Alonna Elaine
Alonna Elaine
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Smart women don’t get used, they take notes.
Learning to have more intentional boundaries will save you from giving more of yourself to people who lack the self-awareness necessary to love you. Friendships, connections, relationships, and life in general gets better when we are kinder to ourselves. Self-love is a stepping stone to greater levels of self-acceptance, spiritual growth, and alignment.
Today, we are discussing how to change our perspective regarding boundaries, codependency, and our ability to change our narrative. Whether you have identified yourself as codependent or are healing from codependency manipulation tactics - we are lovingly diving into a much-needed conversation. As always, I appreciate your support and community. It is from a place of love that I share my experiences, and I am grateful that you listen.
This topic was requested; thank you @wayNAY87 for the inspiration! ♥️
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Many have requested the ability to work with me directly; that just went live! You can now book a 1-on-1 with me via my website at alonnaelaineinc.com
I look forward to connecting with you! Thank you for your support and for trusting me to join your journey.
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Відео

How to get out of your own way & be unrecognizable by 2025
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The new year is almost here and the thought of another “transformation list” we don’t fulfill can make us forget how capable we truly are. Maintaining the dream life we desire to have is like anything else, we must have a plan or system in place to keep it. Like going to work daily or changing your car’s oil - you must see our dream life as one we are capable of keeping and nurturing with care....
14 things every woman should know before 30, that will change your life.
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Hello beautiful! Today we’re diving into lessons from my 20s that made my 30s blossom. You can change, evolve, and shift at any point in life - and you should! Life is a process of rediscovering yourself at different stages. What you decide you want expands the more you learn who you truly are. Allowing yourself to nurture that curiosity for exploration is truly what makes life grand. As always...
You just broke up…now what? Healing from a friendship breakup.💔
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At times, nothing feels more uncomfortable than navigating the unpredictable waters of friendships, especially when those relationships suffer from tensions that lead to breakups. When we also experience life through the lens of being a highly sensitive person, those challenges can feel almost unbearable. When we learn better systems, that are tailored to our personalities and way of experienci...
How to confidently speak to literally anyone & get what you desire from life.
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The ability to communicate is a skill that elevates you above the crowd. You are chosen for more opportunities to demonstrate your capabilities & positively represent those associated with you. Creativity, life, love, and expansion all stem from communication. Expressing your needs, sharing your love, dreaming bigger are interconnected in the art of communicating. Learning to not fear being hea...
Soft life, but make it productive. How I’m achieving more by doing less.
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Like many of us, I struggled with stepping into my own authentic self. Being feminine and the “soft life” wasn’t introduced at early stages of life. I had to learn, unlearn, and consciously give myself permission to exist in those spaces where I had not seen real life examples. Whether you identify as a late bloomer, neurodivergent, or are just struggling with aligning with your higher more suc...
“Seeing potential” is a gift, you’re just using it wrong. How to stop feeling used by people.
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“Seeing potential” is a gift, you’re just using it wrong. How to stop feeling used by people.
How you speak to yourself matters. Improve your self-esteem & confidence today.
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How you speak to yourself matters. Improve your self-esteem & confidence today.
How smart women make better decisions with confidence.
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How smart women make better decisions with confidence.
Smart women know these things can change their lives.
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Smart women know these things can change their lives.
Become unstoppable.
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Become unstoppable.
Simple Steps to Authentically Change Your Reality
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Simple Steps to Authentically Change Your Reality
This is for when your fears are holding you back.
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This is for when your fears are holding you back.
ENTER YOUR “DO NOT DISTURB” ERA| energy, distractions, spirituality
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ENTER YOUR “DO NOT DISTURB” ERA| energy, distractions, spirituality
DESPERATE GIRLS FINISH LAST | magnetism, confidence, & love
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DESPERATE GIRLS FINISH LAST | magnetism, confidence, & love
They see your potential more than you do.
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They see your potential more than you do.
Episode 02: Boundaries Are a Nonnegotiable
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Episode 02: Boundaries Are a Nonnegotiable
Episode 01: Starting over mid-year (2024) | 3 tips for transformation
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Episode 01: Starting over mid-year (2024) | 3 tips for transformation
But there's no such thing as wasted time.
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But there's no such thing as wasted time.
How to really be confident: master your energy, self-worth, crush limiting beliefs
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How to really be confident: master your energy, self-worth, crush limiting beliefs
Overcoming Self-Sabotage: Strategies for Success and Personal Growth
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Overcoming Self-Sabotage: Strategies for Success and Personal Growth
Use what you've been through.
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Use what you've been through.
Stop putting yourself on mute.
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Stop putting yourself on mute.
Why You Should NOT Take on The Insecurities of Others
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Why You Should NOT Take on The Insecurities of Others
Watch when you feel like you’re late for life.
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Watch when you feel like you’re late for life.
How to Find Your Tribe as an Adult | Girl Chat
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How to Find Your Tribe as an Adult | Girl Chat
how to feel confident & put together - a realistic guide
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how to feel confident & put together - a realistic guide
Two years of therapy later…
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Two years of therapy later…
they want you to care more, but their opinions are irrelevant #healing #confidence #mindset
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they want you to care more, but their opinions are irrelevant #healing #confidence #mindset
ask for what you want: release your past, remember yourself, & find joy again
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ask for what you want: release your past, remember yourself, & find joy again

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  • @tb22k
    @tb22k Годину тому

    Thank you 🤩

  • @hugov89
    @hugov89 2 години тому

    I enjoyed this. Thanks

  • @reenujose4937
    @reenujose4937 3 години тому

    You are pretty 🥹

  • @kmv928
    @kmv928 3 години тому

    Immediate sub, thank you for sharing! 💖

  • @Armored_Saint
    @Armored_Saint 5 годин тому

    mujeres inteligentes.

  • @alana.indigo
    @alana.indigo 7 годин тому

    35:35 “we are keeping them too long.” Boom. Lightbulb moment. Thanks

  • @Thato_
    @Thato_ 7 годин тому

    Subscribed omg this is good! Thanks!🌹💐🌹💐

  • @sbella44
    @sbella44 8 годин тому

    All I can say is this is excellent, life transforming content❤

  • @milicaradinovic7747
    @milicaradinovic7747 9 годин тому

    You are such an incredible and wise woman.

  • @LeighannRiceDietitian
    @LeighannRiceDietitian 9 годин тому

    Needed this!

  • @teshiajones807
    @teshiajones807 10 годин тому

    I learned so much in the first 50 seconds Its crazy ❤

  • @sandracolleen4203
    @sandracolleen4203 10 годин тому

    Such excellent kind supportive advice. Thankfully I've got many closed and open notebooks. Very powerful to write oneself free.

  • @ShiaGirl18
    @ShiaGirl18 10 годин тому

    I subscribed in less than eight seconds. 😊

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine 10 годин тому

      🥹🤍 lovely to have you here!

    • @ShiaGirl18
      @ShiaGirl18 9 годин тому

      @alonnaelaine Thank you.

  • @Gettothegone
    @Gettothegone 10 годин тому

    I took the bucket

  • @Amber_Aquarius
    @Amber_Aquarius 11 годин тому

    🌳👀📝🌳 😂 I love this analogy

  • @Allie5710
    @Allie5710 17 годин тому

    About to turn 28 and definitely needed a mentor to keep me going and get me back on track! So so glad I found your channel!!

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine 10 годин тому

      So beautiful! I’m glad you aligned with this message!♥️

  • @yahyah5803
    @yahyah5803 21 годину тому

    🔥🔥🔥THANK YOU! 🔥🔥🔥 information super helpful. I will implement these tips in my life, listen to this video with my daughter and sister, and start a conversation that hopefully snowballs into us living our best lives.

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine 10 годин тому

      Wow! That’s amazing! I hope it continues to help you all♥️

  • @singsongs11
    @singsongs11 22 години тому

    I stumbled on this video while looking for something else…started to end the video and continue my search, but EVERYTHING you said was so relatable…WOW! I found myself in a lot of these scenarios. Awesome video. Thanks!

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine 10 годин тому

      Wow, how amazing, I love how aligned life can be!♥️

  • @sambam5382
    @sambam5382 День тому

    This Was GOOOOD!! #NewSubscriber !

  • @NinaLeroyxx
    @NinaLeroyxx День тому

    Have you ever noticed how someone like Alonna just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!

  • @dilara24
    @dilara24 День тому

    Maam, can you be my mentor? Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us. God bless you and protect you <3

  • @mirandaalaine
    @mirandaalaine День тому

    I love this so much. Thank you :)

  • @3xyrz
    @3xyrz День тому

    2:22 very true

  • @chatwkristin7399
    @chatwkristin7399 День тому

    I needed this girl! Thank you ❤

  • @SunnyD80
    @SunnyD80 День тому

    I use family patterns therapy to help with what you mentioned. Great video❤

  • @Leidylive
    @Leidylive День тому

    I’m 34 just seeing this video.. never too late to make better choices for yourself ty❤

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine 10 годин тому

      Absolutely! ♥️♥️ These can change our lives at any point, reminding yourself to constantly transform is a potent gift.

  • @moviabasajja1223
    @moviabasajja1223 День тому

    I really needed to hear this .thank you so much

  • @18panama
    @18panama День тому

    So good. It’s like my inner monologue out loud. Through all the struggles woman experience to be against each other is so low energy and it saddens me. I still pray for them no matter what because being free in Gods love is like the fountain of youth. I wish for others to unlock all the levels to this spiritual experience. Well said. Ty.

    • @alonnaelaine
      @alonnaelaine 10 годин тому

      So true, especially about the fountain of youth. This is what helped me let go of so much pain and anger. I understood it wasn’t meant for me to control. I had to step aside so God could heal those parts of me. It allowed me to go back to school, start my channel, and really align with my purpose of helping other women. Thank you for sharing your insight, it will help so many others on their journey.💕

  • @sabrinajoseph1982
    @sabrinajoseph1982 День тому

    Girl you need to post on balados too !!! I very like your content❤

  • @ashleydelone3889
    @ashleydelone3889 День тому

    I agree 100% everything you just said especially the part where you said in order to move on you have to cut these ppl out of your life completely. I have a non supportive mom who thinks I’m a failure in life because I wasn’t guided properly growing up and instead of looking at herself as the problem she blames me for my mistakes. Now that I’m a lot older and understand everything she just looks like a complete joke to me. Yes she’s my mother and took care of me but she did the bare minimum and never cared about what I wanted or needed while growing up. She’s a huge narcissist and a liar. I pray one day I can move on in life away from her and prove her wrong

  • @ketherwhale6126
    @ketherwhale6126 День тому

    They’re babies if they constantly push boundaries. Are they three?

  • @prettypractical3372
    @prettypractical3372 День тому

    I was not expecting to cry around 12:10 - 12:38 😢 So glad I’m in therapy.

  • @prettypractical3372
    @prettypractical3372 День тому

    Subscribed.

  • @percyastronautstatus.8780
    @percyastronautstatus.8780 День тому

    “ diagnosed with Narcissism “. lol My first time hearing someone being diagnosed but I get the point ..Love your Voice by the way

  • @honeyaddisababa
    @honeyaddisababa День тому

    100%

  • @alisonrichardson1
    @alisonrichardson1 День тому

    Beautifully said thank you ❤ you slotted everything that I already knew into place and it was a brilliant reminder to be easy with myself. I love the way you brought the psychology of it all together 💋 💯

  • @nqobileshabangu21
    @nqobileshabangu21 День тому

    This is literally what I am going through. The fact that I am too nice and now people treat me like I'm a dumb person. It's time to draw some boundaries. Thank you for this video❤ @luckymaseko

  • @akilahbrooklyn8236
    @akilahbrooklyn8236 День тому

    New subscriber. Great content.

  • @nadiacampbell4014
    @nadiacampbell4014 День тому

    Laaaaadyyyy, who are you!!! So glad I came across this. 💕💕💕

  • @kimarabellegarde
    @kimarabellegarde День тому

    Thank you, sweetheart, for this video.❤

  • @RondalynJones-uz5ht
    @RondalynJones-uz5ht День тому

    I am learning so much about my life

  • @sapnapandey5922
    @sapnapandey5922 День тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @sakuraXhinataMix2
    @sakuraXhinataMix2 День тому

    Amazing. Thank you for sharing.

  • @bspencer8893
    @bspencer8893 2 дні тому

    First time here!! Absolutely needed this

  • @ShelseaBuckhaulter-l2w
    @ShelseaBuckhaulter-l2w 2 дні тому

    This was amazing 🙌🏾Beautifully done❤

  • @patriciaayebare9408
    @patriciaayebare9408 2 дні тому

    I needed this so much!

  • @nyahsanders18
    @nyahsanders18 2 дні тому

    i know your kids are so blessed to have you as a mom.

  • @PreachThePoet
    @PreachThePoet 2 дні тому

    I have been just playing this and rewinding over and over. this is right on time. I appreciate your directness.

  • @RealLadi228
    @RealLadi228 2 дні тому

    Girl I laugh every chance I get even when im alone I laugh at myself!! Im happy you found me today 😌😅 You are breathtakingly gorgeous you look like a piece of delicious caramel 😋 Funny how my mind was already thinking of positive affirmations for 2025 this morning and then you found me! Hahaha ❤

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY87 2 дні тому

    This is actually really profound