just feel your experiences and the courage of you sharing them to help other people. God thanks you lol.

  • @MirianaWhite
    @MirianaWhite День тому +1

    That was amazing! I am going through a highly transformative phase and this video made me feel so heard and understood. ❤Thank you so much! 🫶

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  8 годин тому

      Omg, that is so beautiful! ♥️ I’m so glad we aligned!

  • @IAmEllaGambia
    @IAmEllaGambia 3 дні тому +2

    I’m mindblown cus the things u said in this video is straight from my own head 🤯 It resonates so much. ❤️🫂

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine  2 дні тому

      That’s so dope!♥️ I’m so glad it is aligned!