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That second guy's story made me cry so hard. He deserves so much love...
Thank you for your kind words. Just know that I am so happy and loved now 🙏❤️
@@sonnyvoncleveland I'm very proud of what you've accomplished ! You're very inspiring 🙏🏼
@@ico2001Right? I'm still bawling over here, because 5 year olds are really small, and I can't understand how any adult can look at them and abuse them like that💔 I wish Sonny's Inner Child could know how impactful he becomes in the future, and know that eventually he will find safety, support and love.
Dude, for real.
@@sonnyvoncleveland Sonny, your life was almost the opposite of mine, but your story seems to express how I feel. Thank you for sharing your experiences and being an inspiration.
I just want to say - it's messed up that Sonny got blamed for what happened to him and the fact that things went south when he opened up about his SA. We shouldn't shame ANY survivors of that. Ever. I'm so sorry that he went through that and I wish I could give him a hug. Survivor to survivor.
Thank you so much for your compassion and kind words 🙏
@@sonnyvonclevelandI found solice in your story. the same thing happened to me .. sending you ALL of the love now and in the rest of your journey.
9:20
I wanted to give him a hug to
The second guy made me cry. What a broken system we are raising our little humans in
so horrific
It’s always the parents fault! They never pay attention!
Sonny’s story is really sad but I’m glad he is doing better. This is real
Thank you so much! I only hope to inspire others to know they can get through the darkest moments in life and still find happiness ❤️🙏
The realest part was when nobody stood up. There are so many men suffering violence, often from ppl they should be able to trust, and the stigma and fear forced them to suffer in silence and darkness. I really hope our society can fix that and change that, every child deserves safety and love.
This was such a therapeutic discussion and I’m very grateful to have met all involved and hope that someone out there who may be in a similar space realizes there is always hope 🙏
Yes agrees! It was actually an amazing expertise and therapeutic on another level❤
I work with at-risk teens and I really appreciated your vulnerability and your openness about where you came from and where you are now. I'm so happy to hear you have someone close to you that is patient and kind when it seems like you didn't have blood relatives that were willing to step up and support you. Wishing you a continued, hopefully peaceful, life and thank you for sharing your story which has impacted many today. Please continue to help and inspire others the way you have, just by being who you are.
@@HouseMDaddictthank you so much! I am quite blessed and will always continue to strive to help🙏
Thank you for sharing, your story breaks my heart, I’m so glad you found healing, you deserve it.
@@j.r.1683 we all deserve to heal, my friend. Thank you so much 🙏
The second story- wow. I work with children, and it does happen. It is common, and our country is failing our children. Please if a child tells you something, protect them. We are their safety.
Facts!!
Grateful for the opportunity. It was amazing to meet this group of people and find the common ground and the common hope.
YOU are amazing, my friend🙏
yep. Asher
When you were saying that sometimes you feel like it will never be enough, I was telling my screen "You've accomplished so much! Some people go through life without having made so many significant contributions to the world, but you've turned yourself into an inspirational person!"
I didn't expect to see you in the comments section; I hope you can see the many words of appreciation from the people who have been encouraged and motivated by you and the other participants today.
Thank you for for sharing your experiences!
You are so amazing! Thank you so much for sharing. 🤍
we need more men being so outspoken about abuse and mental health. it's really reassuring and inspiring.
I find it really heartbreaking 💔
But I 100% agree and hope that anyone suffering can speak out even younger people watching this. There are people who will believe you and protect you!
Sonny's story is so powerful, to go through so much trauma at such a young age and for it happen for so long i wouldn't fault anyone for going mad from it. But the fact he grew from what his abusers did to him and took his power back instead of going down the path of crime. His muslim friend im sure was a big part in his journey to stopping the cycle of hatred and being a better human being, hopefully you two are still in contact and he's still giving you great advice whether he is out of prison or still inside im sure he's spiritually living through you now and not to let him down. I hope you continue to do great things and are there for your family, and to take the power back from your abusers every day piece by piece and build a unbreakable foundation of being someone you can be proud of when you look in the mirror.
Thank you so much 🙏
Only thing I wish was that we got to hear from everyone because there were two stories we didn’t get to hear. But for everyone else who spoke up, it was super impactful.
there was actually about 4 stories
Yeah I said the same
Kudos to them for being so courageous and admitting their secrets.
Thanks so much ❤
Sonny's story made me cry, just really broke my heart thoroughly. The fact that he was able to hold onto enough of himself to be capable and willing to share his story, not many people are ever willing to step into that type of vulnerability, he must have an unusual amount of mental and emotional strength and fortitude. I was so happy to hear that even in the most unlikely of environments, solitary confinement, he was able to find a light that would eradicate all of the darkness permeating his situation and his history. It's like alchemy, a bit, what he did by taking all the pain he went through and transmuting it into healing for others who might not otherwise have that intervention. Amazing story....
I’m glad Mario is back, in a space catered to sharing his story and not debating about his life
Same!!
I also acted out as a child as a source of protection from the abuse (r@ape/constant m0lestation). Did everything to try and stay away. Finally just ran away at 16. However, that put my little sister in harm's way, and she took my place as the victim at 13-16. She took 3+ years to finally tell me. I was never going to tell or do anything. Simply have nothing to do with him/them. But, once I found out he was messing with my sister, I did something about it. As we were going to take his Llfe, some investigators stopped by my house as we got in the car, to question me about some illegal things my EX was doing. I went with them but didn't speak on my ex. I told them what my step-dad had done to me and was doing to my sister. They sprang into action so fast!! He's now in prison for life. 50 MANDATORY years, then another MANDATORY 10, before he can even think about going up for parole. He's already used up all his chances to try and appeal. He also messed with his own blood daughter too.
I'm proud of you! Sending healing to you, your sister, & his daughter
I’m so sorry about what you and your sister suffered. You have great courage. I’m glad the cops took action, too.
I don't have the words... 💛
Wow, that's crazy, as you were going to take his life, the investigators showed up. Like, divine intervention. I think people tend to accept or self-blame abuse done to themselves but when it extends to those they love, can more clearly see that that there was no justification for what happened to them. I'm really glad you were able to get justice for yourself and your sister. I don't think that there's anything you could have done to prevent your sister becoming a victim. What's more likely is that he would have assaulted you both, had you stayed in that situation. The only monster in the situation was your step-father and only your stepfather.
I wanted this episode to go another 30 minutes.
4:44 - 5:33 - HOLY COW this entire part was insanely sad to hear.
This whole video is sad of course, but that one part instantly made me go "poor guy :( ".
😢 so sad
I watched with my jaw on the floor, just awful.
Just know that everything I went through made me who I am today! I appreciate the compassion🙏
@@sonnyvoncleveland Blessings 🙏🏾
😭😭
i was sobbing through sonny's whole story while imagining him as a young child who only needed protection and care, to know that all these people used to be children with dreams and they turned to bad decisions for different reasons is very saddening, however, im really happy that theyre all changed people.
Sonny’s story was heart wrenching. I immediately wanted to hug him. I work in corrections and 😢 the pain is so real.
Praying for his healing and relief with my whole heart.
Thank you so much 🙏
@@sonnyvonclevelandI honestly believe your testimony will give others permission to free themselves. You are worthy and an inspiration 💜💜💜 keep climbing love
@@Allthequeenzhorsesthat means so much to me! I’d love to connect!
@@sonnyvonclevelandAnytime!
Sonny, thank you for speaking up about this, As someone who was a friend to two people, one who had an reincarnated parent & another who was a violent kid due to child abuse and SA cases. I know they would felt heard and appreciate you speaking up about your struggle because they know a part of them wouldn’t get back because they have to mature or protect themselves because they couldn’t trust nobody including their own families. However, I know they are changing their life now as they are chasing the majors of their careers. Thank you, Sonny for being vulnerable with jubilee (p.s. I’m in circle of secrets disabilities).
Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏❤️
"one who had an reincarnated parent" lol
@@ShinyStar611 I know, I meant to edit it but I knew he would get the memo.😂
You can tell how civilised a society is by how it treats is most vulnerable. That's the elderly, the disabled, the children and the imprisoned.
Everyone deserves a support system BEFORE they commit a heinous crime.
Facts!
I have full body chills listening to Sonny’s story. If he doesn’t have a book, he should write one. I’d love to read his story, especially his journey working with his mentor. Amazing. Much love to you, Sonny.
I do! It’s called “Hey White Boy - Conversations Of Redemption”! Let me know if you get a copy!
@@sonnyvonclevelandthanks for this. I’m so glad to hear you’re doing well now, sending love and hugs 🩷
sonny u are a blessing in this evil heartless world!!! u did not deserve what u went through at all🥺🥺🥺. your younger version of you chose to keep going, to find ways to cope and survive. They did this not knowing exactly what the future held, but believing that it could be better.
i am grateful that we get to see THIS YOU.
Thank you so much 🙏 “Suffering ceases to be suffering the moment is has a purpose”
The guy with the tattoos and mohawk, I want to give him a really long hug. I am so sorry. His pain breaks my heart
Hearing Sonny made me tear up. For my whole childhood I felt responsible for ripping my family apart because of telling them about my s*xual abuse by my family member. It took me so long to realize it wasn't my fault. Thank you for sharing your story. 💗
Thank YOU for sharing yours! Def was not your fault🙏🙌
i want more of this realness & raw stories. this was such a beautiful moment, i pray that each of these beautiful people truly find peace within
The second guy... I hope he knows he's amazing and very brave to share that! I cannot believe the things some people are forced to face like that and most part alone, I'm so sorry to hear that
Also, the wine reddish shirt guy, he's cute!!!
The amount of maturity, wisdom and empathy in this room. I have so much respect and admiration for all of these participants 💜
Thank u so much I appreciate it!
@@AngelaNicolazziThank you for being so courageous and sharing your story💜 I empathize with you so much, and I'm sorry that your dad isn't on this side of life anymore, but I bet he'd be so proud of you. 💜
@@RainbowFlowerCrow that means a lot to me thank u again! I’m striving and thriving to continue making him proud!
Sonny!! This dude is as real as they get and one of the most inspiring, positive people Ive ever met in life. Pleasure rocking with you on the show!
YOU are such a rare and amazing human being, my friend. I’m so grateful to have met you and become friends 🙏❤️
7:01 dude thank you for speaking on all this. I want to give you a hug - you speaking on all this will help someone move on and start their healing journey ❤
8:50 exactly ❤❤❤ speak
Thank you so much!
Sonny´s story was incredibly important and touching. Thank you @jubilee for allowing his story to be heard
Thank you so much🙏
Sonny,I had many of the same things happen to me. I developed thinking it was my fault and shame to carry. Your words brought me to tears. Thank you for sharing. I’m so glad to see you whole and okay. As I write this I’m torn to share or not but there it is. Again,thank you for your bravery.
Please share your story! So many need to hear it and you will inspire so many!! Connect with me on any socials and I will help you!
Sonny deserves all the love in the world. He's so brave to share his story. And he was so cheated as a child. He had all the signs of a kid that needed help. His actions were SCREAMING that he needed help and that other stuff was going on. I pray for your healing.
The thumbnail is crazy, but I can understand the click-bait/marketing choices. It's not so much a reflection of Jubilee, but more so a reflection of us, and what kinds of content we, as viewers click on.
What I love most about this video is how honest, genuine and how well they listen to each other. They lived in unimaginable conditions with limited resources, and still came out with their essence intact. Ofc that's not everyone's story, but I am so touched by how well-spoken and relatable they all are. These kinds of talks are so valuable.
Thank you so much for the meaningful comment! This was a great group of individuals to be sure 🙏
It was so much more impactful than I imagined
I applaud him for speaking about his SA story. I wish I was more brave to speak when I was younger. I hope that this will give someone the strength to speak up sooner and know that it is okay. The SA is not your fault. One thing that I have done and it seems like he is doing now is being an example and a resource for others. To be the person that we needed back then for others.
Sonny I can relate! You are not alone and by sharing your story you made me think bigger and see things in a more healty way. I can see and hear that you went throu a lot but I can also see and hear that you have become a incredible human and the world needs you. Thank you for sharing, really, thank you
Thank you so much!!
Omg how much courage these people have!!! I cried after hearing Sonny's story
Thank you so much for your compassion! As hard as it is, it’s needed to help others heal🙏❤️
We were all in tears there
@@second_chancer it was such a meaningful experience bro!
The second guy if you’re reading this. You are extremely brave and strong. Thank you so much for sharing your story to the world. 🥺
Thank you so much for your kind words🙏❤️
I cried so hard on the second story and then I cried harder because it’s so common. All of the inmates I’ve worked with wouldn’t have been there if someone would have stepped in when they were kids and been the adults they deserved.
Conversations like this will change the world. Restorative justice is the only way to heal many deep societal wounds beyond just punishment.
Punishment can be valid, but without restoration, there is only suffering and recidivism.
💯
Ok samuel collington
Exactly. People need to think what happens when inmates leave prison; what quality of life will they have, and how they can best continue to grow and heal, and be valuable members of society.
@@RainbowFlowerCrow Where's your self righteous waffling for the victims of the "people" in this video?
It's telling that none of your demographic ever has anything to say about people who are robbed, mugged, shot, stabbed, raped, or otherwise preyed on while they're trying to live honestly.
Yet listen to a few half-baked few sob stories and you fall over yourselves gushing about muh empathy, muh bravery, muh healing.
At least OP has the 🐀 motive of pushing that attitude because it backstabs western society. What's your excuse?
@@RainbowFlowerCrow Many people who have been harmed are not in a place in their own healing to be thoughtful about those who harmed them. Its too much to ask of them if they are not ready. The harm is real too. For those that are ready to heal, having restorative infrastructure options available will benefit society. Most people who have caused harm are victims themselves.
The world failed Sonny. He does not deserve to be blamed for what happened to him. I wish I could give him a hug. ❤
This is one of the best Jubilee videos I’ve ever seen. I have a heart for these people. No one gives them a chance. I understand mistrust at first with a convict but after years of being on the straight and narrow, I feel like they should get some slack.
I hope Sonny find all the peace and love in the world!!! Please. He deserves that ❤
I am so happy in my life now! Thank you so much for your compassion 🙏❤️
Sonny is so incredibly brave to even have the courage to speak his truth. I pray that he continues to have a wholesome prosperous life 💗
Thank you so much! 🙏
I love these types of videos. They are so raw and real and I think they help a lot of people feel less lonely. Thank you to everyone who were brave enough to share their stories so openly, for being willing to be so vulnerable. This is important work and I believe if we could all find and connect over our shared human experiences, this world would be an infinitely better place ❤
These are real people and real stories. All complex and meaningful lives. This is stuff we need to hear.
Wow. Such powerful stories. They all seem like genuine people. I pray they all get the healing they deserve 🙏🏾
Thank u so much ❤
The worst part about someone dying (or even getting dementia or Alzheimer's and not recognizing you, then rapidly declining and dying shortly after your release) while you're in is grappling with the fact that it was your decisions that sent you there and that it's your fault that everyone -- especially you and the departed -- is experiencing this. Some of the hardest feelings that any person will ever have to deal with because you can't start to recover until you forgive yourself; it's almost impossible at that point..... Thank you for sharing.
I know I havent been through what they have, but when talking about lost time, I connected to that a lot. I had so many years "lost" to poor mental health, time trying to get past trauma, all the self-harm and self-hate, and trying to get proper meds and help. Later feeling I lost my 20's that were supposed to be fun, and ambitious, and building a future, and now I was behind...
I completely understand and relate.
I love how they support each other. Especially during that one question about being suicidal. Support is really everything
i feel like everyone can relate to the first guys story a little, and it really made me consider putting in my effort to be close with my parents while i have the time to do so. our parents arent getting any younger, if we have loving and supportive parents we should do our best to cherish every moment with them.
The second story, broke my heart! I wanted to give him and the kid version of him a hug. Everything he went through. 😢
Thank you so much 🙏
The second guys story is so painful to the soul. I hope that he finds peace, healing and the love that he deserves ❤️
Thank you for your kindness 🙏
These people are incredible, and I'm very grateful for their stories. Thank you all
Speak! Speak! Say something and keep telling it until someone hears your words. Speak! People like me exist and people like me believe you. I believe in you!❤
Ugh these are always so beautiful all the vulnerability. It's so important to talk and relate to others to know you are not alone.
It's crazy to see the difference between the men and women, women care more about community and rehabilitation, second chances. Either way the perspective of people who have been incarcerated is so needed especially in this country.
so who tf turned lesbian in prison, no one talked about that. Clickbait af
It was discussed but they must have trimmed it down for time
@@second_chancer then don't put it in the thumbnail, know what I mean? Lmfao, I wanted to hear that story specifically
lol isn't it obvious who in the group is a lesbian?
@@ceejay_elitperv
Powerful video, disappointing to hear it was clickbaited so inappropriately though
I went to rehab and said I did drugs I never did just to stay away from my abusers.
Same!!!! and I'm here feeling guilt for lying...people even call me a crackhead but I've never done crack I was just scared of my mother
I even cut off my hair to make it believable. I miss having long hair tho😢
People will call u w.e but uk your truth.
I'm sorry that happened to you. Love and care to you guys.
22:08 - 25:09… he’s so well spoken. i would listen to a ted talk of him
the fact that he barely teared up telling his story until he imagined other boys that might be in his position 9:02
I hope y’all do an apology on the thumbnail situation. Never expected this from yall
this was such a genuine episode ❤ every person there had lots of courage,im happy they shared their experiences hopefully others can learn from them🙏
Amazing episode, this is where u can see they are humans, they have feelings, you never know what is going in someone else’s lives or what took them to that path, everyone deserves another chance, always be kind.
Thank You for being brave enough to speak up and tell ur stories ❤❤❤
Thanks for supporting us ❤
Thank you!!!❤️
This was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your stories!
The type of content I like to listen & learn from here for sure 🔥
I love this channel.
I needed to hear these peoples stories and it made me feel less alone in my struggles. Their pain makes them even more extraordinary people to have healed from such dark places💗💗💗
this series has been so heartbreaking and beautiful. i am so proud of everyone for sharing their stories and hope they continue to find new hope in their life. i would love for these to be even longer or more in depth?? maybe ask more questions as everyone shares. it would be awesome to hear more from them
Sonny, I was crying heavy tears listening to your story. Your heart of gold shines through. You are beyond strong, and I wish you nothing but pure love and happiness in this life and the next. 🩷
Thank you so much 🙏
This was very insightful. Nobody becomes who they are by chance. We are full of layers. Pay attention to the children.
So we're just straight up lying for views now? It wasn't a bad video, but the thumbnail did make me click and I feel lied to.
it appears "ill never get my life back" idk ehat was the previous now
Womp Womp
I don't get what the lie is, makes sense to me
@@thae2801 It was “I turned gay in Prison” ..
@@jennabos2292thumbnail used to say something about turning lesbian in prison
I love how the men didn’t mind getting emotional ❤because it’s real emotion and their makes me wanna cry
Incredibly powerful video. They were all so respectful to each other 😭
Sonny needs the biggest hug in the world. Maybe one for big Sonny and one for little Sonny. ❤
my eyes teared up when she mentioned her dad passing. i felt the exact same way losing him whilst being 17 was rrly hard it’s been four months but i sill feel angry at the world, because he was my best friend always made sure i was okay emotionally and financially he was always there for me and now i have lost that and it hurts sm
Sounds like someone made a terrible judgment on the thumbnail bit, so I was really hesitant to like the video because I don't want my actions to condone someone else's poor choices, but a lot of what was spoken about in this video is about accepting faults and the mistakes you've made in life and coming out of it as a better version of yourself. Because of this, I feel it would be a disservice to the brave voices who spoke up in this video if I didn't do my part in getting their message out to more people. I really appreciate everyone in the video and am thankful for their time and willingness to be vulnerable.
Thank you so much that was greatly appreciated! It takes a lot to actually speak on ur past knowing what was faced!
Thank you so much! This really means a lot 🙏
Wow! I’m so sorry Sonney, my tears for you are heartfelt. I hope you are doing better now.
I wanna give sonny the biggest hug
🙏🙏
dear sonny, i can't relate to your story, but i felt your story very strongly. no child deserves to go through what you went through and its crazy that your family blamed you for what happened. but im happy you got through it the best way you knew how to. i wish i could give you a hug.
protect sonny at all costs.
Love how they changed the thumbnail after people started calling them out for clickbaiting
What was the thumbnail?
What was it originally
Been to jail when i was 13 at that age I experienced 23/ 1 was there 6months after that i was in and out of jail until i was 25 ,after my prison sentence which turned myself in to be a dad to my beautiful daughter knowing i was going for more than 2 years , I been an excellent dad to my daughter which i have now had full custody of since 2017 working as a train conductor.
SONNY WAS VERY BRAVE FOR SHARING HIS STORY. HE WILL HELP SO MANY YOUNG BOYS> SONNY OS SO HANDSOME AS WELL!!!
Omg so courageous so inspiring!! Many blessings to everyone who shared their heartfelt stories ❤
Thank you for the support ❤
Thank you so much for watching 🙏
This was by far one my favorite videos Jubilee has ever released ♥️
Stop clicking baiting and just be honest
What thumbnail. I got a different one it seems.
@@julieshinthey change it because people were complaining about it
Sonny’s story made me cry… I really hope he is okay now
I most definitely am 🙏☺️
These videos always make me hurt so badly because I wish my dad would make this shift. He spent his whole life in and out of prison but then managed to claim almost ten years of sobriety and living a “normal” life and last year he got into a horrible car accident and the woman driving the other car passed and her kids were in the back of the car and it shifted his entire mentality and relapsed. Now he’s relapsed and started dealing fentanyl and he’s completely fallen so far off of the deep end. He’s k*lling people with drugs and doesn’t care at all. 😢
Hi Sonny, thank you for being the voice of us SA survivors. Reading all the comments below, it's clear how much impact you have made. My heart goes out to anyone that is still battling the tough fight, Sonny is so inspirational and I hope we can all find the strength within ourselves to keep fighting.
These videos always make me cry
the second guys story is so brutal and inspiring at the same time.
I was moved deeply by these people . Thank you for this sharing.
shoutout to all of you. keep your heads up ✊🏾
Wow! I was hugging myself so hard, as if I am also hugging Sonny. His life journey feels so raw. Thank you Sonny for sharing 💙 What you said about using your voice is 💯% true.
Where was the " I turned Gay statement" in this video?
Respect and peace to all who shared with all the bravery and vunerability of truly strong men and women.
To those of you who can relate to Sonny's story, there is a non-profit called Music for the Soul. They have a song called Innocent Child. Please go listen to it.
Sonny's story hit close to home, heavy story
Easily my favorite Jubilee video.
I need Sonny to make podcasts cuz his voice is so relaxing