Yesterday I was sharing how unconfident I feel because of the lack of life experiences I have had and how much I have shyed away from who I am. Today I was having a stern talk with myself about my negative self talk and rumination because of my historical reality. And then this pops up! I am leaning to trust myself and give myself grace. I’ve gotten me this far. And everyone else seems to think I can - but I don’t. Everything matches up perfectly with the message as usual ❤
Sometimes we have to see ourselves through the lens of those who love and support us most. Then when we feel safe and stable, we can learn to trust ourselves. These are powerful self reflections that help us realign our focus and intentions.
So sooo glad I found your channel! I’m on my own journey of elevating spiritually and emotionally, and removing myself from certain spaces and being wiser with my energy. Your videos are so encouraging 💖💖
That is so beautiful! It is such a special thing when we give ourselves the love we deserve, in the form of spiritual, emotional, & mental growth. Sending so much love on your discovery journey!♥️
I just started watching your videos today, and I’m already a huge fan! Your unique ideas really shine through, and the background is fantastic. Keep up the great work!
Hello beautiful! Welcome, I’m so glad you are here. It is such a powerful energy to intentionally pour into yourself. I know it will be amazing, be kind to yourself!♥️♥️ Sending love!!
Thanks for DOING the WORK and giving relatable experiences, scenarios, and practical steps to move forward. I haven’t seen not one video from you that I didn’t resonate with! I felt convicted about the rigid thinking and that’s something I will start working on👌🏾🤍 your videos are so needed!
I had to work on that too! For me, rigid thinking isn’t necessarily bad, but if you feel you’d like to be more open in certain areas of your life, that’s a good way to think about it. Our way of thinking and navigating life protected us for so long. Now, you’re in a different place so different tools are needed at this new level of life. That helped me think about it in a nonjudgmental way so I could lovingly expand to new levels of growth in my journey. Thank you for listening btw, I’m so glad it resonated.💕
today is my first day coming across your channel 💕 I love being here already ! I am 22 and it’s always an honor to see a big sister somewhere in the world giving advice on matters that aren’t talked about enough. The way you explained things resonates so deeply with me. Thank you so much !
I love your channel sis. So glad I came across you and all of your gems. My healing and self improvement journey is so important to me. Quick question what's IG?
You have to set boundaries with her because it’s not fair to drain yourself to please her. However, if guilt is going to consume you for cutting her off, then you need to create temporary space between you two. Don’t see her as often, don’t answer every call, and don’t always be available for her. Eventually you will either feel more comfortable with the space and continue to manage that relationship or you will realize how free you feel energetically and distance yourself completely. Either way, you have to start with knowing it’s ok and healthy to have boundaries with people.
The idea of being fast and grown came from times of slavery and no women’s rights. You should research where it comes from and the lasting effects it has had on many black women 😊
“We have to be willing to take imperfect action.”
“I have air I need to breathe” 😂 I love it!
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Yesterday I was sharing how unconfident I feel because of the lack of life experiences I have had and how much I have shyed away from who I am. Today I was having a stern talk with myself about my negative self talk and rumination because of my historical reality. And then this pops up! I am leaning to trust myself and give myself grace. I’ve gotten me this far. And everyone else seems to think I can - but I don’t. Everything matches up perfectly with the message as usual ❤
Sometimes we have to see ourselves through the lens of those who love and support us most. Then when we feel safe and stable, we can learn to trust ourselves. These are powerful self reflections that help us realign our focus and intentions.
@@alonnaelaine I love that!
35:35 “we are keeping them too long.” Boom. Lightbulb moment. Thanks
So sooo glad I found your channel! I’m on my own journey of elevating spiritually and emotionally, and removing myself from certain spaces and being wiser with my energy. Your videos are so encouraging 💖💖
That is so beautiful! It is such a special thing when we give ourselves the love we deserve, in the form of spiritual, emotional, & mental growth. Sending so much love on your discovery journey!♥️
This is the type of content I’ve been craving . I’m so blessed to have found you ❤
Awww I am so blessed to receive that love, thank you!
I just started watching your videos today, and I’m already a huge fan! Your unique ideas really shine through, and the background is fantastic. Keep up the great work!
Thank you so much!♥️
Thank you for your
profound insight and
clarity has helped me
already ❤
Agreed. We should be seeking eventual excellence rather than perfection. Perfection can be paralyzing causing us to forfeit our goals and dreams.
Absolutely!💯
I really loved how watching this it really made me feel like she was talking strictly to me. I needed this.
I don’t think you’ll ever know how much that comment touched me. Thank you so much for being here.♥️🥹🙏🏾
I needed to hear this. I felt like she knew exactly what I need to improve on. Thank you so much.😄
🥹♥️ thank you so much for your words, they help me more than you realize. With sooo much love, I hope your healing journey is expansive!♥️🦋
Thank you for sharing
this all makes sense
understanding ourselves
and others. Very helpful!
Thank you so much & I’m so glad it helped.
Subscribed on the first point
🙏🏾♥️ thank you so much!
Yooo same!😊✨
I’m new here ✨💕 I’m on a self discovery/ healing journey. I’m so happy I found this channel and I’m definitely working on the way I speak to myself.
Hello beautiful! Welcome, I’m so glad you are here. It is such a powerful energy to intentionally pour into yourself. I know it will be amazing, be kind to yourself!♥️♥️ Sending love!!
i hit subscribe because you are a powerful woman! God bless you sis ❤
🥹🥹♥️Thank you so much!
Thanks for DOING the WORK and giving relatable experiences, scenarios, and practical steps to move forward. I haven’t seen not one video from you that I didn’t resonate with! I felt convicted about the rigid thinking and that’s something I will start working on👌🏾🤍 your videos are so needed!
I had to work on that too! For me, rigid thinking isn’t necessarily bad, but if you feel you’d like to be more open in certain areas of your life, that’s a good way to think about it.
Our way of thinking and navigating life protected us for so long. Now, you’re in a different place so different tools are needed at this new level of life. That helped me think about it in a nonjudgmental way so I could lovingly expand to new levels of growth in my journey.
Thank you for listening btw, I’m so glad it resonated.💕
@ yesssssss to everything you said!🙌🏾👌🏾🫶🏾❤️
today is my first day coming across your channel 💕 I love being here already ! I am 22 and it’s always an honor to see a big sister somewhere in the world giving advice on matters that aren’t talked about enough. The way you explained things resonates so deeply with me. Thank you so much !
That is so beautiful!! Thank you for sharing that!🥹♥️🙏🏾
This is great content,thank you.
Thank you♥️♥️
Love this message
Thank you so much 🙏🏾🥹
10/10 video. Perfectly executed, and I love how this message was straight to the point.
🙏🏾♥️ thank you
You just got me as a new subscriber. You’re so real ❤
Thank you so much - you beautiful soul!♥️🦋
What a great video 💗
♥️♥️thank you so much!
Thank you so much for this episode super intelligente woman , Godess energy big love and support !! Add follow
Thank you so much!🙏🏾♥️
Alonna this was so beautiful . Thank you so much
Thank you so so much♥️
Listening to you some times feel like. Therapy! Thanks ❤
Awwww 🥹🙏🏾 thank you lovely! I’m glad to help♥️
New subscriber! I am loving your content 💕
🥹♥️🙏🏾So lovely to have you here! Thank you!
I love your channel sis. So glad I came across you and all of your gems. My healing and self improvement journey is so important to me. Quick question what's IG?
Thank you love! ♥️ I am so happy it’s helpful, I don’t have IG anymore unfortunately.
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the family heirloom 😂😂😂 girl yess. like an old moldy fruitcake.
Thank you for this video ❤
😭😂 thank you for watching!♥️
Hey Alonna I have started watching your videos and truly admire your wisdom and life journey. How could I communicate with you privately?
You can send me an email at management@alonnaelaine.com ♥️
Okay but what do you do when the toxic person is your mom and you do not want to cut her out of your life but she’s so stagnant in toxicity?
You have to set boundaries with her because it’s not fair to drain yourself to please her. However, if guilt is going to consume you for cutting her off, then you need to create temporary space between you two. Don’t see her as often, don’t answer every call, and don’t always be available for her. Eventually you will either feel more comfortable with the space and continue to manage that relationship or you will realize how free you feel energetically and distance yourself completely. Either way, you have to start with knowing it’s ok and healthy to have boundaries with people.
Ima need you to get a dog! lol 🤣🤣
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The idea of being fast and grown came from times of slavery and no women’s rights. You should research where it comes from and the lasting effects it has had on many black women 😊
I shall♥️ thanks for sharing that!
20:00 oh you went there!